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Yeah I wanna do this until I’m 35-40 then settle down have kids lol
/r/seduction24/02/20 01:53 AM
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She says she wants to pay for her own ticket though ?
/r/seduction27/10/18 01:14 AM
6

Same, my friend acts like a beta male, very submissive but he still manages to get laid somehow. He is very indecisive and speaks very softly. He is good looking though so that might be why. Although when he does get laid it is never with top tier girls.
/r/seduction26/10/18 12:27 AM
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I just empty my mind, usually works lol
/r/seduction25/10/18 12:49 AM
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It’s not what you say it’s how you say it. I basically just have a normal conversation with the girl but my “sub communications” shows that I’m interested. For example my eye contact, proximity, smile. If she holds eye contact with you and doesn’t back off when you get closer then she is probably interested. Tease them but don’t go overboard (depends on the girl on what you can get away with) This way she isn’t 100% sure if you are interested in her so you don’t come off as desperate and needy, …
/r/seduction14/10/18 05:28 PM
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Exaggeration
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:20 AM
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If you are good looking it only means that your game doesn't need to be as solid as the ugly dude. If your ugly then your game better compensate for your looks ! Also, do daygame, it's easier than nightgame if your ugly cause chicks will get loads of guys hitting on them at night
/r/seduction08/07/18 06:09 PM
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The whole point of pickup is to increase your chances of success so no .
/r/seduction10/03/18 12:48 AM
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Bad boys are confident and do what they want
/r/seduction10/03/18 12:37 AM
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Keep grinding don't let that rude cow dishearten you. If you analysed your game after and honestly can't see where you went wrong she is just a bitch, if you did do something wrong fix it.
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:58 PM
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Some girls are just straight up bitches and it has nothing to do with you. Like for example they might be in a bad mood already and take it out on you, don't take it personally. Stay calm, grounded and unreactive, it will make you stronger and develop a thick skin. I literally walked up to girls before and been told to fuck off before I have even introduced myself. Hurts like a mofo but fuck it .
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:54 PM
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Just do it man no excuses, if you want it bad enough you will find a way !
/r/seduction08/03/18 08:29 PM
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Hell yeah dude. The main thing is showing intent so she knows why the fuck you are talking to her in the first place.
/r/seduction08/03/18 10:01 AM
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Stop watching porn and fapping for 3 months I swear to god it will fix your problem
/r/seduction08/03/18 02:09 AM
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Do daygame 10 approaches a day,5x a week no matter what, it will solve your problem,trust me. If you done that for a year I guarantee you will get ALOT better results.
/r/seduction08/03/18 02:07 AM
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It was a very platonic conversation she didn't have a clue what you wanted or why you were talking to her. You need to make your intent clear. The conversation was way too safe
/r/seduction08/03/18 01:58 AM
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Yes you are being the "entertaining monkey". You subconsciously think that the girls won't speak to you unless you act like an "entertaining monkey". I use to be the same, work on your intent more and only crack jokes only some of the time. When their is tension sometimes hold it instead of making her laugh to break the tension
/r/seduction08/03/18 01:49 AM
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Eye contact, silence and proximity. Slow controlled movements. That's about it tbh lol
/r/seduction08/03/18 01:43 AM
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If she knows you are attracted to her and your intent is clear she will know it's a date. If you have been talking to each other as buddies she will think it's just a friend thing. If you had really strong intent/game it wouldn't even matter if she brought her sister with her she would still know what's up and it might actually increase your chances cause she will be comfortable.
/r/seduction07/03/18 11:52 PM
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Give her a compliment, say you think she looks cute or something, it shows a bit of intent. Don't go balls deep and be like I like you straight away that will scare her off. (Unless she already likes you ) And also see how she reacts if she is shy she will most likely blush and look down which indicates that their is a high possibility she likes you cause you can't control that sort of stuff.
/r/seduction07/03/18 11:47 PM
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If she seems super receptive and keen you can just invite her over to watch a "movie", and skip the coffee part/ drinks etc
/r/seduction07/03/18 11:38 PM
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Yeh I understand where you are coming from. I remember I was with my good looking friend and two girls. We were in there apartment and I swear he did EVERYTHING wrong seduction wise (annoying drunk needy beta bad body language etcetc) and the girl STILL liked him at the end of the night. But I still believe in seduction cause one of my ugly friends still pulls like a mofo. He has "game" which he developed over 1000's of approaches. If you put these two side by side and watched how they interacte…
/r/seduction07/03/18 11:33 PM
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Show her you WANT her but you don't NEED her
/r/seduction03/03/18 10:58 PM
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Work on your playfulness and your intent.
/r/seduction20/02/18 08:44 AM
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The engineered lifestyle
/r/seduction07/02/18 09:23 AM
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I'm doing this right now haha
/r/seduction04/02/18 07:05 PM
1

