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Well then you have your answer unless you're willing to work to improve your day game.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:42 PM
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Yeah dude, you're bound to be single forever. Everyone knows if you don't get with girls by college you die alone.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:25 PM
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Everyone is making wild assumptions here. Are you going to the gym and eating right? We don't know if you're skinny like a twig, average weight, or fat. That makes a huge difference. Fat people have way less luck than skinny ones. My buddy went from 350 lbs to 200 and his game shot through the roof just because he's more confident now. Same rules apply to you. Hit the gym and grow. How do you dress? If you wear shitty clothes, you won't attract anyone. You don't have to dress fancy or rock Supre…
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:14 PM
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Groups at college that usually work around a system of brotherhood. Some frats are party focused, others are there to make connections, etc. The Freemasons are a sort of fraternity. This is a similar system but in college.
/r/seduction29/03/18 02:01 PM
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Straight up.
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:59 PM
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It depends on the jurisdiction. Battery is the intent to cause a harmful or offensive touching of another. Assault is the intent to cause the imminent apprehension of harm to another. The majority of jurisdictions consider this to be battery but some jurisdictions can consider it to be aggravated assault.
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:25 AM
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I think she wasn't interested. Guy is just reading it as she was. You won't win every game you play. I don't care how good someone is at pick up, interest much be mutual. If not, it won't work. People have types. One girl called me an asshole to my face, but she was friends with my friends and they know I'm really nice. I just kept teasing her about her lack of enthusiasm because she was just so boring. But hey, it happens. Find someone else and move on.
/r/seduction09/03/18 03:08 PM
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I got that question a lot. I would usually smirk and playfully say yeah, then ask if it was working. If they said anything, I would ask "how many boys have you done this move on?" Just flip it back around on them.
/r/seduction19/11/17 11:01 PM
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I have never had an issue getting laid, but even if I go a week it's not an issue. Sometimes I'm so horny that it bugs me, but I just do something to distract myself like study and that helps alleviate the issue.
/r/seduction19/11/17 08:01 PM
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I haven't fapped in almost five years and I went from having issues getting it up to being erect constantly. It's really so amazing that I just have no desire to do it anymore. My girlfriend loves it too.
/r/seduction19/11/17 07:09 AM
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It doesn't work over a keyboard lol
/r/seduction10/11/17 04:47 PM
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Might as well wear a sign around your neck that says "thirsty".
/r/seduction20/09/17 03:23 AM
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The guy that modifies his approach to try out new techniques. Some work for me, others don't. You won't know what works until you try it. Also, what's your closing technique like? Do you use kino? Do you K close? Do you build sexual tension? How is your flirting? These are all factors to consider. Paying attention to the totality of the circumstances and modifying your techniques based on the situation is far more important than just following a cookie cutter routine and expecting results.
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:35 PM
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Seriously. My girlfriend never dated anyone her age or younger before me, but I'm her age and she loves me because I'm more mature than many people she has met. It's all in how you carry yourself emotionally.
/r/seduction10/09/17 03:30 AM
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Lmaoooo
/r/seduction08/06/17 06:51 AM
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I'm in an LTR as well and read this sub to remind myself how to seduce my girlfriend. If you don't practice your skills you will forget them.
/r/seduction18/04/17 03:20 PM
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"I'm erect." Gets them going 60% of all the time.
/r/seduction24/03/17 10:37 AM
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That is literally what I did. Started with men because it was easier to approach a strange dude. Then I did it with women, but not ones I thought were particularly attractive. Then I moved to girls I thought were attractive. By that point, I had it down to a science so one time instead of closing after asking their name, I asked her about her shirt since I knew the band. We got to talking and next thing I knew we were twenty minutes in. I asked for her number and she gave it no problem. It was k…
/r/seduction10/03/17 01:39 AM
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The distances have never been a problem for me. I live in the east end of the valley and have dated people everywhere, from Long Beach to San Pedro to K-town to Northridge. The distances are long and the traffic is overwhelming, but you just have to know what times to leave to get somewhere. Don't expect to get anywhere from 7-11 and 4-8, but if you avoid those times you'll be fine. Besides that, getting your dick wet on the first date is a hard game to play but it can be done. Start gaming in t…
/r/seduction03/03/17 09:26 AM
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Touching is the easiest and fastest way. A slight touch when she tells a joke or hand on the lower back when you're trying to hear them at a club/bar is amazing kino. You need to open the door so she can get the okay to start touching you back. You do it first and you broke the barrier, and now she won't hesitate to touch you when you do something she likes, or if the opportunity presents itself.
/r/seduction26/02/17 03:31 AM
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Literally what he meant, this guy totally missed the issue.
/r/seduction22/02/17 02:24 AM
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I need to add something about suits as I wear them everyday and have learned a ton about them. If you buy a suit, make sure the suit is made of wool. Wool does not wrinkle as easily as mixed fabrics so you can wear it more frequently and it won't look like shit, and wool airs out better while simultaneously keeping you warmer. A lot of people wear polyester suits and they just look terrible. If I go to court, I can instantly tell who is wearing a cheap mixed fabric suit no matter how nice the fa…
/r/seduction21/02/17 05:35 PM
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Let me back pedal a bit. Yes, it's a direct approach however it works better because it shows confidence and compliments them at the same time. They can still say they aren't single, but they'll be flattered and at least want to hear you out. Everyone loves being told they're beautiful. And with that approach, I'm saying I just want to know their name, my intentions are pretty apparent and the bar isn't very high. Asking if they're single is something you can do, but look at the differences. Not…
/r/seduction21/02/17 05:12 PM
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Whatever your opener is and whatever works. It takes a lot of trial and error on your part. Mine was always "I thought you were cute and just wanted to say hi." But then again, I follow rules 1 and 2.
/r/seduction21/02/17 07:20 AM
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Enter with a good opener, flirt, use kino, and go for the number after building sexual tension. Direct approaches sound desperate and a lack of game. A girl won't really just say yes, their guard is up and they're just looking for an out. It's like a homeless guy asking for money right off the bat, everyone just says "I don't have cash on me." Or how about those people that want to get you to sign a petition? But with the foot in the door technique, they can gain your interest and you're more li…
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:33 AM
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But also feel like she'd be more inclined to be down with this after sex, assuming she had a good time. That's a huge assumption, G. You are saying "well, I'm going to fuck her anyway and then I'll tell her I don't want to date her." What if she slept with you because she wanted to date you? That could be the reason why she slept with you in the first place, so you fucked up. Say something if she's expecting a relationship or is hitting you up regularly, apologize for being dumb and not saying a…
/r/seduction08/02/17 02:50 AM
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If she doesn't care, don't say anything. That's the ideal situation. She wanted some and so did you, there was a convenient opportunity, and you both got it in. No harm, no foul. You can even bring up the idea of hooking up again. Get into a situation where you get intimate and initiate kino, then bring up the idea of infrequently hooking up. If she's not down, you're no worse off than you were. If she is, you have a steady booty call and she does too. Win-win. On the other hand, if this girl th…
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:57 PM
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You should have been clear in your intentions before the fact, but since you weren't you need to set the situation straight post hoc. You might be seen as an asshole but it is what it is.
/r/seduction07/02/17 08:18 AM
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I don't drink but my friends and I roll a mean doob. Some of the best laughs I've ever had were in a room joking about some bullshit. I do love the legal jokes, however.
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:56 PM
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Dude, why don't you just PM me your questions?
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:52 PM
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and will be naturally inclined (by dint of continual academic success) to believe that she is in the right, always. That's the only part I disagree with but other than that, spot on. It's just not worth it. I think someone would have to be fucking insane to go to law school just to date. And for an added kicker, he'll statistically get dropped from school because he went for the wrong reasons and his heart wasn't in it thus letting his grades suffer.
/r/seduction06/02/17 03:20 PM
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I couldn't tell you.
/r/seduction06/02/17 07:03 AM
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Do you like writing incessantly? Do you like making rigid, structured arguments following the pattern (1) issue, (2) rule statement, (3) rule explanation, (4) analysis/application, and (5) conclusion? Do you enjoy reading cases incessantly to essentially understand new laws? Can you sacrifice your health and sanity for a sometimes toxic environment that breeds and fosters insecurities in people? Do you like being humbled? Can you score 165+ to ensure you make it to a top tier school to maximize …
/r/seduction06/02/17 05:12 AM
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Do not, I repeat, absolutely do not go to law school to find a date. It's expensive as hell and will absolutely destroy your social life. Depression and alcohol abuse is common, and stress is prevalent whether it be from school, debt, questioning your intelligence, etc. Law school is not a joke. I'm lucky I love it otherwise I would have dropped out a long time ago.
/r/seduction06/02/17 04:13 AM
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For the record, stop putting spaces before your periods and commas. One space after, no spaces before. Also, you have an issue women tend to have. If they're in a group and a bunch of people are flirting with them, they are interested in those that don't flirt with them. You want what you can't have. Two options: get over it, you're not compatible with everyone you meet, or learn to improve yourself so you attract women that aren't going to blow you on the first date if you're looking for a LTR.
/r/seduction31/01/17 06:23 PM
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Seriously. I'm 30 man, this is ridiculous. Haven't had a virginity in over a decade.
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:37 AM
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Do it sober, don't rely on alcohol. You'll need it as a crutch and your day game will suffer. I got most of my hook ups from day game.
/r/seduction21/01/17 10:54 AM
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Would you look at that, you have your own opinion. Amazing.
/r/seduction19/01/17 04:30 PM
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That is a false dichotomy as far as seduction is concerned. First of all, although some come here to better their seduction skills to get laid, some also come here to find partners. Seduction is not merely a tool to get as much ass as possible, for some it is a requirement to be able to go on dates and find someone you're willing to date or marry. Secondly, do you naively think that once you start dating, seduction stops? These skills are meant to last a lifetime. If you cease to seduce your par…
/r/seduction18/01/17 10:12 PM
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And some girls with these tendencies can also turn into a murderer. I think he is in the better situation regardless of all the what if's.
/r/seduction18/01/17 09:23 PM
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Let me tell you from experience that girls like yours are RARE. I swear this will be the one that got away. If you don't believe me, do your thing and see how shitty it is out in the world. Many girls are in fact selfish because humans tend to be selfish by nature. Would you have gone out for her to get chips based on a small comment like that? You aren't even pregnant, you were just cozy and lazy playing your game. I recently had the same feelings with my 4 year relationship, but having been si…
/r/seduction17/01/17 08:50 PM
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Learn to conversate in person and it'll show in text. Go out and talk to girls at parties, in public, at the mall, and so on. Practice as much as you can and become a natural conversationalist, and this will eventually lead to you being good at conversing over text as well. They go hand in hand. I guarantee you're boring in person too. Using kino and creating sexual tension in person involves using your hands and body language, over text it involves slowly making the topic more sexual. If you ha…
/r/seduction28/12/16 07:55 PM
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You didn't even kiss her and asked her to come back? Make out and make them want sex first. The more they invest in your interaction, the more likely they are to want it.
/r/seduction14/12/16 07:29 PM
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Uh huh. It's like making out with a girl and saying y'all hooked up. It's a stretch. Make sure you use kino as much as possible, and don't come back and say "even though I didn't make a move the date went well" because it just proves that it was never a date to begin with. If you don't make out with her by the end of the night, you wasted both your times.
/r/seduction14/12/16 12:31 AM
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It's pretty great, but on the other hand I miss being single. I post here vicariously to get that same feeling. I remember wanting a relationship when I was single and hooking up with random girls, but now I think back to having the freedom to sleep with whoever I wanted to. It's a trade off.
/r/seduction07/12/16 07:00 PM
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Awesome book, one of my favorites. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/12/16 07:57 AM
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Stop jerking off so much, it helped me massively. I couldn't cum from sex, now I can't keep my dick from getting hard. You don't have to stop completely, but you can slow it down a ton to help out.
/r/seduction05/12/16 05:11 AM
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But for some raisin
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:06 AM
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My go to line was asking if I can put a girl on my shoulders so she can film the crowd with my phone. I'd put her on and let her film the stage, then slowly turn all the way around to get the whole crowd, and then stop at the stage. As I started turning I'd rub their legs more and maybe kiss their thighs, and when I put them down they'd ask to dance. Then it just naturally led to making out. I'll be real when I say you have to be attractive for this to work or else they'll slam you with sexual a…
/r/seduction06/11/16 07:09 PM
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Go to the gym and improve your wardrobe. You already have a leg up, a lot of younger women love older men. I get way more attention from women at an older age than I did when I was younger. But definitely gym and wardrobe, and make sure you go out an practice. Come home, realize what you did wrong, and try again. Everyday you go out you should try to get at least one phone number, day or night.
/r/seduction01/11/16 09:24 PM
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Go out and keep meeting more women. I mean do this constantly. You should get a number, k-close, and f-close every single weekend. If you're juggling 10 women at a time you start to get desensitized and are less likely to get oneitis.
/r/seduction30/10/16 06:49 PM
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What troll comments?
/r/seduction17/10/16 05:38 PM
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You've taken a figurative argument and applied a literal interpretation which means you didn't understand the point of the message.
/r/seduction17/10/16 05:36 PM
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In California? Seriously?
/r/seduction12/10/16 04:26 PM
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40% of corn consumption is hardly what I'd call all our food. They're not even eating a majority. They're not close to even eating most. It's 40% of our crop that makes a fraction of what we eat. Not to mention animal protein contains the same amino acids ten fold, and healthier options lack the saturated fats of red meats. Price to protein ratio is in favor of meats.
/r/seduction07/10/16 07:59 PM
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Yet you ignore the fact entirely that the most insignificant agriculture grown in California, mainly nuts, use an absurd amount of water to grow in a state suffering from a drought while our reservoirs only are at 14% capacity. Corn aside, it's hard to maintain an argument that animals are terrible for the environment when produce and agriculture are California's number one export. Either way, no one is telling the world to eat meat. Go be vegan. Bring your snacks and enjoy your food. I don't ne…
/r/seduction07/10/16 07:36 PM
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Lmao they started a propaganda war near my house! It's hilarious. They totally forget the #1 user of water in the country is corn, that agriculture is legitimately the reason why we're having a water shortage in California, and that one almond uses 1.1 gallons of water to grow, or that one walnut uses 5 gallons to grow. Hard pass, folks. http://m.imgur.com/a/ZoKD7
/r/seduction07/10/16 04:26 PM
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Why are these numbered? It should have just been in paragraph form. Edit: The main way to being an attractive man is BELIEVING IN YOUR WORTH. Think about it, when is the last time you received a spam email offering you a Hawaiian vacation and they were like “Could you please, please take this free vacation? I would really appreciate it, it would mean the world to me.” NO, they’re like “Congratulations!! You’ve just won a vacation to Hawaii!! You’re super lucky!” YOU need to be the prize. YOU nee…
/r/seduction01/10/16 05:18 PM
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You'll find a ton of people from LA on here. I don't go on the field anymore but if you want to chat, let me know.
/r/seduction07/09/16 03:32 AM
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Do a split. Cardio should be the last thing you do, unless you do circuit training and incorporate HIIT in between sets to keep your heart rate up. Otherwise you'll use up all your energy and be burnt out on your lifts. This is a decent beginner 4 day split with cardio on off days. You should watch videos and make sure you hit the muscles by focusing on the contraction. Monday: Chest and Triceps Bench Press: 4 sets of 8-12 reps Incline Dumbbell Press: 4 sets of 8-12 reps Machine Flies: 3-4 sets …
/r/seduction04/09/16 07:24 AM
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You went out approaching once and you're discouraged? I got blown out a hundred times before I got into my flow. I approached by putting my hand over her phone and saying "get off your phone let's dance" Never do this. A person's phone is very private, and just touching their shit while they're using it can really put them in a bad mood. Everyone has their own technique. What works for me won't work for you. EDM events are great when you can read the crowd. Rather than asking someone to dance, h…
/r/seduction03/09/16 08:53 AM
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Nope. I know the feeling and it sucks, but that shit is better reserved for someone you're dating. Go drive to a club, take a picture, post it on social media, and make it look like you're doing something. Seriously, makes you look like you're doing something besides staying at home. This is a good way to fool her into thinking you're busy when you're not, and she'll wonder if you're talking to other women without doing the work on a night that you just don't have the energy. I would legit take …
/r/seduction27/08/16 07:03 AM
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Pretty much what the other guy said. Find the most popular girl, become friends, and just flirt without intention. You're not trying to close. If you get shut down a bunch you will be fucked. You don't know if you'll be successful and can't just assume you will be. Assume you will suck. But being a flirt is easy, and it drives girl's crazy when you flirt but can walk away. You just keep flirting and flirting. If girls start giving you obvious signs expecting a close, just go for it. Wait for the…
/r/seduction19/08/16 06:31 AM
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This is so creepy. Shoot the picture after she gives you her number. If some awkward schmuck on day 1 does this it could go very badly.
/r/seduction14/08/16 07:14 AM
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Done. The lip pecking to slight licking of the lips, maybe a small light bite, always works.
/r/seduction11/08/16 06:48 AM
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I'd recommend a lounge before a bar. Wear an evening suit. Looks way better than just club attire. I'm not a fan of clubs but Bungalow in Santa Monica, and Standard or Perch in Downtown are both all great. I prefer Perch, but Standard comes in a close second. Both are rooftop bars.
/r/seduction06/08/16 05:03 PM
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Move in for the kiss. Girl is rolling means the make out was literally guaranteed. Go out and try again.
/r/seduction04/08/16 07:01 AM
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lol
/r/seduction03/08/16 07:50 AM
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What field? I work in a law firm as a clerk and have a beard. So long as it's trimmed it looks good. Can't let it get wild.
/r/seduction03/08/16 07:47 AM
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Keep growing it. I'll looks like shit before it looks good.
/r/seduction03/08/16 07:46 AM
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Consciously force yourself to think in a manner that does not come naturally. If you want to act like A, force yourself to act like B. It will take time but eventually your way of thinking changes and you will start to default to B instead of A. Thank negative thoughts? Force yourself to think a positive thought as soon as you acknowledge you had a negative thought. Do this constantly. Eventually you'll just start defaulting to positive thoughts because you've forced yourself to do it constantly…
/r/seduction27/07/16 11:45 PM
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You're still underestimating that number by using the word "most," the sheer obliviousness and desperation of a lot of men is absolutely mind blowing. Get over it, she's not into you. There is a guy that very obviously hits on my girl at her work and has been doing so for almost a year. Doesn't have her number, doesn't have any conversations with her besides small talk and brief hellos, doesn't know a damn thing about her, and yet still thinks he has a chance. He just doesn't get it, and a lot o…
/r/seduction27/07/16 11:41 PM
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Or maybe you're one of the douche-bags, I dunno. Judging from you're assumption "she can have 99% of the men she wants" I'm gonna go with that guess. Good thing I came into this thread, now I don't have to take my suit to the dry cleaners anymore since there is plenty of irony right here.
/r/seduction27/07/16 11:35 PM
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It's normal. I was getting laid constantly for the first few years because I finally had access to something I never had before. I wanted to sleep with everyone: Asian, black, blonde, brunette, etc. I did just that and it was awesome. Eventually it got old and I started dating around more seriously. Same rules applied, always escalate and ways assume attraction, use kino, etc. But eventually I got to a point where I met someone and it stuck around. Enjoy being single and getting laid, and get se…
/r/seduction23/07/16 09:27 PM
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I love taller women. I've approached and dated a ton. I don't think I'm short by any means, I'm 5'9" and have never been insecure about height. That said, it's only an issue if you make it an issue. Who cares? One woman I dated that was about my height said she would never discount shorter men for their height anymore. We broke up amicably, it was just a situational sort of deal, but she absolutely adored me and after a while didn't care about height when we went out. If I'm ever single again, I…
/r/seduction16/07/16 08:32 PM
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Read the side bar. You get to having sex from proper flirting and dating techniques. Don't know what those are? Start reading and practicing.
/r/seduction14/07/16 10:54 PM
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Teasing: great idea. Negging: out dated and childish.
/r/seduction14/07/16 03:39 AM
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Exactly. (1) The first mistake people make in relationships is get complacent. By maintaining seduction techniques you can help keep romance alive in your relationship. (2) Helping other people keeps your skills sharp. If you stop doing something (math, science, computer programming), you eventually forget. By reading and helping others, you keep your skills sharp and don't forget the things you've learned. I've been in the game for almost a decade, so the skills I've learned I share with others…
/r/seduction07/07/16 03:41 AM
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Yeah, I figured as much. Sometimes your ego gets the best of you. Everyone does it, no one's a saint. It is what it is. As for people making fun, it doesn't effect me at the end of the day. It's the internet, no harm no foul. We come here to make the mistakes we don't want to make IRL.
/r/seduction06/07/16 06:35 PM
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Qualifying myself to someone to simply establish that his nonsensical "this doesn't sound very alpha" bullshit doesn't have any merit when his comment simply comes off as defensive, and yet ironically so does mine. It is what it is.
/r/seduction06/07/16 05:51 PM
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Considering she went to NYU, your stereotypes don't necessarily work out in your favor.
/r/seduction06/07/16 05:50 PM
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Considering my girlfriend is a bikini fitness model and I'm in law school while currently work in a firm, I think I'm dunking on you all day, champ. KISS - Keep It Simple Stupid. The things y'all are saying sound juvenile as fuck, you show your age with it. Just point to the table and leave it at that. You guys sound vindictive and immature. "What am I, a coat rack?" Go try saying this in a conversation with a woman older than 21 and see how it plays out for you. You sound defensive as fuck. Lol…
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:58 PM
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Woah, woah. Wife asks you to hold a bag to tie her shoes is no different than a friend that asks to hold his beer to tie his shoes. There are FEW instances it's okay. You can't be on the other end of the extreme (never) when this guy is on the opposite side (always). Toting it around is not the same as simply holding it for a second. But that's really it. Anything longer than a few seconds and I'm not down. Ultimate form of demasculinization.
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:48 PM
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No! People need to stop recommending this. Looking through a person's things is disrespectful and will make you look bad in front of other women. Never do this, ever. The point is to be a gentleman, but also be a man. I hold the door, but I also light heartedly tease women. I would never look through a woman's purse that wasn't my girlfriend, ever. Women see that shit, take note, and will remember it. How long have the amateurs in here been gaming? Sounds like a bunch of 18-year-olds trying to s…
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:44 PM
2

