Hi all,

I'd be interested to hear your views on this. I(M26) should have a date coming up soon with a girl(26) I met online. We live quite far away and have previously had a date where we met in a big city between where we live.

In conversations about the date, she's mentioned a couple of times that she will probably stay over. We've decide on a weekend but not an exact day yet, though she said something about staying over on a Friday.

I'd be interested to hear what I should do: should I also arrange to stay over on a Friday night and suggest we have dinner in the evening ahead of out day date on Saturday? Or should I book a place to stay over on Saturday night instead, and see if she'd like to spend that night with me?

I should add, our convos haven't been very sexual yet, mostly just flirty man-woman sort of thing. Any advice or insight would be appreciated.

Thanks