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im fucken dead lol
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:39 PM
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I get it but I will not be doing that. I have emotional investment in this, the vast majority of the time she acts on point. If you care to answer my particular questions I would love to hear how'd you handle it.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 06:21 AM
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Right and I do sometimes. When I manage to quell that fear/emotional response and follow through, it literally almost always works out to my benefit. It will ultimately raise her interest level.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 01:00 AM
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That makes so much sense. In addition to outcome dependence I believe. I'm fearful of what will happen if I follow through with what I logically KNOW I should but subconsciously it scares me and then I don't.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:11 AM
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Well said. Justify to myself is precisely it. I want to understand on a deeper level where this is coming from / why. What is causing this psychologically? I have a propensity to do this in general regardless of it being something to do with a female.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:53 PM
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Well these consequences are made up in my head. She won't actually react the way I'm thinking. That's what I'm trying to fix.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:43 AM
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She's definitely not running dread or aware at all as far as I can tell. I am obviously attempting to access her interest level and adjust my dread to best keep it high at any given time. Agreed, and that's certainly a part of the issue. For instance, tonight I said I'd call her back after a late night job. I feel it'd be best to not follow through and leave her hanging until the morning BUT I keep doubting myself.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:14 AM
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Thinking in the future and one major issue I see with a lot of of the content around here is that it's mostly pure theory. I've noticed myself and other redpill'd IRL friends feel the same. We need practical, thorough examples of what these theories look like in action. In this case, essentially remaining unpredictable in an LTR thus keeping their interest level/attraction/tingles high (which I personally believe is the single most important skill in an LTR). We do this as we all know by intermi…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:57 AM
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I see and I completely agree with everything you said. Although, I need examples of the practical application of these concepts in action. What does withdrawing attention look like in these circumstances? Is it 8 hours or more of not speaking or more like a day or two? What does your day to day interactions with your LTRs look like under normal circumstances? Does she do most of the initiating for the day? How often will you not respond at all? How often will you spend time together in a week un…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 09:29 PM
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Amazing. Very high level thinking and execution. Question, how do you balance how often you hang out and distinguish when showing her attention OR withdrawing it would be the superior choice and result in her attraction/tingles to increase?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 06:32 PM
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On the one part I certainly agree but on the other hand, I see this as a strict boundary/expectation violation and would therefore overtly communicate this as unacceptable (end relationship entirely). Would you agree in a sense? I'd be curious to hear opinions on the pros and cons of either approach.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:50 PM
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No!? Why did he delete his replies? They were amazing did anyone save them?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 12:24 AM
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Incredible. I appreciate the time and advice your giving. It's really clarifying things I knew but had never seen discussed in such depth. "He said that you shouldn't ever do anything that you don't feel you want to do." It's so simple but so true. Where is this behavior coming from? A place of security and genuine interest/enthusiasm in the other person OR a place of insecurity ("I haven't heard from her, let me check in") and obligation. This is where you have to learn to be completely truthfu…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 09:48 PM
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I completely agree. I'm actually very good at following through with theory/game and have found myself doing the very same thing you described (picking up phone then saying no this isn't the "optimal" move and putting it back down). I just need a way to make sure not showing attention in a given situation is the right choice. How do I distinguish when actually showing her attention would be superior and result in her attraction/tingles to increase? I feel like playing it safe and thinking "it's …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 08:22 PM
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Are you consciously aware of how often you hang out and keeping it in check based on a her behavior/your expectations of her and/or you have a busy life?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 05:18 PM
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I’d love to hear your theory in practical application. For example, I’ve currently been dating my first LTR after being redpill aware. The only major facet I struggle with a year into the relationship is manintaining attention when apart. I need a way to calibrate when to increase or decreased the attention I’m giving her. How do you personally go about doing so? I practice a lot of Corey Wayne’s teachings, letting her initiate first for a given day, not responding back for hours at a time, etc.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 03:36 PM
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Can't do that. Hanging out with her tonight and I agree, that's some pussy shit.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 11:20 PM
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Okay so thats the plan. I'm gonna do it but only Monday since i'm already going. When she responds has to be tomorrow ill tell her i have a meeting and thats that.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:16 PM
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She doesn't know I have to go there but I will be saying that back as a response. So my plan was to say back "Yeah that's actually perfect I'm going there Monday to return shit" Question, what do i do if she says "oh well it needs to be in by tomorrow"?
