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i mean, if asking questions is enough to find out everything she wants to know about you and you also dont know what to talk about, maybe you have more important things to worry about than playing a game. To op, if she wants to play and you see no problem with it just play. if you want to try and ask her sex related questions go ahead. it's impossible to know 100% the outcome, so just have fun and enjoy your time with her and trying new stuff and seeing what happens. forget about absurd problems…
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:48 PM
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"nice guy"tm stuff isnt even what women want to hear.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:59 PM
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yeah, looks can help a lot. not having them makes things more difficult. Especially in OLD. get over it. it's not going to change, you cant control that, and it's the fucking same for everybody, including the girls you may reject because you dont find atractive. because looks matter, going to the gym, getting haircuts, showering (please) and taking good care helps. BUT, the benefits of the gym, and being disciplinated, go beyond the physical improvement. the main problem a lot of people have her…
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:22 PM
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try to join groups in your city / meet people close to you, if you cant see a relationaship with a girl who lives far away from you just forget about them.
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:18 AM
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he found only one, two times.
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:01 AM
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and he isnt probably a high quality man neither? but they both have their fun and enjoy the night while some other people are grumpy making excuses?
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:06 AM
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women dont lose their options when they get older. what you see are the same girls you are ignoring right now. the ones you are after, will probably keep having the time of their life far away from you. people like you think women turn 40 and become some kind of poor sad thing. Truth is they (can) keep banging young men in their 20 and 30.
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:16 AM
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if you could choose you would probably be picky too.
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:10 AM
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on the other hand, at least in japan, there are love hotels everywhere so it's very convenient and makes things super easy once you have the girl. You dont need car, you dont need a nice house, nor going back to it, etc. you go have fun, and if you find a girl you've got plenty of places a few minutes away from you.
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:14 AM
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using commas makes them feel superior. jokes aside, you are being quite vague but i feel this probably is one of those cases where you arent as nice as respectful as you think you are and the women you meet can feel it. this post itself sounds a little bit black pill-ish and women will feel that in seconds. it's a hole difficult to climb back from, but you have to. Some women are like "that". many are not. Some men are like that. i know interacting with women and not getting what you want can be…
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:16 PM
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how much did it take to find her? if you could easily do it, sure, contact her. if you had to do a lot of creepy "detective" work maybe you it's better you stop. cant you meet her again at the same place?
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:56 PM
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oh i see! totally nomal to be angry at that situation, but you could have admited you yourself arent doing that well economically and that you didnt know you were going to split. I'm sure if they were doing that well they would not have minded. sorry if i sounded rude before!
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:51 PM
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Dont want to be rude but what you did was stupid, don't blame the book for your lack of common sense. there's a different between being honest, not having any filter, being rude, etc. for example, your relative's money thing. so you were jealous. you could be happy for him, but you decided he was being rude to you, and conveyed it in (one of) the worst way possible, not even in a private conversation, in front of your family! the problem is that your idea of being honest and vulnerable was showi…
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:35 PM
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do your best, it's actually faster than you may believe and it's not like you have better options.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:20 PM
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i love this. love and take care od yourself. mentally too. if you dont love yourself, and hate women, you are just going to spiral down. try to smile, take some weights from you, enjoy the good things you do have in your life, try new things, improve yourself (eat healthy, try to do sports, etc). what some people dont seem to understand is that they have ended being walking red flags, cant see their own flaws and get angry at women, and are cynical about any solution proposed at them. you have t…
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:15 AM
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yeah, this post is going to validate (in their mind) the bullshit of so many people in this sub. to op, you arent friendzoning anybody. you are making friends. if you want to date any of them try to make a move, if you want to fuck any of them just say so. why are you waiting? Or maybe you should do like the rest of men are told here. get a haircut and hit the gym.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:37 PM
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by infection.
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:00 PM
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you keep comparing yourself to your friends and saying you want to stand out over the rest of women. Stupid recipe for insecurities especially considering you say you are attractive, you could be already having the time of your life, satisfied, confident and happy.
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:05 AM
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maybe you just overstimated yourself.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:49 PM
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it's called conquerors haki, you have it or you dont, you cant train to get it.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:47 PM
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say "sure, i like black women too" and continue the conversation (if you really want to) without mentioning the black men thing again. you cant prove anything with words, if you try you are just going to sound lame and weak, so just ignore it and if you continue the conversation and she still is engaged, great. if not, great.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:35 PM
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say hello with a smile when you arent working.
