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Ant to just say "dont jave sex" sound mor like you put youreself onto a podium. But you're saying "just kill the baby". I prefer the "don't have sex" podium to "have sex, then kill the baby afterward" podium.
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/22 07:46 PM
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Therapists are just someone you pay to pretend to care about your problems. Therapy only "works" if you believe in it. Same way going to church can make you feel good if you believe. It's a catharsis.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/22 04:03 PM
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My ex wife used to tell me that too. That I needed to detach from my dad, siblings, friends, etc...
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/22 03:53 PM
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Yes, but she still acquires wealth with every divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 02:23 AM
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That “feeling” is the future you trying to wake you up today. Great quote!
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 02:20 AM
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I got married at 21, she was 18. We divorced by the time we were 27 and 24. I would say, being in your early twenties, your odds are worse than 50/50. The only chance you would have, is if her friends and family are big on traditional family values, and divorce is very frowned upon. Women are social chameleons. If her friends are single moms, or just regular american modern women who go from one relationship to the next(which is the norm now), you've got about a snowballs chance in hell of a lif…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 02:19 AM
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So the LGBTQ are scalping red pill ideology now? Last i heard, they couldn't even define the meaning of the word "woman", but they understand their sexual dynamics?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/22 03:48 PM
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Yeah, it should be about that. But this sub has apparently degenerated once again into primarily worrying about what women do instead of trying to make better men. Yes, it's because Reddit keeps banning subs that it deems "hateful" or whatever, so everyone comes here.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 08:04 PM
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Polygamy has always existed. Ancient Rome, ancient Greece, the bible, all over. It's generally always been a universal truth that the more successful a man you were, the more women you could have. It's really no different today, there are plenty of rich guys who sleep with many different women. They just don't marry them all like they used to, because it's illegal, and also, with current marriage laws, why would you want to marry them anyway?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 08:00 PM
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I like this analogy. The fact that "tricks" exist, just goes to show how we men biologically wired to put women up on a pedestal. Dude, you KNOW she's a paid sex worker, she treats all men like they're "special", yet you still believe that she loves you? There's a whole industry of women(and men who are realists) making money off of mens blue-pilled tendencies. What more proof do you need?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/22 07:51 PM
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Here's a guy who knows how ClownWorld works ⇈
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 11:40 PM
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I never said sharing women was redpilled. Not taking them seriously is redpilled. Worrying that they're going to sleep with someone else is a major waste of energy.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 11:29 PM
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If your friend wasn't married I would say he is probably red pilled. Back when I was blue pulled it bothered the hell out of me when a girlfriend would talk to or hang out with other guys. And when I was cheated on i was devastated. But in my current mindset I don't take women seriously anymore, and don't waste energy getting upset about what they might be doing.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 09:10 PM
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Man, she put you through the wringer!
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 03:09 PM
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Kind of like having all your vaccines except for the COVID vaxx makes you an "antivaxxer"
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 03:05 PM
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The spanish at the end translates to: Well, you guys saw them. I'm Mexican, that is, we can't be putting up with this kind of thing.
/r/AntiFeminists27/02/22 12:27 AM
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You can ALWAYS find an older woman that you're not that attracted to just for companionship(this should not be a problem, lots of lonely older women out there). Then take trips to places like Mexico, Dominican Republic, Columbia, Brazil, Thailand, Philippines etc. Where you get an hour of full service for $30 to $75 USD with a beautiful 20 or 30 something year old.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 07:47 PM
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I don't want pay for sex, honestly that would destroy my self esteem I get that, but it really shouldn't. If you looked like Brad Pitt you could pull in girls left and right. Even if your IQ was below 100, and you had a terrible personality. Don't believe me? Look at woman who is a 9 or 10 looks wise. Do you think she would have a hard time getting dates if she has a bad personality or low IQ? Hell no. Guys will still fight over her. It's all superficial. If you want someone to love you uncondit…
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 07:40 PM
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Date outside the USA(sex prison). Go to pinalove.com, girls 10 years younger than you will be thrilled to talk to you. Asia in general has a "white fetish", the women consider a white american man a prize. They're more traditional as well. Just watch out for gold diggers.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/22 07:33 PM
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There was a time that I took women seriously, and my life was filled with anxiety. I had a 5 year marriage that ended with an affair, several long relationships, one of those women was the nicest, most ethical person I had ever met, wouldn't even break the speed limit. Six years into the relationship, I find out she's been getting a hotel and sleeping with her male co-worker on the weekends she was supposed to be "visiting friends". I finally had the epiphany that all women are looking to trade …
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 04:49 AM
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Just because you failed doesn't mean other men will. No, only about half of the men will "fail". Out of the 50% of marriages that don't fail, how many of those married men do you think are happy? All the older men I've known who have been married 30 years or more say shit like "yes, dear", and "happy wife, happy life" all the time. You are NOT going to get that far, I can tell you right now. I've never even heard of a guy who has been married for 30 years, and keeps his wife in line while doing …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 10:44 PM
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I told her: Get a new one It's not unheard of, you know. One day she may just decide to collect her cash and prizes from you, and seek out the next mark.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 01:33 AM
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I'm so sorry that you're married. Condolences. But don't delude yourself that you can keep your wife in line forever. I kept mine in check for years, but guess what? She was telling her friends and family how awful I was,(all women do this) and they all had husbands who were push overs, so they would tell her she could do better. Eventually they convinced her to seek cash and prizes in divorce court, then go find a man who knew his place. Your method will only work if all her friends and family …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 01:26 AM
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maintain abundance in marriage. If wife doesn't fuck you, there will be consequences. Cut it in the bud immediately. Lol, what consequences? She has a nuclear football(divorce court) that she can use on you the moment she gets tired of your war games.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 01:15 AM
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My ex wife married the scumbag she was cheating on me with, then told my kids they had to call him "dad". Good times. They divorced within a year though, so it worked itself out.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/22 10:31 PM
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If you don't use my preferred adjectives of brilliant and handsome, you are invalidating me! Bigot!
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/22 01:39 AM
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Once you accept that true love is a myth, and women are as always looking for the best deal, you will never be surprised again and will find peace.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/22 05:49 PM
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I always have said they should at least provide receipts, but this is a great idea! They shouldn't be able to buy a Chanel purse, cigarettes and booze with child support money.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/22 04:39 AM
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I had a GIRLFRIEND(not even married to her) that refused to leave after an argument, same scenario, MY house, she didn't help pay bills or anything. I tell her to "leave or I will call the police and they will make you leave". Cops show up, they tell me that "if she even spent one night at your place, you have to give her a 30 day eviction notice". Outrageous! This was in Michigan, btw.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/21 04:55 AM
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crossposted this to r/Marriageisntworthit
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/21 04:50 AM
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Funny thing is, for most of the country NO ONE CARES about the dumb ritual of mask wearing outside of an airplane anymore. Why can't we go back to minding our own business?
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/21 04:21 AM
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I'm sorry that things suck for you right now. I've been there too. Many guys on this sub have. After a divorce, and several long term relationships, I realized that love and romance are a fiction, at best a short term "high". Many men have been destroyed chasing this high, and trying to make it last forever. Women are fickle, always looking to trade up. Never marry one. Check out r/Marriageisntworthit for many examples of other men who have been blindsided.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/21 12:23 PM
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I love this expression! Thanks, I'll be using it(and getting myself in trouble)in the future!
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 11:25 PM
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I don't get upset and depressed about it like I did the first year or so. But it's been ten years and I still occasionally get angry about how things went down. She busted up our family(had a 3 and 4 year old at the time) for some other guy(who was also married with kids) and wound up marrying and divorcing HIM within a year. She negatively affected my young children's lives for what? Yeah, it still makes me mad.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/21 06:37 AM
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Idk, I see a useless luxury item, and one that provides power to thousands of peoples homes.
/r/AntiFeminists07/12/21 04:31 AM
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I was divorce raped at the age of 27. Since then I've had LTR's where they cheat on me for someone else, I've been thoroughly red-pilled. I'm 37 now. I also have that need for a gf, I still have close relationships with women, I think of them more as a pet than a life partner. I have accepted that they will leave me at a moments notice for a better prospect, so I don't get too attached. There are plenty of women who would be happy to date a guy like me(average looking, with a house and vehicles)…
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/21 05:53 AM
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Awesome! It's like society is telling me this is bad(not wanting to get married or whatever), but I think we've stumbled across the secret language of the universe. STOP taking women seriously, accept them for what they really are and have fun!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/21 05:47 AM
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Without a doubt women have been the biggest waste of time and money in my life. I'm sure I'm not the only one. Buying a new boat seems like a great investment of my time and money compared to a new woman, lol.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/21 04:14 AM
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MGTOW was heading in that direction. There would occasionally be posts on the MGTOW sub about how we should start an organization in the real world. But of course women and white knights cannot tolerate a group of men talking about "bad ideas" like opting out of marriage. So MGTOW was labeled a "hate group" or something, quarantined and shut down. I think if we started some clubs in the real world we would constantly be under attack, and they would stop at nothing to shut us down. Still, I would…
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/21 01:32 AM
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They're always looking for the greenest pasture, good for you not letting her come back after she found out she picked the wrong one.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/21 08:51 AM
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I spent some time over at marriedredpill, they sort of have the right idea, but the idea of strutting around, trying to be the most alpha man your wife's life is not only unrealistic, it's a hell of a lot of effort to keep your wife from divorcing you some day. Not worth it in my opinion, if the only thing keeping her from leaving you for some other guy is "game", then what's the point? just don't get married.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/21 05:56 PM
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You might be trolling, but I'll give you my honest assessment. Definitely not 10's, they can always find a new guy. I would say 7 or below. And the 7's will all have baggage(a bad temper, substance abuse problem, habitual liar, cheater, kids, debt). There's a reason they don't have a sponsor in their thirties. Maybe there are a few exceptions, widowers, their ex husband actually was an asshole,(hard to know since they ALL say that).
