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| – | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityDid she leave him before or after going to therapy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent.I wouldn't date a woman who rocks a full beard and I wouldn't date a woman who wears an over whelming amount of makeup. Both are okay. I'm kind of getting confused on your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent.Nope considering that it's very consistent and that women have the same kind of thoughts? Especially since there's a lot of stories about women going on dates and the man actually looks the same but a little bit shorter than they thought.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent.I think that's exactly what I just said. Didn't I say that it's rare that a woman can completely overhaul her look? And no most likely not. I'm well aware that a lot of women probably most of them. Even more so ethnic women have noticeable facial hair if it's not maintenanced. Is a preference that the women I date don't have that. It is also a strong preference that a woman I would date doesn't wear so much makeup that cops would ponder arresting her for presenting a false ID. Low level cosmetic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent.I am more likely as a man to see someone with heavy makeup who looks different than with facial hair who looks different. And again like I mentioned before I've definitely tested out three different pictures of the same person and women cannot tell the difference either. And that's okay. I've actually been with hairy women who then eventually shaved It was more appealing but they didn't look like a different person all together and that's what I'm saying here is that you can completely change yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent.Yes that's a preference thing But of a woman has a lot of hair I'm still able to know who she is. That's at least my thing about the whole makeup versus hair. It would be so difficult to find a woman who is so hairy that I cannot recognize them. I've literally walk by high school classmates because I couldn't recognize them what their makeup on. I've also gone on dates where the woman looks drastically different from online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent.Again, I have yet to approach a woman online and in real life who I've dated or being very close to that looks like a completely different woman when they shave or don't shave. I have in real life and online met women who look like completely different people. When people get catfished it's not usually because of hair or not having facial hair. It's usually because of the makeup or A.i. You can try to make this point but it's not a logical connection. But there's a clear distinction here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent.I don't know I feel like there's a big difference between that. One you look like a different version of yourself slight cosmetic changes. The other one you look like a completely different person. There's a friend who I've had this conversation with and so I decided to take a screenshot of one bumble account from a woman. And showed my friend three pictures from the account. Ask her to tell me which ones you think she is beautiful. She picked one and then I told her these are all the same perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityOh no I think you totally confused what I said. I personally think that therapy can be very helpful. But I don't think a lot of women use it for self-improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityEven worse. They begged me to stay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityWomen overwhelmingly go to therapy compared to men. And also I'm specifically talking about women. You can absolutely tell me if there's and unofficial epidemic of men going to therapy and then trying to gaslight you about certain things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityWell a couple things on this This is not to defend him but this is the law as is. One thing this is already kind of the law where even if you're the victim you can be compelled to testify. But this is not just for rape this is for almost all crimes. In addition to that this is also the truth for witnesses. If someone else sees you being assaulted you can have a bench warrant to testify. But also this was the topic of discussion I had a while back ago. In the early parts of me too there are some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 04:09 AM |
| 9 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityWomen surrounding me that go though therapy aren't actually doing better. They're just better at communicating their toxic behavior which in itself is not an improvement just an extra step to being a douche sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityOn a side note I've been told by women on here that I'm manipulative because I delete my comment and post history.. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityNot all of them. Just the woman who go to therapy there are more likely to project rather than internalize.. I don't wash out at women I'm speaking about specific type of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityIn the mental health world I don't think I said anything wrong. Psychiatrist would help you with medicine and your psychologist will help you with your tools. A therapist more likely than not will help with your relationships.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityIndeed I have, It's not bad. I tell you one thing I don't do is go out obsessions calling everyone narcissistic or some other new phrase. I set my clear boundaries communicate them respectively become more aware of my own shortcomings and work diligently to make sure I'm progressing and don't use my shortfalls as an excuse be less than what I should be to the people around me and to myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityMental illness It's not a completely coupled experience with social skills. If you are legitimately someone with mental illness you need would probably lean more on a psychiatrist/ psychologist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Women use therapy to avoid personal accountability / responsibilityI've never once have gotten mad at a woman for reinforcing boundaries. But I've been called narcissistic, childish, and other things for not doing are saying something specifically the way a woman who has gone through therapy wanted. There was one time I was talking to a woman and I ask her if she wants to use my cash app referral as she was about to open an account. She told me that The fact that I was seeking the benefit as she was benefiting from something was a clear sign that I was manipula… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.It's a slight miscommunication that we just had. I posted it in another comment. But regardless of that That's not even the key point of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.Does it matter that much ? I mean you can go to Google trends right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.Earlier in the post I posted the stats from Google trends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 05:33 AM |
| -4 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.Why is it automatically considered rage bait because it's something that heavily affects men rather than women ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.Google trends says in the last 90 days it came from a 64 point popularity score to 81 point popularity score..... So it is growing ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.Not the question:). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.I like the mindset you have a bit but I don't see homemakers as unpaid labor. If you are the primary breadwinner and you use that money to buy clothes, vacations, health insurance, child care etc then you are still compensating them in the moment you're not necessarily making them do work and then still have to provide their own essentials. . And I think that's a fair exchange but realistically I think it's not accurate to say that someone is not being compensated when their lifestyle is being s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 07:56 PM |
| -7 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.I think you're answering a direct question with rhetoric instead of a direct opinion on what I studied. It's just a yes or no Do you think alimony should also come with required domestic labor? You can say no. You don't have to devalue the question. I don't have any direct control of making it happen lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 07:53 PM |
| -8 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.There is some alimony that lasts forever. So would you say in cases of forever alimonies or extreme long-term alimonies You're okay with it but you don't believe it would be suitable in short-term alimony? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 07:32 PM |
| -2 | Alimony Recipients Be Required to Do Domestic Labor.Alimony has nothing to do with having kids or not.. And you didn't have a suitable response to the debate The debate isn't if it's a problem. The debate is if it's a fair exchange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.I will talk about two point of views on this. One is through a friend and the other one is personal experience as a child. My friend would literally post screenshots of conversations with the mother from his phone and the child's phone.bto prove that it was a terrible situation. Honestly I think he's stronger than I was If I was in that situation. She made wanting to be closer to his child a living hell for him. She was guilt tripping the kid and to staying with her instead of visiting the fathe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.I mean yeah if you want to get to very specifics I'm sure but there are many jobs that are not as dangerous as childbirth. The point is childbirth is not the most dangerous thing to a woman statistically. Factors if you are in a marriage with someone who's a commercial fisher and you're pregnant they're as a higher chance that your husband or boyfriend is going to die working then you are giving birth. It's childbirth scary yes it is, Is this part of the main conversation at all probably not. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Don't you think it's a little wrong that the government can literally step in and put someone in jail if they don't pay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Well it is a fact that women experience violence for men but it's also a fact that we want experience more intimate violence from women that they are in romantic relationship s with compared to men. It's also a fact that women are safer than men and most categories. It's also a fact that childbirth is safer for women than it is for men just working a job. There are many true things that put women And a better position than men but If stated women will definitely still downvote it. The feeling is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Oh my god all of the songs are about dating and relationships. In my original point was not the victimization of men from these songs. I was saying how there is a big push for men to treat women well and not be superficial in the '90s which is a good thing. I was using that whole point as a counterweight to nowadays women want to be superficial when it comes to men. How did you miss that point all together? How did you take one thing out of a group of things and try to disseminate that into a di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.What I'm saying is no one should be. Call us out call the woman's out. Let's all be better otherwise there is no toxicity just people wanting exclusive rights to being shit people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Yes. My point is you can't take a superior high ground just because you have a common aspect of exploitation. And The porn that some men might watch might include someone who's trafficked. Or it's very possible that it's just a woman who wants to get high before getting railed. Even more likely for it to be not traffic if they're doing only fans. Even less likely to be trafficked if it's from a high quality company with actual contracts for their performers. But 9.9/10 You're sex toys are being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 07:46 AM |
| 13 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.So are you saying that only one side should have an out that they can execute ever pregnancy does occur? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.I looked up some more stuff and it looks like you have a higher chance of dying as a baby in your first year than a woman during childbirth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Yes they are accountable. It's called prison. And men who are caught to be pedophiles are straight up having a bad time in jail as they should. However when it comes to female traffickers they are kind of handled differently for example according to a study " Broad 2015). According to Jones, female traffickers' behaviour is often interpreted as being the “offspring of a female's lack of reasonable choice, rather than moral autonomy” (Jones, 2014, p. 154). For example, if a female trafficker was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 05:52 AM |
| 17 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.I'm going to use a quote that was prominent in the abortion debate but modify it a little bit. Consent to sex is not consent to financial parentage. And I think there is a clear distinction. To say that sex automatically compels you to be a parent in anyform is very very problematic. Don't you think ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.I just googled it. Both Bonnie Blue and the men who slept with her are gross. That's not even erotic. That's just sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Still safer than being a man by mortality rate :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 05:32 AM |
| 5 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.I don't know who Bonnie Blue is Considering that 45% of all women who voted voted for Donald Trump than I don't think women have a problem voting for him that much. Can't totally blame men on that one. At the very least it shows that women probably don't mind too much to vote for a charismatic man who cheats Abortion is very difficult I don't doubt that. But it's simpler in the long run then barely being able to afford a child on both sides. Granted. I'm trying to find a stats with USA but if I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.But still statistically one of the safest things you can do is give birth in America. It's not to say it's not without complications. Like I said before I don't think is on page for the argument. I mean technically more people died eating food than giving birth last year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.A study says that the rates of sexual assault is 27% men versus 32% women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:58 AM |
| 0 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.You're comparing the wrong thing And I feel it's kind of out of line for the conversation. Cuz in reality if we want to use varying statistics you're more likely to die commercial fishing than you are giving birth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.No I think you misunderstand it's both. Everyday when we use our portal. And every month by our manager. It's fine it's okay. Well You put your child support in play when you mentioned that you use it and your husbands feeling towards it. I wouldn't know about it unless you brought it up. Also thank you for doing your job as The primary caregiver of your children. I hope your husband get some more income and mental stability to give you the child support your children deserves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:45 AM |
| 7 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Nah. It's company policy. We get a reminder every fiscal month. Actually once a day If you count the portal logins. I don't mind a reminder. I don't mind the accountability :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:36 AM |
| 5 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.No I don't need you to explain it to me because I know exactly what I said. What you feel I said is something else. I truly don't know why it's a problem. I got a company credit card. I get told once a month that I should only be using it for work purposes. I don't consider a condescending. And no one said that you were not taking care of your kids. Sounds like this is a sensitive topic for you if it's making you emotional you don't have to reply anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Yes and women should have ultimate control and choice in that hands down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:27 AM |
