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That test was crap. Not only did it just repeat what it asked me but It would go completely against what I told it in some instances.
/r/seduction19/04/17 04:33 AM
1

I mean in the terms of no self-control. A person who goes out with friends to drink a few nights a week or has a beer every night with his dinner most likely has the self-control to not drink. A person who is buying a 5th of vodka every night before he goes home, probably does not have that self-control anymore.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:03 PM
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Chronic Alcoholism is an escapism. Usually when someone drinks a lot it's bc something is going on in their head they dont know how to handle or control. Whether you consider it a weakness or a mental illness...both are very interlinked. So really, you could look at it from several angles and be right. The issue with anger while drinking is the person is already angry but alcohol uninhibits the self control they have sober. It basically encourages them to let go of those bottled up feelings. Thi…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:04 AM
1

Be glad you didn't get it. I know some ppl at that plant and they HATE it. The view from the outside doesn't tell how it really is on the inside.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:10 AM
13

I had a similar girl recently. Usually when I want then to go away, I do the aloof thing till they get the hint. This girl didnt. She got needy as shit, so I had to actively let her down. I did the "let's just be friends" card. She flipped the fuck out and started yelling about using her for sex. I'm still not sure if maybe I should have tried a different tactic but at least I know I was right about needing to get rid of her.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:36 AM
2

I'm sure all of us have tried to lead the horse to the well in our early RP days. It never turns out like we plan. I think there is a difference in giving insight vs giving help. If a buddy ask me, "why did this chick choose him over me?...why do they choose the bad guys vs the nice like like me" I'll tell him the answer he needs to hear as a man. "You're acting like the woman of the relationship; she had eyes on this guy whole time; because women prefer men with options, Etc..." If he comes to …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:29 AM
1

That is the anxiety of it. We don't know what tomorrow holds. Stocism teaches us that today we have health. Tomorrow could be death. You have to accept what is and let go of what might be. You will never be content if you allow the anxiety of tomorrow stop you from enjoying today.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 02:28 AM
1

I have negative $70 in my checking account now. I know what it is like.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 03:59 PM
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As someone who had money from a wealthy father who passed away. Money is NOT happiness. Sure, it will buy you into some panties when they realize you car with worth more than their house. But it is superficial. They don't give a shit about you, they care about the money and what you can do for them. *Edit: * Let me clarify. I grew up with money, never "needed" for anything. My old man was a very wealthy business man. It was an easy life. All that went away when he died. Bankruptsy, businesses to…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 01:40 AM
8

Shit, I even tried to work out it with my ex wife after divorce. Talk about a slap in the face.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 03:34 AM
2

Damn good question. I have a couple self sabotage things I am the same way with. Smoking for instance, I started smoking after my divorce. I have quit several times since for months at a time but something happens and my go to is a damn cigarette. I think it actually causes more stress by smoking than the stress before hand. My father was a very successful business who lost his life due to smoking. I watched a great man's empire fall apart from it and you'd figure that would be enough motivation…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 02:11 AM
9

I had a similar case with a girl of 1 year, one time. The biggest difference, I could tell she was not into him from the text, she also told me about him...i didnt just find out. I told her I was not cool with it and she shut it down. No questions or guilt included.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 05:03 PM
1

That's not always true. Some women are shit and you have to just not care what they say. I had one say to me not long ago, "what's with the ugly guys trying to talk to me". Just before walking off. (The kicker, she was average at best but I figured she'd be an easy lay) That was the first and only time in 36 years I've ever been called "ugly". If anything, take those types as a blessing. She showed her red flag before you even got to know her.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 02:20 AM
2

I found eatthismuch.com to be very useful for diversifying out while cutting. You can adjust for your proteins, carbs, etc.. and it will spit out a weekly plan. Some of the meals will feel a little off sometimes, so I will tweak those myself for what I'm look for. But overall, keeps me from eating eggs and peanut butter every day.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 08:28 PM
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You're projecting. This doesn't even match what he said.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 05:10 AM
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Society has pushed this in this age of sensivitive men. I have noticed this is in the younger groups. It was not that way when I was early 20's...at all. Their biological needs will fail them in the end.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 04:06 AM
3

Awesome chart. My personal standards are a little tighter than that though. I'd put most of those 9's at 8 and majority of the 8's at 7. 9's are the ones you rarely...supermodel types. 10's to me are the 9's who are truly successful in life. Meaning she has the looks and the personality. Not the 9 who is only where she is BC of looks or daddy.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:41 PM
9

Indeed. Trust is gone. Doesn't matter if she was saying it for validation or BC she wants the dude...she still said it. The insecurities to follow can't be changed.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:28 AM
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Not OP but this depends on the girl. I've had some where I had to spend time with outside the house and then some who could care less. I learned early that if you can cook, you can pull them to your house about every time.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 05:18 AM
1

The word narcissists is redundant.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:36 PM
1

You are overwelming yourself. You need to slow down and readjust your life. Work on the self-improvement aspects for now and try to quit giving yourself concerns over women. They should not be of concern to you at all. Time is your friend when it comes to understanding and accepting.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 05:20 PM
5

I think the part that gets lost is what the "wall" really is. All it really is, is a gynocentric term for the aging of women and the attraction men hold toward aging women. The wall is more or less defined by the moment that a woman can no longer compete with younger women. It really has nothing to do with age or the expiration of her reproductive system. The age 30 is used because it is around this age that most women "let themselves go". A woman can absolutely cheat the approach to the wall by…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 03:00 PM
6

When something is scarce, you tend to care much more about it. Imagine if food were scarce; you would obsess over obtaining it, and once you had it, you would guard it fiercely. When food is plentiful, you might think about it occasionally but it won't occupy your thoughts constantly. You'll have a much more DGAF attitude towards food. This is where the abundance mentality is relevant; when you feel that women are abundant, you'll stop obsessing over them and naturally have a DGAF attitude. I wa…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 12:05 AM
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Just based on what you said, op. My gut says another guy might be in play. It could be some guy she has been seeing wants commitment which she is hesitate to give up. You've only known the girl 1-2 weeks, there is no telling what has been going on before you came along.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 04:37 PM
13

Sometimes it's easier for people to be ignorant to the world around them than accept that some people did the best they could and still ended up poor.
/r/seduction14/01/17 02:45 PM
1

