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To be fair, at least when youre used for your body parts you can at least have some fun (if it’s consensual in the moment ofc.) Talking as someone who has been used before, it sucks, but like i’d rather be used for something like that than my bank account
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:01 PM
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lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/26 11:23 AM
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I'm losing my mind at the official playboy account contributing to this community lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/26 03:14 PM
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Sure, but isn’t that the point of my comment? That’s what i’m saying. That Tate isn’t really as big/popular as people pretend he is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/26 02:10 AM
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I don’t see how that is a difference. Feminists are at the extreme polar end, that doesn’t surprise me at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/26 02:00 AM
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Exactly, and anyone with half a brain can clearly see that’s what i was saying. It’s not exactly a hard concept to grasp lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/26 01:47 AM
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Not sure if i agree with the biphobia there. You can’t just paint all bisexual women with a broad stroke like that
/r/EverydayMisandry26/01/26 03:21 AM
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Who the fuck said it didn’t need intervention? Are you okay? Slamming doors and throwing tantrums also needs interventions, but it’s normal? I am actually trying to rack my head around how you STILL aren’t getting it LMAO
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/26 02:45 AM
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At least i have the self humility to realize it and take a break. You’re so desperate for a dig that you went digging through a profile (that’s private btw) JUST to get some sort of win. You tell me who’s more sad (or don’t you probably aren’t capable of that) I’m being so fr though i’ve seen a lot of dumb comments but you’re starting the year strong 💀💀💀not being able to understand normal =/= okay is next level. Wait until you find out the difference between “can” and “must”, it’ll be mind blowi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/26 02:43 AM
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Oh my god I have no idea why this is so hard for you to understand, so i’ll spell it out for you plain and simple. Bullying is NOT okay, but it’s normal. Edgy jokes are NOT okay, but it’s normal. Do you get it now? Or do we have to keep having the world’s worst conversation where I tell you water is wet?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 09:00 PM
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That's a much fairer assessment!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 08:03 PM
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No I never fucking said that, I said making JOKES. Who the hell is defending being aggressively racist/misogynistic/homophobic? Kids say edgy things to get a reaction out of people, without even knowing the full context of what it means. Kids etch fucking swastikas on tables, doesn't mean they are nazis. They are KIDS who have a juvenille humour and limited view of the world without understanding history or context, that's who they are. I just think this is a classic case of someone being way to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 07:58 PM
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Oh fair enough, I just took issue with that framing of GG being to take down a culture of SA and abuse tbf, I didn't think you were defending it. But yeah I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 07:53 PM
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Right, so you're saying it's a normal part of a boys development to be horrific misogynist and clap for Tate, everybody does it, it's just jokes, and this is supposed to improve men's image how, exactly? Jesus, go outside. Seriously. Have you ever been to a high school? It's a toxic cesspit of kids running around screaming insults at each other. It's a normal part of ANY genders development to rebel and push the line to see what they can get away with. Have you never heard of a fucking bully bef…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 07:48 PM
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And remember, the whole "gamergate is evil" thing comes to defend a culture of SA and abuse, not to mention a whole bunch of anti-neurodivergance. Ehh I don't know man, where was the focus on SA and abuse? GamerGate hit the ground running when it started harrassing Zoe Quinn for "sleeping her way into good reviews and media coverage" because she had a relationship with one of the journalists (which the criticism wasn't the problem there, the harassing was.) It devolved into doxxing and taking do…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 07:42 PM
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No you’re right. It reminds me of how Anisa Saarkesian became everything the right wanted during GamerGate. He sums up every strawman about men critical of feminists they can think of: He’s blatantly misogynistic, blatantly hates women, pretends to care about male issues, is overly materialistic, incredibly vane, dumb, and worst of all: is a scammer and a grifter not caring about who gets hurt or exploited. It’s like he was bio engineered in a lab to be the perfect strawman. And the fact he got …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 04:30 PM
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Gah! No way, you just solved it! I mean, go the gym? Genius! I’ve never heard of that before, why didn’t i just think of that??? The answer surely can’t be systemic despite the numeral studies pointing to it being, it must just all be fixed by working out and socialising! Fuck man, how can i ever repay you?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 02:43 AM
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That's fine, we have different takes on this. I think there was a time when men had it better in society (not to say they had it great, being a proletariat has ALWAYS sucked regardless of gender.) But hell, prole women couldn't even own their own bank accounts, their own house, their own vote, and was essentially trapped in an abusive relationship forever lest they go homeless. Their dress and their promiscuity and their personalities and their access to abortion was also restricted to the point…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 11:23 PM
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I see you’ve immediately shut down and can’t respond to anything i brought up so you’ve decided to assume bad faith and placed bad intentions upon me. I haven’t called you ANY names but this is how all these conversations end when strong points are bought up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 04:59 PM
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I responded to your original post, not your edit, but as you wish I asked you, why did all the men leave the teaching job? Do you have answers? They fall behind, why? Why is job now mostly done by women considered less valuable. This is incredibly vague, when are we talking? Are you talking a modern drop in male teachers or are we talking 19th century drop? The 19th century can, yes, be explained by gender inequality that existed during the Victorian era, I have done a write-up on exactly this. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 03:59 PM
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But all I see is bashing of women. You use the word "feminist" to critique women. You think all women are feminists? That's funny. I wouldn't call 29% "all women." Maybe you would? https://www.ipsos.com/en-us/american-women-and-feminism And don't use data from the 60's and 80s. Start earlier. And at the same time update your knowledge. Oh you want us to start earlier? The Mosuo in China where only women are allowed to own property and run households, a structure that still exists today? What abo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 03:43 PM
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You don't have to do anything. I'm just a username giving their takes on the internet anonymously behind a screen.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/26 10:44 PM
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The point of optics is not for the person you're arguing against, it's for the skeptical onlookers who might be open to getting their mind changed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/26 06:21 PM
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As someone else in the thread pointed out feminism has a lot in common with Zionism, the idea that you're either for everything we stand for, or you're for women being sexually assaulted. Like it's impossible to have a nuanced position that both are wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/26 09:41 AM
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your friend is an actual inegalitarian feminist. Where in the world these days does an analysis of "equal pay" mean that women are being underpaid? Eh. Not really. Gender pay gap is overblown? Yes, absolutely. Are women being paid adequately for their maternity leaves, and are there still unconcious biases? That's much more up for debate. Also, you're conflating a position with it's material existence. Am I morally opposed to having The Purge once a year? Yes. Do we? No. I should hope everyone i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 10:30 PM
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The issue is that the word is associated with women's rights, not men's rights. Even within the framework of 'equality between sexes' the implication is always women first, women's movement. Egalitarian is a much better term and I don't think it's an uphill battle at all considering that most young people aged around 20 don't identify as feminist, men or women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 09:44 PM
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You're onto fucking gold there. In fact I think you should make a full post about it and I'll approve it straight away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 09:39 PM
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Eh, I don't like that approach personally. Because it still gives off the implication that feminism is at all about equality of the sexes. I don't want to be giving off that impression at all in my discussions. But I see what you're going for, by saying it's the feminism that you were taught about. I just don't want to give that much ground to the name, there's already been enough damage done by pretending feminism is anything but advocacy for women and women only.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 09:22 PM
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Yeah, it's a shame really. I've kinda had to learn to have an answer for everything, there's not really an argument I haven't heard by now. Just kind of makes me wonder how many feminists are trapped in an echo chamber where they don't come across new ideas or shrug them off as "attacking women." I've actually been reading feminist literature, I'm working my way through critical intersectional texts atm (which my last post was about.) I don't think they seek out any pushback outside of their aca…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 09:20 PM
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A lot of people i think are your in camp, feminists who identify that way because they’ve fell for the lie that it’s the same thing as wanting equal rights. I feel we’ve all had our experiences here when we realised what feminists actually stand for rather than than what they tell us. Not all feminists are malicious BUT the feminist ideology is, you need look no further than their own theory.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 08:28 PM
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I also think it’s to do with the type of white woman who becomes a feminist in the first place. Intersectionality had to be crammed into the movement because they were unwilling to listen to any other perspective but the white straight cis one. It’s so silly tbh but i think they need to be on the intersectional margins otherwise they are just white, straight and cis, meaning they can no longer use the false pretence of marginalisation as a way to get ahead and garner sympathy in the discourse. T…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 07:46 PM
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Yes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 07:41 PM
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It's funny, I used to identify the same way. Until I realized that the "I believe in equality types" aren't feminists they're egalitarians. Why do they identify as feminist then? Because they've done an unbelievably good job at propaganda for their movement wherein if you don't believe in feminism you don't believe in equal rights, yet feminists don't believe in equal rights they believe in rights for women. My closest friend identifies as 'feminist' but whenever I talk to her she just wants pro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 06:09 PM
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Fair.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 05:20 PM
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Depends if you wanna be rhetorically effective, I know you're anti-feminist, we pretty much all are. But it's about having your views being summarised at that depth.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 04:40 PM
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Yeah and when we say “throughout history” what do we even mean by that too? The past 100 years? Past 250 years? Past 500? 1000? 10,000? There are plenty example in which women had the most power within the elite class, such as the Ottoman Empire. The same empire that kidnapped young boys and removed their genitalia.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 02:32 PM
