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| 4 | Friend dating a serial cheater, do I fuck her?Show him the messages. If he rationalises, propose that you take her up on the offer without him talking to her about it. If he refuses, prod him on why. Basically, get his 'permission' to do it first. That way it's less you fucking his gf and more him fucking his gf over. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/15 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of learning game if I can be accused of rape for ever single interaction?If you're prepared to forego sex, you may as well go full MGTOW. Most people here aren't willing to go without. That means taking the risk and learning to minimise it. In all honesty, that's doable. The key point? Don't leave her upset or regretting it. Don't shame her afterwards or just gap it. It's a pain, but if you leave her happy with the encounter, it'll be fine. Similarly, don't tell her friends or her boyfriend. It'll put her in a situation where she's either a slut/cheater or was raped.… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/15 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill and left wing politics.I have a heart. If, in exchange for a higher tax rate, I can have green energy, a comprehensive social safety net, class-mobility, state-sponsored education and state-sponsored healthcare, tax away. We all live in society together and need to have a comprehensive system in place to support the less fortunate. I'm against poverty and inequality. I support higher minimum wage and education. But, and here's the big but, I'm not down with the SocJus as it is now. Gender roles are a part of society; … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/15 01:53 AM |
| 21 | Study showing same behaviour more likely to be seen as psychologically abusive if done by a man than if done by a woman. Implications? Interpretations?Equality for one half is a goal. We all know how /r/MensRights is treated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/15 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Well apparently the worlds largest cuckold checking in.The biggest issue you have is a lack of abundance mentality. Think of a relationship as similar to a transaction or business arrangement, only with love, sex and care as the traded services. It may sound cold at first, but everyone needs to look out for themselves and avoid being taken advantage of. You don't have to be a dick about it; you can negotiate salaries, haggle and buy goods without going full Machiavelli. So imagine you're at a car dealership, buying a car (your gf). You see one, you … | /r/askTRP | 24/07/15 02:45 AM |
| 27 | Remember the guy who dumped his fiance because she would only hold his hand after being raped but fucked her co-worker? Well here's the update...My bet is that it's a cuck getting off on it. Brutal knife rape of wife? Feeling powerless to stop it? Wife fucking another dude for healing? Intimacy restored after said fucking? 'Reclaiming' his wife? He doesn't even say she's broken things off with the other guy. My bet is that it'll come back that she's fucking both of them. Probably something about how she went from one to the other in a single night. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 10:35 AM |
| 12 | Interesting study finds more skilled male gamers are more positive towards women, less skilled male gamers are more negative towards womenOr instinctively bias the results. It's a broad overgeneralisation from a multiplayer mode on a single game. A better way to do it would be to select a range of games from different genres, both multiplayer and not. Look at achievements for said games across steam, PSN and XBL. Determine holistically which achievements in each game requires the most technical skill. Send out surveys to a range of gamers of each game, controlling for playtime in the game, questioning attitudes towards women. Bonu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 05:15 AM |
| 25 | Interesting study finds more skilled male gamers are more positive towards women, less skilled male gamers are more negative towards womenTake it over to /r/KotakuinAction. They've looked at the study. The methodology was shit. Just a hundred games of Halo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Was this a legitimate objection or a failed shit test?Girl: Where are we going? Me: ... beach You were angling for a mystery-location. You then told her, ruining that surprise and capitulating. Correct response would have been 'wait and see'. Girl: Ugh, no last time I was there I was with Mark (her ex). Can you just take me home? At this point, you froze up. Best thing to do would have been to A&A and tease. Take the idea 'no I did that with my boyfriend' and blow it up. Is that Froyo place ruined for her now that she's been there with you? "I woul… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/15 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Can Opening up a sexless marriage save it from collapsing?You may want to edit that into the OP, specifying that the wife is suggesting it because she is sexually disinterested in her husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Women's value of sex and men's value of time/money.What would you think of the argument "you tried anal with Chad and didn't like it then, but people change and sex with everyone is different. Maybe you'll like it with me, now that you've matured. If you were willing to try with him, why not with me?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Can Opening up a sexless marriage save it from collapsing?Is she suggesting it for the husband's sake or for her own? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 01:37 AM |
| 13 | Why does TRP often seem deliberately spiteful of women?Hating women isn't the end-goal of TRP, but it is somewhat intertwined. TRP explains the rules of the game and how to win at it. These rules are different to what people have been taught. It also so happens that the 'new rules' are morally reprehensible under the 'old rules'. "Be a loving, caring, sensitive, provider man and you'll have a good life" the world says. But then you end up sitting through an engineering degree and don't get given the time of day by women up until your 30s, at which p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 01:25 AM |
| 3 | How could the government realistically encourage people to have more children ?Firstly, why do we want more kids? Are we Japan? Is birth rate an issue? Let's say it is and we want more kids, just for the sake of argument. as /u/dietyz says, put less focus on careers, materiality and 'life expernece'. Replace the 'strong, independent businesswoman' role model with a more traditional housewife. This can be done via state-funded advertising, schooling and media influence. Make it acceptable for men to like children. If half the population is demonised for showing an interest … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/15 01:07 AM |
| 4 | 25M going to cheat on gf of 3 years tomorrow with an escort. Should I go through with it?Cheating isn't a long term solution. You're still going to come home to a shitty sex life. You'll have to keep up an affair if you want to have it 'out of your system' consistently. Now you're putting in a ton of effort and money to keep a sexless relationship running and to have an escort on the side. Instead, how about you work on something a bit more long-term: go on /r/MarriedRedPill, read their stages of dread, go through them and then, if it still doesn't work, leave your partner for a new… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/15 12:40 AM |
| 1 | What portion of TRP are "neckbeards"/extremely low SMV men?TRP is mostly 'learned prowess'. It takes the social skills most men learn naturally and demystifies them. The only people who need to learn said skills are the ones who don't already have them. I wouldn't take a public speaking course if I already could give public speeches. Some people there are more advanced than others, but almost everyone is still learning and applying the core material. This is part of the learning process; you practise application and get shot down (or not). If you see up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/15 04:48 AM |
| 1 | [RP] would you ever confide the red pill in a totally platonic female friend, or your sister maybe?I wrote a guide to this over here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/15 03:49 AM |
| 9 | TRP: What is the appeal of belonging to such an angry community?It's the same as any support group; everyone starts out broken. You help each other improve. Any one individual is unlikely to be the weakest link, so there will almost always be both people better off and worse off than you. You help those worse off and get help from those better off. As for why I stay? On this account I subscribe to a few different subs. There's the TRP collection, but I also sub to /r/relationships and /r/sex. I browse through them on front. Sometimes I read them. It helps me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/15 11:11 PM |
| 9 | Is the TRP community becoming misogynistic?Even a gun to the head is a choice. But that aside: TRP does not advocate violence, isolation or control of women. When people come in asking 'how do I make girl do X' the replies are invariably 'you don't. She's not yours. It was just your turn.' TRP advocates forcing but one choice upon women: 'do I want him?' Anything else TRP suggests is to make her answer that question in the affirmative. Even the notorious dread game is mostly just upskilling and forcing her to consider whether she wants t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/15 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill perspectives on suicide?In his case it wasn't a car, but a donkey. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill perspectives on suicide?TL;DR: Living paralysed from the chest down sucks. No matter how much support or how many opportunities you're given, you'll never be able bodied again. You are unable to be physically strong, socially competent or independent again. You will always be digging shit out of your own anus. You will never enjoy sex again. You will always know what you've lost, know you can never get it back and be permanently dissatisfied with your life. The principle is basic. You don't read it for that. You read i… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill perspectives on suicide?That scenario isn't unresolvable. Break down what 'debt' actually means. How much of your weekly paycheck is it? Is that really so bad? If so, declare bankruptcy. Student loan in the USA? Take out a bunch of other loans, pay it off and then declare bankruptcy. Alternatively, flee overseas. Upskill. You have no qualifications? Go do something high-risk, high-reward. Go work on an oil rig or in a coal mine. Join the army. If you're a man and you have dedication, you've got options. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill perspectives on suicide?As it so happens, I have the perfect answer for you. Clayton Atreus. Alpha as fuck man. Motorcycles around foreign countries. Lawyer-in-training. Becomes paralysed from the chest down. Writes a suicide book articulating his perspective, right up to the point of his suicide. http://www.2arms1head.com I find his arguments extremely persuasive. Give it a read; you won't regret it. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 02:22 AM |
| 0 | Blue Pill, do you think The Red Pill would do this guy some good?I thought you meant gender-politics. e.g. "are men and women equal?" "DAE wage gap?" "AF/BB" etc. Women voting is a bit on the side, yeah. It's interesting to have the discussion and as a place of gender roles and taboos, TRP is the best place to have it, but I'd be concerned if TRP adopted 'women should not vote' as part of its canon. Leftists ruining society, I can get behind as a relevant topic, as leftism is closely tied to feminism, which is closely tied to gender roles. It's important to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/15 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pill, do you think The Red Pill would do this guy some good?The politics are necessary, because their current 'strategy' is one based in politics. Imagine you're a new world explorer and you've come across a tribe of indigenous people. You greet them with a smile and hold out your hand to shake, as you've been taught. In response, they kick your shit in and run off with your stuff. Imagine if you were told that instead, the appropriate way to greet them was to rock up, scream in their faces and spit at their feet. You'd say "that's bloody rude!" as it cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/15 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Has TBP actually read the ENTIRE sidebar on TRP?Do it. Keep in mind, you'll need to give examples and make it concrete, not abstract. Instead of saying "treat women like people", you'll have to explain exactly what that means. Do you mean 'give them the bare rights that you'd afford to the dirtiest hobo on the street'? Do you mean 'treat them like a professor'? Do you mean 'treat them like a little sister'? Honestly, I think if you were to do it, you'd just have taken the RP advice and given it a paint-job, just like RP takes generally good a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/15 12:36 AM |
| 1 | BP: If you had met Elliott Rodgers before he committed his shooting, what advice would you give him?Imagine you got to read his manifesto, barring the day-of-retribution stuff. Here is the manifesto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/15 12:23 AM |
| 12 | I hate to admit it, but I'm BB. I don't want to change. What's my proper strategy?Firstly, try to think less in terms of 'alpha' and 'beta' and more in terms of 'getting respect'. It's very easy to fall into the trap of thinking of the world as an AF/BB divide, from people to behaviours to appearances. It's a useful tool to start off with, but it's artificial and reductive in the long term. To try to put it in familiar terms: alpha traits are traits that say "I am a good catch. I have well rounded, STR, DEX, CON, INT, WIS and CHA and can probably solo anything up to CR+3". Be… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Will reddit quash the pillsphere?Voat has already started on the same slope reddit did a while ago. They recently banned /v/jailbait and /v/dox and they've been approached by venture capitalists. I've said it elsewhere and I'll say it here: Voat is just a college projects by some kids way in over their heads. It wasn't founded on the principle of freedom of speech; it's just a label for them to slap on it to take advantage of reddit discontent. Fortunately, reddit is open source. TRP has already created its own clone over at Pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/15 03:43 AM |
| 0 | How is r/theredpill incorrect when it seems to reflect female erotica eerily accurately?You want it, sure. But is that your sexual fantasy? When you search for porn, do you find yourself gravitating towards 'loving, committed wife' porn? Do you think that's the case for most men? I'd even go so far to guess that any woman in porn is not a good choice of wife to you, yet you (or at the least, most men) still find porn arousing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/15 02:59 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill and interacting with other subredditsMaking accounts to evade bans is a shadowbanning offence. The sooner we get booted off of leddit and into Puerarchy, the better. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/15 05:04 AM |
| 38 | How is r/theredpill incorrect when it seems to reflect female erotica eerily accurately?I think you misunderstood. By 'snagging an alpha' I meant 'locking him down and making him emotionally commit'. For men, in general, the fantasy is screwing a hot woman. For women, the fantasy is getting a hot man to commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/15 05:03 AM |
| 75 | How is r/theredpill incorrect when it seems to reflect female erotica eerily accurately?Definitely. That's the 'snag an alpha' part he mentioned. It's the fantasy. The reason TRP advocates 'treating women like garbage' isn't to make them happy; it's to make the man seem as though he has options to make him seem more attractive. It also prevents overcommital and exploitation. The characters in the book? They're already established as attractive. They're physically perfect. They have options. The fantasy is that despite all of these options, they choose one woman, the reader. But don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/15 03:01 AM |