/r/seduction25/05/22 11:49 AM
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my male pov cringed hard too though.
/r/seduction21/05/22 08:59 PM
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I mean, approach a woman and say hello, you don't need a rocket science degree. Your """problem""" is that probably you are affraid of doing it so you keep on reading and reading more tricks and techniques and stories, etc. looking for that piece of info that makes you think "oh, this is it, this is going to work and it makes me feel safe". But that doesn't exist. Also, you can't avoid some people think you are a weirdo, so make peace with that. If you want to approach people and talk to them (n…
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:46 PM
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it's not late, and if even "being too late" existed, 28 is not it, you are incredibly young. Dont let your lack of experience worry you, there's millions of people who spend their life cooking and after decades they are still bad, or just normal, people who play sports, or run, or draw, etc and after years of experience are bad. You will be having sex with people with a tone of experience who are just boring. Women who don't know how to move, or how to give a blowjob. You are going to be fine, i…
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:26 PM
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but everybody is different. the way you think isnt the way everybody thinks, hence saying looks are 80/20 makes no sense. for many people looks are 100. for many are way less than that. and then there's the fact that beauty and atractiveness is really subjective. so that girl who is "ugly" and doesnt care too much about looks may not be interested in that 10 guy because... she doesnt like his face?
/r/seduction30/04/22 05:07 AM
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read the book "models". "respectful and polite". ultra dominant guys arent preferred in europe, by the way. you are respectful and polite probably just because you are just affraid they may think bad of you. the "that's not who i am" thinking is just you guarding yourself from the pain of accepting you may have to change and work. read the book "models" man, it will give you a lot to think about. you may even discover who you are, without the excuse making unconfident part.
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:56 PM
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when you feel like asking this in reddit.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:47 PM
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was going to say this.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:42 AM
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a good ratio would be 50/50.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:02 AM
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i love the models approach too. i like the common sense and natural approach. i like the good impact it can have in all aspects of your life. to me was an eye opener. i used to think i was fine as i was, i thought many women would just like me as i was, and that i didnt want to change who i was, but the book showed and explained me a lot of things of myself, society, etc. reading it something clicked and i instantly knew i was going to be way more successful with women than i ever was. and witho…
/r/seduction02/02/22 03:43 PM
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read "models" first, if you still think you need to spend your money go for it, but i doubt it.
/r/seduction02/02/22 03:34 PM
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it depends, can you comment on it without radiating pittines and insecurity? then yeah sure. if not, you probably shouldnt unless you have a really good reason for doing so.
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:22 AM
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and does that have anything to do with trusting? because i agree with not putting on a pedestal somebody you dont really know, but that something completely different to "dont trust anybody".
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:10 PM
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love this comment lmao
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:45 AM
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pretty sure zoolander's blue steel is what you are looking for.
/r/seduction29/01/22 10:13 PM
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she told you exactly what she did man, i think it was ok for her to do so and for ending it when she thought it didnt work.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:43 AM
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YOU HAVE to end it. she is telling you, she was done with you before you asked her out, for whatever reason she also doesnt want sex nor be touched. you can find something you like, that likes you and that is ready for being with you and wants to. dont try to save your current three months relationship with a woman is obviously not into you.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:38 AM
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save your people, save the world, become the president of the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA.
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:55 AM
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im sorry but number 3 is bullshit though. if you are so weak that you need "to guard your heart" and think everybody is manipulating you maybe you should try to improve that. maybe shift it to "sometimes i may get hurt for trusting people but that's completely ok, it's ok to be hurt, it's not my problem, and i want to trust the people I like". you can also make an educated guess about somebody and don't trust somebody who doesnt seem to be... trustworthy? but trust nobody? come on. the rest of t…
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:41 PM
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5 to 1? that just means you have to shower more.
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:59 AM
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that's bullshit man
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:18 AM
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it's online dating, it's not your problem, it's like that. just have fun trying things (being completely honest, joking, etc). we men do better outside apps. maybe i'm wrong but humanity still isnt pathetic enough to have a book about chatting with tinder girls, maybe in a few years.