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Feminists deep down know that it has weaknesses, they just feel like they can’t let anyone else in the out-group expose them lest it reduce their political efficacy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 02:30 PM
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That’s actually a great approach i’d say there’s nothing wrong in that at all it’s probably very effective
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 02:26 PM
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Awesome! You can go that route, just be aware of what it entails (pigeonholing) but there’s absolutely nothing wrong with going that way, it just depends what you’re looking for out of a conversation. It’s just some advice you can take or leave; I’ve found that it’s more effective at changing people’s minds if you point out that it’s not just that you’re anti feminist it’s that you’re anti injustice. But if you’re looking to just destroy an opponent or feel that they are way too closed minded fo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 02:22 PM
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I'm not saying be actively defensive, an example response could be this: You could call me anti-feminist, but my position is more egalitarian, I believe in equal rights across the board for everyone, where each individual is treated the same despite social standing or immutable characteristics, which is inherently a left wing position. Something that doesn't apply to all anti-feminists. That's a very simple quick fire and undisputable way of disagreeing and doesn't get you in the same boat as sc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 01:55 PM
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First, the group labelled “Anti-LGBT moderate” gave an average response of “neither agree nor disagree” to the item asking whether participants thought “that homosexuality should be accepted by society”. That right there tells you all you need to know. I could very easily imagine a sizeable amount of participates to answer that way if they have a libertarian view on minding your own business, or even if they just saw being LGBT as something that just exists instead of something to be moralized. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 01:54 PM
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This! I think it's worth doing and worth a try (I'm a moderator on this sub and on r/RE), but I think what's equally if not more important is tearing down these misandric spaces that are an echo chamber. It's the direct opposite to incel spaces which existed on reddit (ACTUAL incel places like r/Incel, not the fake definition.) But while Reddit cracked down on those spaces, they seemingly have no problem with bigoted spaces like TwoX.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/26 03:57 PM
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Right exactly, it’s not “here’s how being a woman and being a person of colour creates a unique form of racism” it’s instead “here’s how being a woman and being a person of colour makes being a woman harder”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/26 01:46 AM
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This is just my opinion but i’ll quote from another conversation i’ve had: I believe that it’s not that intersectionality is a wrong way of looking at society, it’s that intersectionality is incompatible with feminism. The idea of intersectionality is to acknowledge all forms of oppression and how it uniquely interacts in a Venn diagram, but feminists refuse to admit or care about how being male can lead to oppression in society, hence it’s applying intersectionality asymmetrically. it reminds m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/26 03:28 PM
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That’s certainly an extremely charitable view, but considering what we know about bell hooks outside of her work and in her personal life, I find that very hard to believe. Plus, you can always read any feminist literature you like as “being misandric to appeal to their more extreme audience”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/26 02:19 PM
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I never said Bell Hooks is promoting bio-essentialism so that is just a strawman, first off. Secondly, bell hooks is implying that the patriarchy demands males to be violent towards women. "The first act" presumes other acts that follow, including "demands of males to commit violence against women", but that's only after she tells the reader that most men kill off the emotional parts of themselves. There is one thing I agree with though and that's that its a foundational belief of patriarchy as …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/26 01:59 AM
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Oh sorry I see what you’re saying now. I guess in a roundabout way that’s what she’s implying yeah. That’s what they believe, that the reason poc women experience violence from men is because men are victims of racism which perpetuates violence
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/26 01:25 PM
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You may be misreading it I think, she’s saying that black men who are violent against women, also are victims of racism which perpetuates and makes the problem worse. Remember this is an intersectional feminist founding text, which came out of necessity from the way straight white women would own the movement and dismiss anyone else’s experiences. Feminists have a habit of doing that, huh.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/26 12:55 PM
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Good comment, but they already know this for sure. That's why they probably don't misgender a trans person on purpose, even if the target is a terrible person. Leftists like them always play obtuse but they already know the arguments because they make them themselves all the time. They just want to be able to do bad things without pushback so they play dumb like they don't understand as a form of weaponized incompotence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/26 11:37 PM
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Meh, I'd say it's hard and badass to actually stick to your principles and not be pushed around to defending indefensible things, I'd say that's what leads to fascism in the first place. But hey what do I know, I'm obviously just thin-skinned.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/26 08:36 PM
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You wanna tell me what part of your comment I ignored or are you just this scared of answering a simple question? I thought you were supposed to be thick skinned, you don't even know how to respond to simple pushback without pivoting lmfao. Let's try this again, shall we? What does Candace Owens have to do for me to get the greenlight on slut shaming her? (spoiler alert: they're not gonna answer...)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/26 08:31 PM
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Yeah, we all believe you and are thoroughly impressed by how hard and badass you are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/26 08:28 PM
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Oh cute, so you just ignored 90% of my comment? You wanna try answering a question or is that too difficult for you?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/26 08:24 PM
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Oh cool, we running defense for Candace Owens now? Is this is how far you'll go? Where is the line for you? Does it stop somewhere around defending and downplaying slavery, denying climate change, minimizing the holocaust, transvestigating and starting a harrassment campaign of a french first lady, opposing the Equality Act. being named “Antisemite of the Year?" I can keep going if you'd like? What about Caitlyn Jenner, is it okay to misgender her? Since you know, she has directly ran as republi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/26 08:21 PM
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No no you're definitely right, in fact I booked a plane to New York just yesterday and I'm about to slut shame and yell racial pejoratives at Candace Owens. This is obviously satire. I mean come on dude, what's next, can we misgender Caitlyn Jenner?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/26 08:10 PM
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Exactly!! That was my contention.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/26 05:33 PM
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Check the hyperlink ;)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/26 04:18 PM
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The brain scan study was completely debunked. Calling that factual is very bold. Then you haven't read either the original study OR the """debunking""" and your next statement that we'd be using it for diagnoses only proves it. The study only shows group level statistical trends, that transgender people have brains which on average resemble those of their identified gender more than their assigned gender at birth. This hasn't been debunked, what has been criticized is the smaller sample size and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 03:57 PM
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You're probably using "TERF" as a slur here, and talking about cutting transphobes to bleed sounds like a threat of physical assault. lol wtf. TERF is not a slur, that's on the same level as saying "cis" is a slur. and the cutting idiom is a play on the "cut a liberal and a fascist bleeds" quote
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 03:48 PM
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Well for one i don’t believe in the patriarchy. But then again how is this not just a pivot? Can you please explain why this has any bearing on the validity of my original reply?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 03:03 AM
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How does my opinion on whether men have more power or not change my statement? But to answer your question, this is a matter of averages. It’s not that men have more power, it’s that the elite class has more power, and there’s a lot of men in the elite class. Does the average working class man have more power over the average working class woman? Absolutely not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 03:00 AM
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How?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 02:58 AM
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There’s no hypocrisy here, I’m for both men and women describing their traumas to make a wider point, i’m only against allowing one group to do that while another group is denied.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 02:57 AM
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It's not just intactivism, it's anything pro men. Have you ever noticed that when a man brings up their sexual assault, feminists SWOOP in to claim it's only to "shut down other women" and to "weaponize their trauma." Yet, when a feminist uses their trauma to make a wider point, that's incredibly brave to open up about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 02:12 AM
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Bio-essentialism is okay when it's against men. And no, it's not just TERFs who engage in it. Cut a feminist and a transphobe bleeds. I once had an enlightening conversation with an "intersectional feminist" who said that men enjoy more privilege because they can overpower women biologically. I asked them to explain how that isn't bio-essentialist, and they said it's not because she's just "pointing out the biological differences between a man and a woman." Somehow the point was still lost on he…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 02:07 AM
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I am genuinely interested how you left society. So I can do it too. This is not a bit I genuinely want to know
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/26 09:15 PM

Just a reminder since we always get two or three losers in here who think we'll put up with it. Transphobia will NOT be tolerated. Trans men ARE men, and face misandry just like cis men do. We are a left wing egalitarian space, so don't even think about trying it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/26 05:42 AM
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I've heard passing trans men talk about how awful it is to constantly feel like they are treated as dangerous and how no one wants to talk to them or smile and women cross the road from them, they feel like they are constantly doing something wrong. It's heartbreaking, not just because that's been my experience my whole life, but to see it so blatantly happen to someone else who's been on both sides of the coin. Man. It's heavy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/26 05:39 AM
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Thank you! I welcome those folks to visit many of the several men’s groups dedicated to dating on Reddit. You seem to understand exactly where we are coming from and I really appreciate it. We haven’t outright banned it either, but mostly all the problems with dating comes downstream from other important men’s issues, and we don’t want the conversation to end at “dating apps.” To say it’s about appeasing feminists or being scared about being called mean words is so disingenuous. When have we eve…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/26 11:34 PM
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That was the issue with the posts we took down, it wasn’t the body shaming it was the emphasis on dating issues