| 8 | TRP Slut-shaming compendiumI've found a more complete source than yours. Check out this link: /r/TheRedPill It documents every case of slut shaming on TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/15 04:19 PM |
| 2 | What would you like to see contemporary society look like, and what role would women play in that society?Yup. TRP is built entirely upon gender roles. It's the best approach for an individual in the short term, because society still has gender roles, especially for men. In the longer term, society may or may not become gender blind. My money is on 'no', barring some serious techno-socio changes. If I were to advocate for the world I want, rather than live in the world I have, I'd be an MRA. But we all know that the MRM won't go anywhere. People don't emotionally care about men. As it stands, I'll a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/15 04:07 PM |
| 3 | What would you like to see contemporary society look like, and what role would women play in that society?Something along these lines, where gender roles have no impact on how others view you, or alternatively, don't even exist. I'm not happy that TRP's the best choice. In fact, most people aren't. There's a whole phase dedicated to being pissed as hell about it. It's just the best way to cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/15 06:05 AM |
| 18 | Ladies, how can guys hit on you without it being harassment?If you prefer the female answers: "Don't be a creep about it." "Don't put on an act. Just be yourself." "Treat me like a person, not a sex object." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/15 06:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the US 2016 election candidates?I prefer tempered optimism followed by disappointment over outright despair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/15 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you think TRPillers should treat those in the "anger phase" like the opinion doesn't matter ?The broadly negative ones (I'm assuming) you were referring to. Hypergamy, lack of male empathy and dodging of consequences being the big three. My personal view is that men will do the same, given the opportunity. It's just that women are given the opportunity far more often, and that when they do it they're often given a free pass. (So for me, TRP's purpose is to pull back that layer of wool and say, "look! Women are shitty too.") | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/15 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you think TRPillers should treat those in the "anger phase" like the opinion doesn't matter ?hating women is the rational thing Let's go navel gazing. What is 'hate'? In my mind, it's an emotional reaction to a person or a group of people you dislike because of a way that they act. To me, you cannot feel hate towards something you cannot anthropomorphise or empathise with. The worst physical harm I've experienced recently has been stubbing my toe on a weight. If a person did that to me, I'd be livid. But I don't hate my dumbbell. That'd be silly. The defining characteristic to make some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/15 05:43 AM |
| 1 | [serious] Seeking input from actual MRA's. What evidence of DV against men do you think Congress needs to acknowledge this issue as a real problem?To clarify: TRP isn't an advocate of men's rights. It acknowledges and encourages traditional gender roles. This is less ideological and more pragmatic. While equality may be nice in theory, TRP knows it'll never happen, because men and women are naturally going to be treated differently. So instead of wasting time trying to get people to endorse equality and acceptance for men, it advises on how to navigate the situation at hand. The men's rights movement, on the other hand, does advocate for e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/15 05:32 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of the US 2016 election candidates?Bernie, please. I'm outside the USA and its political climate inevitably shapes our own. He's running, from what I gather, a genuine campaign free from big money and smear. I want more of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/15 05:12 AM |
| -4 | Why do I feel more fucked following trpWhat steps have you taken to improve? It's possible that you've internalised RP values without taking steps to achieve them, in which case you'd have gone from being a 'nice guy' and happy about it to being a 'nice guy' and despising yourself. Alternatively, if you're living in an RP way? Perhaps you're still running on a BP value system. That'd cause major dissonance too. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about this "criticism" of /r/TRP?They're right, in a sense. TRP has many bluer participants, as it should be. TRP is a course of 'remedial masculine social skills' wrapped up with some evo-psych. It's a collection of lessons to people who failed to get them, either because of their upbringing, society, or just being dense. The only people who need that stuff are people who don't know it. Thus you end up with a congregation of the short-sighted making canes and glasses for the blind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/15 04:31 AM |
| 1 | need help overcoming Beta fetishesHow tall are you? How attractive? How strong? My uneducated guess is that in being unable to play the role you should, you've fetishised the situation you're in. If you're so weak as to be unable to lead, the idea of leading will be foreign. Incidentally, you can also do basic associative therapy on yourself. Only allow yourself to masturbate to 'ordinary', or even Dom porn. If you get thoughts of your old fetishes, go take a freezing cold shower or use a rubber band on your wrist. The idea is t… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP encourage men to have many sexual partners but encourage women to have fewer sexual partners?Sort of. A good looking, alpha-traits man dedicated to a single woman is a woman's fantasy. Getting that is AF+BB in one person. It's the ultimate win condition. No competition or effort for maximum reward. Catch is, what's good for her, or good for marriage isn't the best for him. It's not a fair trade. He's better off using his status to sleep with as many as possible, leaving it up to her to win him with favours and effort. That way he keeps up the pressure on her to perform. Sure, this works… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Is there something wrong with me for liking BBW's?A female plenty of sluts profile means jack all. If it has a cunt, men will line up to put their dicks in it. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Why do I feel bad/guilty for red pill behavior and cutting someone out of my life?I think you misunderstood something somewhere. Clearly you were in a relationship. Going full NC like this in a relationship is reserved for when she's cheated and you want to split in the most ambiguous, hurtful and clean way you can. If you're breaking up, just say so. You don't want anything out of her if you're breaking up, but you don't want to cause distress, so explain. On the other hand, soft nexting is a good tactic when she's done something offensive. This is where you no longer make c… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 04:34 PM |
| 5 | [Quick] " I don't even know if I wanna go " shitest.Need more context. Date? Plate? LTR? In person or via text? Is she ill? Why is she bailing? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 03:58 PM |
| 17 | What do you do when your gf starts getting fat?Start travelling down the 11 stages of dread. Look it up in MRP. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Update and FR: What will a new exotic car do to my LTR?I see how you get that reading, but feel you're weighting the 'for her' too much, given other statements. We'll agree to disagree. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Update and FR: What will a new exotic car do to my LTR?Yes. I did. He says he pays for everything in the relationship and maintains a great lifestyle for her. That's very different from 'pays for everything she wants'. Yours implies that she controls the purse strings, and that he does it all for her. You're seeing demons where there aren't any. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How can I learn to physically defend myself? [x-post r/AskMen]What the fuck is a 'fuck boi'. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 12:26 PM |
| 58 | Today I painfully watched a bluepiller become a redpillerTRP needs more people like you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Update and FR: What will a new exotic car do to my LTR?I read his original post. You don't pay for everything she wants. You pay for everything you want. She's along for the ride. What do you propose? No LTR? Get her to make a list of all things she wants in life, then systematically avoid paying for any of it? "Hey honey, do you like sleeping in a bed? You do? Well fuck that. I sold it. The floor's our mattress from now on." | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Update and FR: What will a new exotic car do to my LTR?It seems you're unfamiliar with RP as applied to marriage or LTRs and are looking at this as though it were a casual fling. Firstly, beta traits are necessary for an LTR. You drop some I-love-yous. If you've chosen to be the breadwinner, you provide. So on and so forth. They're only 'bad' if that's all you bring to the table, because then you don't get what you want. Does a wife at home get a sweet deal? Sure. If she respects you, raises good kids and sucks your dick on-demand, do you care? Hell… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 11:42 AM |
| 5 | They're waking up -- /r/relationships discovers the AF/BB divide when a woman 'takes it slow' with OP for the first three months by fucking a dude on the sideRead the thread. They already have. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 03:18 PM |
| 7 | They're waking up -- /r/relationships discovers the AF/BB divide when a woman 'takes it slow' with OP for the first three months by fucking a dude on the sideIt wasn't 'technically' cheating as they hadn't had the exclusivity talk. The sub didn't lambast her on the basis of cheating. Most accepted the technicality. What they got pissed about was denying him sex while screwing someone else. In other words, the AF/BB paradigm. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 02:23 PM |
| 5 | They're waking up -- /r/relationships discovers the AF/BB divide when a woman 'takes it slow' with OP for the first three months by fucking a dude on the sideYou try to break through and sleep with them. If a plate? Drop if no sex. If you're looking for an LTR? If she consistently waits (i.e. Only has sex in relationships after a month or whatever) and you're considering her for an LTR? Either screw chicks on the side, or consider waiting. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 08:55 AM |
| 1 | No more FPH posts or meta posts unless they about TRP/TBPAnd there's no push to make alcoholism accepted in society. Nor do we excuse drunk people from the consequences of being drunk. Hate group is in the eye of the beholder. A whole lot can be twisted into a hate group if you wanna see it that way. More importantly, reddit allowed it and grew fat on a policy of allowing everything. In fact, it still allows many; the only reason FPH was removed was because it pissed off the wrong people. FPH did not harass. Any personal details were removed. Contrary… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/15 05:20 AM |
| 1 | No more FPH posts or meta posts unless they about TRP/TBPFPH isn't necessarily immoral. They hate an action, not an actor. 'Being fat' is an action. A choice. Besides, a bigot is just someone intolerant towards those holding different opinions. TBP is as much bigots as FPH. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/15 04:35 AM |
| 1 | No more FPH posts or meta posts unless they about TRP/TBPPot-and-kettle is about hypocrisy. In this case, the only ones being hypocritical are the reddit staff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/15 04:18 AM |
| 25 | How can thebluepill get away with calling itself a satire sub with humor?Sorry, but I'm on the BP side here. It's not quality comedy, but it's funny to them. It's the equivalent of a jock putting on a nasally voice and making fun of the kids playing card games at lunch. It's not gonna be funny to anyone not already primed to find nerdy card games detestable, but it's funny to that subsection. It's bad parody, but parody even so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/15 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Machiavellian Bodybuilder/Miscer has faked high status on Facebook and is now reaping the rewardsThe thing with elaborate lies is that eventually people start piecing them together. A plate or mate will ask, "who was that chick who left something at your place?" And you'll have to either fake knowing her or shrug and deny it. If all of them are just barely blank profiles with everything private, someone will smell a rat. If they're fleshed out? They'll need a whole history from high-school, not made-last-weekend. Sure, you can delete people who know, or mock them. But eventually the lie wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 03:45 AM |
| 0 | I'm gonna tell my wife I'm gayWhat was it? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/15 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Breakup after first argument...please adviseI didn't read your post. Here are the cliff notes of TRP Advice. Let me know if your case is special enough that they don't apply. Cheating? Break up. Period. Marriage? Don't get into it. If you are in it already, go to /r/marriedredpill/. Work romance? Don't shit where you eat. Applies less to universities. Are you typing out walls of text about a chick? You have one-itis. She's not special. Sex dried up? Lift more. Do dread. Bitch less. Considering relationshipping someone? Take her for a non-… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/15 03:19 AM |
| 1 | No more FPH posts or meta posts unless they about TRP/TBPYou're confusing illegality with morality. It's not illegal. But it is immoral. That's why people are protesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | No more FPH posts or meta posts unless they about TRP/TBPNot now, no. That's why it's unethical. Build a base with promises of freedom. Cut the promise once you have the base. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/15 04:43 PM |
| 1 | No more FPH posts or meta posts unless they about TRP/TBPUsers provide clicks. They view ads. They buy gold. That, by definition, is 'value'. Users first came for the principle. Now that a userbase is built up, they're gonna take away the principle to make it more appealing to advertisers. Unethical bait and switch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/15 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What Does PPD Think of the Redpill SubredditSimulator Bot?I've seen these before. Someone coded a bot to follow a guy around, posting markov chains drawn from his comments. That was pretty funny. This one's alright. It's better when you don't recognise the source material. In this case you can tell when one part ends and another begins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/15 09:35 AM |
| 2 | No more FPH posts or meta posts unless they about TRP/TBPI've seen no one bring up the right to free speech except those like you, trying to dispel this so-called mistake. A lot of people are bringing up the principle of free speech. This is relevant, because it's one of the principles reddit has stood behind in the past, and a reason for it becoming so popular. There are no legal transgressions. If there were, people would be making their cases in the courts. There are, however, moral transgressions. In particular, founding a website on a principle a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/15 09:29 AM |
| 7 | Took care of myself after being denied by wifeGood. It's outcome independence. Think of it this way: if all you want from her is sex, and suddenly you're able to deal with that yourself, where does that leave her? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/06/15 04:54 AM |
| 4 | /r/FatPeopleHate banned for harassment -- TRP next?Like r/shitniggerssay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/15 08:14 PM |
| 2 | What if I like being skinny?You can 'like' it, sure. Will it help your SMV? Will it make you more attractive? Will it make others respect you more? If you lift and get muscular, will your confidence and self-respect plummet? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 10:13 AM |
