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Yeah, but I only asked for her IG (should've asked for number in hindsight I guess).
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:19 AM
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Sorry for all the questions but is it okay to wait till the next time I see her to do it again even if it may be a couple weeks?
/r/seduction13/02/20 03:14 AM
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Like should I just DM her to ask then if thats the case or wait however long it takes for me to see her again (if that ever even happens lol)?
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:43 AM
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Is it okay if I only see her like once every two weeks maybe if it’s just by pure chance? So i wait like 2 months before trying to ask her out?
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:35 AM
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Why not? What do you think I should do?
/r/seduction12/02/20 09:42 PM
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So you just start “random” convos over text even if you’ve only seen them once? Or do you wait until you see them again then start a convo?
/r/seduction12/02/20 07:34 PM
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Like should I just DM her again? I've DMed her before (recently) but the convo died out with something like "ill see you soon." What could/should I say?
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:27 PM
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Are there places where we could read more about the types of tests and good responses?
/r/seduction06/02/20 08:18 PM
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Also the age that most people complain are arguably the younger ages where women have more SMV. More women complain about commitment because they chase guys with higher SMV but they have no reason to stay.
/r/seduction04/02/20 01:58 AM
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Nah it’s all good, I get it. It is hard, but definitely get on Leetcode and just literally apply to everything you can find whether you think you’re qualified or not.
/r/seduction02/02/20 03:45 AM
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Thanks! Also, the grass is always greener haha. Like I’ve been working to regain social skills I never learned before. I had a hard time making friends in college because I was always grinding but I can feel myself improving now. I don’t wanna say I dedicated my whole life to my career, since I’m still only 22, but it was definitely the priority up until like half a year ago (when I got my current job offer). My offer now pays me ~400k first year (inc signing bonus though) and I would be on pace…
/r/seduction02/02/20 03:22 AM
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This isn't all true for everyone though. I'll just comment because I feel like job-hunting is somewhere where I can give some perspective. To give some background, I'm here because I feel like I've put in so much work into trying to better myself but haven't really had any dating/relationship experience before. Admittedly, I was too scared to try until a few months ago, but I've started putting in a lot of self improvement efforts in and am starting to gain more confidence as I see that people n…
/r/seduction02/02/20 12:10 AM
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I would say im friendly/chatty. Sent you a dm
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:36 AM
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What's wrong with sneakers? I wear CPs and love them and get compliments on them all the time.
/r/seduction30/01/20 12:42 AM
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Like?
/r/seduction29/01/20 05:11 PM
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Idk I just haven’t done it before. Maybe you’re right though. I guess I have nothing to lose by asking if it’s going well.
/r/seduction27/01/20 10:27 PM
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What if I'm willing to do it but I'm awkward and nervous lol and it always seems like I never know what to say. The other night I was drunk (think >8 drinks) and I walked up to girls like nothing and all my problems seemed to go away (maybe I looked like an idiot though I don't really remember haha), but when I'm sober even if I want to it's hard.
/r/seduction27/01/20 07:02 AM
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What do you mean by "make it clear that the next time you only to spend time with her?" Like next time how do I word it. Say we hang out again and it goes well as a group and we talk for a bit but obviously in a group I can't try to make a move. Next morning what can I say?
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:43 AM
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Yeah so at that point can you assume she's not interested if she takes a day or more to respond? Also she suggested we hang out in a group setting when I feel like it was pretty obvious I meant 1:1.
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:41 AM
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She didn't directly reject me when I said I had fun and asked if she wanted to hang out soon, but she said she had fun too but suggested an event in a group setting (I personally thought it was obvious enough I meant 1:1). Does that mean she isn't interested? Thats why I asked about timing too because she usually takes a day or so to respond (hasn't responded to my last msg).
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:27 AM
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I mean like if you’ve already met them on person first.
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:17 AM
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I mean you’re not wrong about those things but I more of meant if you’ve met them at a party or something in person first. Does what you said still apply then?
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:16 AM
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Yeah
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:15 AM
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Not OP, but as a follow up, how would you recommend escalating touch?
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:08 AM
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Do you think we'll still benefit from it if we're god awful at the moment (like literally 0 experience)?
/r/seduction27/01/20 02:32 AM
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In this case, what do you mean by "make a move?" Is this just asking her out?
/r/seduction27/01/20 01:53 AM
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