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:04 PM
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I was gonna say something like oh perfect i have to return some shit too so its no biggie as suggested by one of my redpill/alpha friends.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 09:54 PM
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Been fucking this one since day one. She does anything and everything I want in bed. She's doing the chasing, I've come off as a solid alpha, etc.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 09:33 PM
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Wow his posts on texting are fascinating and make a lot of sense. This texting shit is by the far the most annoying and unpolished aspect of my game. Part of me wants to be the guy who has great skills with text and can write like he does and another part of me sees it as a waste of time used just for logistics. I truly don't know which is optimal or not. I feel like ultimately it's based on the girl and your personality/style of game.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:59 AM
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So fucken true. It's one thing to know something but it's another to really see/experience it. Blows your mind.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 03:03 PM
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Drugs, just the right ones. Fuck all the main stream anti-depressants do your reseach on the good drug guide by david pearce. MAOIs are the real deal and would likely help you long term. Even consider testosterone replacement.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 09:16 PM
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Very good point and easily overlooked for those unaware. I learned the hard way with my last plate after giving her chance after chance to hangout making myself look weak/beta. They WILL come to you and go out of there way if their interest level is high enough. Only practical solution when a girl who's previously been receptive starts telling you she's busy is to stop reaching out and tell her explicitly to reach out to you when shes free.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 08:11 PM
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Saw her out last night as I thought I would. We ended up walking past each other like almost brushing up again each other she stared at the floor I was looking to make eye contact but we didnt so I didn't say shit and didn't pay her any attention.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 08:08 PM
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I won't be doing either as I don't find it's necessary but from my understanding if you remove the person you can no longer see there stories, they won't know that you removed them but they can still see your stories. If you block them, neither of you can see each other's stories but they will not know they are blocked.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 12:28 PM
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Very true man. I'd say it's a huge issue even among the majority of non-redpillers. What scares me in hindsight is how inaccurate I was able to rationalize reality just because of emotions when now I can see things SO clearly.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:42 PM
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I definitely am adopting the abundance mentality. I'm more upset at myself than anything as I know it was an error in game on my part. If I've learned anything from this particular situation, it's that it really solidified the fact that emotional attachment can completely wreck your game and alter your perception of what's actually happening.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:54 PM
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Oh it's so true. I've converted some friends and turned them onto this stuff by showing them success after success with girls. But there's always the last hold outs who believe in that beta bullshit/fairy tale and when they finally get fucked over by some chick they come running to me for advice.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 07:53 PM
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Exactly, that's what I'm trying to do. It's funny, friends that are unaware are saying this is all a waste of time and meanwhile they continue to make the same mistakes with females. I appreciate the advice and your acknowledgement.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 07:23 PM
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Perfectly read. I came into it as that guy and in hindsight, I convinced myself her behaviors were a result of wanting to date when in reality I wanted to lock her down for fear out of losing access to sex and emotional attachment aka beta. At the least I've learned an extremely valuable lesson and will not be making this mistake in the future.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:41 PM
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No your right, I should just move on ASAP but I do want to go over the situation and examine what I did wrong to rectify for the future. Grew attached. Rationalized signs she wanted LTR when they clearly were not. Asked for relationship which you should never do as the male. Showed too much attention/availability as a result of wanting to transition to LTR. Desiring relationship lead to her thinking casual no longer viable.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 02:55 AM
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Yeah but there's no fucken way I would have stayed around as a friend/orbiter only and she knows it. I feel like there's more to it man. She should know I'd be fine with being FWB that's what I don't understand. My original intention was to be casual/plate but her best friend made it seem like she wanted more and I went off that sole fact like an idiot. I never really wanted an LTR but I convinced myself at some point that I did.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:29 PM
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Yeah, it was my fault at attempting to LTR her. In hindsight, there were NO signs that that's what she wanted. I believe once I revealed that it fucked it up as she knew my interest level was higher then hers, removed thrill of chase, etc etc. And then what I think was the catalyst of that text is her realization that she will never want an LTR with me. Also, she seems to have made it sound like in the text that a casual situation would be "unfair" to me lol. Oh and her friend CLEARLY had a majo…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 04:09 PM