| 4 | Does TRP condone cheating on an LTR, or "trading up" for a new wife? (Only applying to those who are ok with LTRs in the first place)You're confusing the theory with the people who practise it. TRP doesn't speak to morality. It describes people and how to act to bring about certain results. Whether you want these results is up to you. Think of it like learning to throw a punch. You're asking, "what does this how-to-punch guide say about mugging people?" The punch guide doesn't care. It just tells you how to punch. Maybe the person writing it will inject an opinion about how it should only be used in defence of you, or your pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/15 09:12 AM |
| 7 | Both Pills what do you think of 4chanHalfchan went to shit. The extensive mod leaks just proved it. The system of anonymity is great. The culture of hostility? Yes please. On the other hand, the board structure is not ideal for sharing swathes of text and things 404 quickly. I'm undecided on the merits of comment trees vs linear comments. Each has its upsides. As for /pol/; they're too fringe for my tastes. They take alright ideas and spin them to be ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/15 09:05 AM |
| 13 | Chad meets the Special Snowflake (#1)Call me a moralfag and hang me out to dry, but where you say, "no, I'm looking for a relationship with someone not afraid to explore her wild side", are you just lying to her? If you're being honest, what would your response have been if you were just looking for a fling? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 08:07 AM |
| 5 | If there were a female equivalent to TRP, what would it have to say about men?There is a female equivalent to TRP. It's called RPW, or /r/RedPillWomen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Can someone explain to me why there are posts of indian/pakistani guys always saying they can't get the attention of white women constantly?That's not deceit; that's a social construct. Property is a social construct. The original comment was a challenge to the western notion that gender identicality is necessary for a functional, happy society. Maybe he's right and maybe he's wrong. I haven't studied enough about the Saudis to know. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 10:58 AM |
| 4 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?I can't really help you if you don't like that Hold up. I'd love it if things were as nuanced as you propose. Most of TRP would, in fact. The reason it's full of angry men is because things aren't nuanced like that. It's a generation of people brought up on that lie. You didn't give any sense of the nuance. Make it concrete for me. Was it his smile? His humour? His cock? His devotion? You haven't specified what she preferred about him, instead leaving it up in the air as 'well not all women like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 10:52 AM |
| 3 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?The paper only speaks to heterosexual interactions. It says so in the title. Inserting gay men requires a different analysis, which I provided. To put it a different way, PiV sex from a man has little value, because most men are willing to put out like that at a moment's notice. Anal sex from a man is a completely different kettle of fish, because most men are not willing to take it in the ass at a moment's notice. (With exception, of course.) Both TRP and the MRM share an anger phase. Both beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 10:48 AM |
| 6 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?What i did say was that attractiveness and what is attractive is different in different contexts in different people in different cultures. The idea that there is one ideal of masculinity is flawed, there isn't. What that having hobbies, health and confidence are great. I'm not disputing that. I 'm disputing that the same mix of traits is true for every single women. I'm disputing that there is one way to be attractive. She just liked my dad the best. he fit her in ways other guys didn't. Yet th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 06:17 AM |
| 8 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?Correct. MRA is very distinct from TRP. MRAs want to have men given the same treatment as women in society. TRP laughs, says that it'll never happen, and focuses on thriving in reality. It 'confirms' TRP enough in the sense that this is how things are, and how they have been across many cultures. Perhaps you could change the practices with a sufficient propaganda campaign? Perhaps you couldn't. More importantly, there is no such campaign in the works. The current wave of feminism is about expand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 05:33 AM |
| 6 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?You come in asking for scientific evidence, yet in the comments we're getting into specifics about how it applies to your parents, with only limited knowledge of your parents supplied. Firstly, TRP is more economic than scientific. The market as a whole is rational, but individuals can fuck up or deviate. Secondly, are you honestly disagreeing that attractiveness is based on the traits listed by /u/capt-next-a-hoe, and that it's instead based on some ethereal quality that we cannot observe? I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Should a woman be obligated to step in and try to stop a man from being attacked if she's the only one around?It's important to distinguish between a moral obligation and a moral action. An obligation imports a duty. Failure to do it is a moral breach. For example, a parent failing to take care of a child is a breach of a moral obligation. A moral action is a positive action considered morally laudable if done, but by no means obligatory. For example, jumping on a grenade to protect your comrades? That's a moral action, but none would suggest that there's an obligation to do so. Then there's this grey a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Can someone explain to me why there are posts of indian/pakistani guys always saying they can't get the attention of white women constantly?I wasn't defending the Middle East in all of its entirety. I was pointing out a false equivalency. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 04:35 AM |
| 7 | Can someone explain to me why there are posts of indian/pakistani guys always saying they can't get the attention of white women constantly?False equivalency. If asked, "would you like to live with access to food, security and technology" they would answer in the affirmative. They are oppressed in that they are deceived into believing that their dictatorship achieves, rather than works against, these ends. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/15 02:09 AM |
| 1 | One of my old plates turned bitterTRP deals exclusively with male/female dynamics. You are not male or viewed as male by those around you. Some parts of TRP may work, but not all will. Why are you bothering with a gf if you're just going to fuck around with others in the circle? You're not married. You don't have to stay -- oh, right. You were setting up a branch to swing to. The way your new friend is acting? Those are what we'd call shit tests. At least, they would be if they were aimed at a man. It seems more likely that in b… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Dear MenThe men here didn't personally do shit. I didn't bring anyone out of a cave or craft a lightbulb. Let's not rest on the laurels of others. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 12:36 AM |
| 10 | Social Experiment: Girlfriend Sold for Money (Video)Where's the 'after' video? That's where the payoff is. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 12:17 AM |
| 0 | Roommates: "where has this change in attitude come from? You sound mad and dumb. Just stop."Here. It's a guide to talking about TRP to others. In this case, though, you should just stop. They're not receptive. You're arguing with them. Just quit it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 09:30 AM |
| 11 | Mattress Girl just made a porno...and called it performance art.She is the gift that keeps on giving. Could we honestly ask for more? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 06:19 AM |
| 20 | /r/relationships wife nonchalantly mentions to her husband that she cheated on him, then dances with the affair partner in front of him, all on his sister's wedding dayAh, guts. I missed it too. Looks like he's gonna stay, based on the comments. He's pissed as hell, though. Sunk cost fallacy and all that jazz. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 06:03 AM |
| 2 | When is someone using drugs/alcohol incapable of giving consent to sex?No, there's no associated BAC. It's not a question of 'how drunk', but rather 'did you realise what was happening'. If not, it doesn't matter how drunk you were or weren't. The autistic woman being unable to consent is fine in my books. She is likely, at a guess, to be unable to understand what sex even is. Furthermore, at least here, if the alleged rapist believed on objectively reasonable grounds that consent was provided, the rapist is off the hook. I'm no lawyer though, and this isn't proper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/15 05:29 PM |
| 3 | When is someone using drugs/alcohol incapable of giving consent to sex?It's a high standard in that it's hard to reach. The bar is set very high. Not even being so drunk as to forget everything you did would suffice, if you (seemed to have) understood and consented. I'm fine with the standard, but I recognise that it's high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/15 05:22 PM |
| 3 | When is someone using drugs/alcohol incapable of giving consent to sex?In this case, I reckon my country has the law in a pretty good place. It's only not consent if the drunkenness makes the victim unable to consent or refuse. In other words, if the victim is physically incapable of speech, that's rape. Other cases would be a failure to comprehend what is happening. If you're so blotto that you don't understand that you're having sex, you can't consent to it. This is a pretty high standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/15 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Advice for a frienddon't leave until she asks you to, or leaves herself You're gonna tell your mate to hang around her work and bug her until her shift ends, she quits or manages to convince her boss to have him trespassed? He got her number, then got shut down in the early stages. Texting/calling is for logistics, not for breaking through resistance. Pursuing her at work when she's made it clear that she doesn't want him to will just make things awkward. Most importantly, with RP you don't target a single woman. … | /r/askTRP | 04/06/15 02:20 PM |
| 2 | An EPIC Tale of Trying to Fight Off The Friendzone - Veteran RedPill Help Needed!!I didn't read your post. Here are the cliff notes of TRP Advice. Let me know if your case is special enough that they don't apply. Cheating? Break up. Period. Marriage? Don't get into it. If you are in it already, go to /r/marriedredpill/. Work romance? Don't shit where you eat. Applies less to universities. Are you typing out walls of text about a chick? You have one-itis. She's not special. Sex dried up? Lift more. Do dread. Bitch less. Considering relationshipping someone? Take her for a non-… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/15 02:08 PM |
| 10 | Quick Shit Test TipA chick asks you how to do something, after being repeatedly told where to look it up. But she keeps asking, trying to break you down and make you explain it, to save her the trouble. You look her in the eye and say, "read the fucking sidebar." | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/15 12:54 AM |
| 8 | Does TRP that men have no advantages in society?You're getting too caught up in the details. Everyone can take up multiple seats to the detriment of others. Your pregnant lady, for example. Women with purses. Obese people. More importantly, we now have laws against it, enforced judiciously by the esteemed NYC police. To prove systemic, consistent 'micro aggressions' on the basis of gender, you need multiple examples of behaviours from men to women that happen consistently AND are condoned by society. That last one is key. If society doesn't c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/15 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical question for Purple Pill about how sex ratios affect dating dynamics.20% isn't that much. Imagine 100 men. Let's say the bottom 10% got out of war. The next bottom 70% drops by 14 men. The top 20% loses four men. We have a 10/56/16 mix. Being in war doesn't make you alpha. Perhaps you'll come back with a sweet bod, or you might be missing a limb, have PTSD or a fucked up face. All in all, some people will shift up and some will shift down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/15 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetical question for Purple Pill about how sex ratios affect dating dynamics.The best men of today are getting harems. Not legally in a marriage, but practically, via plate spinning. Sure, some men may want a life partner. But getting some on the side never hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/15 01:18 PM |
| 2 | For the TRPers here, how do asexual people play into your equation?Blah blah blah outliers blah blah. Moving on, let's answer your question. When you say 'asexual', there are a few options for what you mean. Firstly, the individual could be entirely blind to physical SMV. Secondly, the individual could be influenced by the same traits, but just not want to have sex. Finally, the individual could be attracted to certain traits, but not others. In the case of the first, the individual develops his or her own heuristic for 'emotionally compatible'. Alternatively, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/15 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Hirsute or Hairless: Redpiller's Stance on Male Bodyhair?Whatever the people around you do is what you do. Watch the icons, the actors, the alphas in the area. Of course, it's hard to go wrong with a light beard. Clean enough to be professional and hygienic, but still hairy enough to display masculinity. I'm experimenting with a full beard at present. It's a bit of a pain and I look forward to going back to a light beard, but I'll persevere until it gets too bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/15 01:02 PM |
| 3 | What do TRPillers actually mean when they say they see women "for what they are" ?For the sub as a whole, it signifies a barbecuing of the sacred cow that forbids criticising women and their nature. It's an invitation to discuss what would otherwise be unacceptable. For me personally? What is the 'true nature of women'? Put frankly, they're human. They fart, they shit and they act in their own self-interest, using all tools at their disposal, be it consciously or subconsciously. No great revelation, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/15 12:58 PM |
| 14 | The idea that 80% of women are only interested in the top 20% of men. What's your opinion of it?Applies for casual sex only. Standards shift and plummet for settling down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/15 12:46 PM |
| 6 | [all pills] Are your rules male and female infidelity the same? If a husband or wife cheats, is it the cheater's fault, or the spouse's fault for driving the cheater to it?Yeah, nah. The cheating is the tortious act in the first place. The cheater is capable of independent action and thought, thus acting as a Novus Actus Interveniens, breaking the chain of causation. So long as the cheater can be said to be able to voluntarily act on his or her own, the other person has no legal liability for the action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/15 04:04 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys reconcile TRP truths with conventional psychology, as well as conventional science as a whole?Not quite. He says both partners need to consider themselves to belong to the other person. To put it in TRP terms, both partners need to be high SMV and value each other's SMV equally or more. If a man values a woman like that without being respected himself? He'll end up as a disrespected betabux. If a woman values a man like that without being respected like that, she'll end up a plate. Perfectly compatible. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 12:31 AM |
