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Dude yes!! Like we gotta learn to accept that the world will not always give you what you want, in fact it will give the opposite... BUT that's okay, and it doesn't mean you're bad.
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:33 PM
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I just started this program called mood gym. https://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome I HIGHLY suggest it. Basically the next time that happens, if you can pause and step back, and recognize your thoughts that lead to your feelings, you can swap them out for a more efficient thought and your feelings will follow. The reason we do this is because our feelings will affect our behavior. You may have had a perfect opportunity to go and talk to the 8. But your thoughts said "she must think I'm that ugly...…
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:19 PM
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Respect women enough to actually try and fuck them. Fuck. Yes. Good post OP
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 03:03 AM
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It came to me. I try to do it whenever I'm feeling blue or iffy about a situation. Not just girls. A good example would be when I'm going into an audition. What really cools the nerves is juxtaposing this one audition, with the fervency I feel for acting. No fucking way does his one audition mean anything when I think about how bad I really desire this entire career.
/r/seduction15/12/16 11:20 PM
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I've been doing the future abundance thing actually. I called it "juxtaposing". As in I would juxtapose my current woes (rejection) with the bigger picture (I want the life I want so bad, rejection don't meant shit)
/r/seduction15/12/16 09:40 PM
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It might be in your head m8. These girls might just be shy around you and not know what to say, so it comes off bitchy. Maybe don't take it personal and reframe the situation as them being shy, try to make them comfortable and loosen up to you
/r/seduction15/12/16 09:12 PM
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You fucking with me man? I never said I was too big. I actually have a small dick so jokes on you. How about hit me with some constructive criticism and I'll hook the post up. Edit: oh I see what you're saying. Nah dude like I was just in a good mood and wrote the FR with a certain tone. Don't take it too seriously?? Like you really think I call girls "breezy" on the daily? Lol
/r/seduction15/12/16 08:48 PM
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That first paragraph... so gold. Like know your leverage. Know your worth. People don't want to cross you and have the goodness that is you leave their life.
/r/seduction13/12/16 06:32 AM
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This is how it's going for me. Nofap>quit smoking>gym>meditating>The Game>cold approaches>diet>going harder in my career>college>new friends ... I'm nowhere near 10/10 with confidence but to see how far I've come amazes me. Start with meditating, gym, diet and sleep. Key that in then start reading, making new friends, meeting girls, going after your career goals... create abundance in your life and KNOW that no one girl could ever be the end of you. You have too much in your life that is great.
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:30 AM
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Honestly, I'm on a high rn so I truly believe it's different, yet I understand your frame. At the end of the day... at least I'm walking away with numbers??? A year ago I was railing adderall and downing my moms oxy watching the walking dead waiting for a god damn text. Now I'm texting hella bitches, got a fucking line up Monday-Friday and am feeling on cloud nine... Everybody's progress is different. But I think because of how intense my pain is, I've experienced amazing progress and I'm so ble…
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:31 AM
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I say this because when I started looking into the dark triad, this was the biggest thing that resounded wth me. It's not a fun place to be at. It's toxic
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 08:57 PM
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You know that narcissism is usually characterized by a front of extreme confidence and an actual feeling of worthlessness right? Most narcissists aren't actually confident.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 11:33 PM
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There's a line though. A line where you're not being productive ya know? Positive reinforcement can go a long way. Like we want to correct the errors but nothing more. We also want good references which means, replaying what goes well in your mind and reinforcing the belief that you're dope. Edit: but I see where you're coming from. Ever since watching Whiplash, I've realized that I'm not going as hard as I can. And I WANT somebody to criticize me. I want to improve, even if there's pressure, ev…
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:45 PM
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Oh shit! I have yet to actually buy a product other than a book... is t worth it?
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:41 PM
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Ooh valid point. I see where you're coming from and I vibe it. Do you follow the rsd guys, specifically julien and owen?
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:01 PM
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So that's your first deal man, you're trying to win the girls!! That mindset is toxic, (I'm working on it too so I'm not trying to be a dick). But if you're trying to make her interested, that implies that just being there, being you, isn't enough. And that's fucking wrong god dammit. Suxess6, you're enough. Don't you try to impress a girl. Don't you try to make a girl laugh. Let them bathe in the ugly beauty that is you. Got carried away but seriously my man. Look into changing that mindset. Al…
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:38 PM
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Yeah. That's like the main mountain most sedditors have to climb at first, just the fear of girls and of our own sexuality. Once that's over with it's game on. And by fishing around I mean looking for real IOI's. Like does she touch you, does she laugh at your jokes, is she interested, is she compliant.. it's becoming an intuitive feel. Also if you're lacking IOI's, are you walking away or not giving it attention or are you trying harder?
