“Do you do this often?”

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-02-07T00:37:51+00:00

Girls like dating men who get other women. It's preselection.

It's not necessarily a shit test, but you can absolutely fail by telling her no and that you don't get other women. You also don't directly communicate getting other women by telling her the amount of women you're dating.

If they throw a question like that at you, it suggests that they believe that you are desirable by other women. So you respond to that with something like "you're my favorite" or something playful and fun that doesn't suggest you don't have other women you're talking to. Never outright deny it, but also never verbally indicate that you do get other women. Let women use their imagination and just give them a playful and fun answer.

So, you wouldn't say something like, yeah I've been on 5 dates with five different women this month. That is not what women want to here, and when you verbalize it like that, it makes women think you're being disingenuous.

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-02-06T17:50:02+00:00

Yea this is one of the most common shit tests. All you have to do is not get defensive or explain yourself. Just agree and exaggerate.

saulisdating · 2024-02-06T18:11:36+00:00

Yeah I used to get this a lot. It’s a shit test and they’re basically alluding to the fact that you’re a player and fuck around a lot. Hinting they might not want to be “just one of your lays.”

I just ignore it and sometimes, if we’re in a very playful mood, over exaggerate like “yeah you’re the 11th girl today and I got 17 more to go so let’s get to it, chop chop!” or some similar shit like that. If you get defensive or try to rationalise you’ll fail. I learned that the hard way the first few times ;)

Zenis · 2024-02-07T05:15:07+00:00

You didn’t see yourself talking with a throat goat again? I guess that’s good for the rest of the world

ireallyloveoats · 2024-02-06T21:17:36+00:00

When in doubt. exaggerate! "ohh ALL the time I was here just an hour before the date " playful tone. Always keep it light playful and high energy.

Grand-Violinist-8073 · 2024-02-07T09:51:54+00:00

Throw away account here. Pretty much my approach as well concerning texting/being direct. I’ve had 4 dates in the past month timeframe. 1st was someone I knew previously. 1 date/hooked up once and got blown off for the 2nd date so I stopped contact. 2nd was from online dating. Zero chemistry and she was pretty boring overall. 3rd, she’s fairly structured but checks all my boxes, going on our 3rd this week. 4th, absolutely gorgeous/older woman/super successful. She’s currently my FWB. Going to try and get at least two new girls this month, and keep it movin. Keep up the good work!

Cocalaru · 2024-02-06T20:28:22+00:00

can you dm me screenshots of how you texted them on the dating apps, from beginning to end conversations? you can blur the names and faces, personal info etc of the person. you said you're direct, but what does that actually mean? what do you actually say?

SecretZucchini · 2024-02-07T12:56:56+00:00

Dude you're here. I literally just talked to you about how Fi works not too long ago. Hahaha I see you're interested in psychology all the way.

I'm curious, you gotta tell me. Dms or something, was that Fi-convo related to this? And how you use MBTI? I can tell you my side too haha

SatelliteCitizen2 · 2024-02-07T16:03:27+00:00

I would respond,

""No, not at all, only on days that end in Y""

SteveJabbaUK · 2024-02-07T17:32:17+00:00

A shit test is what you make of it. The no 1 rule IMO is to not take any hint of a shit test seriously. The worst thing you can do is always try to come back with a clever response : it comes across gamey and try hard.

In this instance, agree and amplify : "Oh yes, all the time"

or "I can be a naughty boy on occasion".

Followed by any number of emojis which gradually become more irrelevant to your comment, but add a certain comedic effect.

Illustrious_Nail3909 · 2024-02-07T19:47:17+00:00

Every time that happens to me, it just indicates that she's interested. It's their way of saying, "what you're doing is working".

3boodqt · 2024-02-08T04:09:18+00:00

Brother you need to teach us how your game work, or at least where you learnt it? Can you check your PM’s

TRTGymBro · 2024-02-06T17:42:39+00:00

Tell them "a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell and a lady never asks."

KingOnixTheThird · 2024-02-07T05:19:15+00:00

The fact that you get dates and sex so easily and effortlessly tells me you're probably chad tier in terms of looks.

Let's put it this way, you're probably not a sub5.

Resident-Biscotti-45 · 2024-02-07T03:18:16+00:00

“Yeah I think I probably slept with like 100 or so girls last month 😉”

epimpstyle · 2024-02-06T19:24:03+00:00

This looks like a SCI-FI movie. However, where do you find such desperate and single women ready to go out with the first guy who approaches them?

avakadava · 2024-02-07T13:33:06+00:00

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Breath3Manually · 2024-02-07T16:53:48+00:00

Can you give me an example of your tinder messages, I’m trying to learn

TheBaconDaddy · 2024-02-07T15:28:29+00:00

How’d you cold approach the barista? While she was working?

unususername · 2024-02-07T23:32:07+00:00

I think this person is into you and wants to know if you're into her too. If I asked a guy this question id be asking to know if you're fucking around basically

If you evade the question you will seem not genuine so I would just tell a half truth. Don't say the number or give too much detail. Be brief and direct, that is if you value someone being direct with you as well.

ThrowRahlly · 2024-02-08T15:16:27+00:00

Can you check you dms I need help

Title	“Do you do this often?”
Author	daring_innovator
Upvotes	154
Comments	53
Date	February 6, 2024 5:37 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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