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/26 11:24 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1q80ruq/comment/nypadyz/ We allow all posts criticizing the sub and moderation here. We certainly would not shut down conversation about male bodyshaming, it's something the mod team is very passionate about, and as for me I wouldn't stand for it if that was the case.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/26 12:47 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1q80ruq/comment/nypadyz/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/26 12:46 AM
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EDIT 1: We have a new rule explaining why some of these posts have been taken down, we apologise for waiting this long to be this clear. Please check "Rule 10" it might explain as to why some of your posts were taken down. If not, message us in the modmail. I am discussing with the mod team currently, but I can absolutely guarantee you it has NOTHING to do with discussing the bodyshaming of men. We do not and will not ever tolerate that, criticisms of AOC and any bodyshaming on the left is not o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/26 12:45 AM
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How was it harsh? You said that you think that this recent ICE murder was a reason why this subreddit is no longer relevant to you. I couldn't think of anyway that could possibly change your opinion other than the fact it was a woman who was killed (which I've seen others do.) My comment was actually calling you out for only seemingly caring about ICE when it's a woman who's shot, and not the long history that ICE have had for violence long before the rioting started.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 05:08 AM
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Can you actually point to some examples of anyone doing that and it being agreed with in the community? I’m sure there are some people who’ve said it, but we are a left wing sub who obviously don’t agree with an organisation hell bent on terrorising innocent civilians. And of course it’s an unlawful use of force. You’re not gonna catch me defending ICE, I agree with everything you’re saying. I would stand by my comments 100% because i’ve not ever once defended them. You seem to want me to be pro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 04:55 AM
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I just don’t see how that could “make the sub irrelevant” in your eyes. How is it even connected to you? ICE has killed 4 people before this, at LEAST from my knowledge. But okay you don’t owe me more of your time that’s your prerogative ofc
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 04:36 AM
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Huh??? Is the person defending ICE in the room with us right now?? Fuck ICE, fuck that officer and the entire thing should be torn down and defunded because it’s anti human. Does that change anything i said? fuck no. I was anti ICE way before a woman was killed, and it’s changed my mind on nothing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 04:00 AM
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It’s not even that they had weak arguments, people make them all the time. The problem is the extremely aggressive and adhom nature of them. We have a “feminist guest” role, people are plenty welcome to stay and hash it out. But why some people purposely start putting others down and then cry when they get it back is a wonder to me. Imagine if we went into feminist subs with even half that energy…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/26 01:23 AM
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lol, lmao even. this isn’t the way you deal with disagreements on the sub
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 07:47 PM
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Yes, because ICE killing people only matters when the killing in question is not a man. Sounds like this subreddit is more relevant than ever. If that’s changed your mind, sounds like you were never truly listening.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 05:13 PM
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Exactly, and I know you know! I think it's worth spelling how just how messed up it is though. My theory is that most people on the internet are really extreme with no filter because they have no chance to be in real life. I think everyone thinks these things IRL but are more moderate because there would be social repercussions if not. Hell, how many times have you posted something to the internet and thought "I'd never dare to say this out loud to a group of people." Either you've done that, or…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/26 09:26 PM
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God I remember ShitRedditSays, what a piece of work that whole community was lol, I've been around a similar time to you according to Reddit and yeah I can confirm everything you're saying.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/26 09:01 PM
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Makes sense, a lot of people rightfully so get their guards up around sexism towards their gender and it only ignites the flames.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/26 06:12 PM
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From one reddit mod to another, that's a very rare mod W lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/26 05:45 PM
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If you go far back enough on the wayback machine you can see it was a pretty innocent women's space about just general life advice and it was mostly pretty wholesome. And then it started to twist, morph and metastasize just like the rest of the internet did.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/26 05:44 PM
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If you really think about it that's even more fucked that the place has to exist in the first place. If you have to swap out a group for another just to see how bigoted something is, that just goes to show how many people are completely blind to it. Like if I only saw a nazi statement as fucked up if you replaced the words 'Jews' with 'black people', I must be really anti-semetic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/26 05:36 PM
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That’s awesome then, me too!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/26 03:50 AM
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Don't let bigots stop you from being a leftist. If you care about equal rights, then you care about trans people, gay folk, disability, the working class, Gazans, and yes, even women. If you care about those things, then there is no way you can be a right winger. Right wingers care about men selfishly, not out of any principle. If they were a woman, they'd just as easily be a feminist. The exact same is true in reverse. They aren't left wing on principle, they are left wing because it benefits t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/26 11:36 PM
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Thank you for keeping me in check. I will be honest when I wrote that I was angry due to coming off of a heated argument and just feeling really nihilistic about the state of things. I think you've clearly put a lot of effort into this, and I don't know if that's how I'd feel today. I am an egalitarian first, always, but some days it feels like the only way to bring justice for men is to be selfish. However, I also care about women's rights and I can't just turn that off in the same way feminist…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/26 01:11 AM
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There were a time I feel where this wasn't the case, but I don't know how you could think that today while watching 4chan use meme culture to get a president elected a decade ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/25 02:09 AM
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You’re missing half the picture. Being married to a man in those times was not like being married now, it’s more like the example you painted with Saudi Arabia. Women had no finances, no autonomy to leave, and if they didn’t shut up they were made to instead. True egalitarianism is about equality for both genders. Women should be treated equally for better and also for worse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 08:16 PM
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You're right in the historical context, but all sorts of issues arose with that system, they were being kept out of US colleges because they were expected to marry and settle down with a man yes. I just think it's worth adding onto what you're saying that that isn't a great system either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 06:36 PM
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Well i’m sorry to disappoint then, but you clearly aren’t here on an open mind and aren’t actually looking to the possibility of a mind change… I mean, you ever actually entertained the possibility that maybe you’re wrong?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 02:41 AM
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Patriarchy is legit, I'm not gonna argue on its existence. Then why are you here? You literally came here asking us to answer your questions, we're answering them and you're refusing to listen. That'd be like going to a subreddit about proving aliens exist and asking why they think that, and then when they try give you reasons you go "Look aliens don't exist I'm not going to argue with you on their existence" Literally all of your questions you have can be explained by the fact we don't believe …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 02:24 AM
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It's mostly outdated bullshit that the stats no longer represent. There was a time where women were kept out of US colleges, but the data shows that women are outpacing men in college completion in every major racial and ethnic group
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 02:22 AM
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We allow feminist guests to voice their opinion and ask questions, but sometimes these threads can get a little heated. Try and respect the rules and each other ☮️✌️
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 01:04 AM
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The feminist response would be “feminism is for both men and women but we should be centring women in the discussion and men will benefit as a result.” Bs, I know.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/25 08:23 PM
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Awesome! Don't worry you don't need to be any of those things, I just want to hear your perspectives. Do you believe that men are victims of the patriarchy? Does that count as oppression? Whose responsibility does it fall upon to help men? The individual? Society? Women? Do you feel that "online feminism" is congruent to how academic and less online feminists believe and act in the real world? Do you feel as though feminism has the answers for men's liberation? 5a. Do you believe in the abolishm…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/25 01:09 AM
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Wow okay I feel like coming across a feminist who seems to actually be open and good faith is increasingly rare on this site, if you'd be open to it I'd like to pick your brain a bit? I have quite a few questions to ask. Great comment by the way, you might recieve pushback by some people but I appreciate your point of view.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/25 12:21 AM
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LOL. It's misogyny when you go into a women's space and talk about men's problems, and it's misogyny when you go stop women from going into men's spaces to talk about women's issues. Classic. Once again though you're proving the r/AskMen mods are some of the most based on the site.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/25 11:39 PM
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This is hilarious to me because you've just proved his point. He was at a pro-choice rally and very clearly agrees it's bad, but you're still finding a way to get mad at him for doing what you asked aka not having an opinion.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/25 03:21 PM
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They are offended by egalitarianism not only because it threatens unequal rights, but also because it threatens the death of feminism and privilege.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/25 03:18 PM
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I'm the OP of the original post and that's exactly my contention. I'm not self hating and I'm not a moron which is why I can't be feminist, but I desperately want to be on the side of the movement that claims it cares about equal rights amongst genders, even though that's obviously not the case (and why I made the post hoping my mind would be changed even though it never is.) It's why I'm egalitarian fwiw.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/25 10:50 AM
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I am the original OP and EXACTLY. It's insane how the most good faith, lightly served criticism turns into "women bad", talk about shutting down literally ANY criticism whatsoever.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/25 10:49 AM
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Oh hey, it's me! The one who created the meme in the picture. Just some context. I still believe this, I have tried my entire life to be feminist because I care about women's rights and society has told me this is the only way to care about it. It wasn't until I had numerous bad experiences with so called feminists denying my SA and abuse that I decided enough was enough. It was around 2 or 3 years ago that I decided to be egalitarian instead. Since then I've learned so much more about the issue…
/r/EverydayMisandry24/12/25 10:42 AM
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Again, more handwaiving. There are many things we can do requiring instant action: pass laws making male genital mutilation illegal, create funded government programs to set up male victim shelters, create training on removing gender bias when it comes to grading boys in the classroom, create state funded programs in schools for boys only mental health support groups, have government programs designed to help get men back into the workforce to rebalance the homeless population. I could literally…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/25 08:48 PM
