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Coincidentally I saw a picture of her on instagram last night after reading this. There were plenty of "you go grrls" but I was pleased to see the comments had a very equal representation of men and women calling her out for her own "lack of commitment" (she had like 15 dudes tagged in the photo).
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 07:40 PM
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Thanks for posting -- fairly poignant for me this weekend. Went out on Saturday for Halloween shenanigans. Ended the night at a small gathering. Was tired but hung out longer than I wanted and a small group that included a girl I ghosted in August showed up. Her heart sunk when she saw me and she hid behind her friend (there were only 8 of us). I felt bad for her obvious pain. Long story short, I didn't react and left not a hell of a lot longer later -- she texts me "I can't believe you pretende…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 05:03 AM
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I thought I was low-T because I've been low mood and had some performance anxiety related issues in the bedroom through the summer. Went through WellnessFX and got the Performance Package. It was a pretty thorough panel. My brother took the same test before me and had seriously low T (same as a 60 year old male) and elevated DHEA (possibly implying an endocrine issue not converting precursors correctly). I was healthy everything except a few biomarkers being slightly high or low (the worst being…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:26 AM
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Fear or Shame are usually at the root of that hatred. Speaking for myself at least. And none of us tend to naturally admit to those two feelings. Once I started allowing myself to admit that (that I was ashamed of myself), I started looking at the Chads like potentially the best allies you could have. The old reflexive limbic brain 'ping' to do a "threat assessment" when I see men that give off those visual cues (height/strength/appearance, overt confidence, etc) still happens sometimes, but wit…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 04:56 PM
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pretty mild anecdotes from the speech, but it was enough for me to respect his character. I should have realized by putting "how he got his wife" in the title it wasn't going to fly
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:21 PM
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Ahh, I can't help but feel some sympathy for people with controlling parents; Usually because those parents are psychos. That's cool that she snuck out to see you though. Have fun.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 06:21 PM
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How'd that go? And her name is fucking Tiffany FFS, lol. Hopefully siege.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:19 PM
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She let me rub my dick on her pussy, so honestly im debating just sticking it in aswell. hahaha. Just jam it in there dude, stop fucking around with all this horseshit you're playing in your head. You sprinkled too many fucking details for us to know that you're overthinking this. Fuck her words and this shit with the other guy. Are you trying to marry this girl? No. You're trying to get a nut so you can officially drop that V-card. Put it in her. Get your two to 3 pumps. Prematurely ejaculate a…
/r/askTRP18/03/17 02:37 AM
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to the OP, as an attempt to reiterate something I don't think people are explaining to you with their disagreements: Casey does have qualities that influence sexual attraction (as you correctly describe) but that doesn't necessarily equate to being "Red Pill" (which is more about conscious awareness of the underpinnings of a biomechanical reality than it is about specific qualities of lifestyle or character). You're mixing correlation with causation and that is why everyone here is disagreeing w…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 02:25 AM
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Wouldn't disagree with you on any of that. I started out doing some of that freelancer work myself when I was first learning and the bottom of the pyramid on any platform is a vast race-to-the-bottom.. Of course the minority is exceptionally committed and command monetary compensation to match. My team helps brick-and-mortar businesses by supporting a high quality online presence (systems for sales & inventory synchronization, social media management and ad campaigns, etc). I would have been loo…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 04:29 PM
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PM inbound -- do you do contract work? All that "wasted time" seems to have given you some respectable (and valuable) animation skills.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:51 PM
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"You know, the photos were false but thats not why Im leaving. For all you know, I like big women. Know what I dont like? Dishonest women" Wow, what a perfect response to such a common online dating issue -- I've had that happen 3 times -- they use high school era photos and show up chunked out. Just spent the half hour chatting and then making my break -- never occurred to just call them out for being dishonest.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 03:13 PM
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noticing old stuff sneak back in i.e, for me its IOIs becoming a handicap: Blindspots can evolve over time and sneak back in after you think you've gotten rid of them -- I've recently noticed that I've let IOIs become a handicap: an excuse not to approach until I see one. After years in the game, I can "passively" generate attraction much more easily with my body language, positive energy and health, so I've unconsciously gotten used to looking for those female glances and gazes for the invitati…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 01:33 PM
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Seconded, nice fucking job being willing to keep getting blown out and have fun. That's some iron fortitude that many of your skinnier brethren can't commit to. Get ripped now.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 05:47 AM
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Try starting an upwork or peopleperhour account. Get your LinkedIn on point. Here's the very basic formula: work for cheap (or free), do a good job and get reputation (reputation on these sites is literally a score, in real life, reputation matters just as much but is more abstractly measured). Prove that you can do a good job then jack your rates to what you deserve. When I was freelancing, I wrote 10 content articles for dirt cheap ($10 each), for articles that were well researched and 1500-20…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 10:33 AM
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bummer of a conclusion to that story. And poignant because I have a friend I want to help get off the crazy train to destruction. This guy locked in downward spiral with his LTR that I just distanced from but have had a nagging desire to intervene before he really buries himself fully in shit (he's neck deep as it is). I could write a very long post about his decline over the last 2 years but I'll keep it brief: High SMV "natural". NEVER was in an LTR, just strung together ONS and very short ter…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:57 PM
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Cliches exist because they're usually true. Its an invaluable point of maturity when a man becomes self-aware enough that he is willing to experience mistakes and embrace the pains of awareness, aka: taking responsibility. All of us will keep walking face first into a wall here and there through life, its a supreme power to feel the embarrassment, regret, anger, shame or whatever other experience results as the "cruel master" that will transform your bad habits and inclinations into disciplined …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 09:27 PM
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she pretty much starts fishing and seeing if someone will bite. Spot on -- hormones + temporary loneliness.. Can't say how many times this has happened with plates I've let fade. The "shocking" part (not really) when they come out of the blue like that is how fast they will go from "hot" to "cold" as they find the cock/validation they seek. One day they actually seem to be chasing you, 24 hours later you're getting one-word replies or non-responses. The Gods of Biodynamics care not. Thankfully i…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 08:49 PM
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I can understand where the heart of your question is coming from. When you lack confidence, self-esteem, and experience, you don't feel right when you fake it. You're trying to present yourself as you would like to really feel and you know that you're not congruent. You have to accept 3 things: 1) your mind and body are one neurological system (brain in unison with layers of nervous systems); you could say mind-body, or body-mind (as indeed certain fields of science are now doing with realms lik…
/r/askTRP05/03/17 07:15 AM
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Its an interesting question. I'm in a similar position. Financially independent, succeeding at my main source of income (self-employed) and creating another now. I'm somewhere in top 20%, if I was in better shape that would go up into top 10%. My brother and I are on a similar level and going through a self-isolation phase. We hang out with each other but have slowly cut out the older circle. Haven't met anyone that is working on the same thing (fitness, entrepreneurship, enjoyment of the non-mo…
/r/askTRP05/03/17 06:43 AM
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Yep. The correlate in sales is, "when the customer complains about the price, it's never the price"... Amateur salespeople will respond to this 'lazy bluff' by dropping the price to the lowest possible value and still not make the sale. The expert realizes 'price' is a complaint, not a true objection and they have the responsibility to uncover the true objection between the buyer and them agreeing to exchange their money for the service/product. In short, it definitely had nothing to do with the…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 12:48 AM
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Is this not a prime example of a modern infantacide or am Being crazy here? No I'd say that's a fair connection. That's a classic theme amongst "step parent" stories, so much so that they've turned them into fairy tales in our culture. On a personal note, one of the reasons I mentioned the "uncles raising their nephews" thing was because my parents were mediocre and my dad was there but an absent alcoholic. My moms brothers were cool and I would have been a far more balanced, masculine man if th…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:04 PM
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Do something that requires masculine fortitude alone: a long distance hike for example (the appalachian trail). You will change. You need time to rewire everything because you're in a self-admitted scarcity mindset: you take things as a threat and get anxious automatically at your lack of wit. This is a viscious feedback loop. At first just practice mock laughing or smiling more, no witty crackbacks, no jokes...just show you can take it without getting butthurt. As you start un-wiring the trigge…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:43 AM
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Sweat is good. Use baking soda for odor and keep sweating. Where do you live? In the humid southeast? I understand though, some people sweat like mad and soak their shirts. I'd try to work around it and own it though but that's just my inclination.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:36 AM
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Tough love man, this is a nuclear red flag and is unacceptable to any man of self-worth. My guess is she is 'hot' and has already emasculated you because of the way you've acted with her, permitting her shit ("making you buy her stuff" c'mon, take some responsibility here) in exchange for pussy. Everyone else has beat it do death on the options you have and hopefully you've executed. All I wanted to add is, read the ASKTRP sideboard on "Identify and avoid BPD women pt 1 pt 2" . You have one of t…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:31 AM
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Me neither. I'd say I'm higher level of intermediate. I just am not a PUA coach either so I'm not necessarily looking to train some quasimodo how to not be a creep either, if you get what I'm saying. Men who value themselves and are positive are good starting points even if your game isn't that good yet.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:07 AM