| 5 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.How is it condescending to say that he has an obligation to your kids, his payment should be reasonable, And I gave you the short summary of what child support is used for. How is it condescend ? Get what you need and use it for its intended purposes ? If you're assuming that I had ill will to that even though it's objectively on your side that would be a little bit.....toxic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.I didn't say I was/ wasnt. What I'm saying is you can't judge toxicity based off people who are least like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:15 AM |
| -6 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.They actually did a study on that. I Googled people on child support are depressed. And Princeton did a study on it. It looks like for a lot of these topics there are studies. And so often like women normally do they dismiss the feelings of men because of whatever reason. But the fact is if you were married and he had a kid with you he should help you financially. That's his responsibility. But at the same time I do hope the amounts he's paying is manageable and that you're utilizing the funds p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:13 AM |
| 6 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.I think that's one of the key things here is to generalize.. I think the issue is that a lot of us have personal experiences with the opposite gender mixed with a lot of bias. However in society there's a lot of men are violent and women are crazy undertones but I truly believe that most of us are good people who may have bad interactions with people with opposite gender so we want to combat that with observations we make are personal experiences. I think it's healthy to explore these generaliza… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10135558/ This says that 27% of men in over 32% of women have been victims of sexual violence in some form. It's not that much of a reach just because it's not raising It could directly. There are people who literally go to jail for not paying child support, there are people who can get passports and they can't drive if they don't pay. You can always just ask men who are on child support and alimony how they feel. Heck even ask women who are on child supp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:07 AM |
| 14 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Making someone a participating parent against their own will is toxic. Ultimate control of what you're doing with your own body and life is not toxic. But demanding that someone else participate in the upbringing of a child unwillingly while threatening their income, their livelihood, their stability and mental health, and even jail time is unethical and toxic. And just to give you an example of flipping the gender there was a story about a woman who had a kid because her husband kept begging, S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Seeing how men cannot get pregnant this kind of goes along with my point. You're kind of seeing it as because men can't get pregnant it's not the same or at least near it experience as being forced to financially take care of the kid for 18 plus years I think that's a over simplification of the issue Men are also equally criticized for signing up for only fans (by women defend women performing on only fans) I Don't think it's fair to use sex trafficking as the prime example. Been talk about cele… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.My actual very critical response this is how can you admit that female abuses underreported but say strongly that it cannot parallel to what men do? I strongly believe that it's just categorized differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 03:16 AM |
| – | How do you feel about women who validate and justify the red pill mindset and behavior?No I'm not confused I understand that you are okay with women who choose it. I'm asking you if you also support men who choose women that fit that same lifestyle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:58 AM |
| – | How do you feel about women who validate and justify the red pill mindset and behavior?What do you condemn men who co-participate in activities that those type of women populate as well? Like would you say any man who wants to stay at home wife and forces her to be financially dependent on him is bad if that's exactly what the woman enthusiastically wants? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 12:46 AM |
| – | How do you feel about women who validate and justify the red pill mindset and behavior?I mean you don't hang out with red pill men are toxic men but I still would guess that you have a very very strong opinion of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 09:42 PM |
| – | How do you feel about women who validate and justify the red pill mindset and behavior?I don't agree completely. Considering that being in a traditional relationship It's not necessarily a far-right or even toxic ideology. It's just a lifestyle choice that can be positive and wholesome on its own. And also I would say believing red pill and being a terrible person aren't mutually exclusive. There was a post on Reddit not too long ago about how this woman went on a date with someone who was red pill. She had A great time and felt respected until she asked about it. He was honest an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 09:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women's standards are not too high, men just need to step upThe thing with most standards is is that you can put a number to preferences. Heights, income, race, relationship status, etc. If I say I want a woman who's nice has a good BMI, makes at least 60K, likes to travel and wants to have babies It's not a low standard it's common attributes. And if I'm a common man And she likes what I possess then we are compatible most likely. A lot of women ask for a certain type of man that's very rare in attributes. Not necessarily better. Wanting a man that's 6'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 01:00 AM |
| 4 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.I have a basic question to this and I would like your thoughts. Because I mostly agree with what you say. The thing is I see it more as loving you or liking you simply. And I've actually both about being so simple to love. Give me peace, good conversation and simple resolutions the problems and I'm yours. But on here and in real life women have said that they don't want to be too easy to love and that they require more to fill that great feeling. Wouldn't you say it's easier to be simply loved a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesA victim would be someone who did not have any insight into the potential outcomes of a situation. A person who loses money on the stock market is not a victim. A person who loses money because they trusted a reputable nice investor who turned out to be the leader of a Ponzi scheme is a victim. In the same way a person who dates a man with a good reputation and stable job would be a victim if that person was cheating. But would not be a victim of the out going tall attractive guy who has a histo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:12 AM |
| 55 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.I mentioned something like this on my previous post that a lot of lesbian and bi women have the same experience with women as straight men. It was not received too well by some. But ultimately I think it's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesThe lack of good men being more risky should not equate some women dating outgoing but terrible men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesI want to jump in here. Drug dealers are not just from one culture. My ex was a medical school student and people in her class were definitely getting drugs from other people on campus. And the dude got married. It is not from one specific culture. This is why I specify drug dealers and not low income or urban. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 05:29 AM |
| -1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesI don't want to date these women. I want to make fun of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesYes and I think men are the first ones to call them that. And we definitely do warn them about that as well. Don't worry we're criticizing men for bad choices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesThere's no drama created. It's a random post on the internet from someone you most likely will never see in person. Pretty low level when you think about it. Is this drama for you? Do you feel like this is a negative impactful highlight of your day or weak ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesI do not believe that some brackets are more disposed to getting terrible dudes. Nor the I believe that terrible men are just poor men. It doesn't bother me too much It's an observation I'm not personally offended but it's definitely something that happens then discussed. But I am offended by is when someone dates are terrible man and then says that all men are terrible and are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesThat's very very possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesMost people around the world and locally will not disagree that homewrecking men are in fact terrible. In these examples I mentioned how one had a bad reputation the other one was a known cheater and a bad decision, and mention how a drug dealer is a drug dealer. These are negative titles. Don't you find it odd that these women still go for the men that everyone should stay away from? And of they don't isn't it weird that we call these specific victims instead of stupid ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesDescribing women who date terrible dudes habitually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesWell yes and no. My point is is that there's a lot of women who make their way to very terrible men who are in most cases obviously bad for them. Pertaining to that specific point is that usually in a lot of cases but women who would have the ick or consider red flags for typically mundane things would also date men who have other more obvious and impactful red flags. Example there's someone out there who wouldn't date someone who was short but very nice. But what date someone if they have a ter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 11:00 PM |
| 15 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesAnd this is why you would probably get cheated on. Rappers are most definitely red flags. Local superstars or national about 90% of them have content That wouldn't be appreciated in a relationship. This is not only for men. Even female rappers are pretty crap at relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 10:50 PM |
| 6 | Women are dating the same terrible dudesI mean we do see this though. There are some women who are habitually victims of terrible men. But they keep on falling for the same archetype | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Proof of innocence is not enough to save a man's reputation/ life when accused of sexual assault. And that's why we should scrutinize every accusationYeah on the other side of that though Men do one other men about not messing with certain women. And even after they get burned we still criticize them for certain behavior that led to their own victimization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Proof of innocence is not enough to save a man's reputation/ life when accused of sexual assault. And that's why we should scrutinize every accusationI think the difference here is You can do whatever you want as far as yourself and what you choose to do. But as soon as accusations or claims are made against someone and it's an open space then it does have to be scrutinized. This is what I would expect for almost anything. I have coworkers that don't like other co-workers but I don't treat them differently based off what I heard more so if it's not proven). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?To answer your questions yes to all of that as I spent time in Saudi Arabia with women alone in public, they are allowed to leave the country alone, and men and women have the same rights in public from a government point of view. Now you will be in trouble man or woman if caught having sex and not being married. And you both will be in trouble if you have a kid out of wedlock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 12:43 AM |
| -8 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?Women are allowed to leave the country without families permissions. I think your referencing some old laws. My friend in Saudi Arabia literally just went to Asia without her parents permission They were super upset but there was nothing they could do about it. There's definitely sexual assault in Saudi Arabia. But it's much less because they will literally kill you or flog you as punishment. But how can you believe that women aren't allowed outside, or if they do they need to be with a male rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 08:27 AM |
| 1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?The price of what exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:06 AM |
| -1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?Yes. But in the whole child support system then make up a minority. And it's usually not to the father. It's usually to like a grandparent or another relative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:05 AM |
| -1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?We do All of that except we don't dismember journalist we just allow mega corporations to buy them out. We import tons of slaver labor and also put minorities in prison to do the slave labor and we don't call them royals we call them CEOs Look in Saudi Arabia men are encouraged to leave you alone. You literally can walk to the park by yourself at night no problem. Men aren't really pressuring you for sex. You have Jim's and some restaurants just for women. If you do get married the man is encour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 07:00 AM |
| 2 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?Pakistan is not good for women though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 05:14 AM |
| 1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?From USA 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 05:12 AM |
| -1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?I've been there twice and know people. Women are absolutely allowed to drive. I can send you pictures. I have videos with female friends that I hung out in public | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 05:12 AM |
| 1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?That's strange. So you have the trust system that can avoid a mismatch of potential sex mates In the first place? But not for the step after?. But regardless I'm for anything that benefits both people to make smart decisions. I don't want to have a baby with someone unless I want to. But even more than that I don't want to get someone pregnant even if I don't have the responsibility of taking care of it. So with that being said I think having a database of birth control users in this perfect wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 04:59 AM |
| 1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?I mean even with that being said I think you would still be appreciated if men knew they can get someone pregnant potentially if they don't use any type of protection. I mean It's constantly said that men should be more accountable to their sperm. I think this would help them make smarter decisions about who they can be with and who they shouldn't be with. This would help women out too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 04:51 AM |
| -11 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?No no please stay on task I'm responding directly to the no countries do a certain things bit. And I gave associated stats pertaining to that bit. I wasn't the one who brought other countries into the mix but I can tell you that Saudi Arabia is one of the safest places for women, has one of the lowest rates of poverty, highest rates of marriages. Free health care, less violent than the USA, and even with their civil rights violations and the fact they have legitimate executions sanctioned by the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 04:49 AM |
| -4 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?No but I can't imagine a 1 hour abortion being equal to a man's " I have to have financial responsibility for a kid for 20 years and potentially have part of my paycheck taken out and I could barely afford to live The way I want" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 04:45 AM |
| -1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?You know what why not. Let's make it even cleaner. Have it easily accessible online. If women want to baby trap then a man should be easily able to go online and see if that's her prerogative before dating her. If a man doesn't want to take care of his kids but doesn't like the pull out and then it should be aware that this dude is hit and raw with no remorse. Let's take it even further let's have women on birth control have to report when they are off birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 04:43 AM |