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:37 AM
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read models, maybe the perspective it offers is enough to make yours shift and find easier to approach women.
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:20 AM
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it's a great book, and models too. i think models has many of the answers a lot of people that come to this sub are looking for.
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:18 AM
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wow man you are clueless! she wanted to have sex and you kept doing your weird things. laser focused eye contact? yeah i bet it was building tension, just not sexual tension lmao come on if she goes to your place just kiss her, just touch her.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:51 PM
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go easy on yourself man, be gentle to yourself and rest some time. you know women arent like that, maybe some are like this, some are like that, and a lot are not. I think your frustration is speaking right now, maybe the girls you approach can sense something is off and you just keep doing worse and worse, a bad circle. Really, be gentle to yourself and rest. Rest a lot. Then maybe try to be gentle to others (inside of your head) and have fun when trying to find a girl. I've had my bad times to…
/r/seduction23/01/22 01:28 PM
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thank you for helping me highlight the sarcasm, seeing that you have more upvotes I guess it was neccesary. People around here should be hitting hard the common sense gym, that's for sure hahah
/r/seduction23/01/22 04:12 AM
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maybe not for you, but to whoever is coming here. maybe that kind of book exists but you dont want to read it. A man just needs the bare basics and the rest should come naturally with experience, putting himself on the line. reading more and more books and stuffing your head with more and more info wont help you, most likely. make yourself attractive improving what can be improved, find a lifestyle you are actually enjoying, go out there, dont chicken out, move things forward, escalate things, m…
/r/seduction23/01/22 03:24 AM
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imagine them naked
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:30 AM
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women are like islands, they wont move but it's not a problems because hundreds of boats will go there. you, as a boat, have to worry about not looking like somali pirates.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:07 AM
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the yes : no ratio shouldnt never be over the 666.66‰ under all circumstances.
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:24 AM
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maybe she has a phone addiction. if you are interested in her why dont you talk to her and see by yourself?
/r/seduction21/01/22 10:51 PM
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yeah, you are absolutely right about that, i got too excited writing that one hahah
/r/seduction21/01/22 10:15 PM
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walk in front of everybody, say hello to THEM, and say to her "it's a bit random but you are super cute, would you like to go take some coffee later?" or whatever, who cares. whatever happens happens, doing it in front of everybody, and doing it with confidence is the way to go. just do it. Even if she says no nobody is going to disrespect that attitude, nobody is going to laugh at you, and if they do who cares, you are the one asking her in front of everybody because that's what you wanted, not…
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:31 PM
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i dont even think what you are saying is represents the reality. "laughing from the heart" you say, come on man. making her laugh is great, but if you have a sexual interest in her show it to her, because that's what going to make the relationship sexual (or not, now again just making her laugh wasnt gonna change that in the first place).
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:20 PM
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maths arent your strong point but keep your chin up man
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:32 AM
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he read "models" and followed its advice?
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:16 AM
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read models, it has (all?) the answers you are looking for right now and (all?) the ones you actually need.
/r/seduction21/01/22 12:49 AM
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i think the only red flag here is your post. maybe if it's a first, second date, if a woman focuses a bit too much on talking about it, she is desrepecting, etc it may be a red flag. but you have been 3 months already with her and as you say, meeting nearly everyday this past month. Right now hearing about past relationships is completely normal, and yet your reaction is "oh no i have to go to the internet and ask if this is a red flag!". after opening to you imagine how disappointed she would b…
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:55 PM
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google models
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:51 AM
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"it all starts with understanding women" what a way to end that message hahaha what a legend!
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:40 AM
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the world is filled with enough women you will find attractive, so it's unnecesary and probably not effective. though if you are needy and want sn ego boost, go ahead i guess. then again, you could try to improve that aspect of you and focus on the women you have an interest.
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:03 PM
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the books models has a chapter about being creepy, how to avoid it, etc two takes: it's impossible to avoid being thought creepy sometimes, it's a risk you have to accept. you avoid / reduce creepenes by having confidence, expressing yourself crearly, etc. i recommend you to read it.