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This is completely normal. She caught feelings for you. Very common after keeping a plate for a few months. You did nothing wrong. Learn to not let it creep you out, instead be a little empathetic. Pat her head and remind her that she agreed to non-exclusivity. She'll get over it in a few weeks. I remember the first time I was "thrown off" by one of my first true plates confessing how much drama she was going through when I had barely invested any time-energy and went long periods on occasion no…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:00 AM
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Yeah, she's running female game on you (shit-tests and attempts to arouse some kind of drama/investment because it seems like you're doing the right thing and projecting IDGAF, higher SMV, abundance behavior). From everything you've shared you have handled this fairly well but I'm going to take a stab in the dark based off a hunch: that you don't really want to work hard enough for another plate so you're wondering if you should deal with this petty drama...I think your instincts want to just NE…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:45 AM
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I'm in the same place but have no desire to rebuild the old. They're not "dead", they're still there if ever I should care for a night of just chilling with the old crew. Now I have no choice but to "find the others". "You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with". For me that is looking like signing up for entrepreneurial groups in my area like the Chamber of Commerce and some meetups. I would love to meet some sharks in New England that want to make some kind of business an…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:37 AM
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If no or unsure you probably first need to demonstrate value by showing what a social monster you are. My first instinct was in the same vein: Presuming you have a robust and active social life (if not, you do now, get to work) its easy enough to just toss her invites nonchalantly without worrying about if she can go or not -- Her loss if she can't make it to a great time with you and your friends -- get into the practice of creating cool stuff for your group to do and tossing out those invites …
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:27 AM
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Long-time biological and cultural anthropology nerd, as well as big time interest in primatology: I'm going to focus on keeping this really abbreviated because I could go on a lot of long tangents but, as to your core question: If not what is the most natural social unit to have? Short answer, yes: there are a lot of other arrangements historically and currently in various indigenous and traditional cultures. Many of the more functional ones still have issues with jealousy but also have means of…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:03 AM
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My nephew's an ace mechanic and just turned 21. I have been wanting him to go into business for himself and let me run his social media and marketing to help him blow up in the local area. Reason I mention it is because I'm constantly thinking of side-hustles and quick projects that can make me cash in addition to my main income stream. I've read about more than a few guys who were able to fix up beaters for next to nothing and just sell them. They never had to pay for cars again as another bene…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 04:39 AM
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Check out Stephen Porges - Polyvagal Theory on Youtube and see if you can dig up some of his work in that specific area. I recall him talking about helping autism spectrum people with tinnitus and auditory sensitivity. His work focus around the Autonomic Nervous System. A curious fact of the autonomous system is the most modern part of it, in social mammals, has a "myelineated" branch to all the facial nerves, the vocal nerves and the auditory nerves in the ear...basically everything that social…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 04:24 AM
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beta boss: "you hurt her feelings and need to apologize" You: "I can understand how she might have felt like I was being rude, that was not my intention so I will make sure to clear this up, thank you" [leave]... You to chubby woman: "Excuse me [chubbygirl], I just wanted to make a point to let you know that I understand you felt [patronized/offended/hurtfeelz/whatever]. That was not my intention. I was trying to make a point about why we have a policy in practice without being too serious. You …
/r/askTRP03/03/17 01:43 AM
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Even if you have no fireteam, no small group of men to trust in and help each other stay on purpose, you have your ancestors, a spiritual fireteam, whom you need to fucking honor. Got much enjoyment out of calling that concept your "spiritual fireteam". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQekqWha7fg ...lo, there do I see the line of my people, back to the beginning... I actually do this when I go out: Remind myself that I'm at the razor edge of a multi-billion year chain of organisms that survived …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 12:12 AM
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All of my instincts told me to act how I always act toward the opposite sex but I stayed committed & I had the night of my life, let me tell you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKUvKE3bQlY ;)
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:47 PM
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No disrespect to OP but no one has said anything about something that seems obvious to me: Lately I have been talking to this acquaintance about our respective situation in life; I've been chatting with her for years on and off. Let's call her K. I tried talking to him directly, out of curiosity to check his side of the story, to no avail). This just reeks of problem-solving beta orbiter behavior. You say she's hot but crazy. This stinks of covert Cap'n-Save-a-Hoe. Again, not trying to tear you …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:39 PM
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I particularly enjoyed (all of it) the part where she describes the friend coming to get his stuff and basically holds frame and dresses her down with his words (emphasis mine): [the friend] told me that he would eventually come to get the rest of his things but wouldn't tell me anything else You gotta know she is trying to chisel away desperately for any information she can get and the guy is stonewalling her. He said I've done enough damage and that he's ashamed that I thought I would ever end…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:04 PM
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I understand stoic but to me stoic can also be interpreted as butthurt. How many women have you actually walked out on where you decided "hmm, I think I looked really butthurt there"? If zero, then why are you worrying about it? If greater than zero, you choose your frame and you go. Obsessing over how you are being perceived reeks of codependent behavior
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:55 PM
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I'm just amazed at how rare it is "to see that behavior in the wild" (ok, so its really just randos on the internet). I have a friend who was in the same situation and agreed to the "open relationship"...of which he stayed sexless beta provider and she whored around to her whimsy.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:36 PM
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I'll check those out. I got the concept of "social circle game" from Luke but don't really watch his material.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:05 PM
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Is there anyone here that has successfully adapted to going out solo when they were never comfortable with it in the first place? For the sake of context and at the risk of being dismissed for the brag: I'm in the top 20% of men...it may be the lowest percentile of that top 20%, esp. compared to my potential for growth and the men that I look up to and admire -- but my awareness of my comparative value takes all aspects of my life into consideration (looks, finances, game, experience, knowledge,…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 05:33 AM
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Just listened to Chase Jarvis interviewing Ramit Sethi over this exact subject and Ramit's answer was the same: don't rely on motivation, create systems that just get the result you want. Whether its fitness, business, social life, etc; create the blueprint patterns that you need to just repeat and get used to repeating them. There is no glamor in this.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 05:05 AM
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Think I recall watching a couple good talks on youtube from the folks at "Wrong Planet" on how to "act more neurotypical" or understand how "neurotypicals" react to various facial expressions, etc. the TED talks have several different lectures on aspects of body language (like seduction, confidence, etc). Watch PUA guys that have success with a more "low energy" approach like James from The Natural Lifestyle (I think that's his company name...). Now to practice, start working out with good form …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:59 AM
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Yes. You have to be willing to be depressed while you do the boring, unglamorous day-to-day little habits that will grow a new, non-depressed nervous system and let the old depressed patterns die and be replaced. You will need to work on a clean, anti-inflammatory, nutrient-dense diet (eliminate the bullshit: junk food, added sugars, processed bs; then start plugging in the good shit: colorful vegetables and dark leafy greens, clean animal foods, probiotic-rich/fermented foods, supplement where …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:46 AM
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In english the expression is, "You can lead a horse to water but you can't force them to drink". You should not force your knowledge on your friends. Just like you would not force medicine on them. They will not accept it. They are human though and that means they will have problems: the best time for you to slip in a little red pill is when they are complaining about issues with women or other people. If they are looking to solve their own issues you will have an opening. Just don't go overboar…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:36 AM
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hit ctrl+alt+delete on your current life pattern that created this mess you're in and reboot -- best way IMO is to travel (you can do this with very little to no money)...check out WWOOF, learn about thru-hiking, check out sites that specialize in adventure-service-work, is "couchsurfing" still an active site? Get outside of the framework that grew this shitty version of yourself. The people, the habits, the places. This isn't absolutely necessary but you should start seeking discomfort and push…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:31 AM
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"emptiness dancing" or "the end of your world" by Adyashanti.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:18 AM
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contrasting "comfort tests" with "shit tests" is a notable distinction: the direct line of thinking that provokes is an awareness of your women's menstruation cycle, as discussed by many of the best TRP writers and highlighted in scientific research: That they are more prone to seeking the Chad in the 2 weeks approaching their period, and more sensitive to "caregiver/beta" characteristics in the 2 weeks following their period.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:12 AM
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I feel you brother -- when I started getting good at game and getting over the oneitis, I was very quick to pick up and drop plates. I also have a very natural blend of sweetness and selfishness that women are quickly hooked on. It hurt me to hurt them and feel like a total asshole. I can only say I got over this through time and realizing they were much more fickle and cavalier than me. I embraced selfishness as an ideal for health and effectiveness at getting shit done. I don't have an answer …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:07 AM
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love the "right now" and "with you" hack. That's huge and is a succinct way of saying what I wanted to say to this guy: That their emotions are fleeting and mercurial...they have nothing to do with you and there is nothing you can do about them (unless you're codependent and wish to live a dysfunctional lifestyle with an earlier death rate than non-codependent people).