| -14 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?They do that actually. In Muslim majority countries particularly children of unmarried parents don't have inheritance or maintenance rights. And surprisingly Saudi Arabia has One of the lowest rates of STDs, kids born out of wedlock And also divorce rates if I'm reading this correctly is at 3.6% versus America's around 50%. Making these rules do seem to be beneficial even if this results in less sex for everybody it does result in better choices inmates on both sides and healthier relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 04:40 AM |
| -2 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?You know what yeah I am 100% on board with most of that. If a man says undoubtedly that he does not want to have a kid right now then he from that point forward unless rescinded has no obligation in any form to any responsibility to any kid that comes from any form of consensual intercourse With that being said I would also say that a woman has to proclaim her intentions of keeping a baby if a pregnancy would occur. And any unaligned family planning would just default to the woman can keep the b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 04:31 AM |
| 0 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?I think when there is any thing that can result in you going to jail, garnishing wages, and lowering your overall quality of life in many ways with the power through the government then the government in the law should Have due diligence to make sure you're the appropriate person that's getting the potential burden of a heavy punishment Also in this scenario let's assume abortions are readily available everywhere. Women at that point would have access to abortions no problem. Which is mostly the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 04:26 AM |
| 0 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?It's coming! I am excited for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 04:10 AM |
| -4 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?For the same reason you can't force a woman to give birth. They are accountable for finishing inside. Women also in 99.99% of skin-to-skin sexual activity agreed to that. The fact is It is not a force burden if you have the option of terminating. If within a reasonable time a man tells you he has no intention of helping with a child and you have the option of saying I still want this baby and you choose that then you have chosen to go this alone. I do not blame women at all for not wanting to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 04:07 AM |
| -7 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?You know I've always found it pretty interesting how sex is presented during certain situations. I personally believe that sex is something you do together and that both people are doing a reproductive act. And that in pregnancy at least in this scenario both have options and the result of a pregnancy. As a man you can choose to help or not help. Has a woman you can choose to have the baby or not have the baby. A lot of people have sex without the intention of getting pregnant. Both should have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 03:44 AM |
| -1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?On the first part I think collection to store information versus collection for one use is different. So in this scenario I would probably say these are optional for storage but destroyed after use by default. As far as walking away from the child I hear you. I think I would change that to maybe the first trimester. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 03:39 AM |
| -1 | What do you think would change in dating/ marriage culture if men had more parental rights and the option of claiming responsibility for the kid or not ?I hear what you're saying. Maybe modify that portion to say they can choose to claim responsibility depending on the abortion laws. Still keeping the fact that regardless of the answer if the DNA test shows that it's not their kid they can terminate parental responsibility? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 03:33 AM |
| – | Do you think weaponized and misinterpreted stats cause a lot of the division between men and women?It's so easily factual by both ancedotal and quantized information | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Do you think weaponized and misinterpreted stats cause a lot of the division between men and women?I once posted something that was voted down but statistically true. I said one of the safest things to be is a woman in the USA compared to the rest of the world when you taking all things. Male babies are more likely to die at birth. Men die younger rather be natural or caused by anything else. If your goal is to live a long life you would choose to be a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 03:49 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.No worries! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:29 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.I'll text you My most recent thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:23 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.Yeah. A good friend is someone who lets you trauma dump. Someone who's willing to take all your emotional baggage. And someone who doesn't state their boundaries. Good friends don't have boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:22 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.Confused on this one. How does it connect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:20 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.You're assuming I haven't tried. I have tried and it stresses me out and it ends up not being productive for either of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:18 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.I'm agreeing with you. I don't get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:18 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.Love them. Don't have the capacity to be emotionally dumped on most times without wanting to help in their anxiety | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:15 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.You know I hear this response a lot from women but more often than not they're still going through the same problem weeks or months later. How would you rationalize that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:06 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.I can't be the friend they need in that moment. We all have strengths and weaknesses. To assume one person has everything you need at all moments is kind of futile to any type of relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:05 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.That's a interesting take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:04 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.Maybe they should learn not to put their emotions above my capacity, boundaries and stat d strengths and weaknesses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:00 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.I think Venting has his time and its place. Like if you're having a conversation about a problem a 40/60 vent to solution finding ratio is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:58 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.This specific friend is pure drama. I don't want anything to do with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:57 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.Oh man that would be weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:57 AM |
| – | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.Okay so let me get this straight. I'm agreeing that I'm not the best person to them to vent to. And I have communicated that with them prior. If they still choose to attempt to vent to me. And then get upset when I try to give them advice. Who's fault can it possibly be at that point.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:53 AM |
| 0 | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.Lol that's a good question and yes I have. I told them multiple times that day should go to a friend that has the emotional space just allow them to trauma dump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.You don't ask people before trauma dumping on people because you assume they should be able to? That seems kind of entitled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:29 AM |
| 0 | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.That's good for them. As a challenge maybe you should ask them that when You vent to them so they want to help or are they more comfortable just letting you talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.I could sympathize with her. I just can't be silent while someone is suffering. I think a lot of men rather help someone than to just let them complain. I personally don't think it's a bad thing I just think it's different skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:17 AM |
| -1 | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.It's not a weird issue that you can't help someone exactly how they want to be helped. We are just more likely to be solutions based instead of being an echo chamber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:16 AM |
| -2 | With a lot of men not being the greatest person to vent to why do women still want to vent to men.There is nothing wrong with not being able to cope with someone just venting. No one's entitled to someone else handling someone else's mental baggage. This was actually something a therapist told me before. But outside of that You're missing the main points of men typically aren't easy to vent to why even care of we allow you to vent to us or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to themYou're seeing it is not being receptive I'm seeing good as a response to your statement. Ask the question and gave a counterpoint. You didn't give advice they're not even debating the initial points of the post You're arguing a different thing all together. I'm asking why is it all or nothing when you're saying no one asked you for advice in the first place. A proper response would be for someone I'm giving advice to that doesn't want to say hey I'm not looking for advice. Then I would say oh ok… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 12:17 AM |
| 0 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to themYou can 100% debate emotions. Changing emotions is another thing You can literally debate anything. No doubt you feel a certain way debating if you should feel a certain way is 100% within the realm of debate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 12:08 AM |
| 0 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to themWow way to victim blame(joking) I'm not asking anyone to agree with me. I'm just asking people for legitimate responses other than either I do it this way or the highway. It's not normal discourse or even chaotic discourse. It's just meaningless input. It's like if someone said I want something good to eat and the responses all food is good to eat. Like yeah that's a response if you want to be a little bit of a smart. Which is your right. And even within that there's a whole Auto mod portion of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 12:03 AM |
| 0 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to themSo you're telling me when you're talking to people about a situation you are having You expect the other party just to nod and agree or do you actually expect input and sometimes advice? Why does it seem that women only get offended when men do this. If I'm with a friend male or female And we are having a back and forth conversation mostly unless otherwise stated you give opinions, statements and counter arguments. That is a conversation between all friends. Pioneer challenge you to go to a frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:57 PM |
| 0 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to themSay you disagree with the sentiment that it's primarily a woman thing. Like 12 other people,nmen and women on this post did that. And you're right four minute opinion just off media is crap. So happy I specified in real life and online. Also happy that on this feed I had an example of something that happened to me in real life with the ex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:51 PM |
| 0 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to themAnd a conversation with friends of any gender it's okay to give opinions. This happens to me with women and men. And literally on Reddit you put an opinion and they invite themselves to a post. If you don't want to debate on something that's flared debate then you have the option to not post something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:47 PM |
| 1 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to themSuggestions are different from telling someone what to do. I think you just did exactly what my post is talking about but in a alternative way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:21 PM |
| -1 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to themNice. I can agree to that. It's just so annoying when I see it. Or when I'm a part of it. There was one time my ex was mad because she said we only listen to the music I like. I recommend it that we just make a playlist together. She straight up still was not happy 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to them😂😂😂. What if they are 5'11 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:03 PM |
| 2 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to them😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 11:00 PM |
| 1 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to themNotes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:57 PM |
| 0 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to themI hear you I definitely made sure I was using the correct definition of narcissism. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:42 PM |
| -1 | women often go to the all or nothing fallacy when Debating because compromise feels like losing to them😂. I've heard that too So would you say it's a key trait of someone who suffers from a form of narcissism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?They absolutely do. I wrote about this about a year or two ago on this forum. Some women actually admitted it to it. In real life Ladies are really stressed out about the green bubbles 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 04:41 PM |
| 3 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?Strange. I kind of agree with you and the only child part It's not the 100% aligned but only children have some entitlement sometimes flag still give them a chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 03:28 AM |
| 1 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 03:15 AM |
| 2 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?iPhone is a hugggewww one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 02:14 AM |
| 4 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?Lol. I'm just imagining a man coming in with a nice starched shirt and this woman straight up just drooling over him 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 09:09 PM |
| 3 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?You know it's interesting is that heels and wigs were primarily a male-dominated accessory back in the day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 09:07 PM |
| 6 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?Yeah that's a weird dynamic for the first one But I love cooking lol. I lowkey have a whole bunch of cure dedicated to even plating lol I do think it's 100% weird to eliminate mates based off something you only wear comfortably for two or three hours at a time. But anyway this is Not a debate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 08:55 PM |
| – | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"Yeah it's not a bad thing to say thank you appreciate your partner at any time for what they do Men or woman. I have a car with some advance features in it and it stopped like two car crashes that were not my fault. I still was thankful that they worked. When my ex ever got sick I made sure she came over to my house so I could take care of her until she was better. She was also very thankful and it made me feel good that I was appreciated. If after all that she got up and said you did the bare m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 08:23 PM |
