What is the consensus these days on Calling vs. Texting?

revente · 2021-06-08T01:42:00+00:00

If she invested in you by making out etc. you could call if you want to.

I wouldn't call before first date tho. These days girls hate dealing with unnecessary tension.

TerminatorReborn · 2021-06-07T22:29:15+00:00

I never call, even if we are dating for a long time. This is me tho, some people might like it

PiperBigBell · 2021-06-08T03:13:40+00:00

Texting. Calling requires too much scheduling and the possibility of playing phone tag which dries women up. Text for logistics only until you decide to take her seriously.

Therocksays2020 · 2021-06-07T22:28:13+00:00

I don’t think there is a consensus. It depends on the person. Some women hate talking on the phone so calling them obviously isn’t a good idea.

Also if as a man talking on the phone isn’t good for you. You should stick to your strengths

I do one or the other based on what works best for our chemistry and vibe

VanessaChaland · 2021-06-07T23:25:58+00:00

I've never sent a text in my life...and never will.

ThrowRA-bonsai · 2021-06-08T03:49:41+00:00

Calling and texting have separate utilities:

Texting is good for short exchanges throughout the day. She might be busy, or you might be busy, but you can still communicate in short bursts via text.

Phone calls are a good thing to do at the end of the night or on weekends. Most women love phone calls if they are genuinely interested in you.

Use both in their appropriate context if you want to develop a well-rounded bond with someone.

MisterShogunate · 2021-06-08T02:17:17+00:00

Most women nowadays never call, rarely text and usually message through some app because they are more interactive and less committed to the conversation.

I personally make calling as a "let's get this shit sorted out" button if communicating through text or sm is ineffective.

Agitated_Character41 · 2021-06-08T21:49:57+00:00

Ringing phones give me anxiety. If you wanna talj, lets meet up or fire up the Playstation.

Title	What is the consensus these days on Calling vs. Texting?
Author	ireallyloveoats
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	June 7, 2021 10:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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