The whole point of game is to try improve the chances you have of getting with a girl so fuck everyone who is saying move on and give this fella some decent advice
/r/seduction04/02/18 07:02 PM
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Text her with a purpose don't text her to talk about useless shit. Doesn't matter how long you take to reply as long as it isn't immediately because then it looks like you are waiting on her texts haha and also it depends on what time it is for example if it is like 11pm and you or both in bed then it would be okay to respond back fast but if it's during the day probably best not to.
/r/seduction04/02/18 07:00 PM
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You find them attractive and easy to talk to, you don't need to "game" them you can just be yourself and you both like each other
/r/seduction30/01/18 11:10 AM
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Only if I watch Tyler haha
/r/seduction29/01/18 01:00 PM
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Only if I watch Tyler haha
/r/seduction29/01/18 12:56 PM
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Your intent should be clear direct/indirect it doesn't matter as long as your subcommunication shows that you don't give a fuck which is basically learnt through doing loads of approaches and developing a thick skin. You can't really fake your subcommunication girls and sense that shit.
/r/seduction26/01/18 07:16 PM
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Gut instinct
/r/seduction22/01/18 01:48 PM
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No that's kinda weird imo
/r/seduction22/01/18 01:47 PM
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Unreactive,abundance,polarising,confident. Knowing is not enough though you need to test it out in real life. If you do 1000's of approaches you will eventually find out what works and what doesn't because as men we are problem solvers so get out and find out for yourself what makes a player
/r/seduction22/01/18 01:42 PM
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Your sub communication is probably off. To work on this next time you go out let her know you are interested through everything you do but you are not aloud to say it through word e.g. No compliments. The girl should be able to tell you are into her without you explicitly stating that you find her cute. This will force you to work on your tonality,eye contact, body language etcetc Once you get this down what you say to her doesn't even matter, she will know what's up.
/r/seduction22/01/18 01:37 PM
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Yes women are attracted to behaviour more so than looks because back in the "cave man" days alpha behaviour would increase your chances of survival rather than a pretty boy. They want a strong man that will protect them not some pussy who gets nervous when he is around her. if he gets nervous around her then how the fuck is he suppose to protect her from guys from other tribes trying to kill and rape her. That's basically why women are attracted to confidence.
/r/seduction22/01/18 01:29 PM
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Best way is to go indirectly direct ;)
/r/seduction20/01/18 11:44 PM
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The only difference is that a tall guy/good looking dude can make more mistakes whereas a short guys game needs to be a lot better. So work on your game, you will get there bro, don't give up !
/r/seduction14/01/18 01:39 PM
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The fact is you need to have even better game because you are short but that can be a good thing because you will be so confident and sure of yourself nothing can stop you.
/r/seduction14/01/18 11:06 AM
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Thanks, I'll give it a go
/r/seduction14/01/18 10:13 AM
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Yeah thanks
/r/seduction14/01/18 10:12 AM
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Yeah but if you have lots of followers on IG it can be good
/r/seduction14/01/18 03:01 AM
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Okay so snapchat or number ?
/r/seduction14/01/18 01:09 AM
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If she is already into you let her chase the reason she likes you is probably the fact that you are sometimes unavailable and you don't put her on a pedestal. If you "compliment her like fuck" it might turn her off. Just treat her the exact same way you are treating her right now but ask her for a date but make it seem like it was her idea and you are forced to go on a date with her.
/r/seduction14/01/18 12:50 AM
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A feel like a number is more personal and harder to get than the snapchat, girls seem to just give their snapchat to anyone
/r/seduction14/01/18 12:21 AM
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If you had abundance you wouldn't give a shit about this girl and make a post about her on Reddit because you have plenty of other women you are texting. It makes plenty of sense she was a bitch for no reason, you wouldn't tolerate that shit if you were seeing loads of other girls ! ???? Logically makes so much sense !...
/r/seduction11/01/18 06:57 PM
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Why ?
/r/seduction11/01/18 06:40 PM
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Well if you had an abundance of women you wouldn't tolerate that shit and next her so I wouldn't say it would be ego driven
/r/seduction11/01/18 06:28 PM
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I would say, get a grip and delete/block her number 😂 However, your texts seem a bit needy, I don't know why.
/r/seduction11/01/18 06:21 PM