| – | Please explain more about "I want women to be honest about their preferences"I rather them say that there preferences are ridiculous then that A man is low standard. I just don't like he women are calling average men or even good men low standard. There was a post on marriage Reddit where a woman said that she was so thankful for her man to help her while she was sick. The lady straight up crucified her. They were saying like he should be doing it. That's his jobs. " Is this where we are coming too where men are praised for mediocre stuff" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.That's a hindsight solution not a response while in the moment. I've given multiple credit examples of when this actually happens. I mean you can actually "Google he didn't give me a chance before breaking up with me" and people are upset. So in reality damn if you do then if you don't. For me it would be toxic if he said stop posting these pictures or I'll break up with you. But he said hey if this makes you happy and brings you joy maybe I'm not the one for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Yes I agree and some people are uncomfortable with that. Again how should one present that to someone they are dating? I still don't see how it's wrong to tell someone you don't like certain habits and then give them an out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 04:02 PM |
| – | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.I mean usually women call other woman pick mess when they defender man not necessarily when they would do anything for male validation. A woman said after her husband comes back from a long day of hard labor she likes to give him a massage. She was straight up called a pick me. Women get called to pick me by other women just for wanting a man happy at the base level sometimes so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency.Actually if you Google it you'll see some post by some women having to mentally cop and need support when they are attract unattractive men. The surely isn't all women but I'm sure a lot of these women would consider themselves a girl's girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:26 AM |
| – | Too many guys connect attraction to displaying human decency.I would say it's a little bit different. There have been multiple Reddit posts about how someone feel disgusted or have low self-esteem when an unattractive guy approaches them. What's even crazier is that there are women in real life who I talk to who feel disrespected when a guy they're not attracted to comes up to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Which places have you been? When I say crazy for example if you go to Egypt they have an intense and often don't like Jews or Russians. And they literally keep Christians in a place called garbage City. In Switzerland They have intense xenophobia. Japan literally has the same birthright laws that Trump wants to instill. I stay in a couple countries indepth and try my best to live as a local. And I'm telling you you're the difference between vacation in the country and setting up a life in the co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Lol. No lie I travel a lot literally every country that has any type of diversity is pretty effed up right now. Some people talk about going to certain countries but that's only because they benefit from having stronger currencies in the exchange. No lie if you want to chat about moving overseas message me. You think people here are crazy. They got nothing compared to other countries 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Which is all great in hindsight. Bye Again he's knee-deep in a relationship a lot of people have been in relationships where goals are desires have changed. Me personally I dated a woman who had a career goal change that was great for her but would require her to go overseas I did not feel like she manipulated me I was little her but I understood her and made a choice of what to do after It would be very crazy for me to post pictures 2 years later saying she manipulated me. It's okay to have dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.So asking someone if they're willing to change before breaking up with them is worse than just breaking up? Is that universal? I can pick up an example where you're not okay with someone's drinking habits and you want them to change or you'll break up with them. Is that still manipulation or controlling? If a person tells me hey I know you want kids but I'm not really into it If you feel like you need to have kids then we should break up. I would 100% not think they are manipulative. They would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.I'm not infatuated...... And on every post you make I'm going to Tell people. I was 100% joking about the infatuation. But you might actually be infatuated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Yes I agree 100%. And as he realized that he wasn't comfortable with that what should he have said? How should he have communicated that. Also that was like one of like the four things he did not like. But again if you're with someone you realize that you're not compatible with certain aspects of their life. What do you communicate? How do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.I will do what I want on here thank you ❤️. Thank you for being concerned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:18 AM |
| -4 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.His boundary was about posting it on Instagram. But I agree it was and I think it was great to tell This woman that he doesn't like it and if she doesn't agree with it then she should be with someone else. I literally don't know What else should a person do if he is uncomfortable with something his partner is doing. Please advise on what he should have said if he's uncomfortable with certain habits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Normal is subjective. Definitely have seen many people who deleted their post on this Reddit and other groups. Never care too much about it but I'm sorry it irked you 🫂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.You can always inbox me if you want to talk about it more :-). I didn't know you stay on certain topics for so long. How many days would you like? I will accommodate you as best as I can since you've made your need evident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:08 AM |
| -1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Nahhh. It seems like you like to make assumptions about things. I'm telling you directly I just like deleting stuff. There's no real benefit to deleting art keeping things there unless you believe but you can't be objective about something without knowing a previous history of the questioner or statement giver ? Is that what you're saying Is that why you're so infatuated with deleted histories? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:06 AM |
| 0 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Accountability to what exactly? Each question our statement should stand on its own. Do you feel previous statements would dilute our modify your answer on a new question or statement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:03 AM |
| -1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Why is that bad faith? Each post is unrelated to a previous post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Probably about a day or two. I don't like post hanging around too long I like to talk about different things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:59 AM |
| 9 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.You perfectly summarized what I was trying to say. I appreciate that. That's why I made it a point to say that men can be deceived as well. So it's very important So we open-minded a little bit about How women interact with you as a woman might be different than how they interact with men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:02 AM |
| -3 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.He literally gave her an out. I've seen tons of people state issues in relationships. I would not be offended of someone said this to me. But more often than not women usually talk like this to their boyfriends about having friends and giving ultimatums. Which is fair. If you are hanging out with someone who doesn't respect boundaries of a relationship then you can communicate that concern and also say that if that's what you need to be happy then I am not the one for you. How else could you com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.Well the thing is we don't know who's a rapist or not The main thing that women were saying is that the men around a rapist should know he's rapist. They're not telling us they are every once in awhile we can see hence and decide not to hang out with someone terrible. My point is that allowed women don't think women are terrible and so They don't believe a lot of what then go through with certain women is actually happening in that we're just making it up or even worse making a woman act a certa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:39 PM |
| -5 | Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you.I have to strongly disagree. I do think in a lot of ways a lot of women are okay with shallow behavior as long as it's not directed at anything in their friendship group. That's why socially allowed women can do a lot of things that men will get chastised for. I mentioned with my friend's house there's a lot of women in our expanded circle that straight up said kill all men at one point and it didn't hit their reputation. However there are men who straight up ask the woman out for a date respect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:37 PM |
| 1 | It is very hard for women to take accountability.Nope 100% Father Frank is a pervert. But once the whole scandals came open it would be hell for me to leave them with any male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 02:41 AM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.The man is obviously a terrible person. I don't need to tell you that for it to be true. You are not terrible for not making good decisions. You already established that the man was terrible. It doesn't need to be said again. But in the order of things you should have had a lot more protection and honestly we're looking at hindsight. And in addition I said I'm sorry You went through that. But the parents ( mother and father if they were both in your life) should have known better. Are you absolu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:36 AM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.It's the difference of being told you're mean versus actually being safe. Been literally get chewed out publicly all the time for wanting to have reasonable accommodations. Low costing first dates, prenups, DNA test etc ( also I want to let you know Mormon than you know actually have their location shared with another friend. I myself do that as well). Is either you want to be perceived Maybe as a bad guy or actually being a situation with a bad guy it's your choice. In your situation I'm sorry … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:16 AM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.You can leave a bad date anytime. In fact why is it that with all the information you have only about the specific situation you're accusing me of saying she would be terrible for leaving perfectly good dates. She has left good dates because she wasn't attracted or the guy was weird. That's good. That's fine we can joke around about not being able to stay on a date because the guy is only 6'1 And we do have those conversations and they are hilarious She will be the first to admit that she's shal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | It is very hard for women to take accountability.I've actually had male friends who had gambling issues, The first thing they did is blame themselves. We can blame it on a lot of things but we can also say that men try to take control of a lost situations ( for better or worse). So when a situation is bad and we have time to respect on it You are more likely to blame ourselves as a form of control. Now I've never been sexually assaulted. But I've been manipulated into having sex ( most commonly A woman starts crying when I said no, I would sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 01:05 AM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.The lack of accountability looks like no self-reflection of the situation and only looking at outside aspects of it. Of course he is responsible for the choice he made. However if she had a crucial point where she could have avoided his ability to even make a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:36 AM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.This is a week assumption that women don't respond to men like this in some other situations. If a man says that he was baby trapped The first thing women do is talk about oh well The part where she willingly chose to go to a guy's house that she did not even like You should have chosen to not going to a guy's house that she did not like The fact that I do not go over houses of people I do not like and that I was never assaulted by someone I did not like while unnecessarily choosing to be at tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | It is very hard for women to take accountability.Do you want to believe all men are dangerous or that the most dangerous men are in the most obviously dangerous situations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:30 AM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.Two out of the three things I responded with was supportive. Just because it makes you a little bit unnerved doesn't mean it's not helpful. Depend on me if you're in this situation, are you okay, this is where you went wrong. The summary of what I said to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:52 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.I did tell her I would support her and she was in the situation like this again. But I was trying to give her wisdom but never making this choice again. I literally said Are you okay, depend on me if you need to escape, don't do this One part of this again that will save you from this same situation. Why is it not empathetic to tell someone they could do better and they have responsibility why is it only empathetic to console. I want my friend to be strong and safe so I'm giving her all the tool… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:50 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.When you're very close to someone their pain kind of stings you a little bit too. Like my brother when he made bad choices I was there to help if you needs however I'm very irritated at the bad decisions that he makes. This is not uncommon Even in same sex close friendships. Why would it be different in opposite sex friendships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:47 PM |
| 1 | It is very hard for women to take accountability.Well I use fraternities because it looks like frat Bros are 300% more likely to rape ( stat from a study, trying to confirm it). And what do you mean, men live under scrutiny and we also are told to be safe as well. But we have The ultimate form of accountability. The legal system. Be careful who you have sex with. If you don't you get child support responsibilities. If a woman lies and says she was on birth control and gets pregnant you still have to take care of the kid You're overseas on a mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:45 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.You can avoid men if you want to. I was pretty much settling for avoiding men that are obviously dangerous. And I wasn't just talking about men I was talking about bad decisions in general. Reduce your risk. It feels like a lot of women are saying either I could be risky or not go outside. That's not even what men are saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:32 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.You can't equate to different situations as the same. If someone is taking precautions and are making good choices then you can't hold them accountable. If my friend was kidnapped I would not hold them accountable. If my friend willingly went to a stranger's house whom she didn't know and didn't tell anyone then yes I would say you had some control in that. All situations are not equal however common sense are the lack of it can change an outcome of any situation. Point being if you're creepy I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:26 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.That's so strange that you take it that way. So even though I stayed in there that I first asked if she's okay and I also told her that if it happens again she can call me to pick her up or call to give an excuse why would you take it as me blaming her for the assault because I asked her why she chose to go with someone She didn't have a good feeling about? Taking accountability for one part of a situation is not the same as blaming the whole situation on you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:14 PM |
