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So you are only okay if your partner had sex with consenting adults in the past? And sex with consenting non-adults is not OK? Even if it was legal? I'm trying to poke a hole in the hypocrisy of people who claim the past doesn't matter. To me, the past matters. I would consider the sexual past of my partner before marrying.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 02:59 PM
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Can you outline the non-rp moral logic that makes it bad if your partner previously had sex? Most people wouldn't marry someone who previously had sex with animals, minors, or sex workers. It has nothing to do with TRP. And I don't know what exactly it has to do - probably a social stigma that remains in societies in North America, Europe, and probably some other places. I'd likely have to dig a lot to find peer-reviewed studies confirming my thesis. The point is that for many people, and I don'…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 02:07 PM
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RP has you tricked into thinking a partner having had sex in the past means anything bad for today. Would you marry a man who had sex with a prostitute? I love asking this question to people who claim that the past doesn't matter.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 11:40 AM
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I didn't even know that sub existed. And it gets even better, /u/IllimitableMan is one of the moderators. They probably study how to become like Yevgeny Prigozhin. edit: of course.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 10:32 AM
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I never followed any of the Red Pill "leaders." Red Pill influencers/coaches are a relatively recent phenomenon. Early Red Pill teachings came from books (48 Laws of Power, The Manipulated Man), blogs (Chateau Heartiste, Illimitable Man), forums, and The Red Pill subreddit started in 2012. Many things changed over time. Smartphones became widespread, so people started watching youtube more frequently instead of reading. Red Pill influencers took advantage of the algorithmic promotion, and that's…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 06:37 PM
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You're entirely correct. One woman is more than enough. Too bad many realize when it's too late.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 06:50 PM
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That's how things used to work for most of the civilization. Every town had a brothel and the number of men visiting them was huge. Many of those women were divorced and had no other way to survive. Look up the WW2 anti-prostitution propaganda posters, most of them have something do to with catching STDs and then unknowingly transmitting them to wives back home, which could also affect their future children.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 08:46 PM
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Are you still like that or have you grown out of all that? I ditched TRP in 2018. It was wild how much I got accused of things I didn't do or intentions I did not have though Well, that wasn't me while I was into TRP. I would play cool if I were with a woman I had no intention of dating for a long time, let alone marrying. Getting into arguments was counter-productive. I also didn't care what would happen to them afterward. "It's just your turn," as Red Pillers would say.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 10:57 AM
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I was into Machiavelism and the whole "the end determines the means" type of thing. I only cared only whether or not I could end up legally in trouble, nothing else.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 10:30 AM
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Red Pillers teach you that you need to be a magician who's pulling rabbits out of a hat all of the time. I think that's the case for cold approaching and online dating, you really need to stand out because the competition is fierce. However, you don't need to put that much effort if you want to go out with a woman that already knows you.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 09:28 AM
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I'll be honest, that's something that made me terribly insecure when I was younger. I couldn't imagine marrying a woman that other men used as a "cum dumpster." And that was even years before I got into the Red Pill. I even ended up leaving my first girlfriend because I thought she had double-digit sexual partners, even though I had absolutely no evidence. I was honest to her that I had no sexual partners. However, that's another interest thing to discuss. Do partners need to be completely hones…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 09:19 AM
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Keep your frame!