/r/TheRedPill29/11/21 09:54 PM
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I'm just saying that your standards for having your life together are low af and a lot of guys have that straight out of high school/college unless they are retarded. Accounting majors aren't known for being huge pussy slayers though. Hence why I use the phrase "have your life together" not "wildly successful". My point still stands. Norman, the 23 year old accounting major may not do well with women in their twenties, but he will discover that many women in their thirties are happy to settle do…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/21 10:31 PM
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Could you elaborate on that? Are you saying obesity is only caused by processed food? And a womans tendency to always be looking to trade up is caused by men?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/21 06:42 PM
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Nobody said anything about "gold diggers". I don't know how old you are, but when you reach your thirties and beyond, if you have your life together(income, car, house) you're prime real estate for women who DON'T have their life together, and there are A LOT of them. You will see them working at your local coffee shop, dollar store, or McDonalds. They are often single parents, or just women that partied through their twenties, now they're in their 30's or 40's, they're jealous of their friends …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/21 06:26 AM
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It does make sense. Just because something is natural, doesn't mean we shouldn't try to control it. For example, if we just ate whatever we desire, and as much as we wanted to all the time, we would all be extremely overweight, and have all the health issues that go along with it. Some of our natural desires and instincts served our ancestors well in the environment they were in, but no longer work to our advantage in our present environment.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/21 05:07 AM
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The only way the exact same thing won't happen to you is if you're very lucky, or live in a society that actively shames women when they follow their natural desires. That's not really a thing in the west anymore, except for religious group, which some women choose to leave anyway. But if you think you can "game" a woman for the rest of your life, or that angels exist, you're in for a rude awakening in the future. Hopefully not 20 or more years from now, after you've given your best years to you…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 10:11 PM
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I've been with all sorts. The one thing they all have in common is that they are looking for the best opportunity available. They will treat you like the man of their dreams and adore you, until they feel you're not the best option. I've known guys who were happily married for decades before their wives changed their minds. Being blue pilled will cause you to waste years of your time "building a life together" with someone who will cash out the moment she decides she wants something else.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 07:41 PM
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Some of these women exist. I have known and met them. OR, you're one of the many men who have been played by women. Many of them know how we want them to be and say, and they play the part. My ex girlfriend was a saint, one of the unicorns. Until I found out she was fucking Tim from work.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 04:51 AM
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They will definitely be there when you get to the finish line, or even most of the way to the finish line. Dating was hard in my twenties, but in my thirties, single with a house, vehicles good job, I have women going out of their way to "run into me" and chat. Friends, relatives and neighbors all have some woman they think I should take out. Single moms are the most desperate. There is no shortage of women out there who would be happy to move into my house. But fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 01:45 AM
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Oh for sure. She tells the new stepdad that you're an abusive monster, he buys it hook,line & sinker, and proceeds to white knight for m'lady, resulting in an incident like this video. Risky business.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/21 10:19 PM
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Shoot to kill: the tall man continues to yell obscenities and advances toward the short guy after he had previously told him he would take the firearm from him and kill him with it. Two rounds to the chest and room temperature challenge accepted. What about shooting him in the leg? Wasn't that an option?
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/21 10:16 PM
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I have no doubt she would have been thrilled if they'd killed me. I didn't know there was an actual term for it. Just shows how common that sort of thing is. I guess when they file for divorce they have this fantasy where they go start a new family with some other guy, and the ex husband just sends a check. When some of them realize that's not the way it works, they get MAD.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/21 10:05 PM
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Thank you for sharing this, I'm glad you were able to tell your son the truth.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/21 06:28 PM
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She and her boyfriend could have planned this. My ex wife used to call the police on me a lot during our divorce, one time she told them I had a gun(i didn't even own one at the time, and she knew it).
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/21 11:26 AM
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Did you not watch the same video? The man arrives to pick up his son, tells her she is "playing games", and is shot by her boyfriend. What is misleading in my title? The only one inventing scenarios is you, and if you don't like my post you are free to go elsewhere. Many guys(including myself) on this sub have had to deal with an ex playing games, and this video serves as an example of how badly things can go.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/21 01:42 AM
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Very well said, I'm not sure why you were downvoted. Maybe because you used the word "black-pill" and BLACKPILLBAD!(At least on this sub). You're absolutely right though, a guy can have zero personality, but if he looks like Chris Hemsworth girls are going to be all over him. If he's famous or rich like Chris Hemsworth, even more so.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 12:45 AM
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At first I started reading your post and immediately thought "of course it's necessary, going through life not being red-pilled is like crossing a highway blindfolded. It might turn out ok, but that's a hell of risk. Then I saw that you meant it more in a philosophical way. And I remember when I stopped believing in God. I now envy those people who are so certain that they're going to paradise someday, and I wonder if they're not actually better off than I am. There's comfort in belief, but once…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 07:53 PM
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Whenever i see those kinds of posts(i see them a lot in r/survivinginfidelity ), i always provide a link to r/divorce_men, and tell the OP that it's a place to vent without being harassed by SJWs, and they'll likely find men who have been through a similar situation.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/21 06:48 PM
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If this is how you classify a positive emotional connection you develop with a partner, then I don't know what to say to you. Blue-ist pilled comment I've read so far today.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 02:21 AM
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How is paying upfront for sex "incel"? If you're not paying for it upfront, your getting long-conned.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 02:19 AM
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I respectfully disagree. Maybe if you get a cheap, clock-watching escort it might be a trash experience. But I've been with professionals that do things my ex wife and girlfriends NEVER did! I mean, if you ever had to go to court, would you rather be defended by your friend who's favorite show is Law & Order, or a professional lawyer?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 02:15 AM
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Very well said! I've argued this same point over and over on this sub(as have many others) but I've never seen anyone make this point quite as well as you just did. I'm saving your comment for future reference, TRP should put it in the side bar as well.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 02:06 AM
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I was in Cancun in August, sex workers are awesome! It should be legal everywhere. Also, latin women are hot as hell, and know how to be feminine.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 01:58 AM
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She already made up her mind and is likely trying to get evidence of you being abusive by telling you about affairs and hitting record to tape your response. Yes, always assume she's trying to set you up. Also, look into creating a trust, and transferring any assets you would like to keep into said trust. Be the one to strike first, don't be the one who checks the joint bank account one day and finds it empty.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 06:23 AM
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I had my divorce in Michigan, it's a "no-fault divorce" state. That means despite her choice to nuke our 5 year marriage, and destroy our family(we had two children, 3 &4 years old) by having an affair with man( who was ALSO married with children) had ZERO consequences. Free prizes for her!
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 06:19 AM
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She wants men in her life who will give her money, status and security. She'll put whatever bare minimum effort she feels is required to keep you giving her money, and a little bit of status as well(she'll get to post on social media what a great divorcee mom she is, co-parenting and all with a pic of you at her families Thanksgiving dinner).
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 09:10 AM
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Comments like this keep me coming back to this sub! Well said!
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 05:44 AM
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Women in their 30,40s and even 50s can be so much hotter than those in their 20s. Most men would disagree with you on that, myself included. Women are hottest in their twenties, but still bang-able in their 30's, 40's,... and maybe with a few beers and the lights turned off in their 50's.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 05:39 AM
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The courts don’t care. I second this!! They don't give a fuck. Unless it's you, then it's a problem.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 05:59 AM
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I have none. Then take your own advice, go crawl back under the rock you came from. White knighting for m'lady on this sub won't get you that crumb of pussy you're after.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 05:54 AM
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Where's your contribution-of-meaning Socrates?
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 05:03 AM
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In today's clown-world society she will probably be applauded as stunning and brave for her life decision to be a sex worker.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 01:49 AM
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Like u/dadmacintosh said, control what you can. I wasn't worried about covid, I'm healthy and in my late thirties. It was basically a cold for my kids, for me it was more like the flu. Your mother is more at risk. If you were really concerned about it you could have tested yourself and your daughter before every visit(not that it matters now). Expecting the general public, or worse, your ex wife to keep you informed and safe will have predictable results.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/21 04:38 AM
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This is a great point! Always assume you're being recorded.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 07:18 PM
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Try to remember all this after you've been single for a while and start think "wouldn't it be nice to have a companion?" Remember the nagging, Remember the ingratitude, Remember the laziness, Remember all the bitching you had to put up with anytime you spent your money or free time the way YOU wanted
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 07:17 PM
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Towards the end of my marriage sex got so transactional that when I would ask for it she would say "we can if you take me out for dinner tonight".
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/21 04:22 PM
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That sucks man. My marriage only lasted 5 years, but I found out she had multiple affairs as well. I can't imagine over twenty years wasted on someone like her.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/21 07:02 AM
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Strike first. Strike hard. Best advice on here!
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/21 06:58 AM
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After years of marriage, she decides she no longer likes you. Then convinces herself that you've been awful to her for years. I've seen this many times on this subreddit and experienced it a few times myself. Men who are considering getting married: accept the fact that all your time, love, money and hard work will likely go unappreciated in the end, and she will tell everyone you know that she was mistreated by you. Reality does not matter.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/21 03:04 AM
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No downvotes, you're among red pilled friends here.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/21 09:35 PM
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There will come a time when you don't give a damn what she's doing or who she's with. You'll wonder why you ever cared at all. But personally, what I did to get past this type of thing is go out and get laid. I was in no mental state to go on a date or meet women at the bar, so I headed over to the local asian massage parlor, they offer full service for $150. I felt a thousand times better about everything after that. If you can spare a four day weekend I would suggest heading down to Mexico whe…
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/21 10:54 PM
1