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:02 AM
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pay for an erotic massage and relax then get a hooker and lose the V-card so you can get over it. do deep breathing and learn about your autonomic nervous system (parasympathetic vs. sympathetic) and how each half affects a different aspect of sexuality (the "fight-flight-freeze" sympathetic half is actually responsible for orgasm/ejaculation, while the "rest-digest-recover-create" parasympathetic side is actually responsible for arousal). The most direct way of changing from sympathetic-dominan…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:57 AM
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try meetup.com and join groups in your area based on interests/activities. There may be similar professional social organizations like this that will benefit you in more than just one way (Like "Toastmasters" for example). Something I'm just starting to try to focus on is looking at the females I meet as potential "recruits" for my social circle. It helps you maintain "outcome independence" which makes you more attractive as you aren't explicitly/single-mindedly poon-hounding them. The social pr…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:53 AM
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Upvoted. You must accept that this is now a lifestyle choice not a point A-to-point B one-and-done thing. I'm on that journey with you. Never been disciplined about getting ripped (always been disciplined about my diet and being active daily, but never consistent with real, high-performance training). I always started and stopped. It must become an engrained habit, that takes the cognitive load off your brain.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:42 AM
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There is one simple thing that people who ask this question never seem aware of or acknowledge: Your attitude and beliefs change your appearance On mere body language level, I can look at you and see your slouchy, soft-bodied, shifty eyed, timid slithery body and know within a nano-second that you are a fucking loser mentally speaking. You will also look 'repulsive' to me because instinctually I know you don't have value to offer. You might garner pity or sympathy but you certainly won't seem "a…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:34 AM
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Real Adventures. Young men need unstructured adventure that requires they focus on the moment at hand and work with the elements and people they encounter. These experiences will give you the space to explore what motivates you, what satisfies you, what you are predisposed to for skills and curiosity, finding ways you can help people. Zig Ziglar said, "You can have anything in the world that you want, if you will only help enough other people in the world get what they want. Adventures: boating/…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:17 AM
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its definitely a shit test. amused mastery lets you use u/breathofdick 's line without hesitation -- just a plain ol' "oh, cool" IDGAF response. You're a badass that can lose this girl and replace her in a heartbeat right? If not, better start acting like it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:07 AM
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I've engaged this question under the influence of psilocybin mushrooms and during years of personal meditation practice. The shamans and zen masters of old had a saying, to "die before you die". I will go into some detail about my experience with how this takes place. There are 2 halves to that equation : Cognitive and Physiological (emotional). Cognitive: Realize the body has created a persistent 'ego-sense' for survival ("I put the food in my mouth when I feel hunger"); it is a very perceptibl…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 10:03 PM
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Bro I feel you. Good that you are approaching the problem from a biological perspective but there's gotta be something deeper too. I've been working on my partial-ED from all fronts but I'm prepared for the slow-haul (its inconsistent but persistent enough to be affecting my sex life and confidence when I go out). For me it seems to be some deep-rooted shame that hasn't let go yet so I'm trying to take the approach of "owning it": in private and with women I'm just practicing being able to admit…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:56 PM
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How about you don't remove your ego and you let it go along for the ride like an annoying little brother: What if you observe it and start calling it out before someone else can? Outcome independence is something you can cultivate by owning your perceived weaknesses: I remember the hilarious insight (learned from the Authentic Man Program) that I could actually declare my insecurities as an approach (because women know how you're feeling whether you say it or not) -- ex, "Hey I'm [name], I'm jus…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:27 PM
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Yes. I have to give heavy credit to mushrooms. Never had to use them that many times. They will dig up your junk and expose your blindspots. MAPS (an organization pioneering scientific research into consciousness-changing compounds) has shown that psilocybin actually grows new connections in the brain. Very important to find the right setting where you can feel safe and secure (and a good "sitter" perhaps). I always found a sunny day in nature where I could avoid people altogether worked best fo…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:18 PM
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What do you do for work? I'm in a similar place but I'm self-employed. I'm looking into joining the chamber of commerce and some entrepreneur-focused meetups because I also find the night-life doesn't fit in very well (I'm still making the effort to get out once every few weeks or so though) and I don't drink.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 05:16 AM
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First, with negative thought-emotion loops, do not underestimate the truth of this expression, "What you Resist, Persists". I'm going to come back to this in a moment with a way to apply it in a meditation exercise. I assume you are relatively new (less than 6 months?) to TRP. First, be patient with yourself: frustration at lack of progress is only successful at generating stress hormones. If you feel frustration or anger, let it be a sign you need to do deep breathwork, meaningful exercise, or …
/r/askTRP01/03/17 04:31 AM
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One thing's for certain, you should definitely not feel insecure about the noise on her behalf. You can be responsive to her but don't try to preemptively take care of her needs (definition of beta behavior). Insecurity in general is going to kill attraction but especially during sex. You're better off working on doing what you need to get comfortable (loud fan or music, locked door) and then just go with it. If a roommate reacts it will probably just be in humor or praise. I can understand you …
/r/askTRP01/03/17 04:05 AM
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lol. I just read his memoir and writer's guide, "On Writing" a few months ago. Really entertaining read on his life's events with a fair bit of solid writing heuristics that I'm still trying to incorporate. Some of the commenters have mentioned how he didn't remember writing 'misery', that's also true of several others like "Cujo". It took an intervention years later for him to get to sobriety.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 03:36 AM
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Any evidence for that claim?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 03:31 AM
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or maybe, 4. He fucks her and then his brain is flooded with all those beta-provider chemicals that he hasn't recovered from and is back "in love". However he could have definitely gotten the satisfaction of banging her and then never speaking to her again. But I don't know if that's the kind of man we're dealing with here, a self professed bluepill. He probably did the right thing for where he's at now considering he is 0 for 2 with the girlfriend game, hopefully he starts thinking more about a…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 11:57 PM
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90% of my cold approaches are at night and I tend to never see these girls again if it didn't happen... but I have seen women that rejected the bluepill, niceguy, treat-em-like princesses version of myself in college 3-4 years after while they hit their descent and have seen the new, grounded, DGAF, me and have a whole new interest. Has happened 3 times and you could tell they wanted me to do something about it, puppy dog eyes and trying to screen out their friends from my attention, etc. That w…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 11:22 PM
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I have been at it for a while and "approach anxiety" doesn't "disappear" for many people. It just loses its power over you. You still may get that little flicker of lizard-brain hesitation when you see that hottie staring at you. I'm at a place where I can get consistent high-quality IOIs from girls that interest me but I don't always approach. The method that works best for me is to "own my awkwardness" which is the root of the fear: My fear says, "you're going to stutter or sound stupid" when …
/r/askTRP26/02/17 08:17 PM
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its worth adding that women DON'T drop everything they're doing just to craft some special flirty reply with their countless orbiters or even their low-quality friends. Why should you be worrying what she thinks?