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 09:15 PM
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Yay I'm almost 30 oh wait the banking system is collapsing and there's a WW3 oh well fml.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 04:26 PM
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Many marriages are held artificially because separating them has become too inconvenient. Many families own only one car, finding an affordable apartment to rent is difficult, mortgages are expensive, and home prices and insanely high. If they also have kids, then the situation is even more complicated.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 05:18 PM
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PUA can work, but it depends on many factors - location, season, ethnicity, age, etc. I used to do it when I lived in a touristy town, and it was fun. When women are outside of their comfort zone, they are more okay with meeting and chatting with strangers. I mean, many of them travel intending to meet strangers. You also have the advantage of knowing the place when you're a local. PUAs and their students go to a big city in Eastern Europe and hit on random local women who are going or coming ba…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 04:13 PM
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The founder of /r/TheRedPill is an atheist as well.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 03:34 PM
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The only god they can worship is themselves. Besides Andrew Tate.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 03:33 PM
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Ask yourself… do you want a woman who has an 8th grade education? Do you want a woman who makes no money at all? Do you want a woman who hasn’t addressed her mental health issues? Why not? If she's a good and honest person, that's all that really matters after all. Education is a lifelong process, and informal education is more important now. Mental health issues can be addressed. As far as making money, it would depend on the reason why she isn't making any. If she's willing to work, I could as…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/23 03:30 PM
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Several years ago, no one knew what Red Pill was. Guys like Andrew Tate and other fraudsters boosted by the algorithm made TRP more mainstream. But back in the early days of TRP, most authors wanted to hide their identity because they feared losing their regular jobs since being a full-time Red Piller couldn't pay their bills.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 06:49 PM
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Over time, I've become more risk-averse and started to prefer a "sure thing." My job keeps a roof above my head, and I don't want to jeopardize it by moving out into the unknown. When I was younger and felt I had nothing to lose and everything to gain, I had the motivation to go to different places and try different things since I always had my parents to help me get back on my feet. But now I'm on my own. I have a job I like and rent a reasonably priced apartment in a small town. I stand to los…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 07:22 PM
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Tango. They constantly need help finding enough guys.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 04:15 PM
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Thank you. I hope, too.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 08:55 PM
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I’m guessing that preference didn’t work out in the long run? Of course not. What made you pick those attributes in particular? Probably a desire to fulfill my sexual fantasies. I was having fun and enjoying back then because TRP made me think committing to a woman is wrong. I preferred plastic over natural if done correctly. I hope you’re back to dating regular people. No, I'm not dating anyone. These days I mostly sit and think about my life if I hadn't broken up with my first girlfriend over …
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 08:19 PM
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Did being red pilled change your physical preferences in the women you wanted to date/marry/sleep with? Promiscuous blondes with fake tits and MILFs. Before the Red Pill, I was just a regular person who preferred meeting other regular people.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 07:01 PM
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Dark Triad men existed way before The Red Pill was a thing. Only a tiny percentage of men who are into The Red Pill is truly Dark Triad, but most are trying to become one. For them, a relationship is like a game of chess. You must position your pieces to checkmate your "opponent" (girlfriend) if she does something you don't like. She won't "misbehave" if she is implicitly aware of the consequences. Dark Triad men try to isolate their victim from her friends and family and make her financially de…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 10:04 PM
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The better question is what has remained.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 07:09 PM
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I still remember the time when you weren't supposed to tell everybody you're a Red Piller. Most "Red Pill" authors and bloggers wanted to remain anonymous and feared losing their jobs if their identities became known.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 03:58 PM
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Hopefully they don't end up like Andrew Tate.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 08:58 PM
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49th Law of Power - "if you can't do the time, don't do the crime."
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 07:42 AM
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I'm not even sure who came up with the idea he was arrested because of a Pizza box. Police certainly knew he was in the country. Romania is not in Schengen, so every exit and entry is documented. Even if they didn't want to bother searching for him, he would be arrested the moment he tried to leave Romania.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 07:41 AM
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I just recently found out who Andrew Tate was, but he's the same as other Red Pillers like Roosh V. Except Andrew Tate is even more fake. He's always trying to "hold his frame" and talks like he's been reading the Red Pill sidebar and 48 Laws of Power daily for the past ten years. Sadly, these fraudsters continue to take advantage of naive men.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 09:39 PM
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No. It might be illegal where you live. What will you do if your future girlfriend/fiance/wife asks you if you have ever had sex with a sex worker? I can tell you that most women are not okay with their SO treating women as sexual objects. Most sex workers are victims of human trafficking, domestic abuse, rape, or have addiction problems—even the "independent" ones. You are not helping sex workers by paying for sex. You're funding human traffickers and drug traffickers and helping them expand th…
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 04:39 PM
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To be fair, messed-up guys won't take you on vacation. They pay an hour, take viagra beforehand, and never see you again.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 11:07 AM
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He lost his frame. /s Red Pill gurus will probably say he made a mistake of not attending an in-person live show where he can shout at his mic until security takes him out of the studio.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 08:11 PM