That's fine, if you want keep sleeping with this one girl, no harm in that. Just don't trust her too much. I have buddies that I trust to a certain extent, I wouldn't add any of them to my bank account or put them on the deed to my house though. Yet so many men(myself included) get blinded by love, and trust women WAY more than they should. I've had a 5 year ltr, and a 6 year ltr(one of these was a marriage with children). Both of these women absolutely loved me at one time, but at some point th…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/21 03:41 AM
0

Take it easy. I'm just trying to be the voice of reason. He's talking about "knowing" his girl will stay faithful, her parents stayed together, south American values, blah, blah, blah. I've been there too, putting a girl on a pedestal is not a good idea, it makes for a really bad time when she gives you that red pill.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 03:19 PM
3

The system is stacked against us. Learn from this. Don't be one of those guys who gets married three times. Do the best you can for your child, and read The Rational Male. https://pdfcoffee.com/qdownload/the-rational-malepdf-pdf-free.html
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/21 07:04 AM
30

THIS!! They tell you that you're the only guy they want because they believe it's what you want to hear.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 06:49 AM
4

Rookie mistake. She WILL leave you the instant a better opportunity presents itself. Your only hope is that you remain her best option, but how much of yourself should you give to someone who would betray betray you when it is convenient for her? Stop believing in unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 06:47 AM
5

Yep, The Rational Male is a must read. Going red pill takes the "magic" out of relationships, but it's all fantasy anyway. Better to take the bitter red pill INSTEAD of losing 20 years of your youth, only to get divorced by a woman who decides she hates you, takes half your equity, your children, and you've got to pay the woman who hates you a monthly check for the forseeable future.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 07:13 PM
5

It just sucks that she talks down on people, feels like i’m not with the shits and also has the ego of an A list celebrity. Modern American woman.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 07:08 PM
9

Why are you even concerned with the negative Nancy's who whine and bitch and don't try? That's less competition for you.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/21 04:33 AM
40

Your math is off. There's not a cornucopia of women for each man, it averages out to about 50/50. Maybe for the above average looking guy there are plenty of options, but their "extra options" are in effect stealing away the options of below average guys. As the OP said, they can still pay for it. If you have enough money girls will flock to you no matter what you look like. Shaming the unlucky bastards who lost the genetic lottery isn't cool though. A guy can have Tony Robbins charisma, hot chi…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/21 02:18 AM
8

Excellent comment!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 07:11 PM
10

Smart man!
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 07:11 PM
12

Marriage is insane. You can't possibly know if a relationship is going to last. This goes for any relationship. I've had best friends that I haven't heard from in years. Relationships get stale, people drift apart. Signing a contract obligating you to pay someone money if the relationship ever ends is a bad bet.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 07:10 PM
3

At your age, they start to become dime a dozen. This is true. Especially single moms. Just don't get married again.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/21 12:08 AM
3

Agreed, except it's not "women like her" it's women in general. They love you when you're their best opportunity, the second they think they can land a better deal, they switch that love off quick. OP's wife likely wants to cash out, collect regular payments from OP, and get a new sponsor(husband). I know several women who are financially set for life after three marriages.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/21 12:07 AM
68

At some point, you gotta get real. I can't believe how much he put up with.
/r/AntiFeminists22/10/21 01:37 AM
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r/whiteknighting
/r/AntiFeminists19/10/21 05:00 AM
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Notice OP doesn't say she wouldn't falsely accuse someone, only that she wouldn't "over such a small thing"
/r/AntiFeminists19/10/21 03:25 AM
12

I went through a similar thing. My ex wife just decided she didn't want to be a wife and mother to our two kids one day. Said she wanted a divorce(light switch effect). A guy we both knew from our kids playgroup started picking her up every day. She said he was taking her to see his wife, because they were friends. Turned out what was really going on is that the guy and his wife were in an open marriage, and the guy was sleeping with my wife. I file for divorce, she moves in with him and his wif…
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/21 03:07 AM
21

Sluts are awesome. They're down with all sorts of awesome sex stuff and suck a mean dick. I have no issues with a girl who had a slut phase. I agree. Whores and sluts are awesome. The upside of society declining, is that a modern man can fulfill his desire to sleep with many different women. Just don't ever trust or marry one. I do feel for any modern man who wishes to have a stable nuclear family. A high-stakes gamble that half of all men lose. But I'm never getting married again anyway, and I …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 11:04 PM
1

No. She's on her own.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/21 10:26 PM
5

The logical thing would be to stay quiet, start hiding money, look into creating a trust so you can protect assets from divorce court, strategize with a divorce attorney, etc. I was NOT able to do this, my emotions got the better of me, it's really hard to keep quiet while she smugly thinks she's playing you for a fool.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/21 03:10 PM
5

“you can love women or you can understand them.” Great quote! Ain't it the truth!
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 01:47 AM
12

look up the light switch effect Yep. This has happened to me many times as well. Try to LEARN from this. Never take those letters and nice things they say to heart. You were just her best option at the time. That's what they tell all their best options.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/21 08:08 PM
3

Nothing is final , and if you truly make some changes over a long period of time it might help to get her back . Fuck that. OP needs to quit putting this woman on a pedestal, for that matter ANY woman on a pedestal.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/21 05:21 AM
0

Best advice on here!!! Follow this mans advice, OP!
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/21 05:19 AM
4

I have been unhappy for a long time. To be honest, I feel terrible, I feel like a failure. I feel like a horrible person, a horrible husband and a horrible father. Yeah, that's marriage. I don't mean to sound cold, but it's awfully nice when you don't have someone around to remind you what your flaws are. We all have flaws. I don't care who you are.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/21 08:05 PM
17

You shouldn't snoop. Not because it's unethical or something, but because it's a waste of your time. Women can treat you like you're the center of their universe and then switch it off like BLAM. It's happened to me enough times that I know it's not a question of if they'll lose interest, but when.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/21 06:04 AM
1

I already don't like what it's become. I think forcing everyone to wear a cloth mask is fucking retarded as well. It's like they held a meeting, and figured out a way to make flying somewhere even more of an aggravation for everyone.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/21 02:45 AM
1

All it takes is bit of spin to make it an equivalent concept. This performance enhancing drug MUST be taken as a safety measure towards others. It keeps you sharp and awake, and less of a danger towards others while you are operating company equipment. Honestly wouldn't surprise me if something like this comes to pass in my lifetime. The way society just seems to accept anything that is presented under the guise of "for the safety of others".
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/21 01:00 AM
2

If her job is firing her because she refuses to be injected with something she doesn't want to be injected with, that's THEIR fault, not hers. If your job wanted to inject you with a performance enhancing drug, and you said "no thanks", is it your fault when they fire you?
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/21 12:35 AM
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I'm not on her side at all, but it's not her fault she lost the job. Nobody should be forced to be injected with something in order to keep their job. How is this even legal?
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/21 03:32 PM
3

YES. You made the right choice. Marriage is a gamble. It's insane how many of us roll the dice. A fool(me) learns from his own mistakes, a wise man(you) learns from the mistakes of others.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/21 12:04 AM
1

You've got a tiger by the tail. Best to keep things civil, hopefully until the papers are signed. Then you're free to do what you want & have a good deal.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/21 07:28 PM
1

I agree, they value status above all else. That includes money, popularity, and looks. They associate a man's charisma with status or popularity, and it definitely helps, but can only go so far. I've seen good looking guys with ZERO personality pull in chicks with no problem. There's only so much you can do.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 05:56 AM
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Don't be too hard on yourself. You can work on social anxiety, try to stop worrying what other people think of you. But if you don't look like Brad Pitt, don't expect to pull in chicks like he does. Confidence helps some, but only goes so far. Would you date an ugly girl because she was confident(or had a great personality)? Fuck no. So don't be too hard on yourself. Some things are out of our control. Focus on being great at the things that are in your control.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 02:01 AM
8

I don't feel trapped, i have my kids the majority of the time even though custody was set at 50/50. Also, when I got divorced at 27, all I had to give her was one of my vehicles and whatever she wanted out of our rental house. I bought my first house a few months AFTER my divorce, I'm so happy I didn't buy a house while married.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/21 06:51 PM
2

I did this for a while with my two kids. It was rough on them. Their mom slowly started skipping her days more and more, now she only sees them a few times a year.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/21 02:04 AM
14

Remember this experience when you get a girl who is "deeply in love with you". Never forget that it's only because you are her best opportunity at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 04:59 PM
14

I never want to feel trapped again.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/21 05:47 PM
8

Prenups only protect what you have now, not future earnings, so I wouldn't rely on that. Besides, prenups get challenged and thrown out all the time. All it takes is a judge who feels the prenup "isn't fair"
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/21 05:39 PM
5

You have to overcome your scarcity mindset. THIS!! Being alone the rest of your life is not a realistic problem. Women depreciate with time, you'll find there is an abundance of single women in their 40's and 50's who would LOVE to have a sponsor, err, I mean "husband". Your biggest problem would be if you settle for the first one that pounces on you.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/21 01:10 AM
3

I love it! Sweet freedom!
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/21 12:56 AM
7

There have been so many deaths, miscarriages, and adverse side effects from this new vaccine, at some point there is going to be a whole lot of "experts" eating crow. They can't keep ignoring this forever. And as it's increasingly becoming obvious that even with the vaxx, you can still catch the virus and die from it, the whole "the risk of side effects is worth it" argument is falling flat as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 02:54 AM
2

No two types, only one type! People are like ferrets!!!!
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 10:52 AM
5

I was the same way when I told me fiance I had a change of heart and didn't want to get married. Be strong, you pulled the bandaid off, but don't go back on what you said in order to make her or yourself feel better(it's tempting, I know). It will only hurt her more if you keep going back and forth on this.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/21 01:23 AM
9

No doubt the breakup rate is far higher in regular relationships. Likely over 90%. Marriage breakup rates are slowly equalizing with regular breakups as divorce becomes less of a stigma. Judging by some of the female divorcee's on social media, divorce is becoming something to brag about, and show what a "strong, independent woman" you are. Rates for divorce are NOT going to be getting any lower in the future.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/21 02:35 PM
8

Haha yeah, "always was". At least for women 30+. How much money you make becomes VERY important for them when they're ready to settle down. You don't see women chasing homeless guys very often.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 01:45 PM
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the guy didn't have nothing special to say and despite that he was successful. Which makes me think that game is bs and the only reason the girls talked to him is because they found him cute or whatever when they first saw him. I agree. Confidence is helpful, but only goes so far. I had a shy friend named Tom, the girls found him attractive, and he would always do better than all the other guys in our group, confidence and charisma be damned.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 01:11 AM
8

Or head to the Dominican Republic or Columbia, where the girls chase you.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 01:05 AM
11

I respect your brass balls! There is a lot of big talk on this forum, but when I try straight up cold approach like your three scenarios I get the same sort of reaction. Girls are often leery of guys who approach out of nowhere, it's seen as a red flag for guys who have mental problems or devious intentions. If you were to approach these same women in a more "natural" social setting, your results would likely be better. For instance, if you were in the same class, gym, you're a customer and she'…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/21 11:20 PM
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a lot of this is muh free market at work Hard to call it "free market" when many businesses aren't allowed to operate due to "muh pandemic". We've lost so many small businesses in the past year.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 03:41 AM
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I'm not entirely sure this community is the best place to do it, but there are like a handful of communities where you can actually have a non left leaning view or even different view and not be ostracized, down voted to hell, and banned. Those are disappearing rapidly. Reddit has been going on a "misinformation" purge lately, quarantining and outright banning non-woke subreddits. All the MGTOW subs have been banned, most of subs that question whether the government should completely run our liv…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 03:38 AM
2