| 2 | It is very hard for women to take accountability.For over 20 years. You should see the way she gives me advice it's harsh but it's appreciated always when it's good advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:11 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.Since I was a little kid rather it be media, news reports, our friends who tell me about their experiences in frat houses, are women who tell me their experiences and frat houses. It's not always bad. But you have more than enough reason to understand that it's not always good. Don't go to the place where it's historically known for having unsafe conditions more often than not. If I want to have great sushi I will go to a Japanese restaurant. Not the gas station If I want to avoid blowing up the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:10 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.There was no abuse in the situation till she got to his house. The thing is I'm not saying she chose to be abused. I'm saying more like she has the power to Not the abused. And she absolutely did. There's a thin line between victim blaming and empowering I admit that. But very often and so many situations women have the ability to be their own savior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:03 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.I'm not neurodivergent. I would say it's more about being irritated that my friend would put herself in a bad situation. And I know that saying And I respect it. But it would be more like everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face. "But also I volunteered myself to go into the boxing match in the first place. Also why did I have to be punched in the face." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:01 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.I would not trust a lot of decisions you make if you think that you could simultaneously say men are dangerous and yet go to a place with drunk horny men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | It is very hard for women to take accountability.Financial abortion should absolutely be right in certain situations. Just the same way as physical abortion should be a right in certain situations. The one that most guys talk about is finding out the kid is not yours. You should not have to financially provide for a kid that's not yours . But on the other end of that same spectrum if you're married and had a kid with a woman you can't avoid responsibility just because you don't like the kid or the mother. That is fair that is actual accountabi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:18 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.So according to what you're saying it is okay to not give your friends direct actionable advice when they have bad habits. But it is okay to do nothing while they suffer? No I never asked them to say I was right. I asked them to make better decisions for their own safety. Are you saying that telling someone to make good choices is the same as them admitting that the other person is right? That's pretty weird and toxic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:12 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.Sure. But I think people miss something it's not choosing a man versus the chance of meeting a bear. It's choosing a man our specifically choosing a bear. Nearly no one is going to experience being close with a bear. But if they do they will immediately either run out of fear or be attacked. But let's say I just don't understand. If men are more scarier than bears why do women defend themselves going to a a frat party where they're not only primarily men there but drunk men who are young and hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:04 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.There was no better outcome. Regardless of what I said it doesn't change what she went through already. But going forward she should know better than to go to Guy's houses in which she's not having a good time with. And a legitimate question if after you talk to her and gave her space it took her weeks months or years to leave this abusive boyfriend was it really because you influenced it or was it more likely that she just got sick of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:02 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.But don't you find that women too often want comfort? Like if a lot of their experiences come from not stopping and thinking would you assume that after one or two instances of not making good decisions based off the previous habit you would change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 10:00 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.So your friend chose to be a victim and stay until she chose to not to be a victim and left. And all the controller for situation within her hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:54 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.Honestly, and this is going to sound harsh any woman who's agree with the whole man v bear thing usually has a long history of making bad choices and sometimes A lot of credit debt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:48 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.Only a terrible dude with bad intentions will demonize you for making good decisions for your own protection. If someone demonizes you when you make a good choice you have made a good choice,congratulations. Yeah the man versus bear one is still a terrible analogy for many reasons I don't agree with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:47 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.There are whole podcast, pages and everything dedicated to telling men that they need to look better. I think those type of men are really complaining about unrealistic standards that women have. Everything you just said are unrelated to each other.. some women are promiscuous. If they own it that's fine. What would be weird as if they were promiscuous and they are upset that the good boy they want doesn't want to commit to them. And honestly I don't understand the point you're trying to make wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:43 PM |
| – | It is very hard for women to take accountability.They were inappropriate jokes. And she told me she didn't like the guy at all but it's still chose to go to his house. The main thing is if you didn't like the guy and you gave you bad vibes why would you go to this person's house and expecting it to turn out good. Have you had a choice not to be there and chose to willingly go then you are accountable for being in that environment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 09:39 PM |
| – | Women don't make real dating goals they make fantasies.Believe the main point of my post was how contradictory their goal seem to be with other goals or what they want to do. I think it's great if you want to live off the land. But to actively look for someone who can help you with that lifestyle while you yourself Don't have any experience in farming in actively looking for a house in the city for example would be counterproductive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to men that you actually feel is valid ?What you think that's male specific? And what's the difference between a dud and someone who has a simple life? What you desslcribed would be most blue collar workers and farmers specifically. I think the bed would be someone who doesn't work and who lives in squalor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to men that you actually feel is valid ?Yeah I'm interested in What you feel are the key differences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 03:50 AM |
| 1 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to men that you actually feel is valid ?Thank you ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 03:27 AM |
| 2 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?This is something I explain to one of my closest friend who's a woman. The thing is she's been on so many terrible dates because of the choice of wanting to date and a high-end environment. Her reasoning is if the date is terrible at least she got a good meal out of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 08:25 PM |
| 3 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?Here I'll post the response just so you know I'm not lying to you <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 08:18 PM |
| 5 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?Felt like it was self describing. If I were to put the same description would that make you happy? And then sometimes when you post here it hits a filter. When that happens the mods have to approve it. When I posted this one it took about half an hour to an hour for it to actually come live. I have no ability to hide a post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 08:17 PM |
| 7 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?It happens a lot on dating apps like ridiculously. The thing is they're not usually prostitutes per se. They are just normal women who want to be spoiled. It's pretty wild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 07:58 PM |
| 0 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?I am trying to be 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 07:57 PM |
| 3 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?I'll send you a message with the link It won't let me post it here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 07:43 PM |
| 6 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?It's a discussion. Breathe easy. Women are not perfect Men are not perfect It's okay to acknowledge that and analyze certain behaviors attributed to each gender. I just wrote the same post for men you can go ahead and type something there if you want to. But it's not that deep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?Women should definitely police their own. Women not saying something isn't empowering. As most men already have their thoughts about certain type of women. I think it's good to be honest about themselves because it's the same thing women want for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 07:24 PM |
| 8 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?I've always thought about it more like they don't want to feel evil or selfish for having a thought that's selfish. So they put the responsibility of it on something else. Like they're merely receiving something not demanding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 07:22 PM |
| 6 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?The horoscope thing is very true. I also see that they tend to put their desires or random acts on something Divine. " God wants me to have.." The universe brought me to you... Etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?Reasonable. I don't mind spoiling sometimes actually because doing things is one of my Love languages. But being demanded or unappreciated is definitely a negative thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?I think it's on the delivery. Honestly I can tell you as a man I've paid for a lot of dates. But there are women who would never go out with you in the first place if you didn't pay for the date. But with that being said if she made it a huge deal that I have to pay for the date it would be pretty trashy. So I guess the same thing would stay at home mothers They should definitely know The person can support the lifestyle. But if a woman ever said "I don't date broke dudes" or anything of that na… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 07:01 PM |
| 0 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?Good one to point out! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 06:54 PM |
| – | Criticizing women is automatically seen as as hating women(by some women).Don't care too much what you call me. I'm just telling you what I'm saying and not saying. You're getting bothered by something I didn't say which is something a good portion of women also do. You're coming to a conclusion based off your own answer and nothing I said directly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 10:23 PM |
| – | Criticizing women is automatically seen as as hating women(by some women).Those are two arbitrary units of measure One is less the other is all. You see what I mean You're really proving my point now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 10:02 PM |
| – | Criticizing women is automatically seen as as hating women(by some women).Could I just flip it and say Just let the people eat. You're not so vain that your desire to take pictures overrides people's desires to eat the food they paid for ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 09:27 PM |
| – | Criticizing women is automatically seen as as hating women(by some women).I know that's why I said good portion of women and nearly specific to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 08:25 PM |
| – | Criticizing women is automatically seen as as hating women(by some women).It's so funny that everyone's taking like the two sentences out of the whole post to like hawk on Will not understand and that's like an example of something that received a lot of backlash. It's kind of proving my point a little bit. But I would say next time you're out eating with a group of women try to just decide to eat without waiting for them to take a picture and see if the responses normal or a little bit above normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 08:24 PM |
| – | Criticizing women is automatically seen as as hating women(by some women).That was two sentences of the whole post right here. And it wasn't the key point of my argument. The key argument is is that if it's nearly specific to women and it's a criticism there is a good portion of women who just automatically say you hate all women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 08:21 PM |
| – | Criticizing women is automatically seen as as hating women(by some women).That said, maybe just relax a bit on a minor gripe. It's not that big of a deal to be "very" critical about it over multiple mediums. People just like capturing memories sometimes. I mean it's minor sometimes but considering I've been in situations where they wait a full 10 to 20 minutes before eating it's not that minor. And Have you ever tried to eat food when you wanted to while they wanted to take pictures? It's not pretty site and they don't take it as a minor offense usually 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 08:19 PM |
| – | Criticizing women is automatically seen as as hating women(by some women).Some of it is definitely BS. But I would say for a good chunk of women any type of criticism valid or not is considered something that is terrible to all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Women dismiss men's relationship stress, yet believe similar complaints from lesbian/bi women.I don't know if you've noticed this but pretty much any criticism of female behavior is automatically responded with hating women. I didn't say I hate women. I didn't say that they're feelings aren't valid. I said there are some behaviors that straight men stress about that bisexual lesbian women can relate to. I supposed to be for in this Reddit there are a lot of situations where every switch to genders out women seem to understand it better. So this was kind of a connection to that method to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Women dismiss men's relationship stress, yet believe similar complaints from lesbian/bi women.I find that men do communicate directly either in words or actions. Women just don't like it it's almost like you guys have to make it more complex. Example two is definitely someone who is a POS. I would think after the second time the communication would be super clear and not give him a chance for a third time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:42 PM |
| – | Women dismiss men's relationship stress, yet believe similar complaints from lesbian/bi women.Sorry no I was trying to tell you that straight relationships and gay relationships are better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:39 PM |
| – | Women dismiss men's relationship stress, yet believe similar complaints from lesbian/bi women.Oh before I vent to women I always have screenshots. They still barely believe me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 08:00 PM |
