Hey Seddit, I'm a 20-year-old guy who was never super serious about dating until about a month ago. Most people say I'm a charismatic and confident person who makes everyone feels good about themselves. But, I could never create a real connection with women but I believe I found out the "missing link" to it all. I spent days and nights learning about eye contact and just how important it is to create a real connection with anyone. I also learned about speaking slower and with a lower tone. I decided to put it into practice.

I wake up bright eyed and go to the gym to do my normal routine. I felt different this day. Like a walking oxygen tank full of testosterone. A little unhinged. Like my inner spirit was howling at the moon. The best way to describe it is when people on NoFap explain their experience after a week or two. Which is strange since I had masturbated the night before.

As soon as I walked out of the gym I go and talk to this girl. Extremely beautiful, someone I would normally never even think about talking to. But before the excuses as to why I shouldn't ask her out hit I was already introducing myself and giving her good eye contact. Amazingly enough I felt like I was creating a strong connection to a stranger I just met. We were staring into each other's eyes like we were peering into each other's soul and I got her number. Which was strange because I was preparing for a lot of rejection. I shit you not I had this exact scenario happen another dozen times that day. Women could literally feel my sexual energy and they loved it.

But is seems like that was the only day that that occurred. Now it seems like women are trying to not make eye contact with me . And every bit of rejection seems to make me less and less confident in myself. Women are starting to feel that just like they felt my confident self. Has anyone experienced something along the lines of this? How can I go back?