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For what is told there wasn't any reverse victim, "you called us", they just ignored her which is what I would have done in the same situation.
/r/MensRights18/02/19 10:37 PM
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Working on cellphone sorry for the edition. As defines by the goodmenproject: "Toxic masculinity is a narrow and repressive description of manhood, designating manhood as defined by violence, sex, status and aggression. It’s the cultural ideal of manliness, where strength is everything while emotions are a weakness; where sex and brutality are yardsticks by which men are measured, while supposedly “feminine” traits — which can range from emotional vulnerability to simply not being hypersexual — …
/r/MensRights26/09/18 02:35 PM
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Thank you for the reality check. Really appreciate your words.
/r/seduction04/12/17 12:41 AM
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Solved: Alcohol and a dark place.
/r/seduction22/04/17 02:10 PM
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already tried that, she move the face away but didn't push me or anything, so I just said "I am not gonna kiss you yet", and just made our noses touch.
/r/seduction21/04/17 10:14 AM
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Lately I have been feeling something similar, I'm not afraid of being held responsible for a false accusation or about being unable to defend myself if the case arises, I hope that I won't get involve with that kind of people, (with some luck) What bothers me is the way in which most of the girls tend to act, for example a year ago I was involved with a girl, she told me that she "didn't have a boyfriend", everything was going fine until one moment she just dissapear and I find out that she did …
/r/MensRights14/04/17 10:34 PM
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In my personal experience the more possibilities you have of having fun, spending time with different girls and so on the less you will ask yourself this kind of question. When I was after one girl I was constantly wondering why was she acting the way that she was, if I should call her or not, and so on. Once I start meeting more people and having fun the answer comes so naturally, she wasn't the person that I wanted to be with. Other thing that comes to mind is that once you are seem in some wa…
/r/seduction27/08/16 04:36 PM
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I know that I need to get over my bad experiences, the last one is the one that keep coming to me and shifting the way that I perceive myself, I'm ok as long as that relationship doesn't cross my mind, but honestly I don't know how to work it. I have write, I have talk, and my mind just keep trying to make sense of something that I already know the answer, I just didn't hope to get rejected in such a way and constantly I told myself that it's for the best, I compare myself to back then and I kno…
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:31 PM
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Thanks for the words, doing my best to improve day by day and not letting the bad experience cut my desire to keep going... Sometimes it just get hard, last night I felt that deeply-
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:25 PM
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What do you mean by "calculated neglect" giving too much attention to someone which in turn makes them think I'm there all the time, and they seek for something that is not so available, (has more perceived value)? About the second part I think you may be right, tend to go out with girls in the 20 - 23 years scale, and for what I have seem they just want to enjoy themselves.
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:23 PM
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For what is worth it you are right. I'm bipolar and even though this is no excuse for anything it let me to behave in some weird ways sometimes, it shifts my perception of reality and can make me a clingy person that just wants attention and affection, on the other hand I can be really goal oriented, independent, and focus, most of the time I'm somewhere in between. It's just that the way I perceive reality tends to change a lot. About the open relationship, part of me just want to fuck, to have…
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:16 PM
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I don't know why but this is working.... I am more bussy looking at things that I really care about and not only porn. It made me last longer having sex. I expect it will reduce the seek for instant gratification process which tends to be a huge problem. Working on the other two now. Going to r/fitness, and bodyweightfitness to try to work on my meals.
/r/seduction08/07/16 04:17 PM
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Thank you for your answer this is really great. I never thought about the "excuse to go that leave you feeling like you want to go". Also the end things when things are going well makes sense. Confidence, control and power.
/r/seduction08/07/16 03:35 AM
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Maybe I have some trouble with my frame, but I will define it something alone this lines, "I believe in this things and they are important to me but everyone is entitled to their own opinion, I can understand that under a certain perspective any idea can have "true" to the person that says it". So I won't change my point of view, but I don't feel any need to argue and try to convince other people from my point of view because I get if they thing my point is wrong, or they are right, or think oth…
/r/seduction04/07/16 08:09 PM
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No, not really put her opinion on a pedestal, just agree with her and say something like "I think that is a valuable perspective", "I really like what you are saying", "not many people can see things from that way". Everything about her body language was distant, one or two times I felt like I build connection and then again she will start doing the argue trick. In those moments we had strong visual, touching, smile, and then again her body language will swap to distant and cold. At the end I fe…
/r/seduction04/07/16 07:59 PM
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Well from my point of view this sounds accurate, yes we were in a relationship and we decided to part ways before I went traveling. At the beginning she said one phrase that deeply resounded in me "I don't want you to go, but I'll hate you if you wouldn't", at that time there wasn't any decision to be made, staying was not an option. While I was traveling I was in my agenda, and she was doing her thing, however sometimes she will change her WhatsApp status to something criptic yet a clear refere…
/r/seduction04/07/16 07:46 PM
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Now this is real gold, thank you. So chivalry is not what I am looking for but more something along the lines of social cues and understanding the person I am going out with.
/r/seduction23/06/16 10:10 AM
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Thank you so much for this, I am 28 right now and I'm trying to live my 20's as fast as possible because as you said after graduating life was a little too much for me and it took me 4 years to recover. Those are 4 years of my 20's I'll never get back. So now I am traveling, and meeting new people, and reading, and doing things that I didn't did before because I was broken and didn't care. Right now my path is to make things for myself, and that one was something that took me a lot of effort to …
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:32 PM
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I know it was a joke, I just wanted him to explain why he thought that it was so funny to came to my post and make a joke when I am really asking for a serious question. I didn't came here to say "oh my god I totally impressed this girl", I am talking about a principal of dominance, now I thought that this subreddit was the right place to ask but if not even a moderator can answer this question without making a funny remark what is there for me to expect out of the community. At least I hope tha…
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:14 PM
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Thanks for answering, I will gladly appreciate if you could explain me a little more of your comment since my English is not that good and a lot of the words that you use just escape me.
/r/seduction22/06/16 03:46 PM
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Thanks for sharing, I really like your path. I don't think there is anything wrong in the way you are acting. I think that your shift could happen for a lot of different reasons, maybe you surpass that phase where you had to act alpha to get the girls, now you are capable of getting the girl and there are more important things to you than just fucking every girl. Is it possible to integrate who you where with who you are?... I mean maybe you are looking for a more serious relationship, or maybe …
/r/seduction22/07/15 12:46 PM
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nice to remember that you are not your thoughts but rather the watcher of these thoughts. Remember to use your brain to plan things, to go for the things that you want to achieve, but dont let your fixed image of yourself prevent you from being who you really could.
/r/seduction21/07/15 11:48 PM
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I think that I can give you only superficial advice, however, remember that real change is not make on the surface but down deep inside of yourself. For me that kind of change requires to tackle the problem from different levels. Why?: Commit to your change, the road ahead won't be easy and it'll be harder if you don't understand that the things that you are going to do make sense to you. Be clear on the reasons that you want to change, the things that you are willing to leave behind. I think th…
/r/seduction06/06/15 03:38 AM
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Thanks I really appreciate your advice. Never thought it before in term of lead and follow and how it wasn't my role to do that. That really simplifies everything.
/r/seduction05/07/14 09:06 PM
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