What is wrong with you?
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:41 PM
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These are all bad. Just say "the table is over there" and keep talking.
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:41 PM
1

Um... You quoted the definition to the noun iron, not the adjective. irony - adjective - happening in the opposite way to what is expected, and typically causing wry amusement because of this. "it was ironic that now that everybody had plenty of money for food, they couldn't obtain it because everything was rationed"
/r/seduction02/07/16 11:23 PM
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That's not irony.
/r/seduction02/07/16 09:15 PM
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I don't always have time or patience to watch videos, so here is a TL;DR: Invest more time, open up yourself (personal stories about family or trips you'll be taking, friends, childhood and upbringing), and display a genuine image.
/r/seduction01/07/16 10:12 PM
1

He's right. Inner game just comes. You get to a point where you know your value and understand that women will want you by default. If I walk into a room and just talk to people, women want to get to know me. I've been negged by other guys trying to be alpha and I roll with it. Women eat it up. I just don't have any reason to flex because I know that I'm just a valuable catch. You will get there too as you get more comfortable in your skin. Tease girls playfully, be charming, be a gentleman (hol…
/r/seduction01/07/16 08:07 AM
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I'm not saying you can't. You're not destined to 3s and 4s, but dime pieces will be an uphill battle even for the best looking and successful guys.
/r/seduction29/06/16 06:11 AM
0

I couldn't care less about that shit. I don't want kids. I know there's also a lot of child-free women who want sex, but not kids. It's pretty common these days. The idea behind biological desires is not what you want, it's what is engrained in women to look for in a mate. They will pick the guy who is best capable of providing them and their potential offspring whatever it takes to get ahead whether it be strength, finances, social dominance, good looks, etc. If you have multiple or all of thes…
/r/seduction29/06/16 06:01 AM
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Because you have zero confidence. You sound like a schmuck, man. Hit the gym. You don't love your body and you want someone else to love it? You don't have confidence. You don't have confidence and you want someone else to think you're somehow confident? You're so caught up on women that you don't try to better yourself, and then you're surprised that no women are interested in you. Go make yourself better. Have a good job? Work hard at it. Get a gym membership and train like your life depends o…
/r/seduction28/06/16 05:13 AM
2

Real talk? As an ex fat guy... If you're fat and ugly, you're going to have to be charming and funny as hell. If you're fat an attractive, you'll still have to be charming and funny. After I lost over a hundred pounds, I went from having to try really hard to meet women to not having any trouble at all.
/r/seduction27/06/16 08:57 PM
2

Because you're 17, date girls your age for many reasons: (1) no one wants to be a statutory rapist, (2) you're too immature to date women older than you since women develop faster than men, (3) you're asking when you should approach women which is something you should have been doing this entire time, or at least reading about pick-up to be able to be good at it, (4) you're asking to make an older woman your "gf" which makes me believe you have no idea what a one night stand is and why it is ben…
/r/seduction27/06/16 08:19 PM
4

The writer sounds like an incompetent idiot. Write like a damn adult if you want to be taken seriously.
/r/seduction18/06/16 07:45 AM
26

So a girl likes dick. In other news, water is wet, the sky is blue, and the sun will rise in the east tomorrow.
/r/seduction14/06/16 06:37 AM
11

Holy fuck man, kino!!! Get drunk, get close, hug... And just go for the kiss. She nibbled your fucking ear, do you want a fucking written invitation? Go for it!
/r/seduction13/06/16 06:49 AM
1

When I was single, I would dedicate Thursday, Friday, and Saturday each to a different girl. During the week I would day game. If I didn't like a girl on the weekend, I'd bail early and hit a bar and game. I have high standards and wanted a girlfriend, but it also meant I got laid regularly by girls I wasn't so interested in. My motivation was mainly to get my dick wet, but to also meet a girl I liked. I would go to the gym during the day after class and out at night. It worked. How did I have t…
/r/seduction12/06/16 10:19 AM
6

This hits the nail on the head. Every guy I've met in person that's a red piller is a guy that can get laid on a hit or miss basis. They are not "attractive" people in the sense that their personalities are garbage. They go into a room and overtly try to act alpha/dominant. They walk around and strut their stuff trying to be the coolest, negging everyone in the room while trying to assert themselves. This plan works pretty well until (1) they're matched up with a guy that is inherently confident…
/r/seduction02/06/16 07:03 AM
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You sound thirsty as fuck. You're so caught up on getting laid, you don't actually try to enjoy the moment. I bet you're the guy that immediately jumps to sexual conversations. Or you don't practice the art of conversation. It's not just about being good looking it's about being able to keep girls on their toes. The more you talk and practice, the better you get. Go out one day with no intent to get laid. Your goal should be to have a fucking solid conversation with another person that's a stran…
/r/seduction31/05/16 07:26 AM
4

