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| 26 | Body count lies and extreme hatered towards men and teen boys .They call it "oral sex" for a reason. I'd still probably be disappointed, tho. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/24 08:31 PM |
| 13 | Outrage over controversial 'female privilege' list drawn up by men's rights activists - which claims women are 'not expected to go to war' and are taken seriously if they report rape50/50 is a misnomer, and often misinterpreted by people that haven't actually spent time in family court. 50/50 does not mean equal. One parent still has to be the "custodial parent," or "primary caregiver," or whatever other terminology any given location uses in their legislation. Parents are generally encouraged to cooperate by the custody agreement, and a lack of cooperation can be pursued in court... but that can take months or even years. In the meantime: this parent generally has the fina… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/24 02:16 PM |
| 29 | The ‘growing crisis of the young American male’ could send home prices falling for years or even decades, says the ‘Oracle of Wall Street’Unsurprising. Gender roles are breaking down. In another 10 years it's not going to be uncommon for a dude to stay at home with his parents until he finds a working woman to take care of him. We're already at least part of the way there, I for one knew several dudes that took that approach growing up... and it's a frequent subject of womanly ire if you visit the right subreddits. Having now moved down south, working women with worthless boyfriends / husbands seems to be more the norm than the ot… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/24 02:49 PM |
| 44 | You guys need to wake up and realize feminists are not “against men”Yeah I'm good on that lol Feminists are absolutely anti-men, it's all over their brainwashing rhetoric and their actions. I don't care how many armchair Feminists on Reddit tell me "It'S aBoUt EqUaLiTy!" Until the ones that actually matter, y'know... the ones protesting things like equal parenting rights and telling me to shut up when the women are speaking in the workplace, start reflecting that message: it's an ideology of hate. We already have a term that means equality for all, and it's Egal… | /r/MensRights | 25/03/24 06:20 PM |
| 9 | Remember that conservatives are not your friends. They want men to work until they dieMy biggest criticism of Ben Shapiro is that he is completely out of touch with people who grow up, or otherwise have to spend a substantial amount of time living, in poverty. So I feel you on that 100%. "Holier than thou" might resonate with the hyper religious types, undoubtedly a contributing factor for his behavior, but not me. Still, it's better to criticize him for being out of touch than suggest the reason for his ignorance is "he just hasn't worked hard enough." The dude is younger than I… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Remember that conservatives are not your friends. They want men to work until they dieHaving worked both types of jobs, it always irks me when someone suggests that a person is somehow worthy of less respect because they weren't foolish or desperate enough to dive into manual labor. As if there's some kind of mystical wisdom to be gained from moving big, heavy things around all day and working too many hours for not enough pay. There's not. The fact is that dude worked to accomplish more by the time he turned 18 than some folks will in their entire lives. Now he's reaping the rew… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/24 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Are feminists still needed around the world. If yes why? If no why not?I'm not sure what you mean by "Feminist definition of Egalitarian." What's the difference? Where do you see the potential for abuse? If you're ever lost on the definition of words, the dictionary doesn't lie: egalitarian e·gal·i·tar·i·an /ēˌɡaləˈterēən/ adjective adjective: egalitarian relating to or believing in the principle that all people are equal and deserve equal rights and opportunities. "a fairer, more egalitarian society" noun noun: egalitarian; plural noun: egalitarians a person who a… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Are feminists still needed around the world. If yes why? If no why not?They can align. Making it legal for women to drive in a country where men already have a legal path to driving is the kind of thing both Feminists and Egalitarians would sign up for. A state passing legislation to give men more, earlier access to their children in the family courts is going to be protested by Feminists, but would be supported by Egalitarians... as long as it's not giving men a privilege that women don't already have. In short, Feminist thinking is going to prioritize women while… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Are feminists still needed around the world. If yes why? If no why not?That's a very strange take on Egalitarianism. All the way down to its roots, it is fundamentally a philosophy regarding equal treatment under the law. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Are feminists still needed around the world. If yes why? If no why not?I don't understand what relationships have to do with giving people equal rights. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 07:46 PM |
| 8 | Are feminists still needed around the world. If yes why? If no why not?You shouldn't get killed or arrested for public displays of affection, or be traded off as a child to adults that want to fuck you. I know how much being a dude can suck better than most, but if you made me king of the world today - problems for men in the first world wouldn't be a day one issue. Probably not even a week one issue. You're not doing anyone any favors by trivializing the legal enforcement of gender roles. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Are feminists still needed around the world. If yes why? If no why not?Ahhhhh yeah, that makes a lot more sense. I was afraid you were about to pop in here telling me abortion is rape. 😂 | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Are feminists still needed around the world. If yes why? If no why not?I was sitting here like "How am I getting upvotes? Why is everyone supporting what I said?" Mystery solved, I'm on the MensRights subreddit lol Anywho, I commented to ask what "MTP" is? Never heard of it, and all I found was "Medical Termination of Pregnancy" and "Massive Transfusion Protocol," neither of which seem to fit in the context. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 03:38 PM |
| 38 | Are feminists still needed around the world. If yes why? If no why not?No. Feminism is a garbage ideology that is based entirely on misandry. Egalitarianism, on the other hand, is still very much needed in several parts of the world. Especially the middle east. There are several countries where women are treated more akin to property than people. If they pick up Feminism, they'll end up in the same place we're at. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Are feminists still needed around the world. If yes why? If no why not?Yeah, that's what I was getting at. Seems to be a recurring theme in Western civilization. Paternity fraud is legally protected in France, and still 100% legal in every other country. I could probably go on all day. If you're living in the right place: it's a good time to be a woman. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 03:09 PM |
| 13 | Are feminists still needed around the world. If yes why? If no why not?They're not. Not in the United States, anyway. Most states still have legislation that favors women in family court, they are still not required to sign up for the draft, and they are not subjected to the same sentencing guidelines as men - so they spend less time in prison for the same crime. They're also the predominant recipient of funding for domestic violence shelters, so you only really have that as an option if you're a woman - or live in Arkansas, where the only male domestic violence sh… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 02:58 PM |
| 17 | According to a recent YouGov survey conducted back in 2018, just 38% of American women identify as "Feminists", including in 5 other Western nations, in spite the majority being obviously in favour of equal rights.It's even lower in most other Western Nations. America is on the higher side, iirc. I actually really like that stat, because it reminds me that places like Reddit are the exception - not the rule. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Accidental Incest is a real danger because of fertility fraud and paternity fraud. We need to standardize paternity tests at birth.So, in order for a woman to receive child support she has to establish paternity first. As-is: how this is done varies from state to state, but generally comes down to "She tells the state who Dad is, the state tracks him down and takes his money." That wouldn't change. Any woman who wants to receive government assistance has to file for child support as long as she knows who the father is, so they have to point the finger. The difference is that now the state would be obligated to prove he's th… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Accidental Incest is a real danger because of fertility fraud and paternity fraud. We need to standardize paternity tests at birth.Yes and no. Even if that were true, that doesn't mean I'm just going to roll over and let them swab my kids. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 08:01 PM |
| 6 | Accidental Incest is a real danger because of fertility fraud and paternity fraud. We need to standardize paternity tests at birth.Require proof of paternity to sign the birth certificate. As-is it wouldn't be cheap, but if they reworked how paternity is legally established to a federal standard it would probably be a pretty big gain for dudes in a lotta ways. In America, anyway. Gone are the states where a woman can just sign a name on a birth certificate and steal a paycheck from a dude that isn't even the kid's father until he proves otherwise. Of course, that also means a woman who had a child with a deadbeat who ran of… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Accidental Incest is a real danger because of fertility fraud and paternity fraud. We need to standardize paternity tests at birth.Fair enough. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 06:30 PM |
| 9 | Accidental Incest is a real danger because of fertility fraud and paternity fraud. We need to standardize paternity tests at birth.Problems from incest can arise from fucking more than just your direct relations. If you want 100% of children to be paternity tested, then be honest about why. It's not about incest, it's about stopping paternity fraud. There's no need for a government database to do that, and it doesn't require giving them your genetics. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 06:12 PM |
| 11 | Accidental Incest is a real danger because of fertility fraud and paternity fraud. We need to standardize paternity tests at birth.Having paternity tests at birth wouldn't fix that. You would have to have genetic testing to collect the results, a database to store the results in, a mechanism that determines who is related to who, and an interface for the general public to easily interact with said database to be able to see who they're related to. Putting aside the fiscal cost of creating & maintaining said system and whether or not it would even be worth that, there are a lot of folks that are not comfortable with the idea… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Why don't feminists care about male victims of homicide?Because it's "Feminism." The ideology is named after women, and it names literally everything bad after men. They're about as transparently bigoted as you can get without donning a white hood. Why would you expect them to care? | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 03:20 PM |
| 18 | More Single Women Own Homes in the USA than single menIt didn't happen out of the blue. Women are constantly being encouraged to step up their game and do better. Men are constantly being encouraged to put their own needs aside and support women, or at least get the fuck out of the way. Buying a home is not only a substantial financial investment, it's a substantial step up in responsibility. As you discourage responsibility in young men, they are going to make less money and be less inclined to purchase a house even if they do have enough money. T… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/24 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Is being a male a disadvantage in the workplace for both hirings and promotions?So, as a lawyer... why aren't people suing for this shit? When I'm sitting through a lecture being told for the umpteenth time to shut up when women are talking and sacrifice my career for them, I can't help but wonder how any of this shit is legal. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Is being a male a disadvantage in the workplace for both hirings and promotions?I've talked with my Dad about the kinds of thing with D&I that were going on when he was still in the workplace. 20+ years ago. It wasn't called D&I back then, but it was very much a thing. I have no doubt that at some point in the future the corporate world is going to have to face the truth, but I wouldn't count on it happening any time soon. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 02:06 PM |
| 18 | Is being a male a disadvantage in the workplace for both hirings and promotions?Tech is the same way. At my current work they've also routed all funding away from training programs that used to be company wide and into the D&I program - which is predominantly focused on exactly who you would expect at an American company. So: if you don't fit into one of those categories you're on your own for keeping up, something that is absolutely essential for my work. When interviewing we have to go through female candidates (if any, there have been times where we had none), then diver… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 03:14 AM |
| 1 | I got a girl pregnant from a ONS and was just told about it. (M, late 20s) Any advice on what to do?I've had a kid. I didn't want one. 9, or rather 7 I guess, months is more than enough time to change your mind. Even if he doesn't want this kid 7 months from now he needs to talk to a lawyer. There is absolutely nothing (legal) he can do to force an abortion on her. He is absolutely capable of legally protecting himself. Again, I'm not saying you're wrong. Your advice very well may work where you're at. In the places I've lived, that's the easiest way to lose 25% of his paycheck even if it's no… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | I got a girl pregnant from a ONS and was just told about it. (M, late 20s) Any advice on what to do?To answer your question about lawyers: yes. They will probably not encourage you to leave the country, as I said that is generally an exceptionally unwise thing to do and who has the money to establish citizenship in a new country at 20 years old anyway, but you are free to ask them about that and what the consequences would be. They will be able to tell you. And yes, they are prepared to advise the best course of action in the best interest of their client, whether it is a man or a woman. That … | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | I got a girl pregnant from a ONS and was just told about it. (M, late 20s) Any advice on what to do?OP should be talking to a lawyer, who will advise him on what the best course of action is for his area. Running out of country does not guarantee immunity from child support, and you will still be on the hook for 18 years' worth of support if you ever want to come back in any case. They don't forget. There are plenty of things that OP can likely do, but he has to play his cards right the first time or none of those will matter because he'll get fucked by family court. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 02:20 PM |
| 2 | I got a girl pregnant from a ONS and was just told about it. (M, late 20s) Any advice on what to do?This might work for your area, but where I'm from you're just shooting yourself in the foot when it comes to custody. By the time she files for child support she's already acquired primary caregiver status, and you are now just a paycheck for mom to collect while she goes out and finds another dude to hitch up and raise your kid with. Talk to a lawyer, /u/shotoniphone. Don't take advice on this from Reddit. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 02:16 PM |
| 11 | I got a girl pregnant from a ONS and was just told about it. (M, late 20s) Any advice on what to do?Talk to a lawyer before you do anything. You need to know how vulnerable you are in your area. You may need paperwork filed in court immediately following the child's birth to protect yourself, even if it is not your kid. You need to be informed when she asks you to sign the birth certificate, and you need to know what preparations need to be made for you to raise your child if she decides she's not going to cooperate. A consultation with a lawyer is free. Get one scheduled immediately. You need… | /r/MensRights | 05/02/24 11:44 PM |
| 41 | What even is "blonde fragility" in the lyrics from "I'm just Ken"Sounds like some shit an angry college girl that's not white - she's actually 5% Native American - would say to you in a bar. In context, it sounds like satire. "Male fragility" is often used by Feminist types to dismiss men's issues. It's basically a way to make fun of men who are upset about something, essentially stating that they are overreacting... but with that "Fuck men" spin that Feminists love so much. "Blonde fragility" is likely a play on that. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/24 02:10 PM |
| 1 | "Consenting to sex isn't Consenting to Parenthood"No, I support my own children. If you mean do I expect the tax-payer to support a child with no father? Yes. That's what we do already. I think in the end it makes the lifestyle substantially less appealing, and achieves the same result y'all are preaching about with opting out: more abortions where available, more adoptions / orphans where not, and single mothers that are more dependent on taxpayer systems. No way to say if it would shake out as a net gain or net loss, or I guess I just don't k… | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 12:00 AM |
| 6 | "Consenting to sex isn't Consenting to Parenthood"Right. I dislike that. Get rid of it. Shit's garbage. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/24 11:52 PM |
| 6 | "Consenting to sex isn't Consenting to Parenthood"Child support. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/24 11:48 PM |
| 6 | "Consenting to sex isn't Consenting to Parenthood"Yes. That's what happens now. The burden is going to increase substantially whichever way you go, allowing men to opt out or just getting rid of it altogether. In both cases you're pushing single parents that are currently receiving child support deeper into the safety net, because you're essentially stripping $X per month that would typically be considered income. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/24 11:45 PM |
| -11 | "Consenting to sex isn't Consenting to Parenthood"You're only removing part of the financial incentive. Dude that got them pregnant isn't the only source of income for single motherhood. I'm not worried about dudes that don't want to be fathers, and in any case they still have that option if you eliminate child support. I'm worried about dudes that want to or would be fathers if they didn't have to choose between that and keeping 25% of their income. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/24 11:30 PM |
| -17 | "Consenting to sex isn't Consenting to Parenthood"I mean, kind of. The only thing you're really eliminating is child support. You're not getting rid of welfare queens, and those are gonna be most of the gals that are engaging in that kind of behavior anyway. You're cutting into their monthly checks, but you're still a far cry away from cutting them off completely. Besides, what would ultimately happen is the government (tax-payers) would pick up the buck, right? So you'll cut into their monthly income, but probably to an even lesser degree than… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/24 10:29 PM |
| -27 | "Consenting to sex isn't Consenting to Parenthood"I take issue with paper abortion because I think it further incentivizes fatherless children. I mean, think about it. If you're pulling 30k a year you now have to choose between being a part of a child's life and losing $7,500 a year to the other parent... or signing a paper abortion to abandon the child to keep that money. That is not an insubstantial amount of money to someone whose income is that low. It very well could be that you want to be a parent to that child, but you won't be able to a… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/24 10:15 PM |
| 0 | Men are opting out.I have a project I've been working on the side for a few years in that space. I'm not fool enough to believe it's going to get anywhere substantial, though. You are right, though. It's not like I'm never going to write software again, I just don't think I'm going to be able to do it professionally. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/24 01:25 AM |
| 23 | Men are opting out.I'm actually going to be leaving my work in software when my son graduates in a few years because of exactly this: Being in the education system where they are literally telling men on the daily that they are scum, patriarchy theory and potential rapists and murderers of women has put me off of interacting with those types of people in academia. I actually fear for young men who are being brainwashed with this narrative. It's easy for me because I'm 33 and I know who I am and know this all propa… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/24 03:04 PM |
