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| 154 | “Do you do this often?” | Field Report | daring_innovator | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 05:37 PM |
| 19 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.” | Conversation | daring_innovator | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 01:07 AM |
| 8 | Dating apps / Ghosting / Text game | Inner Game | daring_innovator | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Dating app response times? | Inner Game | daring_innovator | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Do women know when a guy is “Game” aware? | Inner Game | daring_innovator | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Seduced my substitute teacher? | Field Report | daring_innovator | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 01:35 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys “Set your intentions” ? | Inner Game | daring_innovator | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if you’re good looking? | Inner Game | daring_innovator | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:11 PM |
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| 2 | Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority?They can get casual sex anytime they want but the ROI isn’t high enough for them long term. Casual sex is just casual sex not much to gain there for them. Socially, women always compare their relationships with other women’s relationships and overtime a long term relationship with a man yields more benefits for them over casual relationships. Obviously it’s personal preference and highly individual of what people want but the net benefit of just having casual sex is next to nothing for women. It… | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 09:48 PM |
| 2 | How do you charm bad bitches?Play into it, a woman of higher standards, who’s bad, who’s independent, and knows her worth is always gonna have some sort of attitude but it doesn’t really matter, what matters is how you play into her personality. Matching the game. For example, I always have a quick response in my back pocket to women who have both an attitude and beauty who people consider “bad” I respond with “I admire a woman who knows her worth” or “I’m always open to somebody that has high standards as I do” and just co… | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 07:17 AM |
| 4 | How do you charm bad bitches?Great question, so when it comes to charming bad bitches a lot of men tend to over analyze & overthink the ‘HOW’ to approach them when what it really comes down is a simple mindset shift. First off you gotta de-categorize them from bad bitch to just a woman. Women are women like any other woman they’re literally just people not any special category. Now instead of qualifying yourself to her you’re really qualifying herself to you. Ask yourself in your mind do I want to spend time with this perso… | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 11:55 PM |
| 1 | M22 Aunty trying to flirt with me to sex F31 I've been trying but I don't know how to make it possible can you guys help me to understand her feelings She's calling me and telling her problems about her personal parts and periods she's told about her husband health she didn't satisfied btw she don'No, why are you trying to seduce her when you haven’t even taken her out on a date yet? You’re skipping steps. Never do that. The first thing you need to do is invite her out on a date. Go for a drink and talk to her. No guilt, no shame just action. You’re taking a big risk dating a married woman. But if that’s what you want to do fine be my guest and you know the risks. Start with a date. Have you gotten her number already? | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 02:34 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with aggressive female cockblockersEasy. I’ll tell you exactly what to do. If your game level is very high & if you’re by yourself consider diffusing her. Because chances are if you don’t win the fridge over, then she will gatekeep her friend and block the entire interaction and you won’t win. I’ll break down exactly how to WIN today. How do you diffuse her? Like this: It’s by being very honest & genuine with the cockblocker for example saying: “Hi, you’re a great friend and I’m glad you’re looking after her, I know it’s hard to … | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 12:58 AM |
| 2 | M22 Aunty trying to flirt with me to sex F31 I've been trying but I don't know how to make it possible can you guys help me to understand her feelings She's calling me and telling her problems about her personal parts and periods she's told about her husband health she didn't satisfied btw she don'Easy. She’s in the transition phase of potentially leaving her husband. She’s just feeling you out as a safe option before committing to hang out with you. The key here is to give her time to get comfortable with you before anything happens. The way you mess this up with her is by moving too fast too soon. I made this mistake when I was younger with an older woman transitioning like your example. Don’t move fast right now she’s transitioning slowly to you. Risky situation though. | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How effective do you find Mark Manson's book Models?The book helped me keep things simple, show up as a human and just don’t focus on trying to play the woman honestly just talk to her and be cool about it. Don’t rely on tricks, rely on being confident in your skin and just enjoy the moment with no intentions | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 06:13 AM |
| 2 | What one thing improved your success the most ?Aside from confidence, probably the most successful effective method I’ve used is called ‘scripting’. Meaning I know how to be a wordsmith. I memorized what to say to her from open all the way to the close regardless of how complex the woman is. It means memorizing conversation topics, how to start the conversation and what words to use, how to animate the conversation and keep things going in a certain direction. All this would be practiced almost like theatre and memorized until its second nat… | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 06:10 AM |
| 3 | How accurate is the portrayal of women being cold towards the guy they find attractive when passing by?It’s accurate but not universal. It’s a behavior psychology. The reason they do it is because an attractive man makes their brain go into a different state of mind so they adapt by using a poker face unconsciously. Again it’s not universal but how it looks to us men isn’t exactly what’s going on in their complex behavior mechanisms. If you want another idea, they also do it to not give away too much credit to the attractive man. They retain giving credit for a reason. It’s so that the attractive… | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 05:56 AM |
| 6 | The first time you fuck a girl you have to slowly escalate to it without asking. But every other time you can just ask her, why is that?It’s all about framing. If your goal is smash then your frame needs to lead where the outcome is smashing without explicating it to her. You’re doing kino, guiding your woman along the path and if she’s feeling it she’ll follow your lead wherever you go even to your bedroom if she trusts you. It’s really just about leadership; taking control and enjoying the moment with your woman, building rapport and giving her the benefit of the doubt that what she’s about to do privately doesn’t need to be d… | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 04:52 AM |
| 1 | The “Bad Boy” Wins… But Why?It’s a competitive marketplace and humans love instant gratification and things they can’t have- that’s why true crime shows are popular. If you think about it psychopathy achieves a level of freedom that most will never achieve. Most men don’t even know they’re in the game to begin with, so the balance concept doesn’t even enter their mind. People don’t realize this is a game board and that’s why they’re suckers | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 05:02 AM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingDo it so often until you get desensitized otherwise you’ll always hesitate and you’ll never cope. It’s about training the brain to callous cold approaches. This could take years sometimes up to a decade or less time but the more approaches the faster it’ll make you calloused | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 07:32 AM |
| 1 | The “Bad Boy” Wins… But Why?Because bad boys don’t follow social norms because to be a bad boy means you’re exhibiting traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism but bad boy is mostly psychopathy personified. They skip the line and just take what they want that’s psychopathy behavior. And psychopathy is alien behavior, to the female psyche this is alluring, dangerous energy and when it comes from a man their feminine energy feels extra feminine because psychopathic behavior is extremely masculine because danger is linked to pr… | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 07:12 AM |