Its interesting you say this...BC it is true. I'm in my mid-30's and can no longer "date" girls with no unique personalities. Don't get me wrong, I have no problems banging the dumb blonde who says stupid shit....But I can't keep her in my life for any extended time. I recently was seeing this one girl, roughly my age. (She is a divorced mom...which you will learn...when you reach mid-late 30's, you become more cautious to the ones who are single...never had kids. They tend to be more fucked up …
/r/askTRP13/01/17 03:43 PM
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Tupac also had a great quote in "The Rose That Grew from Concrete". He said: "You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on." The whole book is golden. While it's hard to say Tupac was a great role model, the man had some brilliant things to say.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 01:53 AM
2

Quit hanging out with your ex.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 09:22 PM
6

You sound like a fucking woman.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 04:01 PM
2

Change all your "she's" to "he's", then pretend your are reading this in /r/relationships. There is your answer.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 03:59 PM
6

That would just be a threesome at this point.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 03:56 PM
1

Yeah, in a way. Frame is more about confidence in yourself. You are not swayed by outside forces, regardless what or who they are. In turn, you do what you want regardless what others think.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 06:40 PM
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But by definition, it is basically the same as oneitis. Her obsession will also be based off the same false pretense as him being the "perfect one". That is why she blabbers on to her friends about how great he is. The reasons she feels this way will be completely different but it is still the same unhealthy projections. I highly suspect the reason why it has become ok for men to do this, is b/c it is seen as ok for women to do it in our movies and such. And to answer the op, the only way I was …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 04:41 PM
2

Something I was taught when young. When you hit a moment where you are over thinking or thinking too hard and you know you shouldn't. Tell yourself out loud, "don't think about it, just do it". Then you MOVE YOUR ASS before you have a chance to think again. The saying and the move has to be in one big sweep, otherwise it won't work. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 08:23 PM
1

Man, I have to take a break after reading this. I'm sitting in a public place trying like hell not to burst out in laughter.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 04:35 PM
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I was agreeing with you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 04:28 AM
4

I have a rule that works for me. It goes along with what you said. Make your own rules as you see fit. I will always go physical on first date. It is my vetting process. If the girl allows it, which most do, she becomes nothing more than a fuck buddy...most of the time, not even that. If she doesn't give in but continues to a 2nd or 3rd date. Then I cautiously label her as a decent girl with control. I won't push again on the next date, I let it go natural. Usually, the girl is throwing hints wh…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:02 PM
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This is one of those situations where the suggestions in "How to win friends and influence people" will be very beneficiary. The guy is going to have to play the good guy and talk his boss up as a friendly competition where no one will be butt-hurt regardless what happens.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 04:45 PM
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The truth here. If two people are not on the same page when it comes to sex, the relationship is going to suffer. You can't force someone who is very sexually active to not be. It just doesn't work that way.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 04:39 PM
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You're missing the point. The point is, if you don't know what the hell you are talking about, then why are you talking?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 04:30 AM
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There is a good point in this post, which I have noticed in a lot of men forums, included the TRP subs on reddit. The hostility gets high when someone ask what is perceived as a dumb question or they get barraged with blanketed answers like "read the sidebar". There have been many times where I've wanted to ask something I couldn't wrap my head around but knew the answers would be shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 09:29 PM
2

You'll get both there. It is women specific but the veteran men will answer too when the question arises. I'm not a vet, but I have gave honest answers there before.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 05:11 PM
1

The "anti-PUA" PUA material.
/r/seduction16/12/16 03:49 PM
4

It's really deeper than that though. I forget the exact term for it but it is some type of psychological projection that everyone does. Your attraction to certain traits are projected by those who had major influences on you in life. Especially childhood. These projected traits can be both good and bad. It really depends how much of an effect the person's trait had on your life. This is why you see both genders who go after a certain "type". Of course, it is all done in a very subconscious level…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 04:45 AM
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(I hope you read this for your sake) Man, that shit sucks. I'm sorry it happened, any of us here who has been emotionally involved in any amount of women before will tell you, we've all been there. I agree that you should ghost her. This will mindfuck her way more than any mindfuck she has done to you. And trust me, she has already... But that is not why I'm replying. I'm replying to give you a heads up on what will happen so maybe you won't make the mistake others of us have made in the past. W…
/r/askTRP10/12/16 03:30 AM
20

No, we should never troll to get our point across. The exposure is enough for now but the minute we try to start pulling exposure to ourselves will be the minute this sub gets hit by the reddit police and its sjw following.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 11:16 PM
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Men value physical contact like women value emotional contact. It is the way we are wired. Sex becomes important to men BC it is physical contact and that is how they show affection. In a rudimentary comparison. You giving your bf sex is as important to him as you expecting him to give you flowers.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 04:13 AM
5

That is up to you. But, you need to be aware of the chances you take. I posted this about 5 months ago. Take a read: My father had this childhood friend who he was still friends with when he was in his 40's. Sharp guy, everyone loved, just an all around fun guy to know. I was young and he'd occasionally take me hunting with him. He loved deer hunting. Had what looked like a military armory in his spare closet. It was amazing to see. He was divorced, had two kids both grown, never remarried or we…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 12:45 AM
1

Austin is a nice single city but is not like the rest of Texas. A major chunk of the area comes from the tech industries out of the west coast states. Hipster town by all definition.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 11:32 PM
1

The truth. They are Bored. You are either boring or someone/thing is better at giving them attention. Edit: I didn't read the whole thing, if you are meeting these girls online then this happens, you are probably not building rapport properly or they had no intentions of meeting you in the first place.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 06:23 AM
5

The problem is that society has broken men. Watch any TV show with drama involved and you'll see what I mean. Or hell, go read /r/relationships...that place loves to kick men while they are down. This is why groups like TRP exist now. People realize something is not right and look for answers. Back to subject, I know you are kidding on the last part but in all seriousness, I wouldn't go out of your way to make sure the guy is emotionally happy. You just need to realize most of these men you will…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/16 06:17 AM
5

He probably did tell you, just not the way you wanted him too. Most people are passive aggressive to emotional problems with a partner. Keep in mind,there is a huge age gap between you and I...but I ended up cheating after years of trying to get my ex-wife to see that we were headed to disaster. (Keep in mind, this was pre-rp, now days I just bluntly say the problem) But things like trying to get her to read books/articles about marriage, going on weekend vacations with just her and I..or trying…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/16 05:39 AM
3

Whoa whoa whoa... Please don't apply logic on this...you might confuse the hamster
/r/askTRP10/11/16 05:17 AM
9