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TL;DR: if you work from home or live in the middle of nowhere and don't have female friends, coworkers, or acquaintances, you're fucked.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 06:07 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/310335/us-online-dating-app-site-usage-gender/ This statistic presents the percentage of adults in the United States who have used a dating website or app as of April 2020, by gender. According to the findings, nine percent of male respondents stated that they were currently using a dating website or app, while in comparison only three percent of female respondents reported similar responses. Online dating is still not the norm. 97% of women still prefer meeti…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 05:22 PM
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Whether or not dating is worth it depends on where you live. Every town has a different ratio of men and women aged 18 - 40. The Red Pill tries to make you think those factors are irrelevant, but they're not. In general, only a tiny percentage of women are looking for partners on social media and dating apps (or bars). To increase your chance of meeting a woman, you need to be in a large urban area, have a full-time job in a physical location (not working from home), and have hobbies, friends, a…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 11:34 AM
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Penis length and size decreases with age so younger men are typically a bit larger than older men. I should have mentioned this to all older chicks that rejected me in my youth. lol
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 07:48 PM
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That's an interesting definition of a close relationship with her parents. In my case, it was more like her parents calling her every couple of hours.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 04:33 PM
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Many people will probably judge you, but I understand your situation. My first girlfriend lived with her parents and younger brother, and she couldn't have any privacy because they were incredibly nosy. She couldn't even have a standard phone call with me, so we had to text each other in the evening. She couldn't leave the house without being asked, "where you're going?". On the other hand, I lived with a frequently-away roommate, so at least we had a place to hang out. Yet, she would keep getti…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 03:21 PM
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Share of Millennials who live at home with their parents in the United States in 2021, by age and gender Living by yourself doesn't necessarily mean you're having a good time - especially if you live in the middle of nowhere. You probably need to be a doctor or a lawyer to be able to afford to live in a big city on your own. If you're working class, you need a wife who also works full-time to afford a life in any larger city.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 03:05 PM
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Bullshit, it might and might not happen.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 06:59 PM
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According to TRP: high net-worth individual = high-value male.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 01:59 PM
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https://openknowledge.worldbank.org/bitstream/handle/10986/9253/WDR2009_0011.pdf?sequence=1&isAllowed=y /u/petaura
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 09:15 PM
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Thank you for your reply. I guess I would need to date a person for some time and discuss these things before we start living together.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 10:19 PM
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You treat all women like monsters and you’ll end up becoming a monster. FTFY.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 10:07 PM
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I lived with roommates while studying, but I was not too fond of it. With a wife or a girlfriend, I'd be able to cook, do laundry and dishes together and share a bed. There are no good options. I feel bad for wasting my life with a mind-numbing job that doesn't benefit my resume. Jobs that I apply for pay above-average but still aren't paying enough to live a sustainable life.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/22 11:17 PM
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Illimitable Man wrote about The Dark Triad extensively. You should check out his blog if you're want to learn more about it. Many women are attracted to Dark Triad men, but most of them would not dump or cheat on their boyfriend or husband with one of those men. That's where The Red Pill is wrong, hinting that Dark Triad men can screw every girl in town.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 01:59 PM
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Most Red Pillers are closet hebephiles/ephebophiles, but not all act on their urges.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/22 11:13 PM
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In the beginning, there were anonymous authors writing articles for their blogs and forums. They were afraid of losing their job, and (almost) no one was trying to make money from The Red Pill. I want to differentiate pick-up artists from Red Pillers that spread pseudoscience. I see pick-up artistry as men trying to learn magic tricks to impress women. Men paying cash to learn magic tricks is not a new thing. Nowadays, most Red Pill authors don't have jobs, and they make money by selling their b…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/22 06:53 PM
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In the beginning, there were anonymous authors writing articles for their blogs and forums. They were afraid of losing their job, and (almost) no one was trying to make money from The Red Pill. I want to differentiate pick-up artists from Red Pillers that spread pseudoscience. I see pick-up artistry as men trying to learn magic tricks to impress women. Men paying cash to learn magic tricks is not a new thing. Nowadays, most Red Pill authors don't have jobs, and they make money by selling their b…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/22 12:00 PM
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Rich Dad Poor Dad.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 09:10 PM
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I mean, anyone even remotely "Red Pilled" would never put himself in the position where he has to pay $100 on the first date. That's not even Red Pill's advice. That's common sense. There are many ideas for the first date where no one has to pay anything.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/22 08:25 PM
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If I remember correctly, Red Pill's advice is never to pay anything on the first date.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/22 11:55 AM
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I'm not too fond of videos like this because they offer no credible sources for their claims. If you want to refute The Red Pill, you need to take a better approach. Otherwise, it's your word against his word.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/22 01:34 PM
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I had no idea where to meet them in a typical environment. I approached girls who would sit on a park bench and draw things, but they would freak out, and they didn't give me their number.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 09:52 PM
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Replace "Alpha males" with "abusive men."