/r/askTRP26/02/17 08:09 PM
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the top comment here by u/needless_pickup_line is the best overview. You have to train yourself to stop responding just because she texts you right away. Even if you just texted her and she texts IMMEDIATELY, you could be driving, working, on a date, in a meeting, WHATEVER it is, its more important than immediately picking up your phone at every text. Smartphones, their apps and the little chimes are made to CREATE ADDICTION. You need to break that addictive response that most females won't both…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 08:08 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p4xCQq_SSyQ From the POV of archetypes and myth (Let's say, Jungian Psych.), the idea is that the "Hero's Journey" is imbued in our psyches from a very ancient time as reflected in the universal themes of human myth and story. That video is a full episode to satiate your mind but if you want quicker hits, search "Joseph Campbell" on YouTube. I've still yet to buy his book that the series is based on, you might want to look into that too.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 12:33 AM
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What is the root of this problem? My best guess is that you're thinking about it before you touch her. Your brain is divided against itself and part of you knows that it might come across as forced or mechanical. Try this for a "gateway" : start right away with very light "teasing nudges" -- a tap of the foot under the table, slightly leaning into her or a hip bump when you're standing in line, tapping her upper arm with the back of your hand as you get her attention, "hey I just thought of some…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 09:35 PM
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Same. At its best weed helped me feel what it was like to be deeply relaxed at a time when I was starting to learn meditation and mindfulness and coming out of a chronically stressed upbringing. Later its benefit was to "churn up" those buried emotional blocks and let them go (catharsis). But having stopped chronic use for a couple weeks (went vape-only a long time ago but it still fucks with sinuses and respiratory stuff if there are colds and shit going around), I noticed my verbal confidence …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:57 PM
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Check out Wellness FX and see if you can afford a basic blood panel as the guy suggests. You may find a hormone imbalance or some other biomarker way out of whack. I was similar to you and weed helped for a while. Then it didn't help. Then it hindered. Are you sedentary? Try some hard, gut busting labor outdoors somewhere. Maybe join WWOOF and go to a sunny climate and work on a farm and get your room and board covered for free. I don't think the severe depression and anxiety will start to lift …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:49 PM
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Do you not have a place you live that you could have brought her to get laid? If you're 6'2 240, you're either obese or ripped. I'm assuming obese which makes me think that maybe trying to get something to happen in your toyota corolla (what do you drive?) in the middle of the woods wasn't the best idea -- it screams "rape + murder + being left in the woods" Mini-anecdote -- took a girl for a walk with my dog on some trails at night outside of my city. She was a plate at this point, had gotten l…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 07:12 PM
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Time for adventure bro. I had same story. It started getting fixed when I uprooted and hiked the Appalachian Trail. Give yourself a situation that requires presence and involves time and space. Let life's very basic needs be your focus. Join WWOOF and go work on a farm for room and board anywhere in the planet. Kayak the Mississippi or bike across the continent. None of these things cost much compared to "regular living". I can recommend many books that have helped and you may feel drawn to. You…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:41 AM
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I also realize that if you're in the middle of a conversation and she just drops an insult on you, then it may not make any sense to just stare off into space-- A lot more can be said depending on the specific context and exact words being used in these "shittests" you're talking about.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 06:23 AM
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funny I've thought before that if I ever decide to have kids, I will spawn them off in various corners of the earth with a good exchange rate. I could probably afford it now if I popped one off in central america or something but its really just a vain thought experiment...siring sons in the 7 corners of the earth with some kind of ultimate challenge where they have to come and kill me for my riches. I still have way too many more things to achieve before I bring more barbarians into this world.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 04:18 AM
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Worth mentioning, should you let your friends know that you're changing specific habits/routines that they are still engaging in, you may experience blow-back as they feel subconsciously threatened by your new choices. That's a good sign that its time to move on and "hard next" those people out of your life for good -- shaming, insulting, blaming, or any other behavior that isn't supportive is a threat to your success; You breaking patterns is a threat to their comfortable psychological homeosta…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 10:44 PM
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• Just have fun. It doesn’t matter if she rejects you. Speaking your mind is enough, there are no magic lines. None of the lines I used were good, some were actually bad. It’s all about the vibe/energy you project, nothing more A fun-loving and social attitude almost completely trumps "game" (...almost). The fun and attachment-free energy is way more important than anything else. Its why veteran PUAs can fuck around with "chode game" (intentionally being boring, "who are you...where are you from…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 04:31 PM
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hahaha, Handsome Javier that poor bastard
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 04:02 PM
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Poor guy just doesn't understand LMR yet. He also doesn't understand that women's words are just the surface of the iceburg and have nothing to do with the underlying emotion that spawned them. I wonder if the guy actually is just getting his "sea legs" and this is just a stumble along the path: Maybe he thinks, "Men have Integrity and aren't afraid of the uncomfortable truth, so I'm going to tell this girl the truth: I don't want monogamy...there, I'm a good boy now..." The same skill is requir…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 12:10 AM
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This sparked an insight for me about my weekend out. Early in the evening first night out, I venue hopped in short, rapid succession using various excuses of why the place was "not suitable" for me to be comfortable and try to approach girls (too many dudes here, this place is too small and packed I'll just look weird, etc). In the first place there was a low F to M ratio and there were 2-3 large "bro packs" of different age groups spanning 20s-late 30s. Subconsciously I quickly evaluated that s…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 07:48 PM
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I'm getting towards the upward swing in that curve: I've slowly "starved out" the old circle without any hard and formal "we're no longer friends"...just slow fade with no hard feelings. I felt a lot of pain and confusion about it early on, like I was doing "something bad" to "people who cared about me"...but it turned out just fading out and focusing on my work more and more didn't do anything bad. I can still see these people in small doses but I am much happier and more productive not sharing…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 07:33 PM
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And pro-tip: adopt an absurd but charming moniker for your house. It does WONDERS for inviting a girl over. "Everyone's headed back to (The Crazy Castle/Treehouse/Main Street Mansion/Pinegrove Penthouse, etc) to hang out you should come" resonates much more differently with a woman than "Do you want to come over to my place?" Reminiscence triggered: I miss this from college. Our place was "Castle von Dieselstein".. We fictionalized our rugged, red-haired (otherwise calm and well-mannered) landlo…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 07:22 PM
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hahahaha, this gave me some good laughs. She shoots it straight then tries to 'console' bluepill NiceGuys to just "hang in there sweety"...just the kind of BS that niceguys cling to as they orbit sexlessly around the girl that needs them to "speak their minds and pour their hearts".... This one stood out as subtle and valuable and right out of the pages of Robert Glover's "No More Mr. Nice Guy" (bold emphasis mine). Darwin’s theory of survival has taught us survival of the fittest. To all the ni…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 06:37 PM
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(I copy-pasted this from a longer response because it might help certain readers who find themselves caught up in the details and not sure how they need to be applying it). ...Study "ANCHORING" in psychology. Right now if you haven't heard of the term. A quick overview will remind you that human beings far and away are biased towards FIRST IMPRESSIONS. If you fuck up the first impression, you will have a real hard time digging your way back out. If you nail the first impression, its much harder …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 06:13 PM
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Hey bud, respectfully disagree with some of your observations about the article: I'll pick on the two contradictions you've highlighted (and put them in my own words): 1) "the peak emotions / end-of-date emotions are most important" vs. "at least spike those emotions somewhere in the course of the date" ... Translation: don't be boring. Those aren't necessarily in opposition: You should realize that they won't remember all the things that happened, their cognitive biases will tend towards the hi…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 06:06 PM
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I did it 4 significant times back in the earliest days (very pathetic). Except I spent several days crafting the perfect letter that had all these "plausible deniability" clauses that essentially revolved around, "I am really attracted to you but worried that it will ruin our friendship"... What a loser I was :D I can laugh and cringe now but I still let that shit fuel me. On the bright side, sometimes women that ignored me back in college saw me 4-5 years later in my current incarnation and wer…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 07:03 PM
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nice, Gary Vee is someone I admire a lot, they're both obsessed, half-crazy animals that want people to succeed -- maybe you'd like the interview they did together: http://grantcardonetv.com/video/powerplayers/garyvee/
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:30 AM
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No one is saying those other means are "rational". I am saying that there a lot of subconscious variables going into interpersonal dynamics looks included. If you're going to be binary though, that's all I got to say.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 07:58 PM
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if you commute to work or drive a lot, buy the audio books (good advice in general) so you're not 'wasting' time: learn on the go.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:56 PM
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Grant Cardone. Buy his books. He puts out a ton of free content. Been changing my life since 2013. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBK64vdljZ0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sid_ky6Wqh8
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:53 PM
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Grant Cardone has been my primary business mentor since 2013. His book "Sell or Be Sold" changed my life. Please go to Amazon or Audible and buy it right now. $10-15 bucks that will repay itself 1000 times over. He has an incredible amount of free content on YouTube and his own network at grantcardone.com. Highly recommended and will overlap with the Red Pill in so many ways. https://youtu.be/-obrozvxhTM https://youtu.be/xNQ5LmQG8Eo
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:50 PM
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seen those studies. The concept of a "mosaic brain"... that pre and post natal hormone levels (estrogens vs androgens) can spike or plummet and change specific areas of brain development from "typically female" to "typically male" and vice versa. BBC has a doc on youtube about it I think too.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:06 PM
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watch infields for context if you have nothing to relate to. RSD, Sashapua, and The Natural Lifestyles were channels I used to watch a lot before I could start to apply it in real life.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:45 PM
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hahaha monocle. That would be great self-amusement though: More important than anything else in a lot of cases.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:42 PM
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some people here hate RSD but I used to watch a lot of their 'in-fields' to help get a context for a lot of these ideas -- with humans, "seeing is believing". They chat on the subject until like 4:30 when he grabs a girl for a demo - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wyqkkod89wE
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:40 PM
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Yes. I learned the most spanish working with a colombian girl that was about as good at English as I was Spanish. It involved constructing a lot of funny, immature conversations and 1st-grade caliber love-notes filled with "circle yes or no" style questions. And plenty of mutual tutoring. She grew pretty fond of me for being a sympathetic listener (in the ESL definition of that term), I was pretty bluepill but at least got to second base before the summer ended.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:19 PM
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I'm with you on needing to state your own opinions if they bring something up. I'm also not a cynic, I believe strongly that an optimistic-realism means you can create a life that has a profound effect on the world (not a "you will fix everything" mentality; a "I can put a dent on this part of the planet" mentality"). On the other hand, the best results are going to come if you can ease your bitterness a bit (everyone deals with this) and get more silly... EXAMPLE: Recent date I went for a walk …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:12 PM
