I’m officially done. Been through marital counseling. I’m still in therapy but she isn’t. My son is. House is toxic. Her and I don’t argue, but the kids and her are at each others throats and I can’t take it any more given that my youngest has some significant issues, some of which I attribute to our household.

So now what? I was looking for an apartment to take the kids to but I think I need to ask her to leave. She can’t afford the house on her own. I’ve encouraged her to work to stay busy. I’m the bread winner. Don’t want to screw her over but just can’t do this any more. I’ve seen a list of steps to take but can’t find them now.

One thing’s certain, I won’t leave my kids. I also don’t want to deprive them of their mother but this current situation has to end. .