I recently found out about a female coworker who was in an open-marriage. The deal was, they could do whatever with another person as long as it was not emotional, I'm sure there were other rules too. So she would go out on weekends with friends and come home 3 am constantly for the 4 years together. He never did it, it was her thing. One weekend, he goes out, doesn't come home till the next morning. She is pissed he broke one of the rules. He didn't come home that night. Shit goes south, they e…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 03:00 PM
1

A unicorn is nothing more than a fool with an ice cream cone stuck to their head
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:32 PM
9

What the fuck is this /r/relationshits? All these fools playing sjw is sickening. To op. Look, you did it and you realized it wasnt worth it. Good on you, join the club. Sometimes, we have to learn shit the hard way.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 02:41 AM
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The biggest issue I have found in the south is most want a religious man. As someone who is not religious, I can't fake it. Nashville has a huge singles selection...its very surprising. But venture outside of it and those numbers change drastically. Edit: I have to add, I spent some years in various cities, including Raleigh, NYC, Austin, and Nashville. Raleigh and NYC were my favorite two for picking up women.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 01:56 AM
5

You sure you understand the way women think? Women are both emotional and social creatures, they make choices based on how they feel and how she thinks her friends see her. While she is probably not doing this with the intent to branch swing, she is definitely doing it for her image vs what other people think. And her image with outsiders out weights that of her b/f(op). She might not being going about this with the intent to leave him, but the new found validation from men will ultimately break…
/r/askTRP15/09/16 03:11 AM
2

The visual of this makes me laugh.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 02:12 PM
2

I 2nd that guide after reading it. Two goals. Do them one at a time. Start exercising, just a 30 min walk everyday nothing else till it becomes a routine you no longer have to think about. Then diet. Find one that YOU like, forget what is best for now. You just need something that is not hard and will become another habit. After that, diversify, sky is the limit.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 10:43 PM
2

Man, some of the answers reek of trolling. I don't think it really matters if you watched the purse or not. That is your decision... But as you are in the learning phase, you were just given a perfect observation lesson. This is when you should have detached for a moment and thought about the situation. She gave you a cigarette earlier, then decided without thought that you were the perfect candidate to watch her purse with all her shit in it. Who would do that and why? Think about that.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 06:04 AM
1

Let me point out guys, like he said, there are other types. There is Obstructive sleep apnea which is caused from what he explained and then there is Central sleep apnea which is caused by your brain basically shutting down and not sending the signals to your muscles to breathe. I have the 2nd type. I am an avid runner, who is in decent shape. The thing is, unless someone points it out to you, you'll never know you had it. Ironically, a ex-LTR pointed it out to me the first night she stayed the …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 02:50 PM
1

I kinda agree with this. I know the core of MGTOW is legit in the terms of what they want, which is nothing to do with women period. But everytime I have tried to subscribe to the sub, I felt I was browsing the MRA sub, which spends its entire time bashing women. It seems counter-intuitive to what the movement should really be about, which is improving men.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 02:57 PM
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Most of us have seen this a million times. Sayings I've heard women say: "We are only friends. I'm allowed guy friends." "His kids were home, nothing happened." "It was his birthday so a few of us took him out." "That post on fb was a joke." Know what these all have in common? The girl was fucking the guy behind her b/f's back.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 11:43 PM
10

I've told these several times on here and countless over the years. My old man sat me down when I was around 12-13 years old and had the talk with me about the nature of women. Of course, he had a bad habit of drinking and the societal pressures of a mostly female family caused me to not listen...but I will never forget the single quote that stood out many years later. "All women are whores" When I was first trying to swallow the pill, I was still a bit lost. I wanted to fix a broken marriage th…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 01:39 PM
3

You can do either. I personally had a hard time going through his blog post to read his material, where the book put it all together to a point where it felt fluid. It IS the same information, so really, which ever will be easier for you.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 12:53 PM
1

I once approached a girl who looked at me and said, "are there not any hot guys here?" I laughed and walked away. Be glad when a woman shows her true colors without the need of getting to know her.
/r/seduction18/07/16 01:50 PM
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I agree but...for his sake, he did great. I would further suggest you continue what you just did until the anxiety of doing it is gone. You are very unlikely to get many legit numbers by asking for a number right away but it will boost your confidence and idgaf attitude. Once you reach that, then start normal conversations. Remember, baby steps...
/r/seduction14/07/16 11:36 PM
0

I have always considered RPers to be Sigmas on the personality scale. We see a broken system and instead of conforming to it, we work outside it for our own gain. But on the mentality scale, we operate as alphas. As that is what one with a sigma personality would do. Sigma: The outsider who doesn't play the social game and manage to win at it anyhow. The sigma is hated by alphas because sigmas are the only men who don't accept or at least acknowledge, however grudgingly, their social dominance. …
/r/askTRP04/07/16 11:48 PM
3

They don't even have to be single. The fact that most of their b/f's are probably weak and as emotional as them. This dude is a dream.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 06:30 PM
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The real kicker is once you learn...once you accept even part of the journey, there is no real going back. Sure, you can stumble, find yourself breaking frame, doing something you know better than to do. But you will never be able to revert back to your old self. The little voice will never go away and it will keep telling you, "you need to move forward".
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 01:50 PM
1

It's only been 6 months, if your gut is telling you this girl is bad news, walk away now. It will only get worse as time goes by.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:52 PM
1

Look, I'm not going to sit here and validate your feelings. They suck, we all know they do. You know what you have to do so just do it. If you can't, good luck on the self pity train.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 11:25 PM
2

One of the hardest decisions you will make in trp is letting go of what was and accepting what is. You know where you stand and what you need to do. Trying to force that through actions you know deep down will not help. It will only make you feel like more shit. You HAVE to man up and just let go. Its not easy but as a man, and the only one in control of your life, you have to do it for yourself. The feelings will take time, you will think about her constantly until you find better aspects in li…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 04:47 PM
1

Courts screwed me with the youngest child, ex has full control to say when I get her until she turns three.
/r/askMRP25/06/16 04:01 AM
1

Never heard of it but will check it out.
/r/askMRP24/06/16 05:57 PM
2

I will give the complete aloofness a try. I've done the hanging up before and the "only text me". Neither played out well. I stuck my dick in crazy.
/r/askMRP24/06/16 05:57 PM
3

If she starts yelling, yes, turn around and walk away. No adult needs that shit. If you have no attachments to this chick, you have absolutely no reason to have her in your life. She is just another stranger you crossed paths with at this point.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 05:43 PM
1