| 52 | Men are opting out.I think that we have a system that discriminates against men, family court, and everyone knows it. The risk that a man is undertaking by tying himself to a woman is too high. If he doesn't encounter one that can dissuade those risks and actually earn his trust, he's not going to marry. Couple that with the shifting attitudes of women, like... how many of you have made the mistake of going out on a date with a woman that openly declares herself a Feminist on her dating profile? It only takes one.… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/24 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys know what actually is the gender pay gap in the United States? And have you ever actually witnessed women being economically discriminated against?Time and a place. I don't talk about the shit my work does at work because it will get me fired. I will lose my house. My son will have to live with other family. His mother will probably die in the street, or a women's shelter. I'm not exaggerating, those are the consequences. You shouldn't put your career on the line by discussing things like this at University. Leave it to the talking heads, and other folks who have nothing to lose. Keep your head down, get your money, and go home. Also maybe… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/24 10:24 AM |
| 9 | Do you guys know what actually is the gender pay gap in the United States? And have you ever actually witnessed women being economically discriminated against?It goes so far beyond salary. I'm actually leaving the industry, shit's gotten too wild and I'm over it. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/24 10:18 AM |
| 25 | Do you guys know what actually is the gender pay gap in the United States? And have you ever actually witnessed women being economically discriminated against?The gender pay gap exists because of a wide variety of factors, and there has been oodles of writing over the past twenty years about it. It's not because women are paid less. The only thing I have witnessed is actually the opposite, as women my age were actually getting paid more for entry level jobs. HR wants to increase the number of women employed, and they're willing to pay for it. If you want an easy ride, ladies, work in software. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/24 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Should paternity tests be mandatory?I can agree with that 100%. I'd even take it one step further. It should not be legal to impose child support on someone for children that aren't theirs no matter what. I don't care if she just put his name on the birth certificate, he spent 15 years raising them because he thought they were his, or even if someone married someone knowing the kids aren't theirs. No man, or woman for that matter, should be fiscally responsible for another person's children ever. Or we could just keep it simple, a… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Should paternity tests be mandatory?I mean, on the one hand: I think it would be great to combat paternity fraud and wrongful paternity. On the other: if I was having another kid, was confident that it was mine, and you told me you want me to pay $150+ (because let's be real, hospitals are going to way overcharge) for a paternity test on top of all the other shit I'm already paying for to birth that child: I'mma be pissed as fuck. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/24 11:00 PM |
| 1 | What's the hardest part about improving as a man?The fact that women earn less money than men is not a lie. The deception is that it's framed as being because they're women. Not because they took a parental leave of absence, and don't work as many hours, and don't push for promotions, and choose lower-paying careers, and yadda yadda. It's a complex issue, and it's not as simple as "women are being discriminated against." That's just an extremely common, and ignorant, interpretation. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Help with what to expect.Ahhh okay, so kinda like a paralegal then. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 03:06 PM |
| 5 | What's the hardest part about improving as a man?The industry I work in has turned up in the news for having blacklists, if I did that shit I would have to change my entire career. Which... admittedly... is already the plan, but I'm not ready yet. Besides, the "train or get let go" requirement is being word-of-mouthed down through middle management. They're not going to put that shit on paper, they'll just lay you off during the next wave. It'll phase out. Or my kid'll graduate. Whichever happens first. | /r/MensRights | 10/01/24 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Don't any women find it insulting that feminist treat them like children? They say they're better than men but they refuse to "man up" to situations.🤮 | /r/MensRights | 10/01/24 05:29 PM |
| 13 | What's the hardest part about improving as a man?Funding. I have to pay for all of my own training to keep up at work, because I'm both white and a dude. The D&I program has reallocated all funding for training to women and... well... not POC as a whole, but rather a couple very specific groups of POC. The rest of us? Pay for your own training. Which, by the way, we're requiring this year. If you don't do it we're probably going to have to let you go. Sigh. Gonna cost me at least $1,500 this year. Probably closer to double that, but I'm trying… | /r/MensRights | 10/01/24 05:11 PM |
| 6 | Am I the only one who thinks he was falsely accused? Looked like was trying to get something off a shelftbh it just "looked shady" to me at first so I had to go back and watch. Kind of a gut feeling. I definitely feel like his posture is different when he walks in the door, versus when he starts moving up on her. Look at his arms, he tightens up. Hands go in pockets. Head bows. He keeps his head pointed to the side away from her while he's moving his body in a different direction up onto hers. It's not that people can't move that way, they just typically.... don't. Not to mention: dick is angled t… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/24 04:27 PM |
| 4 | Am I the only one who thinks he was falsely accused? Looked like was trying to get something off a shelfLoose pants, and I'm pretty sure I spotted an erection. I had to watch it like 3 times, because y'know... sometimes you can just see dick through the pants. I don't think that's what's happening though, watch his pants when he first walks in (basically flat) versus when he approaches her from behind. Then he pauses, pretending to look, pauses, pretending to look, gets brave and moves up on her. I don't think this is a false allegation. I'm tempted to spend the next hour taking screenshots of his… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/24 03:56 PM |
| 7 | A right we need...Yeah if you figure out how to cash in our patriarchy cards please let me know. I could use a windfall right now, and I don't feel like the membership has done me any good so far. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/24 04:43 AM |
| 6 | A right we need...Child support isn't a one-way street. The problem with child support is you're incentivizing single parenthood. Have a kid with someone that makes oodles of money, then you can break up with them and in the worst case you only have to take care of that kid part time to collect a paycheck. Do it more than once: bigger paycheck. The money is not monitored at all once it reaches the receiving parents' hands. You can spend it on the kid, sure. You can also spend it on drugs. No one is going to stop … | /r/MensRights | 09/01/24 04:37 AM |
| 10 | A right we need...I disagree with your opening statement. Not your body, you don't get a say. That said: I've been in the same boat as you. It sucks. I'm sorry you have to go through that. No parent should have to deal with the loss of a child. I'm all for getting rid of child support, though. That system is bunk, outdated horseshit. Not even "sign away your rights." Fuck that, get rid of all of it. I'm also firmly of the belief that, man or woman, you should be appointed legal counsel in a family court case if y… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/24 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Why do feminists blame beauty standards on men? They say things like "we have to wear makeup" and you "wouldn't make it a day in heels"Eh, depends on the dude. You'd be surprised. I generally agree, though. I always like to think back on a study I read like... 10+ years ago... about comments online. In the early days of social media one of the most frequent complaints from the lady up-and-comers was all the nasty comments, which were largely attributed to bitter men. The study found it was in fact mostly women that were being nasty to other women online. I don't think it was a small margin, either... but take that with a grain … | /r/MensRights | 09/01/24 02:26 AM |
| 8 | Help with what to expect.I would be wary of requesting advice for something like this in a forum as wide as this one, and would suggest that you also post on your local subreddit so that you can get input from people who have experienced family court in your area. Family law varies so widely from place to place that even if we try to give you authentic advice, we could very well encourage you to do something that will end up fucking you over. Do not do anything that anyone here suggests without consulting your legal cou… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotI'm sorry that Feminists annoy you. They annoy me, too. Hence my intolerance for the same kind of behavior on a subreddit where I'm actually allowed to criticize it. I agree it's the double standard that bugs OP, I said as much in my original comment. All the more reason to talk about the double standard. Instead we're on a thread where OP opened with a lie in the title, mused over hypotheticals he made up in his head, and called on people to "hold women accountable" with a statement that is bla… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotHe likes different women than me, and that makes me angry! >:( Y'all are silly. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotOh look, another one. If Reddit had a magic button I could push to talk to people face to face, I would push it every time... but especially for y'all. :) | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotIt's telling that that there are so many people ready to jump on the train to shit on me, but no one has actually provided a solution that would play any better than what happened here. What exactly is wrong with the way this situation played out for OP? What more do you people want? Do you think OP should have hammered dude for his drunk girlfriend and hold him accountable like the dude that deleted all his comments? Are you upset he didn't go run to the bouncer and ask him to throw her out? Is… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:23 PM |
| 0 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotUgh, you again? Look dude, your expectations from the world are clearly very different than mine, and at this point you're so all over the place that I'm not even sure I could respond if I wanted to. I can't keep up with all the threads you've now started with me, and in any case you don't seem to be capable of understanding what I'm saying because you keep saying the same, untrue thing over and over again: and that's that I condone sexual assault. I do not. It definitely feels like one of us is… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotI was going to type something, but then I realized you're that dude that thinks men should be held accountable for the actions of their girlfriends so.... I think I'mma just wait until I get some clarification on that before I bother with engaging any further. It'll be easier for me to keep up with our conversation if you only engage in one place, though. I'm aware of what I believe, so you don't need to highlight it with multiple comments. :) | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 05:05 AM |
| -1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotJesus christ, I didn't think this thread could get any worse. You want to hold a boyfriend accountable for the actions of his girlfriend? The fuck? You might wanna provide some clarification, because at first reading that sounds like a whole 'nother level of crazy I don't think I've ever even seen on this sub before. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotClarification, I am not upset - but this is an issue about which I can type passionately, sure. I'm also not being defensive. I have not defended her behavior. The closest I've come is saying that if you go to a bar or club you should have the expectation that you will be sexually assaulted. This should not seem unreasonable to anyone that has spent any amount of time in bars or, especially, clubs. It's going to happen. I've traveled far and wide, this is about as close to a universal truth as y… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 04:58 AM |
| 0 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotI don't think I said people have a free pass. I said I find it to be a stupid thing to complain about, because it's expected behavior. They are not the same. Identifying a sex as being responsible for poor behavior, and then encouraging people to engage in that same poor behavior against that sex is absolutely bigotry. When the sex is women, that bigotry is called misogyny. OP doesn't like the way that men are held accountable for sexual assault. OP's solution: hold women accountable in the same… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 04:39 AM |
| 0 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotNope, and it never will. People are animals. Animals that not only have sex, but derive intense pleasure from it. No matter how big you build the guard rails, they are never going to stop acting like animals. I 100% disagree with your proposed solution, though. Prisons and jails are already so overcrowded that they literally have to let people go to make room for more violent offenders. Look at the way false allegations are handled now, and then imagine if you had to spend a night in a holding c… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 04:21 AM |
| -1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotTo who? | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotI'm going to have to disagree. Seems to me that's probably the second most likely reason you'll hear it, right behind someone just being an outright asshole and talking shit. Doubt anyone has done any studies though. Have to agree to disagree, I imagine. EDIT: he blocked me and idk what he said so uh.... "no u." | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 04:12 AM |
| -4 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotThere it is. The nastiness. The discomfort with knowing that what you believe can't hold up to the scrutiny. The last resort of ad hominems. The truth is that you are bitter. I don't know why, but you are bitter... and you are using this as an outlet to validate and feed that bitterness. I never said women don't use that excuse. I said everyone uses that excuse. You're just so caught up in your own world view that you can't even interpret the things I'm typing properly. Do you know why people le… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 03:13 AM |
| -1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotThere's identifying and discussing to maybe come up with solutions, and there's encouraging people to partake in the same shitty behavior. OP did the latter. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotMan or woman, if you call the police because someone grabbed your ass in a bar you're going to be disappointed. I can promise you that. They do not have time for that shit, and they'll probably tell you as much. What do you expect to happen? What is the punishment you want to see for any person grabbing another person's ass? | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:59 AM |
| -1 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotI don't think I apologized for anyone. More like an adamant believer that your world is going to largely be what you make of it... and I also find it unwise to encourage men to treat women the way that some of them treat us. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:48 AM |
| -6 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotBecause women often DO get a free pass when it comes to being held accountable or even held to the same standards / rules expected of men. Men often get a free pass for the same behavior. I agree that women are not held accountable to the same degree as men. Now, out of theory and into reality: how are you going to hold the girl in the above situation accountable? OP called you to action, what are you going to do when you're in the same situation? | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:28 AM |
| -3 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotIf you assault my girl you get a warning. If you do it again, you get hurt. Is generally how I play it. And yes, that does seem to be the norm to me. If you pick a fight with a dude for putting hands on a girl you're interested in you're all getting thrown out. Nobody wants that. I don't like it when chicks & dudes get grabby with me, either. That's life, though. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:23 AM |
| -14 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotYou've never had a significant other do something that it takes time to process? Sometimes it can take me weeks to work through something. I'm not assuming what happened, I've never said what happened, I've said you don't know what happened. I'm saying that there are other possibilities that you have failed to consider. You're making assumptions to satisfy your own beliefs. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:20 AM |
| -4 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotBecause it's obvious to me from the way he's worded his post, and the call to action against women. This kind of behavior at a club is normal. I have always, and will always, find it to be a stupid thing to complain about. Going to a bar or club and then complaining you were sexually assaulted is on par with going to a show at Sea World and complaining you got wet. It would be nice if it didn't happen, but it's going to. I can almost guarantee it. The fact that OP thinks this is a problem with w… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:17 AM |
| -10 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotIt's not, obviously. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:10 AM |
| -12 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotHow are you going to hold a woman accountable in OP's scenario? What wise decision are you going to make? | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:07 AM |
| -20 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotWere you hanging out in their living room when they sobered up the next day? You are not omniscient. I meant what I said. You have no way of knowing whether or not she had to face any repercussions. Even if you're 100% right, and she faced no consequences... it doesn't change how falsely the rest of your post rings. "Sorry, he's drunk" and "Sorry, she's drunk" are both phrases that you're going to hear often in the bar / club scene. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 02:05 AM |
| -43 | Woman can use being drunk as an excuse while men cannotI have absolutely used "Sorry, he's drunk" to get my friends out of shit. Usually involving a girl, and not unlike what happened to you. For that matter, I don't even know how many times I've heard that line from other people to defend the piss-poor behavior of their friends towards me & mine. I would absolutely dump my girlfriend if she was one of those gals, and you have no way of knowing whether or not the gal that assaulted you had to face any of those repercussions. You've just assumed, bec… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/24 01:54 AM |
| 7 | How can I hate feminism without hating women in general?You probably need to talk to a therapist. You're going to have a hard time making the distinction because you've got unresolved issues with what happened between you and your mother. You need to get that worked out. Exposure to more women never hurts, as long as you can keep your negative feelings about them bottled up and hidden away. Most gals are not evil witches with blue hair that want to put you in a cage. Having a healthy relationship with women will help you come to the understanding tha… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 01:18 AM |
| -7 | Androcide (Gendercide): Women and Children First in Emergencies is not a Myth & Titanic wasnt an ExceptionThe point is that "Women First" in emergencies is oppression until "Men First" in emergencies is said as many times. This single line is enough to discredit everything you've said in the eyes of a skeptic, because it tells them that you care more about hurting women than uplifting men. I read your post, I know you corrected yourself in the next sentence, but the answer to bigotry is not more bigotry. It shouldn't be about getting even, it should be about getting equal... or at least as close to … | /r/MensRights | 06/01/24 02:04 PM |
| 8 | UK: Vengeful wife, 39, jailed for 27 months after burning down the marital home when court awarded it to her husband in their divorce - before trying to frame him for the crimeI'm not gonna lie, having been through family court once... if I ever have to do it again I'mma prolly do the same thing. I'd rather just go to prison. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/24 12:50 PM |