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You find it difficult to approach because your self image and ego don't want to be proven wrong. For example if you approach and you fail, your ego will be like fuck I'm not as cool as I thought I was. The way to overcome this is to let go of your self image, try to be a blank canvas.
/r/seduction11/01/18 08:21 AM
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When you say you are not interested in something usually they become more obsessed because they want your validation. That's happened to me like 50% of the time.
/r/seduction11/01/18 08:16 AM
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Mate it's a reference experience, learn from it and move on
/r/seduction11/01/18 08:13 AM
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Yeah I know what you mean, it's like you don't give a fuck but in a calibrated way
/r/seduction11/01/18 03:24 AM
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Get a grip
/r/seduction11/01/18 01:41 AM
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Girls are attracted to guys with strong dominant/assertive voices because it is an attribute a leader would have. Leader=high value
/r/seduction10/01/18 02:47 AM
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Best way is to go indirect but your vibe/subcommunication is direct.
/r/seduction08/01/18 11:51 AM
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You sound so loving and feminine <3 Watch a movie on your bed, at some point just turn the lights off,start kissing him and escalate from there This is what a girl did to my friend who is clueless with women. My friend had no idea she was interested in him she literally lead the whole situation from work and back to his place lol
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:40 AM
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I have the same problem but I have being doing a few exercises that seem to help.Practice improv exercises. For example, pick something random and just go on a rant about it for 2minutes straight it doesn't need to make sense. The goal is to just keep talking for a solid 2 minutes without any silences that way it trains your mind to stop thinking logically so you can just go on and on. It's kind of like freestyle rapping. Eventually you will be able to talk to a wall.
/r/seduction08/01/18 12:05 AM
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No intent behind your texts just really boring stuff you are texting. You're texts are too "safe"
/r/seduction07/01/18 06:03 PM
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Keep trying but don't be needy and desperate. If you really like her then I don't know why you should find someone else. The whole point of game is to try and get the girls you want ! Also, she may be shy and only want to hook up with you when she has had a drink, sort of like a booty call, which is why she is ignoring you when you are trying to invite her out since that is more of a relationship type of vibe.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:34 PM
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Share something personal about yourself with her, it shows vulnerability. It's shows that you are a human being and builds a connection because we are all human and nobody is perfect. Stop trying to be so smooth just be your authentic self, easier said than done.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:28 PM
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It would be better to meet her for drinks alone and then take her to the party if you are hitting it off. However, you will have to stay with her the whole night if you bring her as she won't know anyone. You can invite her back to your place after the party or if you both get bored.
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:54 PM
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Well I slept with a Chinese girl on the first date. We went for drinks, hit a few venues then back to mine. Sat and chatted for about 15min then I made a move and she was receptive. It's just depends on the girls personality
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:49 PM
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Stay grounded/relaxed and unreactive. Can ignore or exaggerate.
/r/seduction03/01/18 03:38 PM
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It's not what you say but how you say it, even if you say the perfect line if your subcommunication shows that you are not confident then it won't work
/r/seduction29/12/17 12:11 PM
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Go into it with no expectations
/r/seduction29/12/17 12:08 PM
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Share things about yourself, that way she gets to see what type of person you are like . After that, just like her do 90% of the talking, when she feels comfortable etcetc
/r/seduction29/12/17 10:46 AM
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Be willing to risk it and if it doesn't work out fuck it move on. High risk high reward
/r/seduction16/12/17 01:47 AM
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Well I was speaking to her friends earlier on in the night in the smoking area and they said they were going somewhere and invited me to go after the club. So we go back inside and this is how I basically got introduced to her So after the club the girl lost all her friends cause she was hammered, no battery and didn't know where they were.(shitty friend) loads of creepy guys were trying to take advantage of her and trying to take her home. So then I got her in a taxi and and took her too her fr…
/r/seduction13/12/17 08:59 PM
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We might be drunk by then and she is going to the club after with her friend.
/r/seduction13/12/17 05:19 PM
1

