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travel, and post photos on your social media. That's it
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:55 PM
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In my opinion, the absolute best girls to turn into/ have as an FWB are the girls that are really damaged with trauma & got out of a 10 year plus relationship/marriage, and they just wanna be loose. Even if they think they want a relationship they are too messed up for that. You see them posting all kinds of crap and love memes and astrology cosmic bs on their Instagram. Those girls. Obviously these girls you don't want to fall in love with and actually takes seriously for a relationship so it w…
/r/seduction09/05/24 01:18 PM
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You rent rental cars you don't take them seriously for long term
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:35 PM
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You're right. That's why we date foreign girls. Or have to go to other countries to date their women. Or girls from other cultures that were raised by good parents in america.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:48 PM
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ONS are with drunk loose hoes. Nightlife is for the rental cars imo, if I'm looking for actual girlfriend material toy never would find that in a girl that goes out or drinks alot etc. Those are the hoes with high body count, inability to pair bond and have problems etc.
/r/seduction28/04/24 03:43 PM
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You really want us to reach out to you for questions it seems lol can someone please give this man the validation he desperately needs and ask him some questions already
/r/TheRedPill28/04/24 03:40 PM
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Stop thinking logically and put yourself in a woman's shoes. Wouldn't you be attracted to someone who has an abundant lifestyle and the girl Is winning him over versus him picking her because she is his only option?
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:58 PM
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As humans were tend to wire to think, everyone is watching us. Everyone is judging us and the world is about us. But it's not. literally no one cares about you. And no one cares about me and no one cares about all of us. Except maybe some specific loved ones in our close circle. Do your thing brotha
/r/seduction09/04/24 04:21 PM
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Venezuelan people hustle cheat steal whatever they gotta do
/r/seduction08/04/24 12:44 PM
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That is perfectly worded. Exactly. I just hate how if we call this out it's "Oh you're an incel!" Bitch, we are trying to help you! lol
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 02:14 AM
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Agree. But they all want that, 4s can't lock down 9s. That's the problem for women. Women have a delusion problem to work through.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 01:35 AM
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One of the great paradoxes of the dating landscape, women want marriage... but they don't want to be married and get bored. Not all, but more than 50%.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/24 12:37 AM
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Because it "feels" transactional, superficial, and not based on pure love how it should be. No one wants to be taken advantage of, do you? No one wants to be used for superficial means to get ahead or used for sex. It's similar for men.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 06:26 PM
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When in doubt. exaggerate! "ohh ALL the time I was here just an hour before the date " playful tone. Always keep it light playful and high energy.
/r/seduction06/02/24 09:17 PM
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Never break the unforgivable sin: never disrespect your man.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 12:49 AM
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He needs to follow Coach Corey Wayne on YouTube. Maybe gift him the book lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 06:57 PM
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Cut losses? What have you lost exactly? It isn't his fault that you are 35 and looking and feel pressured to reach your life goals. Grass is greener is a bias you may be guilty of here. He may be the best man you can attract, hard to know of course but it's true for many cases people feel entitled to a perfect person that may not exist statistically. It seems rather than focusing on his perceived shortcomings you may have a need to take a step and be introspective and do some inner work.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 06:00 PM
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If it's right for you, yes. Traditionalism dictates the standard male provider and woman stays at home with motherly responsibilities. But I believe many can live the DINK life style for example (Dual income no kids) if they so choose, and still be traditional in the masculine-feminine roles. You are right with the income statistics, lots of people don't even look those simple facts up and are ignorant to the reality that cost of living and lifestyle expectations have skyrocketed but wages are q…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/24 11:48 PM
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100%. And if you are not in the camp, forgive me I am speaking openly not to you, as I don't know you of course. But many, many people in society (men included) want to live this glamorous Instagram lifestyle. Let's just think for a minute, what is the income required to afford the basic needs of say, a husband wife and 1-2 children. A family of four. Now add in some restaurant meals, an annual trip to Disneyland, an annual trip on cruise or Italy, jewelry, flowers, gifts, trips, new iphones ele…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 03:16 PM
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Men want to provide. It's just hard to do. The back lash and complaining you see online is due to: A) providing and getting taken advantage of, especially on divorce or in cases of being cheated on. B) cost of living has skyrocketed and wages are mostly flat. This is a well documented trend the past few decades. It's simply getting harder and harder to support the needs, wants, and demands of a family on only 1 income. And if there are modern era Instagram expectations of standard of living then…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 01:13 AM
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Yes
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 09:30 PM
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Go have a high body count and be a hoe then, I'm not here to judge and argue with you. I would say you are in the wrong reddit group though and no one will take you seriously for marriage. I think that's no surprise. No one is going to wife up a hoe. I always found it bizarre when you feminists with high body count tries to argue with men about their experience dating various women... have you dated women? no, so why do you think you're qualified to talk about dating women lol. Stop and be self …
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 04:41 PM
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Google oxytocin
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 04:23 PM
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Agreed. I couldn't get married without having sex with the girl but I also don't want to have a girl I know had one night stands or a hoe phase, only long term relationships and few partners, not a double digit number. Women really only got a few shots to get it right, if they want their purity and attachment pair bonding intake. I didn't write the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 02:14 PM