God damn it... I've been unsuccessful finding a job with my underwater basket weaving degree, I was hoping to get my wokeness degree here today...
/r/TheRedPill05/09/21 03:24 AM
5

Then why are female sex workers in HUGE demand compared to male sex workers?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 11:06 PM
2

It's like men are afraid to improve their sex game. The better you are at sex, you'll be on the better part of hypergamy. I've been where you are, I believe you're trying to make yourself so valuable to a woman, that she won't ever leave you for anyone else. Ask yourself though, even if you could pull that off, is it worth tying yourself down to a woman who would leave you for higher "value"(in her opinion) dude if she ever gets the opportunity? No, it's not. I get it, most of us want, or wanted…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 11:04 PM
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No. Women do not have the same sexual desire as men. They can and do get horny and they do want to get fucked that's a fact but it's never to the same degree; pick a reason: options, hormones, society, state of mind, whatever. Women have options. Demand vs Supply. That means that, sexually, for every one woman that is putting herself out there there's a sea of dicks willing to fill that hole. Guys with a boat, guys that look like Greek gods, guys that can take a week off to hang out with celebs.…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 10:47 PM
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Yes, and realizing co-dependency is an addiction that you can overcome. We really don't "need" a romantic partner, we just think we do. If a man can learn to be happy on his own, women lose their power over us.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/21 06:09 AM
5

You have a serious case of One-itis. She's all you've known for a long time. You've clearly put her up on a pedestal. It sounds like you have an advantage that most guys don't have, custody of the kids. So no child support payments for you. She is a rapidly depreciating asset. You are not. You will soon find that there is an abundance of women looking for a man who has a house they can move into. As tempting as it may be, do NOT GET INTO A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP AGAIN. For that matter, never take …
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/21 04:48 AM
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Lol, what's coming to the unvaxxed? A virus with a 99% survival rate? Meanwhile, will the vaxx give you a stroke, cancer, or worse in the next few years? You don't know. Buena suerte!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 12:20 AM
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Different girls he's been with in different cities, perhaps different countries. Some guys travel all over the world, try out girls in the Caribbean, Central and South America, Africa, Europe, parts of Asia and the South Pacific Islands.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 09:13 PM
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There's no pride in sleeping with prostitutes, it doesn't teach you social skills, it doesn't validate your desirability & value. Someday you'll likely reach the point where you don't feel the need to validate yourself. I'm pretty much at that point(late 30's). Both low value and high value men pay for sex. Watch "the Wolf of Wall Street". Plenty of famous good looking guys like Eddie Murphy, Charlie Sheen, Alex Rodriguez, Tiger Woods, Hugh Grant, etc... Guys who don't have time for all the game…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 09:08 PM
1

It's amusing to me seeing how guys here can easily make fun or pity of women when those women appear to be so delusional but at the same time making exceptions for themselves that is okay to claim to be redpill and still going to prostitutes on regular basic. When you see an escort, I suppose you forfeit "bragging rights", you didn't charm her with your looks or charisma, but I'm at the age where I really don't give a shit about bragging rights or proving to myself how alpha I am or whatever. I'…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 08:59 PM
7

Glad to have you aboard! Though TheRedPill may not last long on reddit. They've been banning a lot of subs lately.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 08:41 PM
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All that stuff you listed in the other reply can be arranged. And if you're worried about STI's there are agencies that test their girls regularly. You can get a girl for the weekend, do all that stuff you would do with a regular gf. You can hire someone to do laundry, cook and clean. No need to tie yourself down to one woman. I already have two kids, and a vasectomy. So "finding a woman worthy of having my kids" isn't on my list. I've been with lots of regular girls, generally they're not great…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 06:31 PM
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I think what you're doing is a coping mechanism, not a lifestyle. You can't go your entire life fearing half of the population. If you stopped building them up in your head, maybe you could actually see them for what they are. It's funny though, I did the opposite, dated, got married in my twenties, divorced by thirty, dated some more, and I now have the same mindset as OP. In my opinion, OP is wise beyond his years, and has saved himself all sorts of grief. Also, I bet he could tell some wild s…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 06:04 PM
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South America and South East Asia you can get girls for that amount.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 06:00 PM
3

May I ask how old are you and what is your situation/deal with women Probably still in high school, dreaming of The One.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 05:58 PM
7

Thanks for sharing your experience. Did you stick to local escorts, or take international trips?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 05:55 PM
15

Seeking arrangements is good for GFE. I know a guy who flies to mexico for a four day weekend every month. He's got a girl down there that he goes to the beach with, out for drinks, movie, netflix and chill, etc. Then he heads back to the states. He gives her an "allowance" of $200 a month.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 05:53 PM
15

Any real man knows there is nothing that can compare to a submissive, good girlfriend, who you will never find through whores. Clearly you've never been with an escort who's given you the "girlfriend experience". I was with a girl named Mary in Mexico earlier this month. At the end of our session I couldn't tell if she genuinely had a crush on me, or was a pro at GFE. Probably the latter, but I'm not 100% sure, that's how good she was.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 05:49 PM
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Great comment! Good points, definitely helps give an instant "abundance mentality", when you KNOW you can always get an escort.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 05:42 PM
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If you can find an escort for less than $200 in the USA, it's a bargain. Prices are crazy in the US due to higher wages(as you said), and the fact that it's illegal. There's a reason people call the USA "sex prison".
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 05:39 PM
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$20-30? What country is this? In South America prices can get this cheap. I've read it's that cheap in Brazil. If you're willing to travel farther, in the Phillipines you can also sleep with a beautiful woman for $20 USD or so. I was in Cancun Mexico earlier this month, I slept with a couple girls at the spas(spa Mary, Healthy Body spa) for about $75 USD each. That was "full service" for an hour. You could do a half hour for $50 or so. No exaggeration, the girl I slept with at spa Mary was the m…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 05:36 PM
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I hate to be Captain Obvious, but imagine the outrage if the roles were reversed...
/r/AntiFeminists30/08/21 04:37 AM
14

Yep. At least we learned though. Some guys never do.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/21 09:16 PM
31

I was married 5 years, also had a girlfriend for 6 years. Tried very hard with both, went places I didn't want to go, passed up a lot of opportunities in my 20's and 30's, only to have them both hate me in the end anyway. They're not worth the effort. They are all looking for an opportunity to improve their status(a good looking husband who can give them a good "lifestyle"), and the second they believe they can do better than you, they'll start treating you terribly. It doesn't matter how many y…
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/21 09:15 PM
9

I had to deal with a similar sort of circumstance. My wife started cheating with some guy, and for the first few weeks of our divorce I had to watch him pull into my driveway to take my wife out every evening. She had my kids around him too, even though she wasn't supposed to. Made them call him "dad" and everything. My kids were 3 and 4 at the time. I hated her for a long time, but now I almost feel sorry for her, but not quite. She made her bed, now she can lay in it. You're right, they really…
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/21 12:52 AM
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I'm sorry you're going through all this OP, I hope many young men read this cautionary tale of a post and think twice before marrying their "dream girl". The whole "coming over to my house to cause chaos" brought back memories for me. My ex called the cops soooooo many times. It got to a point where they knew she was just causing drama, and they quit taking her seriously, and even told her to knock it off. Hopefully your local police will get that point soon. It does get better and more stable o…
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/21 04:21 PM
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They watched too many hollywood movies where scrawny women beat up men with ease.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/21 01:18 AM
2

Nice mask you have there on your avatar. You must care about covid a lot. You're so awesome.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/08/21 04:55 AM
4

When you mentioned the mattress in the basement, I swear I had flashbacks of the couch I slept on for a year in the basement of our house leading up to our divorce in 2011. It is such a relief once you're through the whole process of divorce and can finally make decisions without worrying what "she thinks" about it. You'll be there before you know it. I hope all goes well for you!
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/21 04:07 AM
3

The grass is not always greener on the other side It is for me. Maybe for some guys who have to pay a ridiculous amount for child support or alimony, the grass may not be greener for a while, but at least you're not chained down to someone else for the rest of your life.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/21 04:00 AM
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You're going to die someday. You've only got one chance to live the life you want. Stop letting the opinions of other people determine what you do with your life. I know it's hard. I didn't want to get divorced, it's hard to admit defeat. My ex really left me no choice(left me for someone else). But ten years later, I'm actually glad it happened. The thought of being tied down with someone else for the rest of my life fills me with dread. I just got back from an amazing solo trip to Mexico(Yucat…
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/21 03:56 AM
18

Are you? That's... literally what condoms are for.
/r/MGTOW202/08/21 02:42 AM
2

Great comment!
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 11:36 PM
3

Oh yeah! Check out internationalsexguide.com . I'm heading to Cancun right now, and I definitely plan to meet up with some senoritas. It's not as cheap as Brazil or the Philippines(about $75 for a good looking lady in Cancun), but still way cheaper and better quality than what you can find in the States. It's totally legal too, so that's also nice.
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 11:31 PM
2

Condoms?
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 11:25 PM
5

Exactly, head to Brazil or the Philippines and it's $20 a pop. Get out of sex prison (USA)
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 07:14 PM
16

Add a makeshift meth lab in the trunk of the vehicle for good measure.
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 04:52 AM
3

Touche
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 01:09 AM
3

Keep living in your romantic fantasy, I don't give a f**k. Some guys can't be helped
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/21 04:30 PM
5

In Michigan you have to pay alimony after seven years. I got lucky and divorced after 5 years.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/21 04:38 AM
7

My one critique: show more cleavage on those nurses.
/r/MGTOW231/07/21 04:23 AM
10

Life is so much better when you find someone that shares your same dreams and desires. Sure, just don't ever take women too seriously. They only love you until they find someone who can give them better status and security(someone with more money, power, looks). Never fully trust one. Most of us have made that mistake before.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/21 02:47 AM
5

