Tonight I just told my wife I wanted a divorce.

We have been together for 7 years and married for about 5.

We have no kids but own a house together.

My wife has MS and a bunch of mental health issues. These are too far to list.

I am 33 and she is 34.

In the beginning everything I thought was great but as we got further into our relationship it became more apparent that it was more abusive or at least it felt that way as I look back. Over the last two years I feel as she has completely changed to a completely new person and so have I.

I feel like I was being used as a person just to take care of her even though she says she loves me.

She wants to do counseling and I am just done but I feel like I should try to make it work but we are in different places and I know for a fact want completely different things in life.

While I know I am doing this for the best I want to make sure she is okay even though she thinks I do not care for her. I’m not completely cold hearted I am just so exhausted with her treating me like a second class citizen.

I just need to vent I don’t even l ow why I’m typing this now but I really don’t know what to do next.