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Outer Game darkronin_95/r/seduction17/09/24 01:25 PM
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I think this is just for women
/r/seduction21/05/25 09:41 PM
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What questions would you have asked?
/r/seduction20/05/25 09:49 PM
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That “rob the place” makes a lotta sense now whenever people say try to make it fun. I understand now. Goal is to kinda have a tongue-in-cheek attitude and embrace the absurdities of life while also remembering to be sincere when expressing opinions.
/r/seduction19/05/25 04:09 PM
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Wow….this actually clarified a lotta stuff. There are times I do open up personally, but I see now that it only makes sense if it’s in relation to something she expressed or has been through. THEN there’s an opportunity for the two of us to connect on something. She doesn’t need me to figure out her life stuff. She just needs to feel like I understand where she’s coming from and can emotionally relate given similar experiences I’ve had. Or at the very least disclose how I would’ve felt had I bee…
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:03 PM
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Appreciate the in depth examples!
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:59 PM
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Ah so ask questions that allow her to give opinions. I see. Thanks a lot for clarifying.
/r/seduction19/05/25 10:42 AM
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I wasn’t panicked as much as I was confused. I didn’t feel like she was giving me much to work with so I didn’t know how to create tension. How do ya take those responses and build chemistry from that? I think based on these other comments on my question that I need to work on asking better questions that allow her to give opinions (without straight up asking “why” questions)
/r/seduction19/05/25 10:39 AM
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I see what you mean. Kinda like asking “Did ya feel like choosing A was the right move?” It’s about asking questions that challenge or inquires them to open up about how they interact with the world. But then couldn’t you argue that these kinda questions are too forward and deep? That the goal is to be more light-hearted and jokey?
/r/seduction19/05/25 04:33 AM
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Duly noted :)
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:11 AM
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Ok I see what ya mean now. Imma try this out next time. Appreciate it.
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:39 AM
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I see your point. And sometimes do ask the “how’d it make them feel” kinda questions or “what’d you think about it” Some girls are responsive. Most are closed off or seem uncomfortable answering those because it may get too personal too quick. I’ve even had a few girls jokingly reply with “Lol are you my therapist now”
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:36 AM
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Huh….never thought of it like that. Maybe I don’t need to unravel something interesting about her. Maybe I could just tailor the convo so we are discussing something interesting (whether it has to do with her or not).
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:34 AM
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But I was observational by asking about her tattoo. I was topical by acknowledging our similar career choices. I agree that it could be annoying for her if 100 dudes ask her the same thing. But like…..what other openers could I have….opened with? “Ya liking the music at this club?” “Hey whatcha drinkin over there?” I get it that it’s generic, but at the same time there’s no other way to approach and start a convo than by asking openers like these. Either that or I should never approach because h…
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:33 AM
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I see your logic. One example of our interaction was me complimenting one of her tattoos where I said “that looks ambitious and painful, why’d ya get that?” Her: “Just feelin spontaneous” Me: “Wait…that’s it? You sat through hours of pain out of spontaneity” (In a jokey way) Her: “Yup 😊” Me: “Sounds like ya got a high pain tolerance. What else are ya tolerating these days?” Her: “I don’t know lol…guess my job.” Me: “Whaddya do?” Her: “Biotech” Me: “Same! Why’d you get into it this industry?” Her…
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:58 AM
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I see what you mean. I always ask the basic questions and then ask a secondary, more intriguing question or give a comment. Just not sure how to follow up with “just feeling spontaneous” when that’s 90% of the answers. Like is she just playing with me or does she mean it? Either way, just not sure how to flirt with that. I could also just be overthinking it. But wanted to throw my question out there.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:52 AM
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I get that. And I’m not expecting her to be wifey material. How can I escalate (to anything) after those responses?
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:40 AM
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I’m not putting any blame on her. Just stating what I observed. What questions would you suggest?
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:39 AM
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Imma be saving this comment. Appreciate it!
/r/seduction02/03/25 01:18 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction02/03/25 01:13 PM
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Honestly it was for ego. Felt nice being seen dancing with a girl while others were dancing in groups.