| 34 | Woman is thinking of making her husband a 'list of chores' before he gets a blowjob.Could you please give the study? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 11:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingAgreed. Maybe it's just his own circle. So you consult other people. You ask their views. You read some Dawkins and discover the scientific evidence for a dual mating strategy. You come to the conclusion that it's likely. Even the opposition, you, say that people marry for 'comfort'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 10:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingA word. A trope. It's in the social consciousness. Extant. Not strong enough evidence to prove prevalence, but enough to prove social recognition and social disapproval. I didn't say 'fucking whoever'. I said 'fucking whoever you like'. The global average is nine partners. More in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 10:31 PM |
| 4 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingYeah, he wasn't concerned until he realised what was happening. Are you suggesting a better approach is to bury our heads in the sand and pretend it isn't a thing? The entire point of AFBB is that the man who they settle with is not chosen by the same metric as the others. Is this absolutely fine? Whether or not it's okay must be considered from the perspective of men. More importantly, OP is questioning whether it exists, not the merits of it. We can't literally read her mind. We can't get 100%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 10:23 PM |
| 5 | Question for all pills: What is a belief you are actually willing to concede?I'm willing to concede anything, given suitable evidence. Of course, the question then becomes, 'what is suitable evidence?' The answer is, 'enough to convince a man that what he sees is not what's real.' Pretty high threshold. In terms of general RP beliefs that I'd concede? I'd concede the point of substantial biological differences between what men and women want in relationships. I'd be willing to put it all down to society. In fact, I'd even be willing to concede that we can change what we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 05:07 AM |
| 21 | CMV: AFBB is a ThingCorrect. We cannot read people's minds. All we can do is observe patterns of behaviour and make guesses for those patterns. In this case, a pattern of 'preference for sex with attractive men' and 'preference for partnership with wealthy men' has been observed. Perhaps there are other factors in play, perhaps not. But OP has noticed this correlation, TRP has noticed this correlation. It isn't just one or two people; it's a trend well noted. There's even a word for it: 'Gold Digger'. It's an idea … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Extreme Red Pillers are no better than extreme feminists, they both need to stop.As others have stated, TRP doesn't have a cause. It doesn't need approval. It doesn't go to political rallies. It doesn't message congress. It doesn't have a list of issues or policies. It doesn't even have an ideal world. What it has is advice for men based on recent changes in society. It has men upset about the current state of affairs and perceived lies of society. You're right, though. It doesn't help the MRM. The MRM is about fighting certain areas of change, as well as gaining change in o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 03:33 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The underlying assumptions of TRP are false, leading to inefficient dating practicesYou should have complimentary happiness objectives, but you fundamentally do not have the same goals. A man's goal may be to have a good wife. A woman's goal? It's to have a good husband. It certainly isn't 'to be a good wife'. Being a good wife is something done in order to have, and in response to a good husband. That's what I mean by it being a negotiation game. Some partners will be better than others. If you want the best ones, and thus the best happiness, you need to have more to offer and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 03:23 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The underlying assumptions of TRP are false, leading to inefficient dating practicesBecause the other person doesn't want what you want. You have separate interests. The other person wants their happiness. You want yours. You have your desires and they have theirs. Sure, sometimes you have mutual goals, but almost always it's about amicable, mutual compromise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 02:29 AM |
| 6 | CMV: The underlying assumptions of TRP are false, leading to inefficient dating practicesYour framework is a description, not a strategy. It is what I would use if I were explaining relationships to a martian, not to a person. It can be summarised as: Decide what you want. Date according to what you want. As what you want changes, go back to 1., then repeat. You have to decide to date. Find partners either incidentally, intentionally, or just for sex. Decide whether you want to be long-term. If you aren't getting what you want from a relationship, get what you want or leave. You may… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 12:47 AM |
| 2 | TRP: Who is more attractive to women: a physically attractive guy who acts beta or a physically unattractive guy who acts alpha?TRP complains that Beta behavior by itself is a turnoff and I was arguing that it wasn't. A physically attractive guy that is beta (but not super insecure/a complete doormat) is actually a turn on for me. Most guys that are beta have to be because they're physically unattractive. Beta traits are required for long term relationships. They signify commitment, which is important for long-term stability. Of course you want an attractive man that commits to you and dotes on you. On the other hand, fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 12:22 AM |
| 1 | TRP: Who is more attractive to women: a physically attractive guy who acts beta or a physically unattractive guy who acts alpha?if the crying is not some indication of mental illness or something inappropriate and confusing--the woman is not going to care. She will sleep with you. No one is going to be super attractive to large numbers of people if they are crying all the time--people like happy people more than they like sad people. I get what you're saying, that crying won't flip a switch from attractive to unattractive, but as you've noted, people prefer happy people to sad people. Crying and showing weakness drive do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 01:04 PM |
| 2 | TRP: Who is more attractive to women: a physically attractive guy who acts beta or a physically unattractive guy who acts alpha?They are very slippery kinds of facts--sort of things that people think they can intuit but could not be demonstrated. Fair. Academia on the issue would be both difficult and incredibly unpopular, given the current liberal bent of institutions. TRP probably makes sense for men who are attracted to a certain type of woman. The extent of it is an interesting question. TRP would argue that the snowflake machine has a reliable, snowflake-cutter output, to the point where 'AWALT'. In any case, the tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 09:24 AM |
| 1 | NSFW: What do you think about this situation?You'd have to be really sort of stubborn to insist that these people are all having horrible, miserable lives without realizing it. TRP primarily speaks to sexual attraction. It would advocate that said relationships are sexually unfulfilled. Perhaps the rest of their lives are dandy. Domestic bliss and systems of cooperation are possible. The one point that TRP holds firm is that you can't negotiate desire. There's such a huge amount of cultural variability as well in terms of what people will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Do women love alphas like betas love women ?There are alpha behaviours and traits. There are beta behaviours and traits. Alpha traits are assertive and results-focused. Beta traits are submissive and feelings-focused. The traits have been categorised based on what is and isn't attractive. The categories have since taken on the meanings of the traits, rather than just the metric of whether or not a behaviour or person is attractive. As an aside, it's generally considered reductive to view individuals as 'alpha' or 'beta'. When talked about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 08:39 AM |
| 3 | TRP: Who is more attractive to women: a physically attractive guy who acts beta or a physically unattractive guy who acts alpha?He did manage to have a girlfriend in the past, and when he chose to go on his spree, he didn't go after her. He doesn't state anything about their breakup, and didn't seem overly clingy. Regarding TRP 'big theory': What proportion of people would you say it does work for? I've seen it acknowledged from time to time that TRP isn't for everyone, that unicorns exist, and so on and so forth. Some people have odd sexual desires and will find everything TRP-related to be bollocks. The only claim it m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 08:30 AM |
| 0 | NSFW: What do you think about this situation?Oh sod off. It was to within this very subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 08:20 AM |
| 0 | NSFW: What do you think about this situation?The calculated manipulation and the lack of transparency could lead to a very significant kind of distance though. It would really depend. Here's a link to something I wrote on manipulation. I think it's pertinent to the topic at hand, as it's a rather loaded word. Regarding transparency, TRP has a pro-transparency bent in that it's against what it calls 'covert contracts'. Those are unspoken contracts made by unassertive men. For example, beta orbiters give women things and attention with an ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 08:18 AM |
| 4 | TRP: Who is more attractive to women: a physically attractive guy who acts beta or a physically unattractive guy who acts alpha?Cheers. Yeah, after reading some of that, I already see his issues. May 18, 2009: I actually had a date today. It was with a woman I met on the bus in March. We got together at Two PPG Place for lunch. The last date for me was May 1, 2008. Women just don't like me. There are 30 million desirable women in the US (my estimate) and I cannot find one. Not one of them finds me attractive. He's depressed and trapped in a negative loop. He didn't seek anyone for an entire year. He talks similarly to Ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 07:13 AM |
| 0 | NSFW: What do you think about this situation?If I am only willing to benefit you because benefitting you benefits me then I don't love you. By that metric, most relationships are not 'love'. People spend their lives with others because being with the other person makes them happy. Staying with someone, even when unhappy, is regarded by both RP and BP as incredibly unwise, emotionally unhealthy, etc. If there's a deal breaker in there about what you are providing to me which is totally contractual and I will leave if you 'break the deal/con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 06:41 AM |
| 3 | TRP: Who is more attractive to women: a physically attractive guy who acts beta or a physically unattractive guy who acts alpha?Could you create a post of it here? I'd like to have a proper look at it, and hear the rest of the sub's views. For now I'm sticking to my assumption that he gave off a 'probably gonna kill you' vibe, or he didn't 'get' human interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 05:54 AM |
| 12 | TRP: Who is more attractive to women: a physically attractive guy who acts beta or a physically unattractive guy who acts alpha?Clearly not, as he shot up a gym. That's pretty clear that he didn't function normally. Probably a personality disorder of some kind, like Elliot Rodgers. My bet is that he had severe interpersonal issues, bringing his attitude score way down. A mass-murderer-to-be almost certainly had symptoms strong enough to deter people. Alternatively, he may have simply never approached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 05:33 AM |
| 1 | NSFW: What do you think about this situation?You missed my point. Your ordinary relationships are based around the same notions as RP says. RP isn't a sociopath club. It's just people learning normal social interactions by wrote. Love, and 'value as a human' are abstract concepts. You can fit any actions to fit them. RP can fit them just as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Does TRP think that women in an LTR don't care if their partner respects them as her hypergamy is satisfied?Personally? It's great that she has a sense of humour and can make people laugh, but I value her laughing at my jokes more. I don't have the studies on hand, but while both men and women value humour, men value women who recognise it, while women value men that create it. I appreciate humour, but it takes quite a bit to make me actually laugh. Usually it's limited to shock humour. When my GF makes me laugh, it's usually unintentional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 02:40 AM |
| 2 | NSFW: What do you think about this situation?Moral standards are for each person to navigate. TRP is amoral and merely describes actions and results in a way people easily understand. You could just as easily wrap it up in blue talk. e.g. "Bro, stop trying to pressure the chick into anal. You should take a step back and give her some space. Stop obsessing over her when you're hanging out with everyone; it's clingy. Just enjoy chilling and be yourself." People like to pretend that power plays and subtle influences don't happen, and it's all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 02:24 AM |
| 2 | NSFW: What do you think about this situation?Dread is one of the more misunderstood parts of TRP. There's a fine line between 'dread' and 'covert contract'. Let's just look at the purpose of dread, and why it works. Firstly, the higher one's SMV (sexual market value, calculated through attitude, appearance, wealth and social standing), the better one will be treated. It's why rock stars have groupies, sportspeople can sleep with a different girl each night, and so on and so forth. It's how women obtain beta orbiters and how men obtain plat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Do any blue pillers support the fat acceptance movement? If so, what about short acceptance?Fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Question for both: What generally speaking makes a man a good husband?Go check out /r/marriedredpill if you haven't already. It advocates a captain/first-mate model, with the man leading the household and the woman dutifully doing her part. The captain listens to the first mate, takes her views into consideration, then decides. It talks about the importance of maintaining frame and keeping the wife aware that the man has other options, while assuring her that he only wants her. (Passing shit tests, running dread and passing comfort tests.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 01:01 AM |
| 15 | TRP: Who is more attractive to women: a physically attractive guy who acts beta or a physically unattractive guy who acts alpha?Firstly, you've hit on a less spoken of point in TRP: beta actions are good for a relationship. Beta is comfort and security. It's money, cuddles and an emotional tampon. You need beta traits to have a relationship work. Otherwise she'll eventually leave, because she needs security. This is more spoken of in MRP. Secondly, TRP cares about sex. For your former relationship, he had to 'top up' his poor sexual value with extra kindness to get sex. Even then, it was duty sex, not rip-your-clothes-of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Do any blue pillers support the fat acceptance movement? If so, what about short acceptance?Calling a woman fat or talking about one's refusal to date fat people is becoming more and more socially unacceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 12:40 AM |
| 5 | Do any blue pillers support the fat acceptance movement? If so, what about short acceptance?TRP doesn't like where things are going. However, it does not attempt to fight it. Instead, it advocates enjoying the decline. Take the hypergamy gig. Instead of bemoaning it and advocating for a return to Christian roots, it says "be the better man and profit". Take the marriage divorce rape gig. Instead of organising protests, it advises prenuptial agreements and suggests against marriage. If Feminism is a wave, TRP is a surf lesson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 12:38 AM |