If your intent is good I.e through subcommhnications/vibe than indirect is fine
/r/seduction13/12/17 05:16 PM
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You came in too strong at the end saying you's have a common interest in each other Always let they girl bring relationship stuff up
/r/seduction13/12/17 05:13 PM
1

Nah the girl I want is an attention seeker girly girl, her friend I have not met
/r/seduction13/12/17 05:08 PM
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I was also thinking that I should pay more attention to her friend and kinda ignore her because she is one of those girls that crave attention, besides her friend is a hb9 too lol
/r/seduction13/12/17 04:52 PM
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Yeah I'm sure she does which why I was surprised when she replied so quickly to my messages. Should I just chat her friend up if they come over and kinda ignore her. Her friend is a HB9 too lol might actually work
/r/seduction13/12/17 04:45 PM
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I was just going to invite them over for a drink but then stay at home when they go to the club. She knows my intent already cause when I met her the first thing is said was I thought she was stunning or something like that. I want to be like a "real" person in her reality so that's why I was thinking of inviting them over so in the future she might be more open to hanging out with me, dunno if this will backfire and make me seem beta though lol
/r/seduction13/12/17 04:42 PM
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Yeah so should I just take up the offer and hang out with her and her friend in hope that she will become attracted to me
/r/seduction13/12/17 04:05 PM
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Yeah her friend is hot too but I only want her lol
/r/seduction13/12/17 03:49 PM
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Yeah true but How do I get her to go out with me 1 on 1?
/r/seduction13/12/17 02:54 PM
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It's really loud in there though
/r/seduction13/12/17 02:53 PM
1

Eye contact
/r/seduction11/12/17 09:07 PM
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I can relate to that last line so much and I feel like it prevents me from building deeper connections with my friends and family cause my mind is elsewhere (women)
/r/seduction06/08/17 10:58 PM
1

Don't apologie cause then it makes it seem like a big deal. Just act normal the next time your out, tone it down a bit. You probably just had a weak frame , just make sure whatever you do you do it with a sense of certainty and you will be alryt
/r/seduction06/08/17 10:55 PM
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Having a strong frame is doing anything with a sense of certainty. So whatever you do don't doubt yourself at all, do it with pure conviction, say it with conviction, just go all out. Don't hesitate and tippy toe. If you make it joke fucking own it and it has to be something you genuinely find funny. Laugh about it with certainty so it seems like their the crazy ones to not be laughing . How certain you are = how strong your frame is.
/r/seduction03/08/17 01:32 PM
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I remember I tried to pick up this chick in the library, there was a few random guys and girls sitting like sort of near us. After I got her number and she left to go to work. The girls clapped and said 'finally' with a grin and the dudes looked so impressed, was an awesome feeling. The girl ended up flaking though :( lol
/r/seduction03/08/17 01:25 PM
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Same , I will usually really like a girl (to the point where I'm a bit obsessed) and as soon as I find out she likes me back I lose interest, it's fucked up. Maybe subconsciously we feel like we don't deserve the girl and need to self sabotage.
/r/seduction02/08/17 02:07 PM
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Smile at her with your eyes but don't smile with your mouth. However Smirking seems to work. Do this especially when there is a silence in conversation, she'll get the hint
/r/seduction02/08/17 02:04 PM
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Laugh at everything he says, smile a lot , make eye contact, playfully touch him, stand close to him to show that you're not afraid of him being in your space, ask him questions about himself,always be around him, invite him to a party, ask for his number. If he doesn't get the hint after that he's a moron, really shy or not interested. For guys you need to make it really obvious you like them though cause they suck at reading women or over analyse everything.
/r/seduction02/08/17 01:53 PM
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I know because I did the exact same thing haha
/r/seduction30/07/17 03:01 PM
2

Yeah, just build whatever YOU desire and feel like a badass in and as a result girls will become attract because you are so comfortable in your on skin, you can look them straight in the eye and not even flinch cause you know you're a handsome devil
/r/seduction28/07/17 09:59 PM
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Depends on whether you have a handsome face or not I think. My fat goes to my face so when I get I hit leaner girls notice and call me handsome. This in turn makes me feel more confident. I know I shouldn't be getting confidence from external validation but I do. When I'm lean I just feel like I'm brad Pitt in fight club and girls can feel the energy off me. Just build the body that YOU think looks good that way you will become comfortable in your own skin. Don't build a physique that society th…
/r/seduction28/07/17 09:50 PM
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I know what you mean, when I'm nervous I just try to say less after I ask her out so I don't say something stupid lol
/r/seduction28/07/17 09:27 PM
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Well done but I think you shouldn't of said the "I'll tak you out blah blah blah part cause it makes you seem a bit desperate" should of just waited for a response and whatever she responds with is no big deal to you regardless if it's a yes or a no.
/r/seduction28/07/17 09:25 PM
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See if he wants to hang out after use hook up cause usually if I'm not interested in her like that I want to leave or I want her to leave after we've hooked up. Also if you ever just hang out cause you enjoy each another's company and it's not just for sex then he might see you as something more.
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:50 AM
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Are you Asian too? I still can't grow a beard. I'd say I was pretty handsome though so fuck it !
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:27 AM
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You look 23... I am 24 and I actually look 18
/r/seduction24/07/17 11:52 PM
0