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:51 PM
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your problem is thinking that's your problem, because you arent seeing the other problems and its solutions. read "models" by mark manson please, it will help you a lot, give you a lot to work with.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:13 PM
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what do you lack the most? you say you are alone, try to meet a sports group, maybe badminton, soccer, etc you will do excersice, make friends and feel less alone, try something new and get a new experience and new stories, etc so yeah, right now try to enjoy yourself and your life without girls.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:09 PM
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1000%this. especially after reading some of your comments, i think you HAVE to read it.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:30 AM
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read the book "models". it can be life changer, worst case it will give you a LOT of things to think about and work with which will for sure improve your life. honestly I think it's a must read for most of the people who come here asking for advice.
/r/seduction16/01/22 01:02 PM
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or maybe the other way, is thanks to the fact that even men like this (meaning, atractive) can still suck so much when it comes to women that you (and me) probably have a bigger chance than you think.
/r/seduction16/01/22 12:56 PM
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i mean, it's not going to work for you right now since you seem to lack so much in so many places, but that's the advice, probably you can begin by working on yourself and your views on relationships, people, women, etc maybe then you can be yourself and pursue a LTR in an honest way, because otherwise it's going to be a shit and you are going to hurt somebody (the poor soul oblivious enough to dont see what you are doing). good luck man, i understand you are frustrated, just focus in better you…
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:43 AM
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man stop performing, stop caring that hard about bullshit, if you like her enough for a ltr then just be yourself, it seems you had a great date and nearly ended ruining it by your lack of confidence and obsession with escation method and whatever crap you have been reading. she put on lipstick, she didnt say she wanted to kiss you. she told you what he wants. and honestly you arent that. you most likely wont fuck her because that's not what she wants (but try and move on). if you want a ltr i h…
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:49 AM
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she also said she is disgusted some people pretend becoming friends with her just to have sex. """nah man dont worry women say the weirdest things that have nothing to do with what they do""" lmao to op, you may still have sex. but you have known each other for a year and nothing happened. and she invited you to watch 2 movies, not one. usually people doesnt bother two mention two movies if they dont even plan on finishing one. that's why people meet to "watch netflix". i dont know man, if you v…
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:50 PM
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ive been checking this sub one single day, and it has been enough to surprise me to the amount of tone deaf people lacking the bare minimum common sense. for the rest "be confident" is enough of a reminder or what should and shouldnt be done.
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:42 PM
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you can be quite confident you lack any sense of humor, which is somehow funny. just try to improve, you arent going to change in a few days but you have a long life waiting to be enjoyed to the fullest, the sooner you try to improve the better. read a good book like "models"
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:21 PM
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same here. i think it's more about the lack of experience amd not getting the correct feedback to do it ok.
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:18 PM
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hell yes.
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:13 PM
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you seem actually quite shitty, you may laugh your ass off with your friend as much as you want, and she may not really be able to understand or put into the correct words what she was feeling, but she definitely saw something was wrong with you and told you. the way you keep talking about her is telling us more about you than about her, honestly.
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:04 PM
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probably she herself doesnt know. if you are used to imagine your future with a girl, wedding, kids and all, after she says hello to you it may be difficult to understand but right now you have a chance to meet her and that's all. unless she is already in another relationship, it can go both ways most likely.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:26 AM
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valentine is so far away man, you could just go next day to take a walk and drink coffee. right now your problem is you yourself, read a book like "models" or similars. forget about her. Focus on what really matters, you. start reading "models", really.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:15 AM
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many western people dealing with masks are like when austin powers can't stop saying "mole". are you afraid you convince her to have a coffee and once you are in the shop, she takes her mask off and reveals she isnt as beautiful as you thought and everybody around you turns and points at you and laughs because you arent with a model? forget she has a mask, if you like what you see and you want to meet her just say it. and if masks destroy your """game""", read some books or pick up a hobby man. …
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:06 AM
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it's not something you agree or disagree. the benefits of thinking "she isnt enthusiastic but sex is sex" and have sex are obvious. sex. but there are benefits in not accepting anything else than people who are as excited as you. also, if we are talking about a long and serious relationship, unless you are very young, i 100% recommend not being with somebody who is with you just because she couldnt find anything she likes better and is too scared to keep looking for it and maybe dont find it.
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:02 AM
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dont give them a number.
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:54 AM
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also, karaokes are your friends.
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:46 AM
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