| 15 | The private Facebook groups secretly destroying men's lives...I would love to adopt that philosophy, but if I'm being honest: I completely understand why a woman would think this is a good idea. Hell, I thought it was a good idea. I considered building an app that was basically the same thing about 10 years back, except in my case it was going to be for both men and women. I ditched the idea because I decided that it would not only be completely impossible to moderate with any degree of accuracy, but as a result of that it would probably end up being a net… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 06:30 PM |
| 14 | All negative comments about my appearance in my life were made by women.I remain unconvinced that it's a wise tactic to use against women, either. It is a tactic, though. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 03:32 PM |
| 25 | All negative comments about my appearance in my life were made by women.Saying those kinds of things to women is a legit tactic employed by PUA-types. It's called negging. I can only assume women do it to men for the same reasons. Diminish self-confidence, bring their target down to "their level" and make it feel privileged that they're trying to get in its pants. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about "nice guys" ?"Nice guys" are not generally actually nice. It's that dude that has been following that chick around since the first grade, but they're still not dating. It's that guy you thought you were friends with till your panties started going missing every time he would hang out at your house. It's that guy who tells you every boyfriend you have is an asshole and that you deserve someone better, like him. It's just another expression for a guy that is stuck in the friend zone and bitter about it, except… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Why is sexism against men always seems normal in internet?They're both sexism. Everyone knows it. Men just don't care as much. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/23 09:05 PM |
| 10 | Discussion on how women cannot effectively communicate on dating appsI don't get it, do you think they're lying? Like... do you stop matching the moment you swipe on a chick that looks good to you? Or even get a reply from a chick you have an interest in? I know I sure as hell don't, I'll stack up to 4 dates in one weekend if I can because I know at least half of them aren't going to show up, and the odds of finding that diamond in the rough among the other half are pretty damn low. Same with the "convos." Imagine you have ten different women that have all messag… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/23 07:02 PM |
| 55 | The majority of Reddit is pro-feminist. Maybe the majority of society.It's irritating to not be able to have an honest discussion about your issues without being called a misogynist. When you share an experience that affected you deeply, and you're shot down as an anti-feminist troll it hurts. It sucks that the spaces where you can genuinely share your feelings are so incredibly limited. We've been lied to for a very, very long time about what Feminism is. For that matter, we're constantly lied to about it even today. You can't fault people for believing Feminism … | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 07:45 PM |
| 5 | “You don’t need his permission” - Company named Make a Mom advertises on Twitter product that allows women to impregnate themselves with a man’s sperm without his consent or knowledgeGet rid of child support and watch products like this practically go out of business when all of a sudden having a kid becomes a lot less appealing. Can't do much about crazy girlfriends and wives, but I'd wager most of this problem is a pretty easy fix. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 03:22 PM |
| 4 | “You don’t need his permission” - Company named Make a Mom advertises on Twitter product that allows women to impregnate themselves with a man’s sperm without his consent or knowledgeThey literally have a video on their YouTube page titled "What about child support? Is this even legal?" Shit's fucked. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 03:21 PM |
| 0 | “You don’t need his permission” - Company named Make a Mom advertises on Twitter product that allows women to impregnate themselves with a man’s sperm without his consent or knowledgeThe best you can realistically hope for is that the company is forced to stop encouraging women to steal sperm as a marketing strategy. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 03:15 PM |
| 11 | Kanye West to pay Kim Kardashian $200,000 per month in child supportI don't know California law, but my guess is his yearly income is probably higher than hers. At least where I was at they asked how much I had in the bank, but it wasn't actually used for calculating child support. Only income. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 04:06 PM |
| 168 | Kanye West to pay Kim Kardashian $200,000 per month in child supportFucking. Ridiculous. The entire concept of "Child Support" in 2023 is fucked, and it should be abolished imo. "It's for the child" my ass. You could have 10 kids and you still wouldn't need $200,000 a month to take care of them even if you're a no-talent stay at home parent without a penny to your name otherwise, and that certainly doesn't describe someone like Kim Kardashian. Idgaf how much money Kanye's got, or how successful he is. Shit like this shouldn't happen to anybody. I don't give a fu… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 04:01 PM |
| 5 | In 2023 men should have consent forms printed out and handy, similar to condoms when dealing with women.Pass. I'd like to say I have a good reason, but tbh: I'm not going to miss out on getting my dick wet just for the sake of maybe avoiding something that is so unlikely to happen. At this point in my life, if I got hit with another false accusation... well... my son graduates in a few years, and after he moves out I've got nothing left to live for so... if it has any kind of meaningful impact on my life: she'll regret it, even if only for a very short while. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 02:25 PM |
| 89 | watching the opposite sex changeThat... has never been a thing in any of the places I've grown up. Definitely weird. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 09:37 PM |
| 156 | UK: Golddigger, 15, pretended to fall in love with man, 35, she met online before stabbing him in the head when he didn't buy her the gifts she wanted. OP: Of course she was not jailed its the UK!Whaaaaaaaaaaaaat the fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck? Community service for a stabbing? | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 09:34 PM |
| -6 | I'll be saying this on the feminism sub tooIt's not easy for me to switch jobs either, it's actually kinda scary pretty much every time. If I worked where you do, though? Fuck that noise, I'll go be a beat cop getting shot at to make 20k a year before I consent to that kinda bullshit... and I'd probably make them fire me for exactly that just so I could ride the unemployment for a few months on their buck as a nice little "fuck you" on my way out. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 03:15 AM |
| -9 | I'll be saying this on the feminism sub tooI don't buy that. Like, I agree, if I went into the office tomorrow and started linking articles in Slack channels about how women have it better or men have it worse, or otherwise went against the D&I grain: sure, yeah, I would probably be warned and (eventually) fired for that. Time and a place, though. I wouldn't get fired for marching in a protest. I dump my money exclusively into men's only or unisex shelters, I volunteer at a men's shelter, I don't participate in any of the D&I garbage tha… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 02:57 AM |
| -3 | I'll be saying this on the feminism sub tooGet used to it. The Internet creates echo chambers, and because of the whole "subreddit" design and the way moderation works Reddit is probably one of the worst culprits. There's actually a completely separate subreddit for active effort towards equality on the behalf of men, but it is depressingly inactive. /r/MRActivism/ - for reference. Which is another life lesson: most people would rather talk than do... which is important to remember both for the sake of understanding why subreddits like F… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 01:45 AM |
| 2 | What rights do you believe a man is entitled to in this situation?Nope, I'm 100% of the belief that women should be the sole decision maker (so far as doctors and the law are concerned) when it comes to abortion. As someone that has had a kid I wanted to keep aborted I completely understand how much that situation fucking sucks, but at the end of the day our role is to deposit the fertilizer... she gets to decide whether or not she's gonna tend the garden. I do think we should get rid of child support, though... or at the very least allow men to sign away righ… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 09:26 PM |
| 6 | In Ohio a man has ZERO legal rights to his children even AFTER paternity is established. Ohio House Bill 14 aims to change this and it is up for a committee vote THIS TUESDAY, Nov. 28. Please help contact these Reps. (in comments) to tell them we support equal rights for fathers.Ugh, my family court case is in Ohio. The years I spent trying to secure custody of my son from his blatantly drug-addicted mother are a testament to how much that state needs this legislation. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 02:29 PM |
| 16 | if most women are attracted only by a tiny minority of top men, how most men find dates at least once in their lifetime?Settling, on both parties' behalf. People settle with partners that are overweight, treat them like shit, and/or don't have the ambition or drive to be successful because we all know how the world works. At the end of the day the perfect man or woman doesn't really exist. We just pick one that we're willing to settle for, hopefully because of an understanding that love and partnership isn't perfect but we know they can do enough... and not because of some darker, more fucked up reason. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/23 05:53 PM |
| 12 | Are those young boys/ men who are raped by women end up paying child support in the future?If she gets knocked up, probably yes. At least that has been the case thus far. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 02:38 AM |
| 12 | What I am noticing about millennial men.I feel like that's a fair assessment. It's not just men, women have kinda gone the same way - every date is either a complete tom-boy who don't need no man, or wants a wedding and children inside of two years with no plans to work for the rest of her life. I'm exaggerating, of course, but generally speaking it definitely feels that way. I think the Internet has kinda just pushed people into polar corners. Ideologies tied to politics tied to morality. Are you a good person? Then you should think … | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 08:54 PM |
| 6 | Biases of men and driving.Yeah that's pretty shitty, wasn't aware that's a thing. Can't say I'm surprised, tho. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 05:59 PM |
| 7 | Biases of men and driving.True. You're also kind of rationalizing a higher rate in premiums though, aren't you? Like, if men are more likely to be driving: it stands to reason that insurance companies should charge men more. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 05:42 PM |
| 39 | Biases of men and driving.I'mma put on my "misogyny" hat for a moment. I never have, and never will, believe that men are worse at driving than women. My life experience does not permit it. It was so common for a gal to bump into another car, and usually subsequently drive the fuck off, that it stopped surprising me before I even hit 20... and I will never let a woman drive my car again unless I absolutely have to. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 05:15 PM |
| 11 | Chatgpt is a Gynocentrism sympathizerSurprised: no one. Your question is kind of loaded, though. You literally asked it to provide you with the benefits. A better question would be "What are the pro's and con's of a gynocentric society?" or "Do you think Feminism or Men's Rights is more important in today's society?" Shit like that. Legit curious as to whether it would try and persuade you away from your own beliefs and towards Feminism or if it would take the history with you that it has and try to form the answer it thinks you wa… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/23 05:39 PM |
| 56 | “Incels” are not particularly right-wing or white, but they are extremely depressed, anxious, and lonely, according to new researchAsian people are white in "woke" circles. They have to be, or else everything they believe starts to fall apart. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/22 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Why men are avoiding marriageAll of this 100% depends on who you marry. What young men need is to have their own self-worth reinforced so that they don't settle for shit partners. If you and your wife decide that someone should stay home after you start having children, sure: whatever. If your wife doesn't want to work before you start having children: maybe not a reliable partner. I didn't go through a divorce, but I've spent the past 13 years in and out of court for custody. I still encourage my son to date, and if he fin… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Jordan Peterson "Men are Dying and Breaking Themselves in Half"I agree. This subreddit is just incredibly frustrating sometimes. Great example: custody. Dude posted about how he'd won out a custody battle sometime over the last week or so and the comment section was flooded with comments talking about how men don't stand a chance in court and how fucked we are. The irony was not lost on me. You (and by "You" I don't mean literally you, I mean the proverbial "You") say all that, and sometimes it's true, but someone is going to read that shit and they're goin… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Jordan Peterson "Men are Dying and Breaking Themselves in Half""Not allowed." I think it's ironic as fuck that a video from Jordan Peterson landed on this subreddit, because I think he would find a lot of the things that are said here disappointing as fuck. He's the kind of person that would tell you that unless someone has gagged you it's on you to speak up... and you need to do it. You just need to be smart about it and choose your words carefully. He's been a shining example of this more than once. I think that everyone should read "12 Rules for Life." I… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Result of DivorceI love it. We need to see more stories like this. Yes: custody is absolutely fucked in some parts of the world. However: you need to fight for your children. No matter what anyone tells you. The courts might try and fuck you around a little bit, you might have to dump some serious cash into a lawyer, but in the end if you just give up and don't fight you will lose your children. That much is certain. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/21 03:23 PM |
| 81 | Suicide Squad star Joel Kinnaman under investigation for rape | Woman now alleges he raped her in 2018 after he reported her to police for extortion and took out a restraining order against her obsessive attempts to contact himOn July 25, he claims they had a lengthy conversation that he recorded. “At one point, she stated, ‘Do you know how much money I would get and how famous I would be if I went to the press?” he stated. Smart man. The whole time I was reading it all I could think is "this is why you always keep your texts and record your phone calls." In my experience the crazy ones will almost always out themselves, you just have to capture it when they do. Back in my early years the parents of a girl I was havin… | /r/MensRights | 16/08/21 03:06 PM |
| 13 | #IfAllMenDisappearedForADay is trending on Twitter and it's the cap to the misandry cocktail this week has been.I got banned from offmychest for posting a correction to a discussion about the plot of Game of Thrones because it was apparently in /r/imgoingtohellforthis. I was browsing /r/all on mobile - had no idea what sub I was posting in nor did I know getting banned for certain subs was even a thing. It's probably easier to get banned from that subreddit than to be a participating member. I can't even imagine living with such a fear of other opinions; they must be miserable people. As an EDIT for those… | /r/MensRights | 09/08/21 03:04 PM |
| 4 | #IfAllMenDisappearedForADay is trending on Twitter and it's the cap to the misandry cocktail this week has been.I was surprised about the datacenter techs. Company I work for bombards us almost daily with diversity and inclusion e-mails about how there's not enough women in tech. 32% ain't something to scoff at. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 2 | So Mensrights sub asking for equal rights for men in the courts and equal access to health and education resources is a hate sub. But TwoX that craps on men all day is not ??I'm confused. Is this sub under threat of quarantine or something? | /r/MensRights | 06/08/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | USA Georgia man who spent two decades in prison for double murder has charges dropped after DNA proves him innocent. He was convicted largely on the testimony of his ex-girlfriend’s mother.Hard to say without the full context, but I've adopted a similar stance in similar discussions where people refer to sex with an underage person as "rape." There's a pretty big difference between the statutory rape of a 16 year-old in a relationship that is otherwise completely consensual and diddling a 12 year-old who barely understands the concept of sex, if they understand it at all. I don't condone statutory rape, obviously, but if you're speaking about it in such a way as to try and frame h… | /r/MensRights | 21/07/21 08:26 PM |
| 8 | USA Georgia man who spent two decades in prison for double murder has charges dropped after DNA proves him innocent. He was convicted largely on the testimony of his ex-girlfriend’s mother.Fuck that, you don't pin the sins of a father on his children. That's wrong on so many levels. The state is responsible for his prosecution, the state can pay for the damages. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How can I teach my sister about Men's Rights?Say you heard about a movie made by a Feminist named Cassie Jaye, then sit and watch The Red Pill with her. If she makes it through that movie and still doesn't think men have issues worth addressing she's a lost cause. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Circumcision Permanently Alters the Brain – The surgery subjected the infant to significant traumaAs you can see from the other comments, we jerk off fine without lube. I'm circumcised and I'm still happy with my dick. I understand what you're saying but I've only ever known it one way. Being circumcised isn't some awful thing. I watched a friend go through being circumcised at 14 because it was necessary, I assume because he wasn't taking proper care of his dick but who knows. On the other hand, there's a chance... albeit a very small one.... that you go to have your kid circumcised and the… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/21 06:43 PM |
| -40 | Circumcision Permanently Alters the Brain – The surgery subjected the infant to significant traumaidk if you're just not circumcised or what, but we can masturbate fine. For the record. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/21 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Oklahoma "accidentally" cancels feminism. "The new law prohibits public school teachers of grades K-12 from teaching eight different concepts about race, including that an individual, by virtue of his or race or sex, is inherently racist, sexist or oppressive, whether consciously or unconsciously."I have to disagree with your general sentiment, but that's all the more reason it's a bad idea to put your ass on the line to have an argument. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/21 07:01 PM |
| 0 | Oklahoma "accidentally" cancels feminism. "The new law prohibits public school teachers of grades K-12 from teaching eight different concepts about race, including that an individual, by virtue of his or race or sex, is inherently racist, sexist or oppressive, whether consciously or unconsciously."There's brave and there's stupid. Obviously dude is the one in his situation and he's got a better grasp on his own situation so he can make that judgement call, but I would generally consider putting your own ass on the line to have an argument with someone a bad idea. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/21 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children?And that kind of mentality is precisely what the people you so vehemently oppose exploit to discredit appeals to better things for men. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Remember every single feminist statistic is a lie.Are you seriously asking? Of course it's a hypocritical power play, all ideologies are. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/21 02:39 PM |