Huge caveat: Depression does not come from chemicals that make you feel bad. Depression comes from a rapid reuptake of other neurotransmitters (such as serotonin, dopamine d1-d7, etc.), or from a faulty reuptake system which releases too much serotonin for instance which then leads to none being left for the brain to use, leading to a deficit in serotonin and other neurotransmitters which leads to depression. The latter is more like bipolar disorder, where a state of being manic comes from exces…
/r/seduction25/05/16 05:40 PM
2

No one will care, just leave it be. Just be courteous and build rapport with her. Honestly, over a few weeks as she gets to know you, you may have better luck. One thing law school has plenty of is thirst, both from men and women.
/r/seduction25/05/16 12:29 AM
2

lol So you insult her, essentially imply she's a slut, and then wonder why she didn't want to talk to you? Man, you are way too cocky for how attractive you claim that you are. Regardless, I don't think anyone of any attractiveness can go to a girl, call them a slut basically, and then get laid. Not unless they already had it in the bag and had amazing rapport with the person. Especially in law school. I don't know how small your school is, but gossip travels so fast around my school it's retard…
/r/seduction25/05/16 12:13 AM
13

This is basically saying change your life around. Point is that you'll be a whole new person, have other women in your life, and at that point you can make a judgment call to see if they're worth it. Once you have a lot of women giving you attention, you start to see very few individual women are actually worth falling all over yourself for. This is more for bettering one self than for getting out of the friendzone.
/r/seduction23/05/16 06:22 PM
1

I'm attractive, and I have definitely fucked a few 7s before. This is not completely true. Your example is the equivalent of comparing yourself to a rich kid that had an M4 as a first car. No shit not everyone is in the same boat, but this doesn't go for the majority of people on a subreddit to learn how to pick up women. The people who are attractive also generally don't browse these subs and give stupid advice like "be yourself" because that's all they've ever had to do.
/r/seduction22/05/16 10:16 PM
3

You're gonna fuck the fours before you can fuck the tens. No one wakes up to a Ferrari in the garage without having driven a beater before that.
/r/seduction22/05/16 04:44 PM
4

Not much you can do. Go to gay clubs. Usually these people are super insecure and very homophobic, so girls go to gay clubs to chill and get away from them. A straight guy there has his pick of the litter. If you've never tried it, you'll wonder why you never did it before. You'll get guys hitting on you, but generally just be nice and you'll be fine. Don't accept drinks from anyone, guy or girl. Roofies and gay clubs go together like cookies and cream.
/r/seduction22/05/16 08:30 AM
1

Hey man, it happens. That shit doesn't fly in the States as well, pull that shit enough around here and you'll get arrested for sexual assault. Can't stand people who don't understand social norms. Sorry to hear it. Keep doing you.
/r/seduction22/05/16 08:14 AM
1

This is literally the bane of my existence. I basically tell people to read the sidebar constantly. Bunch of nonassertive betas looking for reassurance for their faggotry, and they ask why they're not successful with women when they've done absolutely no reading, have watched no videos, have never gone into the field just to practice, then asked out one girl in the pussiest way and got rejected. Bunch of clowns with oneitis.
/r/seduction28/04/16 07:08 PM
3

I'm talking about the dynamics of conversation, not the conversational topics. You touch your friends on the shoulder or high five them, you're comfortable, you don't make the hangout any bigger of a deal than it needs to be. Women are not any more special than men, they're people. Approach a woman to be her friend with no sexual connotation involved, and suddenly it's infinitely times easier. But as soon as it's a date, it has to be complicated. It's not that big of a deal unless you make it a …
/r/seduction21/04/16 11:36 PM
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Do you have to perform when you're hanging out with friends? You're putting women on a pedestal. They're just people, and acting with them how you do everyone else far increases the likelihood that the date will go well.
/r/seduction21/04/16 09:46 PM
1

Yeah, but sounding like you're 18 shuts down a majority of women for you, namely anyone over the age of 25. If you want to sound cool, you can. But don't expect anyone that has any semblance of maturity to want to fuck you. Believe in yourself, but don't be a child and speak like you live on Instagram. Believe it or not, women respect educated people. Then again, you may be going after different girls. If this girl looks like she does keg stands on the nightly, do whatever you want. If she doesn…
/r/seduction20/04/16 06:55 AM
2

That's where you have to be a real person. Just ask them about life, have a conversation. My girl is like that, doesn't go out, so offering to go to a bar is not her thing. Fortunately, I don't drink either so here are my suggestions: Mini golf is a great one. Spend time, laugh together, and have a friendly competition. Great unique restaurants are awesome. We're going out to get doner food tonight which is something she loves but we have never eaten together. Good movies worth actually watching…
/r/seduction16/04/16 12:22 AM
2

We've all been there. I blew it with a ton of HB9s and HB10s before I met my girl, but I learned from each one and got better. I regret nothing.
/r/seduction15/04/16 07:16 PM
1

Three weeks to work? The great thing about college is that even though your graduate and get older, all the girls there stay the same age. Stick around and say you're a grad student. Bam, another five years to game. Also, seven girls in four years is not much of an accomplishment. Saw you gloating lower down the page.
/r/seduction15/04/16 05:00 AM
1

You're going to have to build on that. There is a thing I call text kino where you slowly move from mild topics up a ladder to ones relating to sex. If they don't respond well to a sex joke, don't keep going. Go back to basics and build. But don't apologize. Slowly you build and do it again. When you finally get past each threshold, eventually it turns into all sex talk and you're home free.
/r/seduction14/04/16 06:13 AM
8

You and everyone else. I'm a pretty attractive guy, but I started my life being really fat. I went from weighing almost 300 lbs to being fit, so you can imagine how low my confidence was at that point. So when I started pick up I started landing 5's and 6's before I worked my way up to the 10's. I'm talking chubby, no chance of getting a guy like me, etc. Think of pick up as lifting weights. You're not going to walk into the gym and knock out 495x10 if you've never even deadlifted 135x1 before. …
/r/seduction14/04/16 05:10 AM
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No, even at its lowest it's about 60%. In law 51% is on beyond a preponderance of the evidence. That's not most. That's a majority, yes, but it's not most. If you have 100 marbles, where 51 are red and 49 are blue, most of your marbles are not red. It's about even.
/r/seduction13/04/16 06:00 AM
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Most is a word that implies greater than 75, as it is closer to all than half.
/r/seduction13/04/16 04:06 AM
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Most is a very, very bold claim. You're essentially saying >75% of women are petty. Not true in the slightest.
/r/seduction13/04/16 12:54 AM
4

Pick up is a lot about inner game for this reason. If you have passion, it's a turn on for women. Ever wonder why girls want a man that's already in love? They want to experience the passion the guy has for the girl he's already with. Passion is a huge turn on for women. If you talk about something and how much you love it, women love that. My huge passion is cars, or more specifically my dream Porsche. It's a 98, nothing fancy, but I want it so bad. But it's not the car I want, it's the life th…
/r/seduction12/04/16 09:23 PM
2

Go on a hypertrophy routine that bodybuilders use. There are a ton online. Learn about muscles and study the art of bodybuilding. Focus on eccentric movements and proper form. Treat it like an art. I love lifting because it makes me feel healthy, confident, and I look awesome. I can take my shirt off, even when I'm feeling fat, and still be the most aesthetic looking guy in most situations. I also have a handle on nutrition and love the sport. I used to be obese and lost weight to fuck a strippe…
/r/seduction29/03/16 04:47 AM
5

Workout for yourself. Everyone starts bodybuilding for the girls and ends up staying for the men's physiques. If my girlfriend didn't lift/compete, I swear she would question me about it. Lift for yourself. Learn to love who you are. My girlfriend loved the fact that lifting is a passion of mine more than me lifting. That lust for your body lasts about 6 months to a year when you date. The lust for your passion for lifting lasts longer. That said, lift because lifting is the single greatest thin…
/r/seduction29/03/16 03:48 AM
3

Dude, STOP LOOKING FOR IT. You don't know you're doing it, but when you're looking this hard for a relationship, you're essentially creating a problem for yourself. Girls sense your thirst and it's scaring them off. Your height is an issue, but it's not always an issue. I'm 5'9" and I've dated women taller than me. The tallest was 6 feet and the second tallest was 5'9". I ended things with both on good terms, and they both said I was the reason they would not say no to short guys anymore. I love…
/r/seduction29/03/16 03:43 AM
1

Good looks, intelligence and education, drive and motivation, preferably a bikini competitor, is into cars and can drive stick. I have everything but the driving stick thing, but she can learn. If I'm ever single again after this though, her having set my standards will keep me single.
/r/seduction28/03/16 03:11 PM
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I try to tell my girlfriend that losing your virginity means nothing because it can come back if we don't have sex often enough. I'll let y'all know how it goes. Good job, OP. Enjoy your new life and fuck everything that moves for a while before you decide to settle down. Trust me on this.
/r/seduction24/03/16 04:37 PM
20

Girls hate pushovers. You did right.
/r/seduction14/03/16 08:39 PM
6

Women can sense thirst. If your only goal is to get your dick wet, you won't succeed very often.
/r/seduction09/03/16 09:05 AM
2

Has a boyfriend and is shady, or just want to make out. Girls aren't like guys, somehow they have self control when they're horny.
/r/seduction05/03/16 05:59 PM
6

Problem solving and care taking are not a big deal. Just don't try to fix problems that don't involve you. If my girl has issues at work, I'll maybe offer a suggestion, but then she's on her own. I'm not going to go down there and take care of it for her.
/r/seduction03/03/16 10:04 PM
1

Your game influences how you learn to act around people. Your game in a day-to-day situation influences how you act on dates. Your game throughout the day is a major indicator of how you will perform at night. That is when people are most vulnerable and not prepared to be on a date. They don't have a front, and the way to approach is completely different. I don't retract my statement.
/r/seduction03/03/16 08:09 AM
1

Met my girl doing day game, she's a dime, and we've been together three years. Just comes down to how confident you are. It helps that I'm attractive though, and that I'm always working to improve myself. That drive to be the best possible person I can possibly be for MYSELF is the biggest turn on for her. Use Tinder when you're bored, but 90% of your game MUST COME FROM DAY GAME.
/r/seduction02/03/16 07:26 PM
1

Go talk to other women and get a hobby. Stop revolving your life around her.
/r/seduction26/02/16 02:58 AM
2

Read the faq.
/r/seduction25/02/16 08:11 AM
10

Be outright and tell her like a man. I had told her almost immediately after the sex that I was only looking for something casual That was your first mistake, you should have told her first before having sex. You set her up. Call her, tell her she's texting more than you'd like, and that you'd like to hook up with her but not be anything serious. Just booty call stuff. If she doesn't agree, tell her it's not going to work out. Done.
/r/seduction24/02/16 05:44 AM
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English is not your first language, I take it. Anyway, it doesn't matter. Girls in the gym are hard to deal with. A lot of them have boyfriends and it's hard to kind of figure out which ones do and which ones don't. That's one hurdle. Then if they're single, you somewhat have to stand out among everyone else at the gym that hits on them. My advice? Go for long term game. If you're a nice person (read: people like being your friend, you have lots of friends that are girls, when you're in a relati…
/r/seduction15/02/16 05:08 PM
5

Force yourself to approach. My logic is I think of myself as the best catch for my girlfriend. If I left or she left me, my life would not suffer. I'd be sad in the beginning, but I know for a fact that a bunch of girls in my school would kill to be with me and that increases my confidence. Abundance mentality. I obviously don't plan to act out, but that THOUGHT is what motivates me to improve. That thought of being the ideal choice for ANY woman makes you work harder to be the best, and when yo…
/r/seduction12/02/16 10:37 PM
1

Not much. If I just met them at a bar, nothing. If we're hitting it off, I might buy them a drink. I don't drink so this is cheap for me. First few dates, max fifty bucks. This is for food and tip if we go out to eat. Not including gas or parking or whatever, since I always drive anyway. You can definitely 100% get laid without spending a dime, but you definitely won't be getting laid 100% of the time. A great date idea is a pint of vodka (buy it with them so they don't think it's spiked) and mi…
/r/seduction12/02/16 08:54 AM
1

I never cared about length, just the number. I capped at three per day in the beginning, so I'd have to choose my words more carefully. Also, I've read on here that it's better to try texting again after a few days if she doesn't respond to the first message. And if she doesn't respond to the second, just next her. That's worked so far for me but I'm open to other ideas Correct.
/r/seduction12/02/16 08:36 AM
1

He's attractive so it makes sense that he's next to a HB6 at most? That haircut is nonsense and his social value is very low. Even socially I wouldn't rate him more than an 8.
/r/seduction12/02/16 04:31 AM
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I'll be downvoted, but yeah man, that guy is average. What the hell is going on with that haircut? And if he was good looking, if he was a 9 or 10, why is he next to a 5/6? Guys that are good looking have a threshold for girls they choose to date, and that girl should (by your logic) be way below it. From my perspective, I don't think he's that attractive.
/r/seduction12/02/16 04:29 AM
2

If he can do it, no one has any excuses. Start with the fives and work your way up.
/r/seduction11/02/16 07:01 PM
9

Even though i was nervous speaking this out, she then let me continue and we had great sex. Which was the first sex i unwillingly made a girl fear suffocation btw, so be attentive guys! She even cried for some moments as she feared death as the accident happend, but got back to normal way faster than expected and we startet round two then. 🤔
/r/seduction10/02/16 04:45 PM
2