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So I have a question. a few actually: say that a house is on fire. Do you put the fire out first or do you find out who’s responsible for the fire so you can get them to do it instead? If a cat is stuck in a tree, do you need to figure out how he got up there first before rescuing him? If someone in the ocean is drowning, do you find out how he managed to get himself in that situation first or do you run in to save him? If men are drowning in so many areas of society, do we focus on all the mist…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/25 08:33 PM
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Oh because it's hillariously bad faith in all measures, it could be literally anyone who set it up, maybe I travelled back in time and set it up myself, literally does not matter in the slightest. Why on earth would you waste time playing the blame game rather than trying to fix things unless you were just trying to handwaive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/25 08:15 PM
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it’s a sarcastic answer if you couldn’t tell.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/25 07:52 PM
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Idk maybe the fact yall pretend to be progressive but you have a whole category named "misandry" on your subreddit which consists of saying "women have it hard but boohoo poor men have it much harder/suffer just as much". I think the fact you think fighting misandry aka sexism, is sexism, says a lot about you. Or maybe the sheer amount of posts containing "feminist propaganda" or "sexism against men" in their names when those are literally non existent as a systemic issue. Then you purposely are…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/25 05:20 PM
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Can you give an example of 'sexist shit' that isn't just critiques of feminism?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/25 01:26 PM
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Your first post was short and not very detailed Your second post was generated by AI.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/25 10:17 AM
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That one is such a funny one I almost always reply “rich people” or “humans” or my personal favourite: “our alien overseers”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/25 03:48 PM
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Okay you must be trolling there’s no way lol. The idea that it’s women who mostly care for boys and men is absolutely laughable. It’s not worth replying to especially since I already covered this in my OP you didn’t read
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/25 04:16 AM
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I think you’ll find it’s you who’s concern trolling. I’m only pointing out the bad faith logic behind your statement. It’s a zero-sum game when men’s rights are brought up, where if men win women lose. it’s not a zero-sum game when women’s rights are brought up. But that’s directly contradictory as a zero-sum requires two opposites to react off each other, you’re being logically fallacious and shrugging that off as a troll is just a bad faith attempt to dismiss it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/25 04:09 AM
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Oh?! So it is a zero-sum game now? Make up your mind!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/25 04:07 AM
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Oh it’s not a zero-sum game? Awesome, well that goes both ways then. When men are cared for, everyone gets better.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/25 04:00 AM
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You’re spot on. I often hear the same arguments too with the way the Labour government wants to stop as many women going to prisons. They say “oh well it means less people are getting abused in prisons for non violent crimes”, oh okay cool, what about men? It’s all a bunch of horseshit, if you’re for prison reform, you should be for prison reform for both genders. But like the draft it’s all selective. I don’t think anyone should be drafted, and i don’t think anyone should have to go to a UK pri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/25 07:32 PM
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I often try and meet feminists where they are at in hopes of changing their mind, but I realized with this one I just could not. This is an abusive person who should be behind bars, and everyone upvoting them just goes to show where their heads are at. But queue the excuses of "they aren't a real feminist" or "this just exists online." The way they open with talking about domestic violence being up, and then immediately showing they don't give a fuck when it's men just goes to show it's not ACTU…
/r/EverydayMisandry16/12/25 10:35 PM
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And it always will, as long as you aren't the mightiest person around with a guarantee that you'll stay that way forever. Well, it doesn't make you "right," but it certainly does sure as hell make you "able to survive as an independent entity." Lovely. So by that logic then all oppressed groups who have less power in society deserve it, and we should probably just go back to forced colonization of other nations too while we're at it. Oh, and if Putin was correct about Ukraine's weak army then he…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/25 02:52 AM
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"Lmao, if your economic system of choice can't get its ass off the ground in the first place without either foreign influence or internal strife strangling it in the cradle, it sucks." So let me get this straight, your argument is....might makes right? Wow that's crazy. And let me get this straight too, you're anti-authoritarian? Wowzers. "Besides, the person you're going to bat for is apparently an anarchist, so they'd likely think that response is as silly as I do, for different (and much more…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/25 02:38 AM
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"Feminism is just about gender equality!" \Prisons and the draft exist equally for both genders** "...WAIT NOT LIKE THAT"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/25 02:34 AM
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"Because the alternatives have all showed themselves to be vastly superior when implemented, and never devolve into authoritarian nonsense :P" I love when people use this argument because it implies that capitalism is superior because of the way it's structured and not because imperial empires have spent their entire lifetime to shut down any attempt at a real socialist country. It also implies that there aren't capitalist countries that are authoritarian which, cmon. And EVEN then, you have soc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/25 02:22 AM
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This is literally that meme where the one guy is stood near the line to the right and the person to the left pushes them over and then asks why they’re siding with bigots when the person on the right catches them. Does anyone know what I’m talking about?!
/r/EverydayMisandry27/11/25 08:54 AM
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I once knew a misandrist irl who said they hate when male authors write about the odyssey. They were a nasty narcissistic person who probably could’ve learned a lot reading The Odyssey.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 01:08 PM
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Huh? They are just a friend of mine, I didn’t know they were the OP
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 09:39 AM
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Oh hey look who it is! 🤣 No worries it definitely is misandrist as fuck lmao
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 09:01 AM
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while this is DEFINITELY misandrist, thankfully it’s from 2 years ago and everyone in the feminist sub was dunking on the OP. So that should give you some hope after reading this garbage
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 08:51 AM
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I am so sorry you've experienced that. My heart breaks for you. I feel I have a responsibility partially as a UK mod to step in and offer some advice. The National Domestic Abuse helpline offer signposting for the services that can help you. So even if they can't take you on as a client, they will be able to redirect you. Mankind Initiative offer sources on their website for Emergency Housing As for being "voluntarily homeless", that person was just dead wrong. Domestic Abuse Act 2021, s.78: A v…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/25 07:29 PM
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It wasn’t just API from what I can gather, but that sparked some conflict. It was just a pretty messy situation all around unfortunately
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/25 11:44 AM
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I have already brought this up to discuss with the rest of the team. But thanks for voicing your opinion we will take it into consideration
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/25 11:40 AM
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That’s a fair viewpoint, the team has their reasons albeit, plus you are absolutely free to still bring their posts here, but partnership needs discussing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/25 11:40 AM
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I won’t get into details as it happened before my tenure as mod here (other mods are free to speak up ofc) but the relationship ended on sour terms. However, you are absolutely free to reference and post the content here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/25 07:43 PM
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“make me a sandwich would be a beautiful name for a girl”, see how well that one goes down
/r/EverydayMisandry21/11/25 07:41 PM
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At least you’re honest, hopefully the mods act soon :)
/r/EverydayMisandry20/11/25 02:37 AM
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I don’t get it what they are “sneaking in” by including trans men? They are men, no?
/r/EverydayMisandry20/11/25 02:31 AM
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I can help if you want... ...he's attractive. That about sums it up.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/11/25 08:13 PM
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misandry does literally all of those things, men are more likely to be homeless and unemployed, are falling behind in schools due to academic prejudice, and are more likely to be incarcerated for the same crime.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/11/25 09:57 AM
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Nice edit, seek help
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/25 09:18 AM
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I don’t think you understand the difference you’re not a fucking liberal if you support china lmao
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/25 09:16 AM
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then it’s not liberal then, is it? 🤦🏻🤦🏻
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/25 09:15 AM
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I didn’t know we were in the presence of a mind reader, i retract everything
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/25 09:12 AM
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liberal satire account spams chinas flag in the description ok
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/25 09:08 AM
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I meant he posted it to his story
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/25 09:04 AM
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Can be absurd and still be misandrist.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/25 09:00 AM
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even if it’s not real he still reposted it
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/25 07:57 AM
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I agree but I don’t see how my comment is at all contradictory to that? Yes, every intersectional form of oppression is designed to uplift a very small select privileged group who gains to benefit from such.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/25 09:10 PM
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That “naughty” word you’re referring to centre’s women’s issues and the group that believe it exists has directly caused these problems. No one is denying that there are systematic issues facing men, we just don’t believe men are the problem or that women are uniquely targeted. It’s a word game.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/25 06:14 PM
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To be blunt and TL;DR, your situation is not comparable to mine. You had one person be rude to you, I had an entire thread on the biggest feminist subreddit on the site. I replied to you in good faith HERE and I told you why it might flare up hate from defensive types, and you replied with a sarky comment back.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/25 06:12 PM
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I believe incels are largely bipartisan. There’s the red piller brand of incel, and then there’s the liberal brand of incel. I don’t think it maps onto any political ideology
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/25 03:56 PM
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left wing men never complain about being unable to find a relationship? are you drunk and high?