Good point.
/r/askMRP24/06/16 03:20 PM
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My father had this childhood friend who he was still friends with when he was in his 40's. Sharp guy, everyone loved, just an all around fun guy to know. I was young and he'd occasionally take me hunting with him. He loved deer hunting. Had what looked like a military armory in his spare closet. It was amazing to see. He was divorced, had two kids both grown, never remarried or went into any LTR. Playing the field is how he spent his post-marriage. One day, my father gets a phone call. It was th…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 04:00 PM
1

This comes of a good manosphere blog. Probably my favorite explanation. http://alphagameplan.blogspot.com/2011/03/socio-sexual-hierarchy.html
/r/askTRP21/06/16 07:26 PM
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I don't see the big deal. You have the boundaries, have nothing to do with her other than share bills, who gives a shit if the roommate is male or female? As long as she doesn't get in the way what you bring home or turn you into a emotional tampon, you're good.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 05:59 PM
5

These comments are off. (As a parent who also follows RP) Parents really only want one thing from there children and that is to keep the bloodline alive and well. The best mate a parent can imagine for their children is one who will provide grandchildren, financial stability, and happiness to the offspring. Either her daughter has not brought another guy around or they have been pure shit in the terms of providing. She see's you as the best mate, at this point, to give her daughter what she need…
/r/askTRP15/06/16 01:11 AM
2

I've seen it too. Some men will chase an ex even though they are banging the hot chick on the block. Edit: no kids involved
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:58 AM
1

What do you mean by punish? At no point do you "punish" a girl. If she is doing something that you disapprove of, you can deploy dread or other methods that show she could lose you if she doesn't change. But at no point, should you be talking down on her or pushing her around.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 07:53 PM
1

Reword it, I can't figure out what you are asking.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 07:01 PM
2

I think you misunderstand shit tests. The fact that you are stuck on this shows that you completely failed the shit test before it even came out of her mouth. You should never punish for a shit test. They are natural acts done to test your frame. Nothing about it is purposely, it is purely a subconscious reaction to those who stand near her. The ONLY way to properly respond to a shit test is to not care what comes out of her mouth. Regardless if you are amusingly throwing the shit back at her, i…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 06:43 PM
4

Analogies should be a INTJ's bread and butter with humor. I have realized over the years, we have the ability to use our perceptions and judgements to link very unrelated items in a very amusing way. Any INTJ should be able to think back to some of his best jokes over the years and realize how he played them as an analogy. Do what you do best and you'll shine.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 11:41 PM
4

Man, that was too much to read.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 11:18 PM
0

wouldn't that really mean that MOST men are just pussies? Of course most men are pussies...so much so, they want to be accepted by society and allowed to use the "little girls room" like any other piece of pussy does.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 01:19 PM
1

Reddit redpill has this habit of grouping personality types with mentality types. When redpill talks alpha beta, the discussion is over mentality. You are mentally working in an alpha mindset...getting done what needs to be done. In this concept, you can only have two types. You are alpha or you sit by while the world passes you...beta. Alpha, beta, sigma. Those are personality types. The alpha is the leader of the group, the beta is the support of the alpha, the sigma is the one who doesn't giv…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 01:33 AM
3

When you say sleep is okay, can you explain? If it's mental or do you just not sleep well? Reason I ask, There are different forms of sleep apnea that are not caused by being overweight (like most sleep apnea patients)
/r/askTRP04/06/16 05:30 AM
3

If you look at his post history, you'll see he is a very angry individual who also happens to "help" women in the feminism sub.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 05:37 PM
2

As someone who had an affair BC he was unsure what he was missing out on. The prostitute was is not a bad ideal. I destroyed a marriage who could have been repaired over a piece of pussy that come to find out, wasn't much better than his ex wife's. The unfortunate part, we forget what its like to be with another woman after many years of sleeping with the same...our mind wonders, our needs are simple. Sometimes, a simple fuck will remind you how indifferent it really is.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 10:33 PM
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The interesting part, this is exactly how women do business. If you ever watch a woman sell something on craigslist... They create a list of options, then pick the one who gives them the easiest sell with the highest profit. This could easily translate into the way they work their sexual imperative. They create a list of possible mates, find the one who is the least work but with the highest returns, then go for it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 10:02 PM
3

I think he played it right. The day was already planned to spend the day together, so by suddenly having something else to do would show butt hurt. Smile, go about your day, then ghost her would be of my opinion too. It shows he doesn't need her sex to have fun but at the same time, that if they arent having sex, he doesn't need her in his life.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 09:43 PM
13

She now knows about who you were and you are getting a few increased shit test, to make sure you are true to your new self. They will die down, just be patient and don't let it sway your frame. There is nothing you can do with this other girl that will turn out well. Ignore her, pretend she doesn't exist, do your thing and don't give two shits about her. You know why this other girl is doing what she is doing, so does your girlfriend. Women are impressively good at reading each others little gam…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 05:50 PM
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Yeah, I get the analogy...its not bad and I don't want to ruin the message he is trying to get across. But in the literal sense, I have bought a few cars from Enterprise over the years, they tend to be in great shape, 1-2 years old and below 40k miles. Price is usually better than what a normal dealer lot ask also.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:28 AM
2

Holy shit what a nail on the head. Let me tell my pre-rp story. My ex wife, I split from her after I had an affair. She chased me for months only to meet a guy she liked then moved on. The problem was, I started to regret my decisions after the split and finally decided to "work it out". But I choose to do this around same time she met this guy. She lied to me for months about him, while fucking him but telling me she loved me. Once the truth came out, I told her he had to go if we were to work …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 01:35 PM
5

Well, first off...if she is someone who already knows you, you are probably going to nuke the situation. Women don't have the capacity to understand the change you go through when you are in constant contact with them. You HAVE to move on and assume they are no longer in the picture. When it comes to starting off, just be mindful of your interaction's. Women are notorious for push and pull. They do it regardless of where you stand with them. You ghost them, they break contact, throw a few shit t…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:16 PM
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He's trying to make a context for guys who dont get it. Even in my early RP days, the less investment was one of the hardest to get used too. It's definitely one of those things you must be conscience about till you either have plates spinning or so much shit going on, you don't care.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:12 PM
2

Love exist...but not in the definition we are taught it does. If you look at a the dictionary definition of love, the first one to show is "an intense feeling of deep affection". The key word here is "feeling". Feelings are attached to emotions and emotions come and go. One minute you can feel happy, the next you can feel sad. They are not everlasting and your current situation will always dictate that emotion you feel. Love is just that...this one minute, you have a deep affection to a specific…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:00 PM
1