Go check out r/TRP. Catching your girl texting other guys is what is known as a "red pill". A dose of reality. That romantic stuff that we men buy into is really just fantasy, believing the girl you love is a sweet, innocent creature(it's engrained in our biology). When the reality of it is, if she had a chance to trade you up for a guy who's better looking, with a higher income, she will do so in a heartbeat(and then tell you it's your fault). AWALT. All Women Are Like That. I learned this the …
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/21 02:43 AM
1

You need food to survive. You need a woman like you need brain tumor.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/21 03:29 PM
0

Stay the F**k away from all women! GYOW
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/21 08:01 AM
2

You bigot!!! Are you saying four year olds don't have the right to choose their gender and begin hormone treatment?!!!!!/s
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 05:28 AM
1

We’re in deep shit if people can freely express ideas like this. People should be able to freely express whatever ideas they want. We're in deep shit because people who disagree with this sort of thing are actively censored out on the internet.
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 05:25 AM
1

Just out of curiosity, what country was she from?
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/21 08:17 PM
2

Best comment I've read today.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/21 11:14 PM
4

Awalt.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 10:59 PM
14

After my divorce, and several ltr's(long term relationships), I finally realized that all women are searching for the best "opportunity" to improve their social status. They can love you, but only until a better opportunity comes along. Knowing this, I can never take one seriously again.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/21 04:42 AM
1

It's clown world, so who knows?
/r/MGTOW22/07/21 09:30 PM
14

It's all right. Most of us do the same thing. I feel lucky that I married young, had a really bad marriage for 5 years, then a nasty divorce. It has kept me from getting married again.
/r/MGTOW22/07/21 03:50 AM
53

They hate us cuz they ain't us!
/r/MGTOW21/07/21 09:33 PM
1

I'll be on my way. Ok. Go your own way.
/r/MGTOW221/07/21 09:23 PM
34

The kids know that contradicting moms "strong, independent woman doing it on my own" fantasy with reality(it's all being funded by beta-bux child support)will trigger a physical assault.
/r/MGTOW21/07/21 07:41 AM
4

Agreed. They should go topless as well, and add a mud wrestling pit where fouls and disputes are settled. That might gain some viewership.
/r/MGTOW21/07/21 04:13 AM
1

"But, but, that contract I signed and agreed to was sexist!" This is no surprise, they have the same outrage about paying back the student loans they signed and agreed to.
/r/MGTOW21/07/21 04:09 AM
10

Congrats on your first MGTOW post! Reading this reminded me of my father. He is the kind of guy who hates to be alone, so he always has a girlfriend. I'm honestly not sure he could be happy on his own(he and I are different in that respect). He has stuck to his vow never to get married again(since he and my mom got divorced), and basically has a different girlfriend every five years or so. This seems to suit him. You could consider doing the same. The older we get, the more single women are out …
/r/MGTOW221/07/21 03:37 AM
32

Master Roshi lives on his own tropical island, focusing on his passion, martial arts. He occasionally hits on thots, which usually gets him physically assaulted. Both Chi Chi and Bulma have physically assaulted him.
/r/MGTOW20/07/21 08:35 PM
2

Start using the Tor browser. They somehow were auto-banning the new accounts I was creating, that stopped when I started using Tor. I don't log into reddit unless I'm im using the Tor browser, you can get it on your smartphone too.
/r/MGTOW20/07/21 04:23 PM
1

My last girlfriend wanted to get married, I did not(having already experienced divorce). I begrudgingly agreed to a "spiritual wedding", just a ceremony, nothing legal. She ended up cheating, so the spiritual wedding never happened, but I can see why a man would opt for it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/21 01:12 AM
1

That's why I only rent them.
/r/MGTOW19/07/21 07:23 PM
1

I disagree. Just a lifestyle choice. Partaking of a pleasure in life, without getting tied down. There are logical reasons for completely abstaining from red meat too(for example), but I'm not going to consider a man who orders a steak or burger from time to time to be "weak".
/r/MGTOW19/07/21 07:15 PM
12

Leave it under the toilet seat like that one meme.
/r/MGTOW19/07/21 01:58 PM
19

I find relationships to be a "belief system". You have "faith" that your partner will never lose interest in you. The reality of situation though, is that you can't predict what she will do in the future. It's like putting faith on a roll of the dice. I've accepted that women will generally stick with the guy who can increase her social status the most. The second you are no longer that guy(or she "believes" she can do better), it's over. She'll cash out her insurance(divorce) and move on to the…
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/21 03:37 AM
29

then one day they flip the switch and suddenly you've gone from being a life partner or lover to being literally nothing more than an inconvenience. After about the fourth time this happened to me, I completely gave up. I count myself lucky they flipped the switch at 6 years or less. Could have just as easily been 30 years, then I've wasted decades and my youth on one ungrateful harpy.
/r/MGTOW19/07/21 01:50 AM
7

Men like peace and happiness. Women need drama. Simple. Well put!
/r/MGTOW18/07/21 05:42 PM
1

It was definitely more mental than physical when I was younger(I'm late thirties now). At some point you start to see that women are all pretty much the same, and you stop having that ego boost when one seems to really dig you.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 05:37 PM
1

You're referring to the "girlfriend experience". It can absolutely be bought. I even know a guy who has a regular "girlfriend" in Mexico, he gives her an allowance of $200 a month, goes to see her for a four day weekend once a month, they go out to dinner, the beach, shows, she cooks for him(and of course they have sex as well). I think we disagree on time management. Some guys like to grow their own food, spend hours and hours planting seeds, tending the crop, harvesting. I can understand a sen…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 05:34 PM
6

I've read a lot about Filipino women, and I have a buddy who heads there regularly. It's definitely on my bucket list. From all accounts, it's super easy to get laid over there, basically a conga line of women. As you said, as long as you don't lose your head and get married or something, it sounds fucking amazing. Beautiful women, beautiful beaches, what else could a man ask for? Guarantee the OP has never stepped foot in SE Asia.
/r/MGTOW18/07/21 05:37 AM
-2

True, but in my opinion, women are genetically prone to seeking out men who will improve their social status and security. Hence why women are attracted to high status figures(such as celebrities), you can be famous and women will want to sleep with you, regardless of your charisma. Charisma can help you to become a high status individual(like a politician) however, so it's still worth pursuing.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 05:20 AM
3

I agree 100%. Looks are at LEAST 90% of getting laid. Yes, you can improve your odds a bit if you work on your social skills, hit the gym, buy nice clothes, etc. But women aren't worth all that effort. Do those things for YOU not them. I'm going to Mexico in a couple of weeks, going to fuck women that I should not be able to fuck given my "SMV" for $40 a pop. Do I care that some men consider that a "shortcut"? Hell no. Different means, but end result is the SAME. Stop wasting precious time tryin…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 05:13 AM
3

I always thought humbleness was a virtue. I really dislike braggarts. But at some point I had to admit the cocky asshole guys were the ones getting promoted at work, and chicks seem to dig that sort of guy as well. However, there is no substitute for being born very attractive. You can improve your game somewhat, but if you think a man who is a 5 with good charisma, can win more ladies than a guy who is a 10 with ok charisma you're deluding yourself. Some guys don't get that and beat themselves …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 02:34 AM
8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PdXv-wEu9M
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 09:06 AM
1

Link to the Pornhub video that inspired this meme for all you degenerates out there: https://www.pornhub.com/view\_video.php?viewkey=ph5fb548652afa0
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 07:19 AM
33

Asian women are one of the biggest gold diggers. Me no study, me no care, Me go marry millionaire, If he die, me no cry, Me go marry another guy.
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 06:58 AM
6

tropical but remote like Papa New Guinea I like the way you think, but I'm thinking more like Afghanistan.
/r/MGTOW216/07/21 12:57 AM
10

Been there, done that. I should have recorded it like this guy did. We were going through a divorce, I got my youngest(six month old) tested and he wasn't mine. Handed her the results, she completely denied it, accused me of making up the test. It was a couple days later when she finally admitted to it.
/r/MGTOW216/07/21 12:52 AM
5

Reap the clown-themed whirlwind.
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 09:02 PM
18

it reads like some dystopian comedy skit Sure, but our world has become a dystopian comedy skit, so I can't discount it.
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 09:00 PM
24

That is a loaded question in Clown-World. Why would you assume they were a guy or a girl?!!! What about the 86 other genders?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 08:59 PM
1

I like the way you think!
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/21 05:43 AM
-1

Talk your wife into putting the money into a "really great savings account"(that is in both of your names), then withdraw the money, stash it somehow(in a trust, grand caymans, buy gold and bury it, etc), file for divorce. $200K is ironically the same amount of money you need to retire to SE Asia. LIVE THE DREAM! LIVE IT FOR THE REST OF US!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/21 05:41 AM
26

Honestly, if they were 100% reversible I would get my son one. Then he wouldn't have to worry about getting baby trapped like I was.
/r/AntiFeminists14/07/21 10:39 PM
1

Download the TOR browser, make a new reddit profile, now you're free to post more MGTOW jokes.
/r/MGTOW14/07/21 04:35 AM
16

AWALT(All Women Are Like That). They are all searching for the best "opportunity". The man who will provide the most social status and security. If you get it, it's only a temp job. They will keep looking for a better "opportunity" the entire time they are with you, no matter how much you believe she is "in love with you". The second she finds a guy who is better looking, has more money, or higher status, she will dump you.
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 06:38 AM
1

I never put with that level of bullshit, but there is a hesitancy to pull the divorce trigger. He could be facing losing his house, kids, friends, not to mention the possibility of false charges being filed. It takes balls to pull that trigger. But I'm so glad I did.
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 04:27 AM
3

It does, she was playing call of duty with the neighbor.
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 04:23 AM
5

Going your own way does NOT have to mean "being chaste", that's my point.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 07:46 AM
2

I actually consider myself a 7, I was with a 6. How do you defend against a man who is a 10 at her work, hitting on her, even talking about marriage, just to get in her pants? This happened to me. Found out they got a hotel a few times, went on for two months before I caught her. Of course we broke up, and Mr 10 tells her he "wants to slow things down", dumped her basically. So she threw away a 6 year LTR, (we were engaged to be married at the time also), for a perceived opportunity to be with a…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 05:57 AM
2