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Don't talk about the surface (the mechanics, the how) of their occupation, that's stupid. Get into the emotional 'why' behind the occupation. Does she hate the job? Why did she get into that field. What motivates her to stay or advance... get into the mentality and the motivation behind the career choice she is making. Talking about what the company does or similar is going to spin your tires and induce sterility between the two of you. And if you check out videos or books on the "FORD method", …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:56 PM
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as a practical tip from someone who still has old circuitry to shed, deep breathing to allow silence and space + increasing self-awareness of the impulse to behave in that analytical, sexless interrupts the pattern and allows the new behavior to take place... From there another fun and effective thing to try is occasionally narrating out loud the thing you're hung up on internally: "damn, I'm distracted by some boring ass political shit right now...takes me out of the moment" or "I feel nervous …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:48 PM
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Sadly, as someone involved with outdoor education with young kids, I see too many inadequate parents that don't even understand this about their kids: "rationalizing" with kids when they don't like a behavior rather than realizing the kid has energy that needs to be dispersed or redirected. It hurts to see this utter disconnect.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:41 PM
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a good middle ground to accept is the OPs point that looks make things easier is true at many levels.. However, to the credit of women, they have evolved multi-layered heuristics to figure out your substance. I remember being a sexless chode with above average looks but emanating that I was a sterile beta and never getting the time of day; While watching true assholes with mediocre, even ugly mobster faces, slay fine sorority 'gine. I have even seen it in my own mind: As a firm bluepill, I used …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:19 PM
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I might just post in asktrp about this That's a good plan. As a general response, stop calling women 'to chat' -- it's what women do with each other. You're not a woman unless you're gay and you want to be in that kind of feminine non-sexual relationship (not an insult) -- hang out with them if you want their company.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:07 PM
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add on: One might also ask, why not spend that time interacting with her in person?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:21 AM
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Its hard to say not actually hearing your conversations. It could be "beta" but you said these are women who have a mutual attraction. You also say that they "might not like it the next time". Have you ever called a woman who didn't like it after you called her a previous time and she liked it? There's a lot of context that has to be considered. If you've spent enough time with a girl and you call her to talk that could be okay depending on what you're talking about. I'm skeptical though because…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:19 AM
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Channel the anger into physical training and proactive manifestation of your goals. Help others. Remember that old buddhist warning against, "Grasping the hot coal hoping to burn the other person" -- Coming from someone who joined this forum after a recent episode where I needed to call the police to get rid of a psycho that wouldn't leave my house and how undeniably satisfying it would have been to have dragged her out and hurled her into the street.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:12 AM
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report the dude. he's trolling.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:09 AM
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I saw a local news event blurb on the tvbox at a bar recently that said, "Experts say, we need learn that domestic violence is not just a woman's issue...It's a community issue" For a split fucking second I thought they might have been including men into the situation before I realized Wait, no...They're just implying it requires community involvement to curb the abuse of women by men. I meant to look into that and make contact with that organization.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:08 AM
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It goes to show the goodness of the men here that you're getting some serious responses (I also turned down sex with 4-5 different girls in my youngest most bluepill days -- highschool and the first year of college -- for me it was about performance anxiety)... but seriously: nobody that gets laid asks a girl, "Would you like to engage in teh sex now?" That might be the shit they tell you to do in California "yes means yes" legislation but that's not how it works. You escalate (or she escalates)…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:58 AM
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addendum: I never call randomly. I don't want to be on the giving or receiving end of that. I would wonder what your motivation might be to want to call randomly in the first place for a better answer.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:49 AM
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view his comment history, click report. Let the idiot go back to his hole.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:43 AM
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the right response to clowns like this is: 1) click on their name and view their comment history...oh strange a series of moralizing, concern-trolling, FAILING RULE ZERO bullshit on TRP. 2) Click the report button and select the first option anytime and everytime someone pops onto these threads that clearly has no idea what people are gathered here for (i.e., accusing TRP commenters and poster of being a raging misogynist collective of dudes who either hate women or just want to get dicks wet wi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:42 AM
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You should have enough positive experience together where the idea of you calling is exciting -- not at all before you've met and not likely before you've slept together a few times and there is strong mutual attraction. If its one-sided and you ring randomly, its just a weird pressure thing that will likely work against you. Everyone hates telemarketers for example.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:36 AM
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check comment history of "lacy" then report. Just another outsider that drifted in and shit all over the place with her insightful concern trolling before reading Rule Zero.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 05:01 PM
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Ugh - BPD huh? That makes the uninvited arrivals at your home and work more of a gigantic no-no than with an ordinary girl I totally understand the little head fucking that up, but for the love of Unholy Reality, please cut off all contact and make that boundary iron.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 04:42 PM
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Yeah, I'd agree -- Seems like you don't have anything to worry about with your game (wish I had dance training) but there is a bit of "lets see if you care"/emotional tampon usage being implied. You might say something nonchalant about that kind of stuff being best for female friends.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 01:19 PM
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If you want to influence someones behavior you have to use hard and soft power. The men who didn't want their daughters to create mulattos, only used hard power. Would you be willing to give an example of what 'soft power' would look like in a father who wanted to discourage a certain behavior? Probably never will apply to myself as I don't think I will ever have kids but I strongly agree with your general assertion: I always described it as polarization -- "equal and opposite reaction" kind of …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:53 AM
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Assuming you've gotten close and there is some attraction (you're not in the "creep zone") you can just lean in gently to the side of her neck and smell. "Wait a sec--" lean in, light smell "Yeah, okay I guess you'll do..." When she wonders what the fuck you're doing, you can say something like "I just needed to know if your genes were any good" proceed with conversation, bring up those studies (The conclusion from some of the research is that body odor is more attractive in people that have OPP…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 11:41 AM
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Yeah, too many times have I unclipped a padded bra to some less than supple saggy A-cups.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 06:24 PM
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https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/236621 https://foundrmag.com/millionaire-by-30/ http://www.incomediary.com/top-young-entrepreneurs http://www.independent.co.uk/news/business/analysis-and-features/8-people-who-became-millionaires-by-25-describe-what-its-like-to-be-so-rich-so-suddenly-so-young-a6801031.html I didn't post these to suggest this is what you need to do; I did it because its worth realizing that your potential stops at the limits you set in your mind.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:49 PM
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This is the most fair criticism in my mind. Very few people who have left their verbal dumps are holding a balanced opinion like this. There is merit in the OPs post; while I have to disagree that its ever too late as I'm someone who built back up from many mistakes in my 20s.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:46 PM
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There are the rare kids that are self-made in late high school and early college age through some savant-caliber programming smarts or similar and they would agree that you should start at building the life you want as early as possible. That doesn't mean you're fucked if you don't. There's an equal amount of "late bloomers" or people who fucked up everything and still created exceptional lives for themselves. I think there is a hell of a lot of hate in this thread for people that feel personall…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:42 PM
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ntm, the circular nature of caking your skin in oily, petrochemical cocktails probably creating the nasty, garbage skin most of these women have underneath.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:44 AM
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I'm never going to forget these images... I mean, I was definitely aware of the make-up thing before but never have seen it so starkly and consistently laid out. So many have greasy, acne laden faces...they probably stuff themselves full of pizza and other garbage or maybe they're just junk-food vegans. I hope I can keep this at the forefront of my mind the next time I go out.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:41 AM
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I posted a pretty long reply in which I agree and disagree with the OP. My disagreement is a bridge between the criticisms many of you lay out that "life is not all about money". My regret was not taking more of the non-traditional experiences that were presented to me in my 20s BUT had I applied OPs advice to not waste my time I would have took them. I would have bought the ticket, packed my bag, and went out into the unknown. The advice to "go live life" is often not what a lot of 20 year olds…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:19 AM
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tl;dr: I agree with the OP in that you shouldn't waste your 20s, but disagree only in the multiple ways that can be expressed: You don't need to follow the square track -- You CAN travel, be broke, learn and explore and figure out a tactical plan and vision as you go along. You probably should start thinking about how you might execute that plan by 25-26-27 and you should take care of your health and not be a fucking drunk party-whore. I had a number of alternative experiences and my biggest reg…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 10:55 AM
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lol, way more plausibly deniable. The cluttered nightstand and disgusting precedent of passing out and not always getting it into a trash can til the next day was the only thing that made it so devastating, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 09:42 AM
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Unfortunately this forum has a bitterboy contingent. The strong contingent don't feel the need to tear down others like a jackal however. Its too bad really, because you know those people are stuck. You can't improve your situation and shit all over the place at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 04:56 PM
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I just got triggered :p Personal anecdote. Pre Red Pill. Oneitis LTR: She tells me about this "guy that likes me I think, but don't worry, he's weird." Has female friend over, they repeat the narrative, fem-friend validates the narrative (probably reversing their dialogue when I'm not around), "Yeah that guy, what's up with him?" "I'll have to tell him I'm not interested. Me: "Why haven't you told him already?" She tells me about going out with friends and this guy "just shows up and was annoyin…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 02:57 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAryFIuRxmQ
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 01:23 PM
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this is a follow up to one of those videos: https://youtu.be/FYQmqxQgEBY Guy asks couples if it's appropriate for their partners to have a friendship with a member of the opposite sex ... Less consistent results here. The men almost universally say "no" except for the few "it depends on the friendship" -- My thought with that, is certain confident men don't fear faggy beta orbiters (more than just trying to appear 'fair' to their women). The women go from flat out "yes" to flat out "no"...I thin…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 01:12 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA There are literally a half dozen or more of these street interviews showing the same sweeping disagreement between men and women about "friendship". I find them fairly entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 01:02 PM
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Very true. But just an generic example and not ad verbatim.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 04:13 AM