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She can work on her femininity in various environments. I think people get it confused, they just want to be at home because it's comfortable and easier than working. Let's just be honest. It's an easier, comfortable life. Femininity really should become instilled before later adulthood also. It is ideal for a man to have a very high income and provide without assistance, but with every passing year since the 1970s cost of living shoots up and wages very slowly rise. It's getting really hard (an…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 05:35 AM
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It's shocking this isn't common sense to be honest
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/23 06:22 PM
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Great write-up
/r/seduction02/11/23 07:01 PM
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Just tell him lovingly but very direct what you do or don't like. Not right there in bed but somtime like tonight over dinner. Men cannot read minds.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 11:57 AM
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This niche and all of pua is silly because it's just geeks learning to be normal and abundant life. I'm in this group btw so no hate. Not everyone needs to cope their way to be cool it comes natural to many.
/r/seduction01/09/23 03:55 AM
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Mainly understanding more on why we have anxious attachment and how to self-soothe
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 10:06 PM
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I just finished reading this Book, "Anxious and Full of Love" on Amazon I really enjoyed it! I think it's a great book for anxious attachers like myself and most of us in this group. Disclosure I did not write the book of course but I know the author I met once and sharing her new book. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CFZHRR8Z
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 02:06 PM
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pmed
/r/seduction17/07/23 12:57 AM
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can you advise some good open ended questions to get them opened up to those topics?
/r/seduction16/07/23 09:31 PM
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A young girl that likes bad boys. I know how this story ends lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 02:15 AM
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Be clear with your facial expressions and body language that you are enjoying yourself, interested in him, having a good time! Assuming you are obviously. Sometimes girls can be hard to read, he wants to know you are enjoying yourself and comfortable. Send a thank you text when you get home.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 12:43 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:59 PM
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Look it up dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:35 PM
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You deserve to die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:15 PM
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Warm, submissive, loving, caring, supportive, nurturance, agreeableness, affection, empathy, tenderness. I said Google if you need? Warm, submissive, loving, caring, supportive, nurturance, agreeableness, affection, empathy, tenderness. Would you like me to wipe your ass too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:04 AM
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Warm, submissive, loving, caring, supportive, nurturance, agreeableness, affection, empathy, tenderness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:55 AM
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Warm, submissive, loving, caring, supportive, nurturance, agreeableness, affection, empathy, tenderness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:54 AM
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The website (not mine, to be clear) is trying to make a demonstration, send a message. It's definitely got a bias in the score. But the point is, most women are around a 5 and feel entitled to 8-10s. This is delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:50 AM
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Feminine pretty much is the same across the planet really. Some cultural differences on what a sexy body looks like, but that's not the point here. "Feminine" has an objective definition that feminists struggle to understand. I'm here to help <3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:47 AM
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Many things on the list of attractive male qualities are masculine qualities. Men aren't attracted to masculine qualities, men are attracted to feminine qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:46 AM
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Literally google it if you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:41 AM
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In my observation, 1 of 3 are true: 1. Religious backgrounds emphasize getting married young and staying married, regardless of happiness and satisfaction. More common with older generations however. 2. Rich 3. She's ugly too lol match made in heaven. Nothing but good vibes their way, enjoy a happy marriage with ugly children lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:23 AM
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Idk you, but you are going to go far in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:21 AM
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Very nice, enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:19 AM
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If you don't like his dating preferences you are probably 81% a meow meow gonna die alone cat lady. He is rich and doesn't know who tf your kitty adoption ass is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:04 AM
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Feminists* these aren't real women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:29 AM
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So what we learn here is, Become a top tier man. Then the world is yours. You can choose any woman/women you desire since they all want the top men. The women that are not able to attract a top man will die alone. Becoming a top tier man is the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:23 AM
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Your genetics and what you want your image to be can shape what "look" you want. Thicc vs athletic vs just skinny etc. Can someone be "too thin" for the general idea of what's attractive? sure of course, but that's pretty hard to do in today's diet and lifestyle. Don't worry about problems you don't have, unless you really are rail stick skinny. No way to know that on this forum.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/23 06:41 PM
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You are over thinking it with the gym. Just go. And eat less. There is no excuse to not be in shape as a woman. You must become the most beautiful version of yourself you possibly can it's mission critical as a woman, as a man needs to produce as much money as his potential allows. Down vote me if you want but deep down inside you all know this is how nature works.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/23 02:37 AM
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These are the discussions the world needs to be having. But accountability and modern women seem to not go well together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:06 PM
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Yea they think it's a problem if a man isn't perfectly together but if she has a million problems it's acceptable because she's a woman. These types you'll notice are perma single or in and out of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:40 AM
