A question on approach

dawnlander · 2017-01-29T21:17:19+00:00

What?!? I have to be incredulous here dude: The mother is staying with the baby daddy "for the child" and you're not just walking away from that?

Without meaning to be insulting, you have got to have some f***ing self-respect.

Will you go into a bit more detail on what it means when you say "anytime I've brought it up, it sure feels like I'm a dickhead..." What words have you used when you "brought it up" and how did she react?

I'd want to hear that before offering any advice on what words/actions you should be doing.

linsanity2016 · 2017-01-29T20:56:24+00:00

Find more girls (without a baby daddy). Single moms are not worth the trouble. Life's too short to have to worry over such things as this.

dRePe_Thill · 2017-01-29T21:14:44+00:00

So why has she been on and off, did you next or ghost her, we like these details because it lets us help you. What does staying with her baby daddy mean? This is a red flag IMO.

"I'm trying a new style on putting me first." - Good new style, do not revert back to putting anyone else before yourself (selfish we know)

My opinion is to either plate this girl or ghost her completely. Now lets review her staying at the baby daddy's place for a week. You came here for us to tell you what you have had a sneaky suspicion of... yes you have been manipulated.

Logically her decision makes sense free rent and creates plausible deniability on her end. You aren't going to like this next part.......... They will be fucking like dogs, he'll ground n' pound that poon and lay pipe on her.

Let's take a step back, if he thought he wouldn't get "any" would he invite her to stay for a week? I know they have history together and she could say all these terrible things about him... but here at TRP we focus on a woman's actions not her words.

MrAnderzon · 2017-01-29T21:09:52+00:00

Your happiness first. ALWAYS

Title	A question on approach
Author	Ampl1c1ty
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	January 29, 2017 8:47 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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