| – | Women dismiss men's relationship stress, yet believe similar complaints from lesbian/bi women.Looks like research says they are at least more stable than same sex female relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.No need to lie. Laundry time is sacred only truth is here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.Vibes are deceiving just like some instinct. "Bigzaddy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 10:15 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.I fully don't expect them too. I don't think anyone expects anyone to change someones views on here. I am here to make bold statements, debate learn and teach while waiting for my laundry 🧺 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 10:09 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.These are things specifically that women look for in our current zeitgeist. What are you actually complaining about. That you don't believe it ? That I posted it ? Or that you think I am jaded? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 10:03 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.What are you talking about I even say in the comments that men Make bad choices as well. And yes statistically if you're choosing to blow a lot of money on a wedding or marry someone just because they're tall that is a bad choice men or women. You're trying to push a narrative that because I said that you shouldn't spend too much, you should both work or shouldn't marry someone because they're tall ( which I didn't say directly) that I am unwilling or don't fit the Demographic. Women and men can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 10:00 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.Be specific things I pointed out are women things I'm not talking about people talk about specific group of people. I mean nearly everything can be brought down to a it's a human thing or everyone does it And only one of the things I said was attraction based my dude.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:42 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.A lot of those things can be predicators not necessarily direct causes. But they could be an indicator based off something that does connect to it. Even in your case if you were to say Filipinos are against divorce would not still reinforce the fact that shorter people compared to the world average or less likely to divorce? The Philippines has about a two or three percent divorce rate compared to the USA's 50 to 60. That would still reinforce the unconnected correlation but would still be a goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:34 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.Yes! focusing on shared responsibility, smart financial decisions and choosing a mate not based off a fetish leads to great marriages! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:10 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.That doesn't negate the fact that dual income households are less likely to divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 08:46 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.Yeah I just want to say there's nothing wrong with choosing a tall partner. But specifically choosing someone because they're tall is a weird fetish. And usually these type of women don't want someone who's taller than them They want someone who specifically a certain amount of inches taller than them 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 08:27 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.Exactly. This is most likely why dual income households do a little bit better when it comes to divorce rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 08:25 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.Yeah but on average most relationships have about a 3-year age gap at most. Most men aren't marrying significantly younger women. But about 25% of marriages have at least the dynamic of women staying home and increase from 15% from 2022. So in summary men do have certain preferences that could lead to divorce but were less likely to marry that preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 08:24 PM |
| – | Some of women's strong preferences actually lead to a higher rate of divorce.Love what you're saying is stuff I hear too but in reality anytime a husband starts making enough money to where he can just have the wife stay home the wife in most cases will just stay home. I don't know, I would say when you have more options you're less likely to be faithful? Or women overlook certain things when their desires are met But eventually that fades? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Lol I see What you mean. It's very interesting on the attention from the other gender as well. We definitely look at a little bit differently I guess it's a difference between being so full you can't handle more or being so hungry you'll eat everything. I think both of us would benefit from happy medium of attention. I want to clarify it's not having suicidal thoughts that's the problem It's completed successful suicides That's a bigger problem within the male. community | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Seems like you like having the last word. Go ahead and reply one more time and I'll let you have it. Have a nice day :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?We disagree! Thank you for your input! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 06:05 PM |
| 4 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Yes a lot less men. Meeting I was speaking broadly. You are speaking specifically. It is very possible for an individual woman to have a lower quality of life than any man. Broadly most likely not. As I clarified in the previous message :-) Thank you again for seeking clarity I can see how that could have been confusing to you. Happy I can clear that up for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?That's an interesting point. Do you think there's any detractors in the way men are treated socially? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?I don't believe I said it couldn't be harder. But if I did yes that's obviously wrong 🙂. A woman can have a heart of life than a man. But on average a woman's life wouldn't be easier if they assumed the role of the average man. Thank you for seeking to clear that up. Good for you for being attentive 🥹 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Sure! An individual woman's life can be 10 times worse. But on average most likely it would be the same as far as quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?My comment before this one just clarified my meaning 😁. But I'll clarify it for you. I believe that the quality of life between the average man and woman is near equal. There are some things that women have an easier in. There are some things that men enjoy benefits in that women can't easily acquire. I hope this clears up the blatant misunderstanding that you have as far as what I'm trying to say. There's more confusion you can message me directly 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Why are you taking it that way. I'm literally saying to you directly and that there's different complexities. And life isn't easier as a man it doesn't mean I'm saying women have it easier. In my post that says different complexities. And another comment here I'm even saying how women have it harder in specific ways. There's no reason to be compatible or assume what I'm saying.... Just ask directly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?I agree with you on all your points. Pregnancy is definitely something I do not argue with women about because you can just tell it looks very painful. Strangely on the other side though there are some women who can't wait to be pregnant again. I heard that your body makes you forget the trauma during childbirth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?I didn't say they did ? All I said was that your life wouldn't be easier as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:42 PM |
| 8 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Finding compatible partners is definitely a struggle that both genders have in different ways. I imagine for women it's like finding a needle in the haystack. We're asked for a men it's like finding an Oasis in a dessert. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Definitely but it's definitely indicator of a deeply rooted problem. And it is complex that's what I'm saying. But to assume It would be automatically easier is a mistake when there are so many layering problems that affect the quality of life and men. And again I said the average male not rich men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Agreed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:37 PM |
| 7 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?Not the same rate as men. It's not a competition. All I said was a lot less men would commit suicide. Men account for 80% of all suicides. Obviously there's some unhappiness there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:36 PM |
| 9 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?I understand that. I think even alongside that you have to look at culture. A lot of your desires are guided by social norms rather than your emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?It's simply not. If it were the case a lot less men would be committing suicide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:32 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Nothing about it being a dystopia. You You cannot make rules for the and not for me even if they're not hard rules. That's like microwaving fish in the microwave but you not liking that everyone's complaining about the fish smell. Nothing happens in the vacuum when you're out in public and barely when you're private. To be able to express without repercussions is a rare occurrence. Even dressing appropriately but very nice gets me compliments. Dressing inappropriately would still give me complim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:57 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Come work for the company then. And we do actually have a paid uniform stipend. And a website to order from we get a clothes stipend 4 times a year. And it's been brought up multiple times by leaderahip that they need to dress better. But they actively refuse to. And as a supervisor appearance of your employees is definitely within my realm. I think you just believe that different attention should be given to women just by virtue of them being women. I've definitely called out male employees for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:34 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Some leggings are definitely transparent. This usually happens when leggings are too small for the person wearing them.. You brought up functionality. Not me She can wear heels she can wear almost anything she wants as long as it's within the dress code and that's the main thing here for the workplace. Women are the main ones violating the word code. That's the same discussion the men have the same rules. The men have the same rules when it comes to clothing. It's not about doing the job it's al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:13 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Isn't it a little bit of a double standard for someone to say I don't care how inappropriate I'm dressing but then complain that someone has an inappropriate amount of staring? Isn't it a little weird to be dressed provocatively but the man/ woman that no one respond to the provocativeness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:49 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Isn't it a little bit of a double standard for someone to say I don't care how inappropriate I'm dressing but then complain that someone has an inappropriate amount of staring? Isn't it a little weird to be dressed provocatively but the man that no one respond to the provocativeness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:47 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Anything transparent is not proper work or common space attire. Women at work have a lot of problems with that. We have a dress code. And in most cases its not suitable for their position. And I didn't even bring up functionality. And a lot of cases it's not functional. If you're wearing skimpy clothing and then complaining that's very cold then it's not functional. You can barely walk without your feet hurting then you shouldn't be wearing heels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:45 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Sorry. Looked up the proper term leggings. Leggings that are being worn as pants in the workplace. It's a common issue. I'm not a prude but like if you can start seeing thongs and underwear at the workplace then it has to be brought up It's just not appropriate. I'm a grand scheme of things if a group of people at work are talking about wanting to see someone in ransparent clothing or wanting to see someone in a mini skirt at work that is grounds for sexual harassment however a lot of cases thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Changing the genders in the stories gives you different answers from womenIf you don't want to give an example even a half baked one you're just saying words. The fact is overwhelmingly most answer should not change depending on the gender. Even more so if you're in the very liberal side of things sex and gender are two different things most likely not associated with each other so genitals don't necessarily play a part and what you're saying. But let's go backwards a little bit. If you can't flip the genders of a situation you can potentially conform the situation to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Would you date someone from the purple pill debate reddit ?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Would you date someone from the purple pill debate reddit ?Hit or Miss on that honestly. The in real life people I know who are on rated are ridiculously hot. My coworker is already and she looks like a supermodel. My ex is on Reddit and she's a curvy Latina 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Would you date someone from the purple pill debate reddit ?But it seems a good chunk of us have relationship experience. And like I said some of us are married. Someone relationships. Me myself I've been in multiple long term relationships. I'm speaking mostly from experience when I complain on here not from what I hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 05:11 PM |
| – | Women, do you want liberty or security?Definition: the power or scope to act as one pleases. And you yourself have limited liberty (an oxymoron). You have freedom to exhale and inhale. You don't have freedom to do meth Even though you're doing it to yourself the effects do ripple to the society at large. You don't even really have the flexibility to commit suicide as it might be a symptom of another problem that you wouldn't do in a normal state. You barely have the freedom to defend yourself unless it was within defined parameters. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 08:38 PM |
| – | Women, do you want liberty or security?You cannot have both. Societal security means a limitation on the personal liberties of other people. Wish I agree is necessary. And not all liberties and freedoms are good. This is where anarchy comes in the play. People believe that they don't want government telling them what to do. But without government that's a good chance a lot of disabled people and old people would be taken advantage of. At best you can strike in the middle but it's not true Liberty or true societal safety | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Mainstream feminism is a hate movement - if you identify as a feminist and don't hate men, you are the fringe. I challenge you: Find me a single notable feminist who condemns feminist man-hatingI wanted to comment on this specifically. And while the post talked about disliking men are how men are unimpressive lol I think this backfired against you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 04:31 PM |
| – | Women have a problem with logic.No it absolutely can't be. But if we're nitpicking that facts I must reevaluate that not only men are the perpetuators of domestic violence against women. Now another thing many jurisdictions don't classify domestic violence as purely physical. It can also be monetary or psychological as well. Also if we're being nitpicky I do have a hard time believing that 30% of women is different from 30% per year of women. This is over a time a woman has a life expectancy of about what 80? And if we're incl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:35 AM |
| – | Women have a problem with logic.To specifically point out the method let me speak to that. In general you cannot use emotions as a counter to presented evidence. At the very least you should just sit down and quantify how much work you do and kind of go from there. And in addition to that I do think it's interesting that you used statistics that you interpret it to go against my statistics. So at the very least you're being selective as far as when to use it as long as it fits your narrative. And nearly all reports that I foun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 04:06 AM |
| – | Women have a problem with logic.In 29% of women experiencing domestic violence doesn't negate 0.3% of men only being violent. Violent people don't just beat up one woman They beat up multiple women. Kind of like how a robber can hit up multiple houses within a time span It doesn't mean one new robber is Robbing for each occurrence. And also considering that all women victims of domestic violence are not just being attacked by other men you have to account for that as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 03:56 AM |
