| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Going on date with acne | compsickman | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 06:12 PM | |
| 1 | First tinder date | compsickman | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 07:13 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| -1 | Questions to ask a girl to really get to know her better, and at the same time get her excited to talk about herself?o look at u tough guy Implying you could. | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Going on date with acneYeah, it's like she didn't even care it was there. It must be a different experience for others than it is for me. The date went perfect, and she spent the night. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Going on date with acnecarpe diem motherfucker | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Going on date with acneI'm attractive enough to pull it off. She's a pretty cool gal, I'm feeling very confident right now. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Going on date with acneI'm seeing an acne specialist. She's got me on a new diet, regimen and supplements. It's going to go away, just wish it was gone today. Thanks for the info. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Going on date with acneYeah I've got this shit under control just a matter of time now. Honestly I'm a stud if she doesn't see that it's her problem not mine. I gotta be brave. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 06:31 PM |
| 30 | Thoughts on Witnessing a Guy Get Rejected During a Cold Approach"I know right? It's gonna be weird when you start calling me daddy." If you want a nice laff | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/17 01:04 AM |
| – | First tinder dateWere planning on going to get coffee and a bite to eat. I thought it was causal enough to bail me not too much pressure | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 10:37 PM |
| – | First tinder dateYeah, I've been looking into toastmasters. There are just some really cute girls I know irl I really want to hit it off with ya know? I figured tinder would be good practice in general. I'm glad you're having a great time on tinder. I hope #2 goes well! | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 09:13 PM |
| – | First tinder dateYou're the fucking man! I just need to get back out there. I totally get what you are saying. I'm so excited now! | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 07:43 PM |
| 1 | First tinder dateI guess my biggest fear is never being able to move past that small talk that I'd have with any other person I've never met. Like, basically being boring. Im not really afraid to the point of it paralyzing me but is there any point in my life where I can be pretty damn sure I can come off as attractive and desirable and have it be my choice, not hers? You know, like being so good at talking with women that it's something you enjoy rather than have to work at. | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | First tinder dateSo basically be normal. That sounds great. We met on tinder and I told her some cheesy ass joke and she thinks I'm great so here we go! | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 07:22 PM |
| – | A bit obsessed?you know what actually. I've spent 30 minutes reflecting on this, it might be a little dramatic but I've answered my own question. Someday I'm going to be six feet under. It's not going to matter whether I talked to this girl or not. She's not what I've built her up to be in my mind, that's a construct of a desire. If I see her again, and the timing is appropriate, I'm gonna go walk up to her, say hi, ask her name and calmly start a conversation about her life. I don't need to be some PUA savant… | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 07:19 AM |
| 1 | When you didn't approach...Yeah it kills me too, but it will go away. It will not linger forever. It's hard to understand when you feel it now, but in not too long you will feel entirely different. In my experience, this has a lot more to do with your brain than you yourself. | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 06:19 AM |
| 1 | A bit obsessed?Yes I agree. Do you care to expand a little bit? | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 06:17 AM |
| – | When you didn't approach...Meh you'll get over it. Your brain is funny like that. I've lost sleep over girls I didn't say anything to and I fucking forget within a month later. What's killing me now is when you still have a chance to see the girl again, and you can't stop thinking about her. | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Regaining my fireI have to have that attitude because there is something so deeply unsettling with how I feel, there's not a chance in hell I'm gonna go through this life without addressing it. Kind of comforting right? Knowing that something is so fucked up that I have to fix it? Sort of a dark humor in that. | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Regaining my fireYeah fuck it man. I'm gonna grab this shit by the balls. YOURE THE MAN PRODIGY!!! | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Regaining my fireYeah. That's where it gets terrifying for me, because it feels like life or death. Being abandoned by my friends or being included. Its fucked man. Those conversation starters are great for people you don't know, but for friends I've known my whole life or met before that I've slowly grown awkward with I don't know how to adapt. I think I need to leave them entirely and go practice with totally new people and build some skill. | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Regaining my fireYeah I see what you mean, and I think I did. But my questions were always more disappointing and never generated the same reaction as someone else. That's my insecurity pinpointed. I didn't ask the "right" question that was funny and relevant. I know this is a long ass thread man, and I'm sorry If I'm being overwhelming, but this is the first time I've felt someone understand me. So is that where the skill comes in? Detecting the most relevant and best response to what's being said? | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Regaining my fireYeah I don't mean to be so harsh on myself. Just hard man, I want friends and I want to be someone I'm not currently. I just tried to reach out to an old friend recently and we had the most uncomfortable car ride. It was always like that in highschool, I would just be in the background laughing along, but never really engaged. Really opened my eyes to a huge problem in my life that's causing me a lot of u happiness. It's why I care so much what people think, because part of it is my fault. That'… | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Regaining my fireIt's just been hard because it's a recurring pattern. Do you think some practice might be good just in general? I've only got one friend from high school and I don't know how to make more very well. I have a very hard time making good conversation with everyone, which is why I know I will fuck it up with this girl. I have a very difficult time finding the "fun" in conversations, if that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Regaining my fireYeah no, I think you're right. I'm just fixated on this one girl at my work who is a high schooler and I had a pretty shitty time in high school because I was awkward and got left out a lot. I want to talk to her and ask her out but I'm fucking scared of how she behaves because of this archetype I've set up in my head like you said. I just don't know my edge, i don't know how to start fitting in and being comfortable. I have a year before I basically say bye to this girl, and I want to at least … | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 10:23 PM |
| – | Regaining my fireWell personally it feels like lying because there is so much room for improvement. even in all of my interactions I was awkward sometimes. And there are lots of people whom I still feel very uncomfortable around. I look at my family and they're a bunch of not-funny cheesy people who make jokes that are corny and I could never imagine them being any other way. For example, people I view as socially savvy make me fucking nervous. It's just hard to imagine sometimes that I would be on the same leve… | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 09:50 PM |
| 3 | I feel so good.Yeah man, you got this shit now. You're the man!!! | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 08:28 PM |
| – | Regaining my fireHey man, I just wanted to say I woke up fucking depressed and sad this morning. Instead of succumbing to negative thoughts, I spent the whole day telling myself this exact line: "I'm funny, witty, charismatic, smart, handsome, and I'm the fucking man". I know it's cringey, but for some reason it just shut that other pussy shit down and I have felt much better. In all honesty, I don't think I'm super funny or witty (or particularly charismatic, I'm actually quite nerdy), but I spent the whole day… | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 07:54 PM |
| – | I feel so good.Hopefully I will follow in your footsteps! This is exactly my dream, coming from an insecure, low self esteem and lacking confidence perspective. I am very bad at making friends with other guys and not too good with women, unless they're nerdy or some shit because I'm quite attractive. I wish you the best, and congrats on reaching your goal!!! | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Regaining my fireOk. Well I guess this means all that is left is the work. Time to go be the man!!! I really appreciate this, you told me my goals are possible. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Regaining my fireYeah, I get what you mean. Very encouraging words. You're the man!! | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 07:01 PM |
| – | Regaining my fireYeah man, I felt like a total idiot the whole time. Sometimes it's just so discouraging at 19, because everyone around me is so much better you know? It was hard to believe that the comfort/wit/humor with women wasn't some inherent ability. If that makes any sense. | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 06:59 PM |
| – | Regaining my fireThis really works? I am a nerd with low confidence and no game trying to quit being a nerd, I'm quite attractive luckily. Fake this mindset until you embody it? | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 06:32 PM |
| – | Looking for some help!I have now. Anything in particular? | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 10:00 AM |
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