| 3 | I have hundreds matches but...You’re missing the conversation pieces and closing skills. At the highest level of persuasion is having genuine interest in the other person, not over selling how amazing you are. Step 1. Get her to talk about herself and genuinely get to know her as a person but don’t drag it out more than it should. Step2. Once you’ve established rapport, make sure you drop the intention of a meetup. Be direct - be upfront and big dick it here by asking her out at the end of decent conversation. The goal here … | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 09:10 PM |
| 3 | When moving from apps to texts, is it better to ask for their number or to give yours?First you gotta confirm she’s interested and second you must have built some rapport first before ever getting the number otherwise you’ll get ghosted or rejected. You should be getting to know her first and make it organic. You should be setting expectations for a meetup which you will take care of yourself and her saying yes. You should be telling her you have plans for her but not fully disclosing the specific, rather dangling the carrot let me explain why in just a second. You must confirm i… | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 11:24 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you get disrespected?You’re right, it’s just I’m a narcissist lol | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you get disrespected?It reads like it but works wonders. Either way, walking away is the best move here | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you get disrespected?Yea hot and cold technique just walk bro. She’s wasting your time and playing with your strings | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you get disrespected?Swiftly remove her to command respect & preserve dignity. Block and delete her, this punishes her for her responses and raises your status in her eyes for her actions. This communicates I don’t tolerate slights or disrespect and I am confident in my options. However if you want to keep communication I would say something like: “I don’t like the way made me feel when you said xyz. It made me feel bad. Why did you say that?” Don’t confuse these lines for being too emotional, this a very sophistica… | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 10:20 PM |
| 32 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sI easily pulled 9-10s by throwing out the entire concept of leagues out the window and being automatically qualified to choose any girl I want regardless of how hot she is. I’m like a kid in a candy store with this concept. Let me explain how you can do it too. I treat 10s and 6s like nothing special and I actually found 10s to be more influenced by narcissistic game and once you hook them they’re controllable. You need to ace the status game here to win them, fake it, be hot or narcissistic. Th… | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | If you had to pick between being flirty and being funny, which one would you pick?Funny because you would build rapport and win over people easily both in business, work & in dating. Why? Because you make people feel good and people don’t necessarily remember what you said but everyone remembers how someone made them feel. The only drawback is you don’t want to be too funny where you seem like a clown. I’ve dated a lot of funny girls that made me laugh even in bed which killed the vibe lol. Flirting is an easier skill to acquire. | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 06:48 PM |
| 5 | I want to be a fuckboy and a gentleman at the same time, how do I do that?Being a gentleman is mid term game. It’s just about being a mature man that is direct with women, practices good chivalry, being emotionally intelligent & smart. You push for sex while looking high class. You still move like a fuck boy but you look more elegant in the process. The number one reason why for this is because you communicate to her you’re there for sex, but you say it to her at the beginning of the game and you say it in such a magnetic way that she can’t say no and it’s designed to… | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?Nice, do you look for indicators of interest or do you just pick your girls ? | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?I’m curious, what’s your technique for cold approaches? | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensYea, I know its a lot but it just keeps them in my loop much longer. Teach me your ways. How do you do it? And do you mean they end up losing interest and falling out? | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensLong phone calls or video calls daily, texting everyday, flowers, asking her about her deepest darkest desires and shapeshifting into that, talking about sex and what gets her off, asking her about her values, beliefs, desires and becoming that, making promises of a future plans and future faking, mirroring her every psychological desire and make her feel understood. I do all this with unwavering confidence and to the highest degree of emotional intensity. This is all a hostile take over of her … | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Best way to flirt with a coworker as a woman? Plus he’s the boss’s son!?Compliment him regarding his work ethic or looks and tell him how you’ve noticed him but was shy. Be extra feminine & then tell him you’ve got nothing to do on the weekend. Then pick a spot like a cafe or restaurant and Say “We can grab coffee/food, I’d like to get to know you better, what’s your number ? I’ll text you later when I’m off.” That’s it then meetup asap. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:19 PM |
| 11 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensI’ve talked to a lot of men and women about this and the general consensus is that they are either: mentally they are saying to themselves “alright, all men want one thing so he got what he wanted from me so I’ve served my purpose here. This is a conditioned mechanism in the females nervous system that’s unconscious and usually stems from trauma and totally irrational. All of the time it has everything to do with her and never you. A lot of modern women enter a new man’s frame with a detached/ca… | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Are girls built this way?I’ve noticed most of them have dating expectations set on fixed “if then” timelines rather then genuine interaction. They take a logical/practical response and my only guess is because they cycle through so many prospects it’s almost like men are predictable so they form rules? Idk | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Stop turning your dates into interviewsFellas, don’t “be yourself” this doesn’t pay off. If you know anything about psychology this shit does not work in the dating market because of first impressions (anchoring bias) and status bias. It’s lazy advice and it’s also dangerous advice that could sabotage your personal success & growth. What then? Why doesn’t it work? Your true personality could be flawed and lack many interesting features so being yourself is an excellent way to either disqualify yourself or disqualify women if you want… | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 05:23 PM |
| 4 | How can I become a smooth talker?I know that already so what did I miss? What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 10:00 PM |
| 4 | How can I become a smooth talker?When you say “Not caring” why is that important? I disagree with you only because my advice is based on success and experience so I’m curious to learn about your thought process. Because I don’t typically demonstrate indifference without a clear reason. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 09:54 PM |
| 6 | How can I become a smooth talker?How do you mean? | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 09:34 PM |
| 19 | "Before I commit my time and energy to a date with you, how would you treat a lady?It’s a power dynamic/Status based shit test. The key is to de-pedestalize her with words & subconsciously communicate to her that you’re higher status. So what even if she’s a model you are used to models. But don’t trigger her or be rude, be suave be cool because if you follow my advice both you and the woman will win. Take back the power by using her question/interest back on her: Respond with “That’s a great question and I too have high expectations for the models I date. I prefer in person q… | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 05:33 PM |
| 49 | How can I become a smooth talker?Smooth talking is a label from the onlooker and it’s really just the art of combining experience, body language, verbal communication skills, likability, deception, influence & charisma all at once. When combined this can create almost a hypnosis effect to the person you’re speaking to.. It’s only smooth when you DON’T say or do anything that makes the other person lose interest to your words. That’s what makes it smooth is the immaculate feeling of the words being delivered in a such a way it’s… | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 05:11 PM |
| 18 | Would you guys hook up with a toxic girl?Not worth it but I’ll tell you. So you want to retain sexy manipulative women you just simply communicate & reinforce your boundaries + control, defend the frame. The antidote to passive aggression is direct communication style that sounds assertive or even aggression works too so don’t be afraid to be vocal with her, rile her up & let her know who’s in charge. It’s that easy. Do play on fear & consequences. (For all you dark triad men out there yes, you can counter-manipulate if you wish but it… | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 07:26 AM |