| – | Women have a problem with logic.There are multiple studies that agree with the fact that men work more paid hours than women. And most studies if not all agree that women do more work in the house. And if you just look at labor statistics as well it would corroborate a lot of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Women have a problem with logic.You see the problem here right? The nuance in the depth stops that which then take full responsibility for the problematic structure *Most lawmakers are men but most voters are women. You take out a lot of the responsibility of your portion of the voting pool. *Well it's not unpaid work it's basically trade. In a typical relationship the working party covers insurance housing food and fun stuff. In exchange for services while being in that committed relationship. Regardless if there's love there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Women have a problem with logic.I would be down for it. And I support it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 12:18 AM |
| 0 | Women have a problem with logic.So in a contest of antecdotal feelings and organizations committing resources to some type of resource why would I even want to attend to take feelings more into account than data presented. In the same vein why wouldn't couldn't I say something contrary to any ladies feelings and just use feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Women have a problem with logic.They were. I can connect it back to the summary of the post and the spirit of your responses. But you have a pattern of statements without support. I can wait a little till you do. I even welcome a call if there is some text miscommunication | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:26 PM |
| 0 | Women have a problem with logic.Sure I'm willing to change my mind. Give me some education :-) ( This is the response I wish some people would give me when I introduce some studies, or facts or any information that's tangible valid and contrary to their beliefs) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Women have a problem with logic.I literally just asked about that in a earlier comment. This happens so much where things are added to my statements that are not even there. This is legitimately true empirically at least on PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Women have a problem with logic.I have no problems with emotions. I just have a problem with emotions not based on anything real or tangible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Women have a problem with logic.Also I'm curious as to what went through your mind when you said that. I've posted a couple times and often women will add stuff to what I've said and make a counterpoint against it. Did you miss read it or did your brain process it at different way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Women have a problem with logic.You added other details to what I said. I didn't say men do more domestic work. I said in combination between domestic work and their jobs we do work more. 1.6 hours for men at home per day versus 2.6 approximately. However men work about 8 hours more a week. So between two things men work more for salary and women work more at home. But altogether we work 1 hour more week over week which equals up to about 1.25 more weeks overall work by the end of the year. These are all assuming that both the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Women have a problem with logic.I am being controversial. Let me get downvoted in peace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Women have a problem with logic.I agree with a lot of what you said a lot of his politics and marketing. But I don't know how much marketing I can do to 0.3 percent of men are violent not all of us. I feel like it's the same feeling of saying this water is very hot but you look at the cup and it's just a cup of ice. Like no one's disputing that you might feel it's hot. But the evidence is showing that it's very cold and you might have other problems you need to do with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Women have a problem with logic.let me start off with saying Though 0.3% of men are violent we still have a 9x chance of going to jail compared to women. So with that being said how did you come to the conclusion that we are given more space to be violent. It wouldn't the fact that women get less jail time for violence compared to men go against your view that men are given more space to be violent as well? And according to Dudycha, G. J. (1937). Sex differences in punctuality. The Journal of Social Psychology, 8, 355–363. Men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Women have a problem with logic.Sure you can say that as well.. You can even go deeper. A lot of women struggle to adopt calmly laid out point of views with the best available knowledge and known facts that should calm their fears, toxic beliefs, or concerns In favor of feelings that validates their point of view and strokes their ego. But yeah.... The problem is my marketing skills. Isn't this one of the grapes of the scientific community? Having to market things that should be taken at value. Should we hold off on any climat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Women have a problem with logic.Going back to a point and my post about how men receive stiffer penalties than women for the same crimes I would say society definitely has us by the privates on controlling our anger/ expressions. Ancedotally I feel there are more women who get away with saying I hate all men than men who say I don't like it women some women do this toxic behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Women have a problem with logic.I agree! Well said. . This is why I'm all for expressive men. Let them be happy angry or sad. As long as it's not violent and as long as they either work through it or have a reason to feel those emotions why not. Do you. From the other side I do need to stress that just because he feels something It doesn't mean that you have a valid reason to feel that. And I think most relationships will benefit of both people acted as such | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:01 PM |
| -5 | Women have a problem with logic.Nothing there's some confusion. I didn't make statements like you did. I asked questions. That's why I put question marks there. I'm pretty much asking you to explain yourself So I could better understand why you wrote that there. Or is your intent malice against emotions or a simple unnecessary statement that you don't want to explain (But is your right on al gores internet) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Women have a problem with logic.Yes you're right. The scientific method does help with making things more pure without observer bias. So again if your wife came to you and said I feel like you do nothing while I work all day everyday. And then you were able to make a system that allows you to quantify to the best of your ability what is work that you both can potentially agree on to help you figure out This is true. And after you conduct this little study you find that in fact on average you do about 20 to 40 minutes more work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Women have a problem with logic.Bigger wardrobe, She prepped meals for herself, preparing for her friends to come over, Plus she was generally terrible at time management. Yeah I do think men think they're more logical than women sometimes. It's not always the case. But I think that's partly due to the fact that we have more pressure to react calmly. So we kind of depend on us being logical most of the time.( Not to say we are). For example in real life men even without money will talk about wanting a prenup. Because of whatev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:47 PM |
| -7 | Women have a problem with logic.Yes it's frustrating to deal with someone who keeps saying stuff contrary to reality. I have no problems with emotions. Emotions can have validity. But not all emotions are valid. I always support valid emotions. Are you against them? Is that what you're saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:40 PM |
| -2 | Women have a problem with logic.Assumption is literally one of the primary tools of logic. You go to any philosophy class They would agree.. assumption is not wild it has to be based on something and then tested. Taking an educated guess is literally part of the scientific method. If you Google is assumption part of logic you will see multiple studies in dissertations that confirm this spirit you'll also see that the University of Madison also backs this theory. The two words come up together often as well "logical assumption" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:39 PM |
| -10 | Women have a problem with logic.A majority of the points I pulled from studies and government. I see you make statements based off your imagination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Women have a problem with logic.I mean these are some good points here I can't really speak to others on their situations but I will tell you that personally that some of my interactions with women they do make more emotional base decisions. They will go to Mexico by themselves because it's fun. But don't go to the gas station because it's dangerous. Not to say those are not valid reasons to do it not do something however the standard of making a choice is definitely skewed to how you feel in that situation. Personally as a me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:33 PM |
| -2 | Women have a problem with logic.I would say your emotions are more biased than logic. I'm literally pointing out facts as we know it. You have nothing to counter it besides feelings give me counter facts so I can draw a logical conclusion don't just tell me how you feel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:25 PM |
| -8 | Women have a problem with logic.If the DOJ plus math only concludes that 0.3% of males are violent then logically you can assume that most men are not violent. You used statistics and studies to logically come to a conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:20 PM |
| – | We can at least agree that that too many women are addicted to taking pictures at the expense of ruining a momentThat's not what I said at all. I say specifically that's okay to take pictures. It's just not okay to dominate a shared experience with you taking pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 03:25 PM |
| – | We can at least agree that that too many women are addicted to taking pictures at the expense of ruining a momentI'm in my '30s the women I know are in the '30s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:56 AM |
| – | We can at least agree that that too many women are addicted to taking pictures at the expense of ruining a momentIt's never never never just 10 seconds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Most women are okay with not being in control of their emotions.I understand you. But the thing is there are people who have intermittent severe mental breakdowns. I mean I dated someone who was manic before and they were heavily apologetic for their behavior during an episode. When they stabilized they were very apologetic They never once told me to just deal with it. In fact they tell me that I shouldn't have to and that for my own piece I could step away and after they definitely did apologize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Most women are okay with not being in control of their emotions.No this is in addition to.. I specifically gave a caveat to periods but even within that it's still messed up. Women even outside of periods do you have a hard time properly expressing themselves and they are given too much leeway with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Most women are okay with not being in control of their emotions.That is all I'm saying. I agree with what you're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Most women are okay with not being in control of their emotions.Any reasonable man will understand women have periods. Most reasonable mentally healthy men do not like being yelled at Barbie littleed when someone is having an hormonal imbalance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Most women are okay with not being in control of their emotions.I also want to add that even with all of this I wouldn't say they were bad relationships. I would just say these are bad habits that should be dealt with. The thing is though it's hard to be one man telling someone that they have a bad habit when they have 20 or 30 friends that tell them that as a man I should just accept it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Most women are okay with not being in control of their emotions.I've had a lot honestly. I've had 4 long term ones and a good amount of short term and flings. I have a lot of experience with women. And I would say dealing with the occasional mental instability is a common trend with all them. Also having arguments about things that aren't actually true is common too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:36 PM |
| -1 | Most women are okay with not being in control of their emotions.Coercion not being violence will go against a lot of things women are saying lately. But I agree with you in some way. Being punched in the face is not a comparison. However dealing with another person's emotions that you don't deserve is still messed up. And as a woman you're way less likely to be punched in the face by another woman or another man. But I on any given day can be yelled at and it will be most likely a woman. And if I'm punched it will be most likely a man. But more likely being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:29 PM |
| -2 | Most women are okay with not being in control of their emotions.No she didn't. But not all emotional instabilities should result in violence. Sometime they can be very unpleasant and just terrible to deal with. Most men and women issues don't result in violence towards each other but women can still feel frustration from it. Doesn't mean it's not valid. Heck I was reading how a man who keeps on begging for sex from women until they say yes it's still a form of violence. If that's the case then the woman who causes problems unnecessarily and who causes instab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 11:16 PM |
| -5 | Most women are okay with not being in control of their emotions.Yeah men are definitely risking they're societal ramifications for that. As there should be. No one is saying what they did was reasonable. I seen a woman having emotional breakdown because an unattractive man respectively ask her out on a date. She was crying other woman agreed with her and said they hate that too and that ruined her day. There is no checks or balances to unstable female emotions in personal spaces. Even within the judicial field women who commit crimes are less likely to be ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 10:45 PM |
| -1 | Most women are okay with not being in control of their emotions.Considering that seeing a violent man is 0.75 % likely. And also considering that violent men are primarily violent to other men. Why is this even being brought up? I've never been murdered You haven't been murdered. But I'm pretty sure both of us know a lady that has unrighteously yelled or emotes on someone who didn't deserve it. I live in a small community with about 20 houses none of the men have been violent with each other. But half the women in this area have started fights with each othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Banning "low effort dates" are just another way that women hurt themselves.The fact that multiple people find low-effort dates the standard doesn't make them any less low-effort. They are low-effort. Why are you trying to gaslight women that they're not? There's a difference between low effort and just average efforts. There's nothing spectacular about coffee or ice cream it's basic it's average it's not low. Most men would not take Sydney Sweeney to Baskin Robbins. Be for real, please. Barack Obama took Michelle for ice cream on the first date, The Prince of England w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 02:11 AM |
| 6 | Banning "low effort dates" are just another way that women hurt themselves.Agreed not a problem over seas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:24 AM |
| -5 | Banning "low effort dates" are just another way that women hurt themselves.😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Banning "low effort dates" are just another way that women hurt themselves.I agree with you. If this wasn't also said in real life. Close female friends of mine says stuff like this. Recently had an experience on a dating app about this. She could have just said no but she got pissy and deleted the chat. It's not just Reddit it's everywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 01:01 AM |
| – | Women don't know the difference between a low,good, or high standard when it comes to dating.I believe in general you're correct but I think when you're doing stuff with both genders or just dating in general I can everyone has a seat at the table because dating is not a one gender thing. Would a man should not and should be able to do on a first date? Yes men should have input on that as to what's reasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 04:22 AM |