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/25 01:08 AM
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This has been called into question (and maybe you've not heard of this argumentation before as the research is more modern), but studies have shown that men are less likely to be diagnosed until their symptoms are very serious, which A. means that most mental health issues that men deal with go unreported and therefore unaccounted for, and B. Also explains the reason why men go through with more lethal methods. a cohort of 50 692 Norwegians we found thatsuicide risk associated with comorbid anxi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/25 09:06 PM
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Interesting comment, but I get the vibe of good faith so we can open up a dialogue.. I do not think men are evil or trash, as my best friend is a man. I will believe you don't think men are evil or trash, but just be aware of the "I'm not racist, I have black friends" fallacy. This isn't proof you aren't misandrist, no more than it is proof that a racist isn't racist. But I will take you on your word. On Reddit, you are aware that people say stupid and mean things that they would not say to you …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/25 09:06 PM
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Yup! Check our Wiki and our Mission Statement in particular
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/25 06:38 PM
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Uhh okay? And i’m replying to you disagreeing? The thing you’re supposed to do in a debate thread? I don’t see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:02 PM
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Who’s they? It’s certainly not normalised and they’d get called out on it. There’s a bunch of egotistical men too. Again this is a people problem not a gender problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:39 PM
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First off, a lot of these replies to you are bad faith so I’m going to try not to do that here. Why do you think men can’t big themselves up also? I’ve met a shitton of men who think their shit don’t stink, but it looks differently. They boast about all their accomplishments, they talk down to anyone who doesn’t see things the way they do, they boast about how much smarter they are etc. I can think of many examples, both attractive e.g Hasan Piker and average looking e.g. Sneako. Women can call …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:40 AM
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You’re right but it’s not an own or anything. Men obviously do care what women think, they are biologically wired to care. I don’t see how that changes anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:32 AM
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Holy strawman, Batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:31 AM
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Yeah and the education system is just the beginning, then they get the same messaging in relationships and in work and in every aspect of society. Childhood trauma shapes adulthood. You say you advocate for accountability and agency but that to you looks like saying that ADHD people should just get up and the chores like everyone else. And thats in direct opposite to you saying that it’s ok for them to have their own ways of doing things. People with ADHD will not place the same important on the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/25 07:05 PM
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You’re greatly misunderstanding my point. The education system tells kids diagnosed or not that they are fundamentally broken, they do this by handing out punishments for their behaviour, and because the kid can’t really or don’t really know how to focus and concentrate for hours on end, they believe that they are fundamentally bad. Your attitude that someone with ADHD is just taking advantage and could actually deal with it fine if they just sucked it up is what ADHD people have been told their…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/25 04:31 PM
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No. You know how people actually end up with learned helplessness? Not by being coddled but by being told throughout the entire education system and by society at large that they are a bad kid and a bad person for not being able to do things that neurotypical people can do. And then attitudes like you have is what keeps ADHD folk to think that there must be something seriously wrong with them since they can’t just deal with it like everyone else. Which ends up keeping them stuck in the cycle of …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/25 01:25 PM
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It’s clear you don’t actually wanna be open to understanding and instead judge others for a disorder they can’t help having. So idk what you want out of this conversation if i’m honest with ya. No one is asking for someone to be a personal servant, can’t put up with someone’s disability? Leave. But it sounds like you just hate people with ADHD which I can’t help you with, sorry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/25 08:47 AM
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I’m going to cut your essay off right there and say you need to research what ADHD is. Here’s a few tips. ADHD can give you a mental incapability via executive dysfunction, brain fog, tiredness etc. ADHD is a spectrum, with some people being utterly incapacitated by it and others living a fairly functional life. There are many reasons why you can’t, what do you think ADHD is? The bare minimum for a neurotypical person is pretty difficult for someone with the more moderate to severe end of ADHD. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/25 02:39 PM
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I’m being more specific than classism. I’m talking about the ways in which gender has evolved as a tool of oppression. Does it overlap with classism? Yeah. Welcome to intersectional theory. It also overlaps with sexuality, ableism, racism etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/25 01:07 AM
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Like a “Gendiarchy”, I think we need to realize that the actual theory of a system being enforced by powerful figures to keep people in line isn’t exactly wrong, but it wasn’t about oppressing women, it was about oppressing working class people and assigning them life purpose via a set of instructions based on what they were most utile for. Men were more useful for soulless labour, women were more useful for housekeeping and companionship. Hence, the system was born. No one was to be oppressed m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/25 08:01 PM
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But to play devils advocate, the type of person to get reccomended this on their social media page and then make a comment is selecting for a very specific type of person. Someone into relationship content and feminist and opinionated, they exist in real life too, but they are usually much lonelier and not the normies
/r/EverydayMisandry07/11/25 06:16 PM
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Did we have the same ex?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/25 08:48 PM
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Video is pretty accurate. In the middle of high school I told myself i’m going to achieve well. I spent all my time at home learning to code, I went to college and university to get a Software Engineering degree, with everyone telling me throughout that this is the path to go down if you want job security and high paying roles. It’s been 2 years since I graduated university and still no job. It’s a depressing world out there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/25 09:28 AM
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First of all, welcome the subreddit. I recommend reading the MIssion Statement on the wiki page and taking a look at some of our other essays here which is more directly dismantling feminism from an academic perspective, we certainly have a lot of those type of posts here. People will disagree with you, but as long as you don't mind having respectful conditions with other people, you're more than welcome here (and if anyone is rude to you, report it to the mods) It's also anecdotally a great pla…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 09:26 PM
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Yep. The point of highlighting that comment was how hate spaces for ADHD people often use feminist rhetoric, and vice versa. And what you said is true, implying that most ADHD people are lying manipulators is an ableist statement, which is ironic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 09:23 PM
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So this is where my tone gets a little meaner. You are advocating for a space to shittalk ADHD people, and then saying it's unfair that the site doesn't allow it. You don't have to look far to find amazing ADHD coaches creating amazing and empathetic spaces online to discuss how to deal with a partner who has this condition. Yet, you advocate for the space that treats ADHD people as others, and mostly all the posts treat them as if they're man children who is being intentionally malicious. Take …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 09:15 PM
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Okay I've been successfully baited into replying into this. Here we go. I have ADHD obviously and I too was of your opinion that this subreddit was just a support group for helping those with ADHD partners. Even disclosing that information in your comment is already doing much more to expose which subreddit is than I did but i'll digress. Let's break this comment down. Conflict in ADHD relationships are not as gendered as you make it out to be. I relate a lot with that sub even though the gender…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 09:15 PM
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Oh, I thought it was just obvious. There’s a difference between accidentally using ableist language like “Oh that fell on deaf ears” versus weaponizing ableist frameworks of thinking as praxis to further a narrative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 11:11 AM
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For your last point, I feel like they know it’s not easy and that’s why they suggest it. It’s just a fantasy for them, they feel unhappy in their own lives and wish they had the courage to leave so instead they egg others on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 10:22 AM
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There’s a big green of difference between “can intersect” and “huge problem within the movement” when it comes to ableism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 10:20 AM
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That’s such a fucking good catch i wish i came up with that. if you get time that’d make for an amazing post
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/25 01:13 AM
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Thanks for the constructive criticism I've added it to my post now! And yeah definitely, there is a huge overlap with feminism and ableism that I feel like this community is only just touching the surface of. We need to keep having these discussions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/25 11:09 PM
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ALSO very anti ADHD, i should make a post about that. But yeah it’s just ableism in general.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/25 02:51 PM
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I remember my Dad doing so much for me as a kid. He used to come home from a tiring 9-5 shift and still fix my PC he personally built for me, play video games with me, and overall spend a lot of time with me. Meanwhile my Mum while doing all the house chores, hardly used to pay attention to me like my Dad did. This isn't to pit my parents against each other, but I'd say there was a very fucking equal 50/50 split there. If my Dad stopped working or if my Mum stopped running errands, everything wo…
/r/EverydayMisandry01/11/25 05:35 PM
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The argument i was making is not that both men and women don’t value physical attractiveness, the point i was making is that men value physical attractiveness a bit more than women. The only compelling evidence you linked is the EvoPsych Journal study, but even that admits it contradicts previous research: “The fact that the researchers found no significant differences between men and women in their preference for their mates’ physical appearance is interesting, given that it conflicts with prio…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/25 06:07 PM
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[1] Furthermore, compared to females, males are more influenced by how physically attractive their potential dates are, but less affected by how attractive they themselves are, when deciding whom to date. https://business.columbia.edu/press-release/cbs-newsroom/new-research-professor-lee-finds-men-and-women-place-premium-looks [2] The bottom line: The faces in the photos varied in their attractiveness and threat. In the study, women trusted attractive-, threatening-looking men significantly less…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/25 04:10 PM
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Exactly! Men place great value on looks, but it’s not as if every smut novella written for women doesn’t focus on chiseled jawlines and rock hard abs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/25 01:13 PM
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Replace men with trans people and it’ll become immediately obvious how stupid of an argument that is. groups with higher rates of suicidality typically have it pretty bad, yeah. Duh doy. We’re arguing over whether the grass is green
/r/EverydayMisandry29/10/25 12:45 AM
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Nah it's not quite that bad
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 05:36 PM
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Fun fact: They changed their rule from "No Sexism" to ""No Misogyny", you can actually see it on the wayback machine!