I understand what you're saying. I felt the same way. At least, if your SMV was much higher than hers there was a "good chance" that she would be faithful(due to lack of better opportunies). And I practiced this a while, but eventually got bitter about it. It's a lot of effort you're putting out for someone who would CERTAINLY leave you if a much better opportunity came along, even if that's "improbable" due to your efforts. There's still the chance that you could work hard at the SMV thing, be …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 05:48 AM
4

Exactly, she cheated means she never respected or loved you Whatever that even means. A woman may love that you're a good "opportunity" to provide her status and security. And she may be upset to lose that status and security, but make no mistake, they will all leave you for a better option.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 05:34 AM
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Don’t go chaste or what mgtow calls going your own way, just because girls are all sluts , Going your own way doesn't necessarily mean "going chaste". Going your own way means doing what you want, this can include sleeping with women, just don't get married or take them too seriously, because then you're not going your own way anymore, you're going HER way. Some MGTOW go "Monk" which means chaste, and if that's what a guy wants to do there isn't anything wrong with that. But I like to partake.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 05:31 AM
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My mom though? She really is a Saint when it comes to relationship loyalty. As was her mom, and dad. The older generations had it right... and we can't, and shouldn't, put the cat (women) back in the box (kitchen) so it's time to roll with the changes in society. That's because women are chameleons to societal stigmas. Being a ho was shameful back then, as was divorce. So most women behaved themselves, and likely competed at virtue signalling how behaved they were, the same way women today compe…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 05:25 AM
16

Idk why you're getting down-voted. American girls really aren't worth the effort. But get yourself a passport and you'll soon find that you're in high demand in many other countries. Women chase you. Check out internationalsexguide.com some time. Very informative site.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 05:14 AM
4

Exactly. Just stop taking women so seriously. They'll disappoint you everytime.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 05:36 AM
2

What I really want is to sleep with many women, and have each of them exclusive to me. Yeah. Don't we all... I believe that's hard-wired into our biology. I've just accepted that it's out of my control, and try not to take it personally when women act predictably(fuck other guys when it suits them).
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 05:33 AM
8

A lot of TRP members claim that jealousy stems from society "conditioning" you, but I don't buy that. Any of us who have been blue-pilled-deeply-in-love with a woman who treated us like we were the center of our universe, then got dumped for some other man who she suddenly treats like the center of her universe, knows what jealousy and hurt feels like. It's that feeling that she must find the other guy to be better than you. Well, it's true. She does consider him to be a better man(for whatever …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 05:25 AM
3

2021 is a year for SELLING houses. 2022 may be a great year for buying houses. There is a years worth of foreclosures that will hit the market a few months after this moratorium has ended.
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 08:19 PM
8

The wall is undefeated and the floor shows no mercy.
/r/MGTOW09/07/21 06:35 PM
4

I'll give her a good bone poking!
/r/MGTOW08/07/21 04:40 PM
6

Exactly
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 01:08 AM
6

Even if they did notice, it doesn't matter. They'd miss you for a bit and move on. No matter who you are, people just get on with their lives.
/r/MGTOW206/07/21 01:15 AM
6

I'm hoping by the time I find out I have a terminal illness, assisted suicide is legal. I know I don't want to slowly waste away. Still, it will be hard to let go, I hope I can do it when the time comes.
/r/MGTOW206/07/21 01:11 AM
10

Honk! Honk!
/r/MGTOW205/07/21 08:09 PM
2

You had me until you said "marry". Sure, you can get a prenup, but why tie yourself down at all?
/r/MGTOW205/07/21 07:31 PM
7

Tell her you have a degenerative condition, and she will need to start taking care of you within the next year.
/r/MGTOW05/07/21 04:45 AM
2

You dodged a bullet! Now learn from that and stay out of No-Mans-Land
/r/MGTOW05/07/21 01:00 AM
10

I'm sorry your dad said that to you. Ghosting him for a while is probably the best strategy, you don't want to be a doormat. Do what's best for you, and that might include reconciling at some point. It sounds like he's older and in bad health, be honest with yourself, and try to imagine if he were to die, would you regret that you hadn't talked to him for a long time? I have the same sort of relationship with my mom, she's said awful things like that, but I know if I were to cut her out of my li…
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 08:30 AM
17

This is true. There's nothing quite like that feeling of dispair: "I did everything I was supposed to do, and STILL got cheated on and divorced!!". I'm glad I found MGTOW and TRP, everything finally made sense. Had I not found these groups, society probably would have convinced me to "get back up on that horse", and on to marriage #2.
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 05:52 AM
0

Best comment of the day! Should have been the original post! Just don't marry one! If you know you can't control yourself, then sure, go Monk.
/r/MGTOW04/07/21 12:10 AM
1

As long as you can control yourself, going through the conga line of women in SE Asia is an experience of a lifetime! If you can't control yourself, then you're gonna have a bad time. At that point it's best to abstain just as you would if you had a problem controlling your alcohol consumption.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 11:56 PM
0

Well said! Every man should escape the sex prison that is the USA and experienced being a "prize" that is pursued by the opposite sex.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 11:53 PM
3

It wouldn't make sense sleeping with the good looking broke guy, and then starving to death with him on the street. Exactly, given the choice of: sleeping with good looking broke guy in his shitty apartment or trailer, eating boiled hot dogs and cheetos, or sleeping with good looking broke guy on the sly in the pool at her rich ugly beta-bux mansion, eating steak and lobster, I think we all know which option she'll choose.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 06:11 PM
3

Today however, they don't need to bother with that shit. Just in wealthy countries like the USA though, that's why they call it a "sex prison" gotta get a passport!
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 06:06 PM
3

You don't have to go to a "non extradition" country just to avoid debt. It's not that extreme, unless he murders his wife first(kidding).
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/21 05:53 PM
3

This is actually a pretty common thing. People take their money and head overseas where cost of living is way lower, and they get to keep all their money. You might want to read this article: https://www.vice.com/en/article/qbx7dm/talking-to-american-debt-dodgers-who-moved-to-europe-to-avoid-paying-off-their-student-loans-111 It's about student loan debt, that's a debt that doesn't go away, like your situation. From what I've read in that article and others, nobody is going to go after your mone…
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/21 05:49 PM
22

Yes it is. I believe it's in our DNA. Our ancestors who were hard wired to pursue this fantasy were more likely to have offspring that survived, hence why we all seem to share this powerful utopian belief and desire.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 05:00 PM
9

Looks >> money Clearly you have never been outside of sex prison(USA). Go to the Philippines(pretty much anywhere in the Philippines), head to a bar, and see if the girls flock to you or the (poor)attractive local guy more. Your money(and your ability to get them a green card) trump looks in a third world country. It's a great demonstration of the true nature of women, your vision is skewed because American women are spoiled and have entitled attitudes. You're looks>>money is sort of true in the…
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 06:29 AM
3

he isn't a good data point to use as an example however... his wife divorced him For money!!!
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 06:14 AM
3

If your ex wife behaved like a personal chef, housekeeper, and professional escort I would say you're the exception to the rule. I was only married five years, but during the last few years it was starfish missionary sex twice a month at best, she put close to zero effort into cooking and cleaning, and of course insisted I do half the chores even though I worked and she didn't.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/21 12:06 AM
6

Yeah, DON'T MARRY THEM! Like my uncle says his commander ussed say to the guys in the navy, "don't marry the drinky-drinky girls"!
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/21 05:52 PM
18

Expecting women to be grateful is like expecting empathy from a crocodile.
/r/MGTOW02/07/21 05:44 PM
8

Most commonly, spousal support in the US lasts for half the duration of the marriage. So the guys who put up with bullshit for years, and try really hard to make the marriage work get penalized harder?
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/21 05:36 PM
5

But my pension and 401k were divided 50/50 since she had neither where she worked. I know this is standard operation procedure in divorce court, but that is so messed up. You worked your ass off for many hours to save up that money while she did nothing. How is she "entitled" to half? Sorry for your financial loss!
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/21 05:34 PM
2

If it had been you who didn't work for 20 years and had your wife support you, the court would be appalled! She'd probably seek restitution.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/21 05:29 PM
15

THEY SHOULD HAVE TO TURN IN RECEIPTS TO PROVE THE MONEY IS ACTUALLY BEING SPENT ON THE CHILD.
/r/MGTOW02/07/21 01:34 AM
16

All in all, you're just another brick in the wall
/r/MGTOW02/07/21 01:05 AM
2

I grew up in the 90's during the "born that way" propaganda. Now it's doing a 180, "sexuality is fluid" and apparently you CAN choose to go from straight to gay along with a hundred other fetish lifestyles. I enjoy bringing up the "born that way" propaganda to friends and relatives that were once iron-clad "born that way" people who would become infuriated at the suggestion that a person could choose to make a sexual lifestyle change ten years ago.
/r/MGTOW01/07/21 09:44 PM
33

"I am not interested in moral judgements whatsoever" No surprise there.
/r/MGTOW201/07/21 09:27 PM
1

One could argue that, a healthy 25 year old taking an experimental vaccine (that is known to kill and injure people) in the name of conformity and political correctness is dumb. Good luck to you though! Hope the free donut was worth it.
/r/MGTOW201/07/21 02:27 AM
4

Getting the vaxx when you're 25 years old and healthy is dumb. Even dumber vaccinating children, who actually more likely to die from the vaxx than covid.
/r/MGTOW201/07/21 01:46 AM
10

Me too! At this point I don't really get upset about the collapse of society, I just grab the popcorn and watch.
/r/AntiFeminists01/07/21 01:27 AM
1

I'm not saying you were wrong to tell your friend about it. If you thought it was a big deal and he thought it was a big deal then it was the right decision for you. I didn't think it was a big deal, at the time there were other people around that saw her do it, and i didn't want to circulate through the rumor mill and get back to him that I "made out with his girl" or something, so I told him right away. In hindsight it was a bit of a red flag though, even if she was just collecting orbiters. I…
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 09:21 PM
64

I had something like this happen, my friends girl was drunk at a party, started going on about what a great guy I was, kissed me on the forehead(wtf?). Told him about it, he didn't believe me, got mad at me, asked her, she admitted to it, but said "i didn't mean anything by it". He bought that, i guess. Few weeks later, he gets into an argument with her, she goes out with her girl pals, went home with some random dude and fucked him on his kitchen floor. He comes to me all perplexed "what should…
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 03:10 AM
3