This whole thread so far should be front page theredpill.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 01:49 AM
1

Not in the branch I served. They told us from day one, alcohol involved would automatically favor sexual assault.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 11:37 PM
2

This might not be over, I'd stay clear as can be and not talk about it with anyone. Don't let it be talked about in front of you, just walk away. Here is the reason, the military has a strict rule to these things. If anyone is drunk in any way and someone claimed rape or sexual assault, it is automatic...military tribune will nail his ass with no questions asked. This is not something you want to get wrapped up in. STAY AWAY.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 04:14 AM
15

Story time. I was stationed with two guys. Best friends who worked together in military, both married...wives spent all free time together also. We'll call them guy A with Wife A and Guy B with Wife B. One day Guy A deploys. So guy B starts fucking wife A while he's gone. Somewhere around 8 months into the deployment, Wife A ends up pregnant...and we all know it can't be from Guy A...but at this point, no one knew who could be the father. So wife B drills wife A trying to find out who this guy i…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 03:34 AM
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This man is every bit correct. I consider my ex to be my Achilles Heel. Your frame can be rock solid around women but the minute you throw someone into the picture who knows your buttons and is part of your old life...you'll break and not even realize until it happens.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 03:10 AM
2

I personally think monk mode is just a man's way of hamstering himself into not approaching women. The ONLY reason I can see why I person would use monk mode is if he is struggling with specific internal issues that would only get worse with external sources ie. women. Monk mode needs a clear set of goals and a pre-planned end game to be of any use. Even then, there really is not much that could possibly going on in your life that should ever stop you from gaming women.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 03:55 PM
3

I get the sense this his first young one. With a comment like that, she will not stick around regardless what he does.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:54 PM
1

I was going to say the same thing. TRP holds a different philosophy behind getting women by showing a more dominate side on masculinity. But the core of reaching that point is to accept your flaws, then try to change it to overcome them. Which is what any unhappy person must do...redpill or not.
/r/seduction17/05/16 11:08 PM
4

Are you saying to eat whatever you want but track your calories?
/r/askTRP16/05/16 05:31 PM
3

It is. I am from a southern state but have lived in other parts of the country. I always found much better success outside the south than in it. Southern girls hold a different script from other area's due to the "I must be with a man of god" attitude. I would't say they are all like this(not talking AWALT) but the vast majority are. Most southern girls(small town especially) want a god-fearing man and does the typical hunting, mud-riding, etc...
/r/askTRP16/05/16 01:54 PM
9

(Not even sure I'm allowed to post here..from the men's RP group.) Anyway... He knows you like him. It's manipulation 101. Chances are, him and his g/f have very few issues. But he is blowing them up either for you or (most likely) in his own head to create a reason to pull on your feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/16 06:19 PM
5

Got a girl who basically tries to put me on the back burner. I gave up on her as she became too much work. I knew it would work but decided to test the "craziest thing just happen" as an experiment. Not 5 mins and she was calling. Still going to drop her but the experiment was worth it.
/r/seduction12/05/16 11:00 PM
1

No, you are doing it exactly right. Some guys are so lost, have been so jaded by the idea of approach, they can't do it without a little coaching.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 11:57 PM
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I went back and reread your post. We are saying the same thing just with different words. You are right though.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 11:03 PM
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You are hamstering(gerbeling) this. Some guys really have no natural game. None at all. I see nothing wrong with using a little pua when you are still learning how to approach women. A man's primary goal should be to self improve, get to a point in life where you like who you are. If you need a little lesson in game, so be it. But It should never become your bread and butter. PUA should be used a tool like anything else learned in the manosphere. Get what you need and move on to the next.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 10:53 PM
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"TRP compares all women to dogs" /s
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 03:41 PM
1

Any hints on how to train your mind to these low expectations? I mean, I know stoicism and such but my in general, I usually have optimistic views about things despite the practice of stoicism. It seems to be a trigger for my anxiety in the things I know I can't control.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 02:38 PM
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I have to agree. Most women do have this capacity to them and they usually act on it to some level but they do still have that age old need to nurture and settle that causes a serious game of tug-a-war internally. What I have learned is that when women do this, they know deep down they are doing it but do not have the ability to understand why they are doing it.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:10 AM
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He doesn't even have to do that. I was enlisted active duty with very minimal college. I went AF, a very tech field. Worked on all my basics while in, come out and finished my engineering degree. I now work for a federal agency(thanks to the military) that just about anyone who holds a science degree would die to work for. It's not hard, you just have to be smart and play your cards right to pull it off.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:14 AM
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You are wondering aimlessly into no where. I am going to suggest something is not always favored by others but you are young. Look into joining the military. It will teach you the confidence you are missing, give you a substantial improvement to income, making life long friends, force no fap during boot camp, and force the exercise you can not stick too. Only those of us who are or have been in the military understand this.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 05:28 PM
4

There are a couple things I believe are getting lost in this. Sex is not of the same value to women. We men tend to get lost in this thought process due to the way we value sex toward our biological needs. Sure, they like sex and will fuck whatever they can find when they are horny...but sex is a tool to them. A gift, so to speak, to the man who gives her the feelings she needs. It is the feeling she is after and her pussy is the gift to obtain it. Women are not truly aware of their own hypergam…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 02:32 PM
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Im not going to repeat what others have said below b/c they are 100% right. More girls means less care about a single one. But something else, do you still talk to her? If so, why? Unless you have children with her, she should not be in your life at all. It is an Achilles heel type situation where until you "make it", she will default you to the wrong mindset....your old life.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 10:02 PM
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That was a good FR. Nothing extravagant or over the top. Just real. The struggle to get from point A to point B get lost in a lot of the material. When you see the success stories and not the failures it took to get there, you have to wonder where you are screwing up. Your post shows that struggle and gives a real time account of what it takes to move forward. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 07:32 PM
4

Setting up Lego's as bible scriptures...interesting hobby.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 05:31 PM
1

I know was downvoted BC you are basically learning to lie but there is some truth in what he is telling you to do. One of the biggest assets a compulsive lier has is the ability to think on the fly. If you can learn to get out of your head and just talk with no repercussions, claming up is no longer an issue. I'm not condoning it, but I understand it.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 04:18 AM
2

Ever noticed those with money tend to be more frugal with it? Just something to think about...
/r/askTRP17/04/16 03:12 AM
20

I know where I'm spending my next point. Thanks Rollo!
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:53 PM
3