/r/seduction02/03/25 01:42 AM
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Solid points. I used to think it’s egotistical to assume women are foolish for turning me down. It’s not like I’m that special. But then I remember back in the 90s when Samuel L Jackson called Tarantino out for not casting him in Reservoir Dogs and he said “oh you should’ve cast me, I woulda done a better job!” Tarantino was taken aback but loved the confidence which led Jackson to being in Pulp Fiction. And making movies together for the next 30 years. With how my mind works I like to word it t…
/r/seduction01/03/25 05:46 PM
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Please do! Always looking for wingmen to observe each other and give feedback or just help each other out
/r/seduction28/02/25 09:26 PM
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Couldn’t agree more. But I live in Boston. Not many people in their 20s/30s out here who are into seduction like in NY, Miami, etc. But I have made few friends for other areas of life from work, volleyball, social meetups, etc. Grateful for that.
/r/seduction28/02/25 06:28 PM
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No worries!
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:58 PM
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Thanks, I think I really needed to read your comment 🙂 I do look back at all the harsh rejections and criticisms I’ve received from women regarding what I seek in relationships. And I think I’ve internalized all that into believing that I am a “sex-crazed, entitled weirdo” because of my desire for open relationships. But you’re right. It’s better to accept myself for who I am, what I desire and to embrace it unapologetically. And to have faith that eventually I will meet more women who seek the …
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:44 PM
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I’m not judging people for how they choose to live their life. I respect women’s right to choose whoever they want to be with for whatever reason. I’m using terms such as liberal and conservative just to paint a picture of my perception that it seems like a lot of girls are more comfortable with becoming non-monogamous after they’ve entered a monogamous relationship with a guy who claims to only be seeking monogamy, only for the guy to then plant those seeds of “open relationship” and “kinks” la…
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:35 PM
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So I have clarity in that I want to be in a long-term romantic relationship that is open so she and I can have fwbs with others if we so wish. I guess I’m concerned that, looking back at my 20s, being up front about this has deterred a lot of potential connections. And that the reality is there are a lot of women who would be open to this type of premise, but ya can’t just say that’s what you’re looking for. You have to start off together with the mindset of being monogamous and then slowly plan…
/r/seduction09/02/25 08:11 PM
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If I do you’re an integral part of that. Thank you :)
/r/seduction09/02/25 04:31 PM
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Lotta solid bullet points. Couldn’t agree more with all of them. I’m the same way where in the beginning where I used to get hung up on getting left on read or confused as to why she said yes to dinner and gave me her number only for her to ghost me. Now I don’t have any expectations regardless of what is said. I anticipate but not assume. The rejections/ghostings/negative remarks like “eew go away” or coldly waving her hands to go away when I approach has all left me with depression and anxiety…
/r/seduction09/02/25 03:55 PM
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This phrase always helps me with my anxiety: Failure isn’t getting rejected. Failure is not trying. If you tried, then you didn’t fail. You had an outcome. Learn whether it’s you or them and then course correct.
/r/seduction31/01/25 01:14 PM
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Improv teaches you how to think on your feet, adapt to changing circumstances and (more importantly) be funny. You don’t care about looking cool. You care about saying something witty or hilarious and you are limited to what you can say based on the topic you’ve been given. Learning to speak humorously on the fly is way more attractive than simply coming off cool and aloof.
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:07 PM
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Oof I needed this scene reminder. Thank you
/r/seduction09/01/25 06:20 AM
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The main issue with approach imo is not getting feedback on why that approach may not have worked. Was it actually something I did? Or is that just how she is? That and getting rejected instantaneously. Not even getting the chance for her to get to know you for a lil bit. It feels like there truly is no “right” way to approach and at the end of the day it’s a numbers game. Theoretically speaking you could behave however you want and EVENTUALLY you’ll meet a girl who’ll be receptive to that. You …
/r/seduction08/01/25 12:08 AM
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Ah hey! Been following your channel for years. Appreciate the vids 🔥
/r/seduction30/11/24 08:56 AM
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Just followed ya on insta. Already lovin your latest post
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:45 PM
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YouTube videos are helpful but I really am seeking a mentor/coach or a community to learn with. Same way I hire a personal trainer to get me in the gym 2x a week
/r/seduction29/11/24 09:10 PM
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Dude, I’d welcome your guidance if you’re ever in Boston. I got the confidence down. Just need solid feedback and how to fine tune going from conversational to flirty.