Yes! When did most of society just start going along with everything? I feel like we're ripe for the taking by an authoritarian government.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 11:29 PM
8

Well said! The pandemic really opened my eyes to the cult mentality. If you dare speak out against some dumb rule, you're instantly considered a dissenter who "wants people to die". I've felt like I was taking crazy pills this past year.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 11:26 PM
13

Agreed. They're like alcohol. They can make life more fun in moderation. But indulge too much or grow dependent and they can wreck your life. You can also live a perfectly happy life abstaining altogether.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 04:10 AM
1

Good quote!
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/21 02:53 AM
3

They're always on to the next best thing. Divorce is almost looked upon as a right of passage to most women in the west. They get their "dream wedding" and "perfect family", then they get to become victims of a "neglectful"(works too much.) or "zero ambition"(doesn't work enough) husband, and she gets all kinds of sympathy(you know they love that!). Then it's on to husband #2, if she can find someone dumb enough.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 02:13 AM
1

Exactly! If you bought a house this year, you'd likely be underwater next year. When those moratoriums end the market will change fast!
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 09:09 PM
4

Great idea! Could also just be camper for a few grand, doesn't necessarily have to be a tiny house. Also some solar panels, and no more electric bill, rent or mortgage.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 04:26 PM
7

All you can do is start over. It took me few years after my divorce to build up the credit and work history to qualify for a new mortgage. Houses are way overpriced at the moment anyway, and so are the materials to repair a house. Best thing to do is wait for the moratoriums to end, after the evictions there will be a lot of foreclosures and rentals on the market, things will get cheap again. Maybe you'll be able to buy back in at that point?
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 04:23 PM
6

All he has to do is identify as a woman. Hahaha, true!
/r/MGTOW26/06/21 04:08 PM
5

Agreed! We often trade our potentially exciting lives for predictability(marriage, ltr). Such a waste! I'm grateful that divorce granted me a second chance at making the most of my life!
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 07:14 AM
0

There's no benefit to an ltr. You're just trading an exciting life for a predictable one.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 06:45 AM
2

That's noble to help others through a traumatic experience, but what about after? It's better to learn from our mistakes, not repeat them. My mistake was getting married, starting a family, and believing a woman when she said "till death do us part". I was naive, and did not understand the nature of women at the time. They are committed and devoted right up until a better opportunity presents itself. I'll never make the mistake of getting married again. Nor will I encourage other men to do so. I…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 06:28 AM
5

Women must flock to you when they see how hard you white-knight for them online.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 03:23 AM
11

We cant all be doctors and yoga instructors.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 01:07 AM
17

I like Asian massage parlors. The tightest, most talented woman I've ever been with was an Korean at a massage parlor. If you get a good one, you'll see just how lazy the ex girlfriend/wife was in the bedroom. They are WAY overpriced though. My local place is $180 a pop. So I don't partake very often. Any guy who mongers regularly will tell you to get a passport. You can get full service for $20 to $30 easily in Rio de Janeiro, in Brazil, or Manila, in the Philippines. I'm heading down to Cancun…
/r/MGTOW25/06/21 11:19 PM
4

So much for women being just as capable as men, huh? 25_years makes an excellent point, society is trying to dump off their bad eggs on the working man. They treat affair children the same way. I found out my six month old son wasn't mine during the divorce. I got a dna test proving it, but my lawyer said even with that irrefutable proof, if my ex wouldn't admit to the affair in court, and name the biological father, the system would consider the child to be a "product of the marriage", and I wo…
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 10:37 PM
2

The logic goes: If she managed to get some idiot to marry her, society says, "It's his problem now". Well put! I'm saving this comment!
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 10:22 PM
3

Asian escorts are as tight as a virgin, and they got the skills to love you long time.
/r/MGTOW25/06/21 04:17 AM
3

I only made it to year 5.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 01:26 AM
-2

That mask on your avatar really signals your virtue!
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/21 04:47 AM
9

About 10 years ago, my dad was going to drive up to our summer house in Canada. My aunt asked him to give my cousin (a then 15 year old girl) a ride up there, he flatly refused. He told her he was uncomfortable being in a situation where he was alone with a teenage girl. My Aunt was angry and made all kinds of comments about him to the rest of the family, but to this day I believe he made a very smart decision. Possibly the most important decision in his life.
/r/MGTOW09/06/21 04:00 AM
10

the red pill is being trans The fuck are you talking about?!
/r/MGTOW208/06/21 11:55 PM
4

I know a "wealthy Nigerian Prince" she could rebound with, he just needs a major credit card and social security number from her.
/r/MGTOW07/06/21 02:50 AM
12

Poor guy is now terrified of divorce rape. Yeah. He's on a downward spiral now. She'll demand he goes to therapy, can't go anywhere without her approval, decides she "deserves" a new car, vacation house, etc. Even if he caves to all these demands, divorce rape is inevitable at this point. Best he can do is start hiding money, create a trust and move assets into it before it's too late.
/r/MGTOW07/06/21 02:45 AM
20

Just go to Mexico, get yourself a senorita for the night, or even a few days. Get it out of your system, girls from the States will bleed you dry.
/r/MGTOW06/06/21 05:34 AM
2

Probably.
/r/MGTOW06/06/21 05:15 AM
0

*You're
/r/MGTOW06/06/21 03:14 AM
10

Who is it? That's "Rachel" Levine. The transgender Health Secretary appointed by Joe Biden.
/r/MGTOW04/06/21 11:25 PM
35

"HOW DAA YOU!!!!!
/r/MGTOW04/06/21 11:22 PM
3

This is way too accurate!
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/21 02:49 AM
14

I think about this a lot. Best to work hard, save up money, so you can afford to hire people to take care of you when you're older. Or afford a top notch old folks home. I don't trust my family to "do the right thing" at all.
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 03:17 AM
4

Takes some guys a couple marriages to finally learn.
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 03:13 AM
5

I don't mean to be contrarian, but I suppose you could die together with someone. You could join a doomsday Cult and drink the koolaid together for example. But that's not exactly a comforting thought, and still, no marriage required.
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 03:11 AM
24

//The reward is just a chemical reaction. Exactly. You're just chasing a fix. My problem(and I suspect most mens problem) had always been my need to feel worthy of being "loved". Which is why it was always so devastating when I'd find out a girl was cheating, like I wasn't good enough. What I now realize is that, sure I wasn't good enough, by her standards. But why on earth did I ever care about how I measured up to a woman? I'm good enough by my standards, and that's all that really matters.
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 03:09 AM
5

I think you're right! I need to get in! $$$$$
/r/MGTOW31/05/21 08:07 PM
25

Prostitution is a very short-term lease. Marriage is a lifetime lease, with no guarantee that the legs stay open for you, and an extremely high early cancellation fee.
/r/MGTOW31/05/21 08:05 PM
5

It is! Mexico is awesome too. I'm heading to Cancun first week of August. Looking forward to lying on the beach, drinking tequila, smoking cigars, and sleeping with my choice of smoking hot senoritas for $40usd. "#Living my best life", lol.
/r/MGTOW31/05/21 07:57 PM
1

I've heard that you can go to the "VIP room" if you're willing to pay hundreds of dollars, and for hundreds more you might get a blowjob or something. Huge waste of money. You can get a much better deal at an asian massage parlor, usually $150 or so will get you a massage plus "full service"(whatever you want). Better yet, go south of the border, and $50 will get you any girl you want. Better still, go to SE Asia, $20 to get any girl you want.
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 04:44 AM
1

Last time I was at a strip club, one of the girls sat down next to me and asked if I wanted to buy her a drink. I said "Why would I?" She angrily got up and walked away. I seriously don't know why buying strippers drinks is a common practice.
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 04:40 AM
7

Redistributing money from the rich to the poor sounds nice in theory, but in practice big business just moves to a country where they're not going to be taxed to oblivion, or have to pay their workers $50,000 a year + full benefits to do basic low skilled labor. And any big businesses that don't move operations overseas, end up going bankrupt because their overseas competitors can sell the same item for far less money. Yeah, you might say "i'll only buy products from american manufacturers" , lo…
/r/MGTOW25/05/21 10:46 PM
-2

I don't think so. Big businessmen want stable nuclear families, because they result in a stable economy. Why would big businessmen want communism? Didn't work out well for big business in Cuba, Soviet Union, etc. Politicians who want power(authoritarians) are the ones who support all these social "movements".
/r/MGTOW25/05/21 09:27 PM
9

It already is easy. We live in the information age, and ANYONE can acquire a specialized skill set, then work hard to have a successful career, OR start their own enterprise. When we start to listen to lefties, and tax(penalize) people who have a successful career or their own enterprise, and giving that money to people who play video games all day, we dis-incentivize success.
/r/MGTOW25/05/21 09:21 PM
1

It's just r/trp and r/mgtow on reddit. Trp stands for "the red pill" mgtow stands for "men going their own way".
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/21 01:10 AM
3

I'm sure her cats will be thrilled when she tells them all about it.
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 11:29 PM
1

Just have an open marriage with yourself, and allow yourself to occasionally indulge in hookers.
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 11:28 PM
3

This is why you get a vasectomy. So when they tell you to "man up" because you're "the only guy I've been with" you can laugh in their faces.
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 09:42 PM
17

She cheats on me, divorce rapes me, takes half my stuff, two years later: " I hope you're having a good weekend".
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 04:50 PM
3

passed in a lot of places without men supporting it. White-knighting simps and beta orbiters.
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 03:30 AM
3

Women do suck up to our enemies. An eye opener for me was in 10th grade, day after 9/11, we were talking about it in English class. Bunch of girls were going on about how they hope no one starts discriminating against middle eastern people, I remember saying "that's what you're worried about?! Not all the families of the people who were just murdered yesterday?!"
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 03:29 AM
2

Yeah, definitely check out TRP reddit and MGTOW. Changed my perspective completely.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/21 04:29 AM
2

Take a solo three or four day weekend trip to Cancun Mexico(about $300 for flight + hotel). Check out the mileroticos website, have a different latina hottie come to your hotel room every night for about $40 to $50 each. Explore, lie on the beach with drink in your hand. Go home reborn. Repeat as needed.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/21 04:27 AM
4