The truth, I don't know the full story. My old man had a lot of gems like this but what brought him to these conclusions, I'll never know. He passed away when I was 20(in my 30's now). I found out shortly after my divorce that my father slept around on my mother at one stage in the marriage but as I come from a family where women outnumber the men by a very large number, I seriously doubt anyone would ever tell me the full story.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 04:34 AM
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To repeat what my father told me when I was 12 years old. And keep in mind as I say this, he was an old school, none emotional person. Born before WW2 and always saw the world for what it was. "All women are whores. See your mother sitting that this table across from us? She's a whore too. The sooner you believe this, the better off you will be."
/r/askTRP12/04/16 12:14 PM
3

I had an issue with harassment, consistent negging, making me look like the pure POS in the situation...even with my own family. The thing I learned though, keep your comments to yourself and no matter what, don't post memes or share shit on social media. At first, no one had shit to do with me due to her FB vomiting. After about 6 months of the constant crap from her, I started to get random text or messages from past people telling me they how they were proud of me for taking the higher ground…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 06:08 PM
1

It's kinda that feeling that first arose when they left the first time. It could be a mix of loneliness and feeling like I lost my kids again. It almost feels like I have to keep reliving that whole first month over and over. That is really the best way to explain it.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 06:02 PM
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Great Great post and perfect timing for my personal gains. These internal struggles, they never really existed before my divorce last year. I always held a "well, let's just see what happens" attitude toward life and it always kept me calm. But since the divorce, my anxiety levels have shot through the roof. It is the one part of my RP journey that I have not been able to control even through the various suggested readings, meditations, and stoic practices. The picking up girls, spinning plates,…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 03:28 PM
3

Skyns are awesome. I had the same issue where condoms felt so fake. I learned two things that fixed the issue. make sure the condom is loose fit. If it looks like it is smashing the head down, it's the wrong size...go bigger. Find the thinnest condom you can that still holds great online reviews (Skyns do this)
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:30 PM
2

Thanks for turning the perspective
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 06:19 PM
3

I had (and still do) a different situation with my ex wife. While she was the one who filed the divorce, (divorce) raped me, the whole typical AWALT...the one thing she never did was decide our love was not real. Even to this day, she will occasionally hamster out of her mouth, "I will never stop loving you, DBM". That is despite the fact that both of us (or at least me) know deep down that the whole marriage was based on bullshit pretenses. I do acknowledge why I did not get the light switch tr…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 05:22 PM
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Good post. You brought some thing to my attention that makes me curious. How likely is it for the victim of an affair become the one who cheats in later relationships? Unfortunately, no statistics could be found through Google to show this...everything is centered on the "once a cheater, always a cheater" theory.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:58 AM
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And delete this shit asap, last thing you need is to be doxxed
/r/askTRP27/03/16 05:11 PM
1

The only thing that would make this better is if you have multiple pre-recordings and you have to shuffle through them while she waits.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 04:40 PM
1

Its always just your turn, but then again you should be able to find someone else then I guess. That is EXACTLY it. Round and Round she goes...where she stops, nobody knows!
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 03:44 PM
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Yeah, I won't take the bait. I was just trying to understand her game...she can be full of them.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 03:07 PM
5

Ahhhh. Makes sense now. I was seeing another girl who she knew about. Once she found out we were no longer talking, little comments like this started popping up.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 03:02 PM
6

Just remember, Today was also National Pancake Day.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 05:06 AM
1

You need purpose in your life. Right now, you are just going by the motions without giving back. I'm not saying this is a fix all. Your level of depression that you have experience I'm not sure anyone here could give you the fix all. But You need to find something to give back on, something that will give you purpose. It could be as simple as being a personal trainer for other people who are deaf, or maybe sign up to be a volunteer fireman, anything community related that will let you give back …
/r/askTRP07/03/16 03:11 PM
3

This is something you have to shift your schedule for. When I was in military, We'd have to be at work at 7 am on PT days(6 on non-PT days), so we'd meet for PT at 5:15 am every morning. Means I had to be up by 4:45 to be ready and out of the door on time. Like you though, I'm also a night owl. If you leave me to a natural schedule, I rarely get in bed before 11. But Once you do the shift of schedule, your body adjusts pretty fast.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 01:45 PM
4

I had this exact thing happen one time. It was quite intriguing. Met this cute little redhead on Tinder, her pictures made her look about an HB8.5..some were good, some not. Problem was, I could not close the deal on Tinder, I couldn't get her to text me and get off the shit app. I probably wasted a little more time than I should have but finally, I gave up. Fast forward about 2 weeks, I run across a little redhead while at lunch with co-workers. Didn't realize it at first, but it was the same g…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 04:39 PM
4

That is not the lesson. To simplify...to fix problems with a woman's attraction toward other men, he has to work on himself. You can't hide the girl from the Chad's. Does that mean he should continue to hang around a leech? Fuck no...we've all had those "friends"(and sometimes we have been those friends). But if using this guy as a buffer works for him, then by all means do it. Really, I think watching this guy work might be a antidote to create his calm collective attitude. Which is actually do…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 03:09 PM
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You can't hide women from Chad. That is a B.B. thought if I ever heard one. Sure, he can quit hanging out with this one but if the girl is in full C.C. mode, nothing he will do can stop her from getting picked up by Chad Sr. at the grocery store. The only way to combat another alpha is by raising your SMV. Once you reach a level somewhat equal to the Chad's she chases, that is when it will no longer be a problem. (But keep in mind...there is no fix all. SMV is a fluid, linear line. Each girl has…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 02:31 PM
1

Man, I understand what you think you are trying to do but it's not going to work. I have an inherent weak spot toward this girl from your previous life. You will ALWAYS default to that train of thought when you are around her. I mean, do what you are going to do...but keep in mind that if you really want to adopt TRP philosophy, it will never happen along as you keep this vice(yes, she is a vice for your BP mindset) around.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 08:45 PM
13

What's crazy is how even while reading this, I noticed the thought struggle with myself.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 08:28 PM
1

I'm 10 years your younger and I swear it is getting worse with age. Maybe it is just a change in times with social media and what-not....but damn if it hasn't become an epidemic.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:45 PM
1

I think there's a world of difference between people who don't care or get cucked and people who don't see the logic behind this and make poor decisions. This is especially true as you get older. The truth is, when you reach your 30's and 40's, it is extremely rare to find a woman with partners you can count on your fingers (or without kids for that matter). I have simply made it a rule that I just don't ask anymore. It's not b/c I want to get "cucked". It's simply because there is no real benef…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 02:32 PM
1