Be more aggressive. Because you are cute you can be more aggressive compared to the 6ft 300lb guy. When I say more aggressive I mean like physically, more kino,sexual etc etc
/r/seduction24/07/17 09:08 AM
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Hell yeah
/r/seduction24/07/17 08:56 AM
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Go cold and she will chase if she really likes you. You have a legit reason to ignore her cause you found out she has a bf and say you're not like that .
/r/seduction23/07/17 08:44 AM
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Actually try, put yourself out there, make a move. Just do it no matter how scared or nervous you are . Take action !!!!
/r/seduction21/07/17 09:44 PM
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I seen this girl heading to the same place I was heading, so I decided to give her a lift, she was walking, I was driving. She is attractive and I noticed I got super nervous as I pulled over to pick her up. Spoke to her once or twice before but not much. I don't think I really had a result in mind, maybe talk to her a bit but that was all.the destination was only 5 mins away anyways so we didn't get to talk much. I also have this condition that makes me my forehead sweat a lot when I'm nervous …
/r/seduction21/07/17 08:45 PM
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Yeah I think that's fine but I've just fucked myself up so much I need to go cold turkey for a while.
/r/seduction21/07/17 05:03 PM
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I don't understand you
/r/seduction21/07/17 11:06 AM
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The reason why is cause it makes me more horny otherwise I would never approach cause I could just go home and fap to girls 10x pretty as her.
/r/seduction21/07/17 07:47 AM
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No fap
/r/seduction20/07/17 11:09 PM
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This actually works, the crossing arms doesn't matter too much though. The I wanna fuck you eyes and slight smirk works really well and I think it subconsciously puts you into a more playful state.
/r/seduction20/07/17 11:07 PM
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Honest signalz does it.
/r/seduction20/07/17 11:01 PM
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I enjoy looking at a candle when I meditate, helps me with eye contact
/r/seduction19/07/17 05:44 PM
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Wonder women has the natural look, she's a fucking ten ! (Gal gadot)
/r/seduction17/07/17 01:11 PM
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Yeah but for me it's drunk vs sober. When I'm drunk I know exactly what to say, how to feel, when to escalate. I just know "game" and can use it without think about it. But when I'm sober I'm nervous and could never pull off the shit I do whilst drunk :(
/r/seduction17/07/17 01:03 PM
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Yeah but I'm sure the girl would of explained what was happening to the police
/r/seduction16/07/17 02:46 PM
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Or ask when the convo is at a high point
/r/seduction16/07/17 02:43 PM
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Just buy the fucking scale, the one that Paige Hathaway recommends is good
/r/seduction14/07/17 03:03 PM
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Nah mines is good, it's a good baseline which tells you if you are losing fat or not. For example even if it's not exact if you are at 15% bf on the scale and after dieting you are 10% on the scale it mean that you have lost fat.
/r/seduction14/07/17 03:02 PM
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I don't know lol wtf
/r/seduction14/07/17 03:00 PM
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Yeah they are decent
/r/seduction14/07/17 02:10 PM
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Just buy one of those scales that measure bf too cause I can't really tell if you just say I'm 145lb 5'4 cause it depends how much of your 145lb is pure muscle lol
/r/seduction14/07/17 02:01 PM
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It's just depends dude, for some people it might be 15% and for others it might be 10%. I know some people that are like 20% bf and their face is still lean af lol
/r/seduction14/07/17 01:44 PM
2

Everyone wants what they can't have so basically you need to be someone who they can't get and make it a challenge for them to get you
/r/seduction12/07/17 11:31 PM
3

What about actually singing the song you like quietly
/r/seduction12/07/17 03:11 PM
1