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You really think so huh? Well see.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:42 AM
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Care to explain a bit? I appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:41 AM
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Yeah I think there's a real possibility when this friend leaves town she might come running back but she has another friend coming as well within a week.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:40 AM
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I appretiate the clarification that makes sense now. With that said, I do have some remaining questions: It is very likely that we will run into each other again at a bar or club. Assuming we make actual eye contact, pass each other, or clearly are aware of each other's presence, how should I handle this situation? If or when she does make contact again, how do I handle that? A very short and cordial reply? I will most likely open a new thread or PM those who have helped me in this post when it …
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:56 PM
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That's interesting that you pinpointed that sentence from that perspective and I completely agree. Could you expound on it at all? Check OP for extra details I've added.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:13 PM
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Very good advice+video. I almost certainly feel attempting to LTR her hurt me in this situation. It gave her the upper hand as I could tell she was uncertain in regards to wanting to date when I brought it up. I think when she finally realized that she would not want to date for whatever reasons and then thought to herself why continue FWB if I don't ever want it go anywhere? In addition, whatever the friend said influenced her heavily. On the other hand I could see her thinking it's unfair to m…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 09:25 PM
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I agree what's funny is your the only one in the thread suggesting this route. Almost everyone else said to say something plain, simple, and non-needy. I don't know. At the end of the day, do we think complete silence versus a simple reply could be the difference between her coming back or not? I don't.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 09:15 PM
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Another piece of info, it seems she's kept me on snapchat and already viewed my story from last night at the bar. I assume continuing to post stories AND doing so with other girls will be to my advantage in making her jealous or too much too soon? And you don't think my attempt at LTRing her at some point didn't possible fuck things up?
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:33 PM
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I'm OP btw lol. Anyways that's a really interesting take and my initial reaction was to not say anything back but after reading the top comment and speaking with friends IRL, I sent something plain back to which she replied okay thanks for understanding. All my IRL friends who are redpill/natural alphas said that not sending anything back could be perceived as being butt hurt. Idk if I agree in hindsight. Oh well I already send it and she replied so.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:32 PM
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I know her very well. Check OP for updated info.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:15 PM
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You hit it on the head. I attempted to LTR her at one point. Check OP for updated info.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:14 PM
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Check OP for updated info. Tell me how you think that changes things.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:13 PM
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Spot fucken on with option B. Check OP for update.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:12 PM
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Check OP for updated details.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:11 PM
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I ended up sending her something very similar to which she replied okay, thanks for understanding. Check OP for updated information.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:10 PM
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Really important piece of wisdom that needs reminding every once in a while.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 04:19 PM
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Exactly. I don't wanna hear these other excuses. Porn and masturbation/deathgrip is by far to blame for the lack of dudes getting off. If a chick is even mildly attractive and you haven't busted in a couple days, there's not way your not gonna when you fuck.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:04 PM
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This so this! I find the most successful people I know on a practical level are all able to consistently do things they don't necessarily want to do. They are able to choose the activity that will further themselves in the future the most at the cost of something more enjoyable in the moment. Someone who masters this ability will arguably succeed at any endeavor.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 05:23 PM
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I certainly agree for the most part. I think there's certainly some nuances and/or exceptions but the gist of what you wrote is correct. May post a followup later when I'm not at work.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:54 PM
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Right but as a guy who has had several FWB, at what point is it okay to enjoy casual sex for a chick?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:38 PM
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