Just make sure he does not sign that paperwork if there is ANYTHING in it he doesn't agree with, regardless what she tells him. My ex pulled the "it's not in the paperwork but I promise this". Complete B.S. It's not in there b/c that is the way she wanted it.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 04:25 PM
2

You just made the most hostile thread of the day in a subreddit to argue that a group of men are wrong for not thinking like you do. The Backfire Effect is in full force here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 08:37 PM
2

Of course, I refuse to let my own life be ruled by fear and anger, as do many other survivors. Then why are you acting so angry toward a RP ideal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 08:19 PM
1

What ever you do, don't contact her back. Let her come to you now. You called, she will see it. Any more interest could be a major turn-off to her. If she doesn't contact back, she is no longer interested.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 06:14 PM
1

You might have and I just misread it. Regardless, you are still in the same bed as her. She wouldn't do it if she was scared of the outcome on you finding out.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 09:21 PM
3

I think you are over-reading the situation. We can agree that most girls have a level of kinky to them regardless if they admit it or not. This girl could be a true nymph but scared to say so. She's in your bed and you have sex several times a week, on top of that, she is masturbating in your bed. I can not think of one time where I heard of a girl masturbating in the bed of the guy she was with b/c she was not into him. Anyway, I have seen a few girls like this now and it hasn't come out until …
/r/askTRP05/02/16 09:00 PM
1

Divorce manual?
/r/askTRP04/02/16 07:58 PM
6

She's full of shit.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 05:03 PM
2

In other news, President Obama will be buying a new suit today after Samsung announces it will be making more money this year. See, I can put two completely unrelated topics together also.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 03:54 PM
1

There are those who exist but really, I think it has to do more with sex experience and personality. I have had HB5's who were horrid lays while HB8's who did things that were unbelievable. Then I've had it the complete opposite too.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:11 PM
2

Some women play the game on the subconscious level. They will go through the strokes of creating orbiters or turning down the "good ones" for the C.C. and not really understand why. There is a good chance she feels bad for the way she treats him (again, she knows it's wrong but still can't help the way she feels) so she tries to offer him a g/f to help feel better about herself. If he screws it up with the offered friend, oh well, she tried....so now her conscious can be clear to move on with he…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 02:53 PM
1

If you need to get it out of your system, do it now, right here. Sure you will probably be judged but no one here knows you, this is a learning environment and you won't have to burn a friend or relationship in the process. Learn to be stoic, read some books on it and they will help. It's ok to feel like you do, but it is up to you as a man on how you handle it.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:05 PM
6

Evolution is just looking for what gene clusters co-operate and work best together; Hell, evolution doesn't even do that. It has no mind or real goal. It's hard for us as people to grasp this b/c we only see the outcomes of positive evolution, which makes it look like it purposely selected those genes. In reality, evolution will spit out a random selection of genes and if they happen to match well, then that set of genes will move on...if not, it dies and no one knows any different.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 08:28 PM
5

The thing he needs to understand though, dread is kind of a nuke option and will only work if she is really into him. I have a feeling that it will not in this case(A two hour argument only makes me think that he is purely seen as a provider and providers are a dime a dozen.) He needs to lead by example before applying dread. Remember the child mentality. A teen will look at this situation and think, "if he doesn't have to do it, neither do I." And she will continue to use this as her reasoning …
/r/askTRP13/01/16 04:30 PM
2

I fully expected to see someone here admit he posted that.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 04:07 PM
13

I feel like I just read the past 6 months of my life.
/r/MensRights04/01/16 04:52 PM
9

Which they basically are...spent few years in Texas, that state is turning blue faster than a homeless mans balls in a strip club. Here in Alabama though, expect laws to be made to keep that shit from spilling over.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 06:11 PM
0

The kicker is #6 on that list. If you are in the military, it is considered rape regardless if she turns you in or not. For your own safety, You just don't have sex with a drunk girl period.(military ofc)
/r/MensRights31/12/15 04:54 PM
2

When I was about 12 years old, my drunken dad sat me down at the kitchen table and started talking about women's nature. The one thing he said that really sunk in and really became the basis of my understanding toward women was, and I quote, ** "All women are whores. See your mother sitting across from us at this table? Even she is a whore." ** I'm in my 30's now and remember this like yesterday. This single comment at such a young age has controlled a lot of anger and frustration toward women o…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 06:41 AM
6

Without knowing background, I'd ignore or say something humorous like: "you should peal an onion...those son's will make you cry like a baby." But really, its hard to say without seeing past messages.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 11:04 PM
1

Is this since RP or something that has existed a long time?
/r/askTRP21/12/15 09:12 PM
1

Interesting it came from the friend and not her...which to me, says, "I'm just qualifying myself for my friends and has nothing to with my real feelings." I had similar experience not long ago but the comment came from the actual girl. She didn't want to lead me on BC she still had feelings for her ex. I ignored it completely, comment never happened. The girl practially kisses the ground I walk on now. So just ignore the comment, don't let it break frame. Continue as you would with whatever inte…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:18 PM
1

I'm not sure people quite understand this. I was married 10 years to the woman. Three kids, "happy life", the whole B.S. When the marriage finally fell apart, I broke it off. I thought maybe she would be somewhat reasonable but deep down, knew better. What she did was beyond any words to describe. First Move, she called ALL MY family. I had no chance to tell any of them what was going on. She was already on the phone with them and making them choose sides. Most of which chose her side, naturally…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 05:17 PM
1

Yeah, I realize this now. Trust me, this will not happen again. We live and we learn.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 11:53 PM
7

You are over-evaluating his math. He never said how many of the 1500 matches made it past the match stage.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:48 PM
1

Hell, I live in a small city and seriously doubt 1500 girls are even on tinder in my area. I run out of matches on a daily basis with 100 mile search.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:44 PM
5

I can't help but joke to myself that if Nets are more efficient than spears, I should invest in Electrofishing.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:28 PM
1

Three kids man. Kids change everything and that was my reasoning. The deal was that she come for Thanksgiving, I'd get to see the kids for Christmas. She agreed.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 01:54 PM
38

