I went out on a date with a girl I had a class with. We also matched on tinder but to me that doesn't mean much because I normally match with people I know. I thought she was gonna flake but she didn't. Honestly most of the night was a blur because of how well it went. I basically got physical as soon as possible. She was very compliant. She also had mad IOI's and was giggly and followed my lead.

We went bowling and there was light touching and talking there. At the alley I saw a guy I know, I had hella social proof cause this dude is fuckin cool and he was surrounded by bitches. Apparently one of them was touching my elbow and talking about my tattoos, I only know this because my date noticed.

I take her to a local college campus after a round of bowling. My manager told me about a couple of lays he had over there so I thought I'd give it a shot. It was cold so we couldn't go for a walk. Instead we chilled in my car and talked about memes and vines. At one point I literally just said "you wanna get in my back seat?" She asked why and I shrugged and said "idk" and then got up and she followed.

I will say this though, I was doing my best to read her attraction levels the whole time (thank you Coach Corey Wayne!!) so a bold move like that was actually pretty low risk.

In the back seat she starts talking about an ex that I could give a shit about. I just say her name grab her head and kiss her. Again. I'm reading her attraction levels. I was very in the moment and receptive at the time. She kissed back and we make out a bit. We start talking sex and she says she doesn't know me well enough. I tell her my full name, what I do, and my mothers nationality as a joke. A lot of people are walking by and I tell her that we're gonna find another place to make out at.

We pull into a park and we start going at it. Mind you there's these little nuances all along the way. Like when she pulls back, sometimes I would "freeze her out" and just play on my phone till her body is touching mine again. Or I would just do the classic try again later. One thing leads to another and I got her in her panties making out. This is when it all goes south.

My dick don't work.

Maybe it's the nerves of casual sex, but my dick ain't working son. Which I find so funny because I was fuckin floating the whole date up until this point.

We start talking and we wanna try it again sometime because we're both very attracted to each other.

Something to note:

She's a hardcore feminist. Like borderline feminazi (some would say she is). She likes to be dominated. I'm not surprised. I think her whole feminist approach just comes from needing the men in her life to man tf up.

What I learned:

READ. HER. ATTRACTION. GUYS. look at my last field report. It's so fucking cringey because I was all in my head. Look man. You can fuck. But you can only fuck a girl that wants to fuck you. Your time is precious and you can't waste it trying to make girls like you, when there are ones that already do. Focus on the girls that will suck the melanin off your cock and keep a door open for the ones that aren't interested right now.

If you got any questions or comments I'd love it. Thanks guys!!