| 14 | That poor bastard. Be careful ladsIn case your curious, it does vary widely by state. Where my son was born you're only responsible for child support if you're the biological parent of the child. The pain in the ass is that it's not exceedingly difficult for a mother to get a support order established to leech money off of a man that isn't the biological father; at that point the onus falls on not-Dad to follow the proper legal procedure to get that order rescinded. It might be cheaper than 18 years of child support, but it's st… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 09:38 PM |
| 28 | That poor bastard. Be careful ladsConsidering her dumb ass posted it on Facebook I'm gonna be an optimist and say someone probably did. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 09:33 PM |
| 9 | That poor bastard. Be careful ladsJesus fucking Christ, imagine someone so morally bankrupt that they not only come up with this plan on their own, but they then turn to their friends and family on Facebook for help to make it better. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 09:31 PM |
| 28 | Remember every single feminist statistic is a lie.Actually they understand that perfectly well, in fact they like to preach about how much men are victims of the patriarchy so we will become "allies." They just don't give a shit about fixing anything for men. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 04:47 PM |
| -2 | Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children?I mean... men have that same choice I guess so if that's where you wanna go with it I don't see what the problem is. Also female circumcision is fucked up, you shouldn't support that shit either. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/21 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children?Ohhh I gotcha. Yeah I'm aware that laws like that exist, it's ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 10 | Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children?Domestic partnership. I don't know much about Washington's laws, but in many parts of the world if you live for someone for more than X amount of time you become legally "married" without actually being married. Combine that with the concept of "if you marry someone you're taking on legal responsibility for their children" and that's how you end up with a situation like this. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 07:46 PM |
| -3 | Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children?Well... technically there is a choice for circumcision. It's just that decision gets made by the parents, like all decisions about medical procedures before you're a legal adult. As for pregnancy, we don't carry children - so there's no choice to be made. I think you're referring to parenting, a situation in which you absolutely do have a choice - it's just that having a kid with the wrong gal can make following through on that choice a bitch and a half. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 07:46 PM |
| -2 | 19. Stay Away from Single MothersHa. I came here to say "Absolutely true. Also: stay away from single fathers." I'm a single Dad so I can say that without being a bigot. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/21 10:03 PM |
| 24 | Where the women at?This is iffy. Maybe I just haven't been to the right churches, but being a Catholic and showing up at a Catholic church it's been damn near impossible for me to get into any of the preexisting social circles. Definitely a long-term investment if you decide to go this route, though I guess the communal benefits might be worth it. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How to handle ex(not standard beta textwall bullshit)?It's a good read. The writing style is pretty poor, but there's a lot of good advice and insight in the book. Based on what you've said I would recommend cutting her off; her intentions are to LTR you and you care enough about her to not abuse that so you're not going to get much out of a platonic relationship. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/17 03:36 AM |
| 3 | How to handle intimidating bully in collegeAs much fun as a good fight can be doing it in a situation like you're talking about is pretty dumb. Hell, once you're 18 or older doing it in pretty much any situation where you're not defending yourself is borderline retarded due to the potential legal issues. Other user pointed out agree & amplify already. If you don't know what that means: let's say a dude comes up to me and says "Hey, you're Catholic - that means you fuck little boys right?" the appropriate response would be "No, that's the… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/17 03:32 AM |
| 1 | How to handle ex(not standard beta textwall bullshit)?You already said yourself you don't want to do an LTR, you want to "fuck hoes." If you don't want to treat this chick that way the answer seems pretty obvious to me. If that's not enough: You already had your fling with her, you already said you're planning on moving away, and it sounds like you're fairly young so committing to an LTR (something you don't even want) right as you're about to start a career probably isn't a good idea. You said you're new to The Red Pill, so I'm assuming you haven'… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/17 03:17 AM |
| 1 | TRP and fatherhoodLike I said man, it's a call you have to make on your own. From the sounds of it you are fairly close to where your daughter(?) would be if you were to separate. Talk to a lawyer before you make any moves, they will be able to best advise you on how to proceed if you decide to split. Even with no intention of pursuing custody you are going to need a lawyer to ensure you get fucked as little as possible going into court proceedings around child support and the like. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 06:24 PM |
| 11 | How often do you run into women that like rough degrading sex?I remember dating a chick that literally wanted me to wrap a belt around her neck and choke her until she was about to pass out while I slammed her doggy style. She didn't want this as a "one time thing," it became clear this was what she wanted to be the norm. As a general rule women like being dominated in the bedroom. Going that far isn't normal in my experience, but it happens. If you don't enjoy it, move on to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Hi guys, Im 15 and really need helpDon't hit your sister. This is stupid advice and can land you in some serious shit. Defend yourself if you have to, jail is better than being dead, but work towards getting your shit together so you can get the fuck out. From the sounds of it, it doesn't seem like they would mind if you weren't around the house. I would start spending some serious away time from home. If you're too young to work an actual job see if you can pick up odd jobs around the neighborhood to make some money and start sa… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How to make new successful friends?Similarly, if you're in a professional career look into groups focused on your career path / field. There's a great app called MeetUp for hobbies, user groups, and professional after-hours get-togethers. These are great for networking and expanding on your career in addition to getting casual friends. Keep in mind, just because something is held at a bar doesn't mean you have to drink booze. You can stick to water or (if you're overly concerned about fitting in) drinking soda without alcohol. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 05:43 PM |
| 2 | TRP and fatherhoodTRP doesn't have a hard stance on this. Keep in mind as you read my advice that I don't adhere to everything that TRP preaches, I adhere to what works for me. That being said, you have to look out for yourself, and when you have a kid you have to look out for that kid. First off: you need to be honest with yourself about what is best for your child. As an example, I recently moved about 10 hours away from my kid because in the long-run I realized that is what is going to be best for him. The cou… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or not?With no other context it sounds like she wants away time and she wants it to be your choice to not spend that time with her. Women don't communicate overtly unless they absolutely have to, so she wouldn't just tell you to go home. She may not have expected you to agree to stay based on previous conversations y'all had about those two weeks. If we're talking a true plate - meaning you only meet up with each other for sex - I don't see the harm in going either way unless you're putting off other r… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 05:24 PM |
| 178 | Cool social experiment on Tinder [x-post "All men are pigs who care only about looks!"]How is it a double standard? If an attractive woman tells me she wants to slob on my knob and ride me like a race horse I'll say yes. If an unattractive woman says the same thing I'll say no. I think it's the same for most single men. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/17 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Got a single mother twice my age pregnantHe needs to check with a lawyer before he decides "do not wife." This varies greatly state by state, assuming he's in the U.S. This is, of course, assuming the paternity test comes back and says it's his kid - though it couldn't hurt to at least start the conversation with a lawyer a bit earlier. In my particular circumstances I would have been much better off if I had married my kid's mom and then just divorced her a year or two later. Would have given me tremendously more power in family court… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 03:00 PM |
| 7 | Men are losing equal rights, and conservatism is not the answerYou're free to hate on Milo all you want, he's a popular conservative speaker but he's not a particularly great one. His niche is in being offensive while he portrays his views and it's something that I've enjoyed quite a bit - I am all about "anti-PC" culture. I am a (mostly) conservative man, and I still care about men's rights because the lack of equality in the courts, which you mentioned, has had some pretty fucked up effects on my life. My right-leaning views and my opinion on how transgen… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/17 04:52 PM |
| 3 | My Story: My Wife Filed A False Litigation Against Me; I Fought The Case And Won ItCongrats man. I'm sitting here watching all my money get siphoned away, potentially looking at a couple months of homelessness unless I get extremely lucky this week (and I think I am going to). The legal system is complete horse shit when it comes to alimony or (in my case) child custody and support. It's great to see that those who have the means to help others are doing so, I hope these kinds of things begin to become more popular in the states. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | A guide to Abundance mentality?It's the saying "There's other fish in the sea" in every context. If you catch one and it doesn't look quite right you can throw it back and catch another. If it doesn't taste good for any reason you can throw it out and go catch another. When it rots you can throw it out and go catch another. You can eventually settle on a fish you like if you want; eventually no matter how good it is with the passage of time it's going to whither away - but you can keep it if you like. Regardless, even if you … | /r/askTRP | 21/02/17 03:38 PM |
| 1 | "Geeky" but high paying job for a young person?If you get into sales it should be because you're gonna make more money doing it, not because you think women will give a shit you work in IT (hint: they won't). | /r/askTRP | 21/02/17 11:56 AM |
| 1 | How does terror and fear correlate to red pill philosophies?If you're interested, knife defense is actually really simple and you can learn most of what you need to online. The scary trick with knife defense (particularly when defending against other people using knives / similar weapons) is that you have to be willing to take a stab to a non-vital area. Of course, if you really want value you should get someone to practice your slashes with but worst-case you can always fight the air. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 11:48 PM |
| 3 | How does terror and fear correlate to red pill philosophies?I still strongly recommend you read The Rational Male, don't just look at the RP subreddits and think you know / understand the foundations. You can build on the foundation that book will provide and adopt RP philosophy, better prospects with women being one of the benefits of doing so. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 06:49 PM |
| 3 | How does terror and fear correlate to red pill philosophies?I'm not sure what you mean by "working out isn't something your body can do," but there is an entire array of exercises for people with all kinds of disabilities. You don't need to walk into a gym and start benching 250 lbs to be working out. As for your face, get some confidence. Consider the self-defense classes (if you didn't see my edit, read it). If you have a condition, research techniques that can be used by that condition and study them. When you can compensate in other areas women will … | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 06:20 PM |
| 3 | How does terror and fear correlate to red pill philosophies?I can't make myself more desirable to women. This isn't true at all. You lack the motivation to make yourself more desirable. You may be at a disadvantage to do so in comparison to a 6'4" stud that has been lifting his whole life and maintained healthy social relationships, but ultimately your lack of ability to make yourself more desirable is a result of your own lack of effort. There are women that like the oddballs. They're fewer in number, but they're out there. Style, regardless of how out-… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Casual convo with a class mate... "Dam I want a nice dinner tonight, Let me jump on Tinder real quick."Had a neighbour who I talked to about online dating. There was no chance in hell that we were going to sleep with each other, were actually pretty close to being friends considering I usually ignore my neighbours. Anywho, she was more than happy to say things like the above casually in conversation because there was no fear of disqualifying herself in my eyes. If I had to guess, the same goes for OP and the other dude that jaw-dropped. They don't see what they're doing as wrong in any way, shape… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Martial Arts & Finding a PurposeOut of curiosity and if you don't mind sharing, how old are you? I am very late 20's, and have considered picking up martial arts. Fighting was always something I wanted to do, but in my younger years my Mom was completely against financing it. By the time I was 18 I had already gotten into a bunch of stupid shit, and while I frequently found myself fighting doing it the "proper" way was not even remotely on my radar. At this point, it's still something I would really love to do - but I feel lik… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 08:44 PM |
| 2 | “I really feel this film is the thing I’m most proud of in my entire life, and once people get to see this film, I think all this terrible press is going to look ridiculous.” Cassie Jaye, The Red PillThis is so true. I had vaguely heard about this before today, and I needed something to listen to while I was working so I went ahead and listened to a few of her interviews about it. I'd pay that $25 to see this shit right now if I could, but since I can't I'd pirate it in a heartbeat and pay for it later if I could. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | “I really feel this film is the thing I’m most proud of in my entire life, and once people get to see this film, I think all this terrible press is going to look ridiculous.” Cassie Jaye, The Red PillTrump has even raised the issue of false accusations. To be fair: he was kind of forced into this when he was accused of molesting a 12 year-old and a 13 year-old. It was an obvious bullshit case, but of course Hillary and the MSM jumped on it. Otherwise, though, you raise a lot of points I hadn't even considered when it came to whether or not to vote for Trump. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/16 10:18 PM |
| 3 | “I really feel this film is the thing I’m most proud of in my entire life, and once people get to see this film, I think all this terrible press is going to look ridiculous.” Cassie Jaye, The Red PillThe Young Turks I both love and hate TYT. They've evolved quite a bit over time, and I frequently stumble across a video from them that I absolutely love because it portrays exactly how I feel about a particular issue. Overall they're still a little too left-leaning for me, but hey: what can you expect from Californians? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/16 10:15 PM |
| 3 | “I really feel this film is the thing I’m most proud of in my entire life, and once people get to see this film, I think all this terrible press is going to look ridiculous.” Cassie Jaye, The Red PillAs much as people like to think something like this is career suicide, if done properly it appeals to a massive number of people - especially as the existence of genuine freedom of speech is such a hot-button issue right now. Leaning her film either way could have landed her some good opportunities, but leaving it right in the middle is honestly probably the best play she could have made even if that wasn't her genuine intent (which, based on the interviews I've watched with her, it most definit… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/16 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Bringing two girls on a tripI would try and arrange a three-way with both of them prior to taking them on vacation before even considering financing their trip for something that may or may not happen. If they're not okay with it they could ruin your vacation. Don't know about you, but my time away from work is sacred and I wouldn't risk it for a three-way. Try it at home first, see if they get along well at a bar or at a festival or some shit. If that works, then consider the vacation. Also be aware of the fact that you a… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/16 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Plate tells me she doesn't think it's healthy for her to have sex without commitment, then has sex with meShe's trying to get OP to commit to her. Her problem is she wants an exclusive relationship with OP. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | What's the most shocking story about a girl you personally know that confirms AWALT?I put "alpha" in quotes for that reason. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/16 07:02 PM |
| 3 | What's the most shocking story about a girl you personally know that confirms AWALT?Knew a girl in H.S. that hooked up with her boyfriend their freshman year and they seemed like the perfect couple. Fast forward 8 years and she finds her way to my house one day, turns out she's hooked on pills and has been since she was 16. Long story short, we bang for a while and over the course of a couple months I hear about all the times she's fucked around on her dude since she started doing pills. Of course she didn't say it that way but I was able to make the connection. She was basical… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/16 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Need help. My daughters mom just dropped a bomb.That's where you put on spooky costumes and scare her into submission right? | /r/MensRights | 23/08/16 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Did I read this girl correctly?If marriage is your goal you need to do it with a person that legitimately places as much value in the act of being married as you do. If you want to have kids and firmly believe that parents need to stick together for the children at the very least you need to find someone who believes the same as you do. The thing about not believing divorce is an option is it forces you to find a way to deal with those problems, ideally together. If you marry someone that does not look at divorce as a bad thi… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Need help. My daughters mom just dropped a bomb.Sounds more like someone who read the front page of TRP and considers themselves an expert. Most of us would never ever condone giving an ex you had a kid with money to try and get her to like you more. Dumb as fuck. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/16 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Need help. My daughters mom just dropped a bomb.It's not kidnapping. She can get hit for violating the custody agreement but the first few times it happens they just slap Mom on the wrist, maybe give her a small fine, and tell her not to do it again. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Need help. My daughters mom just dropped a bomb.I'm from Ohio and actually going through something extremely similar as I'm moving out of state. A lawyer will be able to give you better advice, but the understanding I've developed from my lawyer is that when residential custody has been established it can be very difficult to change. I would not get your hopes too high, but this may present an opportunity for you if she's the current residential parent. If you are the current residential parent you should still consult your lawyer, but you're… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/16 11:14 PM |
| 0 | NFL Rookie's Career Maybe Saved By Following "Always be Recording" Rule w/womenExhibitionism! Don't knock it till you try it. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/16 03:26 AM |