| 37 | How to be more dominant in your interactionsI like to throw women curveballs like outta nowhere I will raise my tonality so that my voice is the loudest in the room then bring it back to normal so I become unpredictable. Sometimes I’ll cuss around my words then deliver my message to her just to be edgy. I also like to issue orders to women in a commanding tone “Jane, go get me a drink, quickly!” women like to follow it makes them feel feminine. I’ll ask her open ended questions and disagree with her on topics to spark intellectual challen… | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 01:29 AM |
| 2 | “Do you do this often?”I think it goes against the 6 second rule where as soon you meet a girl for the first time you have to establish instant interest & sexual attraction otherwise if you wait she will categorize you into the friend-zone even after flirting. If you feel like she might be interested shoot your shot. | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 02:19 PM |
| 2 | “Do you do this often?”Yea I don’t recommend picking up workers but I only did since I wasn’t planning on going back to that spot for a while & because she seemed very interested in me so I knew it was time. How well do you know her ? | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | “Do you do this often?”Looks maxing, have an optimized profile on multiple dating apps + paying for premium, Im liking like 100 girls everyday to build consistency & using solid game so when they do match I simply gauge for interest using questions & then lead her to a scheduled date which I already have planned for any occasion. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | “Do you do this often?”Dm me | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 06:55 PM |
| 2 | “Do you do this often?”Dm me | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 06:53 PM |
| 3 | “Do you do this often?”I was wearing a button down shirt with the top 2 buttons undone, chinos & some dress shoes. (She told me after the date my shirt caught her attention) When I went to order I approached this cute cashier/barista girl with charming/cocky attitude & asked how she was doing today. So anyway we make small talk & got her laughing. So then it comes time to pay I hand her the money but i teasingly yank it back and forth a few times with a smirk but then she bursts out giggling so loud that all the worke… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | “Do you do this often?”I went with the naughty boy response in a playful manner and her response was a smirking “Oh the naughtier the better, I love it!” then she grabbed my arm. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Hinge chat analysis and adviceNever double text, ever. Single texting only and never use emojis (feminine) If she never replies/takes days to reply screw her, unmatch her even if she’s hot af and keep liking and filling up your likes for replacements. Everyday you should be filling up your likes and matches will start to pour in during the week. For every 1 girl I have 5 backups lined up behind her spot. Opener should always ask one question that’s open ended and must be fused with a compliment in it so she can open herself … | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 09:15 AM |
| 3 | “Do you do this often?”“Nothing too crazy 😉” | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Dating apps / Ghosting / Text gameGot it. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Dating apps / Ghosting / Text gameThanks! This is insightful info. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 03:11 AM |
| 13 | I am scared I would be judged by someone or be called a creep if I flirt with someone.Its public manipulation & social conditioning working. It’s shame programming & part of social indoctrination. You gotta realize that you’re operating in a society system and society has hijacked your mind & riddled it with shame, to be a good little boy & don’t bother people - that’s programming & it never existed it was just copy & pasted/taught to you. But it only works as far as you work it. A status quo works only if you keep it working & trust in it. If you decide to outright approach with… | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 08:41 AM |
| 16 | Do you want to go back to my place?With Big booty Latina girls you just gotta ask them if they’re down to come over for some wine & a movie. If all else fails whip out the bottle of Patron and they’re like thirsty puppy dogs lol | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Problems dealing with and understanding womenThey don’t have respect because they have a sea of men. They also have orbiters that give them free attention & equally delusional social support networks that create essentially a “female narcissist” which is actually emotional glass. One way to deal with disrespect is to challenge it in a firm, direct & assertive tone that intimidates people. HEYY I WONT TOLERATE DISRESPECT!! Do you understand? GOOD. The brain will alert 🚨 & listen. Most Normal people are very socialized so they will pay extra… | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 03:55 PM |
| 3 | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.My results came back as Mainstream dating sites & apps, which is true I actually do use the apps a lot & have nice text game. I get matches & conversations but I’m working on transitioning more into night game & clubs etc so I need more game for that. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 04:28 AM |
| 1 | What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t?Because in the end you WIN. You don’t know how much POWER/VALUE high caliber men have don’t you? We can literally alter an entire family tree for generations and create innovations/legacy wealth/family/national success through LOGIC and WORK which is something only exclusive to us if we work on becoming the greatest /highest version of ourselves then our talent is only multiplied and it’s in our DNA to work & fix problems. You are literally an investment to the world, the community- your presenc… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.“You’re a fake and a fraud!” Alex Jones voice | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Is pussy the main way women seduce men and lock them down?Weak men, yes they get manipulated easy and for a multitude of reasons that I won’t get into right now. Powerful/Successful men, no or at least not easily, this is because for them getting pussy is accessible & expected. These stallions have a lot of things going for them so to lock one down you’d have to really stand out because they have like a revolving door of women coming in and out. Pussy is not good enough you must bring more to the table to highlight you as a potential candidate. Next, y… | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Can you live a happy life without women?Intimacy is a need not a want, sex is a need not a want. Feeling “appreciated” is more of a guy thing tbh. When you’re not fulfilling these needs & areas then of course you’re gonna become depressed because when you aren’t getting your needs fulfilled you become unhealthy. Then you’re in a deficit and it’s your body telling you “hey, we’re not doing ok.” The Root problem here is not about being happy actually No, it’s not hard to be become happy if you’re making sure your needs are being met so … | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls say one thing but seem to want something else?Men communicate using Overt Communication which is very direct & literal. It’s straight to the point and honoring the word. Women communicate in a different style. It’s a far more advanced form of communication than overt communication. Women’s language is called Covert Communication. It is subtle, indirect, riddly & hinty. It doesn’t have to honor the word or even make sense yet it does. It’s wavy, emotional and fickle. Women have evolved to this form of communication for survival reasons. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Easiest way to get laidTell me yours first then maybe I’ll tell you mine, that’s fair. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Easiest way to get laidNo, I watch what a women does not what she tells me; actions speak louder than words. Talking is not enough for me to believe. My experience says otherwise | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Easiest way to get laidI think it’s the internal confidence boost & some self image stuff that makes someone attractive & you can’t build confidence on the outside; it’s the internal work that counts & it has to be legitimate | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Easiest way to get laidHow? | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:05 PM |
| 26 | Easiest way to get laidA nice haircut is a big plus but No, muscles are the 1 factor for raw sexual attraction above the face. Nice face is a big bonus for women tho. 2nd best is having a lean body & 3rd is being slender. Being fat ranks lowest in raw sexual attraction. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 11:38 AM |