Even in this post, you're lacking self esteem. Stop it. The more you mention your loose skin to yourself, in this post, wherever, the more you bring attention to it. Good job, but get over it. Seriously, no one cares.
/r/seduction08/02/16 08:29 AM
1

Hold their hand, then move to hold her hand with both hands. Slide up her sweater a bit and touch her wrist. At some point, you can put your hand on her lower back, and move her hair behind her ear if it falls in front of it. You can touch her legs, etc. Just touching in general works effectively. Stop over thinking it.
/r/seduction08/02/16 03:52 AM
7

To add to this, pick up never stops. I'm in a long-term relationship and still "pick up" my girlfriend from time to time. When we go on dates, maybe to a bar or lounge, I put on full pick-up artist mode. I neg, I make jokes to make her laugh, increase my kino (though it's already very high), and increase my social value by talking to people around us. That confidence carries itself well, but the benefit is that I know I get to go home with the same person I care about at the end of the night. It…
/r/seduction05/02/16 07:32 AM
1

Assume attraction and escalate, but I suggest don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction05/02/16 01:52 AM
2

The biggest thing about being an introvert is realizing you don't have to spend every waking minute at the bar. My girl and I are half and half. We love going out, but only until about 12 or 1 at the latest, and we don't like doing it very often. In the beginning when we started dating, we would fake it because we both thought that's what the other wanted, but at this point we both realize that wasn't the case. Go out once every couple weeks and hoard numbers. Meet women and play the game. On th…
/r/seduction28/01/16 10:39 PM
1

I call my girl beso. It means kiss in Spanish. Neither of us are of Spanish speaking descent. Be creative. It's just a work.
/r/seduction20/01/16 04:15 PM
2

It's true. A few figure it out young, bless their hearts, but I feel like a majority realize too late.
/r/seduction11/01/16 03:04 PM
2

I have a playlist with my girl on Spotify called Music & Chill. Basically a bunch of mellow songs mixed together with poppy hits like Selena Gomez and stuff.
/r/seduction07/01/16 10:43 AM
32

Relationship game is so much harder. You actually have to face your demons and change them to grow as a person. You'll face your fears, insecurities, and trust issues. It's crazy. Most people bail or become avoidant of the issue. Both are hard in their own way, but IMO relationship game is harder.
/r/seduction06/01/16 07:52 AM
3

I did not enjoy reading this. Felt very try hard. Anyway, my gay friends have shared stories of their endeavors, and it's literally "walk up to a guy and ask if they want to hook up." Your sex life as a gay guy is a joke, you can literally ask a guy to make out and they'll say yes. You're a guy, haven't you ever just wanted to walk up to a person, cut the bullshit and just fuck? Every other gay dude is a guy as well, they're the exact same. Go download Grindr, make an account, and you'll most li…
/r/seduction03/01/16 08:48 AM
2

Flawless. I do pickup with a purpose. I never do pickup for the sake of doing pickup. I do pickup while going to work, while going to the coffee shop, or while waiting for the train. I am always doing something with my life. Even when I am doing pickup with a buddy, I am spending time hanging out with him. This changes the whole dynamic of pickup. Instead of measuring your success by how many numbers you get, you measure success by how your job went, and you got numbers as a bonus. The title con…
/r/seduction30/12/15 07:19 AM
4

Pretend to read her palms. You don't have to be right even! You can say "let me read your palms," and if you bomb you can say "I never claimed to be psychic, but you never claimed to not be gullible either." It's a great tactic. It worked for me because I can read people well, but you just need to put on a show and act all dramatic while giving seductive stares. Across from the table should be about eye contact, with some touching here and there. Go for a walk afterwards and use the kino there. …
/r/seduction25/12/15 04:54 AM
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You remember how natural that first date was? The same thing should happen with the second. Hug with a kiss on the cheek as a greeting, then pull away with a hot gaze into her eyes. I like this over a peck on the lips, it always felt more natural to me, but everyone is different. Go out to dinner together, then go for a walk to a bar. Have a drink, and you probably should get right in there. She sounds really forward with her sexuality. Kino is your key. Honestly, nothing should be different. Th…
/r/seduction25/12/15 03:49 AM
3

Lmao the guy in the Crow make up was just too much. And that girl in the beginning... Everyone needs to watch this. It's so fucking bad.
/r/seduction23/12/15 06:30 AM
9

This is exactly why we preach abundance mentality and going to the gym. Becoming busy means you're less worried because you have less free time to worry about women since you're putting your life in order.
/r/seduction23/12/15 02:01 AM
5

If you want to use game to bang and dash, that can suck but it can be done. Some girls want to no strings attached sex, and if you're honest that's not a big deal. Leading girls on for sex is actually fucked up. I used game to find my girlfriend (it took a lot of dating), and now I use it to flirt with my girlfriend so our relationship doesn't get stale. We've been dating for almost 3 years. Again, it's all in perspective.
/r/seduction21/12/15 01:24 AM
1

If you both have that feeling, you'll know. She'll make it apparent.
/r/seduction12/12/15 06:51 AM
0

This isn't relationship advice, this is seduction. IMO, no girl is worth this much drama. We're not here to get you one girl, we're here to teach you how to get women in general. That said, go talk to other women and get over your oneitis. If this were me, I would have stopped at the second time she tried to pull some shit, and even that is generous.
/r/seduction21/11/15 07:21 PM
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It's a great book for learning how to be social. Dating is different. OP needs to ask questions, but the line between being an interviewer and a date is a very fine one. You need to ask questions for sure, but also make sure you respond when the time is appropriate. Let the conversation flow fluidly. Don't think about what your next answer will be, but ask as if you're genuinely curious. If you don't care about the person you're talking to and what they're saying, no matter who it is, they're no…
/r/seduction14/11/15 05:12 PM
1

Use contextual clues.
/r/seduction08/11/15 01:31 AM
2

Date as in day, not the night out. It was scheduled for the Friday of the following week, so one week before. So in that week I hit on girls to pass the time, I didn't just sit back idly and wait for the day to arrive.
/r/seduction07/11/15 09:15 PM
1

You got it backwards. Luck is unpredictable. Game and skill is something you can train and improve. You got lucky, but the guy who lives to pick up women doesn't. They'll usually know the outcome before the end of the conversation. Congrats, but there is no such thing as luck IMO, it's either skill or no skill.
/r/seduction07/11/15 07:32 PM
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This should be at the top. If she flakes, consider it a loss and move on. A lot of people invest too much into one girl instead of using the cushion of having a date to motivate yourself to ask out other women. I just got more numbers while waiting for the date to arrive to keep me busy. I remember one time I had a date a week out and just asked out girls and flirted with others over texts. On the day of the date, and on a whim, I asked a girl for her number. We hit it off immediately and so I s…
/r/seduction07/11/15 07:26 PM
14

Parties were strictly to get laid. I have never had a successful relationship with any girl I've met at a party.
/r/seduction24/10/15 06:44 PM
5

Just go on smoke breaks with them everyday. If you don't smoke, just hang out. It'll happen naturally if you just keep chilling and aren't trying to bang them.
/r/seduction22/10/15 10:25 PM
5

Desperate ones. High value women want a man that constantly creates new goals. No one likes someone that's stagnant, always be looking to improve.
/r/seduction16/10/15 09:20 AM
1

I can pull all day in school. Everyone around me is 22-24, I'm 28. All the younger girls want me because I'm older and mature, and I don't act like a clown a majority of the time. But I'm attractive so that has a lot to do with it.
/r/seduction15/10/15 12:29 AM
2

It's also a great way to catch herpes, and herpes sucks big time.
/r/seduction25/09/15 03:18 PM
5

This is true. No matter how beautiful a girl is, there is something that makes them human.
/r/seduction24/09/15 09:13 PM
4

I'm not patronizing you. I haven't masturbated in over two years young blood. Get it straight.
/r/seduction13/09/15 04:03 PM
5

You know how I fixed that? I went out and met girls. It motivated me to pick up and I got better at it to the point where it became second nature to just be sociable around women. I don't change behaviors between men and women, I just flirt and touch a lot while being nice. Then again, I also workout religiously 5 days a week and go to law school, so I try to keep disciplined to be better than having shitty habits like jerking off and being sloth-like, and that's super attractive to girls too. I…
/r/seduction13/09/15 03:25 AM
15

Seriously. Bring some beers and herb and just chill. Get drunk and get it in. Wear a condom, herpes sucks.
/r/seduction12/09/15 10:28 PM
3

Sometimes but not always.
/r/seduction12/09/15 08:11 PM
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Besides to see my counter, I avoid the subreddit like the plague. They're crazy in there talking about super powers, Jesus, and all these other horrible rationalizations. People fail hundreds of times and just keep posting motivational posts at 1 day like they've come across some revelation only to fail again a week later. It's a horrible place. Imagine if everyone in AA just kept getting drunk and going in the next day to share their new revelation.
/r/seduction12/09/15 06:30 PM
10

That goes away. Your horniness plummets after a bit. I still get hard but I just know the only way to cum is with a girl, so I don't have a choice. If you don't have a car and really want to drive, the only way you'll be able to is by getting a car, no substitutions. Same concept.
/r/seduction12/09/15 06:28 PM
6

I'm at like 750 days now. I got to a point where I can get a blow job, stop before I cum, and not get blue balls. My level of thirst has plummeted. I see girls and I can just be okay with it. I don't have to pursue, I just am over sexiness. As a preface, I'm attractive so that might help things a bit, but I have noticed it makes girls really, really want me more now than it ever did beforehand because I just don't show interest if I don't have the required mental state. Like if I'm focused on st…
/r/seduction12/09/15 06:26 PM
1

Dude, my girlfriend has a stockpile of my sweaters. I thought I lost them all. I keep them in my trunk now, thief just keeps taxing my shit and laughs when I bring it up. Bitch, that's a crime, this is unacceptable.
/r/seduction08/09/15 06:29 AM
1

More so. We had a Bar Review event at my law school a few weeks ago which was a social gathering at a bar so people can get to know one another. Hands down the girls were way thirstier than the guys. One girl was saying how she just came to meet people and ended up middle school grinding some guy's dick off through his pants. It was crazy. If I were single I could have hooked up with any girl there. Guys need to understand that girls may be thirsty but it's not normal for them to show it because…
/r/seduction08/09/15 06:19 AM
2

So this is /r/seduction, you hit on 0 women, and you're posting about going out? Nah man. Nah. This isn't /r/casualconversation, this is a pick up sub. Work on your game, it's weak apparently if you have AA so bad you went to a 200 person party and didn't come home with 1 number.
/r/seduction06/09/15 09:01 AM
8

Stop playing video games and hit the gym. Learn to love yourself and your body. Learn what it takes to be strong on the inside by being strong on the outside. You'll stop being needy really quick.
/r/seduction30/08/15 06:02 PM
0

Stop being a bitch and talk to her. It's super easy to talk on FB but not in person where it matters. So what was so strange about this girl?
/r/seduction07/08/15 05:53 PM
2

Take her a bouquet of flowers and put like four drumsticks into it. Ask her what brand she likes, people have preferences.
/r/seduction03/08/15 02:12 AM
1

Seduction isn't a shallow deal. Seduction is the tool men use to pursue women. If my girlfriend sticks around after law school, she's more than likely going to be the girl I marry. I couldn't have gotten her without the tools of seduction. Women seduce men all the time, it's much easier for them because we're driven by this primitive urge to reproduce, whereas they're looking for a long-term mate some of the time (this is not including women that are in the "hook up" phase, however long that may…
/r/seduction31/07/15 06:44 PM
2

You need to calm down. You're thinking too much. First off, stop worrying. You're in high school, you may cringe about this shit in bed but no one will remember. I was so, so fucking cringey in high school. I used to cut myself, felt sorry for myself, I was fat, was a social outcast, I had like 4 friends and that was it. I'm 28 now and have abs, a girlfriend that's competing for a bikini competition in bodybuilding, going to law school, and am super popular among my friends. People I'm not super…
/r/seduction31/07/15 08:10 AM
1

Jesus.
/r/seduction31/07/15 07:55 AM
1

Read: there are no house parties as you know it after college. Seriously, house parties are fucking crazy in college, I've yet to experience anything as fun IRL. It's like no one is judging you there, but in the real world you can't be doing keg stands and getting belligerently drunk only to walk home hungover the next day. Also, random hook ups don't really happen at house parties as often. House party hook ups were incredible.
/r/seduction31/07/15 07:49 AM
2

Lose your friend and go out alone. That fixed every problem in your story. Good luck.
/r/seduction31/07/15 01:03 AM
14

Don't talk so much. You're not there to entertain. In a group environment it's different, I like to be loud and boisterous, but with one on one it's a ton of eye contact and smiling. Touch is really important. I try to touch their arm and hold their hand. The lower back is where I inevitably want to touch the most, but it takes time to get there. I also make sure to let them talk and I am interested in them. Some girls just suck at talking and conversation, and if they are just giving me bullshi…
/r/seduction31/07/15 12:55 AM
3

I just approach but don't number close if I'll see them often, like at school. Then we have lunch and I'll grab their number for contact reasons. From there I just talk to them, ask about their relationships, life, etc. Basically I just talk to them and be chill. I don't want to fuck them, it's almost always mutual, but on a few occasions it backfired and they've caught feelings for me, mainly because I make it very clear I have a girlfriend and that makes me seem unavailable. Girls love men in …
/r/seduction27/07/15 12:53 AM
1