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 05:33 PM
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That was my next step until they muted me again lol
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 05:32 PM
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Nah I still don't fuck with MensRights, it's too right leaning and often goes a little overboard.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 05:08 PM
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sleep toy fade birds vanish long one follow label quaint This post was mass deleted and anonymized with Redact
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/25 06:11 PM
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i know right i feel like i have an ungodly amount of good faith when this shit happens to me
/r/EverydayMisandry22/10/25 02:38 PM
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I really wanna know what big sub you moderate. I am a mod on LWMA, I wonder if that played into the decision at all.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/25 11:45 PM
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I didn't realize it had a reputation, but I should just assume every sub that has over a million members is a shithole, and that's being generous with the numbers.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/25 11:43 PM
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Unfortunately I cannot due to Rule 2.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/25 04:25 PM
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To be honest she’s not even self aware enough to realise it’s misogynistic too. If you want women to be treated like children who need protecting, then don’t be surprised when society does exactly that.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/25 03:30 PM
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Oh fuck off with that “heroic men who will intervene” comment. I do not need to perform for you and step in to “save the day.” You are a grown adult, not a child, act like it.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/25 03:28 PM
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It’s not nitpicky at all because it plays into a larger context you seem to be missing, wilfully or not I don’t know. Feminists deny misandry is real. They do this by framing every male issue as “patriarchy”, if a man can’t cry, it’s because women are the victims. If men are more likely to be homeless, it’s because women are the victims. If men are less likely to receive custody, it’s because women are the victims. Ever heard of all paths lead to Rome? it’s that exact fallacy, any argument you b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/25 11:44 PM
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I love how every inequality a man faces is always viewed through the lens of how it relates to women. And by love, I mean I despise it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/25 11:01 PM
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If I could get this entire post written out on a poster and hang it up on my wall I would. I’m at the point where if any partner was to claim i’m weaponising incompetence, or making unfair judgements about the way I live (as in overly critical, not communicating their needs healthily) then i’m immediately dumping their ass. Fuck that toxic ass shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/25 01:07 PM

I’d like to remind everyone to be civil in the comments
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/25 08:06 AM
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I’ll toast to that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/25 10:32 PM
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I never ever wanna hear someone as genetically gifted as Hasan preach to young boys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/25 07:29 PM
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I don’t think it’s going to be misandrist and more a statement on religion, but i also don’t think the movie is going to be good looking at the reviews
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/25 09:29 AM
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oh no…. anyways
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/25 04:07 PM
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Anyone ever notice how the whole "I wonder who commits the most crime in this country?" dogwhistle is basically identical.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/25 07:14 PM

OP has used AI to help format his post due to his disability and to make it readable. I’ve seen the originally written post and the message is the same, just with corrections and typical AI-isms.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/25 05:07 PM
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I suppose then, naturally, my question to you would be that since there is unquestionably innocent people within the justice system who has gone to prison, should prisons not exist? i don’t think chemical castration should be a spectacle, but it would certainly reduce the persons reoffending and if it’s reversible all the better as it can be for a few years and then undone. i need to know more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/25 11:06 PM
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Forced chemical castration has been decried by Amnesty International as "cruel, inhuman and degrading." Chemical castration is a cruel and unusual punishment which does not belong in any legal system. Like the death penalty, its potential finality (ie. long-term side effects such as infertility) would pose a severe injustice to the wrongfully convicted. In terms of the wrongfully convicted, yes it would be absolutely inhumane. but as a male victim of abuse myself including SA I can't help but th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/25 08:31 AM
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actually, misandrist women are very vocal about hating men if they do. There’s no consequence to it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:39 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:30 PM
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You all should watch Peter Hitchens freakout on Alex o Connor and you’ll never take anything he says seriously again
/r/MensRights05/09/25 03:43 PM
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okay and? switch this around to men who don’t wanna date women who text too much or are passive aggressive or say things like “i hate men” or even don’t wanna date someone who thinks women are the only ones who’ve been burnt in a bad relationship before
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:44 PM
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definitely!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/25 05:31 PM
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I don’t disagree with your other points but also, I’d be so curious to see if defenders of smut would who say it’s completely victimless, would be willing to defend lolicon or problematic pieces of media. technically there’s no victim in that SA game that released on Steam but suddenly they are making all the same arguments people would have against the exploitative gay smut they probably read. I’m not for either, to be clear. I don’t think we should be normalising the fetishising of anyone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/25 04:17 PM
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One thing i was thinking of writing a post about is how obsessed women are with writing/reading gay smut about young cis men. Yet, any gazing upon lesbian relationships is “fetishising” and “male gaze” The reasons are the same, they are writing because they like to gawk at the erotica, in the same way men who engage in lesbian porn do. Yet, one form is seen as acceptable, and one isn’t. Is it because lesbian porn is visual, while gay erotica is not?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/25 12:10 AM
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Warning: This is how people become “pick mes.” It doesn’t make you more attractive to women, it only makes you more miserable. I know how you feel, but in reality you gotta figure out who you are and who you want to be, and as long as you put your nets out and keep failing over and over again, you’ll find someone else who is also putting themselves out there and failing a bunch. It’s hard, really hard. You gotta decide if it’s worth the price of admission when it comes to dating, but one thing y…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/25 12:50 PM
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Yep, and it’s even more angering when certain people on the left claim to care about how it’s wrong to stereotype people based on immutable characteristics and end up bigoted themselves. I’d rather someone owns they are a piece of shit than pretend they aren’t one while doing things only a piece of shit would do
/r/EverydayMisandry31/08/25 08:58 PM
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I have experience moderating including a subrdddit with around 20-30k members, I also have tons of spare time and will do for a while it looks like. I’m very much interested.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/25 01:26 PM
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Wow it’s almost like men aren’t a monolith
/r/EverydayMisandry31/08/25 01:23 PM
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This is just true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:36 AM
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It’s okay, there’s no way you could ever hate this man more than he hates himself for being one.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/08/25 07:49 PM
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For what it’s worth, my friends absolutely do. But I’ll admit it’s rare
/r/MensRights23/08/25 04:25 PM
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So you're telling me if I go around saying "god women are so X (touchy, sensitive, annoying etc.).", if a woman responds negatively to that (like they should), they are incapable of understanding where the critique comes from and are hence fragile? Don't see how that's a straw-man at all, that's just the direct consequence of your worldview. Unless, of course, you have a completely different set of standards for how men should react because you wish to shit on them without consequence
/r/EverydayMisandry18/08/25 11:54 PM
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So you’re a fragile ego if you react negatively to misogyny? Good to know. Guess most women are fragile then in your definition?
/r/EverydayMisandry18/08/25 11:42 PM
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But I thought they were only just jokes?
/r/EverydayMisandry18/08/25 09:02 AM
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Maybe if you answer the question I’ll tell you.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/08/25 09:00 AM
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so you'd have no problems with jokes against trans people then?
/r/EverydayMisandry18/08/25 08:30 AM
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“it’s man’s job to provide” = “we like when equality serves us until it doesn’t”
/r/EverydayMisandry18/08/25 07:35 AM
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Well then that’s an idiotic reason, because I don’t recall ever saying you do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/25 11:17 PM
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Literally exactly what you just fucking quoted, that it’s not a miscommunication. Am- am I being gaslit in real time right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:42 PM
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Wait, if I’m getting this right, are you saying that I’m wrong because…it comes off to you a certain way? You realise that’s not a very compelling response right? Like yes I read that you think it comes off as wanting to stick your dick in something, but I’m telling you the reality doesn’t match up to that. Most fulfilling friendships are platonic for men, hence the blood bond comment. You never heard of bros before hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:37 PM
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Instead of replying sarcastically, explain to me exactly why what I said isn't a fair response, and how what else you wrote is relevant to my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:55 PM
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...what? "It comes off more as “I COULD make deep connections with people, but I dont want to connect my dick to their holes, so they mean absolutely nothing to me."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:05 PM
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You’re right, but I get the vibe from this post that she’s so resentful of men she probably wouldn’t ever wanna fuck one anyway, which is the definition of a femcel. Women don’t want sex in the same way men do.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/08/25 08:16 PM
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Well she seemed pretty adamant in this post about distancing herself from men to the point she wouldn’t ever go to a funeral. I highly doubt she’s talking to many men in her life, probably very sad and lonely.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/08/25 08:08 PM
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You’re the one making this connection between “wanting something deeper” and “want sex” to be synonymous and projecting it onto men. You only have to look around at the plenty successful male relationships that purely platonic but is basically a blood bond. Just because those relationships are getting harder and harder to find, doesn’t mean those relationships aren’t desperately wanted by lonely men. Often times relationships with women aren’t successful with men because they get feelings, and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:01 PM
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What do you think societies solution is? Genuinely curious I think it’s a good discussion to have. EDIT: Downvoting me when asking for solutions in a subreddit about figuring out solutions is weird af.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/25 05:16 PM
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Eh. Let’s not forget what “cel” originally meant: “celibate”, pleeeenttty of feminists are sexually active
/r/EverydayMisandry16/08/25 05:07 PM
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I’m gonna be real, this isn’t just a feminist, this is a femcel.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/08/25 04:45 PM
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I appreciate your feedback, but the truth is that we need a space for male victims, considering how many spaces for victims is female centric in its language. Us men, we don’t like to be victims. We bottle it up, pretend to be strong, and it breaks us within. The truth is: male abuse victims ARE victims, and if you want solutions there are absolutely plenty of places to go for that. But this is a support group for those who need to vent and let out their emotions. It’s not about solving domestic…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/25 04:55 PM
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Care to tell me why misandry isn’t real?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/25 03:04 PM
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Absolutely. Gotta find the right one. Usually it’s a guy too. I’ve not had much luck at all with women therapists
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/25 08:32 PM
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Thats actually very fitting, you may want to look into Discriminatory Abuse, it sounds like it could be a useful label for what you’ve gone through… anyway I’m so sorry to read that, that sounds awful and I can only imagine the hits to the self esteem and destabilising of your identity. But you don’t need to change for anyone. You should be proud in being who you are. I talked to the mods and they said they’d be happy to once it’s got an initial base :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/25 06:59 PM
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I've actually just started one. It's a safe space for men called r/malevictims and it's for any men who feel like they need a safe space where they won't be questioned or judged for their abuse. It's also for allies of male victims. You can post articles and discuss your abuse and stigma, and hopefully it'll allow for a safer space for men to talk about it and open up. But it's brand new so it's gonna need some spreading around first.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/25 05:12 PM
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"She lied about doing the dishes properly so I murdered everyone she loves" Well... lying is pretty bad so, call it even. No heroes in this story.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/08/25 03:59 PM
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Imagine reading a headline about violent genital mutilation by the hands of a man because a woman cheated. You think these comments would be the same or nah?