| 37 | Easiest way to get laidMuscles + Go to Bars every night/Nightclubs every weekend (I didn’t include money because it’s been proven before that muscular guys have more short term sexual encounters than guys with both money & game.) I also didn’t include dating apps either because they’re not successful for most men. Sorry for being sexist but the truth is dating apps are far more effective for women not men. If you’re a women you won’t understand this, sorry. 90% of men won’t see results from being on tinder. Even if yo… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:24 AM |
| 22 | Three words have never been more profound in this dating age………..let her go(this is my opinion)As a man if the woman doesn’t reciprocate to me then I pull out immediately like an investor would in a failing business. I want the girls to demonstrate their worth through actions not promises. She must prove her value to me upfront or I will leave her if she doesn’t benefit me soon. I pull everything out from under their feet: Attention, time, energy, sex & money. Switch her out then find myself with a better girl that respects me, gives me peace & sex. I’m not mean - I’m pragmatic. (NOTE: I … | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Is approaching girls even worth it?Yes, because you evolve into a more experienced and sociable person which I see that for guys who never approach girls do not currently possess and do not know they’re falling behind. The more experiences you have with women- the better. You can learn what works with them and what doesn’t. Also, by approaching often you harden your personality from the rejections and you quickly mature your game so that it becomes spectacular with the next woman. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | do women in general see PUA or anything related to PUA as a red flag?Yes, because women realize that if Undesirable men discover what really turns them on & use it on them then it won’t be good for their sexual strategy at all. Because it becomes creepy and it obfuscates women’s desire if the undesirable men get their hands on the information. However, PUA material can actually be good for learning social skills for those that are deficient but just don’t abuse it. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Why do guy friends stop talking to you after you reject them?Game over | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.Easy, because guys with big money or status fly them out to nice places and pay for everything: hotel, dinner, handbags, resort etc. It’s done via DM or social media and these guys use them to smash mainly but they can afford her and she enjoys the spoils of adventure & attention so why not? She’s at her sexual prime so might as well and they don’t care. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.Women always date up & never at or below their level. However, if she’s dropping commitments for you then you’re superior in her eyes to some other guy in her current rotation of men, thus putting you higher up her cylinder of guys. What I do is practice same rotation system of seeing multiple women. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:16 AM |
| -2 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.Every women is unique in their own way, yes. But all women are impressionable by each man they meet. I love women don’t get me wrong. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:10 AM |
| -7 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.She’s horny | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:01 AM |
| -5 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.No. Time management is not a valid excuse anymore. Its about priority management. If someone is important enough you will make the time for it and all of a sudden you have all the focus in the world for it. There was this girl I was seeing that had both a full time job and going to school she never said she didn’t have time. She wanted to see me so bad she even paid for the hotel same night so explain that. People make the time. Period. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:54 AM |
| 5 | Seduced my substitute teacher?Yea I think they said she’s in again tomorrow but I should have got her number the first time which I did not but I am going to invite her out for this weekend | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 02:06 AM |
| 10 | Greatest colognes/perfumes in 2022?• Sauvage by Dior (Versatile/Go to) • D&G The One EDP (Sex/Sit on my face vibes) • Creed Aventus (Fresh/Powerful Man/Masculinity) • ADG Profumo (Mature Man/Silver Fox vibes) • Chanel Allure Homme sport (Sexy/Versatile) • YSL L’Homme (Fancy/Sexy business man) • Invictus by Paco Rabanne (Muscles/Sexy player vibes) | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to cold approach and have sex same day?I have with one of my classmates. I took her home, gave her my number & turns out she was horny af that day so yea sometimes not often tho. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Whats her intention?You took long but she is still showing you some level of interest & I assume by now she’s talking to a few others and maybe one romantically but it doesn’t matter, really. You might have taken too long to make the first move and she just got tired of waiting but it doesn’t mean you can’t say hi. Get her on a date. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Esoteric question to seasoned "pimps"Your dominating thoughts creates your reality. If you believe you can then you can. Why? Because you believe you can. And now your brain is going to work to ensure that your life is aligned with your dominant thoughts about yourself and your ideas about everything in life. Thoughts are instructions you give out to the universe and in turn the universe gives you ideas to you about your thoughts which in turn leads to inspiration which in turn leads to manifestation of your desire through organize… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Girls who flex about stuff other guys are providing themThat’s fine just befriend the photographer, do a shoot for IG with the girls real quick & let’s just turn the whole yacht thing into the best party you’ve ever had. If you’re bold enough take some other girls with you and move things up to a whole other level of fun. This is my scene now bitches aha! | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 02:34 AM |
| -3 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...This is how me and the boys do it. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Not in the extreme sense but when it comes to cheating yes it applies. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...“Women break rules for the Alphas and make rules for the Betas.” Read that again … I want you to think about it for a second. When I say rules I mean all the rules of the game become broken and anything goes so to hell with morality. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Best book or course which actually turned you into a playerI freakin love Leo’s content! He’s such a smart INTP lol | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 42 | Do you guys think women value looks or money more?Women value Security the most & it’s a subconscious mechanism so they don’t know they need this. If a guy has money the women’s brain sends her signals that he could potentially be a longer term mate with her if things go right but she has to be attracted to him but the problem is if he’s willing to secure her. Some of my friends argue that Status is actually an even bigger value to women than money and I partially agree because Status is associated with Power within the social Hierarchy. Now wo… | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Which one gets you the most results, Looks, money or status get you the most results?Nowadays you need to be the whole package. But if I had to pick one it would be to have game. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How to be a chick magnet?You’re right my friend. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | How to be a chick magnet?This is the best overall answer! I think the most effective short term answer is having other girls around you already | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone here have any unconventional advice?Always have interesting stories to tell, dress very nice, be knowledgeable about lots of things, reach your full potential as a human being. The people who are eccentric and interesting types are like the modern day renaissance man. They’ve fully developed themselves past most people & are different.. to say the least. Yea be that | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 05:59 PM |
| 2 | How to be a chick magnet?When women orbit you in social settings (helps attract even more women into your safe space & now you are proof of pre-selection & safe) also have so much game, charm, porn star level sex, decent looks/swagger & a hint of narcissism & voila! Chick magnet | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 04:47 PM |
| -4 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?Yes reality isn’t this Disney fairytale with sunshines and rainbows. You can believe whatever you want but if you take this advice it is the cold hard truth. This is just be the lubricant that keeps the gears turning in LTRs. Love is a beautiful thing but you gotta bring value first. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 05:31 PM |