You don't cold approach? Why are you here?
/r/seduction27/07/15 12:48 AM
2

No, she genuinely didn't. I don't like talking down to people, but how she got out of high school blows my mind. She was 25 with the intelligence of an 18 year old.
/r/seduction23/07/15 06:06 PM
2

The excitement is contagious one I love. I feed on the energy and it helps me be the focus in a group. One time though, I met up with my friend and his girlfriend, as well as his girlfriend's two roommates. One of them, we'll call her A, was so bad at being a human being I don't know how she dressed herself in the morning. Every joke, no matter how simple or complicated and regardless of her friends loving said joke, she didn't get. She would just stare at you with her mouth open like everything…
/r/seduction23/07/15 05:10 PM
3

Second girl sounds sleazy, no bad on your part. Good job man.
/r/seduction21/07/15 05:38 AM
1

It's a long haul. Hotter girls can get dick at the drop of a hat, literally just have to make one FB post and it can be done. Usually they're amazing to take out. I don't understand it anymore. I used to be so scared but now it's no big deal. Just go talk to them, they're not going to hit you.
/r/seduction21/07/15 05:35 AM
1

Oh, you're ridiculous and take things out of context easily. I pity you, but that's on you. Have a good one, champ.
/r/seduction15/07/15 02:20 AM
1

You're trying really hard to sound tough, and it's getting old. Judging people on the Internet is insanely pathetic. How does this help you any? Go find something to do.
/r/seduction15/07/15 01:01 AM
1

You have such big words for such a small man, one behind a computer that doesn't understand that calling someone pathetic is a fancy way of calling them a tugboat without using slang. I don't even live in Australia or use this word, but apparently you have difficulty reading so there you have it Do you get it now?
/r/seduction14/07/15 05:02 PM
1

You do know this was the other guy's opinion, right?
/r/seduction14/07/15 01:16 PM
1

You're, again, taking this way too seriously. First of all, you committed a false equivalence, nigger is a highly weighted word with hundreds of years of negative precedence attached to it, so comparing that to a word like hoe which isn't tied to slavery and persecution is completely irrelevant. You cannot compare a word like slut to a word like nigger, because we didn't tie up sluts for hundreds of years, hang them for being a certain skin color, drag them behind cars, , prevent them from livin…
/r/seduction14/07/15 07:05 AM
5

He's explaining human interaction, but he brings up some good points. Get close when communicating. Maintain eye contact. Calm down and listen, and talk slowly. Basic stuff in communication, though some things he did wrong. If I'm leaning in like that and our hands graze, just crab her hand lightly. If she reciprocates, that's a good sign. If she pulls back, she's uncomfortable. If she holds my hand, I'll pull back and listen, maybe make eye contact and not say anything, then next time I'll mayb…
/r/seduction14/07/15 06:17 AM
1

You're taking this way too seriously, it's a word. I don't care about to talk about this anymore because apparently the internet has no idea what the fuck a metaphor is, and you're like a week late. A tugboat is used to describe ANY PERSON that is a necessity but not worth looking twice at or thinking twice about. A cruise liner comes to town and everyone looks, a tugboat comes and it's ignored. That's the point of the word, it's not just in reference to women. As an Australian, do you not know …
/r/seduction14/07/15 05:01 AM
1

That's a great opinion man. Let me give you some other words to dislike that are considered slang: Thot Rachet Hoe Pimp Baller Slut Bitch Tugboat What these words all have in common is that they're slang used to describe people, and in the grand scheme of things I don't care because you use these words all the time despite not knowing it. So you don't like one slang word? Oh well, pick another one and you probably use it without even thinking. The point is it doesn't matter, and I should emphasi…
/r/seduction14/07/15 04:55 AM
0

Why? You want a friend you can live with and not sleep with? That's called a roommate, except they have to buy their own food.
/r/seduction13/07/15 11:33 PM
1

I wish I could tattoo this on the forearm of every new person I explain kino to.
/r/seduction13/07/15 04:12 AM
1

Read the sidebar, read materials, go out and practice. Come back and post field reports/questions. Lather, rinse, repeat. /thread
/r/seduction13/07/15 04:10 AM
8

Seriously. My girlfriend is "nice guy" nice. It's ridiculous. Brings me coffee at work, makes me lunch, texts me to say she loves me... I'm 28 man, I want to start a family. This shit is amazing. I get to wake up to an amazing girlfriend that genuinely loves me, and all she wanted was a bad boy that's matured up. She was that good girl, good school, never did drugs, and then there's me, the polar opposite though now I'm going to be a lawyer and the worst I do is neg her despite being a gentleman…
/r/seduction13/07/15 03:58 AM
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Nice spare accounts. I'll have a JD in three years in business litigation. As for being rich, don't worry. I'm fine.
/r/seduction11/07/15 10:45 PM
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I guess that makes sense and why you feel the need to be a condescending prick. So are you the pot or the kettle, or do you just not know what condescending means? This is called reaction formation. You have nothing of value in your life so you project your cognitions about your insecurities onto others. It's a first degree defense mechanism used by the most insecure people. In psychoanalytic theory, reaction formation(German: Reaktionsbildung) is a defensive process (defense mechanism) in which…
/r/seduction11/07/15 06:44 PM
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Enjoy it then. I live by example man, I'm not here to talk big with no follow up.
/r/seduction11/07/15 05:33 PM
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What do I do? I'm in law school. I'm also 28, have a bachelors with a major in social psychology focused on relationships and intimacy, and a minor focusing on interpersonal communication, have lost over 120 lbs, went from skinny fat to fit, have worked amazing jobs and make a great living, have a great relationship and give advice for people that need it because I was once there. I've lived a really accomplished life, I have nothing to be self conscious about. You put a physique in front of me,…
/r/seduction11/07/15 08:01 AM
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I don't know if it's the angle but a few things: Focus on training your abs, and if you already do get that mind muscle connection going. With your fat distribution you should have way more ab definition. What's going on here? Your traps and rhomboids are either disproportionately sized or those pics were taken far apart from each other. What's going on with your back workout? Routine? Squeeze your scapula when you train back. Lats should be popping too and deltoids evenly sized. Not seeing that…
/r/seduction11/07/15 07:28 AM
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Oh how fun, it doesn't work.
/r/seduction11/07/15 07:07 AM
-2

I'll do you one better, I recently posted this in /r/bodybuilding so I don't care since it's already out there. http://i.imgur.com/x3XLSso.jpg Nice try though! I used to weigh 280 lbs so you'd better be super fucking handsome if you want to talk shit. ;)
/r/seduction11/07/15 06:45 AM
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He's Australian, they live by another set of cultural rules, but it's a metaphor to think about. Everyone serves a purpose, but some are more beautiful to look at. Go for the yachts, don't settle for the dingy.
/r/seduction10/07/15 04:58 PM
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There's no shame in being cocky. Women don't want a boy that can't say what he wants, they want a man with balls. Men that are forward get laid because they go for the kiss instead of asking for it, they tell you where you're eating instead of asking, they tease when nice guys don't. We're still gentlemen, but we're not there to be walked on. How OP handled this was great. It's literally how I've acted on every date, except my angle was driving stick. Girls love bikes and stick shift cars. Hold …
/r/seduction10/07/15 05:43 AM
1

As you get older other women start liking you. I never used to get attention from cougars when it as 21, but women my age loved me. Now I get hit on by older women all the time, and rarely women my age. Fortunately I'm not single, but it's a trend I've noticed as I've gotten older.
/r/seduction07/07/15 06:38 AM
6

You make great points. In my eyes, I don't deem the word love to equate to something like a one night stand. That's infatuation, lust. How can you love someone without knowing their pros and cons? Their strengths and weaknesses? Love is subjective, but love doesn't stop when you realize that you fight battles differently, one is driven while the other isn't, etc. Just me though. To each their own.
/r/seduction06/07/15 09:57 PM
12

It's not making love, man. That sentimental shit doesn't apply to hook ups. You fucked, and that's okay. That said, great job. Remember what you saw early on: some nights you might get shut down all evening, but don't let it discourage you from going out the next week and trying again. One time I had a 3 week dry spell that turned into a 4 night streak of new girls I slept with by the end of it. I swore I forgot how to talk to women but it could have been a bunch of variables negatively affectin…
/r/seduction06/07/15 06:09 PM
2

^
/r/seduction06/07/15 06:02 AM
1

The advice in here is all over the place. Go talk to someone about their favorite hobby. Talk about something you love. How does that conversation go? Fluid because you're genuinely interested. Dates are not interviews. You want to be interesting but you need to invest yourself in the girl you're talking to. Mention her outfit. Say you like her outfit and how it matches her eye shadow. Does she so styling for a living? Mention her heels, does she have a huge shoe collection? Well, you have 1,000…
/r/seduction26/06/15 07:52 AM
3

This post doesn't help you. If you only focus on the negatives you'll never be successful. I didn't care if on the days I wasn't successful, but I gloated like hell on the days I was. Same thing goes for you.
/r/seduction25/06/15 06:38 PM
7

The problem is cookie cutter formulas are not meant for the experienced, they're meant for the amateurs. If I tell you to make a girl miss you and you have no idea about game, you have no idea what that means. However, if I give you a rule of thumb like text only once and wait an hour or so before you respond, suddenly you have to think more carefully about what you're going to say when you finally decide to say it. The same goes for fitness. Cookie cutter lifting routines exist for amateurs bec…
/r/seduction16/06/15 06:58 PM
2

💯💯💯
/r/seduction16/06/15 06:49 PM
1

Not really. Being really attractive decreases the chances of you getting hit on, girls are more intimidated usually, especially the really hot ones. The hotter they are, the more self conscious they tend to be. Really hot girls will usually put up a bigger front to seem more confident but then will have the largest insecurities. My girlfriend is gorgeous and asks once a day if she's fat yet she has abs. It's social conditioning. This guy being really hot opens up more doors to get into some bett…
/r/seduction14/06/15 05:05 AM
10

Find another girl.
/r/seduction05/06/15 12:12 AM
1

Buy her a drink if she's cool. Don't just go around buying drinks. Say you're really enjoying your conversation and are about to pull her away to get more kino in, buy her a drink. If she's unresponsive and just a worthless cause, don't. Though the general rule of thumb is not to, there are times to do it that are more effective than not. If you buy her a drink because you guys are really getting along, it increases social value. If you do it out of nowhere, it decreases social value.
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:58 AM
5

Faster return of investment IRL. If I meet a girl, I can figure out pretty quickly if she's interested in me. I love day game for that reason, girls are caught off guard and I can see their real personalities slip out. If she's not interested, I bounce. If she is, I'll try to number close for sure but work for a k-close through kino. Besides that, I did both. Setting up dates online takes about a week or so and you don't know what to expect when they arrive. They could be catfishing and be fat. …
/r/seduction03/06/15 11:14 PM
3

Are you fat? Go to the gym. Are you dressing bad? Go to /r/malefashionadvice and learn to dress better. Then read Models by Mark Manson and learn to improve yourself. Find someone confident that is good with women and let them wing for you. Then you're good from there on in.
/r/seduction02/06/15 09:16 PM
5

This makes me happy to see. Glad to see our advice going to use. Good job, but remember to not get oneitis and just keep doing it. Eventually it becomes natural until you find someone you like enough to date. Lather, rinse, and repeat.
/r/seduction31/05/15 08:38 AM
0

This sounds thirsty. You have to kiss me first before I go? You sound needy. This doesn't work with girls that are secure and don't give a fuck about how you feel without their kiss for validation. If you gamed well enough and she was receptive to it, you should be able to get the K-close without issue. If not (and it keeps happening), refocus on your technique and fix what isn't working. 2 of your 3 scenarios end in me as a reader having less respect for you, no disrespect, but it sounds like y…
/r/seduction29/05/15 07:21 PM
-1

Why are you talking to her so much? She's not your friend. You're not there to have your first date. You're there to talk, get a number, and if you can't feel a k-close or f-close, you frame them into a date and leave. That's it. You're trying to be her buddy and telling her your life story, fuck that man you'd might as well be damaged goods. That I think was the problem.
/r/seduction27/05/15 05:58 AM
2

What kind of girls are you trying to attract BOOM. Took me reading this far to see this. You're going to hate yourself in a few years when you cannot find these women, but look for signs from girls that assume sex. If they're forward about talking about sex, maybe they have slutty moments or pictures of their asses on social networks, the odds of you fucking them increase exponentially. Is she talking about her bible study group, or keeps mentioning family instead of talking about herself to you…
/r/seduction27/05/15 02:21 AM
1

Luck? More like hard work and lots of networking. I didn't just wake up one day and have a ton of networks. I met someone, one person, through my parents, and my hustle to meet more attorneys and intern is what got me job opportunities. Just because you may or may not have these opportunities doesn't mean I care if it's nepotism, a job is a job, and you complaining about merit versus luck makes you salty as a peanut. At the end of the day, no one cares.
/r/seduction26/05/15 01:19 PM
1

Do you know the saying "It's not what you know, it's who you know"? That stems from nepotism, and is how jobs are found for graduates. It's 100% a point in my favor because that's how a professional career works, not from saltiness and envy.
/r/seduction26/05/15 07:42 AM
0

My family is filled with business people and lawyers; really, I think I'll be fine.
/r/seduction25/05/15 04:12 PM
29