A fool and his money are soon parted.
/r/MGTOW22/05/21 04:06 AM
3

I have 100% ability of getting her, but I am redpilled. Once you know the truth, there is no way back. I refuse this cave man mentality desire in me. THIS I hated the whole process of chasing women in my twenties. I found it a bit degrading having to prove I was worthy of buying a woman dinner. Now in my late thirties, my house and vehicles are paid off, self employed, women my age will straight up flirt with me, ask me out to coffee, etc. I'm the prize now, apparently. But alas, it's too late f…
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 09:26 PM
14

Also, she means that she's have no one to pay for her vacations because her doctorate is probably in something useless. This is exactly it. She needs a man who will "take care of her" aka, a financial sponsor who funds her bullshit without complaint.
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 09:16 PM
7

Right? Lol. I don't mind the maintenance. I got my house paid off a couple of years ago, but it doesn't really feel like I own it, it feels like I'm leasing it from the government due to property taxes.
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 03:38 PM
50

For real! My kids will be 18 in four years, I'm planning on selling my house and living in my RV.
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 03:42 AM
28

Exactly this! I know a guy who lets his wife take a few "solo trips" per year. Last one was in Vegas. I'm sure he has nothing to worry about...
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 03:37 AM
2

True! Also she sheds some crocodile years in front of the judge/magistrate for bonus prizes 💵💰
/r/MGTOW16/05/21 01:10 AM
1

I guess you're a better man than me, I'd absolutely get them fired. Good luck with everything! Thanks for sharing your story.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/21 05:42 PM
17

I went through a similar situation. My wife was going to her "friend Heather's" house a lot. Then all of the sudden told me she wanted a divorce. A few days later I found out she was having an affair with one of the dads from our kids playgroup. It sucked big time, she moved into his place, I had to drop my kids off at this scumbags house every morning before work. She ended up marrying him a week or two after our divorce was final. But they divorced themselves within a year, so that felt better…
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/21 02:14 AM
11

Anyone tried buying lumber lately? The price of plywood sheeting has doubled at my local Home Depot.
/r/MGTOW13/05/21 02:05 AM
17

If you don't like it, you don't have to read it. One of the great things about r/mgtow is that it's uncensored.
/r/MGTOW13/05/21 02:03 AM
2

The economy runs best when people can trade freely with one another. Every regulation meant to "make things fair and equal" stifles the economy. Too much of that bullshit, and you have a situation of economic collapse like Cuba, Venezuela, the Soviet Union. The USA has big disparagies between the rich and poor, but what people don't mention, is that even the poor people in the USA have an income equatable to middle class people in poorer countries. And of course, everyone has the opportunity her…
/r/MGTOW10/05/21 02:13 PM
3

Hulu originals are very woke as well. "White man BAD!!!!!!!!!"
/r/MGTOW10/05/21 01:29 PM
1

Solid advice, much appreciated!
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 07:44 PM
8

Sorry about your LTR, but glad you're free now, learning how to be happy solo! Yeah, I've been checking out the milerotico website, lot's of hot women available. Do you recommend going to a casa, massage parlor, or having an escort come to your hotel room?
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 04:48 AM
5

I hope this happens in my lifetime, but a few decades is a long time to wait. I'll stick to my hobby of international sex tourism in the meantime. Headed to Cancun next month, woo-hoo!
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 04:00 AM
3

YES!!!!!
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 03:58 AM
11

Where exactly south? Mexico? I plan to visit Cancun in June. Better believe I'm going to take advantage of prostitution being legal!
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 01:11 AM
7

King of all beta bux!
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 04:27 AM
10

Then SamWise ends up devastated when she goes out for "girls night" and ends up sucking Aragorn off in the mens room. She then divorce rapes SamWise, it's his fault she cheated for not "fulfilling her emotional needs". She gets Sams house, kids, Samwise has his wages garnished at 50% for alimony and child support. But at least he's free of her...
/r/MGTOW06/05/21 01:17 AM
2

Right on! I've been learning spanish for about a year now, I'm planning on heading down to Cancun in the next couple of months. I can get a different escort every night for about $40 usd. And thats considered expensive for latin america. You can probably get them for half that price in Costa Rica. And they leave when you want them to, ZERO headaches!
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/21 06:50 PM
16

Oprah did that in a niche that was impossible for a man to compete in. Women never would have taken moral high ground lectures from a man. Oprah's only competitors were other women. Imagine only having to compete with women? Lol. And you can bet it was mostly men who built the studio, ran the cameras, handled advertising, lawyers, etc.
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 04:52 PM
6

Upside down hoE
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 04:45 PM
11

With few exceptions, when you see a female CEO, she's the token female the board appointed to make their company seem woke, to run the company that was started and built by a man.
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 04:44 PM
3

To think, a billionaire married some of those trolls...
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 04:39 PM
8

Melinda decided it's time to cash out. Bill probably wasn't spending HIS money the way Melinda wanted him too. Same reason my parents divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/21 05:25 AM
2

Housing bubble WILL burst, probably by next fall or winter. So it's now or never on the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/21 05:52 PM
6

Or 30 to 40 years where you learn that you're actually happier on your own.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/21 05:48 PM
2

Head to SE Asia. Live the dream.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/21 05:46 PM
4

"my situation is really unique" "she's not like other women" "I'm really lucky" smh. They can keep that "luck", sooner or later it runs out, and their loyal unicorn decides not to be loyal anymore
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 01:16 AM
1

This is every man's ideal situation. Do you care if she sees other people? As long as you don't get attached to the point that you care what she's up to(or her you)then I'd say you're living the dream.
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 01:09 AM
5

My ex wife was great at first, we were best friends. She had zero motivation to move forward in life though. Wouldn't go to school, wouldn't get a job. Started hanging out with the wrong friends, caused issues, so when we moved, I purposely moved an hour and a half north to get her away from her friends. Then things were good again for about a year, until she found the bad apples in the new town. She started staying out later and later. Still wasn't working, we had two kids also. So as soon as I…
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 08:49 PM
7

Great cautionary tale! Thanks for sharing this! My marriage went kind of the same way. They change once they know they have you locked down in marriage.
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 06:18 PM
3

There is no "one". Marriage is just a bad idea, but I believe cohabitation can be doable,(in a state without common law marriage) as long as you accept that she WILL likely betray you if she gets the opportunity. NEVER TRUST ONE.
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 06:10 PM
11

I can't tell if the guy behind bars is the betabux she divorce raped and filed fake charges on, or the convicted felon she got the tingles for who fathered her five children.
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 04:18 AM
2

You should post this over in mgtowlifestyle as well, sweet bike!
/r/MGTOW25/04/21 02:38 PM
4

I'm in my thirties now, I experienced the same sort thing in high school and still do. Our ancestors who were good at conforming and fitting into a group and stoning and burning lone wolves like you and me at the stake, group members tended to survive, that's why we're still ganged up on and persecuted today,even if we aren't harming anyone. Our existence is a threat, if we're doing just fine without belonging to the group, were a bad example to other members of the group and may cause dissenter…
/r/MGTOW24/04/21 06:57 PM
2

You should post this on r/MGTOW2. We can live our best possible life if we can just get past our female addiction.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/21 06:01 AM
3

Same sort of situation with my ex wife. She kept breaking boundaries, first "he's just a friend", then I catch her writing him flirty messages, she's SO sorry and will never do it again... then I discover a full blown affair. I had a couple kids, 4 &5 years old. I wanted them to at least be teenagers when we went through the divorce. But I only made it three months. The hatred for her just kept building. I would think about all the things I did for her, how she would tell me "I love you" then go…
/r/MGTOW17/04/21 01:26 AM
32

"she gave up what certainly would have been a highly lucrative career to raise your children, you have to pay her an insane amount of alimony for her 'sacrifice'!!!"
/r/MGTOW14/04/21 06:57 PM
14

You can't win. If you say anything about the male "friends"(we all know why they're there) then you're insecure, controlling, etc. Ignore the male friends, and it's a time bomb. She'll catch feelings sooner or later. It's just an no-win situation.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/21 04:47 PM
1

Neo level bullet dodge by this guy! He'll get hammered a bit in the divorce, but he's in his twenties still, with his best earning years still ahead of him. AND NO 18 YEARS OF CHILD SUPPORT, AND PUTTING UP WITH THAT 🐍's CRAZY SHENANIGANS!
/r/MGTOW09/04/21 05:00 PM
5

maybe the baby would have come out obviously the wrong colour "he must take after my great grandmother who was part cherokee" lol
/r/MGTOW09/04/21 04:55 PM
8

With ZERO guarantee that the used pussy will stick around.
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 11:22 PM
42

There's a flaw in their "sleep with the ugly women first" plan. Who decides who the ugly women are? Women can't, that would break their "every woman is beautiful" dogma.
/r/MGTOW08/04/21 12:55 AM
1

I sold my mortgaged house two years ago, after the bank got paid off, I took the money left over and paid cash for a fixer upper. Spent the last two years fixing it, and now I have a nice house that is paid for, vehicles all paid for, I work for myself, NO DEBT. I plan to install a 7 kilowatt system in the next couple of years, along with geothermal heating then I will have no electric or heat bill. I also may build an electric vehicle so I can "gas up" by plugging into my solar setup. All I kno…
/r/MGTOW205/04/21 03:53 AM
13

I already know the answer......never.... even after the collapse...... After the collapse they'll just blame white men some how
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 11:58 PM
3

MGTOW is considered a "hate group" by reddit. They literally consider us to be just as bad as Neo Nazis.
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 07:13 PM
3

I had two accounts, both were suspended a few times for commenting/upvoting on here. Then they banned one, then banned the next for "attempted circumventing previous ban". I created this account with Tor browser. I only sign in with Tor, and it seems to keep me anonymous to reddit. I highly recommend it if you need to make a new account(or multiple accounts). You can still get banned of course, but they won't be able to link your other accounts and ban them as well. Just close the Tor browser, a…
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 07:10 PM
1

I saw that they removed your comment, and they consider MGTOW a "hate group". Did they ban you as well?
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 05:07 PM
-1

I agree. Fucking coughing on someone? I'm tired of this Howard Hughes covid hysteria shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/21 03:39 AM
-7

Coughing on someone? You're fucking retarded.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/21 03:17 AM
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