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:21 PM
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I suggest reading Corey Wayne's 3% Man and Mark Manson's Models. They both talk about reading attraction levels on a girl. Personally I say yes, you should just go for the kiss (what's life without a little adventure). But that comes from my background of not making too many moves. I'm learning how to be more aggressive and take a fucking risk. But, what's even better is if you start to focus on her and just fish around to see if she digs you. Also don't be afraid to try old school pick up stuff…
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:09 PM
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Holy fuck
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:04 PM
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At the same time he's doing better than 80-90% of guys, the guys that aren't trying to improve on their game and who aren't approaching. Honestly the fact that he has 20+ downvotes says a lot about this sub. We should focus on the good and not fucking chastise a dude. He got a fucking number. That's a step up from being the guy who stares longingly at a girl wishing he had the balls to do it. OP will figure it out as time goes on Edit: I just read more of OP's comments... wow. Haha. I mean. What…
/r/seduction09/12/16 02:02 AM
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This is a great post! The part about accountability is huge. My manager even went so far as to making a meme about me: "Asks where the hoes at picture of me Doesn't even text old hoes back* Which is completely true!! It's like, girls want to fuck me. Girls want to date me. Even hot ones... I'm just not capitalizing on them. I'm avoiding them and then pining over the ones that are indifferent. I mean it's no coincidence that the girls I've been attracted to the most, have been taken, or unavailab…
/r/seduction08/12/16 01:36 AM
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I would like to second all of this. Specifically the friend zone piece. You gotta get resourceful and flip that "dead end" into an opportunity. At the same time though, with all this advice, please still make moves. It'll happen pretty naturally the more social you get, but make moves! And laugh it off if you get blown out. Also, TINDER. You didn't mention this, but it's a great way to get experience. The best part is, is that when going in a tinder date, you both know why you're there. You're s…
/r/seduction06/12/16 01:13 AM
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The saddest part is that I haven't watched porn in over three months, and I've jerked off maybe 5-6 times in this span.. I'm reading models by mark manson and he talks about how it can be rooted in troubles with intimacy and that really resounds with me.
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:51 AM
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Dude before I even read this I stand by my original statement. Idk how it was starting out seduction for YOU personally. But it tears down your ego. I literally am feeling hot. I'm feeling attacked. I know I'm not. I know you're helping. You're coaching and mentoring and passing on information. So again I say, this is fuckin my ego up. It's not a BAD thing my friend. But to act like everything you are saying isn't challenging belief systems that are outdated yet are in place is silly. Thanks for…
/r/seduction05/12/16 03:28 AM
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That whole affirmation thing is fucking relevant to me my man. There are things I said I wanted a year ago, and then I look down and I already have it?? I thought I was the only one who experienced that!
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:53 PM
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Ty ❤️
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:24 PM
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Uhh... I didn't really think about that!!! Like I am going to say this: She was so attracted to me that I didn't even get into that "convince the girl she should fuck you" mindset. And I guess I never tried to tiptoe around subjects. The only "big" blunder I made was when I said something along the lines of "that's fuckin retarded" and she said "hey don't say that" and then I asked if she didn't like that word and I think I apologized and then we moved on... A big problem in my past is having to…
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:23 PM
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Man this wrecked my ego. Thanks for the feedback. For the "gassing me up" part, I understand where you're coming from, and I also understand that positive encouraging wingmen are important. Listen to rsd and you'll see that julien and Owen talk about good wingmen. Honestly. That's probably the only thing I think I did right. Well and also going out and fucking talking to a girl. Even when I wrote this report I was emotionally fucked up still from the "rejection". I like the concise feedback tho …
/r/seduction04/12/16 07:41 PM
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Rather be sad with pussy than sad without. lol I'm kinda jk, but life is short so I might as well go hard in every way, even hedonistic ways. Ty for the positive comment. I know the other commenters have good intentions and one guy brought up a good point about acting like I get a lot. A mindset like that could get in the way of learning how to fucking smash it with girls. All in all I'm super stoked to be temporarily emotionally fucked by the situation!