Seriously, who cares? My dad always tells me I'm worth more than any girl out there. It's true, I believe it to be true. So if my girl cheats, who loses? Me? I'm about to hit law school, have a cut physique, train hard and work harder. What am I honestly losing? This gives me confidence. I still love my girl but I don't think there is any guy out there that's better. And if there is someone that somehow miraculously convinces my girl to blow him, I'll just move out and start over again. Regardle…
/r/seduction25/05/15 09:07 AM
2

This. I was really successful at pick up and it worked out, my girlfriend is beautiful. However, I don't miss being single though I do miss flirting. I use push-pull, negs, and all the other random tools all the time to make sure I'm still interesting and not a pushover. I still submit useful content and read useful articles. Who knows, what if things don't work out even after 2 years? Basically, just use it on your own relationship and help others out. If you ever need them, your tools will all…
/r/seduction22/05/15 02:44 PM
3

By being direct, I do not mean vulgarly explicit, or even stating that I find her hot, cute, stunning etc. (Most guys use these buzz words to try pretend they are direct, when really, the man behind the words is confused and terrified.) Let's talk about this for a second. I think the guy writing the article knew what he was thinking but expressed it poorly. Approaching a girl and mentioning their attractiveness is not justification enough to determine the man is weak. Using nicknames like pretty…
/r/seduction20/05/15 07:16 AM
2

A well rounded person can conversate regarding any topic. What don't you know about? Go read about that. She's talking about clothes? Ask questions. Shoes? Questions. Going hiking? Questions. Guns? You know about guns? More questions. Your skills come from your questions, and that will lead you to being able to relate to her in conversation.
/r/seduction19/05/15 08:32 PM
1

No. Grow up.
/r/seduction19/05/15 02:50 AM
2

Don't know why you're being downvoted, probably by the thirsty niggas in this thread. I'm not about to deal with drama from any girl, I don't care if she's a 5 or 10, just because she's attractive. If you're willing to put up with more because a girl is hotter, you're going to get walked all over and cheated on. That means you're being submissive, willing to deal with more for less, and then she'll get bored with you and move on with her life. How OP treated this girl is what you'd expect him to…
/r/seduction19/05/15 02:49 AM
11

He sounds silly, borderline narcissistic, but there isn't enough information to conclude such a thing with certainty so whatever. Girls use a towel specifically designed for their head to keep their hair dry. My girlfriend uses one. Guess what she uses when it's dirty? Boxer briefs because they stay attached to her head, go figure. What's she going to do, tie a bag to her head like a bum? Be a good host, your making her ass shower because you want her to be clean, give her some boxer briefs. OP,…
/r/seduction19/05/15 02:43 AM
32

Seriously. At night in the club, at the bar, or anywhere for that matter when women are out they're on guard. They know they're going to get hit on, it's normative social influence, you use prior experiences to set up expectations for similar future situations. Those situations where a woman is out at a social gathering dressed attractively are ones where she is more likely to get hit on. And what do us guys do, we often talk about going out to the bar/club/whatever tonight and getting laid. So …
/r/seduction15/05/15 11:35 PM
4

What is this? This isn't tumblr.
/r/seduction14/05/15 01:45 PM
117

Gospel. A lot of guys post here like "how do I get laid tonight?" Go out and spit game. Talk to girls. That's how you get laid. There's no magic, it's not some hocus pocus nonsense. It's work and effort to improve yourself, a lot of discipline, and practice. The girls are the reward and goal, the going out and talking to girls is your practice. I don't know why people think we just go out and have this natural talent with women (for those with success under their belts). I've been asked by my fo…
/r/seduction11/05/15 03:24 PM
3

Totally, from experience. Have a place in the club in mind where you can go to, be secluded for 10-20 minutes, and not burn yourself or the girl in the process. You're not going to be able to do it on the floor. Don't get too drunk so you can finish. Find a girl and do your thing. Things should get hot and heavy, warm her up with some dirty talk beforehand. The point of this is you have to get her to want to do it before you get to your spot. That's your place to go when she's ready, not the pla…
/r/seduction11/05/15 06:20 AM
1

Good job man. Great progress.
/r/seduction09/05/15 04:09 AM
4

Lol what a clown. You're not getting laid anytime soon buddy, I suggest you read some literature first.
/r/seduction25/04/15 08:56 AM
1

Oh damn, go Bruins.
/r/seduction25/04/15 08:51 AM
3

Try some cognitive behavior therapy techniques. Go out and shake random people's hands. Then touch their shoulder, then their back. Get used to you touching them, and then slowly as they touch you back get used to that as well.
/r/seduction29/03/15 09:22 PM
4

Amateur hour all day, man. Game is 50% confidence and 50% maturity. Stop playing around and it'll work in your favor.
/r/seduction28/03/15 07:26 PM
26

Seriously. "That's not important." That's it, end of discussion. You don't have to explain yourself, or lie, or make a shitty joke, nor do you have to explain yourself. Just move on. If she pursues it any further, just drop "I can make it one more than you if you keep this going," and that's done.
/r/seduction28/03/15 06:52 PM
1

I was hangry last night. I don't care that much. I enjoy weed, I love how it helps me study, and I'll continue to smoke. You don't smoke? Cool. I don't push my values onto others, I'd respect if you did the same. 👊
/r/seduction27/03/15 07:09 PM
2

It's a concept taught in developmental psych (undergrad degree is in social psych research), it's been researched for a couple decades now. I forget the primary researcher that studied it. I want to say Baumeister but that's 100% wrong.
/r/seduction27/03/15 03:24 PM
-2

I think I did. Who gives you the right to be judgmental about my personal life choices? I'll smoke a blunt while having fifteen abortions while reading the Torah in a Catholic church. I don't know why you're pushing your shitty right-wing values onto some random dude on the internet. Get off your ass and stop telling people what to do. Arnold Schwarzenegger was a millionaire at 22, five-time Mr. Olympia by 30, actor and governor, and he still smokes pot regularly. You do me a favor, go tell Arno…
/r/seduction27/03/15 05:14 AM
0

Okay.. I graduated with a 3.4 major/3.6 non-major GPA working 30 hours a week as a manager of a store while taking 15 units a semester. In my final year, I not only wrote a 30 page thesis with a statistically tested experiment using measures I created from scratch, a thesis that was eventually presented at the Western Psychological Association conference mind you, but I also worked 20 hours a week at my legal internship in my final semester on top of all this. Let's not forget that I also weighe…
/r/seduction27/03/15 04:48 AM
1

Nope. Fifty bucks a month for wax and herb. I have an oil rig I hit before before homework, and an herbal vape for flower before class. I don't blaze often, just enough to help me focus while I study or take notes.
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:41 AM
3

Yep, got me through undergrad and will through law school too.
/r/seduction27/03/15 12:36 AM
34

That's called growing older. You grow empathy and sympathy around 18, you be become conscious of your actions, you consider the repercussions of your actions more thoroughly, etc. Best way to overcome it is to learn that it will always be there and act out anyway. Every time I smoke weed, I get anxiety for no reason. I tried quitting smoking, but that'll fuck up my grades due to stress and such. So what do I do? I consciously tell myself to ignore it and think about something else. It's still th…
/r/seduction26/03/15 07:28 PM
69

Oh man, seriously. You don't even have to talk. Acknowledge them, touch their arm, and if flirting is going great (basically if they have enough game to keep you interested), just say "let's get out of here." You won't even have to use the word sex, he'll know what you mean.
/r/seduction23/03/15 06:26 AM
4

You'd never think it, but you might have one and not even know. They're sneaky bastards.
/r/seduction21/03/15 01:59 PM
4

You're looking at this all wrong. You don't like every product you buy. You don't love every car you drive. You don't enjoy every restaurant you eat at. Some girls just aren't for you, it happens. Dates are just that, they're dates. They're meant to test the waters. I went on a hundred random dates and maybe a hand full of them were worthwhile enough to remember. I don't remember the rest of them, they were one time things that just didn't work out. The fact is that you have to toss out a hundre…
/r/seduction04/03/15 05:00 PM
1

This is so vague. We know nothing about either of you.
/r/seduction22/02/15 05:32 AM
16

Be very controlled. People are telling you to keep your legs spread, but that's really unimportant, it's amateur stuff. Men spread legs to display dominance, not seem sexy. Look at what really attractive men do, and that's make slow movements, cross their legs slowly, etc. Act a bit feminine, slow and controlled, and that kind of takes care of things. I try to sit confident by taking up my personal space with authority. It's my space, so I'm very careful to use my space as best as I can. Crossin…
/r/seduction13/02/15 04:43 AM
4

Holy shit. Dude, stop. Stop it. My girlfriend likes Channing Tatem. At no point do I try to convince her not to like him. You're being silly if you try. What I do is work on myself. I hit the gym everyday (she does too) and I train to make myself happy. As a result, my physique looks amazing. Does she still want to fuck Channing Tatem? I'm pretty attractive, I have the body.. Why not? Of fucking course she does, because it's a dream. I dream about having sex with famous people too, I think they'…
/r/seduction08/02/15 07:10 AM
1

When I say try again next week, I mean with different women, don't get caught up on this girl.
/r/seduction03/02/15 05:43 AM
6

You need to fall a bunch before you'll learn to do it right. Don't worry, this won't be the first time, but it's all practice for that perfect moment when it works out exactly as planned. Let her go. Try again next week. Learn new tips over the course of the week, and prep for the weekend when you can try again. You're either always going to have to be practicing, during the week it should be day game in case you can plug a date for the weekend, and anything that's successful during the week bre…
/r/seduction03/02/15 04:48 AM
6

You cannot open up with a demand like we're going on a date without letting her know who you are first. It seems creepy. "Hey, is this xxx? ... Sweet, I'm the guy that the shitty bartender introduced you to. ... So I've thought about it, and I've decided we're going on a date." Something like that works a lot better than your opener, it seemed too forced.
/r/seduction03/02/15 03:47 AM
3

Because it was conveyed like you're needy. "I won't be your text buddy" makes you sound like you cried yourself to sleep after she ditched you. I would have not responded, let her build up some regret, and gone about it that way. You're the one asking the question, champ. Don't like the answers? Don't play the game. You sound needy as fuck right now, you're rationalizing your answers to make yourself sound like you're right, when in reality older women don't give a fuck about that shit. You need…
/r/seduction02/02/15 05:10 PM
1

You sounded needy and desperate with the "I won't be your emotional text buddy" line. I would have just not responded.
/r/seduction02/02/15 06:13 AM
0

If your seduction techniques come off as awkward, you're doing it wrong. You need to be fluid about it. Kino should never be overtly obvious, it should be subtle. Touch them naturally through conversation, every few sentences. I usually used to move from the hand to the arm to the thighs, and at that point they're already pretty turned on, so it's easy to move to a kiss. The fact is kino always will be around. I'm in a relationship and am always using kino. It should always remain subtle. As for…
/r/seduction31/01/15 04:58 PM
2

Let me ask you something: was it really that hard? It seems so natural in hindsight, right? Some girls are harder to read, but you'll get better with practice. Look back on yourself when you started all this, and then look at the steps you've made to improve. Look at what you did wrong and what you can do better, but FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DID RIGHT. Everything was textbook, no hesitation, confidence, you probably felt anxious but that went away quick once you saw her IOIs... Good job, man.
/r/seduction26/01/15 07:16 AM
2

I know we preach moving on, but have some fucking persistence. These girls get hit on hundreds of times a day, she says she has plans, and you're like "fuck it, next hoe please." Give it a week and reschedule. Try again. I had to ask my girl out a million times before she said yes. Not really, it was like twice, but I still didn't lose my shit when she said she had plans. Don't over-think this, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction26/01/15 07:07 AM
8

I liked this, man. You're a good dude. Make sure you know who you want next time so it's not the same shit. Flirt more with the one you liked more, build some rapport, and fuck her brains out in the stairwell of the hotel before you, your friend, and the other sister meet again to go see the city.
/r/seduction26/01/15 07:02 AM
5

I'm 5'9", was 280 lbs. I dropped to 14% body fat at 165, and now I'm sitting at 180 lbs @ 14% body fat.
/r/seduction26/01/15 04:31 AM
25

Because you need to be confident when you say it. I work out. My physique is looking good after 2 years of working out and only 5 years of being skinny. It makes me feel good, I feel like a boss. It took that to make ME confident, maybe it might involve something else for you, but you need to feel sexy and masculine. For reference, my girlfriend in all other aspects is a good girl, lady in the streets, freak in the sheets type. She likes being talked to dirty, but what do you say? Objectify her …
/r/seduction26/01/15 12:33 AM
1

You're in with the tall girl. She's more forward, but odds are you'll F-close with her while shorter friend might be in it for a long term kind of deal based on initial reactions, goodbyes and so on. You can only choose one unless you fuck them both at the same time, but honestly I'd pick the one that seems more viable for your interests and go with them. One will always be a heart breaker, pick the right one for the relationship that best suits you (long term, stint, hook up, casual dating).
/r/seduction23/01/15 05:16 AM
1

That's the irony, you don't. You're just another lion at the watering hole.
/r/seduction21/01/15 06:43 AM
1

She's a DJ, she sees thots and ratchet niggas all day, and you're just another club rat. You need to elevate yourself beyond that and actually be a good guy. A DJ doesn't want some club dude because they're there every weekend.
/r/seduction19/01/15 07:10 PM
3

It's scary, man. I worried about this all the time for a while. I've been cheated on a lot, namely when I was fat, but now I'm attractive and more of an asset, so you'd think this wouldn't be a cause for concern. The problem lies with the person you're with. Are they honest? Do they go clubbing or to bars a lot? If no one is looking, will they steal? Do they pursue you at all, or have you been doing all the work? How hard was it to sleep with them, let alone to go out with them? Do they come fro…
/r/seduction19/01/15 09:06 AM
7