| -2 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?Do girls care about you just for You?.. Why should they? They’re not that invested in your best interest like mommy and daddy. (Unless you got something you can provide to the girl then yes of course she will feel better about you & move you up on her list of options.) Guys aren’t entitled to girls just by default, no, you’ve got to be valued first and then you got something to work with. Girls care about you for being the vessel that provides the attention, yes! But how good of a vessel are you… | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?Thank you for your patience | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?Hmm …what if I prefer to handle all the responsibilities? I work better when I’m the one leading. But I am happy enough to listen to other peoples opinions. Ultimately I am the one in charge most of the time. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?Ahh I see but now that you’re here I’m genuinely curious. Respectfully, what is this ‘partner’ you speak of? I’d like to learn more about this. Can you break it down for me of what it means to be this .. partner? I’m sure it shouldn’t take too much of your time. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?Excuse me? | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:57 PM |
| -1 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?Money, leadership/direction, paying for both house + cars, muscle, protection, attention, logical inputs, love & fat cock. Anything else? | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 06:58 PM |
| -1 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?She has to be a baddie at 10, she has to have mother qualities: cooks, cleans, takes care of the house, takes the kids to school and is a loving mother to my children (for my kids) & she is respectful/compliant to me & doesn’t argue with me or outright disrespect’s me. She looks pretty, keeps quiet, agrees & I make all the decisions. If she has those it would put her all the way up at 10/10. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 01:58 PM |
| 5 | How do you date attractive girls your age when you look extremely young?Simple: Workout get muscles it’ll increase your testosterone and make you look older, work & get money, get a nice haircut, dress business casual or whatever you like but more “mature” style, talk with more authority. Stand up straight & make eye contact. Anywhere you go socialize with as many women as possible not on purpose but by accident. Act more mature than your age & talk about intelligent conversations, state your opinion about something & be assertive. Manage well your time, money & att… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Is women liking bad boys an age related thing or an individual preference?Bad boys are always going to intrigue women all the time because a bad boy presents a challenge that women need. Women need a constant challenge & somebody thats kind of a mystery. When women get married they settle down with the best providers they can get. The problem is they become too familiar with their husbands so things get too predictable & he’s too figured out by then and the game is over. But if a bad boy comes around it makes the wife feel “hmmm who is this guy?” again because the bad… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | An old friend who I met again after 3 years, wrote that she would like to meet again, and talk ab what happened in those three years. Is she intrested or just want to talk? (I know she is probably intrested, and I'm looking for tips)She wants it bro | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Do you like the idea of having females friends?I don’t have female friends for this reason & if I did there is always sexual tension so the friendship turns sexual. It just doesn’t make any sense to me we literally share nothing in common but I will still talk to women if I need something. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 01:52 PM |
| 6 | girl trying to suggest fancy dinner for first date of tinder?First date Rules: If she fucks first and proves herself to me on the first date then ok yes she deserves a fancy dinner the next time we go out if not then I’ll block her same day. I’m ruthless with girls idgaf. I take what’s mine because I know my worth and what I bring to the table. The least she can do is fuck because other girls have fucked over coffee at my place already so why do I have to pay for expensive dinner when she won’t even put out anything in return? The question is: What are yo… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm good looking, funny, respectful, have a good job, have hobbies, talk to plenty of women. then why can't I even hook up with one woman?Oof, it’s ok better luck next time | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 05:23 PM |
| 17 | As a man, success in dating is directly tied to how well you handle rejectionRejection hurts but the pain of Regret for not trying hurts even more! Even if you get rejected 100 times you gain the self respect for trying. You get a little hurt but that pain turns into a muscle & experience for what to do next time. It’s part of the learning experience for growing into your best self. Rejection is just feedback & it builds character very fast. Every rejection brings us one step closer to success but the question is do you have the perseverance to get back up and try again … | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 02:13 PM |
| -3 | “What are you looking for?”Everything’s a shit test with women. It’s so frequent you can’t even tell it’s happening sometimes. Right now she is testing your frame to still see if you’re LEGIT & to see if you’re ONS (one night stand) or boyfriend material (LTR) or undecided. Your answers will decide how she should treat you based on how well you handle the game. If you answer something like: “I’m looking for a LTR” or “I’m looking to be friends” then you have effectively put yourself into her frame & set your intentions ea… | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 05:46 PM |
| 0 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?Aha naughty me | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:28 PM |
| -16 | How to tell if girl is promiscuous?You want the Truth? All women are promiscuous by nature. All of them. Doesn’t matter if she’s the nicest, nerdy, most innocent looking girl wearing a cute skirt or the meanest, most uptight business lady in the world. They’re all little dirty sluts & they love being used. All of them every single one of them, even the ones that don’t look like it are too. (yea I’m talking about you too Mrs. Villanueva! I always catch you checking out my arms before class.) The question is will you accept & respe… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 03:47 PM |
| -1 | Was friendzoned but she gave me a cha ge for a dateMen are seen as fools/success objects used for free meals and free validation. Women are simply sex objects and good for nothing. Yes I’m the devil 😈 Friend-zone doesn’t exist & is just a rejection constructed to let you off easy & keep you around as an orbiter. I am the Truth, cold as ice 🧊🥶 and there are no second chances in the fast life. Sex first, Fancy dinner date second. Period. No exceptions, no negotiation, take it or leave it. Think about it.. if somebody is about to attack you and you… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Being nice vs friendly. Is there a difference?Flirt with them, it’s harmless really | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Whats the best answer to girls calling you out on what you are doing?Don’t make eye contact with her and treat her like she’s nothing then continue with my day. Then, after a couple seconds I’ll test her with a clear and concise “Whats that again? I couldn’t hear you I was just on the phone with my girlfriend.” She’s gonna be shocked that I’m bold and then she’ll want to confront me about it. If she confronts me I’ll do all the other things right and it’s on & if not then whatever, no big deal. Either way I win. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Should I tell her that I’m a virgin while hanging out? She seems to like meBecause it could cause her to feel like she’s babying him. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Should I tell her that I’m a virgin while hanging out? She seems to like meNever ever tell them your body count. But if she asks you then try to give a vague answer, but never give a straight answer. Trust me on this one it’s a dealbreaker if you answer wrongly. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Do women know when a guy is “Game” aware?Ah I see | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Do women know when a guy is “Game” aware?Yet they do game unconsciously, interesting 🤔 | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.She’s gotta be obsessed with you | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Logistics For Day DatesFaceTime her for 5mins to gauge her personality to see if she’s legit & not some weirdo then cut it short DO NOT PASS 5 mins!!! At the same time you gotta “pressure cook” with sexual tension through text and call be bold but not too bold. Do lots of teasing/pushpulling be relentless DONT HOLD BACK, no mercy, show you’re a rockstar/sexual prowess. Once you got her imagination running wild, fucking wet & squirmy you need to help her by inviting her over to your place. Keep it simple like: “Come ov… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over an intense fear of rejection?Rejection is not a direct attack to your True self, you’re a an amazing human being. Yes, we’re all afraid of rejection to an extent. We want to feel liked by others and accepted. But you cannot feel rejected if you have inner strength & self esteem + self confidence. But nevertheless there is still a way to become strong. It starts by not giving a fuck what others think about you & being Indifferent comes from the Abundance mindset. Its getting rejected by one girl and not giving a fuck because… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”Thanks bro 😎 | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”Oof once I changed the subject pretty fast because I didn’t know what to say. I failed the shit test huh? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”😂😂 | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:40 AM |
