First tinder date

crackISwhack1991 · 2017-08-22T19:40:47+00:00

They are just as scared of being a dork as we are homie. If they say something interesting tell them. If they say something funny, let them know. Also if they say something dumb, rib her a little bit about it. At the end of the day women are you date are your close true friend you just happen to be able to sex with. No-one is 100% awesome or 100% boring. Once you look at them as just another human the talking and shooting the shit becomes second nature. Not every girl you talk to has to be glorified, they really like when you appreciate the words that come out of their mouth just as much as one appreciates looks

crackISwhack1991 · 2017-08-22T19:27:07+00:00

Put yourself in her shoes. If she looked at 1 or 2 photos and a few lines you typed and was willing to meet up with you, she has basically already given you a major win. Now you are at the point in the race where you just need to maintain the lead, as long as you don't have a major blow out talking about politics or religion differences you are in there like swimwear homie!

thr3123234s123 · 2017-08-22T21:08:50+00:00

Cheers! I have my second tinder date coming up tomorrow, #1 was pretty easy, we just didn't click, but we had no problem keeping a conversation flowing. Just shoot the shit, you both have lives to talk about, just roll with what you have.

I also talk to everyone everywhere, it is good practice. I also recommend taking something like toastmasters or improv if you would like to work on your conversational skills. Also, be a good active listener, don't focus on what you are going to say next, focus on what she is saying, then respond. Most importantly, have fun!

DavidGolani11 · 2017-08-22T21:56:57+00:00

There is no 100% success guarantee with women unless you're one of those pervs that will mate with anything female. Just have fun on the date, maybe it will work out, maybe it won't.

crackISwhack1991 · 2017-08-22T19:21:05+00:00

The best bit of advice I have ever gotten when it comes to women is to just talk to then like you would your homie. Conversation flows when you are not trying to constantly interject compliments and shit. Also by not trying to "impress talk" the whole time you will be able to tell if y'all could really enjoy eachothers company.

Title	First tinder date
Author	compsickman
Upvotes	1
Comments	13
Date	August 22, 2017 7:13 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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