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You don't stay friends with her. You're not going to listen either (coming from someone who has gone through the same experience). I was not that interested in my oneitis. Knew her a couple years from the dorms but she got more attractive and she came on to me while my value was skyrocketing (just hiked the appalachian trail, was extremely healthy and ready for a life of adventure, and it was radiating out to women unlike my past cringeworthy self), not the reverse. I made it clear early on that…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 03:58 AM
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FWIW, this reminds me of my ex oneitis -- I lost my virginity to her (but had a dozen or more sexual encounters before her -- I was just extremely high anxiety/toxic shame due to non-ideal upbringing -- could never get it up in these situations which made the shame-cycle worse). I was pretty good at turning women on though, even though thoroughly blue-pill so they'd be eager and i couldn't give them the D..more shame built up. With the oneitis, she was cool with taking her time and helped me get…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 03:42 AM
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I'm less and less amazed at the women that have never encountered a man that knew what the fuck he was doing. It's apparently not hard to stand out above 90% of these tentative chodes. I don't have some wilt chamberlain n-count either, but I can think of a few instances where they said, "No one has been able to do that before". The most recent was, "I think I just came" -- the girl didn't even know what the fuck an orgasm felt like?! That is the most amazing to me: when they don't even know how …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 03:01 AM
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This isn't really a direct response to the post but just a tangent it made me think of: I have a friend who has always been "a natural". Tall, attractive, seen women approach him on numerous occasions. He has a couple friends that he grew up with that are not physically the same as him but definitely more "alpha" in their confident asshole demeanor. The point I want to make is they all have numerous occasions where they get with a girl and arrange 3-somes with their bros. They definitely don't m…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 02:34 AM
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Hell yeah man! Love seeing the real transformations. Nothing is more inspirational. I'm no fatty, I eat excellently and stay in moderate shape with long daily walks with the dog and bodyweight routine...but I've never been jacked and this post hit the motivational sweet spot -- A couple days ago I filled out the contact form for pricing at an "Anytime Fitness" less than a block from my house (I hate sharing a busy gym and prefer after-hours). They've called me the past 2 days while I was working…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 06:03 PM
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Its from years of reading and watching stuff (studied some anthropology in college and always been a evolutionary psych/ecology/biology nerd)-- I'll try to pull together a handful of a links as a starting point: https://evolutionaryanthropology.duke.edu/research/3chimps/chimps-bonobos https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_izpq0Ar-Y the "promiscuous bonobo" thing is often exaggerated based on observations in zoos. In the wild they have much less frequent sex but it still is rather promiscuous by comp…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 11:22 PM
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From being interested in primate behavior you notice a spectrum of male sexual strategy from "Alpha" to "Beta". In chimps, females use promiscuity to confuse paternality and avoid infanticide (what happens in many species when an outsider male comes in and finds offspring? He kills them). Some male primates will use gift-giving, grooming behavior and kindness towards offspring to get sex (its beneficial to the female too). But not every male has this strategy and it varies widely between species…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 05:50 AM
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There's an interview somewhere with Amy Schumer asking this sexy hooters-girl grade model (I say that meaning she was short, curvy, cute, but maybe lacked the height and features of a euro model for contrast): Amy asks the girl where she places herself on the 10-scale and the girl doesn't skip a beat when she says, "Probably a 7"...then Amy laughs embarrassingly and says, "That's not good, I thought I was a 7"... They're equally full of shit, trying to preserve their egos: one overrating herself…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 10:41 PM
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better: "I'm the king around here" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Napj_I8kdHY
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:26 AM
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I wouldn't consider medicine solely for the massive amount of time and money you have to invest (and because I have a thing against industrial medical model). The tax code is not friendly to these professionals either. If it were me, I would study computer science only so I could then create things that allow me to hire others and not necessarily to be an employee. These are just some outlets to explore that turn the old business paradigm upside down. https://thefoundation.com/ http://www.appsum…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:52 AM
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It's not a "shit test" unfortunately. It sounds like she's losing (or lost) interest in you and you should 'soft next' her. Am I right to assume English isn't your first language? No disrespect, I just want to make sure I simplify my responses.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:44 AM
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drug dealer ;)
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:38 AM
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Funny enough I just suggested this above before getting to this comment. Its worthwhile to consider but absolutely essential you do your research. The drug community has a saying: Know Yourself. Know your Source. Know your Substance. LSD can have extremely bad repercussions if you overuse it but should be fine at low doses (silicon valley is apparently undergoing a "microdosing" subculture right now that uses psilocybin, lsd and other "nootropics" for performance enhancement). MDMA gets a bad ra…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:26 AM
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Yep. I'm a licensed medical marijuana grower and former stoner. The weed community will spew nothing but garbage about its "miracle drug / totally harmless nature" because otherwise they'd have to admit they're addicts -- its a backlash against government propaganda that weed is going to turn you into a rapist and rots your brain. I was smoking chronically because I was ashamed of myself and getting high made it feel okay to be a loser. I had to really focus on getting the right nutrition, exerc…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:18 AM
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Yep. Despite learning RedPill in the decline of LTR with "the one" and the constant admonishment against "getting back together"...I kept using improved RP-mindset to "trick" her back into getting together... It kept working, the manipulation... except she kept hard-dumping me for the next... I wasted an extra 3 years that way and gave up countless experiences (internship with master guides who did dogsledding tours, a job as an ocean canoe guide, later...many others) as a compromise for this "s…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 03:58 AM
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to blue_dover: "outcome independence" is really hard to embody when you are just reading about it but for me it is the most essential thing to improving my game. I think its way more effective to be focused on, "I'm a social guy and i just like to talk to people"...then start talking... My brother is fucking fantastic at walking right into a club and just talking to the first person in front of him...Dudes, fat chicks, bouncers - because your brain chemistry needs to be shifted out of chode mode…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 02:14 AM
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I agree and would elaborate: No matter the "rationalizing" that men are making, it all stems from "paralysis by analysis".. Men have emotional blocks and then come up with reasons for it (just like humans in general rationalize after the instant emotional reactions). I'm also of the opinion that "false rape accusation" is just a really handy excuse, not to invalidate the possibility entirely that it happens. For me when fear blocks me from approaching I can consciously see my mind spinning tryin…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 02:10 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YBJ_u2ExjmY be marlon brando
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:57 AM
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sorry to hear that bro. I had a mildly similar experience growing up: no "hard talk" of "don't do this to girls" but a constant trickle of "be the nice guy; don't be an asshole like your father" (poisoning me against my dad) and then when I wasn't bringing girls around, wondering if maybe I didn't like girls... Yuck.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:50 AM
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Your criticism is right: I shouldn't be mixing messages with that response -- on one hand I was suggesting its good to give conflict with radical viewpoints, on the other hand I was relating an anecdote about talking to these particular kind of women (and reflecting that once I gave these women drama, they lit up).. Its too confusing and I agree -- So to clarify, fuck giving drama for blue-hairs for attraction (my remark on drama was kind of a non-sequiter for another discussion).
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:39 AM
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You're right about me being overly optimistic: I do that intentionally -- I use optimism as a psychological lever for me to not fall into utter misanthropy (which I struggle with time to time). My view is all the solutions exist, if we could just get them into the skulls of the people. Massive media brainwashing doesn't help. On the other hand, "students" or professors don't represent a homogenous force (the majority DO represent the views that we both view as incorrect and toxic to our culture,…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 10:45 AM
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Was there a time where you did date and you just kept not being satisfied with what you found? Personally, I had an LTR that went on for a long time. I started figuring out game during the decline of that relationship and when it really ended, met a lot of different women but was never satisfied. Many of them saw my value and wanted more from me and that's when I'd cut them out. It felt bad to my inner "nice guy" but I couldn't be bothered, they wanted more than I wanted to give. Last year was t…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 10:34 AM
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I don't think I'm going to create a magical highschooler/student movement. I was making the suggestion that it would take that level of participation to effect things. The organic and spontaneous growth of this community is an example of that possibility. We're here sharing ideas. I agree with you: we have to tackle the source of the problem.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 10:03 AM
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Productive people don't wait for magical solutions. Binary and absolutist thinking isn't effective. Do you have asperger's (seriously)? I'm talking about an attitude and approach to life and persons who disagree with you. To be engaged and willing to talk to people who don't agree. Its easy to see everything as a unified black and white. Its much harder to break black and white thinking. The people tackling the institution-wide problems that you're talking about, that get their voices heard and …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 09:50 AM
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Think the OPs point was "don't be afraid to engage and 'look bad'...be willing to upset the balance" These people are everywhere and it does no good for red pill thinkers to hide in the fucking shadows. Pretty relevant given most of us keep our heads down and don't want to upset anyone (nice guys) even when we don't believe in the BS. The Trump Presidency is proof of that -- the entire media coordinated a shaming of people so that no one would publicly admit they supported Trump for fear of look…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 09:21 AM
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Chad never thinks like you do Chad's not wondering "how can I be myself and find the right girl that aligns with my ideals"... Chad gives skittles as an afterthought. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 08:58 AM
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I harbor no naive idealizations of "reasoning it away". The point I made was there would be no "culture hero" to save us from this ubiquitous misinformation and it would require massive PARTICIPATION in opposition to the idea that you should just massively surrender. People are converted all the time one by one. I know a lot of conspiratorial types like to blame "them" and huddle away masturbating in their bedrooms and cursing the illuminati. Just like feminists like to blame the patriarchy...ex…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 08:50 AM
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This. Your post indicates the utter noob nature of your current state. This subject has been hammered to death in a wealth of blogs and videos. I suggest YouTube and watching infield stuff from the guys like RSD (there's a handful of other good ones). You have a long road before you think you can just go out once when feeling this low and get the results you want. I feel you though, my friends suck for game. My brother is the only one that can roll at my level and sees the value in putting yours…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:35 AM
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hahaha, you know what the guys here are going to think: Fuck that woman, Do Not Plead. Justice! Seriously though, its conceding to defeat and potentially permanently ruining his reputation. Fight it to the bitter end. He should be able to find future work and maybe that's going to require moving to a different state or changing his life altogether. Man has been doing this since the Dawn of Time, that's how we colonized the globe after descending from trees and wandering into the violent savannah…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:25 AM
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Agreed. I wasn't certain about her nature but she gave me red flags for me to strongly suspect it. Taking it to the public is a very valid suggestion. I hope I never have the opportunity with another one to need to do this.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:14 AM
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When I was in high school and early college I was HOPELESSLY fucking feminized and believed women when they complained about the "pushy, rude" guys that they kept fucking.... "Poor women, once they realize I'm such a sweet gentle man, they will certainly learn what good treatment looks like".