| 4 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”Yea I’m gonna have to re read it | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Girls telling me I give off “Player vibes.”Gotcha. I just remembered that from Rollos book. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | I feel like a loser!Bro what? What happened? | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:04 PM |
| 7 | Did I fuck up in this situation?Never share your issues with women, it may feel good but your attraction will fall drastically. Never show vulnerability, humbleness yes, vulnerability never. Respect will be lost & she will begin to resent you. She will secretly be turned off & if you do it long enough she will pity you then replace you within a week. Never share your true intentions with women, ever! Never say it. Keep girls guessing as they try to figure you out & drive her imagination wild, as you are enigmatic to her. Do no… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?Ok cool bro you down to be my wing? I need an expert to show me the ropes ye? | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?Omg bro let me tell you! “Hey everybody look at me I’m a virgin! Omg my life is over.” There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin. Everybody’s born one. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Girl visiting my city ghosted me after going to the restroomLet me get something straight because apparently many people here just don’t understand. MEN are easy to sleep with. But because guys don’t have the sexual authority that women do, men become reduced to numbers to girls because of the Law of Abundance & female solipsism. If you were a hot girl 10/10 dime piece you’ll detach faster and become even more insensitive to people. Also, women only care about their own EMOTIONS because that’s how their wired biologically. If you’re a girl & you just dro… | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:40 PM |
| -5 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?Conquest & Spreading my seed with as many women as I can because I am aware this is what I was designed for. To penetrate the world and spread my seed everywhere (Ego/Biology) High Sex Drive & Freedom I am like a Master Key that could unlock all of the locks of every woman like magic. Yes, I am a dick & I’m selfish because I embraced the dark side. Relationships aren’t enough for me. I don’t like being tied down to one person (unless shes comfortable knowing I have multiple sexual partners & wil… | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How the shy girl and shy guy story ended.It’s ok bro I know it sucks I’ve been there where all I needed was to take action but I took too long. There are billions of girls in the world she’s just 1 of them. Once you realize that guys are simply a commodity to girls you’ll never be the same & that all girls respond well to the same technique you’ll become the Master Key. Learn from this experience & the next time you encounter a new situation like this you know that “taking initiative & leading her” ASAP is the key. The guy that’s gonna… | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Fuck seduction get in your bag. I don’t want woman until I reach 100k cashIf you chase women you’ll eventually run out of money. But if you chase money you’ll never run out of women. And if you can master both Finances & Game oof, you’ll be a dangerous guy. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:57 AM |
| 15 | Women are biologically hardwired to be attracted to men that they feel are superior to them. I have read this in a bookIt’s true. Why is it true? Well I’ll tell you this, if you’re a Leader of people you are automatically above others in the social hierarchy which means that you will better ensure the survival of her and potentially her children because you command power and respect (Status). Also, for a person to become a leader means that that person must overcome their weakness, embrace accountability at all times & be a risk taker (something most people aren’t willing to do which automatically sets you apart… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 06:01 PM |
| 2 | sorry for long post. Need help, very confused. (i feel like i know the answer but there is slight hesitation on back of my head)She has problems bro. Could be a jealous ex. Could be a stalker who knows. I’m gonna be blunt though. If something happens she doesn’t care about you. If it was me I’d kick her out, I’m not her friend and no fool. She is just using you for protection not genuine attraction, sorry. She saw you like a nice guy friend. But because you hesitated to just go with it & fuck the shit out of her that night she felt disappointed she didn’t get ‘free sex’ from you. She ended up friend zoning you because yo… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask her out via text or in person? Why or why not?No be patient here & wait a week or you’ll mess everything up. Texting her shows you have no guts and it makes it easy for her to dismiss you. She will take you for granted it’s not that she wants to it’s just how it seems when the message pops up. After you wait the week, when you see her again rekindle intense attraction with her for 1-2 days then once you do that put your best foot forward & ask her out. She will be both receptive to you & witness your courage. Prove you got the guts and you’… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How much rejection is considered normal ?True but looks is what gets your foot in the door so if you don’t have that then the game is shot down by 50% | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 06:08 AM |
| 2 | book for texting gameThe rule is that phones are only for setting up dates period. Oh, but what about building attraction through text? Nope we don’t need to do that & we’re not the guy used for free attention. You can however used FaceTime/video chat with her real quick for like 5-10mins just to see she acts and if she’s not some weirdo. If you’re LEGIT you’ll plan the meetup right away & she’ll gladly come see you. The whole point of the interaction is to meet each other in person, not be “texting buddies.” We’re … | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 03:14 PM |
| 16 | Confidence is only sexy when it has something solid to back it up.Confidence in & of itself is sexy. It can even be self reinforced through: Abundance, Love, experience, self improvement, knowledge, great body, money, power, dick game, game itself, learning from past failures, etc. But really Its the internal qualities that make the person a rockstar. Its the internal work that needs to be done and only done by you is how confidence is built & only through repetition, failure & self improvement. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Whats your best approach?Depends on the context (setting) so she won’t feel shame or feel pressure from other people around and also how attractive you are (looks) & how you carry yourself (confidence) timing, & the tonality of your voice, especially! Simply, a “Hi, I’m ___. Nice to meet you!” while having a genuine smile, facing her, stand up straight, firm handshake but not too firm, feeling solid confidence & being in your frame is good enough. Talk for a little bit like she’s your little slut & keep things cool and … | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 05:45 AM |