| 0 | NFL Rookie's Career Maybe Saved By Following "Always be Recording" Rule w/womenShe's got a Buckeye shirt on. Why am I not surprised she's from Ohio? The women are fucking insane here. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/16 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Vasectomy contingenciesso I don't have to use condoms with you If that's the primary reason OP got snipped it was a poorly thought out decision. Regardless, I wouldn't say it because there are a number of ways it can be interpreted and I doubt she'd appreciate any of them. I got snipped because I felt like it. Doesn't need to go any further than that. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/16 09:10 PM |
| -1 | Male PrivilegeI hate everything about that statistic. I have no doubt that the courts overwhelmingly favor women, my personal experience dictates that in my county it's definitely true and even state law stacks the cards against unmarried men in regards to custody. Still: there's not nearly enough research around that stat to substantiate it. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/16 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Things to do for 18-20?Hookah bars are alright, but it's kinda hipster-ish and if you don't have a date to take there with you they're not nearly as good for just randomly talking to people as an actual bar. Concerts are always a good place to score an easy hook-up. Doesn't really matter what kind of music, pretty much guaranteed to find something. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/16 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Need serious help with careerThen don't talk about it. As a general rule you don't want to bring up any negativity from previous workplaces unless you're using it as an example of what NOT to do. Example: "At my previous work place the IT guy gave everyone administrator privileges because he didn't want to have to install software for them. We got a virus. We shouldn't do that, we should use proper UAC." This is okay to talk about. "My coworkers at my previous job were a bunch of assholes. My boss never let me do anything i… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Response to the statement that "All redpillers are fedora wearing loners"?"I wear it so that I can tilt it for m'lady." Who gives a fuck? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 08:42 PM |
| 2 | How should fellow friends treat you?Myself and my friends shit on each other all the time, it probably makes up about 75% of the conversations we have. We also respect each other, and on the rare occasion a line is drawn we respect that as well. When a friend shits on you, shit on them in return. Don't do it to be vindictive, do it because it's fun and that's what friends do. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help with careerFirst: get rid of your roommates and live by yourself like any even moderately accomplished person does. If you don't have a healthy home life you'll never be able to sustain a healthy professional one. Second: if you want the job take it. Who gives a fuck about the people you used to work with? The entire reason you had a problem before was because you gave too much of a shit about them. They're your coworkers, not your friends. Don't play into office drama. Third: leave your personal shit at h… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/16 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong on tinder/bumble?just think women here think of tinder as a validation tool. I'm from the U.S. and this is definitely a common theme for any online dating. I'd wager at least half of the attractive women aren't ever going to actually go on a date with someone they meet on an app or online dating site. Even still, tons of women out there just looking for a sucker to buy them free dinner and drinks. My neighbor is fairly attractive, does the online dating, and almost exclusively uses it in that manner. That's why … | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 12:25 AM |
| 3 | My school had a student presentation to prove the objectification of women in the entirety of the workplace by looking at TWO restaurants: Hooters and the Tilted Kilt.Do they love their job because they get to grind on dudes and dance naked, or because they don't work much and make huge bank? Don't get me wrong, I've known some girls that enjoy the former but the latter seems to more typically be the case... and the latter is the point I was making. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | My school had a student presentation to prove the objectification of women in the entirety of the workplace by looking at TWO restaurants: Hooters and the Tilted Kilt.Wow, this has flown over my head for years now. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/16 01:57 PM |
| 13 | My school had a student presentation to prove the objectification of women in the entirety of the workplace by looking at TWO restaurants: Hooters and the Tilted Kilt.This is definitely 100% true for strippers. Don't get me wrong, a lot of the girls don't particularly enjoy doing the job... but the money is so easy and good that they're willing to put up with men slobbering all over them if it means they've got more than enough $$ to do whatever they want / need to do. I've always assumed girls at the TK / Hooters have the same mentality, they just don't have to take their clothes off and (as a result) likely make a bit less. Never actually asked one, though. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/16 01:51 PM |
| 1 | My school had a student presentation to prove the objectification of women in the entirety of the workplace by looking at TWO restaurants: Hooters and the Tilted Kilt.There's typically a required minimum tip for parties over X number of people, usually about 10 depending on the restaurant. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/16 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Father Holds His Daughters While They Cry In His Arms Begging Not To Go Back Home To Their Alleged Abusive Mother!As someone who has had to deal with a crazy as shit ex, when you start making it a point to throw false accusations around as she did the judge gets super pissed and slaps you with a fine, then tells you that you'll go to jail if you keep fucking around. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/16 07:05 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who don't do LTRs, why don't you?I'm actually someone that prefers an LTR, as long as it's with the right kind of girl. That being said: I just don't have time for it right now. I'm working full time, I'm a single parent, and I'm about to start going back to school so I can change up what I'm doing for a living. As it stands without college in the mix I only have maybe two nights a week that I can devote to hooking up with or spend time with a chick. it would take a hell of a lot of patience for any girl that wants an LTR to ge… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 12:15 AM |
| 1 | I realize I'm at the bottom on our social group and I dont know how to get out.Politics in the workplace range from extremely simple to slightly complicated, you aren't really giving us enough to go on. You mention that you are "unmatched at your work" but without context that doesn't give us much. Are you the fastest line cook at a fast food company or the architect of an application? I treat a coworker in my environment very similarly to the treatment you are receiving due to some shit he pulled on a personal level quite a while back and your situation is so similar to h… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/16 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Will the femnazis & pale knights try take me down?You could write a book about a single Dad that works at a coffee shop and his struggles to get by in daily life and people would complain about sexism. Fuck it: do what you want. Who gives a fuck what they think? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 09:36 AM |
| 1 | You guys suck at Tinder.Lie, and say it's what the doctor told you when you were 14. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/16 10:56 PM |
| 12 | You guys suck at Tinder.Another note on height: as someone who is 6' 4" I actually lie DOWN. 6'2" seems to be the magic number, any higher and it seems like they assume you're full of shit. Something to consider for my fellow tall guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/16 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Veteran chooses jail over giving his disability money to ex-wifeLegitimately curious to know how that works, if your home state is different which jurisdiction applies?. I imagine her home state would put out a warrant for your arrest regardless and you'd be sent back the next time you got pulled over or a cop ran your information. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/16 09:56 AM |
| 7 | From now on, your goal is to get rejected. A lot.I think you might have gotten this from another TRP post... maybe a year or so back? I can't remember for sure but I know I read it somewhere here on Reddit and started doing it. I don't go out of my way as you suggest, but at any random opportunity (especially like standing in line, drinking at a bar, parent teacher night, anything that makes the encounter more awkward or prolonged over a period of time is great) I just started approaching women / girls with the worst, most socially awkward att… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/16 11:03 PM |
| 7 | How to handle the aftermath of a longtime male friend propositioning you for sex (male)?If it were me and one of my friends I would probably give him shit about it going forward, but in a humorous way. It will help ease it off from "awkward as hell" to brotherly humiliation. Obviously you can't do this in front of your other friends, but it can be a good inside joke for the rest of the time the two of you know each other instead of a cringey embarrassing moment. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/16 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Whats up with MGTOW?To be honest at this point I probably identify more with MGTOW than I do TRP. What you said is pretty much true. I still get laid, I just don't make a concerted effort. If I don't have some chick of adequate quality pretty much throwing herself at me I just hire an escort when I'm in the mood. I don't do relationships, and I've got an extremely low tolerance for bullshit so when a chick starts becoming more trouble than the sex is worth I cut contact. All I really give a fuck about is making sur… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Two girls: do or do not?https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/43t9vq/two_girls_do_or_do_not/czl8559 | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Two girls: do or do not?The way it works here is I've got 30 days before they're considered residents, that's why I said a few weeks would be fine - as long as I give them the boot if I don't like where it's going. Still, as I put more thought into it I don't think it's worth the risk. As the first guy up there said: at the moment I'm not really comfortable with the idea of falling into a LTR or taking things much further than they already are. I get abundance mentality, but my only concern is if they're being legit I … | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Two girls: do or do not?Yea regardless of how things play out I don't plan on knocking them up any time in the near future, when I say "right girl" I'm talking years of investment and things still going good. I already did almost six years of child support with my first before I got custody on lock down, I don't plan to make that mistake ever again. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 06:02 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with haters?As far as rumors about you losing weight due to coke: amused mastery. Make a joke of it. As far as people who just hate you because you're better than them it depends on the situation. Generally speaking though, as it was put in some show I watched at some point: "A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of sheep." | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 12:13 AM |
| 4 | 6 months for using her dog to attack her landlord, his daughter, AND a law enforcement officer.Dude no kidding. The dog was put down, and for doing what it thought was right because it was taught to do that. The Animal Control chick suffered a crushed hand (multiple bones broken and 50 stitches) and a punctured lung. I didn't even find the details of what happened to the landlord and his 7 y.o. daughter. Any dude pulled this shit he'd probably get hit with multiple attempted murder charges and locked up for life. | /r/PussyPass | 23/01/16 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why Not Just Make Money And Buy Whores?They see them because to them it's worth it. The money is not a concern, their time and convenience is much more important. This is me, spot on. I'm at a point in my life where I'm still busting my ass for my job, taking classes to make my educational background better reflect my professional background, and taking care of my kid as a single Dad. I don't have time to chase women around or deal with their shit. However, $200 on the rare occasion that I'm in the mood? No problem. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 06:07 PM |
| 2 | There is a petition on Change.org trying to force the Boy Scouts of America to allow young/teenage girls to participate in the program, claiming 'discrimination'. They can join Girl Scouts, but no, they want Boy Scouts too.Yes I am aware, I was in Boy Scouts from 1st grade through until I was 18. My son just recently started Cub Scouts. It's an excellent program. I tried joining a Venture Crew at about 16 in addition to my regular troop but it wasn't nearly as in-depth or interesting as Boy Scouts. I only lasted for maybe a year in it before I stopped going. It was more like "Let's have an excuse to get together and go camping." | /r/MensRights | 08/01/16 02:30 AM |
| 3 | There is a petition on Change.org trying to force the Boy Scouts of America to allow young/teenage girls to participate in the program, claiming 'discrimination'. They can join Girl Scouts, but no, they want Boy Scouts too.Then I don't get what they're complaining about. If they don't like the Girl Scouts program they need to work to change that internally. The two organizations exist separately for a reason. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/16 12:01 AM |
| 1 | There is a petition on Change.org trying to force the Boy Scouts of America to allow young/teenage girls to participate in the program, claiming 'discrimination'. They can join Girl Scouts, but no, they want Boy Scouts too.Does it carry the same weight, though, is my question. I know just about everyone is aware of Eagle Scouts, and like I said it's well-respected in the professional community and carries an actual measurable reward in a military career. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/16 11:21 PM |
| 4 | There is a petition on Change.org trying to force the Boy Scouts of America to allow young/teenage girls to participate in the program, claiming 'discrimination'. They can join Girl Scouts, but no, they want Boy Scouts too.The exception is I don't believe you can join Venture scouts until you're either 15 or 16 and goes until age 21. Boy Scouts goes from roughly age 6/7 (first grade) until you're 18. I feel for the girls because, as far as I know, girl scouts doesn't have an equivalent to the "Eagle" of Boy Scouts - which can get you pretty far in getting a professional job and even an immediate promotion upon enlisting in the armed forces. I still say "Fuck no" to girls being allowed in actual Boy Scouts, though.… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/16 10:41 PM |
| -1 | How to fix "rape culture": Teach women to not throw their babies in the dumpsterWow, someone is pissy. Let's look at those two action opportunities: 138 upvotes for one, 51 upvotes for the other, and a combined 12 comments. If they weren't stickied and someone wasn't explicitly looking for them they'd never be seen. Since it always goes the same way I guess we should just say "fuck it" and not do anything while we upvote pictures and be absolutely toxic to anyone who challenges the way we do things. That'll make a difference. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/16 10:23 PM |
| 0 | How to fix "rape culture": Teach women to not throw their babies in the dumpsterOh I have no doubts about the need for an MRM, you're preaching to the choir. I didn't know about MRActivism so I am going to check it out, though it's extremely disheartening and kind of goes with my point when you see that the sub only has about 600 subscribers that are looking to do something about it versus this sub has about 114,000 willing to bitch about it. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/16 04:46 PM |
| 42 | How to fix "rape culture": Teach women to not throw their babies in the dumpsterRight. "This law is bullshit, let's write a letter to our senators!" said no one on this sub ever. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/16 02:46 PM |
| -2 | Why have they even mentioned a man.So when do we stop just posting this shit on Reddit and bitching about it and start taking action? Who is the provider for this dictionary program? If they refuse to fix the definition at what point can we file a lawsuit for sexism? | /r/MensRights | 06/01/16 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Give up on my nerdy hobbies?Out of curiosity, are you similar in age to OP? Because I'm pretty close and tend to aim for girls in their early 20's. Most don't care about video games but a lot of them play. Maybe it's a regional thing, maybe it's an age thing, but either way I don't find gaming to be a hindrance to SMV as long as you're not spending 16 hours a day playing World of Warcrack. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 05:12 PM |
| 15 | Reminder to men:Legitimate question: those of you that have ever "hated" yourself for being a man, when the fuck did that even start? And why? Like - I get hating your situation as a man, hating the way that men are treated or portrayed, and hating the expectations placed on men simply for being men. That I understand. I don't need to have that explained to me. However, I've never hated myself for being a man. How does that even start? | /r/MensRights | 16/12/15 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Mother's fury as baby sitter who raped her 11yo son avoids jail againI'm not defending the guy by any means, he's a dumbfuck for hooking up with a 14 year-old, but what really fucking pisses me off about this particular case is the way her community drove her to suicide following everything coming out in the open. I remember reading about this and getting into a "discussion" about it in a Reddit news thread or some shit. It just irks me, because everyone sits there and paints it out like this guy is the one who caused the girl to commit suicide. She wasn't suicid… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/15 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Got flaked on - try again or say fuck it?you know she's attempting to branch swing Is this where a chick is basically bouncing between more than one dude to try and figure out what she likes best? Because I'm guessing based on how recently she broke up with her ex this is what's happening, and aside from the obvious disrespect that's also why I'm inclined to say "fuck it" and on to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/15 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm going insane. I feel like I'm slipping back into the anger phase. Help me.I feel you, man. I'm terrible at texting, emails, etc. Lately I've been trying the whole tactic of simply ignoring attempts at conversations through text, literally telling chicks "I don't text," and requiring at least a phone call to communicate. Works better, I guess, but not by much. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/15 05:57 PM |
| 2 | What hamstering means?My understanding is that it's when someone rationalizes things with the intention of making themselves feel better, making someone else look worse, or both in spite of the fact that it doesn't make sense given what's actually happened. When someone says that someone else's "hamster is spinning" they're saying that they're trying their hardest to rationalize something so that it fits that model. I could be wrong, that's just what I've gathered from the discussions I've read. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/15 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Male Hamstering and Outright Lies.I can't relate to the whole bully thing. I wasn't exactly a "cool kid" at school, but I had a very direct approach with would-be bullies so I never had that problem. Best advice I can offer is that the past is the past. My frame doesn't break where it can be observed by other people. That's not to say I don't go through hard times, and that said hard times literally never break me - but it's more of a quiet alone-at-home ordeal. I typically avoid going out alone, but that's not because I feel se… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/15 12:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you quit anime?Fuck yea, they do. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/15 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Male Hamstering and Outright Lies.You spend too much time worrying about other people. You said it yourself: I know I should not care If you know this, apply it. Don't change your patterns out of fear of what people will think of you. Don't do shit differently because you think some stranger is going to think less of you. Don't tolerate your "friends'" absolute bullshit because you think it's better to have a bit of slight admiration than to have no friends at all. Worthwhile friends are hard to come by, and eventually you'll fi… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/15 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Male Hamstering and Outright Lies.Ignorance is bliss. One of the things you seem to be forgetting about "hamstering" and rationalization is that the people that do it legitimately believe what they're saying to be true. That's the whole thing about rationalization... they are doing it to make themselves feel better. There's nothing you can do to stop this behavior. You can try to subtly guide them in the right direction: improving their own lives so that they no longer have to bullshit themselves and other people to feel better.… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 06:40 AM |
