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| 4 | My cousin once told me that when he's hanging out with a girl, he likes to "bring out her bad girl". What does this mean to you all and how do YOU do it?Sit down by her side when you go out to eat or grab a coffee, make sure your legs touch first, then place your hand on the back of her chair, if she’s comfortable put your hand around her shoulder, when you walk somewhere, guide her by her lower back to walk if she’s in front of you, grab her by her forearm or hand if she’s behind you (a sort of open hand or light guide). Make sure you state that it’s a date when you’re out with her, work that into the convo. After getting to know her, point out… | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 07:04 PM |
| – | How To Text Girls Like A Boss - Beginner vs Advanced Text Game ExamplesIt applies to social dating apps where that is your venue to win her over, otherwise text game is about keeping it short and sweet without fucking it up. Social dating apps have literally done a 180 for me since I’ve been thinking thru what I’m going to say before saying it, thinking how she’ll interpret it, and actively pointing out how the relationship is man to woman/flirtation. I never focused on “text game” but after doing so, it’s granted me about 5 dates and 8 numbers or so in the past 3 … | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Describe your friend who gets laid the mostI don’t know if this friend gets laid the most but he’s certainly up there. He is ridiculously charismatic, he talks to everyone, he’ll start group conversations, tell stories, constantly joking, meets with friends any opportunity that arises, and networks like nobody’s business. He is very much average looking but exercises regularly and dresses well. Being social is a skill he perfected and he does have good game, I’ve seen it (and I’ve also seen him fail quite a bit too). What really sets him… | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 04:29 AM |
| 2 | What do you feel about this?Women have it tough bcuz if they sleep with too many men they are sluts, too few and they are prudes. Men have it taught bcuz if they sleep with too few (or no women) they aren’t a real man, too many and now they are manipulators. Actually if we didn’t disclose our sexual history to so many people and kept it a secret between those who had sex, we could avoid most of these double standards. But it’s so hard not to gossip | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | The tinder date cheat codeHoooo boi | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies to get girls to approach you?salsa, bachata, kizomba, semba, poppin, breakin, hip hop, lil bit of everything | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The way you’re phrasing it, it sounds as though she’s from SA. If not, the following still applies: make sure you plan out the date, you’re the one taking her out to see a city you know, let her enjoy the ride and have everything planned out, even the potentiality of taking her home to your place. Flirt subtly but often, and make sure having a good time is your priority, romantic agenda can be secondary but still make it happen if you’re interested. When it is established that you’ll make the de… | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Hobbies to get girls to approach you?I’ll second that, as a semi professional dancer. If you dance often, naturally you’ll be pulled toward women who dance anyways. But women who also see you in that light that are high quality - if you meet them outside of dance and bring them to a social/club/battle - will then tag a lot of value to you. You’ll be part of a community, know what you’re doing, women absolutely love dancing in general, and it also implies you’re good in bed (even if that’s not the case). Side-note: to men learning t… | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding EX-boyfriend talkOk this is helpful, thx! | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 10:39 PM |
| – | Avoiding EX-boyfriend talkI get where you’re coming from man, but I kid you not this is exactly what happened to me last night. I was just a blank slate (all ears) as she blabbered on about her abusive ex who was older and neglected to tell her he had a wife. She must of went on for 15 minutes. I gave no comments as she continued with her monologue | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 07:45 PM |
| – | Avoiding EX-boyfriend talkI could see how the first one could work but the second one is literally the opposite of what I’m trying to achieve and a bad idea | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 06:44 PM |
| – | Avoiding EX-boyfriend talkIs that just a red flag for you? I’m trying to salvage the conversation but maybe that should just be a warning, it’s been happening a lot lately | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 05:11 PM |
| 2 | I subscribed to this sub a week ago thinking it was about seduction, and all I see are boys playing “the game.”This post was just as helpful as some bro saying “you just gotta tell her you wanna fuck broski” but on the opposite spectrum | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Going back to “My Place”I’ll work on that stamp collection lol, thx for the tips! | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Going back to “My Place”Fear of the bachelor pad, never thought of the pics, good suggestion. | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 03:09 AM |
| – | I want to approach the receptionist at my gym, but what would I say?Good subreddit, thx for the share. But I’m assuming a lot of people in this thread are younger men. If you flirt correctly (not the terrible way many older men creep on girls as described in that post, or in the way non-socialized individuals do) a women will feel desired instead of perverted. Again, most times, not a good idea, but I stand by my previous comment | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 03:48 PM |
| 0 | What I learned from textingTry texting her to keep the convo interesting and when you get some back and forth give her a call. People feel much more obligated to respond and more personal with a phone call. If you’re younger it may even be sort of strange for her, thus making you the more confident one. People exhibit strange behavior when texting, much like how people behave in night clubs, or when they’re on camera. Take her out of that zone and into a more personal one, it will be in your favor. | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Just got out of the Friend Zone. Knew I would get rejected. Actually feels strangely good.Thank you for saying this one size fits all philosophy is bullshit, a majority of the stances taken in this forum in general have this approach. It’s a pretty clear sign that the person doesn’t know what they’re talking about if they ever give you “absolutist” advice. So many variables in any given circumstance, make sure to weigh them accordingly before making YOUR decision, not recycled mantra from a Reddit forum where someone said “always do xyz if abc occurs”. | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 07:45 PM |
| – | I want to approach the receptionist at my gym, but what would I say?Absolutism is never good advice, people get dates all the time from customer-retail type situations. You’re right that most of the time it’s a bad idea, but if she’s giving you exceptionally good feedback and you’re not holding her up at work I say go for it. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 03:36 PM |
| 2 | For those just working on themselves, make sure you still spend a bit of time working on game.The second paragraph was golden, all while being the humblest brag | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 01:50 AM |
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