| 5 | How are serious are you when interacting with women?Im naturally an indifferent type of guy that doesn’t really care what outcome happens. You know those dudes posted up with one leg on the wall with a cigarette in his mouth, wearing sunglasses yea that’s me. With interactions I bring them a challenging/enigmatic, fun type of vibe (her status/looks don’t phase me & are irrelevant.) Most of the time she just can’t solve me & I’m teasing the fuck out of her at same time but it’s also very context dependent. I won’t lead the conversation going for t… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Added girl on insta she added back, shot dm, we talked and had a convo and related, I asked for her # and all she does is like my text. Why...Do not worry my friend. Girls are very fickle & their words will never match their actions. Anyway, as a general rule always have lots of options with women & NEVER focus on just one girl. Take it easy my friend just move on from this one she’s not high interest anyway. Replace her with the next one but have multiple options always. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Hot waitress.You could if you want to but It’s gonna be selfish because again she’s at work. However you could negate that by tipping her good then shoot your shot sometimes they’ll hyu because of the audacity. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | What to do when a girl plays hard to get?Drop this plate bro it’s fucked. Anyway that’s why it’s important to spin multiple plates at once. But don’t place any significance on this one girl - she isn’t high interest anyway otherwise she woulda replied as soon as you messaged her like my girls do. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Is 4 bodies a lot for a 19 year old Girl?It’s more like 20 my guy | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Is the dating advice "just be yourself" bullshit?Yea it’s bullshit made up from girls and guys to make the guy feel better about himself. It’s not ok to be yourself. Be the Best version of yourself is the best message. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Should I let this one go?I like to gauge my girls by: Interest level, Availability & Compliance. Girls that are highly interested will move mountains & make things super easy to hang out (even if she works 40hrs & goes to school.) Girls are ALWAYS on their phone & they see every message trust me. You think she didn’t see the message, wrong she did. You’re just not high interest enough. If she is beating around the bush, putting up walls & using “easy outs” she’s 0-low interest & that’s ok just move on from her & let her… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Married women checking me out while out with her Husband. What should I do?Not worth it & don’t look at him look at her and smile but don’t approach married girls. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 06:29 PM |
| 9 | Five flakes in one weekDO NOT take her out to dinner dates guys! It’s a trap. If you truly want to gauge her interest level then invite her over to your place on the first date trust me. If she’s actually interested then she will come over. It’s very simple. You can cook a nice dinner for her at home & you two can enjoy a bottle of wine 🍷 together as well. (it’s easy for sex to happen too.) We’re not in middle school anymore guys we’re adults now there’s no time for childish games. These girls will use you for your ti… | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Get out of your comfort zoneGood job bro! Hey what led you to go on real dates rather than the party hookups? | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Why do some girls reject in a super rude way?Girls are either all in for you OR you’re invisible/unattractive to them. Feminine energy is really immature that’s just the way it is. Its female nature to take men for granted because there’s an abundance of dick everywhere and easy to get if she snaps her fingers. But girls get tired of having creepy dudes approach them all the time, following them & saying weird things to them. And when an actual valuable guy approaches them they project their negative energy from previous men. Either way ke… | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Is it a bad idea to give women an "easy out" if they have an excuse for not going on a date?Fair enough | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 03:45 PM |
| 4 | Is it a bad idea to give women an "easy out" if they have an excuse for not going on a date?I’ll give you some advice on handling Objections. The only reason she’s putting up any excuses is because she’s uncertain about some things & you have to return to these things and make sure they’re all as close to 10/10 certainty as possible: Firstly, It could be You the way you look or are/first impressions matter, secondly, she doesn’t trust you just yet so you have some work to do & lastly is your level of security/what you have to offer in terms of character, status, game, money, etc. Next,… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 03:10 PM |
| 2 | something is going wrongYou’ve got the looks part down. Now you need to learn GAME, cold approach & do some conditioning work, (having a lot of sex with lots of women will also be a game changer but that’s after the fact), confidence work & changing your whole perspective on women. We’ve got to get you so used to women that you’re very comfortable around them anywhere, anytime. This comes from understanding them more than they do themselves & fucking a lot of them. Also, talk to the girls like the leader in charge in a… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:02 PM |
| 33 | How to respond to boring, uninspired and dry textsPro tip: The purpose for texting a girl is to set up dates and that’s it. Not entertain her or get to know her or see how she’s doing and no “good morning beautiful.” NO. It destroys the purpose of meeting up. She will always be hoping & willing to let you take the initiative to meet up. So if she doesn’t want to then you have other girls. The meetup should happen no less than 7 days from the first time you talked to her & if she still doesn’t want to then that means you messed up somewhere in y… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:34 PM |
| 7 | You can’t buy attraction. Expensive dinners and gifts won’t make her feel something for you, and will often have the opposite effectI encourage everyone to become masters of Sexual Chemistry. How skilled is your: banter, teasing, social finesse, body language skills, humor, pushing-pulling & boldness? How much can you get away with without overstepping the boundaries? How can you arouse Genuine Interest through qualifying? To the point where the girl in front of you sees YOU as the only guy in the world? This actually helps the girl as well because you’re taking the initiative by guiding her by the hand & she gets excited to… | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl rejected me at party because she said I wasn't big enough for herDepends if she just said it then turned around rudely then I’d just let her be and laugh it off. Playfully saying: “Haha, thats dumb but na that’s not me I’ll fuck I don’t have those silly standards - but I don’t think you can handle me quite frankly. hand tease smirk tease 😈😂 | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Approaching as a shorter guyOk, yes being under 6’ will hold you back somewhat. BUT … it doesn’t mean you’re out of the game entirely now id like to offer you an even taller prospect guaranteed BETTER! than the 6’ dude with ZERO game! But wait! Because you’re here now I’d like to remind you and only YOU that I’m not here for long! I guarantee you you won’t find my presence anywhere else! Have you ever experienced something but it turns out that it’s actually MUCH MORE exciting than you imagined? You’re so lucky! I won’t te… | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 02:45 AM |
| 37 | I've seen my female friends and sister's Hinge accounts. How can I possibly compete with what I see?Don’t worry about the other guys, it’s normal. Every young girl is getting railed by studs it’s always been that way. Anyway, just focus on getting on your grind and bring the A Game to yourself and the girls you attract. Competition anxiety is a chick thing not you though - you’re a boss. 😎 | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:21 PM |
| 3 | I approached a group of women for the first timeFail Forward | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Does friendzoning women make them more attracted to you?The “friend zone” doesn’t exist between the male-female dynamic (speaking for strictly game terminology.) The commonly used “friendzone rejection” is just used to nicely reject the undesirable guys for the girl so she won’t feel too bad about herself than hurting his feelings by outright rejecting him. Same goes for the “Sorry, I have a boyfriend” line. It’s diplomatic and smooth. Also, she will lose status & feel shamed if she outright rejects you. But she also wants to keep the peace. But the … | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | I think I am a "Nice Guy", what can I do?Only you can define what success is for yourself & you should be able to commit to it and follow all the way through with it until it is reality. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!Yea it makes it difficult to build rapport with the other person but it’s a tool not the main focus. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 01:54 PM |