I met a girl from guangzhou a few months back in the U.K, she was over here studying or something. It was pretty easy tbh.Asked her out for a drink,went to 3 different venues,did some light kino (touched her lower back when crossing the street and arm around her waist when walking) after I did that she would literally like hold onto my arm as we walked to each venue in a super clingy way lol. Took her back to my place and we banged on the first date. When she asked where we were going I just sai…
/r/seduction11/07/17 10:54 AM
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I'm not really charming, I'm just normal tbh. She doesn't show much emotion either kind of like an emo chick or something if ya know what I mean
/r/seduction10/07/17 06:59 PM
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I just saw her there, said hello, I didn't bring it up but she apologised immediately about it (probably cause she didn't wanna be awkward) however she didn't offer another date so I guess she is not interested she seems to be like kind of avoiding me in the gym but I don't know if that's just my mind playing tricks on me But yeah my life is just studying right now so this is the most excitement I'm gonna get at the moment, sucks that i failed before I even got the date! Well I asked her what ti…
/r/seduction10/07/17 06:56 PM
1

I'll see her today though in person, should I bring up the fact that she flaked or just ignore it and act like nothing happened
/r/seduction10/07/17 08:27 AM
1

Ohhhh 😳
/r/seduction06/07/17 04:16 PM
1

Thanks dude especially for the reassurance lol. She doesn't show much emotion so I can't really tell how she feels about me, she usually has a blank expression on her face when I talk to her. But when I asked her out she said yes like instantly and she would say hi to me first usually if I was in her vicinity. She seems a bit shy and I don't know if it's because English isn't her first language or she isn't that interested lol Yeah I know I'm overthinking this way too much 😂
/r/seduction06/07/17 07:23 AM
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Through the week I'll see her a few times in the boxing gym, leading upto the date.Should I just say hey and ignore her or try to talk to her a bit more. I don't want to seem needy like I'm following her around the gym.
/r/seduction05/07/17 09:26 PM
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We are going on a coffee date and she will be tired. How do I escalate, I usually meet girls for a drink (alcohol). Should I still go for a kiss etc
/r/seduction05/07/17 10:25 AM
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It's A girl at my boxing club, we only spoke like 2-3 times briefly(if we happen to be early for class) before i asked her out.I figured that she might of been interested in me cause she usually said hi to me first. And also before we actually spoke to each other we would sometimes be partners for boxing drills and stuff but that would of just been by chance e.g (we would be near each other when the coach told us to get a partner) I guess my face would be familiar to her and maybe she was just b…
/r/seduction05/07/17 05:37 AM
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Thanks for the advice :)
/r/seduction04/07/17 09:53 PM
1

I asked the girl that served me in the Apple Store if she wanted to hangout and she said yes. I just got the vibe that she was into me for some reason so I thought fuck it why not lol
/r/seduction02/07/17 02:49 PM
1

Right I'll do it. I'll probably be drenched in sweat and look like shit though xD
/r/seduction02/07/17 01:28 PM
1

Hahahahahahha
/r/seduction02/07/17 01:23 PM
1

I'm from Glasgow too, and I totally understand what you mean lol maybe our game is just shit, cause when I'm drunk my nightgame is actually not bad lol But I want to get into daygame cause the chick will actually be sober
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:04 PM
2

I actually used to do this haha
/r/seduction28/06/17 02:29 PM
1

She ain't interested bud :(
/r/seduction19/06/17 12:49 PM
1

Doesn't work if they ignore you too cause they wanna listen to the "main" convo
/r/seduction19/06/17 12:00 AM
1

When you talk about something you really love, your eyes light up and you become way more expressive in what you say. This make the other person interested in what you are talking about because he can see you are so dam excited about what you are talking about that it must be good. Hence you will come of as more charismatic cause the listener will actually be engaged in what you are saying. Imagine it was your last fucking words before you die of course the person is gonna be engaged
/r/seduction15/06/17 10:46 PM
1

What you're saying is just the same as "I've got a big dick insecurity" lmao and fuck you ppl would kill to be that tall lol
/r/seduction14/06/17 12:18 PM
2

Don't get whiskey dick
/r/seduction13/06/17 02:33 PM
2

Just fucking stand closer to her, if she doesn't back away it means that she is comfortable around you and is okay to be touched 99% of the time but if she is unreceptive to your touch immediately back away. (She flinches etc)
/r/seduction13/06/17 02:01 PM
0