The read sucked. Long term relationship that are successful usually don't come from settling. But relationships are a lot like gambling. You need to know when to walk away from the table when you have an amazing girl, otherwise you throw it away for some other pussy that just wasn't worth it in the long run. When you find someone that has a solid connection with you, one that puts you before them, one that understands you and everything you're about, and you feel all these same things with her, …
/r/seduction19/01/15 07:52 AM
5

You're kidding? People can be very racist. My dad is very old school and definitely kind of racist. Racist parents usually indoctrinate racist kids if the kids aren't smart enough to pull themselves out of that sort of thing.
/r/seduction19/01/15 07:48 AM
2

Don't be that generation. You always say please and thank you. Game should never come in the way of that. Don't be immature about this, it's not a matter up for debate. If you go on a date and don't tell your waiter or bartender please or thank you, you're seriously just the biggest piece of shit. That is a common courtesy, it's not up for debate. You don't ask your partner shit like, "may I please go to the bathroom," but if you're asking for her to pass the salt, you damn well better say pleas…
/r/seduction16/01/15 08:02 PM
1

Because you're a fucking man, act like it. Men are polite, boys aren't.
/r/seduction16/01/15 05:33 AM
0

You're also suffering from bouts of narcissism, so when you can tone that down, you'll be alright.
/r/seduction15/01/15 05:11 PM
1

I have a few really close female friends, and I assure you I don't slap them on the ass. These are friends, strictly platonic, so hugging is fine, but there is a line between friends and fwb. I save that shit for my girlfriend. Some girls are cooler, but if you're slapping them on the ass, you're crossing into a territory where feelings may develop, and then that complicates things. Think of your guy friends. Do you slap them on the ass? That's how you should treat girl friends.
/r/seduction15/01/15 05:09 PM
3

Women like a gentleman. WOMEN, not girls. Be polite, never stop saying please and thank you. It's in delivery, not the words you use. I could talk about My Little fucking Pony and make my nonexistent passion for that God forsaken show sound sexy if I tried hard enough, which just goes to prove that the words you choose are unimportant, while the context of how you use those words, tone, and connotation is very important. This sounds like you picked up game three months ago, or you're line 20 yea…
/r/seduction15/01/15 04:55 PM
2

Dating doesn't imply sex. Dating implies dating. Going out and seeing what they're about. The more you approach, the easier it becomes. The easier it becomes, the more you do it. The more you do it, the more you learn what works and what doesn't. And well, from there it just becomes second nature. Dating hundreds of girls doesn't mean I'm a player or a pro, it just means I was super fucking persistent to get what I wanted: a good relationship. And if you knock on 200 doors, one is bound to answe…
/r/seduction14/01/15 05:17 PM
1

Always.
/r/seduction12/01/15 04:29 AM
33

Psychologically, we will all have residual and long lasting insecurities. You will never be 100% confident, as you will care about your weight, height, looks, clothes, etc. Insecurities are natural, but it's being able to wear your insecurities, acknowledge them, and be able to work around them that makes some people better than others. In person, I look like I'm 100% confident, yet I still suffer from insecurities much like everyone else. That's just how life goes.
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:37 PM
71

Don't we all?
/r/seduction08/01/15 05:59 PM
94

100% If you walk into a room and you see a girl looking at you, assume she's attracted. Even if she isn't, you have nothing to lose. As Wayne Gretsky Michael Scott once famously said, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take." I'm always blown away at how terrible people are with talking to women because they think they're not interested. I have friends from high school, and I'm the one that blossomed while they stayed nerdy. We're all getting to the point of success, ones in pathology, one is…
/r/seduction08/01/15 04:37 PM
5

Move strong, young tadpole.
/r/seduction07/01/15 07:35 AM
2

To piggy back on Stevo, I had some serious insecurities in life. At one point, I freaked out and ran away, stopped texting my girl, and told her to fuck off. I was the biggest piece of shit to her. But God, this girl had to have loved me from day 1. It was so obvious, and when I finally texted her she didn't know how to respond. She told me recently that she hoped I would see how perfect we are for each other, and she was right. But we talked. We got along again, we hung out, which turned into s…
/r/seduction07/01/15 07:31 AM
4

This guy gets it. When the ice melts, the shit shows. I really like that.
/r/seduction07/01/15 07:26 AM
8

Oh man, that I don't miss at all. I found a bunch of cheap date ideas and stuck to them. Picnics were great, mini golf worked well, billiards were amazing for establishing kino, I once taught a girl to play guitar, etc. Be creative. You don't have to spend $50 to get to know someone, sometimes you can do it for free. I bought sidewalk chalk once, went to a park with my date, and we just colored for a few hours. That was a great day. Mind you that I didn't get with these girls to fuck them, I was…
/r/seduction07/01/15 07:24 AM
11

If you're hungry, you're going to find a way to eat. I dated 2-3 girls a week, some I dated more often than others. If they were mediocre in personality, I'd put them on the back burner and set the next date with them maybe 2 or 3 weeks after the first. If I liked them, I'd set up our next date more immediately. After the first couple dates, I'd text a bit more frequently, ask them how their day is going, flirt a little, and disappear. This increased want, but I still seemed busy. It was hard, b…
/r/seduction07/01/15 02:26 AM
14

Yes. Imagine you're a lumberjack trying to cut down trees for the winter. Would you rather cut down one tree at a time and make sure it's perfect, or have 10 trees a day and can sort out which ones aren't usable at the end of the day? Sure, you may get 4 or 5 bad ones, but even if you have 5 bad ones, you still have 5 good trees you can use. Branch out as much as possible. It avoids oneitis and increases your odds of success.
/r/seduction07/01/15 12:38 AM
12

Go get some game. Cheating, the word in and of itself, implies ill intent. That is by definition bad. You're so thirsty you're only after girls with boyfriends? Amateur hour all day. And I have no idea what the rest of what you said means. If you want to spit game, go spit it, it doesn't affect me at all, but I'm not here to beat your pussy up because you're not getting fucked on your own time.
/r/seduction07/01/15 12:04 AM
32

Dated. No misspellings. Without exclusivity, I'd date 3-4 girls at a time no problem. I was looking for a girlfriend, and just like shopping for car parts, I look for the best deal by checking out all my options. I just know how to talk to girls, and used every avenue available to me. Okc, pof, bars, day game, night game, customers at work, etc. If you're talking to women constantly, you can constantly find dates.
/r/seduction06/01/15 11:56 PM
2

They're just people, man. It's hard, but you have to make it a conscious effort not to get hooked. Text game is easier without oneitis. When I was single, I would text a bunch of girls at once, maybe just 10 at a time, and set up dates in order of which ones I liked most. Over time, I liked some more than others, but when I noticed that I would give those girls less attention to prevent such a feeling. It's hard, but it takes practice and training. We all get it, but getting over it is what diff…
/r/seduction06/01/15 11:33 PM
85

What the other guy said. She has a boyfriend, what do you want from her? Not every girl is a cheater, some just are good people. Go approach 20 others and see what happens. Just remember that if a girl leaves a guy for you, she'll leave you for another guy.
/r/seduction06/01/15 08:46 PM
60

Because it's about compatibility. Sometimes, some girls just aren't compatible with you. I dated a ton of girls before settling with my girlfriend. We have great chemistry, it's amazing, and I've never had chemistry with anyone else like this before. Everyone says that as a couple, we're made for each other. Our relationship is the one that makes certain couples despise their own, that sort of thing. But fuck, I dated hundreds of girls before I met my girlfriend. You name the culture, religion, …
/r/seduction06/01/15 08:39 PM
1

Not always. It's hit or miss. Some girls just go to bars to drink, and others go to get laid. Assuming that all girls go to bars to hook up means you're committing the exclusivity fallacy. Some girls just don't want to hear it.
/r/seduction06/01/15 08:32 PM
2

No. It's more about the availability heuristic. When things seem to be unavailable, like gaining admission to a club, people are more intrigued and want to go as a result. If a club has no line whatsoever, it doesn't seem to be as appealing and people are less likely to want to go.
/r/seduction05/01/15 08:31 AM
2

Go again. Do your thing. Be confident. Try again. Failure is just repetition in action.
/r/seduction02/01/15 08:45 PM
3

It's always confused me, thank you.
/r/seduction01/01/15 11:18 PM
7

Don't get oneitis. This was the first date, y'all aren't exclusive yet. The battle isn't over. Keep your options open, keep asking people out, and keep being social. Your life will be so much easier if you focus on others not on a single person. Your heart will thank me.
/r/seduction01/01/15 10:13 PM
36

No circle jerking here, let's get to brass tax. What could you have done better? Why didn't you number close? Just because you're alone doesn't mean you don't have a phone. When two girls are on you like that, flirt more with the one that isn't feeling you. Make the one that does like you jealous by initiating game with the sober friend. If they tell you to wait, don't wait. You did good. But you get their number before they leave and text them, so if they want to find you they can text you. Two…
/r/seduction01/01/15 06:58 PM
5

Kudos bro, really proud to read this on here.
/r/seduction27/12/14 09:30 PM
2

Start a conversation and ask her out for drinks. Then find a way to game your face between her legs.
/r/seduction27/12/14 07:17 PM
2

Astronauts aren't midgets, the height maximum is 5'9".
/r/seduction23/12/14 07:35 PM
49

Say you're a F1 driver. They tend to be shorter, and very light to limit weight on the car. These cars move over 200 mph and take turns at G-forces that can break necks. You're built to move fast and fit into tight places.
/r/seduction23/12/14 01:57 AM
5

An average of 25%, not a guaranteed 25%. My grandpa lived to be 89 and smoked a pack a day for 60 years.
/r/seduction21/12/14 02:51 AM
0

This is retarded. I want to see you check off "hit on girl" while at a bar or club. In front of her.
/r/seduction18/12/14 05:28 PM
2

He sounds like a dick. Bounce and find someone better IMO.
/r/seduction18/12/14 02:08 AM
2

Yeah. Last night or whenever this was written.
/r/seduction18/12/14 01:43 AM
1

A screwdriver is a tool, your hands are an asset. Can't use tools without the assets.
/r/seduction17/12/14 08:04 PM
53

This is what's up. This is more, I think, when you stop playing the game. This just becomes something I do, because I know my girlfriend really gets annoyed when she wants to kiss me and I hesitate or pull away. I do it in crowds too, because if there are other girls around, she then just grabs my face and goes for it. Anyway, this should be understood as an asset, not a tool. This is a staple of maturity from game. Today, my girlfriend asked if I would text her later, when obviously I would, an…
/r/seduction17/12/14 05:12 AM
3

That lifestyle is not self sustaining, though. What are his long term goals? To keep getting pussy? His relationships won't last, his friendships are nonexistent after he shits all over his friends, etc. What's the saying? You see all the people you've stepped over when you fall down from the top? Something once that. I know guys that pull girls like their life depends on it. The difference is that having a mild level of narcissism, or basically just loving yourself and being comfortable with wh…
/r/seduction13/12/14 09:21 AM
0

Seriously, OP sounds like a scrub.
/r/seduction12/12/14 12:19 AM
14

Sit next to her. Booth > bar > table. Whatever privacy you lose at the bar, you more than make up for in terms of physical proximity and intimacy. Do not sit across from her. How are you going to hold each other's hand or play with each other's hair or massage each other or play fucking patty cake or do anything fun and intimate if you're sitting miles away? How to not get laid 101. First of all, how clingy are you where you have to sit next to the girl to initiate touch? Do you regularly ignore…
/r/seduction12/12/14 12:17 AM
1

Resorting to the straw man and ad hominem rather than actually contributing to the conversation doesn't make you right or better than someone. Just some advice. If you honestly think I'm wrong, actually say something instead of claiming I'm wrong, claiming you have experience, and then jetting. You sound more insecure than anything, more than likely from lack of experience, but that's not impossible to solve. Just me though.
/r/seduction10/12/14 06:11 PM
1

None of that was typed with malice, but you interpret text in the way which best suits you. If you were offended, that's fine, but that was not my intention.
/r/seduction09/12/14 09:35 PM
5

First of all, I'm not trying to bang my platonic girlfriends. I have a relationship, she's a HB10 all day, so I'm coming from a bit of experience. That said, I can objectively look at my relationships with them, and we talk about sex whenever they want guy advice or I want to ask something for my own relationship (like gift advice), so we're very comfortable with one another. I ask them the questions you cannot otherwise ask random beautiful women, plus we're blazing between studies, so it's oth…
/r/seduction09/12/14 07:34 PM
1

You should have one really good girlfriend that's hot that you will never sleep with. This will be the single greatest investment you can make for yourself.
/r/seduction09/12/14 06:02 PM
6

Not every girl is going out and getting fucked 24/7, this is delusional thinking. Some girls, and I know this is hard to believe, aren't just getting plowed left and right. I have plenty of girlfriends, all gorgeous, and they're platonic friends that I absolutely love and trust entirely, and yeah they get hit on a lot, but they are honest when they tell me that they spend most days at home in raggedy clothing doing work or homework. They're not out getting slammed like it's their job, sometimes …
/r/seduction09/12/14 11:04 AM
29

If he's trying to date her, sometimes it's better to wait. Make them thirsty for it rather than seeming thirsty yourself.
/r/seduction08/12/14 10:03 PM
6