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:58 AM
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Docbear64, IMO: its going to take a groundswell of highschoolers going into college and confronting professors of these departments with the HARD SCIENCE that refutes this gender-equity blank slate nonsense. For any readers here, check out the sideboard link to the Norwegian documentary from that comedian that showed all these gender studies idiots HAVE NO SCIENTIFIC GROUNDS TO THEIR OPINIONS. The science (supported by male and female scientists and evolutionary psych researchers around the worl…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:40 AM
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WillMatte -- What are you suggesting men do "to let this pattern run its course"? Seems like the disagreements you're having here are with guys that seem to think your suggestion implies passively opting out of the game. Since you didn't explain that, I'm curious. I also agree that things have to get worse before they get better (with any social issue).
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:37 AM
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I don't think there was any way to prevent the breakdown with the and reject the kind of person in this story (BPD/Personality Disordered person). I know you only read the summary that's why I keep saying this. You should research this because this is the second woman in my life that I have encountered like this (the first was an LTR of 5+ years). She cut me off as soon as I started to reject her and didn't turn it back off. This is a typical trait of BPDs: They get "triggered" and the trigger H…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 05:53 AM
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Why don't you give an example. I'm pretty open minded and not emotionally invested in this disagreement.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 02:03 AM
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https://www.smartpassiveincome.com/ https://www.youtube.com/user/GrantCardone http://sethgodin.typepad.com/ Stop trying to play the system's game for good robots. That's what I did when I was in your situation. Rise and Grind. Get educated (for free). Create things that solve problems. Test those solutions for little to no money on people, if they will pay you, advance the idea (don't look for business advice from the old world of "write a business plan, apply for funding, etc) You're going to h…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:46 PM
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Nobody needs to tear you a new one better than this. Its a fucking perfect breakdown. Its tough love. The sad reality (from many of us being in similar situations at some point before we figured this shit out) is you're probably going to fuck this up and try to "walk away" to attempt to manipulate her into getting back together or to feign leaving and not really do it. Meanwhile, if she isn't fucking him already, she will and when you have your emotional breakdown and try to scold her, it will b…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:20 PM
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It's hard for the poor schmucks who actually take their women seriously and believe that they should try not to upset them. They will be cuckolded.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:07 PM
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Like most of the good answers in this thread, its a shit test you dismiss with any number of humorous examples of amused mastery. You could literally just stay silent and smirk at her with some shit-eating grin as you give her a big hug. My first reaction to your example is a thick layer of sarcasm: 1) Said haltingly with a metallic voice like you are literally turning into a robot, using jerky, robotic arm movements for effect "I. Love. You. More. Than. All. Things. Beep. Boop. How. Do. I. Serv…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 01:57 PM
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Just some clarifying questions before I suggest anything: Do you think that strong lust for women = pedestalizing? Are you interacting with women (I assume yes based on your words)? I assume you are not getting laid with any of the women you are talking to; you assume that it is because you are "pedestalizing" them; what are you thinking, what are you saying and what are you doing that makes you certain you are pedestalizing? Are you really desperate with them? Can they tell you're really thirst…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 01:27 PM
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https://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2010/05/31/can-an-abusive-borderline-personality-disorder-woman-really-change/ https://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2009/09/17/10-reasons-you-cant-communicate-with-a-narcissistic-or-borderline-woman/ https://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2009/11/12/the-no-contact-rule-ending-an-abusive-relationship/ http://shrink4men.com/2013/01/24/internet-dating-red-flags-avoiding-another-crazy-woman-in-the-world-wide-spider-web/ just a handful for people who hadn't noticed her blog on …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 12:38 PM
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You said that more directly and concisely than I could. Thanks. So many men just don't understand you should not waste any life with this particular subset of women (the kind of women the author from shrink4men.com writes about and the poor, victimized men she advocates for who make the mistake of becoming entangled with). It's really important to me ensure that point is made to the "uninitiated" here that will get their little pee pees wet inside the highly stimulating vagina cavities of that o…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 12:35 PM
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https://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2009/09/17/10-reasons-you-cant-communicate-with-a-narcissistic-or-borderline-woman/ I fundamentally disagree with you. If this was a relatively balanced woman you could dialogue and try all your suggested tricks and manipulations (if you read the long version, the details would make it apparent that there was no 'talking' or a place for 'clever sentences' to magically put the crazy train back on the sanity tracks). "Cleverly leading her outside" alluded to in the…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 12:25 PM
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I only intend to trust my instincts more and not allow a lapse in judgment like this again -- I made the decision weeks ago not to speak to this girl again precisely because my instincts and several micro-instances in that first encounter told me, "nope, this one's a potential emotional bomb waiting to happen". I should not of even responded to her text, I should have been a man with resolve and ignored her based on my earlier decision that this chick was "ghosting material" ('small head' won an…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 11:30 AM
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How about you pitch independent filmmakers and then use crowdfunding to make it happen. Why wait for Hollywood?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 07:30 AM
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There was no arguing. Im sure i was clear on that amidst my massive story and in the opening and closing (maybe you're just agreeing and not suggesting i didn't?). I should not have responded to her text (after the ONS, i decided to ghost her.. RESPONDING that night was the first failure of frame for me, if you want to use that term) or answered the door when she arrived. I'll copy this link again to reaffirm my point: you don't engage these people once you know they're nuts https://youtu.be/Lx5…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 06:50 AM
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Nah, calling the police was committing to my frame. "Okay you need to leave" she refuses. I say nothing and leave room. She tries to argue and i ignore and tell her to go. Repeat until i explain legal rights and follow the systems procedure to enforce that right. She calls me on bluff. I don't bluff. I dialed the department directly and didn't use the 911 system which is made for emergencies Something tells me you've never had a psychotic woman refuse to leave your house. Here you go: https://yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 06:09 AM
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Some guy below suggested calling 911 is "breaking frame". Fwiw, i called the department dispatch, not 911. Secondly this: https://youtu.be/Lx5vqvr_BZc Watch this if you don't get it. If you don't actually know what real crazy looks like and why you DON'T ENGAGE The man in the video is smarter than me for recording everything and extremely stupid to keep talking to this bitch after he locked her out. If he left her alone and stopped going back to the door he wouldnt have kept giving her the "fuel…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 05:53 AM
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I'm with TyrannyVengeance -- All of you saying "stay friends": what does that even mean? This wasn't a hookup, he was in a LTR with her. What does this idyllic "info gathering" friendship look like to you? What is it in actuality to the OP? For the people attracted to this place the reality is not one of a strong frame. She's certainly not pining for her lost love with a 50+ notch count that is suddenly "now awakened" with her new friend. What kind of "useful info" are you getting from an admitt…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:33 AM
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10-4. That's what I assumed you meant.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:02 AM
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Two things: Meditate non-judgmentally -- meaning, breath deeply for at least 5-10 minutes everyday...MANY thoughts and feelings are going to come up: Allow ALL OF THEM. The paradox to bad feelings is, "What you resist, persists": If you think, "I don't want to feel depressed, I don't want to feel sad" you will keep feeling that way. It's like a coiled spring that you are pushing down constantly; wasting your energy. Feeling depressed, sad, worthless? Breath deeply, and literally say to yourself,…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 11:58 PM
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You're right. My ego doesn't want to say I feel threatened but she was threatening me in a number of ways.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 10:28 PM
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yes. it was a failure of judgment big time.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 06:06 PM
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Your rational mind understand that its "not assault" but you're not understanding the kind of person on the other end. I wasn't trying to get arrested or set off a bomb worse than what was already happening and wake up the whole neighborhood. Was the girl you carried out sane and just being stubborn? What did she do when you picked her up? This bitch would have probably thrashed and screamed. I would have very ruthlessly got her out in response.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 05:22 PM
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Most of my anger and adrenaline came from just this. I was pissed that I couldn't do what my instincts wanted me to do: Shout this bitch down as I toss her down my fucking stairs. I was furious and ashamed that I had to go through all the BS of involving law enforcement and essentially 'distort' the truth to the dispatcher that I "felt threatened". I almost let my mouth tell the truth when the officer first asked that on the phone: "Threatened? No, I just don't want to fucking smash her smug fac…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 05:17 PM
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The phone was on the whole time. Once she heard the female dispatcher she got mostly quiet or just whispered shit at me "you're fucking nuts". The one thing she said out loud was "Still Heeerree" when the dispatcher asked what she was doing.. And you're right, that vent was incredibly long, I selfishly included as much detail as possible to to purge the demon. Thanks for commenting.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 07:01 AM
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She's good. I forgot about her site -- when I was in that LTR I remember trying to get my significant other to read this (she was the borderline, I was the covert narcissist "helper type").
