debauchery89 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Grace?	debauchery89	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 05:10 AM
4	Delivering the news.	debauchery89	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/26 03:18 PM
4	Hit the limit, now what	debauchery89	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/25 04:44 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Grace? It looks like she’s gotten serious about getting sober now and she seems to be doing better. I’m truly elated, for her, for our kids, for her kids, everyone. The resentment I have for all the shit over the last few years is too much. This ship has sailed. I’ll give grace and support, but this marriage is done.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 12:34 PM
2	Grace? I really don’t mind if on a Friday night she wants to take a toke after the kids are in bed. She started making oil and taking it all day, every day. Then told me she would never stop and tried to turn it into a control thing, as though it was just me trying to control her. My nine year old didn’t make it to a follow up dentist appointment where he could have had a cavity filled and instead 11 months after it was put on watch, we weee having teeth pulled. I shouldn’t have to second guess whether…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 12:28 PM
2	My son said his Mom said this the other day…and it bothers me but really shouldn’t by now I was thinking you sound like you’re almost there but the whole uncle Paul thing was just a little too much…. My dad tells me that one day he was driving down the road when the realization hit him that he didn’t give a shit anymore. One day we will all get there. It’s glorious when it sets in. You’ll get there. Focus on you, your kids, focus on what you can control. It was a low blow but one day you will realize you don’t give a shit.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 05:22 AM
2	A text I’ll never send Attorneys win	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 05:13 AM
1	Should I contact the affair partner of my wife? He’s keeping her busy. Blow that up and it puts more back on your plate.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/26 02:49 PM
1	Strategy regret I have the same problem and I’m not sure what to do about it either. There’s a decent chance that the surprise may piss her off and set the time for a nasty fight. But.., is it really a surprise? You said she knows it’s coming, as does mine. What are your other options? Trying to talk to her about your strategy? That won’t work either.. I’d say to give her more time to prepare a response. I can’t help but wonder how much the attorneys prefer to strike hard to stir up an expensive fight?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/25 04:38 AM
1	Hit the limit, now what In Texas. Counseling opened my eyes more and led me further down the path to separate. Counseling was my idea but I let her choose the counselor this time. I still see the first therapist that she quit seeing. Married 13 yrs. Serious issues started several years ago. Stopped counseling when my mother passed in May as I couldn’t handle that many irons in the fire.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/25 01:20 PM
5	Divorce over dishes Blame the dishes? It ain’t the dishes, this is straight up much deeper than dishes. She has insecurities because she knows you carry the load and she’s susceptible.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/25 04:12 AM
1	Need a reality check This	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/25 03:59 AM
4	I need a pick me up, men Does he have an Xbox at her house? Even if he did actually tell her that, who knows what his reason could be. Maybe a new girl moved in next door at mom’s house.. could be a new chapter of Fortnite being released. Whatever you do, don’t read into the possibility that he may feel like being at the other house because he loves you less. Use that as an excuse to find something that much more exhilarating to do with you that he could never do with mom…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/25 02:38 AM