/r/seduction20/10/24 09:55 PM
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It doesn’t matter. Even if I am the only guy the best way to response is be chill, fun and allow yourself to enjoy learning the dance.
/r/seduction09/10/24 02:12 AM
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Sounds like bachata/salsa is the winner! Thanks 🙏
/r/seduction09/10/24 02:11 AM
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I see what ya mean. My music tastes go all over the place but being able to dance well with a cute girl to “hips don’t lie” would be pretty sweet. Seems like Salsa might be the winner.
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:34 PM
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I’m in Boston which does have a prominent swing scene. I’m also a brown guy with long hair so figured learning salsa will build upon that Havana fantasy women might affiliate with me.
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:32 PM
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Sorry, I forgot my wallet but thanks! I had a good time.
/r/seduction28/09/24 07:31 PM
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Guess it just feels hard cuz locking eye contact with someone means you stare at them long enough to finally glance your way. But I’ve never had a girl stare back and maintain eye contact long enough to tell they’re interested in me. If there is that moment that our eyes meet I’ll give a quick nod to let em know I’m acknowledging them. But like then they just keep smiling and look elsewhere. And that’s it. Did they actually see me? Were they just looking behind me or near me? Then there’s just s…
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:34 PM
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Is it? I smile at everyone and am chill but it just seems like all of em purposely choose to pretend I don’t exist. Even when I’m standing right in front of em. Of course within the first 30 sec I pick up on that lack of interest and move on. But it just seems impossible to generate that interest. Like they really have to be into me from immediately looking at me AND still be enthusiastically open to that after already being approached by all the guys that night.
/r/seduction18/09/24 03:04 AM
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28M totally down. Hittin up BNL this Sat if you’re comin out.
/r/seduction23/08/24 03:29 AM
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Hit the nail on #1 Biggest struggle sometimes is just navigating through a lotta bs generic advice to find the real nuggets of knowledge that is both practical AND applicable.
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:45 AM
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I could REALLY use a wingman if any y’all are out in Boston.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:40 PM
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Nah I think I needed to read this. It’s like going to the gym. Some days I’m gonna feel motivated and other days I’m gonna feel exhausted. Either way I still gotta show up and put in the work.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:40 PM
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This is the mantra I need. Thank you. Just tryna take it one approach at a time and not overthink.
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:39 PM
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Yeah you’re right. It’s just too many instant rejections that have left me feeling hopeless. Like those cold shoulders and blatantly ignoring you saying hi to them in like the first 10 secs even though she did see you approach her. Or even the group of girls where I talk to one and she responds but then turns her back to ya immediately. At that point what else can I do in that first min then take the hint and leave? It’s just happened so many times that it’s starting to fuck with my mind and I’m…
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:37 PM
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Honestly I don’t really know how to create my own openers other than the generic stuff ya see online. I’ve basically just approached by complimenting her tattoo or outfit. Or even asking what kinda drink she’s got or about the music and if she’s a TSwift fan and trying to get her to do most of the talking. But it always seems like 95% of the women straight up ignore my existence. They’ll give the cold shoulder or respond but then turn their back to the group immediately. What can I do at the poi…
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:32 PM
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My approaches have typically been commenting on a girl’s tattoo or her outfit. Or saying something playful like “how wild’s your day been so far?” And that’s if they actually respond instead of purely giving me the cold shoulder and looking elsewhere, pretending like I’m not standing right next to her, facing her and talking. Obvi after 10 sec of that I accept and move on. But it’s that instant ignoring or lack of any interest that seems to happen to like 95% of the women I approach. I guess I c…
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:27 PM
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Just moved to Boston so don’t know anyone yet. Any y’all wanna tag along feel free to message me 🤙
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:21 PM
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How long do ya reckon? Guess I’m just scared of losing that momentum and ease of simply putting myself out there.
/r/seduction31/03/24 02:50 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction02/04/22 05:09 AM
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Working on it. I lose momentum if I just start like that, so I’m building myself up to 2-3 times this April. And then more in the following months
/r/seduction02/04/22 04:58 AM
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