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 06:53 AM
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yeah I'm trying to get my mind off that. Its much easier to accept that they will keep fucking each other up (he's a glutton for punishment obviously and has been doggy paddling around rock bottom for a while) but its NOT easy for me to think about another life being brought into the picture -- It bugs the hell out of me that they have a cat and a dog for example.. poor fucking creatures have no choice but live with these idiots (my friend included).
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 06:08 AM
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haha, no. Its funny in that not-so-funny way that this has made a few people wonder if its the same person. There is some kind of fucked up animal template here.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 06:06 AM
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funnily enough this was my second biggest regret of the night: that I didn't have the wherewithal to turn my damn cell phone cam on and share it with the world.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 06:04 AM
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I included her name and they asked for her license plate (perhaps they would have escalated things on their own if I knew it). I definitely had the thought of a restraining order but decided against it. I have a lot of positive things going on right now that already drain my intellectual energy so the thought of going through that legal shit just shuts down my thinking. I decided if there was any indication that she would return or retaliate I would definitely do that. You reminded me of somethi…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 06:02 AM
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It's like AWALT except a microcosm for the craziest. Its sad. I have a friend that I've been watching nurse a relationship like this for over a year and today I heard he knocked her up. I'm trying to figure out what to say (for months I've wanted to be really harsh with him in an attempt to get him out of there). She's classically "crazy in the head, crazy in bed" so he's definitely addicted to that side. And of course when she's not Mrs. Hyde, she's fairly reasonable. You get hooked on the sex …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 04:25 AM
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Thanks man, I appreciate the encouragement.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 04:03 AM
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appreciate that. I'm doing very well in the large picture. But this small episode was fairly bothersome and I did hope to inspire some talk about new ideas. And no need to read the whole thing, I just had to type it all out as a sort of writing catharsis (journal therapy as some call it). Thanks for commenting.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 04:01 AM
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hehehe, the white pee just comes out when its in the warm hole when you don't wear the condoms. We should all invest in backing that polymer implant that will allow men to have a one-time birth control. I first read about it nearly a decade ago as something some Indian scientists were looking at; since then it popped up on my radar a few years back. Its basically going through the decade long trials for safety and efficacy. I will be first to sign up. No vasectomy needed, just a simple ring of s…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 11:28 PM
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Applaud you for adjusting your view a bit. I can't make a hardline disagreement with altruism:bluepill. I would agree with you there to a large extent: The idea that you should allow that instinct to be dominant and sacrifice yourself for just anyone is misguided. Just as any other instinct can be misguided (someone made a thread about sugar and all that above now which is the same sort of direction). On the other hand, personally speaking, in 2012 when I was made aware of redpill thinking I als…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 10:14 PM
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Amen to that -- I'm totally burnt out now. And I'm getting into social media marketing and I hate social media for all this vitriol and idiotic division..so I wonder how the hell I'm going to reconcile the two.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 03:48 AM
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I meant to post this in response to your comment but accidently put it below -- This is a great podcast if you're interested in more actual historical information: Unfortunately its not free anymore (Dan only hosts a handful if his extensively researched and well told historical episodes at a time) but it would be worth the $10 for all the episodes in this series: http://www.dancarlin.com/product/hardcore-history-wrath-of-the-khans-series/
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 01:52 AM
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Good point. Communities are very rare in the US. Im intrigued by the possibilities of intentional agrarian communities (ecovillages, for example). There seems to be a lot of challenges to that lifestyle but its an emergent option. A red pill intentional community ? Could it be formed? The amish are still kicking and there are very, very small familial communities like them in my state (i cant figure out which they are...do Mennonites still exist?)
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:14 PM
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Very cool. What work brought you there? Kind of sad to hear the industrialization thing threatening the culture. I'd like to think they will be resilient as you describe but i think all humans succumb to the forces that have softened all sedentary, domesticated cultures.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:08 PM
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Its a biological predisposition to abhor violence against the ovaries in your tribe. Culture may have hijacked that into the phenomenon known as "white knighting" but your suggestions are off.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:28 PM
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I'll delete my comment assuming you're just trolling.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:10 PM
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I'm much more inclined to think that if a boy "sucked at what was expected of him" then the culture would be more inclined to ensure he was successful because it means survival to the people. In contrast to our individualistic culture where if you fail, go fuck yourself. Granted maybe if you are physically crippled from birth or early age, that's another story -- I have never seen anything about that so it could easily exist.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:08 PM
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"love above all" this would make a good title/caption over a montage of all the violent bullshit we've seen over the last year. I've been editing a lot lately and this would be fun but I'm hesitant to put hardcore political shit on my young channel. I should make a strictly trolling channel.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 06:22 PM
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A few weeks ago a business client of mine in the next state over texted me about being approached by 2 girls on the street and asking him to fuck one of them. They handed him a condom and went to a hotel. One girl just watched. He knew it was "too good to be true". The next day the police contacted him for questioning for rape assault. He gave his story truthfully and as calmly as possible. The police believed him and he wasn't charged. The girl admitted to the police it wasn't rape but she was …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 03:45 AM
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I agree with this guy ^ -- going into this journey "quitting clubs for Christ and focusing on a good Christian LTR" is a recipe for disaster. If you don't open up to having experience (whatever myriad ways that takes shape) with many women, you're going to find that "special girl" and maybe ape a few RP behaviors until the day you get comfortable and revert to your 'natural' self. As for introversion coupled with other handicaps like shyness, social anxiety, trouble communicating: You're going t…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 08:36 AM
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lol - I used to have a similar idea about butterface girls and it came from the same place of insecurity as I suspect you're coming from: I imagined getting this hot body/ugly face girl because "she would have deep insecurity issues and other guys wouldn't try to steal her from me". It appeals to the inner slug that just wants to slide up onto some rotting fruit and gorge. Don't be a slug.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 07:00 PM
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He wasn't being butthurt, he wasn't acknowledging the theatrics (women's circular argument). Arguing with a woman is an effective way to shorten your lifespan via chronic stress and disease.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:05 PM
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"not trusting" read: You are insecure and she knows it from your behavior. I also feel like you're omitting a lot of information that we're trying to get out of you because you realize its going to make the case even clearer. Am I wrong? I had a LTR for 6 years, the last 3 were off and on as I swayed back and forth from weak and insecure, to focused and self-oriented. I was making a classic mistake when people come to "red pill awareness" so to speak, that I was trying to use game to prove I was…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 10:40 PM
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I think you have to consider what the other guys here are saying as the likely reality: Logically her decision makes sense free rent and creates plausible deniability on her end. You aren't going to like this next part.......... They will be fucking like dogs, he'll ground n' pound that poon and lay pipe on her. Let's take a step back, if he thought he wouldn't get "any" would he invite her to stay for a week? I know they have history together and she could say all these terrible things about hi…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 09:47 PM
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The simplest answer I can think of requires you answer this, "Are you 'okay' with her staying with her ex?" (no need to explain WHY just 'yes' or 'no') You have to be able to claim boundaries clearly without needing to explain because women will talk circles (and shooting star tangents, and completely irrelevant nonsense) around ANYTHING you give them for rationale. "I'm not okay with you staying with your ex. If that's something you feel like you need to do, I'm out" she protests or pitches fit…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 09:27 PM
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What?!? I have to be incredulous here dude: The mother is staying with the baby daddy "for the child" and you're not just walking away from that? Without meaning to be insulting, you have got to have some f***ing self-respect. Will you go into a bit more detail on what it means when you say "anytime I've brought it up, it sure feels like I'm a dickhead..." What words have you used when you "brought it up" and how did she react? I'd want to hear that before offering any advice on what words/actio…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 09:09 PM
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In the selected passages from the OP, Machiavelli was saying both are ideal but to err towards being feared. He also connects the act of punishment as preventative medicine for further chaos and violence. You could be loved for this, you might not be. Doesn't matter though, overall he's just symbolically putting "love" and "hate" on a balance scale and suggesting that the balance should tip towards "hate". On a tangent, reminds me of one of the often repeated maxims of Jim Rohn, "Love like a mot…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 06:34 PM
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"A Prince should therefore disregard the reproach of being thought cruel where it enables him to keep his subjects united and obedient. For he who quells disorder by a very few signal examples will in the end be more merciful than he who from too great leniency permits things to take their course." This resonates at many levels for me. I've been consciously recovering from NiceGuy tendencies for many years now but I still have the tendency to avoid conflict and want to give people the benefit of…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 06:16 PM
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