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Dude is pushing a stroller. They are wearing matching "I'm with stupid ->" T shirts. He hasn't had a blow job in 6 years. She hasn't worn a bikini since before the pregnancy and Pizza Hut rewards program. This is love, or at least something they can convince themselves is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:00 AM
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It's an effect of the recent movements of masculinization of women (feminism, Elizabeth Holmes types etc) and feminization of Men (This shit, like OP).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:43 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:50 PM
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I asked my gf what the worst part of dating was.. she said sitting thru a boring dinner date. (Pro tip ur a fool if you do dinner dates). Imagine.... all the shit and struggle men go thru in dating.. The worst part for them is a boring free meal?????? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:49 PM
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The opposite is true. We love someone not tainted, not outside, not in the club, not a hoe etc. My girlfriend hasn't had a boyfriend in 10 years, it's one of my favorite things about her. She has a lot to offer me. Trying to date a single mom or someone that's been used up is getting water from a dry well. I know I'm speaking harsh but it's the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/23 02:29 PM
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Men are attracted to beauty, youth, signs of fertility and peaceful disposition, feminine energy and feminine traits particularly submissive and support. Do you have these things?
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 09:30 PM
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Comments like this will never get the upvotes they deserve because reddit just ain't ready lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:21 PM
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It's the ultimate 80/20 Pareto Principle. 80% of Women only want to date 20% of men. 20% of men are banging 80% of women. So takeaways.. Women: Either realize you need an average man to match your average standing, or compete for the top tier men and be willing to share with other women he's with. Men: Do everything you can to become top tier or you will likely be in this increasing bucket of sexless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:28 PM
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A lot of it is marketing and drama for attention and subs. Everything is marketing. I seen one of the FnF podcasters out and about on a date with a nice pretty lady. They are normal dudes just dating like you and me. It's true but it's truth juiced up with marketing. Can't blame them, just securing the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:07 AM
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I read more than you I promise lol. Bookwriting process takes much longer so for innovative new topics online material is better. Broaden your horizons 👍
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/23 03:02 PM
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Good list and write up
/r/seduction09/05/23 11:04 PM
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YouTubers can teach you more
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/23 09:10 PM
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Genders reversed the song is about a creepy loser
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:58 PM
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That's fine you disagree. I'll be honest I thought this was well established and considered common knowledge lol. Internet truly has all types of beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:33 AM
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If I understand what your question is properly I have two thoughts that may be helpful: There is a paradox in that men value women with a lower body count FOR A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. Meanwhile, men also have a biological bias to spread their seed far and wide... which increases the overall body count. You can debate with the man upstairs on that one. I would advise women to just be selective in who they open their legs to, which is the general sentiment. You may be putting two groups bundled i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:43 PM
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Everyone would love to have someone pay their bills. Modern women want traditional things but often are not traditional themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:17 PM
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Its completely true. No one will ever understand that like men do, just as men don't understand what it is like for women to go through pregnancy (the point is, gender differences). It sucks but all you can do is what you know to do: improve everything you can about yourself. Make money, physique, game. Everything depends on it.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 03:36 AM
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Thanks for the detailed response. I am invested now lol did you date again after? have you banged yet? please tell me yes by now.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 01:54 AM
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Curious can you speak more on the things that you've done to progress past first dates that aren't taught in RedPill ?
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 01:36 AM
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OP, this is it
/r/ExRedPill21/11/22 10:00 AM
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Its money well spent
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 04:32 AM
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Never be the one bringing up relationships, asking HER to be your girlfriend. If you do that there is no foundation set. She must come to you for that. Show she isn't your world. Show you are still going out to the bar with the boys or whatever, she will think you're still getting girls' attention and will want to lock you down at that point.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:14 AM
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This is the answer OP
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:02 PM
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What other tricks would he used that you now realize worked? asking for a friend... lol
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:11 PM
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I am 34 and these Tiktok hoes are a different breed man. Being sociopathic is sometimes just what they need to build attraction quickly towards you lol.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:10 PM
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Yea I think this type of thing runs really deep within. You have a self-deprecative tendency because of underlying issues, like a low self-esteem and perhaps traumas. This is something that runs deep. Step away for a bit from all of this dating, pickup, seduction, etc. and self-evaluate your self-esteem and focus on that. Focus on journaling, get on a bodybuilding regimen at the gym, meditating, go travel by yourself, do things you enjoy and explore your psyche and write down things you like abo…
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:46 AM
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Hey I'm down what's going on
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:04 AM
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Just work out you lazy fat fucks. Do it for yourself before anything else. Obviously women like a guy that takes care of himself, unless you want to go for whales. Use your common sense, quit making excuses.