| 0 | How do you quit anime?Also Samurai Champloo. I mean sure... it's basically two guys escorting one chick across a country and they never get any action from her... But they barely take her shit, and they're bad-asses. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 06:28 AM |
| 5 | Being strong gets thrown around a lot. How do you be strong (besides physically)?Couple things. First and foremost, don't give a shit about what other people think. Not really. I mean it's important that people grant you some respect, it's important that you're confident, and it's important that you "maintain frame." However, if someone thinks it's stupid / gay for you to go take a hip-hop dance lesson but you really wanna take that dance lesson then go do it. Don't let other people determine what's best for you, do what the fuck you want with the goal of making your life be… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 06:21 AM |
| 6 | The Dear Mother of My ChildLook... I'll do just about anything for the right amount of money... so for the right amount: I'd hit that shit again. Barring those circumstances: I'm going to assume you've never been in a situation like this. It's fucked up because you're literally forced to have interactions with this person that you would otherwise have absolutely fucking nothing to do with. It's not like a normal relationship (or non-relationship) where you can just shrug her off, blow her off, have zero interaction with h… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 06:43 AM |
| 3 | The Dear Mother of My ChildSomeone else nailed it, actually: From /u/jb_trp I'm guessing you make a lot more money than her current boyfriend, and are probably a better father figure, and she wants to procure your goods and services. I hope you haven't had sex with this woman recently. And if you have, demand a paternity test when she accuses you of being the father. I make more money, have more status, and I'm more attractive. I'm better than her current boyfriend in all measures of SMV. Not being cocky here, it's just a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 06:24 AM |
| 3 | The Dear Mother of My ChildTo be fair: still the best lay I ever had. 17, young, and dumb results in shit like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 06:21 AM |
| 3 | The Dear Mother of My ChildMy ego doesn't need any more boosts. Still, yes. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 06:20 AM |
| 5 | The Dear Mother of My ChildFortunately I live in a locale where she can put my name on the certificate, tell it to the welfare office, etc.... I'll receive a sealed notice at my work, I'll see said notice, sick my lawyer on her, take a paternity test, and be free and clear. Not something I need to worry about. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 06:17 AM |
| 1 | The Dear Mother of My ChildI'll risk sounding cocky. while the boyfriend would be all up in op's face He knows better. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 06:12 AM |
| 3 | The Dear Mother of My ChildProblem is I'm not completely against having kids in the future if I find a chick that is legitimately worth my time and commitment. I'll just wrap it up and stick to fresh meat. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 06:07 AM |
| 5 | The Dear Mother of My ChildWell, the right thing to do would have been to just hook up and appreciate the opportunity to feast on her clam. It's not like she offers it to every Tom, Dick, and Harry. Nine months later: I'm clearly a better father than her boyfriend could ever be and, therefore, I should provide for the child as if it were my own. It's for the good of the child! | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 06:04 AM |
| 1 | The Dear Mother of My ChildWhere I live she could tell the hospital I'm the father, tell the welfare agency I'm the father, preach to the highest mountains that I'm the father. They'll send a notice to my work, I'll take a paternity test, and I'll be fine. I'm aware that I'm lucky for that. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 06:01 AM |
| 1 | The Dear Mother of My ChildYou got downvoted to oblivion, and that sucks. Where you're wrong is saying simply "give her the exact money." When you're in a situation like this, cash is not an option. If you REALLY feel the need to provide her cash you do it via an electronic transfer - the important thing is the paper trail. Generally speaking, though, what someone in a situation where Mom really needs something (e.g. diapers, food, etc.) should do is to buy the things that she needs to provide for child, keep the receipt,… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 05:52 AM |
| 3 | The Dear Mother of My ChildRecording laws vary by location. For example: where I'm at I don't require the consent or knowledge of the other party to record them. That being said, while I'm sure this likely varies by location, denying visitation even knowing full well that the other parent can't take care of the child technically puts you in contempt of court and, therefore, YOU get in trouble for it. There are measures you can take in a situation like that, but when you find out the day of (as is typical) you don't have e… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 05:43 AM |
| 1 | The Dear Mother of My Childplus you have a SUPER easily readable record of the transaction to show where your money went Very much yes. To keep things simple, though: simply following the above direction of sending your child to their mothers' house with adequate food accompanied by a receipt (keep the receipt, to be clear) and a text message that says "I sent our son/daughter with food for the weekend" is just as effective. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 05:39 AM |
| 5 | The Dear Mother of My ChildHe's actually right, though. Here's the fucked up thing: you can't tell her "no, you can't take our son this weekend" even if you know she doesn't have the means to provide. You are then in contempt of court because you refused to allow her to have the child during the allotted time. Now, if she takes him in spite of not having the means to provide and, therefore, he doesn't eat all weekend it does look extremely fucking bad for her. Like... you can file for emergency custody and shit bad. But..… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 05:31 AM |
| 2 | The Dear Mother of My ChildFair enough. Trust me though: this one isn't worth the headache. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 04:41 AM |
| 2 | The Dear Mother of My ChildCorrect. I was neither saying he was, nor that he's not named Luke. I was very wary about posting to TRP. Of course, when someone asked for clarification I said fuck it. "Not named Luke" isn't quite enough to Dox me. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 04:32 AM |
| 8 | The Dear Mother of My ChildBest advice I can give: the strong man will always find a way. That $600 is not shit compared to 18 years of child support. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 04:30 AM |
| 4 | The Dear Mother of My ChildIt varies by where you live. Where I live, she goes to the court and says "It's his kid, so he owes me child support." At that point, a smart man will say "Well, I'm not sure. I don't think it's my kid." If you don't take this step, you pay child support. Assuming you denied that it's your child, the court will say "Okay, prove it." At that point, as the man you are required to go and finance a paternity test. With a court order she'll be forced to partake (give her DNA) as well. You don't NEED … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 04:08 AM |
| 4 | The Dear Mother of My ChildShe could have tried. If you dig through the comments, someone has already asked. You could tell in the ultrasounds that it was my son, and despite that fact I got a paternity test and he is my son without a doubt. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 01:24 AM |
| 2 | The Dear Mother of My ChildShe only stripped for about two weeks, that I know of. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 11:38 PM |
| 3 | The Dear Mother of My ChildTotally not saying it's not worth it, I think every man should get a paternity test, even if they're 90% sure it's their kid. Like I said in another comment, he was a spitting image of me, she would have had to reproduce with a serious doppelganger to provide those results. Still got a paternity test. Better safe than sorry. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 11:35 PM |
| 9 | The Dear Mother of My ChildThanks, will try to classify better next time. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 11:02 PM |
| 3 | The Dear Mother of My ChildI think most men who date around find themselves in a situation like that. It's unfortunate, but it opens your eyes. At least you didn't knock her up, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 11:00 PM |
| 1 | The Dear Mother of My ChildThat'd be nice for a situation like mine where (at the time of the test) I didn't have any legal reason to need it. Guarantee you the $600 test will be required to be considered in court, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 10:09 PM |
| 3 | The Dear Mother of My ChildIt varies. As far as I'm aware, no one requires a paternity test for child support... you can simply get one and contest the support if you're proven to not be the likely father. Some places will charge you child support if she simply puts your name on the birth certificate and you don't contest it in a timely fashion. Some places will charge you child support if you and her were married and are divorcing, even if none of her kids are yours, because you assume responsibility as the father when y… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 10:06 PM |
| 8 | The Dear Mother of My ChildHis time is my money, so I'm saving my story for the next time we have to communicate about something important. I have no doubt that he will; he finds most interactions with her fairly humorous. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 10:01 PM |
| 3 | The Dear Mother of My ChildI'm aware, but someone else in the thread pointed out that it could have been a result of coming down off drugs. While I'm aware that she doesn't want to bang when that's the case, she has a history. The experiment was a way to confirm one way or the other. Just trying to hook back up? Wanted money? Condom-sex would have been fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 09:58 PM |
| 3 | The Dear Mother of My ChildThis is a very real possibility for her, she's already been hooked once. That's how I ended up with primary custody, and it's already the reason I went ahead and gave my experiment a shot. If she was just trying to hook back up with me, get money, etc. she'd have been fine with condom-sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 09:55 PM |
| 8 | The Dear Mother of My ChildShe doesn't have a car, and why pay for one when there's always a guy willing to transport her? I realize that, in this situation, I was that guy but... I needed a parental plan put together and I needed a signature. My time is much cheaper than my lawyer's. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 09:44 PM |
| 51 | The Dear Mother of My ChildNo, bad idea. There's a whole slew of potential risk; first and foremost: while it does seem obvious I still can't say with absolute certainty that she is in fact already pregnant. I haven't seen test results, she didn't piss on a stick for me and she's not going to. Second: This isn't a girl that I can just put on the "ignore" list for my phone and stop interactions with when I'm done fucking her. I have to deal with her for at least the next 12 years, and while it's not my responsibility to ke… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 09:37 PM |
| 16 | The Dear Mother of My ChildI can provide an update when I get more information. Like I said, I'd expect to find out about it in a month or two. She'll likely ask me to pay for the abortion. I'm not even kidding. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 09:11 PM |
| 5 | The Dear Mother of My ChildI am very good at interacting with other people, the catch is that I am only good at it in person. I can get what I want from her, but I can't do that over text message / e-mail. I could spend hundreds (if not thousands) of dollars paying my lawyer to do it, or I can do it myself for the cost of a trip across town, a headache, and couple hours of my time. I like my money. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 09:01 PM |
| 10 | The Dear Mother of My ChildWe were never married. To answer your question, though: I was relatively BP-ish when it came to actually being in a relationship back in the day prior to my entire mess with her. The signs were definitely there, but I was too ignorant/brainwashed to see them for what they were. I didn't discover TRP till late last year, but the entire experience with her basically unplugged me. Won't fall for that shit again, for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 08:58 PM |
| 8 | The Dear Mother of My ChildI don't see how it would matter, but due to the whole custody thing all of our communications (even in person) are recorded. Thanks to law in my local state, I am able to do this without her consent or knowledge. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 08:56 PM |
| 16 | The Dear Mother of My ChildThis is typically the attitude I take and it works for me: the end-result is that she leaves him with me (if she legitimately can't take care of him) or she magically finds a way to take care of him without using my money. This may not work for everyone. /u/RealRational is correct in his statement. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 08:50 PM |
| 23 | The Dear Mother of My ChildDuring my son's first year of life my parents were going through bankruptcy. They moved out of state and I "inherited" their 5 bedroom, full basement house while waiting for the bank to come and claim it. I rented out 3 of the rooms to strippers, and they kinda played bodyguard for me when it came to my son's mother. It was, indeed, hilarious. If I get an LTR, I'll be sure to share. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 06:41 PM |
| 63 | The Dear Mother of My ChildYou know, it seems like scary shit... but you eventually get used to it. If anything, when you've had a child with a chick and it doesn't go well you become an adept at these kinds of situations. They play off exactly that shit as much as they possibly can. Boyfriend and her are fighting? Expect to get blown up, because she's going to want to spend time with / bang you to piss her boyfriend off. Lost her job? "You don't want your kid's mom to be homeless! I need money to do stuff with him! If yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 06:29 PM |
| 30 | The Dear Mother of My ChildI've already got a lawyer, my bases are covered. I'd say I'm surprised she thought I was so dumb that she could even try this, but she does tend to think she's exceedingly clever. Hint: she's not. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 06:18 PM |
| 51 | The Dear Mother of My ChildI totally agree, except that someone would have to foot the bill. I know when I got mine done it was like $600, which was almost a month's salary for me at the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 06:17 PM |
| 21 | The Dear Mother of My ChildShe's fucked up so much that nothing short of drugs / abuse will affect my time with my son. Custody is on my terms, now. As far as the girlfriend thing goes, I definitely favor LTR's but between my son, my career, and my recent endeavors to get more in-shape I haven't really had the time to go looking. The few girls I have hooked up with over the past few months weren't really what I considered LTR material. I guess I'm kind of in monk mode, maybe in a few months I'll consider it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 06:14 PM |
| 41 | The Dear Mother of My ChildIf he was, I'd have overused that joke years ago and he'd probably be tired of it by now. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 05:55 PM |
| 63 | The Dear Mother of My ChildI considered it, but the drama isn't worth my time. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 05:39 PM |
| 32 | The Dear Mother of My ChildI hope you haven't had sex with this woman recently. Not for over a year, and I won't. I can't just cut contact with her (obviously) but I sure as hell don't have to bang her. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 05:29 PM |
| 79 | The Dear Mother of My ChildNo doubt. Looks just like me, got a paternity test after he was born anyways and confirmed: I am the father. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Warn brother about potential risks of his new LTR?Did it occur to you that he's probably aware that he could easily get a younger one, being that he's spun plates, and he simply doesn't want to? You've never met this chick, and the most dirt you've got on her is she was divorced once... not uncommon for someone nearing 40 years of age. She doesn't have kids, so it's not like he's playing Daddy and getting stuck with the bill for some other dude's offspring. Long-term relationships happen, some people prefer them regardless of their position on … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 02:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I pass bar-fight type shit tests?Thank God someone else around here realizes that fighting isn't always about having to prove shit to someone. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 01:12 PM |
| 2 | How do I pass bar-fight type shit tests?To avoid this entirely: travel with a bigger pack. The drunken idiot that is most likely to provoke a fight you can't get out of / walk away from is the one who has a bunch of his friends with him and feels the need to prove himself. If you're among a group of friends, chances are he won't fuck with you. If he does, his friends will make a concerted effort to get him away from you and your crew before you ever even have to respond. If that's not an option, or you're concerned about someone ragin… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/15 08:33 PM |
| 25 | Friend of mine took his son for a haircut, hair cutter lady wouldn't give him a mohawk "without his mother here."I donno about that. Went to get my son a haircut before he started Kindergarten and he made it a point to inform the people at the shop, even the ones that weren't cutting his hair, that he did NOT want a buzz cut. Needless to say, I'd been giving him budget cuts myself for years. Never had a clue he hated it so much. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/15 04:33 PM |
| 5 | So it finally happened, I spent yesterday in a jail cell.I don't know about the U.K., but I know here in the United States you can get felonies for "hacking" someone's e-mail, even if all you do is sign in with the username and password without consent. Might be worth talking to a lawyer. Most e-mail services can provide a list of IP addresses you have authenticated from, and from there the provider can often tell you who was using said IP address at the time. Get that psycho off your back. The best defense is a strong offense IMO. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Manipulative other-parent?I guess for some reason I never thought this kind of thing warranted my lawyer's attention... which is a really stupid thing to think the more I consider it. Same with the therapy, we've always been separated so I guess I figured the whole separation thing would just be "normal" to him. Thanks for the input. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/15 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Manipulative other-parent?I have never heard of a child behaviorist, I'll look into it. Thanks, m8. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/15 08:55 PM |
| 11 | BBC News - A woman who had sex with a 15-year-old schoolboy has been warned she "could" face jail. - Glad to know jail is optional for female rapists!Even with a confession you still have to go through legal process. She hasn't been sentenced. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/15 11:30 PM |