/r/seduction21/11/16 03:52 AM
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... haha this is spot on. It fuckin sucks but I gotta get good at some point. Ty for the honesty and feedback m8
/r/seduction20/11/16 12:42 PM
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Right?? It's like after you do it yourself you start to see the truth in what they say. Even if some are super weird and culty about it
/r/seduction30/10/16 08:10 AM
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Only after the first couple drinks. Fore that I got the pimp hand sittin in the holster if she actin up
/r/seduction30/10/16 12:17 AM
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Find a way or make a way buddy. Grab life by the fucking kahunas and whisper in this lil bitch's ear "I know it's up to me mother fucker. I'm boutta fuck that pusi n get that money"
/r/seduction29/10/16 11:55 PM
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I'm very aware of this and if I go to a club with friends that are girls I pimp them out and get free drinks myself 😈
/r/seduction29/10/16 11:50 PM
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I started working out as a release from the nofap so it's not 100% working out my man. But yeah perception is key too. Also just not looking at porn... like porn will fuck you up in infinitely more ways than just jerking off will. Edit: nofap has actually had a hyooooge effect on my life. Very cascading. First came nofap, then quitting smoking, then working out, then diet, then meditation. It's weird but I think every guy has gotta give it 90 days before saying it's bs
/r/seduction29/10/16 08:27 PM
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People shit on nofap (for good reason) but until you anecdotally try it it's useless to be a naysayer. I'm naturally an amped up dude, but on nofap it goes up even more. I get a lot of energy and I just want to smash everything in my way. Like I have a lot more courage to go through my woes, rather than around them. The gym is a great example and a practice for real world problems. Weight is heavy. I lift weight. I push myself further than I have. I grow stronger. Life is the same. Girl fucks me…
/r/seduction29/10/16 07:21 PM
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Ooh there's an rsd video on this and it's absolutely true. Low risk people (which isn't even real) like guys and ugly chicks will help you warm up for the big scary dime
/r/seduction29/10/16 05:23 PM
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I become a monster in and out of the gym. I just get so fucking amped up. It's sick
/r/seduction29/10/16 05:19 PM
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Dude I was just talking to my platonic friend about something like this. She has been dating this linebacker for our states football team. The dude has a big cock, money, bitches following him... and yet she doesn't give a shit. She says she's attracted to him and I call her on her bullshit and say if she was she'd be with him. She gets flustered (hamster). I then find out that she's still very in love with her average looking average everything ex who cheated on her. Straight up man. As men we …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 03:59 AM
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I love step 2. I feel it's so beaten into some of our heads that sex is bad and we need to understand we're giving positive experiences... Not being "douches"
/r/seduction10/08/16 07:24 AM
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Dude... Hahahahaha
/r/seduction10/08/16 04:33 AM
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Malls are yuuuge when it comes to day game. Also I think that you shouldn't be afraid to find out if they're under aged or if they want to be alone? Just if you find out she's too young walk away... But who knows. She might be 17, 18 and really fun. It's pretty easy to get put off by small things like that but I got a friend that gamed a girl in front of her mom. Actually used her mom to get comfortable with her (hb9) then the mf'er # closed like it was nothin! So yeah, I suggest go for it anywa…
/r/seduction10/08/16 04:08 AM
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Love it dude! I actually can identify with you. A huge sticking point is "vibing" with people or just taking that 2-5 minute interaction and turning it into a 10-20 minute interaction. Questions are huge, I've been experimenting with questions and listening and it's become a lot better. What you could of done is said "hey I've gotta go catch up with my friends but we gotta meet up later, let me get all your numbers before I dip" and # close that way. I saw a guy post this acronym. ABC. Always Be…
/r/seduction10/08/16 01:52 AM
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Good looking loser has a week by week program to getting over AA... I say to just do it but I understand it's harder than that. Also warming up is great. Just get him talking to rando's b4 he actually talks to a girl. By the time he talks to the girl it's whatever
/r/seduction10/08/16 12:08 AM
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You know, that's actually what I did that day! I tried what Rsd Tyler and julien talk about. Kind of warming up just by chatting to non intimidating people. Next thing you know you're talking to a hb8 like whatever cause that's what it is.
/r/seduction08/08/16 06:48 PM
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Oh I thought a cougar was just when the girl was older
/r/seduction23/07/16 11:03 AM
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Well I don't care too much about the follow up/close... But it comes out of fear when I think about it!! Guess I'll read up on how to follow up. Thanks bud
/r/seduction23/07/16 09:08 AM
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