Stop watching porn, it fucks your brain up. Makes your brain crave more stimulation. Cause you are use to seeing all your fantasies through porn, real sex is not as exciting to you anymore.
/r/seduction13/06/17 12:58 PM
1

Women have "being approached anxiety". Also where did you learn to write? How do I improve me writing skills ? Lol
/r/seduction13/06/17 11:14 AM
1

Sometimes nothing is on my mind though just emptiness lol
/r/seduction12/06/17 10:04 PM
3

Sound like you came off super needy and a bit creepy. The part when you said you touched her ass sounded super rapey. When you put your arm around her should and she says she has a boyfriend that's her saying she is uncomfortable with you touching her and you should immediately back off.you need to learn how to calibrate to the situation it seems. Push,pull then have a normal conversation.To me push pull just means have fun (emotional spikes) but at some point your going to have to chill and be …
/r/seduction12/06/17 10:00 PM
2

If we are texting back and for with like 1min breaks between each text that's when I ask her if I can call her, cause it makes sense, you are both not doing anything, it's not creepy or anything. Also, she probably wouldn't reply instantly to all your texts for let's say 15mins if she wasn't interested.
/r/seduction12/06/17 09:58 AM
2

She doesn't like like you, if she did she would text back and try to reschedule something. If she is shy she would also text you back when you ask questions, she wouldn't leave you hanging. If a girl likes you she is gonna make it happen regardless if she is shy or not. She is just ignoring you because girls don't like rejecting people straight upfront, they are more subtle and expect you to be able to take a hint, sorry she ain't interested lol
/r/seduction12/06/17 09:49 AM
1

Expect to have fun and maybe hookup ?
/r/seduction12/06/17 09:43 AM
4

Yes
/r/seduction11/06/17 04:40 PM
2

She thinks you only use her for sex
/r/seduction11/06/17 03:56 PM
4

Being attractive just means that the girl will tolerate your fuck ups more than an ugly person lol
/r/seduction11/06/17 03:12 PM
3

Just got to keep moving forward. No matter how perfect she seems their is someone else out there.
/r/seduction11/06/17 03:07 PM
1

It's like he wants to find out what bars she goes to so he can follow her or some shit.thats the vibe I feel
/r/seduction11/06/17 02:44 PM
3

Cause it seems like you are gonna try and find her at the bar and also the flirt face is random. Yeah and you are over invested like typing way more than her, compliments etcetc even though she has done fuck all for you, you are treating her like a princess or some shit. I'm not an expert but just write a lot less and probably invite her out or something and don't seem needy. Less is more
/r/seduction11/06/17 02:40 PM
3

Lol The last two messages were a bit much/creepy
/r/seduction11/06/17 01:36 PM
1

Yeah
/r/seduction11/06/17 11:45 AM
1

If you want to ask her out make sure you seem genuine and non needy. Also don't ask her out infront of all your buddies or staff cause it puts pressure on her.
/r/seduction11/06/17 10:05 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction11/06/17 12:43 AM
1

Yeah lol
/r/seduction11/06/17 12:41 AM
0

Personally I think you should of wrote a lot less.i wrote the no pressure thing to a girl too and looking back it just looks needy as fk. Write less and take longer to respond. I think you are too emotionally invested which shows her that your a beta basically and is unattractive.
/r/seduction11/06/17 12:32 AM
1

lol
/r/seduction11/06/17 12:10 AM
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NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE LOL
/r/seduction10/06/17 10:31 PM
1

If your face is really close to her,she is quiet,holds strong eye contact and she doesn't back away, she wants to be kissed. You can just feel it out too lol
/r/seduction10/06/17 09:52 PM
1

I know that girls like intelligent guys but I generally prefer girls that I'm smarter than and actually like them more if they are a bit ditzy
/r/seduction10/06/17 09:49 PM
5

Could be a number of reasons Cause they can sense you are genuinely attracted to them, they are use to it can handle it better, they or not use to it and flattered, ugly chicks get hit on more so they feel more entitled therefore bitchier
/r/seduction10/06/17 08:56 PM
1

Nah it was like instant reply, was teasing her like the whole time I thought I built some attraction tbh. The only reason I messaged her of a bit longer is cause I met her like two week ago, so I thought I had to build some rapport before I ask her out,we had a solid interaction in real life. Thought I would have to build some rapport before asking her out. Also her excuses were legit but she didn't offer another day so you're right she probably doesn't like me lol It was 8pm and raining heavy s…
/r/seduction10/06/17 08:48 PM
3