| – | If most women had the same standards as single parent women the dating pool would be more balanced, women would be less broken hearted, and it would benefit everyone.So are you saying that women mostly don't put emphasis on things that are important until they're in a situation where they have to? That kind of seems like your belittling women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 12:39 AM |
| – | If most women had the same standards as single parent women the dating pool would be more balanced, women would be less broken hearted, and it would benefit everyone.Are you saying that single parent women don't value themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?Yeah I'm not even saying to go that far. In most cases I don't think most people have a reason to doubt the parentage. But there are some specific situations we're absolutely should be okay. If the baby doesn't look like any of you, if there's a genetic disease that's not in your family, and some other stuff. But it seems like people still have issues about that. Woman came out nowhere and told my wife That she has a child by me and I cheated on her the first thing my wife would probably ask for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 06:11 AM |
| 0 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?Great if the baby doesn't look like me then I'll just say hey I think our baby might be switched at birth. No reasonable woman will automatically assume you think she's cheating.. this is a great idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 08:16 PM |
| -2 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?I don't know about that one I have to disagree. If a baby goes home with you and it doesn't look like any one of you I mean you should definitely ask questions cuz it might not be either of yours. And honestly this is a courtesy. You shouldn't have to ask to take a DNA test if it really is your child. I mean with a cell phone it's hard as you shouldn't be looking at something at all. But a baby is half your responsibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 08:01 PM |
| -6 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?But that's unwise though and just shortsighted. That's like saying you should never get married because of you promise someone to be together you should just depend on that. Things change and stuff comes up. And If she does something and you have tools to figure it out it's unwise to not ask questions about it our investigate. That's like saying if your husband comes home with lipstick on his neck and smelling like perfume you can't ask questions because you've already decided to trust him. Am I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 07:05 PM |
| -8 | When is a reasonable time and a good reason to ask for a DNA test?It's slightly more complicated than that. I mean in all honesty you don't account for the fact that sometimes there are concerns. Like if you travel a lot or like I mentioned above the baby comes out a little bit darker than both of you. I mean to be fair no one says " If I feel insecure in our relationship can I go through your phone secretly?" Or " If there's ever a period in time in which you act strange can I hire a private investigator?" In most situations I'm not going to ask my wife for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 06:52 PM |
| – | If you’re not going to hold men accountable for their own actions, don’t be shocked that feminists see men as wild animals to be caged.Men are part of society. We do hold men accountable. Heck we're especially ruthless to other men. Men would intervene I'm sure. The cops who come would be men the judge most likely would be a man the jailer would be a man. We would convict that person. I haven't seen this video yet. But if she chose someone with a violent history then yes she is not exactly a victim but it participant in her own consequences. And this is how other men talk to other men. This is us treating you equally. You are n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:40 PM |
| – | If you’re not going to hold men accountable for their own actions, don’t be shocked that feminists see men as wild animals to be caged.Men tell other men all the time that they should do better, focus on yourself, don't get married etc. choosing the wrong man/ partner is absolutely a right albeit untimely response. I've seen post on here tune the affect of " the babies isn't mine but I have to pay for child support even though she lied and cheated on me, this isn't right" the typical response from women ? " Oh wellllllll too late, you signed the paper" men and women women can be blunt and uncaring on here. I'm assuming most of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:25 PM |
| – | If you’re not going to hold men accountable for their own actions, don’t be shocked that feminists see men as wild animals to be caged.I'm saying in real life outside of Reddit men do hold other men accountable socially. I'm also saying since most of the law system is made up of men we do hold men accountable institutionally as well. And I would also say closer to real life most men wouldn't hang out with someone who's a murderer or a rapist knowingly. However the most famous murders and rapists have fan clubs made of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:55 PM |
| – | If you’re not going to hold men accountable for their own actions, don’t be shocked that feminists see men as wild animals to be caged.Subreddit is not a government institution that punishes people 😂 regardless on how one may feel we do have ramifications for almost most of our reactions. Cardi b is now four or five years after an interview where she talked about drugging and sexually assaulting someone and robbing them and she is not once been pressed by the police about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Women overeagerate their contributions to a relationship.If you're looking that hard quantitative data on this I don't think it's going to help your side and either. If you had a start stop button on when you were actually working and when you're not doing anything worth related it becomes even more evident. Because when you're doing laundry most of the time it's the machine doing the actual laundry and you waiting. The average amount of time it takes to clean a house is 4 hours. The average worker has about 90% adherence to schedule on an 8-hour shif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:41 PM |
| 0 | Women overeagerate their contributions to a relationship.Miss, no one is adding all that extra stuff you're talking about. I said " similar level or effort". You're arguing a different scenario altogether. If you want to make that post titled " why don't men appreciate the extra work we do to make their lives easier" You can do that And people can either agree with you or go against that point specifically but you are on a whole nother topic right now 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:12 PM |
| – | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.I agree you guys don't murder and rape small men. You guys murder children and rape high school boys at high disproportionate rates. Considering that about 11% of women are considered " above male average strength and that 10% of murders are perpetuated by women I think that's statistically checks out . I couldn't find the stats I wanted for female rapist they only count female on male stats. But considering that lesbian relationships have some of the highest rates of domestic violence in any ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Women overeagerate their contributions to a relationship.Now you're changing the meaning of my sentences to fit your responses. I will further summarize it in the simplest way I can. The thought is that women overvalue their contributions while undervaluing mens contributions of a similar level or effort. You're free to say I'm wrong. That's okay You can even give me some examples that go against my statement. But it's not in good faith to re contextualize my words to make a point against something I didn't say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:01 PM |
| – | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.I know, unfortunately women take the lead in infanticide by a large margin though (killing babies under 2 years old). I can only imagine what you guys do if you were as strong as us. But it seems like women are more likely to murder the weakest and most defenseless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:56 PM |
| -1 | Women overeagerate their contributions to a relationship.If I'm reading this correctly you're kind of proving my point. I didn't say if men clean up after themselves I said have men do the same thing as women. And the previous sentence you called it an expensive task and the very next sentence you called it the bare minimum. I wasn't saying that vagina isn't great I'm saying that women will get mad if men don't do something special and unique for their lovers birthday but cool gladly give them the same thing that they give him any other day of the wee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Women overeagerate their contributions to a relationship.Depends on how good the cooking was. But I don't call my significant other a hero for doing basic stuff. This is like the same argument women say when men watch their own kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices?According to the government statistics it's 4.3 years for men and 3.8 years for women average tenure.- bureau of Labor statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices?I believe the answer to this is that most women don't stay in positions as long as men. They quit jobs more often and move around. So with that being said they usually don't have the most tenure or experience in the position and that's why theyusually don't get promoted as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:38 AM |
| 4 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.That was cold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.Please read between the lines a little bit. First of all alimony is not for the child child support is. Most men think that child support is too much. Sometimes it is. Regardless women have a almost no matter what give me as much as the law says even if it's detrimental to your own well-being. The toxicity comes into play when men are allowed child support or alimony. Those men are straight up considered feminine or talk down to. A lot of women have problems when their husbands choose to hang ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 05:02 AM |
| -5 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.Alimony and child support. Going out with friends to a club or on destination Overall insecurity when it comes to your partner interacting with the opposite sex. What boundaries actually are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 04:33 AM |
| – | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.Fixed it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 04:31 AM |
| 0 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.I think it starts in the house and with the parents. And also I wouldn't mind teaching accountability to both boys and girls in schools. My old school actually did this and it has had great results | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.I guess accountability is too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.Either be honest about toxicity or to at least not say or feel that they're morally superior to men who are doing the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.Am I correct to assume that making things unfair is in women's benefit more than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.You guys do many things as well and sometimes better than men. There are things you also do worse than men in general. My main issue is I just wish women and men could be on the same page about things so there's no confusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 12:57 AM |
| -2 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.Women in general do not claim themselves to be any form of toxic and all their actions are more than justified. They will do the same thing as a man and say the man is bad for wanting it or doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Women can be just as bad as men. But they convince themselves to be the hero.Women achieve so many things good and bad and small and huge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand The child support debate from a humanistic point of view.A marriage that most people go into willing under the promise of monogamy.yesd you're right. You're very smart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand The child support debate from a humanistic point of view.They're called marriage licensees or marriage certificates. If you want to give me the state I'll send you the link. But if you don't promise commitment then your partner should know about that.. If they go into a relationship or marriage knowing that then that's fine. But most people who are in monogamous relationships do promise commitment and monogamy. If that's not you then this doesn't apply to you. But in general you should be scam someone to taking care of children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand The child support debate from a humanistic point of view.A wedding document. And the vows that come with it. If you want to get technical the commitment part is verbal but still legally binding and usually agree to and for enough for other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Help me understand The child support debate from a humanistic point of view.So woman compare herself above her marriage and you're pregnant lied to her husband and then say no The kid is important you have to be responsible? Where's the accountability in this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Help me understand The child support debate from a humanistic point of view.Do you have the same energy for any divorce with kids involved? Because the same reasons you list why a man should stay involved with a kid after finding out he's been lied to and treated on is the same reasons a divorce shouldn't happen. I'm okay with the worst and many situations. Again the cheated on Father can choose to be in that boy's life or not. But he should have that right. But regardless the genetic father should be paying child support regardless of the situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Help me understand The child support debate from a humanistic point of view.I think we're having two different conversations here. One is child support the other is a relationship with a child. Regardless if the father decides to stay in that kid's life or not I believe actual paternal father should be paying child support. A relationship will suffer just as if a wife wants to divorce their husband for cheating. But if a divorce happens then the genetic father should pay up. And if the husband chooses to say then the genetic father should still pay up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 06:51 AM |
| 1 | The most toxic form of femininity is women’s refusal to acknowledge or call out poor behavior from their own genderIt's so weird. I remember how women were mad at been for r Kelly but then like 1 year later we're making tick tock at Instagram challenge videos to his music. And like no one called any of those women out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:51 AM |
| 2 | It's not until a woman does it/ It's ok until a womans a victim of itSo you're telling me that if 100 men going to a hundred separate workplaces punishment for saying men need to run this would be equal to or less than what women might experience if they said the same thing ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | It's not until a woman does it/ It's ok until a womans a victim of itSaying Bros before hoes and boys will be hoes might be said in private between joking duche bags. Vote for a woman, a woman is needed, woman power etc is said in public use that slogan in actual establishments and workplaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | It's not until a woman does it/ It's ok until a womans a victim of itI also want add that there was a period in time In which many women we're upset that men were disrespected women online rightfully so. But then there was also a lot of women who were saying ki** All men and we're upset they were getting penalized by Facebook | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:36 AM |
| 0 | It's not until a woman does it/ It's ok until a womans a victim of itI agree that the sexes aren't a monolith however everyone is under the social trends of what is socially okay or not. Everyone would say it's okay to defend yourself if you're being hit. But if you're hitting a woman people still going to look at you sideways. Also look at it this way. There's less social kickback for a woman who says I want to be choked during sex then for a man who says I want to choke a woman while having sex with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:11 AM |
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