I had a similar situation this weekend. Where the feministic bond is thicker than blood. Divorced, I make the mistake of allowing my ex to come over for thanksgiving. Thanksgiving night, while I'm helping my oldest daughter, I set my phone on the counter and don't think to lock it. (Keep in mind, we are in our 30's, not some 19-20 year olds.) My ex decides to snoop my phone, finds a conversation where I am talking to this girl and proceeds to take pictures of it to send to MY female cousin. My 5…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 03:00 PM
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A little experiences of mine. Let me says first off, I like to cook. I enjoy coming up with good shit out of the blue. Even if it is just me eating it and no one else around will ever try it...I find it fun. Usually when a woman finds out I can cook, they want me to cook something for them to prove it. (if you are truly following RP, you won't do it but that is a different subject) So here is what I have learned over the years. 80-90% of women find it sexy as hell for a man who can cook. It is t…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 06:39 PM
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I have seen this happen to other guys. The girl basically just quits hiding the red flags and starts slapping them in the face with it. It is a sad sad situation to see. And yet, "you are a good man for putting up with her as long as you did". /s
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 02:39 PM
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Plates don't have to be your thing but abundance is very important. Don't ever let a woman think she is your only choice. This is important even in marriage. You need to make your LTR think you are choosing her over all the others. Otherwise, the man-woman dynamic, that TRP preaches, will break down. (That doesn't mean flirt with every tail that walks by. High SMV goes noticed by women. If you are being checked out in a store with your woman around but you are showing no concern, it will go very…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:45 PM
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Genuinely serious question... Is that a plus or negative when dealing with anal?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:18 PM
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Good reply, thanks.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 04:32 PM
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Yeah, I am.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 03:40 PM
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Not the advice you want to hear...truths rarely are. If she has already checked out of the relationship (and she has from what you said), you need to check out also. No amount of coaxing or "therapy" is going to repair a relationship once one partner has checked out. You can not forget her, it is impossible to drop her from your mind after a long marriage but you need to move on. Become selfish, live TRP. Every move you make needs to be made for you and no one else. Not even your kids. (if you l…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 04:14 PM
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Here is an interesting revelation while reading this. I was having a discussion with a female friend of mine a couple weeks ago about orgasms and such. It is obvious what while men are far more physically attracted to women and hold a much greater need to reproduce and spread our seed, we are not rewarded as powerfully as women. Not only are women orgasms much more powerful, they also have the ability to do it in multitudes opposed to men. With that in mind, it seems that when it comes to the em…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 01:53 PM
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Something else he could do. Even if he hit a low value matches on tinder, use it to work on frame and shit test. No one said he has to actually go out with them. No shame in it and will help build confidence.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 01:58 PM
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You sure the "give me sex or I leave" would work? It seems like a challenging ultimatum. idk, I would probably just get up and start walking out. When she ask why, I'd tell her the BJ's only are getting boring. Then let her hamster on that thought. Either way, he has to walk away and show her this shit ain't cutting it.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 08:33 PM
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I used to think this also. Especially in my early to mid-20's. I just could not find a girl who could make me cum from a bj. Handjobs...all day long. I am in my mid-30's now and back single. In my short time as a single man again, I have found two...and those two are the FIRST TIME EVER. Both of which are also mid-upper 30's. It looks like the techniques seem to mature with the women. While not all in my present time have held this gift, the two is still better than the previous number of 0. (I …
/r/askTRP20/08/15 08:27 PM
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That is what I think. The phone comment sounds more like a bitter stab than anything, she was looking for a LTR and see's you as a player. Don't get your hopes up she will recontact you..and for whatever reason you might need to be reminded, don't contact her.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:37 PM
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Can't tell you the amount of stories I heard of men finding some magical way to talk themselves out of sex in the bed, many times naked. Can confirm. I once had a girl soaking wet, fingers all in her, screaming for me to fuck her. And I made the comment about her being late for work. Completely talked myself out of sex. No idea what I was thinking...
/r/askTRP13/08/15 01:46 PM
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I'm not sure this is from pain though? If you tear an ACL, chances are it happened while doing something you love. Knowing you basically can't do it again for a long while is a very emotionally taxing.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:03 PM
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Great time to ask her if she smokes. Doesn't matter if you or her smoke, a pack of cigs and drunk girl...make a great reason to go outside.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 02:48 PM
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About a week, honestly. It is still new to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 01:36 AM
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Kids, yes. My decision did come at a price. I have not always had "beta ways". But I allowed society to twist me into what you see now. At one time, if you told me I would have 3 kids, I would have told you to go fuck yourself, I did not want them....then I got her pregnant. I know it is great without the condom but wrap up dude. One poor drunk night and the pull method goes out the window.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 09:15 PM
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Kids are involved and she is not working. If divorce was filed today and judge decided to give her full custody, I would lose 3/4th my income plus whatever alimony she seeks I am treading on thin water right now. Some of my behavior has been very beta. I am recouping after 10 years with this woman, while I sew and understand what I want. Those are hard habits to break.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 09:08 PM
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Kids are involved. Three of them. I have to tread on thin water right now or I would go full no contact.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 09:04 PM
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The alpha part of me says yes...the logical part. But I still have that little beta troll in the back of my head that keeps putting the fear of the situation in me.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 04:47 PM
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Is it wrong that I want to troll FB with this picture?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:39 PM
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I initiated the split. She basically begged to work it out. It's a trick, I have spent enough time with her and seen her manipulative ways to know her end game. If we got back together, things would be different at first but eventually, she would eat at the relationship like she did the first time. I am her 2nd husband...the same thing happened to her in the first marriage. These women are black-widows. I know AWALT and all but these are different in the fact that her mother and sisters FEED off…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 04:10 PM
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That is a no go. She was NOT attractive in any way.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 03:57 PM
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It wouldn't work. She comes from a family where men are equivalent to the dogs in the yard. If you don't do what they want, they find someone who will.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 03:10 PM
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But at that point, does it really matter? Women are fickle at best when it comes to attraction. If they want to be attracted to you, they will find a reason.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 02:47 PM
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Mouth breathing stimulates the Parasympathetic nervous system, and simulates fight or flight. Interesting. I have an issue where I can not take proper breaths through my nose(it is genetic, father and 2 of my children do it too) I wonder if this would still be the case for those who are forced to mouth breath? Edit, nvm, debunked in post below.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 02:27 PM
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I had a good friend some years back (RIP) who used to say, Women are ALWAYS looking for the next best thing. Doesn't matter if they do it on purpose or not. The thing you have to do is keep on your game and be her only next viable choice or be prepared to let her go. There is not and never will be a comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:50 PM
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Beautiful Answer. Thanks
/r/askTRP30/07/15 03:25 PM
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I understand it is not TRP way. What if the split was initiated by the man in the first place? But yet, those around him push for the counseling.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 03:08 PM
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