| 5 | RP: Do you believe BP men generalize women for the opposite of AWALT?I like the snowflake machine metaphor. Good post. Would suggest cross-posting to /r/TheRedPill, just for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Question... what do I do when my man cries and throws fits like a child about things? ie: tooth pain, spending time all day with him but then guilt trip about having other personal obligations?I'm unfamiliar with RPW practices, but if I'm correct in assuming it's the same overarching principle as TRP, it teaches you how to improve yourself and be the best, highest SMV woman you can be. If you're doing this and a partner isn't raising his SMV, you have to ditch. I think men have it a bit easier in moulding partners, as the role is more dominant. If a man takes charge, the woman will capitulate and everything falls into line. If a woman capitulates to a shitty man, well, he's not necess… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/15 12:27 PM |
| 14 | Sex and valueFirstly, TRP does not attempt to ascribe an overall metric for value as a person. It discusses everything in a framework of sexual relations, assigning SMV, or sexual market value, to people. It does this because sexual relations is its focus. Individuals within TRP may value sexual market value over other traits when calculating someone's 'overall. But really, overall value as a person has little use in TRP theory. To put this a different way, let's say a RP man gets the choice of saving a high… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 12:18 PM |
| -2 | On using Feminist/ progressive vocabulary and rhetoric...The idea of an activity or area being gender biased or exclusive did not originate in feminism. Activities have had such tendencies since the beginning. 'Narrative' recognises that different groups have different perspectives and attempt to explain events and behaviours differently, almost as stories or 'narratives' (narration). It is not exclusive to feminism, nor does its use suggest capitulation to such an imperative. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 11:38 AM |
| 8 | More Blue Pill Propaganda coming to theaters in JulyMad Max was fine. Sure, Max was quiet, had little motive and didn't act as a leader, but if you've seen the past films you'd know that it's entirely in character for him. In Road Warrior he did similar. He just rocked up to a town, offered his services in exchange for petrol, and from there on out the story was theirs. The RoK article was just shit stirring. No great character got sacrificed on the altar to feminism. The strongest feminist element was the evil empire. It was a card carrying anal… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Plating Your Friend's Ex?TRP doesn't concern itself with morality. It is amoral strategy. It will not answer your 'should I...' question with normative values. It will only look at it from a positive, results-based approach. Morally, you need to decide for yourself what you will and will not do. Consequence-wise? You know your friend and the social circle better than us. Will he blow his lid? Can she keep it under wraps? Will your social circle judge you? Will he be all good with it? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 11:44 PM |
| 1 | What are trp's "contingency plans" if Reddit CEO shuts us down?What is the 8ch board for TRP? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 11:24 PM |
| 3 | On the Folly of Mistaking a Throne for an Army.That's typical accountancy for you. Any gains are capital in nature, and thus exempt from income tax. Any expenditure is a loss in revenue, not a reduction in capital. When calculating tax, you get to deduct your losses from what you have to pay. Suddenly your tax is minimised. Shareholders don't care, because capital is noted as potential income, meaning the share value skyrockets, even if the dividends aren't there. They can then sit on the shares until a profit turns, or they can sell them to… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Introducing redpill to a teenagerFollow this guide. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 11:06 PM |
| 9 | tell the boyfriend you re banging his girl?The profit is in personal satisfaction. Both of them fucked him over, so he fucks them back. Of course, ideally he wouldn't care. He'd just ditch her, laugh in her face and move on, fucking her when he feels like it. Similarly, he shouldn't need their acknowledgement of him 'winning'. He should be comfortable in that himself. He isn't LTRing her anymore, which is a loss for her and a win for him. He's fucking her behind the BF's back, which is a win for him and a loss for the BF. He doesn't need… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 11:03 PM |
| 0 | My uncle -- who raised me when my parents were absent -- makes quips about me in the company of others all the time..."Yeah. Obesity." "Oh, I didn't tell you?" "I focus on people, not animals. They make for better conversation." | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 02:54 AM |
| 2 | AWALT/AMALT is self-inflicted dread game.Anxiety, fear and dread aren't pleasant. But neither is lifting a weight. The result is what matters. Instead of trying to ignore it, TRP embraces it and works to surpass it. Abundance mentality comes from options. Options come from chicks going for you because you're a better option. In other words, that's the 'positive' side of AWALT; TRP wins. Accepting AWALT is one of the ways to become outcome independent. Outcome independence can be taken to differing extents. It can be as simple as not sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 09:08 AM |
| 2 | AWALT/AMALT is self-inflicted dread game.You're close. Firstly, dread is not bad. It's motivation to work harder. It says not to take a partner for granted. TRP wants to make you great. The point of dread is to make your partner great. Dread just makes you up your SMV. Secondly, it's true. If your SMV drops beneath hers, she will leave. TRP gets nowhere by sugar coating it. Furthermore, by telling it like it is, it takes the worst of it, the betrayal, out of the bite. It's just expected. It's human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 07:23 AM |
| 10 | Found this book in a girls room, how should I go about this?Read the first half of this for why manipulation doesn't matter. Secondly, why do you even care? So she's taking advice from books. Doesn't matter. Look at ends, not means. The end is that you have a plate that will be taking efforts to please you, even trying to engaging in topics you want to talk about. It's not 'mind games' or 'manipulation'. It's basic social interaction on how to give you what you want. If the book said "smile at him, laugh at his jokes and suck his cock", would you be upse… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/15 06:19 AM |
| 4 | Is it manipulation if a wife will only have sex with her husband after he does all the house chores?Please be wary of that statement. Don't take it to mean that you can increase SMV by doing favours for women. It has to be an explicit trade, like money for sex, chores for sex, etc. Also, it won't actually increase SMV; SMV makes others want to sleep with you for the sake of sleeping with you. Labour just makes her willing to 'endure' the sex for the sake of profit. So yes, labour can make a higher-SMV woman more willing to sleep with a lower-SMV man, but it can't make her like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Is this all for me? I'm 14.The answer is "yes, but." Everyone at that age is still learning and deciding what ideology to embrace. Don't start sperging out about this in class. Just read and make modifications to your behaviour. Play a sport. Dress well. Eat well. Lift. People will tell you you're too young. Tell them to fuck off. If you can't get a gym, buy some weights. They're cheap enough. Most of all, it's yours for the taking. Start early. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/15 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Is this an accurate presentation of RP'Red Pill' is not a term exclusively used by /r/TheRedPill. People on fringe boards, such as the *chans' /pol/, also use the term. It signifies an awakening from a commonly held belief in society. You can be 'redpill' on conspiracies, on Jewish influence, on race-relations or on gender interactions. /r/TheRedPill exclusively deals in the latter. That article is about /pol/ and Gamergate, not /r/TheRedPill. It's an awkward terminology and leads to misunderstandings. TRP does not espouse any views… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 02:18 AM |
| 5 | Is it manipulation if a wife will only have sex with her husband after he does all the house chores?I disagree with the use of the word 'manipulation'. It carries heavy connotations of immorality or negativity, whereas the definition is broad enough to encompass far more situations. Control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly or unscrupulously: the masses were deceived and manipulated by a tiny group (source) 'Controlling or influencing people' is just ordinary social interaction and can be either conscious or unconscious. I smile at people when I see them. This evokes positive feeli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 02:11 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on disclosing virginity to the girl you're about to lose it to?No. But the important thing is understanding the 'why' behind the 'no'. If you're 'disclosing' it, you're confessing. You're placing yourself in a position of weakness, both in your mind and hers. This is in turn reflected in your behaviour. Likewise, outright lying is an insecurity, but not as bad as the disclosure. Joke the question away. Make her guess. Lie extravagantly. Tell her the past is the past. Say you don't keep count. Flip the pressure by asking her. When she gives the obvious answe… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/15 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Reputation on being flirtatiousFlirtatious and creepy are two sides of the same coin. If you're good looking and socially competent, it's flirting. If not, it's creepy. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/15 11:05 PM |
| 5 | This is absolute Gold: Maggie Gyllenhaal gets introduced to the wall by Hollywood producer. Reddit SJWs and middle-aged women go ape shit in the comment sectionThey want men to stop valuing women for their beauty and start valuing them for their other attributes. Do they have those other attributes? Some do. Many don't. Those who don't then cry oppression when men are favoured. Thus we get a reformulation: they want men to stop valuing them for their beauty and start valuing them for their other attributes in such a way that their value remains the same. That's what's patently absurd. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Hollywood's obsession with "badass" womenAnd how is the heuristic of 'good' determined? What factors influence the writer? Why does a character keep coming up as female? Why does every single female archetype end up as the only female in Hollywood? I think your proximity is clouding your judgement. Often our own actions are a mystery to ourselves. It's like the women who insist that they wear makeup 'for themselves' and 'because they like it'. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Mid 20s F. No backbone. Go for TRP or RPW?You're a bit off, yeah. Having that attachment and caring for a partner is exactly what RPW advocates, and will ultimately end in a happy relationship. As a chick, you can fuck anyone of your attractiveness and usually those quite a bit higher. If you, as an attractive woman, proposition a man, he will fuck you. However, while you can fuck men significantly hotter, you can't get them to commit. You're a plate to them, not a relationship. Furthermore, they just want sex from you. They don't want … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Mid 20s F. No backbone. Go for TRP or RPW?Your problem is that you aren't getting LTR'd. (Presumably you've more played the role of a plate?) The solution to this is RPW. It's entirely based around not becoming a plate, and instead procuring a relationship. To put it a different way, TRP focuses on teaching men how to extract the most 'sex' for their 'relationship'. RPW focuses on teaching women how to extract the most 'relationship' for their 'sex'. If you want to give up on the LTR entirely and instead focusing on getting laid a shitt… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Mid 20s F. No backbone. Go for TRP or RPW?To clarify: you've had men end LTRs with you in favour of other women? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 03:43 AM |
| 2 | LTR of almost 2 years still talks to ex FWB?What was this major problem? Did she need someone killed? In any case, abundance mentality. You aren't gaining anything by being with her. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Mid 20s F. No backbone. Go for TRP or RPW?TRP is sexual theory turned into advice for men. For you? What do you want out of life? Wanna start a family with a hot man? Wanna fuck around for your 20s? Wanna have a harem of orbiters to sort shit out for you? Wanna have a pushover husband and wear the pants? You can either play the 'new woman' game of AF/BB, or the 'old woman' game of focusing on locking down a high value man. The potential downside of the former is the wall. But you'll be able to land a BB without too much trouble. RPW wou… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Going to a girl's place tomorrow that has a boyfriend, we matched on tinder, how should I go by disregarding said boyfriend and score?RemindMe! 1 day | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Surprisingly RP OpEd in the Local PaperThat's a university, not the justice system at large. Universities are funded by student fees. Students are notoriously liberal, not to mention rape-averse. You don't bite the hand that feeds. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 01:18 PM |
| 11 | Surprisingly RP OpEd in the Local PaperThe law is a funny thing. You end up with a situation where both parties are simultaneously treated as telling the truth, and you can even reach a resolution with that as a result. It can be hard to wrap one's head around. Firstly, the alleged assailant is presumed innocent unless guilty beyond reasonable doubt. (This doesn't have a percentage value, but let's put it at 1%.) Secondly, if the assailant is found not guilty, that means he was not guilty beyond reasonable doubt. This would require b… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/15 12:27 AM |
| 1 | So You Want to Talk About the Pill in Public: A guide to BluewashingCreating new accounts to post in places you have been banned from will get you shadow banned. There is a place for the pithy jargon, but whenever you tie yourself to TRP, you're losing any plausible deniability. You're outing yourself as a member of a disreputable community. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 03:47 PM |
| 5 | So You Want to Talk About the Pill in Public: A guide to BluewashingWhy are people asking you about TRP? How do they know you practise it? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 03:44 PM |
| 1 | So You Want to Talk About the Pill in Public: A guide to BluewashingI find talking about 'success' has people object that 'oh, women aren't just gold diggers!' or something similar. Noted on the high-quality/low-quality. I've encountered those sorts of terms in biology, but it's possibly too clinical to apply to everyday life. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 03:44 PM |
| 2 | So You Want to Talk About the Pill in Public: A guide to BluewashingYou mean explicitly state that it's important to maintain deniability and make the entire conversation 'just some thoughts I've been having, man'? It's there in the subtext, but you're right. If someone's using this guide, it should be explicit. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 03:40 PM |
| 5 | So You Want to Talk About the Pill in Public: A guide to BluewashingOn the contrary, I'm trying to remove the 'internet cult' perception. Sitting around on a message board, memorising acronyms and hating women is cultish. It gets us this bad reputation, and not entirely undeservedly. It has its place. A space like this is helpful to some people. It's nice to have concepts placed out in the open, with layers of political correctness stripped away. But it's not helpful as a means of communicating to others. RP didn't come up with these concepts. I'm just trying to… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Given that marriage provides numerous benefits for women and none for men, why are men the ones who propose? Shouldn't it be the other way around?Consider marriage in the past. The benefit to the man was that he got a housewife, heirs, sex and a dowry. Marriage in the present? It's treated more as a reward for women than anything else. If a man's using it to try to lock down a girl, he'll be rebuffed. It's only given after a period of time in a relationship where the man's been kept happy. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 10:07 AM |