/r/EverydayMisandry14/08/25 11:15 AM
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Rage bait used to be believable
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/25 07:02 PM
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I know I know, everyone on the internet says this, but I actually have a good reason. It sounds like you need therapy. I'm not just saying it because you have bad mental health, I'm saying it because of the reasons. You have unresolved emotions due to never being able to talk to people about this who actually cared to understand you, you said yourself there wasn't a simple sympathetic ear and I was 1000% believe you. This is why it's time to purge this poison and the only way you can do that is …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/25 09:24 AM
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> But that sub literally has it baked into their rules that you're allowed to be just a little misogynistic as long as you don't take it too far. Where the hell did you read that? No community is going to be perfect, every subreddit (yes, even this one) has parts of it I disagree with. EDIT: There's literally a post called "Is it ok to hate women?" hours ago and everyone in the comments is roasting the OP... very selective.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/25 10:55 PM
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it says in the corner 2025, maybe it's just a tired concept that keeps being recycled. I feel like I've seen this comic in a different context before.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/08/25 09:40 PM
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Ah. I think you misunderstood me, maybe I wasn't clear enough. I'm not saying that r/MensRights is an incel sub, I'm saying that online feminists, especially those who use this site, believe it is. Like half of the subs on here auto ban you if you interact with it. It's funny because when you go to it it's a left centrist subreddit with men venting about their struggles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/25 10:28 PM
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Men should make their own movement, until they do, then it’s apparently an incel women hating movement. Look at r/MensRights for example.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/25 06:36 AM
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Yeah, no. Trump is not an ally of men’s rights and this is a far stretch. That’s what people, especially feminists, WANT MRAs to be: a bunch of MAGA losers worshipping an even bigger loser who tried to overthrow democracy, violently capturing men off the street and throwing them into the back of vans separating them for their wives and children, vehemently denying the existence of a list of child predators because he probably is one, and fucking over every working man who’s a cog in the system a…
/r/MensRights09/08/25 07:49 PM
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It’s not r/trueoffmychest, just r/offmychest. The mod of that sub is infamous for being unpleasant and misandrist… that’s part the reason the “true” subreddit was created
/r/EverydayMisandry04/08/25 08:07 PM
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“All survivors are welcome here, unless you’re a man with your own experience and story, in which case fuck off”
/r/EverydayMisandry04/08/25 04:14 PM
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You get auto banned from a lot of subreddits if you interact with that sub. It’s disgusting.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/08/25 04:14 PM
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Where do you live? Maybe it’s different in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:24 PM
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To be fair hiking trails are free, but I admit you can’t just opt out of society and capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:51 PM
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100% monogamous. the red pill/poly shit never works and attract the worse people imo, and the "men are naturally hypergamous" shit isn't convincing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:12 PM
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I want to agree with you and on many points I do, however I think there’s one fundamental problem, you’re saying that you can replace building a family and having a loving wife with creativity and nature. For some, that might work. However humans were evolved to be social creatures and to have relationships, many studies prove this. You can’t just hotswap out a wiring most of us have, for dopamine rushes. It doesn’t work like that. I’m talking in generalities, but while that may work for some, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:47 AM
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The issue you’re coming across I think is there are the chronically online misandrists who are feminist because it gives them a great outlet for it. Then are feminists who’s been treated shitty in society and want equal treatment. The issue is that because feminism is all about furthering women’s goals, you can be a sane person who thinks women deserve equal rights, or you can be an insane person who talks about how much they hate men and wish they’d all die I have amazing feminist friends who d…
/r/MensRights02/08/25 10:58 AM

You don't live in the same world as us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:17 PM
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But what I asked IS about feminism, my exact post was "Why are literary feminists so different to online feminists?", that seems like a very fitting question and it only turned into a debate when I realized I was asking the wrong people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/25 07:10 AM
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There's definitely a lot of power tripping going on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/25 05:16 PM
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It also annoys me because they expect "us" to do the "emotional labor" instead, like being scolded and talked down to isn't 10x more emotionally laborious, we are doing way more of that than you mf.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/25 11:30 AM
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Oh yikes, thanks for giving me that context about Kimmel, from what I've read from him he seemed like he was reasonable but that's pretty horrific, what a sad turn of events.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 06:17 PM
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European here also, the difference you’re looking for is between “social democrats” and “democratic socialists”, they sound very similar but are much different, as in, one believes in Marxist theory and one believes in improving social safety nets. I’m a social democrat, but I am not a democratic socialist nor am I a Marxist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 02:40 PM
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Oh hey you were the one who was hounding me for receipts of feminists online saying men are evil over and over again. Welcome, hope you’re enjoying your stay! I assume you got here by stalking my profile? Mostly all the comments I received was antagonistic and bad faith, so I responded in jest. those who responded in a polite empathetic manner got the same treatment back. My post was asking a similar question to the one I’m asking here. I was mentally checked out and realized most commenters wer…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 02:32 PM
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As for your last statement, I’m centre left and I don’t like violence and authoritarianism. There’s a whole corner of the political compass dedicated to those who feel similarly. I would hope it’s a minority of leftists who genuinely think Mao is someone to look up to and praise. I mentioned it since it’s usually a red flag for someone who has extreme opinions
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 02:25 PM
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Yep. I didn't know much about that subreddit before joining and what you said lines up pretty accurately to my experiences there. I think giving people anonymity might just show what people's true thoughts and opinions are rather than having to tone it down for civility.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 12:06 PM
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Very interesting thank you for your insight. I was wondering how feminism looks on college campuses instead of online.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 12:04 PM
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Those ultra masculine men that are successful? It’s because they make the optimal provider for women. Ever notice how the first insults feminists use to discredit men are either misogynist, incel, or gay? It’s meant to tear down men who don’t perform subservience to women. This is the group of people who will always win, the ultra masculine. There's absolutely no doubt in my mind about that. And quite frankly, I see little that's being done to address that, instead shifting the blame on "incels"…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 12:03 PM
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Wow. That's shows humility on your end. Sorry for being combative in my reply I was just expecting a more violent back and forth which is definitely my bad, it's usually what I get talking about these things. Yes misogyny is definitely present! I wouldn't ever claim that sexism isn't real, I can't speak for people on this sub but a lot here wouldn't either I assume. But no need to feel bad at all. I'm grateful to have a discussion which doesn't end in flames. You should definitely go away and th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/25 03:34 PM
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Talk about self hate. Well, let's take this by point by point. Misogyny is a historical thing. There's a sense of orientalism mixed with recency bias in this statement, so let's give some clear examples: In the Ottomon empire, boys were taken from their homes and mutilated, giving brutal and abusive training to become a military force. They were called Janissaries. In ancient sparta, Boys were taken from their families at age 7 to undergo brutal military training in the agoge. Spartan men were e…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/25 07:02 PM
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My mouth is agape. Evil isn’t bound by gender, thank god the internet isn’t my real life.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/02/25 11:55 PM
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the problem made in the video is less that rape is culturally acceptable and more that we don’t have an accurate definition of rape. I think rape culture is a misnomer that probably should be renamed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/25 07:44 PM
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sexual assault is obviously way too far, but I think it should be seen as a very manipulative, scummy and fucked up thing to do. As the other commenter said, in the same vein as a golddigger. It shouldn't be normalized or de-stigmatized but SA is way too much
/r/EverydayMisandry27/01/25 05:18 PM
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It's been obvious for a while that the "feminism helps men too" angle is complete bunk meant to just deflect criticism away from the movement. If feminism ever helps men, it's by complete accident and is meant to benefit women. Feminism would never ever promote a move that solely benefits men.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/01/25 10:12 PM
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It’s almost poetic how easily the mask can slip. It’s like they know how irrational their hate is but it provides a good cover for loneliness and the vulnerability of trauma
/r/EverydayMisandry21/01/25 06:24 PM
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Hm, calling a group of people “monkey brained” and “savaged animals” who are inherently violent and evil, where their traits they were born with makes them disgusting and vile… I wonder where I’ve heard that before?
/r/EverydayMisandry21/01/25 02:52 PM
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That’s…not what gender roles are, please engage with a baseline understanding of what’s actually being discussed. There is sex, that is rooted in biology and refers to biological realities. Gender, or gender roles, is the socially constructed ideas that are sometimes influenced by sex (the biological realities) of the person. For example, it IS true that the male sex produces mainly testosterone which leads to stereotypes about men being more angry and outspoken. This is then reflected in the ro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/25 03:52 PM
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The biggest fans of Boyhood and Marriage Story I know are all women??? It’s not just misandrist it also makes 0 sense.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/12/24 04:25 PM
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Yup, you got it straight completely. The fact so many couldn't self-reflect and see that for themselves is disheartning. You really have to spell it out for them, even if any normal. sane person can see it a mile away.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/12/24 04:37 PM
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Oh no no you forget, I’m a man.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/12/24 09:32 PM
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I like being a guy as in, I’m not trans. but I hate how people wanna silence anyone who dares talk about how hard it is to be a man
/r/EverydayMisandry03/12/24 07:00 PM
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That's a nice way of putting it.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/12/24 06:14 PM
2

…my people? Bro I wish I had the power you think I do
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/24 02:27 AM
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Yeah you’re right…it’s upsetting. Equally as upsetting as misogyny is for you. What are you trying to prove?
/r/EverydayMisandry29/11/24 06:27 PM
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Oh wow! I had no idea this had a name. Great.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/11/24 03:55 AM
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People like that fundamentally misunderstand statistics. He was probably going off of the 1 in 33 statistic, but THAT'S NOT HOW STATS WORK! You could have a stat like "1 in 5 men are gay", and have a room full of a 100 men who are all straight! That method only works if you gather the entire sample size all together in one room, that's like saying "according to statistics, 5 out of 10 people in this room are women" to a group of men. Well done genius, you really exposed us there.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/11/24 03:20 AM
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Yes, it's a jokey compliment but one nevertheless
/r/EverydayMisandry25/11/24 06:47 PM
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Yeah that one comment was even more ridiculous. But of course it is, it's misandry! It's not based in anything other than negative feeling
/r/EverydayMisandry25/11/24 06:47 PM
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“You’re not a credible source on whether those women were emotionally intelligent” (para) Oh yeah my bad, clearly when you say every man under 43 is emotionally immature, that implies you are a super credible unbiased source. Go off.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/11/24 06:06 PM
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If you want to become more like LWMA, what separates this sub from LWMA? Not trying to be sarky it’s a genuine question. The way I distinguished this place is that more low effort posts were allowed on here, I’d have no reason to stay if that was changed
/r/EverydayMisandry23/11/24 04:11 AM
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I love this scene in South Park, the whole episode is brilliant but this depicts how society reacts to these situations so well.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/11/24 08:08 AM
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circmoms3 isn't what you think it is ;)
/r/EverydayMisandry15/11/24 12:35 AM
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What in the actual fuck. This is satire right OP? Right? Right?
/r/EverydayMisandry14/11/24 04:28 AM
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I think our disagreement comes from the fact I don’t think it’s perpetrating it, I don’t think the message of the image is anymore for restricting men’s ability than it is women, that would imply they actually agree with the phrase “your body, my choice”, no?
