What dance should I learn?

NiceGuysDatingCoach · 2024-10-05T13:10:02+00:00

Both are pretty hard, compared to bachata. Salsa will be a bit easier than west coast swing though. Generally, I would suggest picking the dance where you like the music better.

Glum_Butterfly_4824 · 2024-10-05T14:11:38+00:00

Hey, I just found this sub, and I'm absolutely not great at the seduction side of things, but I have been dancing for about 6 years in a few different styles.

What you choose will depend on what you're looking for. Trying out free lessons is a great way to get a feel for the different communities in your area.

Personally, I think bachata and maybe a bit of salsa will take you through, basically, any song with even inexperienced partners. It's great for clubbing, or generally dancing with anyone.

I prefer swing, but it's a bit harder to use when the other person doesn't know the steps.

The good thing is that skills are very transferable, and things you learn from one style can help you become a better dancer even with a different style.

Also, once you become a strong, confident lead, follows will line up to ask you to dance everywhere you go. Use that however you will.

Anonymous-Man-2024 · 2024-10-05T14:58:06+00:00

Basic Salsa is pretty easy when you get the rhythm.

People say its very difficult because people are not used to polyrhythms in dance music. 4/4 Rhythm has no pauses.
Modern western music is 1-2-3-4 so its much easier to dance on the beat.

Salsa is basically 1-2-3-4 -5-6-7-8.

When you dance you count 1-2-3 pause then 5-6-7 pause.
Best 4 and 8 are pauses.

1-2-3 pause is go forward and 5-6-7 pause is where you step back.
I am not an expert but I do street dance reasonably well.

If you practice counting out the rhythm before you go youll pick it up quickly.

Once you get the rhythm you can pretty much do what you like once you always do 1-2-3, P ,5-6-7, P

Several_Ad_8363 · 2024-10-05T15:10:46+00:00

The seduction dance in Walkabout obviously.

ColdApproachCoach · 2024-10-05T20:46:30+00:00

Bachata or Salsa but learning to dance is just an option not an obligation to get laid.

mychemiicalromance · 2024-10-05T21:19:50+00:00

The salmon dance - Chemical Brothers

TimelyDab · 2024-10-05T13:03:31+00:00

I’ve been really enjoying my salsa lessons. Everyone is very nice in the classes and socials I have been to and the first real social I went to I had a gorgeous woman pull up on ME asking to dance so there’s definitely some good opportunities there. You’ll also probably end up learning some bachata too which can be very sensual and fun.

I’m not 100% but I’m relatively sure it’s larger than the swing scene but I guess that might depend on where you are

Trip_seize · 2024-10-05T13:09:44+00:00

The lambada. AINEC

Title	What dance should I learn?
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Date	October 5, 2024 12:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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