| 10 | So You Want to Talk About the Pill in Public: A guide to BluewashingThe benefit of this guide isn't so much to teach newcomers how to spread the pill as it is to tell them how to not. If they're gonna proselytise, we're better off having them do it the right way. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 07:27 AM |
| 2 | [Serious] Legal professionals of TRP, I need prenup advice.Aim for the moon, but have a backup plan for when you find yourself on a failing rocket, plummeting from the stratosphere towards a rapidly-approaching Earth. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 11:44 PM |
| 2 | All couples should be each other's therapists. What are the Red Pill reasons to disagree with this?Emotional connection happens, no matter what. If anything, TRP tries to keep it in check with abundance mentality. Check out /r/marriedredpill for more info on RP in LTRs. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Why does everyone else outside TRP see it as so taboo?RP's biggest offence is that it presupposes the existence of underlying tendencies for each gender and encourages the reader to reinforce and act upon them. Second wave feminists (read: most people) use a gender-blind approach in their dealings with people. Or at the least, they profess to. Explicitly saying you believe women are fundamentally different to men and act upon it gets you immediately slotted into conservative territory, especially if you're male. In their eyes, gender and gender rol… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 07:35 AM |
| 17 | How to best handle a lie a girl may tell you whom you want to have a possible LTR with?You look insecure. Facebook friends isn't 'keeping in touch'. I have people added that I never talk to. If I know the person by name, I'll add him or her. That said, feel free to casually call her out on it. It's not a big issue, though. (If you wanna confirm what I'm saying, stalk her messages. See when she last contacted them.) | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Asked a girl thru text what turns her on and she saidAre you 15? Go read Sex God Method, for one. For two, texting is a shit way to interact. There's nothing physical. You can't pick her up and throw her on a bed. You can't kino. You can't use sarcasm. Your range of emotions are limited to sending information and not responding. As another poster said, use it for logistics only. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Would having a ripped body be enough to compensateStop thinking of it as compensating. Your opponent isn't the 6'6" guy; it's yourself. "I'm short so I'm fucked" is a thought that does worse than lowering your SMV; it outright prevents you raising it. It's defeatism. You work to improve for the sake of being better than you were yesterday. You can even try to turn it to your advantage. If you attain respect in a social circle despite the size issue, you'll be assumed to have something great enough to outweigh it. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Confused about what to do? Slept with uni partner and regretting it?If I knew how to code, I'd have a bot auto post it on every problem more than 200 words long. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Confused about what to do? Slept with uni partner and regretting it?I didn't read your post. Here are the cliff notes of TRP Advice. Let me know if your case is special enough that they don't apply. Cheating? Break up. Period. Marriage? Don't get into it. If you are in it already, go to /r/marriedredpill/. Work romance? Don't shit where you eat. Applies less to universities. Are you typing out walls of text about a chick? You have one-itis. She's not special. Sex dried up? Lift more. Do dread. Bitch less. Considering relationshipping someone? Take her for a non-… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 09:18 PM |
| 1 | In need of advice- breaking it off with GF who I can't trustSecure the abortion. This is your #1 priority, period. Next her, plate her, whatever. You've just spent a wall of text bitching about your GF. A lot of negatives and no positives. A six month relationship that's an LDR. Don't get pissy. Don't overreact. Deliver the message, either stoically or with AM, that you'll leave if she contacts him. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Is Roosh for real?This thread seems like it'd be better suited to /r/TheRedPill. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Help navigating a LTR that went from her cheating to being an open relationshipThis reads like some /r/relationships shit. You know what that tells me? It tells that you haven't read the sidebar or lurked. Once you do, you can answer almost every /r/relationships issue easily. About two months ago, my girlfriend and mother of my child cheated with a coworker, until I found out through her text messages. 1. You weren't attractive enough, otherwise she wouldn't have cheated. 2. Your attractiveness is now forever dead to her if you forgive her, as she'll have committed the ca… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 04:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to other males who make casual jokes that degrade men?They're projecting a worldview onto you. That's their frame, albeit one that doesn't benefit them. The purpose is to convince you that the 'norm' is that the wife wears the pants. You need to project your worldview more strongly. Act as if you've never heard of a man so whipped before, and that his suggestions are absurd. Imagine he just casually mentioned how he lets his wife fuck other men and channel that incredulousness into your response. You'll come across as a badass, and might even fix h… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 03:40 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with alpha widows?Alpha Widows are unmarriable, because if they've been with a top 1%er, that's the standard they'll want for the marriage. This eats the marriage from the inside out. They aren't unfuckable. You aren't trialling to be her Prince Charming; you're offering a fun night with an attractive, gives-no-fucks man. If you're what's on offer, she'll take it. Who cares if you aren't the best she had? You don't need her validation, just her cunt. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 03:34 AM |
| 6 | All couples should be each other's therapists. What are the Red Pill reasons to disagree with this?Because to talk to a therapist, you need to open yourself up and lay all insecurities bare. In other words, you break frame and reveal insecurities and weaknesses to your partner. The only unconditional love is that of a mother for her children. You do not shift from 'have to win her over' to 'fuck effort; we love each other always' just because you enter a relationship. Showing weakness will make the man less attractive. A less attractive man is a less appealing man. A less appealing man means … | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 03:30 AM |
| 31 | The TV reality show Geek Love perfectly demonstrates AWALT - even "nerdy girls". Especially nerdy girls.It's wish fulfilment harem. It's people who have thoroughly rejected reality, turning instead towards love and acceptance in cartoon form. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/15 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How to handle your girlfriend relying on you for a social life?I explain that I need to... Don't explain. Explanations feed the hamster. If you answer in a rational, serious manner, it reinforces the idea that it's a genuine issue. This is why you agree and amplify. You make light of her concerns. You make her realise that it's not your problem and that it's up to her. Preferably all with some good humour involved. Don't be a cunt about it. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Paid Leave for Mothers"There are a couple of reasons why I'm uneasy about the idea of forcing companies to pay maternity leave. "Firstly, it ultimately disadvantages career-minded women and helps maintain casual discrimination. If you're hiring for a company, you need to prioritise the company's books. If hiring one candidate over another means that you'll likely be forced to pay money, keep her position open and deal with the expense of finding a temporary replacement for what are often highly specialised jobs, you … | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Should I tell her boyfriend that she cheated with me?Let's consider. You will enjoy knocking her down a peg. You want to. Furthermore, the way you want to is morally defensible. There are a few barriers: - the job reference - the potential property damage - the potential rape claims These are all easily dealt with. - Wait for the job to end and get that reference before dropping the bomb. - Keep him from knowing your address. Have fun suing or getting physical if he pulls anything. Or use insurance. - The rape claims are easily countered. If she t… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/15 10:38 AM |
| 9 | What does the Red Pill Community make of men like John Wooden or Mr. Rogers?The issue isn't being kind to people. The issue is being kind to people so that they think better of you, or fuck you. Those men made kindness their mission for kindness' sake. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Generating shit tests intentionally?The other commenters don't get it. You're not saying that the cashier is intentionally shit testing you; you're saying that you can get similar credit from rejecting social norms like that as you can by passing shit tests. My concern would be losing out. It's fine if they're just trawling for your email, but if it's required for the transaction, you have to walk away. Now you're beginning to look immature and irrational for wasting your time over something small. It devalues your time in others'… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 12:07 AM |
| 0 | Company gets attacked for "sexist" advertising. Stands its ground and makes over a million in less than a week from the outrage publicity.Why did you archive Breitbart? It deserves the clicks. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Comics for girls and why they should not be read by boys.Yeah, that's one way it could end up going, if we assume that the transition takes several generations or that it's innate. If, however, we instil a society-wide belief that women and men are equal, and encourage boys and girls to reject gender, we may reach a point where those embracing traditional gender roles are shunned enough that it's no longer advantageous. (This may hold, even if it is innate.) For an example, look at traditional gender roles. If a guy says outright nowadays that a woman… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 11:08 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to: "If I wasn't attractive would we still have had sex?""No. If I were fat, ugly and six inches shorter, would we have had sex?" Pressure flip that shit. If she says 'yes', laugh it off. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/15 10:50 PM |
| -2 | Comics for girls and why they should not be read by boys.Again, the counter argument is that beauty standards change depending on the media and society all the time. For example, a woman's ideal body shape has been in flux for the past hundred years. Shaving only became popular recently. In Roman times, a large member was viewed as uncouth and barbaric. Victorian-era women would put peeled apples in their armpits and give them to their lovers. If all of this, they argue, can change, why not classic gender roles? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Girl asks 100 guys if they want to have sex on the spot and the many blue pill responsesRejecting a slut is abundance mentality, 100%. It says, "I value my safety/time/dignity/health more than I value you." Here's an example that happened to me. I was in my home around 2am. The door to outside has a window. A face popped up in the window. Either female, or MtF. She offered to suck my cock. I declined. She asked again. I told her to leave. Then I ignored her and sat with a knife beside me for the next ten or so minutes. The perceived enjoyment was not greater than the perceived cost… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 10:34 PM |
| -3 | Comics for girls and why they should not be read by boys.The counter argument is that the attraction to masculinity and femininity is just a social construct, and encouraging the playing with toys is another way to go about demolishing it. The end goal is a world where everyone is homogenous and attracted to each other for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP suggest I handle a female co-worker coming on strong?Okay, if you're escalating, for the love of God, don't escalate at work. Ask her out. Go some other place, outside of work hours. You know all those consent videos and tutorials 2x raves about? Follow them. Don't push. She seems like she's happy enough to do that as is. Make sure to leave her happy. Don't ever give her the feeling that she was used, or that you deceived her. Make clear you're not looking for a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/15 06:33 AM |
| 11 | My sister was Alpha-widowed now faces 3 felonies because of him, claims to "still love him."That's pretty funny. Did she vandalise the car? She sounds like the sort who would. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 06:24 AM |
| 8 | New here. My coworkers have been calling me creepy as I try to improve my confidence by flirting. They are really trying to bring me down.Hang out with people who will raise you up to their level, not hold you back at theirs. More bluntly: get better drinking buddies. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 06:20 AM |
| 1 | I hate to beta, but I do on average 10 favors and receive -1 reward for my efforts… The sad part is if I wasn’t being beta I would have absolutely zero female interaction in my day.Covert contracts. Read No More Mr Nice Guy, as /u/redbluepilling instructed. It deals exactly with your situation. As for why it's your only form of interaction: that's because it's the only form you know how to forge. Ask some chicks on dates. Be a sexual being. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/15 04:15 AM |
| 5 | Just found out my new girlfriend is a feminist. What should I do?Let me tell you honestly: that was not a hostile post. It was helpful and addressed all of your issues. You need to take a step back and think about what you want. Do you want people who nod and agree with you, or people who'll give you straight advice? Chances are this sub is not the place for you. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/15 04:09 AM |
| 1 | FR:LTR asks me to pay full rent so she can pay off her debts.You misunderstand. You're raising her SMV, but that wasn't my point. Your investment is for when you're ill and can't support yourself. Being in that state means inherently that your SMV has dropped drastically. If you have a trust fund you've set up? It'll stick by you all the way. Can you assure your woman will too, when she can go out and get a man that doesn't need a bedpan. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 10:05 AM |
| 2 | FR:LTR asks me to pay full rent so she can pay off her debts.If you're investing money for when you're weak and unable to hold your own, investing in a person whose presence depends upon your ability to hold your own is less than wise. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/15 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Kind of FR. Ex ignoring Briffault's lawThe law says 'don't expect...' Not 'expect them to never...' | /r/askTRP | 22/04/15 08:35 AM |
| 7 | UPDATE: Father died; TRP confirmed: Do Not Marry StrippersOriginal post, for convenience: https://archive.today/F746W | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I need some advice, but my thread in /r/relationships has disappeared from the feed (link in description)Your post is deleted. If you want RP advice, post the full body here. Also, be prepared for hostility. No one likes being the second choice, especially TRP. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/15 12:45 PM |