| 20 | BBC News - A woman who had sex with a 15-year-old schoolboy has been warned she "could" face jail. - Glad to know jail is optional for female rapists!Second this. I could go murder someone and drag their body into the police department and they still won't be able to say that I will face time in prison until after sentencing. They can only say that I could. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/15 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Business failed, no income, wife left me, alone, no friends, no family, don't know what to doDude, the first step is to stop feeling sorry for yourself and look at the positive. There is no one and nothing holding you down. If I were in your situation my first thing to do would be snag a job in a completely different state, if not a completely different country, and start a completely new life with the intention of enjoying it to the fullest. Most jobs that will hire a developer will even offer some extra cash on the side to help you move to their location. You're only 30 years old. Sto… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/15 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill advice on child support, divorcing a BPDI'm not denying that the laws are stupid, just stating it in the off chance a non-married soon to be Dad stumbles across the thread. We have the age thing here as well, but I think it's at age 13. And you're right: if one parent is particularly shitty the kids usually pick up on it by that age. Problem is you gotta keep your head above water till then. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/15 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill advice on child support, divorcing a BPDThe title of "residential parent" is assigned in the custody agreement. If it's up for debate a judge will, in all likelihood, assign it to the parent who is responsible for the child's care the majority of the time. It's primarily used for school placement purposes and gives the parent who holds it a little bit more sway when dealing with cops (in my experience). It may be possible for him to be the residential parent even though he isn't going to be responsible for his child's care the majorit… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/15 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill advice on child support, divorcing a BPDHe needs to get in touch with a family lawyer immediately. I'd recommend mine but unfortunately I'm in Columbus. No one here, even those of us who have been through this shit in Ohio, are going to be able to tell him what's best in his individual situation. Based on what you've said I think you should talk to him about whether or not it's best that he takes a position on the sideline like that, but ultimately it's his choice and if he's not fully committed he will crumble. As for child support, … | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill advice on child support, divorcing a BPDThis is actually very bad advice for Ohio if you have a kid with the person. As a father you have zero legal rights to the child unless you were married and the only rights you get are the ones you earn in court/mediation. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 09:40 PM |
| 7 | Broke up with my LTR of 2 + years.. not handling it wellEverytime I see a couple arguing it makes me glad I'm not in an LTR anymore Or every time a friend says he can't grab a beer because "the wife will see it on the bank statement." Or when a friend can't confirm he'll be at a party because he "has to ask his girlfriend," inevitably resulting in him not being at said party. Also, Valentine's day. I, too, am proud to be single (most of the time). | /r/askTRP | 24/02/15 07:38 PM |
| 15 | Tease Your Girl: The Atomic Bomb of Lustreplacing the make up in her cosmetics bag with crayons This is fucking brilliant. Why did I never think of this? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 11:13 AM |
| 25 | TRP makes it seem like "getting plates" is as easy as getting groceries.I think you're only getting part of the message. From what I understand, a huge portion of TRP is about self-improvement. The ease of getting plates comes as a result of that. It's not like someone can give you a bullet-point list that says "this is how you have regular sex with multiple women without any type of emotional investment" and then magically it's, as you said, like going to the grocery store. One thing I can guarantee you, however, is that if you work to improve yourself physically (… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in women anymore?You just dropped a whole bunch of acronyms I don't understand on me, but it couldn't hurt to see a doctor I suppose. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/15 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Not interested in women anymore?I find it curious that it seems like half of TRP says do nofap while the other half says don't do nofap. Regardless, this extends to porn. Like I said, I've got zero interest beyond the occasional "I do because I feel like I should." I've never been a fan of the nofap plan, but I might as well be on that train because I've got no interest in partaking in the pr0n. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/15 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Not interested in women anymore?Kick-back time probably couldn't hurt. I'm running pretty much non-stop every day between work, kid, very slowly dying old guy, and now recently school (again). Depression? Yea sure, I guess. I've dealt with that on and off for like 12 years now though, it's nothing new. I was raised to internalize my feelings and all that shit, so I've had a pretty solid handle on it. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/15 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Not interested in women anymore?I did burn out on actively pursuing women on a regular basis a while back, that's pretty much when I decided to open up to the possibility of a LTR. Was a while back, nothing panned out but I had fun in the meantime. I have been under a lot of stress, but you'd figure that'd make me want to get some release more often. At least in the past that's typically been my reaction. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/15 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Not interested in women anymore?I'm only 26, soon to be 27. Brain fog, sleeplessness, and feeling wrecked after getting home from work are all definitely very familiar feelings. I think I'm probably a bit young to be experiencing testosterone problems, though. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/15 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Is the way I "do parenting" hindering my ability to score a LTR?Realize though that you will have more trouble dating as a single father than you would otherwise. You are a much larger committment to a woman than a totally single man would be, and that's going to be a bit scary for women. I'm well aware of this, and it's why I typically neglect to mention it until I've been on a few dates. It's amazing how much easier it is to keep them around long enough for a casual fling or some less-than-casual dating if I simply neglect to mention I'm a single father. T… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/15 11:10 PM |
| 19 | What is WITH Dudes and Their Exes?No matter what the finer details, it's "easy." It's easier to talk to a chick you're already familiar with than to go talk to a new one. It's easier to hook up with a chick that already knows she likes to bang you than to try and convince a new one to do so. It's easier to go back to someone you're already familiar with than to try and get comfortable with someone new. To some people something being easy is enough reason to not pursue something better. I got stuck in this loop with my kid's mom … | /r/askTRP | 12/01/15 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Need advice - Ex-gf is pregnant with mine, has intense emotional issues - Prepping for Custody BattleDon't these types of actions I take indicate strong paternal instinct behavior? It shows that you want to do whatever you have to for your kid, so maybe I guess. Don't take pride in it, though. Just remember that she's NOT the kid. If you help her stabilize then you help her keep your kid under her control. From what you've said about this woman that is NOT a good thing for your kid. Is this stupid? No. As said by the Notorious B.I.G.: "Never let em know your next move, don't you know bad boys m… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Need advice - Ex-gf is pregnant with mine, has intense emotional issues - Prepping for Custody BattleHe covered the important stuff. Legal representation as early as possible is extremely important. I just have a few things to add as a single father that recently (finally) secured custody from his son's crazy mother: Stop "saving" her. The next time her mother calls the police on her let them come and let them arrest her. Come up with any excuse you can think of for why you can't make it or didn't make it on time. Tire blew, got pulled over, who gives a fuck. Stop worrying about her "mental sta… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Confidence in ruinsI can't really help with the whole "caring too much what people think about me" thing because generally speaking I simply don't and I never really have. The best I can say is "just don't," and if it were that simple then you probably would have stopped already. However: Part of my downfall is not knowing exactly what I want out of life, I have general ideas. I don't know if this is a good "Red Pill" response, but: goals, man. Set goals, short term and long, and accomplish them. Accomplishments a… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 10:55 PM |
| 1 | First Red Pill realization"Frame control" is something that you should do naturally as a leader, they literally train you for that shit if you take good leadership courses. The fact that he's your boss and he does this just means that he's at least decent at his job. Are you trying to sleep with him or something? If not, then continue with whatever adjustments you're making on your own and don't worry about it. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Is it smart to not argue with angry and rude feminists?I think internet warriors argue til they fall asleep and not worth it. This isn't just true of "Internet warriors." Whether you're dealing with someone on the Internet or someone in real life if they resort to name-calling and it's abundantly clear that no matter what you say they aren't going to change their mind it's pointless to waste time on it. If you feel the need to speak your piece then do it. If they put effort into rationalizing it away or can't even come up with an intelligent respons… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 10:29 PM |
| 2 | What's fun group ideas?I don't know about where you're at, but here people under the age of 21 are allowed into pool halls - they just can't drink alcohol there. Most of the time you can score one of the cheaper tables that take quarters or (if you've got the cash to play with) reserve one of the nice ones for the night. I should say I'm not great at pool, but as long as you can accept it and stay confident in spite of that fact not being the best on the table shouldn't hurt your "SMV" too much. I've never had problem… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 09:42 PM |
| 9 | So a good friend just became a dad against his will, and I'm terrified.You can get a court ordered paternity test if she refuses to allow it. Paternity has to be established before she can get child support, so she's shit out of luck if he refuses to allow the courts to establish paternity without one. Do you have a link for why feminists are trying to make paternity testing illegal? I would love to read the rationalization behind that one. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 08:48 PM |
| 0 | So a good friend just became a dad against his will, and I'm terrified.This is a possibility you learn about in sex ed: if you bang there's a chance that a little one is gonna be popping out of that fun-hole 9 months later. The only thing you CAN do is use protection every time regardless of whether or not she claims to be on birth control, stay the hell away from the baby-crazy (or just plain crazy for that matter) ones, and handle anything that slips through the cracks (no pun intended) appropriately. Chick says she's knocked up with your kid and you used protect… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/14 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Committed LTR + Children without marriage possible.....First off: research your local laws before you ever consider an arrangement like this because it turns out that, given my assets at the time, I would have been better off if I married my son's mother and then divorced her as I would have likely been given and retained custody of my son without the disgusting and illogical mess that was an on and off 5 year battle in custody court. Second: yes, these women do exist but (from what I've seen) they're usually significantly lower "quality" women. The… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 04:18 PM |
| 1 | AMOG/negative people in a college town bar settingFull disclosure: I don't think people would say I've fully "swallowed the Red Pill." I'm a pretty big dude, between my size and presence I don't usually have a lot of problems like this. On the rare occasions I do I'll give a snarky, amused retort such as "No, you don't have the proper equipment to be worth my time. You on the other hand..." It shows they aren't shit to me, dismisses them as such, and acts as a bit of a smack in the face to a dude that has been trying to get in close with the gi… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 05:10 PM |
| 7 | 6 year old boy kisses female classmate on the HAND - suspended for sexual harassment. 7 yr old Lena Dunham plays with 1 year old's vagina.......Challenge accepted. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/14 03:32 PM |
| 2 | On the subject of children...It just means that not getting pregnant isn't on their list of priorities. They get "comfortable" with you in the relationship and all of a sudden the thought of having kids goes from provoking fear to (best case) "meh, it wouldn't be so bad" or even worse: "I want to have kids and lock him down." Chicks that truly don't want kids don't forget or "mess up." Not in my experience, anyways. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/14 09:40 PM |
| 2 | On the subject of children...You're never really ready for kids, at least that's what people who were older than I was when I had kids tell me. I had one at 20, so I definitely wasn't ready but in the end things have worked out. Your priorities shift a bit and you'll essentially become number two on your list as the needs of your kid(s) begin to stack up. Just gotta make shit happen, it's not as bad as people make it out to be. I can tell you that if you have a son it suddenly becomes extremely important that you behave in … | /r/askTRP | 06/11/14 09:12 PM |
| 3 | GF drifting. We have a son. I'm across the country.I have dealt with all this shit for almost 6 years now, during one of which was a situation very similar to yours. No matter what, you need to talk to a lawyer that specializes in family court. Don't let anything else sidetrack you from that goal first, because you (as a man) are fucked in court without one. Next, you need to be absolutely sure that you are ready for the battle that is family court. The shit goes on for years and I'm not exaggerating. If you're willing to work to secure custody … | /r/askTRP | 03/11/14 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Proper response? Or should I have done differently?Yea I guess the problem is if I can help one of my dudes swim instead of sink I'd rather do that. It's not like I have anything to lose from it. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/14 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Proper response? Or should I have done differently?If she sees that he is coming between you two(which hes not because you dont want her) then she will kick him out of orbit so you wont have to deal with it again. This is actually pretty brilliant. The next time this happens (and I'm sure it's going to, just with a different chick) I'll try it. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/14 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Proper response? Or should I have done differently?I have a feeling the whole thing with him running to her has already happened, I know he told her about a cam girl I was messing around with (presumably to show her I was already hooking up with a different chick) but, naturally, it had the opposite effect. Question is: can I get him to break the cycle? He did break it with her finally, but he's already onto the next chick and starting to work his way into orbit again. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/14 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Proper response? Or should I have done differently?Why not use this girl to show him how women are? What do you mean by that, exactly? Like - I've finally gotten him to the point where he doesn't orbit her specifically anymore but I shit you not he's already got a new one that he's floating around with the mindset of "I need to get to know her really well before I consider dating her." Basically he's going to land in the same place he was before with a new chick. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/14 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Proper response? Or should I have done differently?If you don't want to hook up with this chick why do you care? Practice makes perfect, figured I'd try something and see if it worked. Far as I can tell it did. I was just irritated that one of my dudes was playing her games in a manner that I'd perceive to be "against me." I could cut him out, but as I said when women aren't involved he's a pretty good friend; hence why I ask if anyone has experience with dealing with these kinds of people and inquired as to whether or not anyone has experience … | /r/askTRP | 02/11/14 11:20 PM |
| 14 | Women have the right to be as drunk and stupid as men...AND cry rape the next morning!Fact: it's perfectly legal for a woman to go out and get just as drunk as any man, your genitalia has no impact on how much you can drink. In any context I'm familiar with it's already considered to be perfectly acceptable behavior. It's also a well known fact that there are people who will take advantage of people who are in a less-than-sufficient state of mind. There are men AND women who go to bars and prey on drunks for their sexual gratification. They're out there now and there will always … | /r/MensRights | 24/10/14 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Details of Eron's court case, Zoe Quinn's ex who wrote thezoepost surface, try not to rageDidn't the whole thing start because she broke up with him? Or he broke up with her? Maybe I just don't have the right information. I mean yea - the end of a relationship, especially an emotionally abusive one, is a bitch. I actually missed my son's mother for a good year or so and had a lot of issues with starting other relationships because of it. Still do. She was on her way out the door, though. The only thing that's changed is instead of dealing with the "normal" post break-up bullshit now … | /r/MensRights | 03/10/14 02:18 PM |
| -10 | Details of Eron's court case, Zoe Quinn's ex who wrote thezoepost surface, try not to rageExcept for posting all the details of their relationship on the Internet for the world to read. If I were his friend, I'd have told him to just move on and be glad the bitch was gone. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/14 01:19 PM |
| 2 | A Legal Primer to Common Law Relationships (Canadian Edition)Once you create a baby you automatically are trapped by child support, so you might alter your strategy after that point. I'm sure this varies greatly depending on the state, but if you are in Ohio and you knock a chick up you sure as hell had better marry that bitch if you have even the slightest suspicion that she will keep the child and try to keep said child from you. You don't inherit any rights to your child as a father here unless you're married. Took me 5 years to get (mostly) full custo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/14 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Friends' exes always trying to jump on me, how does TRP explain this?I like these answers (minus number 4, of course) and they pretty much fall in line with my own theories. Good to know I'm not the only one seeing through the bullshit and I was able to fish out someone else who understands this shit the same way I do. I think number one is especially true, it's the only distinction between someone who's been orbiting her for the past X days/weeks/months waiting for his chance versus someone who's already in the circle. I think number 3 could be tied in with it p… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/14 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Friends' exes always trying to jump on me, how does TRP explain this?Women don't know the concept of loyalty. Remember hypergamy. I guess this is the most obvious answer - I just have trouble understanding the mindset I guess. Also wondering why an 8/10 would want to hook up with me seriously is one of those problems I would really like to have... I probably phrased it poorly. If I'm out in a random social situation and an 8/10 takes interest in me then yea - it's definitely not a problem. When you have to weigh the relationship with one of your dudes against pla… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/14 10:12 PM |