/r/seduction13/06/21 01:30 AM
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I agree, in today's age of short attention spans there is nothing wrong with adding her on IG or something, forget about her and who knows what happens down the road.
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:13 PM
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It's hard because it could be one of a million things. She could be hung up on an ex, maybe she stalked your social media and saw something she didn't like, maybe her friend said your nose looks too big, women are crazy dependent on their feelings and friend's opinions and a whole host of things they don't take control over.
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:12 PM
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good work. practice on girls you're not attracted to, that was really effective for me
/r/seduction28/05/21 11:14 PM
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You're not a guy, I can tell lol that is not how it works unfortunately
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:42 PM
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Yes, I guess this is the only answer I can get. If it doesn't feel right, it's no use in pushing no matter what the underlying reason is, if she's not interested or available then the result is the same.
/r/seduction13/05/21 02:29 PM
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I would love to know. I have been assuming to everyone and they are just forcing themselves to "put themselves out there" because they are out of a Long-term relationship recently. Would be nice if I could just straight up ask lol but we can't do that in this song and dance called dating without looking weird.
/r/seduction13/05/21 02:28 PM
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This whole thread is making me actually not fap now. Wow. If you guys really think it'll improve things, I should try for even just a couple weeks and see if I am better.
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:32 AM
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I don't understand why.. because you are more horny so more sexual in your flirting?
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:29 AM
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amen to this
/r/seduction11/05/21 05:32 AM
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Yes I've been sending voice notes to girls one day before the date and they seem to be much less likely to flake. These are for girls from tinder or IG dms, so no physical contact yet. And that's just voice! So maybe I should do your method. I agree, it makes you human and build some trust that you're not a weirdo.
/r/seduction11/05/21 05:29 AM
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the takeaway here is to break up with your girl lol
/r/seduction11/05/21 02:21 AM
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Yes but even the people that aren't Mormon, it's crazy. It's the Latin culture tho, I tend to go for Latinas lol. I need to move somewhere, girls here have nothing to offer except kids and emotional baggage.
/r/seduction03/05/21 08:38 PM
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is the hot women per capita as high really as i imagine in Miami? perhaps I should move there lol
/r/seduction26/04/21 07:05 PM
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I love this!! Sorry for some of the negative comments here, they clearly misinterpreted something. This is seriously sound advice.
/r/seduction16/04/21 06:26 AM
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IMO, this advice is geared for in-person dates. Definitely don't try this over text or DMs that is way too much unless in person.
/r/seduction16/04/21 06:25 AM
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Agreed. The thing is, this concept is not exclusive to approaching and dating. In business, in everything, if you avoid all risk and rejection and failure.. success is impossible.
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:16 AM
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Women want a grown ass man. Not a puppy dog. If they wanted a puppy dog, they would go get one at the local animal shelter. Read Robert Glover's, No More Mr. Nice Guy everyone
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:49 PM
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Yea that might very well be it
/r/seduction31/03/21 04:30 AM
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"so recognize that and if you approach show through actions/words that you “chose” them" Could you elaborate more on this? Any details.
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:39 AM
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30 a week? well damn. I don't know if I even see 30 women a week that I even consider satisfactorily attractive. Then again it is Covid so I don't go out quite as often.
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:36 AM
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Indicator of Interest
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:32 AM
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So theoretically what could he do to reduce his intimidation factor in approaching so she doesn't suddenly "have a boyfriend" lol
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:32 AM
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I think I struggle with this too, and also am re-learning after a divorce. I'm not sure I'm necessarily handsome (maybe slightly above average) but I am just simply physically intimidating as a 6'1 220 lean bodybuilder body type. I'll approach after some IOI (which I question if I misread at times lol) and their eyes go wide and get very nervous. I try to be friendly and not excessively intimating. It's like on one hand, everywhere we are told men need to be confident and direct and go straight …
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:29 AM
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Well, when you put it like that. Lol touche
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:39 PM
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That's a good point, any hot girl's IG DM is a sausage fest.
/r/seduction07/03/21 08:51 PM
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