| 9 | "TRP is too nice to men, too mean to women. Waaaah!" ... the responseTRP argues that men should be masculine and women feminine. There are specific roles and behaviours associated with each. If someone steps outside of the masculine/feminine divide, TRP shits on it. If a man doesn't take the lead, TRP laughs and derides. If a woman does, it criticises. Perhaps it is more sympathetic to the man, in that he is seemingly being deprived by society and the woman of a role that he should be granted. Maybe more sympathy could be given to women, also. A lot of people her… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Request: When I Say No I Feel Guilty PDFNot American. Wouldn't be that cheap. Price is beside the point. If I can get something for free without consequence, I usually will, unless it is more convenient to pay. I'm wary of DRM and the like on the ebook from Amazon. If I'm doing research on it, I'd rather be doing research to get it for free. More importantly, I want to be able to share with others. It's a lot easier to say "read this PDF" than it is to coax someone into buying a book. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/04/15 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Request: When I Say No I Feel Guilty PDFThank you. I'll look into OpenLibrary. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/04/15 03:54 PM |
| 2 | "Are you mad?"You and /u/TrainingtheBrain are right about the disappointed retort. I knew it didn't feel quite right, but I couldn't put my finger on it. Could you elaborate on the difference between the former case, where you briefly explain and dismiss the idea of being mad, and the latter, where you ignore (and thus affirm?) it? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/04/15 12:38 PM |
| 3 | "Are you mad?"Thank you. What you said makes a lot of sense for day-to-day demeanour. What about in situations where it's blatant that the dread is for a specific reason? A lot of MRP advocates leaving the house and hitting the gym (or anywhere) immediately after a confrontation and withdrawing affection after a slight or rejection. I'm trying to do this, but it often feels like I'm sulking about a covert contract. (One could argue that the sex-for-affection trade is one big covert contract.) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/04/15 12:35 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most of TRP advice is common knowledge.AWALT is covered under 4). It could also be written as, "no girl wants to be your mother" or "your woman is no exception; if you let yourself go, you'll be ditched". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/15 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Girl I used to orbit got in contact.As everyone else has noted, this is probably not worth it. No-contact is easier, and you'd have as much luck doing, say, day game. That said: treat this like the shit-test it is. A&A, aloof or pressure flip. As it's over text and you have a history of betaness, any exaggerated A&A may be taken as genuine. Ignoring / feigning ignorance and downplaying will work. "What?" "You know, OP. You were really into me." "Not really, and not anymore." "Don't lie, OP. You were devastated! You bawled your eye… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk statisticsPerhaps I was too flippant with the atheism example. My point is that in the absence of evidence, people will eschew age-old traditions in favour of an ambiguity. It illustrates the growing importance placed upon hard evidence. As for the pill being about other things: the pill analogy has been around since Caroll. Every fringe group wanting to push an alternative 'truth' has used it at some point. There seems little reason for the neo-PUA crowd to get in bed with the /r/conspiracy or /pol/ lot.… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk statisticsYou're pointing them towards a forum dedicated to people with relationship problems and a sitcom. The critical thinker will, quite rightly, call it out as a biased sample non-representative of the overall population. The thinker will then note that you haven't provided a reason to go to TRP over, say, a more general relationship advice blog. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/15 11:35 AM |
| 10 | GF is having breakdowns. Unsure how to respond to them or if it's worth staying.TRP will tell you to ditch her. That's just how this place roles with any long term relationship where the OP writes a wall of text. It operates on an abundance mentality, and places little value on time spent together. That view isn't wrong, per se. You could find happiness by breaking up and plating up, but there are other options. If you're interested in maintaining a relationship without going full-beta and turning to /r/relationships, I suggest looking at the tenets of Married Red Pill. The… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/15 03:19 AM |
| 1 | I'm dating a slut, and I like it. Am I crazy? (Change my view.)Sounds fine, in terms of sex and interaction, for now. But she'll get older and less attractive. Sex may drop off once you're locked down. Most of all, is this woman a suitable mother of your children? Will she fit into that role? Is she suitable for a long term relationship? Do you want to grow old and die with her? If not, it sounds like you should enjoy it for what it is: a FwB situation. You fuck each other, spend time together, but also fuck other people. Easy. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What's a good response to "You're going to look at porn aren't you"Porn is fine. It helps secure outcome independence. You get off either way, so her power is reduced. As others have noted, you were pissed. You showed that your buttons could be pressed by denying sex, and by mocking your porn. You need to be ambivalent about it. It's just a way for you to get off when she doesn't want to. Hell, why get up and leave? Do it there. It's your bed too. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 03:09 PM |
| 2 | How does one balance "always be escalating" with being less invested or caring less than she does?You misunderstand. It's not "don't be emotionally invested", it's "be less invested than her". You can enjoy having a plate/FWB/gf/wife without going full oneitis and without thinking of her as no better than a prostitute. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 03:43 AM |
| 2 | How does one balance "always be escalating" with being less invested or caring less than she does?When she has constant butterflies, it shows in her behaviour to you. She'll want to please you and show her dedication, while avoiding those undesirable habits normally reserved for loveless marriages Having a chick infatuated with you is a benefit to both of you in different ways. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/15 09:28 PM |
| 3 | How does one balance "always be escalating" with being less invested or caring less than she does?It's a tactic for keeping the relationship healthy. Think of it this way: when you first start going out with someone, you're really into them, trying to please them however possible. (Don't fuckin' lie.) Once you have her locked down and in love with you, you start slipping. Less romantic dates, etc. Doesn't matter if you fart in front of her; she's already with you. You get complacent. Things suffer. Alternatively, you go way overboard with her and devote yourself. She, on the other hand, isn'… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/15 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Stuck in anger phase. Seriously considering MGTOW/hookershttp://i.vimeocdn.com/video/471031232_1280.jpg See that guy? He got laid. He's also high status in his field. Consider all the rich old men. Hugh Hefner. Kim Dotcom. Ugly as fuck, but have hot wives because they're powerful. If you can't get physically powerful, get social status and wealth. So what if you can't beat someone in a fight? You can buy out his company and fire him, or bring a frivolous lawsuit to bankrupt him. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/15 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Almost entered a LTR, she throws a curveballwon't do anything more than kiss Hah. If I had an hour at the gym for every time I've read that, I'd be swole as fuck. She will do more than kiss. It's a shit test and ASD. Blow past it. Don't take it seriously. Make fun of it. "Sex before marriage? What do you think I am, some kind of man-slut?" | /r/askTRP | 29/03/15 12:33 PM |
| 3 | FR - "I don't kiss on the first date."Could you describe your approach? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 06:28 AM |
| 1 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesYou can't distinguish it on the basis of probability without setting an arbitrary threshold of probability where it's 'acceptable' and 'unacceptable'. Once you do that, you've acknowledged that 'sometimes the past isn't the past' and 'it's up to each individual person to define their own threshold'. You also can't attempt to pin it to an objective standard of disgust, because there are people who would be okay with bestiality or scat in a partner's past. To them it may be water under the bridge.… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Dating other woman while in a relationship, am I a RPer or just a cheating scum?TRP is varied. Different people have different views. As such, it's difficult to say what TRP as a whole advocates. That said, there are general trends. TRP does not, on the whole, advocate cheating. I have seen it mentioned in terms of the final stages of dread in a married relationship, but even there it was tenuous. Some voiced that they'd rather just divorce without cheating. TRP does advocate multiple plates if possible. It also advocates being willing to drop a plate without concern. In re… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/15 01:37 PM |
| 1 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesThanks for this. A shame the second thread didn't get archived. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 10:42 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to a text of her reassuring nothing more will happen when inviting them over?It's agreeing and amplifying. She expresses concern about having sex, presumably because of ASD. You take these concerns, agree with them and amplify them to a comical, extreme level. In this case, you take her suggestion of cuddling and treat it as though she's just suggested anal. It answers and deflects her question in a way that shows you understand her concerns, while at the same time making light of them. The 'leave room for Jesus' comment works pretty well too. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/15 03:58 AM |
| 10 | How to respond to a text of her reassuring nothing more will happen when inviting them over?"Cuddling? God no. What do you think I am, a male slut?" | /r/askTRP | 22/03/15 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Two related issues with my LTR, one about how long I can last in bed and the other about how often we see each other. Help please?See your doctor. You fit the criteria of premature ejaculation. TRP doesn't handle LTRs particularly well. MRP is better. That said, determine what the cause of being unable to meet is. Is there something she could give up in favour of seeing you? Then put pressure on for her to give a shit and do it. (Remember, amused mastery, not butthurt.) If not, and it's genuine, you pretend it doesn't bug you. You have other things to do anyway. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/15 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Two related issues with my LTR, one about how long I can last in bed and the other about how often we see each other. Help please?Fuck multiple times. Fuck her, eat her out, then fuck her again. Rinse and repeat. Use numbing gel. Do kegals. Read the Sex God Method. We can't work out your logistics. Tell her to make time if she cares so much. Or pick up another plate. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/15 07:25 AM |
| 7 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesYou're asking for the reasoning behind why they feel what they do. I can make guesses, but the reasoning behind an emotion is ultimately not all that significant. Logically, it doesn't really matter that my lady took it up the butt from Fido. I mean, she's still the same gal as before I found out. But it matters to me. Anyway, here are the reasons: Her role in the SMV marketplace is to trade her sex for others' commitment. If she trades her sex freely, that implies it's not worth much. Similarly… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 07:15 AM |
| 7 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesShe doesn't have to apologise for what she did in college; it's not morally or ethically reprehensible. Nor, from a strict interpretation of 'honesty' does she have to tell him. One's sexual past does, however, impact how others view them. She knew it would affect his view of her, thus she intentionally concealed it from him. This is a double whammy for him. Firstly, her history affects his image and understanding of her. Secondly, she's shown that she operates at the bare minimum standards of h… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 06:29 AM |
| 1 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesWhat is the term for guys who like morbidly obese women? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 05:26 AM |
| 1 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesA better label for the approaches might have been 'sex-positive' and 'sex-negative'. If she goes sex negative, she essentially embraces TRP philosophy of SMV, realises she's fallen and works to distance herself from it and improve. If she goes sex positive, she tells him that he's wrong and that there's nothing wrong with her actions. It's a fairly subtle distinction here. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 05:25 AM |
| 8 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesYou're assuming that she is doing it with him, and that he wants to share his wife. It sounds as though he's not quite as sex-positive as you. For him, it's not attractive. He wants different things to you. I suspect you also have your limits as to what you'll accept from a partner's past. What about a class-wide bukkake? Regular, drug fuelled sex with fandoms in club toilets? Anal with a professor? Scat? Urination? Bestiality? At a certain point, you'll say, "that is way too gross. I can't thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 05:22 AM |
| 1 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesIt's not, despite what many say, a deal breaker. Rather, if handled right, it's a lowering of her SMV. In other words, it places the husband higher than her. The issue is when it's not interpreted in that fashion. e.g. "Nothing wrong with having a past; it's none of your business." Also, it's a preference by guys. That means that some will be more okay with it than others. Normally being morbidly obese is a deal beaker. Not the case for chubby chasers. They love that shit. To them, a fat woman's… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 04:29 AM |
| 13 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesIt was my ONE secret, and I honestly debated telling him about it but came to the conclusion that no positive outcome could come from it. she called it a secret in black and white. She knew it'd make him uncomfortable and chose not to bring it up. He doesn't need to ask to import an obligation to tell. It's enough that she thought that he'd care. That was the point I was making with my previous post. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 08:20 PM |
| 6 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesIt's no surprise at all. The OP outright calls the RP explanation 'painfully obvious'. The purpose of the thread is to examine the responses, the hamstering, the overall sentiment towards her and the possible and effective future actions of the woman and her husband. There is a lot of vitriol towards the woman, which suggests a large amount of the commenters are still in the anger phase. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 07:50 PM |
| 15 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesI'm trying to stay out of the blame-allocation business, but in this case the woman's confessed to actively trying to keep it secret and has severed a friendship over it being brought up. There is ample evidence of intent to conceal. She admits that she refrains from bringing it up because she doesn't see anything positive coming from it. In other words, it's not an "oops, it never came up in conversation! I had no idea you might disapprove of this behaviour!" situation. She knew. Does he only g… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 07:17 PM |
| 5 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesNo. That exacerbates some of the points I made, but is by no means a pivotal issue. If you want the magic bullet in favour of why it's worse: people feel it is. Put it down to being an irrational, emotional sexual preference. I can hypothesise on why people have that preference until the cows come home, but it won't change the fact that they feel the way they do. Some guys like big boobs. Some like them small. Some guys like ass. Some guys like feet. Some guys like redheads. Some guys like guys.… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 07:06 PM |