| 0 | Advice on cold approachingYea I get it. Betas are cool people I know some of them. I also know some gammas, alphas and deltas and we’re all cool. That doesn’t mean I consider myself alpha though. I exhibit sigma male traits and business mentality. I’d rather get my way and put myself first over supplicating my attention towards her beauty. If I give her my attention what do I get in return? Yes, I believe if you like the girl you can approach her, by all means go for it if you want. I know that takes tremendous courage &… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Advice on cold approachingHmm I see what you mean. Like the courageous go-getter guy that goes after what he wants? | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Advice on cold approachingTrue. No do not confuse chasing (cold approach) with attracting someone into your proximity (vibing). My whole point is to learn cold approach first as a baseline skill. Ok now that you’re proficient enough at cold approaching let’s move it up and include vibing. Ok now combine what you’ve learned from cold approach with learning how to vibe with yourself. Now you’re gonna radiate a different energy around others. Have you ever been around somebody that just makes you feel good just being around… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Biggest confidence boost?I think being competitive in work adds an extra layer in your self-esteem that’s why you so many athletes and business people so confident because just look at who you’re up against. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | On the idea of “preselected men”The non-preselected men are fucked unless they max out everything then they’ll maybe have a shot. That’s what makes preselection so great for the top guys, little effort for all the women (Pareto principle in effect.) Just like with money, the rich get richer because they have assets/leverage. The poor get poorer because they’re left with scraps & have no leverage oh and even worse, the incorrect mindset which is the main problem to even begin with because it’s so destructive and counter-efficie… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Advice on cold approachingI’ve thought this before but this just confirms it! | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:30 PM |
| 9 | Biggest confidence boost?PURPOSE Confidence: 100 | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | I’m in a pickle and I need helpOkay, so far she’s both a “problem girl” “unstable girl.” Does she know where you live? | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I’m in a pickle and I need helpBro, I’m sorry you’re going through this shit. But this girl seems to have personal issues, specifically childhood trauma/depression and a distorted way of expressing her feelings toward you through materialistic ways. That’s not right. I want to be sure you’re safe though because she seems like those weird tantrum victim type girls. I need more context about her though. So far it’s really bad but what were her past relationships like? And her relationship with her parents? How long have you guy… | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 03:09 PM |
| 18 | he always asks before kissing meSounds like a “nice guy type.” Anyway, talk to him and tell him “it turns me on more if you’d just grab me & kiss me more often, daddy.” Like that, boom. Communication is key. My girls & I always have our communication locked down. He seems like he’s a good dude but just lacks that ‘go-getter edginess’ that ‘come to daddy’ energy you’re looking for in a guy who will command you & arouse you way easier. You know what I mean? Anyhow, I’m sure you don’t want to hurt his feelings. But if he’s not yo… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out and she said 'awww'She’s on the fence; guide her you’ll be fine | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 06:16 AM |
| 8 | Asked a girl out and she said 'awww'I agree and it’s like she wasn’t very explicit with her response which means she’s kinda on the fence. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 06:05 AM |
| 7 | I noticed a lot of guys at clubs/bars would rather talk to other guysYou know why? Once you’ve gotten enough experience doing cold approach/game, gotten from A-Z with multiple girls over and over again you realize women ain’t shit and what really matters are more long-term values such as hobbies/work. Even women themselves have told me they ain’t shit & they know it. But they only admitted Truth to me because they respected me & they still continue to expose more truths to me because they can TRUST me. And this is from first-hand, behind closed doors experience. … | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 02:03 PM |
| 19 | I noticed a lot of guys at clubs/bars would rather talk to other guysGirls go out to the clubs not to pickup men but to have fun with their girls and receive free validation from other men. Why? Because they live in abundance! I go out to the club primarily to have fun with my friends not to primarily pickup girls. Why? Because I live in abundance homie. And if a girl is interested in me, then cool & if she isn’t? Then also cool. Because Im indifferent. You either get this or you don’t dog. 😎 | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?Yes - Sexual attraction drops by 100% & she will never respect you, ever. DONE. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How to prevent weirdo vibesAs a general rule ask girls for their number/IG and if she turns you down she generally means she wants you to try a little harder. Notice I didn’t say “No.” That being said she might say an excuse off the rip, but check this out handle her objection and try again then she’ll feel better that you “tried harder” and she might say yes. There is a reason for this. Also, sometimes they will give you their number if you just ask, but you gotta be physically attractive/ status/ have solid game beforeh… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?You are 100% correct bro 😎 | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Should i just call it quits ?It’s your responsibility to “hit it” by at least the 2nd date and if not then it’s over - done. Every girl will pull back. She felt like you took forever to initiate sex but never did and so shes pulling back because you failed the test. Girls want sex with the guy they’re attracted to but they won’t make the first move, that’s your job. That’s just the way it is. I’m sorry but it’s true, speaking from experience. She felt like “Why won’t he fuck me? Am I not sexy enough to him? I’m gonna go fuc… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | I finally asked her out!Thanks bro! I appreciate your help. This line always works for me but I can see how it would make her feel like I’m cornering her to go with me & it sounds tryhard. I didn’t mean that, I just say it when shes showing me interest but I will switch it up to help her. Should I change anything else? | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | I finally asked her out!Okay so I’ll give you props for courage, but your text game needs some work. Feel free to DM me for help | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:16 PM |
| 2 | I finally asked her out!Na, bro she wasn’t interested then. But for whatever reason she felt like pulling back before committing to a date with you. This is normal. Expect many girls to pull back at the last minute, don’t worry it happens sometimes. 😎 Anyway this happened to you because either: You didn’t raise her interest enough, you’re not attractive enough in her eyes, you didn’t build enough rapport with her or she felt you came off too strong on her through text so she pulled back & didn’t reply. I would confront… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 06:27 PM |
| 5 | I finally asked her out!You got this bro. Dm me if you need any help 👌😎 | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 06:11 AM |
| 38 | I finally asked her out!Good job bro! But next time change the “drinks sometime” part to “Hey I gotta get going now, I have a very busy schedule but LETS grab a A DRINK sometime!” Because saying “drinks” sounds like you’re gonna get her drunk and that’s conveying the wrong message. Women liked to be led, so we must use “follow me”, “I got you”, “I got this” “I’ll handle this” “Lets do this” & take her by the hand. But only do this with the girls that are attracted to you not complete randoms. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 04:44 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Never tolerate women that don’t respect your time king. Communicate your boundaries and what you won’t tolerate the very second she fucks up. If she isn’t with it then that’s cool too because we got 5 other 10s lined up to replace her. Never chase, let it be known that you’re a man with integrity/options and be willing to walk away from her without hesitation. Anyway, she might be a 10 but at the end of the day you’re still the decision maker; The Man & you hold more power than she does. 👑 | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 09:53 PM |
| 9 | Type of women you can attractI’ve noticed it’s usually the more feminine type women that seem to come my way | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | How to ask out a waitress?It’s generally inappropriate and uncomfortable for them but it could still be done. Just know it’s messed up to do this, but here we go. It’s just gonna require extra work but still doable. (Gonna be paraphrasing some tips from a fellow Redditor here.) First, you gotta be a regular there & get to know all the staff beforehand to create familiarity because only then she’ll begin to feel more comfortable towards you because you’re not just focused on her specifically. Anyway, go a few more times a… | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Is she playing hard to get?Honestly bro, she has already friend zoned you within the first few months you’ve been working there. She also has A BUNCH of orbiters/simps giving her attention and shit. She also has a few CHADS taking her out & dicking her down every week after dinner. Also, yea she probably thinks you’re mysterious because you’re not giving her the ATTENTION like all the other simps & that HER attractiveness isn’t working on you so much so she’s intrigued by that. She copes with this by PURPOSELY IGNORING yo… | /r/seduction | 10/11/21 06:52 PM |
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