Seriously. At the very least if she is taken, she'll tell you she has a boyfriend and that'll be the end of it. Otherwise if she doesn't have a boyfriend, you're already coming out ahead compared to most guys who wouldn't even try.
/r/seduction30/11/14 07:37 PM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gjqim/the_definitive_seddit_inner_game_collection/
/r/seduction28/11/14 10:28 PM
17

Alright. Your first problem was asking a girl to be your girlfriend without having dated her solo yet. She doesn't know anything about you, how can you reasonably expect her to be your girlfriend? Pick up isn't an overnight thing. You're young, so start practicing now. You're also in high school so testosterone is flowing through your veins like candy. My advice if I were smart enough to have started in high school? Start going to the gym. Five days a week, start lifting weights. You can do some…
/r/seduction28/11/14 09:55 PM
1

He came on too strong IMO, on the border of desperate, but he was confident to approach everyone. The best warm up for a set is just talking to women. After you get rejected or approved a couple of times, it starts to get easier. Just don't go bouncing around and make sure you know boundaries when you see them.
/r/seduction28/11/14 10:37 AM
1

Stop finding ratchet bitches in clubs, bars, and parties, and look elsewhere. C'mon man, do I have to spell it out?
/r/seduction26/11/14 11:46 PM
3

You show me your friends, and I'll show you your future. Quality of girls is dependent on where you pick up, bar/party girls will always act that way. My girlfriend was a customer of mine and is just all around a good girl. Love her to death.
/r/seduction26/11/14 09:45 PM
2

I met my girlfriend at work, she was my customer. Best decision I've ever made. I went out with a lot of customers, and if it goes sour they just stop showing up. Not such a big deal. Honestly, I would it again. My best relationship came from the most random meeting. Don't trip, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction24/11/14 04:11 AM
1

Seriously. Sometimes you're in it for the long haul. Ride it out, and talk to other girls in the meantime.
/r/seduction22/11/14 06:59 PM
1

If you've built rapport with the person and you have a comfortable relationship, you can text them more often. In the beginning, I barely texted my girlfriend, gave myself three texts tops. After we had been dating and decided to make it exclusive, I started to text her more frequently. Now obviously we text all the time, but we've been dating for over a year. Case by case basis based on your level of seriousness with them. After you establish ground rules for your relationship, change your habi…
/r/seduction17/11/14 07:27 AM
1

Not on my clutch. Ugh.. So much money in repairs.
/r/seduction13/11/14 06:29 AM
6

Yep. You have to read situations to know how to properly react.
/r/seduction10/11/14 09:28 PM
2

First night closes and threesome's are not an average occurrence. They've occurred, but rarely. Most girls don't want to get murdered, so there has to be some level of comfort before they go home with you, or take you to their place
/r/seduction10/11/14 09:24 PM
2

Date someone worse off than you so you don't have to fix your deficits. Seemingly that's the motto with pick up.
/r/seduction10/11/14 07:41 PM
1

Not all girls are like that. Stay unique man, don't change. If you do change, that's where the problems start.
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:25 PM
2

It sounds like a one night thing. If she was down for anything but, she would have made it clear. Honestly, I would just text her and ask her out for drinks. If you want to try gaming her, you can, but I feel like this will only evolve into more sex. I wouldn't pursue it for longevity.
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:22 PM
1

Pretty sure that's what landed me my hb10 girlfriend over a year ago, it works if executed well. Everyone has their own tricks, and generally being an approachable guy works, but I always liked being interesting. Palm reading, magic tricks, reading minds.. Fun stuff that's just bullshit but entertains, and then when we go on a date I can just be myself. Worked fine for me, it's just depends on your character and delivery. This was just my suggestion.
/r/seduction02/11/14 08:24 PM
-3

Ride that rush. Don't worry about technique too much right now, it's like studying for the LSAT. Get your approach down, and then work on content. During the week, practice basic tricks like magic or something, then go to the club and tell girls you've been practicing and want to show them some tricks. Do some basic tricks, and then say you have a really hard trick to do, and ask if they are down to help you practice. Then take out a deck of cards or a piece of paper and have them write their na…
/r/seduction02/11/14 04:23 AM
2

So what, bro? Because you're trying other people will judge? What if you're picking your nose in the car abs someone sees? Fuck it. Honestly, the fact if the matter is that everyone is doing the same thing, many you may see and many you won't. I'm at a convention for work right now and have seen many people pull game and many people not, but they're doing it which is all that matters. Like, what happens if someone judges you? Think about this: you remember all those cringe moments that you commi…
/r/seduction01/11/14 11:37 PM
9

...So why do they have to be Hispanic? /s
/r/MensRights04/10/14 12:54 AM
2

Don't need it, but thanks.
/r/seduction04/12/13 09:24 AM
0

Yes, because every IRB in the country doesn't allow research regarding penises, right? You do know that the IRB at IRB at my school totally cleared my research, but in case you didn't now you do. I just ran my pilot data, so I'm not even the least bit worried. In fact, my adviser has been loving my research thus far, so I'm honestly not the least bit concerned. Human sexuality psychology is a great field, and I can go in wanting to study dicks and all things erection if I want to, just as long a…
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:37 AM
1

Okay, bro. Cultural slang is still a thing.
/r/seduction01/12/13 09:53 AM
1

C'mon, bro! We still totally blog! Here, check out my Xanga!
/r/seduction30/11/13 11:15 AM
1

I.. I really don't want to. It's a great idea, and there are definitely other girls I'm mad into of which this is a genius idea, but this one's literally just not for me. She's cool, just not my type.
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:53 AM
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This sounds ridiculous. A man? Why the hell would I brush the back of my fingers on this girl? Back of my palm on her shoulder? Do you know what hands look like? And that's a jank opener. "Hey, you enjoying this crazy club?" Like, what's her natural response going to be? Nah, bro. Nah. I'm 26, I've been doing this for a bit, but this would never work in the real world. You'd look like a fool, or a molester.
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:48 AM
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If there is a girl in the group you're digging, go put your arm around her and say, "hey man, not tonight. I'm spoken for. You have my number though," and give him a wink. You played it off cool, got some deep kino in there, and your homie gets the picture.
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:46 AM
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I would have stuck my tongue down her throat while dancing. It's so easy. This is my power move for clubs/bars. I don't use it much anymore, but it's perfect (1/1 success rate with drunk girls that are giving pretty obvious signs). I powerlift too, but I'm 5'9". So yeah, you should get this going for you since you're taller than me. My favorite move while dancing is have them grind on you traditionally, ass to your crotch. Grab their hand, and do a spin. Make them do a full spin and a half so th…
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:38 AM
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...This may be a long shot, but do you watch porn/masturbate a lot? No joke, stop for a bit. Like, 60 days. You can have sex, just don't watch porn or touch yourself. It'll go away. I'm seriously not kidding, it'll change your life.
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:32 AM
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I kind of just started going crazy with my texts to her, testing the waters with what can fly and not with girls in texts. I mean, this was our convo today. She was in a bad mood last night, apparently, but I was already tired of texting her. Me: How's your mood? You're not gonna stab me today, are you? Her: I'm uploading selfies. Can't be cranky when I look so good. Me: Cute. Send me a sample. :P Gimme a sneak preview. What kind of trouble are you getting into today? Her: I dunnoooo maybe bar w…
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:29 AM
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Hahaha, nah man. I just didn't know how far to go. Like, fuck every girl? I don't know if people are just fucking everything with a heartbeat these days, I'm not "hip" in the ways of seduction. It's been a couple years.
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:10 AM
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Sounds good. Thanks, bros.
/r/seduction30/11/13 04:42 AM
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Getting rejected comes with the game, you don't luck out 100% of the time. I use the OKC method. Message as many girls as you can, and out of the 10 you message, 5 might respond. Of those 5, 3 might go out with you. From those 3, you might fuck 1. Either way, the same thing goes in a club or party. The easiest thing to do is just talk to people, not just groups of girls but groups of guys too. Be that non-intimidating guy. My technique is a bit weird. I'll usually go make small conversation with…
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:58 AM
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I did that with my ex. She broke up with me immediately afterwards. No biggie imo, I moved on. Texted her later to see how she was doing, and she ended up losing a ton of weight. I likewise started lifting again, and we were both horny, so we went at it. I've been hooking up with her steadily ever since. It literally just happens, but I don't look for it.
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:50 AM
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No masturbation mostly. I was watching porn sometimes, but not fapping. It was the visual stimulation that was causing a neurochemical response in my brain. Basically, I was getting high from watching porn. So the real benefits come from not watching porn, not masturbating, and not thinking about porn. That's the trifecta. Do all three and it works. Really, my dick started going to normal after 60 days, and I was having sex by day 30 (with my ex). Besides that, it's been amazing. Seriously, chec…
/r/seduction29/11/13 06:36 AM
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I know, but dicks get attention. Our society loves dicks. We put emphasis on dicks everywhere we can. Viagra is super easy to get. Super fucking easy. Doctors practically give that shit away in their lobbies. But vaginas no one really wants to talk about. I don't know why, they're beautiful, but fuck vaginas. They bleed. Ew. But dicks? "My dick won't work!" "Quick, make a drug!" "Fixed my dick!" And then, next thing you know, everyone is making dick drugs. So imagine a society that literally ent…
/r/seduction29/11/13 06:01 AM
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Um, let me explain. I'm hypothesizing that masturbating may correlate with decreased levels of social intimacy, whether it be sex or emotional intimacy. The thing is that excessive masturbating leads to erectile dysfunction (psychological, not physical, so Viagra won't help) in young adults, can lead to inability to climax without intense pressure on the head of the penis, and even this will tend to go away over time as your penis becomes desensitized to the pressure, etc. As a result, people be…
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:50 AM
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Um, yes and no. If it's a good idea and they have the time, they can steal it and run the research. If they're already pretty busy, I doubt they'll give a fuck enough until they're done. Be careful who you trust. Research is a dirty ass field.
/r/seduction29/11/13 04:25 AM
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Self-report, basically. Once this is all put together and submitted to the WPA conference, I can start putting everything up. Until then, I have no proof I wrote it first so it's basically like being "pre-copyright."
/r/seduction29/11/13 04:02 AM
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Fuck the haters, if I don't research it, apparently no one will. That guy that claimed that he couldn't find any male participants that didn't masturbate in that TedX talk? Yeah, full of shit, nothing was ever published.
/r/seduction29/11/13 04:00 AM
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My field is a bit different in areas I do not agree with for example we do more with single subject design. I may just compile theories and apply them to my texting and show everyone the results. Simple manipulations will hopefully increase the value of ourselves. So, like case studies basically? I wouldn't necessarily go with that if you're going to post it on here, you'll basically have no external validity because your N will be so small. It'll basically be impossible to apply to the broader …
/r/seduction29/11/13 01:00 AM
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Same here, I think I'm on like 90+ days right now. That's what made me want to do the research. I stopped in August, did easy mode (fucked my ex girlfriend a lot to get over the urge), but just recently stopped with sexual thoughts. That was what put me back into my "pussy get" mode. I quit the game because I thought I was better than it, and after 6 missed opportunities without even so much as setting up a date this semester, I said fuck it and came back. Now, in the last TWO DAYS, I got 6 phon…
/r/seduction29/11/13 12:54 AM
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It will be done in the spring time, but yeah, I will cross-post it everywhere if I find significance.
/r/seduction28/11/13 07:59 PM
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I mean, it takes a lot of work. Ugly is subjective. Confidence turns women on more than looks. I was definitely an ugly guy, but I committed to changing my life, work out regularly, and now I'm handsome. Physically, I may look great, but emotionally I definitely look a million times better. But it wasn't easy, and it still isn't. I lift weights four times a week religiously. That's my temple, my church. I actually have to go tomorrow morning on Thanksgiving because that's the kind of dedication …
/r/seduction28/11/13 10:15 AM
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I'm actually writing my senior thesis on masturbation, social networking, and their participation in the decline of social intimacy. Good luck, bro. I'm fucking hating my life writing this thing. If I can give you some tips... It took me a bunch of pilot studies before I had any sort of reliability and face validity in my questions. There is a lot that goes into making a survey, small things like not being able to ask questions about age or gender in the beginning of a survey as it kicks in thou…
/r/seduction28/11/13 09:36 AM
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Everything falls into a normalcy curve, and as such it'd be reckless to say say that all men 23+ have developed a sense of independence to not get attached to the lucky girl that takes his virginity. You're talking about the outliers, the 2.5%. We're igorning the remaining 95%. And the remaining 95% don't have game. Look at the population of Seddit when compared to the Reddit population at large, and that will give you an idea of how few people have reached this point. Your validity and reliabil…
/r/seduction28/11/13 07:59 AM
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Food is fucking delicious don't be such a priss about calorie intake, just work out and burn it off. Yeah, uh, it's not that simple, duder. Fundamental attribution error: you're overvaluing personality based explanations for an observed behavior while undervaluing situational explanations for those behaviors. Also, it's not as simple as "just go workout and burn it off." Source: I used to be fat. Good stuff nonetheless. I won't wear undershirts, however. Edit: The last one. Fucking OP.
/r/seduction28/11/12 07:38 AM
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Bravo, sir. Listen to this man. Everything he has written up is entirely true, and as someone who has experienced both ends of the spectrum (socially awkward to socially awesome), I can surely say that his advice rings especially true. My girlfriend and I, we have a great relationship. I tease her all the time. All the time. But I never mean it, and I try my hardest to go above and beyond her expectations in a boyfriend. Being boring doesn't cut it. I taught her how to drive stick, took her cany…
/r/seduction11/04/12 10:26 AM
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