| 8 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesCheck out /r/relationship_advice and /r/sex for a good time too. Not sure about gender balance, but it's pretty solidly BP. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesSMV is in the eye of the beholder. Also, we're talking about RP, the sexual strategy, not RP, team man. If she can convince him that her past actions have no/little bearing on her present value as a wife, she lessens the impact to her SMV. This, in turn, means she has to put in less effort in the relationship to keep him from leaving. It's acknowledging that her sluttiness impacted her SMV, and she's trying to mitigate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:51 PM |
| 7 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesYou're asking the positivist questions of 'why is being a slut in the past bad?' That's a tenuous part of TRP and the hardest for newcomers to swallow. Let's first look at it from a pseudo-economic perspective. Guys want sex. Women want commitment. They have to negotiate with each other to get what they want using what they have. If a woman gives sex without demanding commitment, a guy has no motive to commit. Too abstract? Fine. Let's look at it from an emotional perspective. People are jealous… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:44 PM |
| 7 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesHe's probably not doing it 'on purpose'. The guy's upset and likely considering divorce. The dread isn't some acted strategy he's implementing; it's a very real possibility that he'll bail on the marriage. It'll still have its effect, though. The OP is terrified and tiptoeing around him. She's suddenly being submissive. RP is observation and replication of organic situations. This is dread in the wild. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:17 PM |
| 2 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesDread doesn't have to have a specific goal, although it certainly can be used that way. It can just be to improve your partner's actions in general, as they work overtime to please. It could turn a henpecked marriage into an emperor/serving-girl relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 06:02 PM |
| 6 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesTo put it in terms of the prisoners: If both defect (blue-red) then they get 10 years in prison, a 'big' amount of time. If one defects and the other doesn't (red-red or blue-blue) the defector goes free and the other gets the maximum penalty of 20 years. This is the 'biggest' payoff. If both cooperate (red-blue) they get a 'small' amount of time of six months. She'll be unhappy having to work much harder to make up for diminished SMV in red-red. He'll be whipped in blue-blue. They get to go on … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 05:55 PM |
| 3 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesI know it's an often trotted-out response, but this is about sexual strategy. Nowhere do I advocate the guy leaving her. Rather, I look at the potential actions she can take, the actions he can take, and the public perception or social climate surrounding them. Women who sleep around are worth less. I'll spare the questionably outdated divorce statistics and the vitriol and just say that it's a social construct. People think she is worth less, so she is. Given a choice between a woman with 10 pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 05:37 PM |
| 16 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesI call the 'distancing' as being red pill, in that she acknowledges that it's harmful and a bad sign and now attempts to backpedal by asserting that she's changed. In other words, she's saying, "being a slut is bad, but I've changed since then and will be a good wife, so please love me." On the other hand, the BP approach is "being a slut is fine. Experimenting with my sexuality is good." It's a common enough tactic, but it's the one that ties into the RP narrative. You're right about it being a… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 05:21 PM |
| 10 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesMy recommended action for either person, from a purely pragmatic POV, varies depending on their natures. For her, she needs to match her approach to his overall attitude. If he's a nice guy undergoing feeling vomit, she could likely dominate and shame him into accepting that her sexual history is irrelevant. If his actions are solid dread, meeting him full on will not lead to a backing down. On the contrary, he'll quite possibly enter the launch codes. What she needs to do is capitulate and prov… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 05:10 PM |
| 35 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesHere's what she says in response to accusations of shooting down his 'attempts to broaden bedroom activities': I have shot down some things, but only because I am in-tune with myself enough to know my sexual limits, likes and dislikes. It's not like I'm a prude, we have an active sex life (3-4 times / week) and I very much enjoy having sex with him. Maybe she's lying, but she's been honest about worse things, and has already accepted guilt. My money is, ironically enough, on her being honest abo… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 04:39 PM |
| 0 | TRP soon to be in the mass media, what do you think will be the consequence?Firstly, the sub may get sunk. We'll switch to Voat or some other site. Secondly, the name will be tarnished, like PUA. We'll probably rebrand into something else, like 'male improvement' 'iMprove', 'male social skills', etc. This may involve cutting loose the slut-shaming and similar aspects. Thirdly, we'll be unrecognisable. Unlike PUA, TRP has no calling cards or ticks. It's not an emulation of success; it's a path to it. Unless you check browser histories or the dude spergs out, we'll be lik… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/15 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Shit-test response to "So you're a playboy?"Your response acknowledges that there is something wrong with it, because you're defending it. It suggests that you're insecure about it and feel as though she has a point. She comes away with the impression that you're ashamed of it. Worse, she has the idea that you'd negatively appraise her for being slutty, meaning she'll have stronger ASD. Also, polygamy isn't a shield you want to hide behind. Better responses: "Just call me Hefner and suck my cock" "Playboy? God no. I'm a play-MAN." "Only i… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/15 05:21 AM |
| 2 | TRP is making me paranoid. There are some concepts that are universal, but there are some other concepts that only lead to overthinking.AWALT doesn't mean your GF will cheat on you. It means that she has the potential to. She follows the same rules that govern all women. Think of it this way: tomorrow, you drop out of school and quit your job to play World of Warcraft. You give up lifting. You eat McDonalds, Mountain Dew and Doritos for breakfast lunch and dinner. You stop showering. You fail every shit test thrown your way. You tell her, repeatedly, how much you love her and how you'll never find another girl like her. You resi… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 11:10 AM |
| 0 | Refusal or stonewalling when a request givenIn terms of overall game, yours is better and I'll take it on board for those times. However, my objective here isn't to get sex; it's to get what I want. (Which in the example was sleeping room. Let's assume we've already fucked. Or maybe I need to get up early.) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/15 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Refusal or stonewalling when a request givenThe difference is that you're not entitled to the wallet, whereas each person has their fair share of the bed. It's more akin to defending territory, or a bouncer retaliating to being shoved. Another difference is that theft is malicious, whereas there's no ill will here. It can be done in an AM fashion. Your example works better for, say, sexual favours. Raping someone doesn't earn respect. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/15 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Refusal or stonewalling when a request givenAt the risk of getting too deep into this bed metaphor: your teasing and my pushing are the same 'use of force' in that they can't be ignored and are physical. We're talking, half-hanging off the bed here. Once you have room, you can hug it out all you like. Interesting point about letting her figure it out. I have that technique associated as being a feminine tactic. I always say (and see others say here) that if she has an issue, she's to come and address it respectfully. Why the double standa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/15 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Refusal or stonewalling when a request givenPutting aside conflicts with the other, no-punish answers, the difference in punishing a child is that there's a stated and specified time frame. e.g. 'No cookies today'. In the case here, we don't state outright "this is why you're being punished" or put a time limit on the reduced affections. There's no statement of "no affection for three days". The idea conveyed with an unspecified time frame is that the punished needs to 'set things right'. But we're rejecting an apology. Would more, such a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Refusal or stonewalling when a request givenI thought about it some more and gave a crack at an answer. I'm revising my approach. Perhaps when the minutiae don't fall into place, it's a symptom of trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/15 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Refusal or stonewalling when a request givenI've read others' answers, so my answer will be informed by theirs. That said, I'll attempt to answer it: my question was on how to handle the shit test itself. If possible, take what I want by force. So in the bed example, I push her back to her side. This is done without malice. This shows that I'm in control. Shit test passed. More often than not, it's something I want from her. A request that she isn't obliged to fulfil. ... Ah. Yeah. I think I get it. I've been looking at this from the wron… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/15 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Refusal or stonewalling when a request givenI am reading and lurking. Is there something specific you think I've missed? I don't think your assessment of my problem is correct. I understand the theory, but am having difficulty translating it into reality. That is why my question focuses on the minutiae that reality has but the abstraction lacks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/15 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Refusal or stonewalling when a request givenIs that 'sleep with cats' comment supposed to be jovial or is it supposed to be biting? What if she responds in kind? Is it obvious/implicit that the aloofness is due to that incident? In either case, she'll confront and ask what the issue is and ask why I'm being aloof. What then? Also, what if she seeks approval in those aloof days? Give it or not? Do you let her 'make up' for things like that? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/15 03:42 AM |
| 1 | How to Deal With Logistics Problem When Living With Your Parents...The thread isn't there. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/15 01:41 AM |
| 3 | "If you won't settle for a woman who has been riding the CC and wracking high numbers, why should a woman who has low numbers go for a guy with high numbers?" - my plate. What's the answer here?Okay, I'll bite, play the Devil's Advocate and have a crack at solving this. As a person relatively new to the sub, this is by far the biggest issue I have, and have seen others have, with it. For everything else TRP advocates, it can be written off as observational or strategic. There's a reason outsiders pick the slut hypocrisy as the thread to pluck at, and not, say, the advice to lift more or become an interesting person. The slut issue draws on old statistics, with social nuances changing s… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 11:06 AM |
| 4 | I need a rreality check.She sounds pretty smart and skilled. Those are good qualities. However, you're young. You're also not in any geographical situation to be settling down. Furthermore, most of what you like about her seems to be sexual. That's fine, but remember that you can get sex from any woman. As you're in the military, you're likely fit, confident and wealthy. High SMV. You don't need to try to settle down. Being with her has been fun. Will it be as fun when you're surrounded by potential hookups and she's t… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/15 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Will using an open relationship as dread backfire on me?Map your actions and outcomes. You tell her: - she puts up with it, then puts out. You get sex on the side, and fuck her, prepping her for potential wife hood. WIN. - she doesn't put up with it and breaks up. You get sex on the side and stop messing around with a doomed project. WIN. - she starts sleeping around too, tossing away her virginity to spite you. You skip out on being with her. WIN. You don't tell her: - you bang other girls while being her emotional tampon and prize. You have an unsa… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/15 08:57 AM |
| 15 | How do I stop resenting my gf's job?The moment you worry about what your GF is doing, you've lost your way. There are 24 hours in a day. You have most of them filled with your own life. You cannot constantly monitor your GF to stop her interacting with high SMV guys. Furthermore, you can't bully her into cutting all contact with them. She'll encounter them everywhere she goes. You say your GF would never cheat, yet you're insecure as fuck and posting here about it. Clearly you think she might, or at the very least you feel her int… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/15 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Interesting Background Reading: The Selfish GeneI'm glad you enjoyed it. I've yet to pick up The Extended Phenotype, but I'll put it on my list. The God Delusion had an interesting section on the origin of altruism that ties in nicely with The Selfish Gene. (Ignore deleted comment -- mobile glitch) | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Want Peoples Opinions. I Caused My Ex To Break Up With Her New BoyfriendWill you take a step back and listen to yourself? You sound like a comic book villain. This is clearly an ego thing for you. You get off on acting superior to others. I bet you even use the word 'manipulate' to describe basic as fuck social interactions. You know what gives it away? The wall of tl;dr text I scrolled through to get here. Seriously, that thing rivals the saddest tales of /r/relationships in length. That's you being way too invested in proving yourself to an Internet forum. The RP … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/15 12:52 PM |
| -1 | Give your girl shit. She deserves it.Why hide behind double entendres? Why not just tell her "you and I both know you love confident assholes." | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Interesting Background Reading: The Selfish GeneThere's a part of the book that talks about what you say, about human free will. That's the meme part. The idea is that the genes provided an environment where ideas (memes) could evolve and pass between people. However, these memes aren't dependent upon the survival and reproduction of the human organism to replicate. Thus they aren't bound to be advantageous to the host's reproduction. That allows for other behaviours to evolve in people. (e.g. Vows of chastity) | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 05:04 PM |
| 1 | When I Say No I Feel GuiltyWhat is DEER? How do you justify refusing to justify yourself? How would you handle her doing the same? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/15 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What is the RP way to 'chase' a girl?How should he have gone about it? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/15 10:08 PM |
| 1 | What is the RP way to 'chase' a girl?Why? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/15 09:00 PM |
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