That's the problem the people you want to associate with are usually higher value (they already have cool friends/hot girls in the group)so they don't want to hang around with a loser, adding no value to their lives. What you said is good advice but it is a lot easier said than done. If I'm a high value guy why would I want to hang around with this 20yo virgin and counts in halfs???????
/r/seduction10/06/17 08:34 PM
1

Savage lol
/r/seduction10/06/17 10:08 AM
1

Thanks for your in depth response, I'll give it a try.
/r/seduction10/06/17 02:59 AM
1

Usually just go for a drink lol
/r/seduction09/06/17 04:46 PM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction09/06/17 04:46 PM
1

Hate people like you
/r/seduction09/06/17 11:16 AM
2

Might be because half the stuff they are talking about I'm not really interested in tbh.
/r/seduction08/06/17 01:37 PM
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It's not even just females, even in like group conversations. I just feel like I have no input or opinions that form even when I listen. It may just be nerves though cause when I'm drunk , I just flow and can talk about anything with anyone and seem super confident
/r/seduction08/06/17 01:20 PM
1

I don't even know but sometimes I just genuinely want to be nice and sometimes I don't feel like it, I don't know man this shit is confusing as fuck.
/r/seduction08/06/17 11:47 AM
1

Is it okay to message a chick straight off the bat and say something like "wanna hangout" or should I try to build comfort first
/r/seduction07/06/17 11:48 AM
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Need to be more boring I think
/r/seduction07/06/17 11:38 AM
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I'm a selfish asshole lol
/r/seduction07/06/17 11:37 AM
-2

I got called a nice guy wtf
/r/seduction07/06/17 11:37 AM
1

Can you get laid by just being boring lol and could you make a video on how to escalate
/r/seduction07/06/17 10:56 AM
1

I'm 24
/r/seduction06/06/17 06:33 PM
0

Nice I'll try it
/r/seduction06/06/17 02:19 PM
2

Stop fapping
/r/seduction06/06/17 12:12 PM
1

Put it this way if you're the short guy that approaches and doesn't give a fuck vs the tall handsome guy that NEVER approaches or improves himself who do you think is going to end up with the hotter girl. Just embrace the fact that you're short, I'm short too btw so I can relate. I've seen so many tall handsome dudes with ugly girls and but I have seen short ugly guys with hot girls and no it's not because they are rich, it's just cause the are fully confident and willing to take risks, rejectio…
/r/seduction06/06/17 11:20 AM
4

Yeah one night stands feel pretty empty and shallow to be honest lol usually the girl regrets it after fucking you cause she feels like a slut or something. Maybe she has a boyfriend. Maybe she is hungover. The whole vibe is different cause you are both sober, it's day time she is probably hungover and not in party mode anymore. The vibe is different during the night cause it's like a crazy adventure and they just want to have fun and let loose. Day time is like back to reality. It's basically k…
/r/seduction06/06/17 11:10 AM
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I think it's not your looks but just being 100% honestly comfortable in your own skin. Cause even if you gain what is deemed attractive in society and you are not comfortable with it, you will not attract women and if you do it will only be temporarily. I've always just wanted to be skinny, I know it's not attractive to women but it makes ME feel attractive, I want to look this way. I feel like women are way more attracted to me now then before when I had muscles just cause I am way more confide…
/r/seduction06/06/17 10:59 AM
1

You're a fucking legend mate haha
/r/seduction05/06/17 09:37 PM
3

Yeah girls definitely do love fucking. Seen this really innocent looking girl at a party last weekend.Spoke to her a bit aswell, she was really cute.I thought in my mind that no way she would fuck a guy she just met at a party. So later on that night my mate speaks to her for like 10mins then leads her into the bathroom. They were inside for at least 30mins.He fucked her. Completely changed my reality of how I used to view girls. Like I couldn't believe it. Just think of like the most pure innoc…
/r/seduction05/06/17 08:50 PM
1

I just do some karaoke, gets the vocals warmed up. Lol
/r/seduction05/06/17 08:40 PM
1

Maybe he has got a porn addiction. He should get on nofap ASAP
/r/seduction05/06/17 08:38 PM
2

Speak like you are the shit and everything you say is absolute gold. If you believe that you are interesting then others will feel that too, but you need to buy into this mindset or it won't work !
/r/seduction01/06/17 10:18 AM
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