| 7 | Protecting your daughter against Plate spinners.Consider getting rid of your TV. Fucking hell. As someone who doesn't own a TV and constantly gets shit about it, it's extremely nice to see someone else who thinks those things are an absolute waste of time, money, and space. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/14 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Single Moms Are The Only Thing Worse Than SlutsI'm only 26, but my son is 5 so I have to be especially mindful of allowing anyone to become a regular part of our lives. So the old blue pill frame of mind we want to fall in love. We would see past the flaws of a significant other and realize we had flaws ourselves. We would expose our vulnerability to women and expect likewise. This would leave us a clingy, enthusiastic mess ripe for a sociopathic woman to come along and exploit. This was me before the relationship with my son's mother went t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Single Moms Are The Only Thing Worse Than SlutsOh well shit, by that definition I'm clear then. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Single Moms Are The Only Thing Worse Than SlutsThat was another reason I backed off, the whole oneitis thing. I'm new here, still mostly a lurker, and I still don't understand the difference between oneitis and pursuing a long-term relationship. People told me I had "oneitis" for a cam girl I was considering hooking up with, so I either develop oneitis for every girl I encounter and multiple girls at a time or I am terrible at explaining myself. Either way, though, I figured I had the oneitis thing going on so I backed off a couple weeks ago… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 03:07 PM |
| 9 | Single Moms Are The Only Thing Worse Than SlutsSerious question, because you seem to know what you're talking about. I almost got roped in by a single Mom but backed off not because of the single parent aspect (I'm a single father with full custody myself) but because the amount of drama surrounding this girl and her friends just plain irritated me. By your theory this girl would have been knocked up and then proceeded to drain her son's father dry while she pursues someone else. Problem is that she has her son full time, but has never pursu… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Cam GirlTrust me I'm well aware, she wouldn't be the first to be disappointed when she realized pussy != reduction in fees. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/14 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Cam GirlI think this rule is why I'm conflicted. Like I said, the whole cam thing doesn't really bother me. Guess I've gotta come to a conclusion one way or the other after I get the initial build done. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/14 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Cam GirlUnless the cash up front is worth your time, This is why I'm doing the website, I guess I didn't explain it well enough when I originally posted. I'm not expecting the 10% to be anything substantial, and once the site is up and running there will be virtually no effort on my part. Regardless, there is upfront pay and I've made sure that it's worth my time. There's no good way to monitor her profit Records of all profit going through the website is going to be more than accessible to me, and that… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/14 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Cam GirlThis is kind of how I feel about it. Wanted to get some outside perspective, though. As expected, I've heard both sides. I'm still not seeing what's wrong with hooking up with her for a while until something new/better comes along. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/14 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Cam Girlyou want a challenge. This is probably the most legit thing I've read so far. I think the two of us have a different outlook on cam girls, but I can see where you're going with it. Basically she doesn't have to use her mind (or in her case, talent as an artist) to make ends meet. Guess it's a question of how easy she makes it if I decide to pursue, I'll be the first to admit an easy fuck is a boring one. get your 10% I tried to point out I really don't care about this in the post. I'm not expect… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/14 04:16 PM |
| 1 | I slept with a girl and now she's pregnant. She's putting the child up for adoption, which I agree with, but in the papers for the agency, it says that she represents the child was conceived through sexual assault.Good luck man. There's a lot of us that have suggestions but that lawyer is going to be able to tell you best what to do. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/14 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I slept with a girl and now she's pregnant. She's putting the child up for adoption, which I agree with, but in the papers for the agency, it says that she represents the child was conceived through sexual assault.Believe me I know, but the point I'm making is that if the child is being put up for adoption that means there will be no child support, there will be no custody battle, etc. If he was saying "if this is my child I do NOT want it to be put up for adoption" then I would say hell yes, take a paternity test and snag your kid. EDIT: My suggestion would be to not establish paternity at all, especially since they aren't married and it won't grant him anything he can't get further down the line from a … | /r/MensRights | 02/07/14 02:44 PM |
| -2 | I slept with a girl and now she's pregnant. She's putting the child up for adoption, which I agree with, but in the papers for the agency, it says that she represents the child was conceived through sexual assault.Didn't consider that, though if sexual assault goes out the window and the child is definitely being put up for adoption I still don't see the point in wasting all the money for a paternity test. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/14 06:36 PM |
| 5 | I slept with a girl and now she's pregnant. She's putting the child up for adoption, which I agree with, but in the papers for the agency, it says that she represents the child was conceived through sexual assault.If they're both favoring giving up the child for adoption then who cares about a DNA test? He just needs to make sure he's not on paper as having committed a sexual assault. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/14 05:48 PM |
| 5 | I slept with a girl and now she's pregnant. She's putting the child up for adoption, which I agree with, but in the papers for the agency, it says that she represents the child was conceived through sexual assault.As many adopted children will tell you, being raised by their biological parents isn't always what's in the best interests of the child. Just from the way it was mentioned this one was conceived I'd guess we're dealing with two young people who probably don't have the means to raise a child as it currently stands. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/14 05:47 PM |
| 8 | I slept with a girl and now she's pregnant. She's putting the child up for adoption, which I agree with, but in the papers for the agency, it says that she represents the child was conceived through sexual assault.In Columbus lawyers typically charge about $150 per hour. Better / more experienced lawyers may charge more. If you're a student your university may have some type of legal organization that can provide legal advice and maybe even significantly cheaper legal services. You have to provide your lawyer with what's called a retainer. Basically, you give them a lump of cash upfront and that's what they bill to for the time they spend representing you. Once you are done with their services or if you t… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/14 05:43 PM |
| -1 | LTRs friends think I'm controllingI'm on a mobile app, I don't see sidebars. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/14 03:26 PM |
| 0 | LTRs friends think I'm controllingThat helps, thanks m8. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/14 02:27 PM |
| 0 | LTRs friends think I'm controllingTrying to figure this stuff out. What's a plate? While I'm at it, what's a hamster? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/14 01:21 PM |
| 4 | I wish more women would understand the kind of predicament this puts men inIf what you're saying is feminists want to be on top all the time.... man I need to date a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/14 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Got into a dispute with someone about our lack of desire to parent our children over in CMV, thought I'd share the stats they were kind enough to provide me withThis was actually something that came up in the discussion but unfortunately there are no sources out there (statistics-wise) that explicitly say "This number of Dads did not pursue custody of their children because they couldn't afford legal counsel and/or weren't in a position to secure their custodial status." | /r/MensRights | 18/02/14 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Got into a dispute with someone about our lack of desire to parent our children over in CMV, thought I'd share the stats they were kind enough to provide me withFound them interesting. Like any stats, feel free to crunch numbers and bend them to your will in your future debates. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/14 04:10 PM |
| 2 | U.S. man who donated sperm to lesbian couple must pay child support: judgeDon't blame the attorneys, they're just doing their job and they don't typically pick and choose their clients. I would be sad if someone killed my lawyer. :( | /r/MensRights | 23/01/14 03:27 PM |
| 3 | U.S. man who donated sperm to lesbian couple must pay child support: judgeWanted to point out Job and Family services filed the case. What likely happened is one or both of these women want government support and they're being told they have to file for child support. Of course, if they were truly honoring the agreement they could have said they had no idea who the father was or how to get in contact. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/14 03:24 PM |
| 1 | We're losing the war on poverty because our schools turn boys into eunuchsYou know how much they usually run? I'm guessing I won't be able to afford it since I'm counting change for a lawyer but if they're cheap enough it might be worth it. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/14 04:37 PM |
| 1 | We're losing the war on poverty because our schools turn boys into eunuchsI would love to, but that would mean she'd have to do it in front of me. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/14 02:15 PM |
| 1 | We're losing the war on poverty because our schools turn boys into eunuchsIt's a story that shows how the bias given to women broad spectrum is not feasible. If you're asking how I afford it then I'll tell you I'm an underpaid software engineer. I rent two bedrooms in a friend's house and he gives me a hell of a deal on rent and I pay for half of the utilities. Financially speaking my life blows. I put my story out there when it's relevant, which is pretty frequently on this subreddit. Hell, custody is the main reason I even started paying attention to Men's Rights. I… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/14 01:30 AM |
| 11 | We're losing the war on poverty because our schools turn boys into eunuchsMy son's mother is a perfect example of this. Two years ago I was told by lawyers that I would be wasting my money to hire them because her and I were never married, so I'm not entitled to any rights and I'm at her mercy. A year ago she raised my child support to over $400 a month, then continued to expect me to take care of my son full time. She violated the custody agreement and moved out of state with my son for 6 months. I filed her in contempt of court, but it accomplished nothing for me be… | /r/MensRights | 20/01/14 07:58 PM |
| 5 | A Mother, Feminist turns in to MRA when her son is held to standards she fought for.I can't deny that I felt like things were beginning to get a bit one-sided in certain aspects, but to be honest I was more interested in opposing affirmative action in all of its forms than anything else. Didn't realize how deep the rabbit hole went until I started tumbling down it. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/14 09:43 PM |
| 13 | A Mother, Feminist turns in to MRA when her son is held to standards she fought for.I'm not saying it's her reason, but I could see omitting information's about the MRM if she's trying to appeal to feminists that there are two sides to the story. You say anything about supporting or understanding the MRM to a radfem and everything you've said thus far becomes null and void. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/14 06:34 PM |
| 52 | A Mother, Feminist turns in to MRA when her son is held to standards she fought for.I'm with this guy, I didn't give two shits about feminism or men's rights until I started a custody battle and realized how fucked I was. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/14 06:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm taking a stand against peeing sitting down. From Sweden to Taiwan, there are growing calls from feminists for men to stop urinating while standing up.It's not difficult to not touch the toilet bowl when sitting down. Maybe you're lacking where some of us are packing? I for one find it nearly impossible to NOT touch the toilet bowl when I'm taking a shit unless it's one of those toilets with the elongated seats, which are a rarity in public bathrooms around here. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/14 09:48 PM |
| 13 | I'm taking a stand against peeing sitting down. From Sweden to Taiwan, there are growing calls from feminists for men to stop urinating while standing up.You know I've always frowned upon the people on Reddit who talk about pissing in sinks and bath tubs, but this would change my outlook. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/14 09:40 PM |
| -6 | Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it.Do you have any sources I could use to make a comparison between the two? For example, how many circumcisions performed by professionals (doctors) were botched within a time frame? A source with better information about the loss of sensitivity? I'm not questioning the validity of your claims, but if I'm going to consider making my decisions differently in the future I'd like information from a credible source. Don't take offense, I just don't entirely trust Internet people by default. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/14 04:08 PM |
| -4 | Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it.What are the costs? | /r/MensRights | 06/01/14 03:37 PM |
| -7 | Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it.This is what I don't understand. There's a post up above with a source that says it reduces the risk of a whole list of afflictions. I have a friend that was medically required to remove his as a teenager, an experience I have never been able to remember and one he'll never be able to forget. I'm not seeing any logical arguments here for why we shouldn't have the procedure done to prevent mentioned risks, the best I've seen here is "genital mutilation" and "if you wash yourself none of those con… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/14 01:53 PM |
| 6 | TIL: According to NOW, Hitler was a Men's Rights Activistbother seeking it (and thus paying court costs) when there's a darn good reason why the woman is going to lose custody. This is definitely true where I'm from. As an unmarried father I'm not legally entitled to any rights. Even with a joint custody agreement if she calls the police she can take my son from me any time with practically no ramifications. I didn't start the process of filing for custody of my son until she ODed and claimed to be willing to sign them over because every lawyer I talk… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/14 09:16 PM |
| 2 | The best explanation of the difference between feminism and the MRM I've ever readAhhhh got it. Thank you very much. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/13 06:54 PM |
| 2 | The best explanation of the difference between feminism and the MRM I've ever readLots of good stuff in there, but serious question: The fuck is a delta (other than Greek letter) and what does it mean to give it to someone? I'm getting the overall impression it's a good thing but I'm wondering if this is something obvious I should know about. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/13 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Feminists angry that welfare no longer focuses 100% on women's needs: "Americans have viewed men as capable of caring for themselves ... women were always viewed as people to be cared for and protected."I'd be willing to bet it's the job that affects their outlook. I've never been a fan of SNAP benefits or welfare overall, but "not being a fan" turned into absolute disgust by default for a long time when I worked in retail and had to go through exactly what you explained you observed and dealt with. Combine that with my observations in the drug community and by the time I hit 20 I thought the only people on welfare and benefits were the worst of the worst society had to offer. Hell, I only had … | /r/MensRights | 26/12/13 11:04 PM |
| -6 | Feminists at Occidental College created an online form to anonymously report rape/sexual assault. You just fill out a form and the person is called into the office on a rape charge. The "victim" never has to prove anything or reveal their identity.Male posting about male, female posting about male, male posting about female, or female posting about female. Putting genders aside it's a feasible scenario. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/13 05:47 PM |
| -22 | Feminists at Occidental College created an online form to anonymously report rape/sexual assault. You just fill out a form and the person is called into the office on a rape charge. The "victim" never has to prove anything or reveal their identity.Sound logic, but if you piss off the wrong female this allows her to go cry "Rape" without having to prove anything or even identify herself. That's my point. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/13 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Feminists at Occidental College created an online form to anonymously report rape/sexual assault. You just fill out a form and the person is called into the office on a rape charge. The "victim" never has to prove anything or reveal their identity.Yep - that's the story. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/13 03:56 PM |
| -41 | Feminists at Occidental College created an online form to anonymously report rape/sexual assault. You just fill out a form and the person is called into the office on a rape charge. The "victim" never has to prove anything or reveal their identity.It's still a documented incident. Would you want a documented incident with your University that states you raped someone? It's entirely possible that nothing would ever come of it, it's also possible that when you run for Mayor or some shit your opponents catch wind of it and say "Don't vote for that guy, he's a rapist!" Maybe that's kind of far fetched, so as a better question if word gets around campus that you're on paper as a rapist how do you think the other students are going to respond? | /r/MensRights | 17/12/13 01:45 PM |
| 13 | Feminists at Occidental College created an online form to anonymously report rape/sexual assault. You just fill out a form and the person is called into the office on a rape charge. The "victim" never has to prove anything or reveal their identity.This is 100% true. I once had a mentally handicapped guy I knew from like 10 years prior call me in as the "Hilltop Creeper." The actual "Hilltop Creeper" didn't even have the same skin color as me, but the locals brought me in anyways and interrogated me about someone who was peeking in windows in my area. I had an alibi and proof that I was over 14 hours away for three of the incidents and the detective STILL tried to get me to confess, stating "You'll just make my job easier and I can get bac… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/13 01:41 PM |
| 3 | What Would You Do? Girlfriend Buys Positive Pregnancy Test -- disgusting results.I had that thought but as /u/BioGenx2b said: I don't think he would have believed me even if she hadn't spun things around to make it sound like I was a douche. Dude was of the mindset that his girl could do no wrong. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/13 05:22 PM |
| 65 | What Would You Do? Girlfriend Buys Positive Pregnancy Test -- disgusting results.My son's mother had a friend (we'll call her Jen) talk her into providing a positive pregnancy test. I was pissed when I found out, told her I was going to tell Jen's boyfriend. Upon receiving an advance warning Jen had her boyfriend convinced that in spite of our history I was doing all kinds of fucked up shit. By the time I was able to get a word in with him on Facebook he wouldn't believe anything I said. Jen ended up having a "miscarriage" because he wanted to wait till after the nonexistent… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/13 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Canadian Brothers and Sisters: Let's show our support for Bill C-560 for Equal, Shared Parenting, on December 6, 2013 NOTHING WILL HELP MEN MORE RIGHT NOW THAN THIS IN CANADAUnfortunately I'm in Ohio, which wouldn't be too terrible if we'd have been married. Since we weren't she retains all rights by default. We have a shared parenting plan but she doesn't have to follow it, if cops are called she wins regardless of what the agreement says. It puts her in contempt of court but that doesn't really get me any closer to full custody. I have my son full time outside of a few hours a week/month but I could really use the cash I'm paying out in child support. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/13 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Canadian Brothers and Sisters: Let's show our support for Bill C-560 for Equal, Shared Parenting, on December 6, 2013 NOTHING WILL HELP MEN MORE RIGHT NOW THAN THIS IN CANADACan we please do this in the States? Does anyone on here know of any organizations that might be pushing for it? | /r/MensRights | 11/12/13 09:34 PM |
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