/r/EverydayMisandry10/11/24 02:04 AM
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Ah it’s interesting you read it that way. I didn’t think of it like that. It reads to me instead like “I know with the current climate your rights are now threatened, stay safe.” But I don’t know OPs intentions maybe they thought that, but it seems counter right? Like if you want women to stay safe against the “evil men” surely you wouldn’t wanna be encouraging violence against them? So I don’t quite buy that angle, stay safe is usually more like “avoid and take precautions” rather than going ou…
/r/EverydayMisandry10/11/24 02:01 AM
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No offence taken. Can you maybe explain why the tagline undermines my point? Not saying you’re wrong I’m just not seeing the connection
/r/EverydayMisandry10/11/24 01:54 AM
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The person who made the post maybe could have thought that? But I don't see anything particular in this image that claims that all men are rapists, I don't see the rape element at all? It's an analogy right? Like republicans want to restrict the bodily rights of women, this is how it would look when the gender is reversed. "Do you feel why we are so upset now?" type of thing. I could be reading it entirely wrong, but it's just how it appears to me. And honestly I think it's effective, like I cou…
/r/EverydayMisandry10/11/24 01:47 AM
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I'll be a martyr for this I guess, I feel like it's more to show the absurdity and double standard of saying such a thing. It's absurd and heartless, just like the saying "Your body, my choice" is. It making a point that the cruetly can go both ways. The person making this doesn't neccessarily have to be a misandrist, it's making a statement that BOTH is wrong by pointing the mirror back on the people who want to restrict women's bodily rights. I think the intention was SUPPOSED to be that it's …
/r/EverydayMisandry10/11/24 01:42 AM
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Anyone with half a brain wouldn’t stay with her anyway
/r/EverydayMisandry22/10/24 05:50 PM
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When this manipulation is done against men, it’s empowering. When manipulation towards women happens, it’s predatory
/r/EverydayMisandry22/10/24 05:47 PM
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I love the fact the top emote is anger, I hope she got flamed in the comments. It’s insane how this is legal.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/24 04:47 PM
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It helps if you realise that they never intended to have the conversation to begin with, so they will come up with any excuse not to engage.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/10/24 11:31 PM
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FD Signifier is a gross person.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/24 09:56 PM
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The ultimate feminist paradox: Men are too emotional AND men aren’t emotional enough
/r/EverydayMisandry08/10/24 02:30 PM
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Dehumanising language is propaganda 101.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/10/24 04:14 AM
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I’d also like to add that the ethics board has deemed at least some of his videos as unethical
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/24 05:06 PM
22

…what?
/r/EverydayMisandry06/10/24 01:27 PM
1

If they don’t attack trans men on the basis of being trans, then they are transphobic. Trans men are men, why are you excluding them?
/r/EverydayMisandry04/10/24 07:55 PM
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Thank you for your empathy, but proselytising isn’t the way to show it. But thank you.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/10/24 04:17 PM
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Uhh that’s not how evolutionary biology works
/r/EverydayMisandry03/10/24 10:29 AM
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I just went down this rabbit hole since you commented and wow, yeah exactly. The definition of "walk a mile in our shoes."
/r/EverydayMisandry02/10/24 02:46 PM
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I think it’s so funny how if you give in and say “ok yeah it’s all men” they STILL aren’t happy. Hilarious. It’s almost like the point isn’t to come to any understanding but instead to find a punching bag
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/24 04:38 PM
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Could you elaborate? Out of curiosity not out of wanting to fight you on it
/r/EverydayMisandry27/09/24 03:48 PM
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We’re in an awkward stage of society where movements haven’t caught up to reality yet. For most of feminist existence, it wasn’t about hating men, it was about equal rights for women. Now that feminists are finally achieving that goal, their only reasoning for existence is to push further and further.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/09/24 11:14 PM
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Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. This is a purposeful catch-22 where in no matter what we do, if we create safe spaces and exclude women, or don’t create safe spaces, either way we’re all misogynistic. All roads lead to Rome.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/24 11:11 PM
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I’ve never once thought of a woman as a toy for pleasure, sounds like projection to me
/r/EverydayMisandry22/09/24 10:11 PM
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I didn’t even get the “this is bad” unfortunately, though I did get a lot of definitions
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/24 07:38 PM
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no worries! "profile picture"
/r/EverydayMisandry22/09/24 05:18 PM
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Another thing, I commented just simply asking if my SA is a myth because it's not systemic, and got told I was weaponizing my trauma and "trauma dumping" lol. Would LOVE to see these idiots say the same if it was a girl using their bad experiences against men as an argument, wait no they wouldn't, because that's what the entire stream seems to be. Just an FYI, if you're running an entire stream about problems or the lack of, that women and men both face, that's not trauma dumping, especially whe…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/09/24 04:56 PM
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“A lot” sounds like too much, to me “a lot” is like hovering around 50% of women which is way too much of a generalisation to call narcissists
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/24 05:39 PM
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To be fair, what do you think moderators do?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/24 05:56 PM
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I’m not sure I’m comfortable with “a lot of women”, seems like a big generalisation. But you’re spot on with everything else
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/24 05:55 PM
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I agree, only because of the things she’s saying. If a man said those things but wasn’t an incel, I’d say they were very vulnerable to inceldom
/r/EverydayMisandry19/09/24 12:22 PM
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Ah fair enough! I didn’t know that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/24 03:39 PM
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Guilty! But yeah it’s only because it feels like this is the only place on the site people “get it.” A lot of men’s rights subs are right leaning and say some bigoted shit. Quick suggestion: maybe we could have a day for it? Or a mega thread?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/24 03:17 PM
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All the teachers who told me to “stop crying” and acted unreasonably annoyed by me having emotions were all women- I mean men, yeah men.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 03:16 PM
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But remember, it’s only men who uphold toxic masculinity, not the women who all assume we’re heartless and without emotion
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 02:24 PM
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Right? But yeah sure all men are that stereotypical painting you drew.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/24 10:08 AM
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I don’t blame Kamala for this however, the Democrats played up “the first female POTUS!!!!” angle with Hillary because they think it’ll get more votes and will play better to liberals and sadly they’re right. That’s the way the world is nowadays.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/09/24 01:47 PM
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Wow I’ve been proven completely wrong. This is really fascinating to me because I could’ve swore this wasn’t true. I’m all for admitting when I’ve been ignorant, I will have to research this more it seems. Why isn’t this reported on more?
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/24 05:12 PM
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I mean do you have any data than anecdotal evidence? Like you said, im glad to hear it. From what I know, and I can link some studies if you’d like, there’s been more reports of abuse AND from anonymous surveys about men abusing women That said I’m really sorry to hear about your experience, I have been SAd twice by women so I can relate to your sentiment
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/24 05:02 PM
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Link some then please, this is really interesting to me because I definitely have never heard of this
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/24 05:01 PM
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Women abuse men more than men abuse women? I…don’t think that’s true edit: it seems I was wrong. That’s… shocking.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/24 04:41 PM
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The last sentence sounds weird but that’s about it. I think he was talking about being seen as creepy approaching women at the gym which he clarified and yeah he’s completely right, just should’ve elaborated a bit more
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 03:05 PM
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What’s with the random fatphobia? Some people do struggle to lose weight due to medication and health complications that prevent them from exercising. If they’re complaining about not being to lose weight there’s probably a reason more than just walking 15 mins a day not working
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 01:08 PM
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It's a weird phenominon considering this only really happens to men and people always assume he is being lazy. Sure, the OP was a bit of a weirdo with that last comment, but he doesn't really deserved to be called a manbaby and entitled. Sure, he's feeling entitled to a relationship, you know, the thing most of us crave. Why is this seen as a bad thing? He doesn't ever blame women at all he's just venting. We all care about mental health until it comes to lonely men, then it's just them being "l…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 01:41 AM
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That’s the issue when judging things by groups of people, groups aren’t monolithic. That’s why I said “by average”, you’re also taking the statistic out of context since by average men are most likely to commit violence compared to women EDIT: I just want to clarify since you deleted your comments that we agree more than we disagree, if women truly want to be equal, we must dispel the idea that women are more vulnerable than men. Women should be taught self-defense and encouraged to fight just a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 05:53 PM
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More vulnerable as in less able to defend themselves and are weaker.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 04:57 PM
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I see what you're saying and that's completely true. I'm just talking about as a whole, in society we view women and children as more vulnerable and so we have an internal bias to protect them. That probably comes out in reports like these, not that I'm saying it's right.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 04:57 PM
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To play devils advocate, women and children are more vulnerable than men on average. However, you can’t make the argument that women are just as equal and capable as men and then say that women need to be protected more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/24 01:22 PM
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I have no game and rizz, I just talk to women like a friend and if I catch feelings I let them know. Not the best route but it’s better than the stupid mind games
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 11:42 PM
1

I don’t want to remove my emotion, I pride myself on being a man in tune with his emotions. Of course I myself have trauma around weight but I’m also trying to get healthy, however I’m not going to lie and say that there aren’t cute women who just so happen to be overweight. Being fat isn’t necessarily beautiful by itself, but it also doesn’t factor heavily for me personally Thanks though
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 12:46 AM
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Alright that’s fair thank you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 12:32 AM
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I am a poster that’s why I was unbanned, I just comment there and noticed a trend and as a gay man I understand the struggle but yeah it is what it is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 12:12 AM
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I went on the sub because I’m plus sized myself, but if that’s how it is, that’s how it is I suppose :/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 12:07 AM
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