I hope you can take something from this.

Make it easy for yourself. Make it easy for her too. She doesn't want to feel like a slut, so be aggressive. Obviously, always respect a firm no... But you HAVE to learn the difference between a firm no and a "not right now". Or a firm no and a "I don't want to take responsibility for fucking you. Please take charge." Because these girls wanna fuck you, you just gotta make it easy for yourself.

I want to bring up a scenario I'm dealing with rn. Talking to a girl I met on tinder with my joke profile. We haven't talked MY over these months and just occasionally snapchat. Me: come over Thursday!! Her: can't. I'm training Me: oh, well hmu when you're free and let's make something happen Her: you're just gonna give up that easy? Me: I'm not giving up, my time is just valuable Her: so is mine Me: well, you should figure your schedule out. I really want to hang with you Her: you do? Me: yeah..? I have for awhile haha Her: well if I knew that we would have hung out by now!

We then discuss the logistics of coming up to my place (an hour and a half away) and I just get sidetracked.

I was so fucking dumbfounded though... I'm thinking to myself "wait, so... you wanted to hang out?? I thought I tried to..." as the thought trails off, I realize I never made firm action to get tf in her pants and destroy her pussy. I beat the fuck around the bush... waiting for her to try and hang with me?

Make it easy for yourself. Put your fucking nuts on the chopping block.

We didn't talk for awhile after that and I hit her up today. I Fuck with her for a bit and then I tell her she should come over next Monday cause I'm free...

Me: sooo... next Monday I'm free, you should come over :) Her: why not Thursday (This is a fat lie. I actually have some bomb pussy I'm tryna to get to come through on Thursday since I thought she was a no) Me: I'm going home to see my parents :/ Her: ;/ Me: buuut Monday? Her: that's when I workout Me: lol girl you said that about Thursday Her: I workout everyday Me: (meme with the black guy with the pursed lips) Her: lmao Me: you should come over Monday! Her: ugggg y Me: so we can actually meet? Lol we both interested in each other fool Her: I know that 😐😐😐 I'm dumb nigga Me: :o the n-word! For real though, it'd be fun. I'll take you rollerskating. Her: haha ok ❤️😘😂 fine

ATTENTION: if you are anything like me, your problem isn't being aloof enough. Your problem is actually on the opposite end of the spectrum. You're bored with girls, you're disengaged.. get in it my man!! I'm not saying every girl will fuck your brains out because of it. But they will appreciate the attention from a cool guy. Throw down those sexual advances and these girls will pick the fuck up as long as you're sincere about it and follow tf through.