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 09:11 AM
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There are girls banging jobless drug dealers, but let's just say they are not exactly university-educated women with stable jobs and do not have a clear health status.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/22 08:37 PM
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That reminds me of fraudsters selling dropshipping or forex/cryptocurrency trading courses and taking photos of their leased cars. If you didn't make enough money to buy a Lambo in a week, that's your fault.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 06:00 PM
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Things got much, much worse with Red Pill coaches and YouTubers trying to take the money from people. Red Pill was insignificant while there was only a handful of anonymous bloggers.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 09:59 AM
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Not exactly making fun of me, but I had a cousin who would brag about banging chicks, and he would show me nudes that girls sent to him.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 08:37 AM
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I don't care about age anymore. You shouldn't either, especially if you don't plan to have kids.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 10:11 PM
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If men became more attractive as they get older, why does no one lie about their age making themselves older? I used to increase my age on tinder when I was 22. The only matches I had until then were 15-year-olds pretending to be 18. When I changed it to 24, I started to match adults.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 10:06 PM
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Red Pillers mostly want to have sex with them, not date them.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 10:00 PM
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I'm interested, but I'm not from the US, if that matters.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 07:36 PM
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I can already feel incel propaganda abusing the shit out of this study. "88% of straight men in the United States are beta males."
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 12:22 PM
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Back in 2018, when I was institutionalized, they had no clue what Reddit was, let alone TRP, NoFap, etc. And that was the best mental health unit in my area. Most therapists still don't have a lot of knowledge or experience of how social media affects young people's mental health. To be fair, access to social media via cell phone wasn't a thing until around 2009.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 11:14 AM
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How did you realize it wasn't the way? The most brutal way imaginable, now I see that I'm lucky I'm still alive.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 06:08 PM
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made a lot of cringe and shameful stuff i still have to deal with to this day. AFAIK you left the Red Pill six years ago. Could you tell me what kind of stuff you have to deal with today?
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 06:07 PM
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Red Pillers are not sane.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 05:49 PM
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According to Red Piller's logic, having sex is another natural instinct for Alpha males with healthy testosterone levels, just like the urge to eat or shit. Therefore, it's not their fault when they have to date rape a woman in order to get sex, because that's what Alpha males do, and that's the price you have to pay for being an Alpha male. Most Red Pillers are also subscribers of the NoFap cult because masturbation allegedly lowers their testosterone levels and turns them into Betas. After all…
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 04:14 PM
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They found some studies that say that having sex with women actually increases your testosterone levels. Pseudoscience.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 03:03 PM
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Most rape apologists say that masturbation lowers their testosterone levels, and therefore they need to get sex one way or the other.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 01:02 PM
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Thank you for your response. I don't live in the United States, which makes seeking the right therapist even more challenging even when you have the money. I live in a relatively small place, and my choice of therapists is minimal. Three years ago, I spent a week in one of the best mental health units in the country, yet they couldn't help me. Back then, I still didn't realize how deep I was into The Red Pill, and it took a lot of time for me to differentiate between facts and The Red Pill nonse…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 02:06 PM
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating Eastern European women IF you live and work in their countries and learn the language. But suppose you're a creepy dude like Roosh V, who makes a living selling his rape fantasy guides on Amazon, doing visa runs every 90 days, and doesn't bother learning the language. In that case, you will never be able to start a relationship with a woman who has any self-respect. Roosh V rarely talks about 95% of women who rejected him and only focuses on 5% who d…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/21 10:32 PM
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Sex with strangers is vastly overrated. FTFY
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 09:16 AM
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If you're a superficial son/daughter of a bitch. In that case, yes, leagues exist. Also, the number of previous partners matters and when you lost your virginity. If you are a normal human being, no, the league is a bullshit concept.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 04:39 PM
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"Genuine desire" = being right swapped on Tinder.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 10:55 AM
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IMO no one should be on birth control pills unless it's indispensable.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 04:03 PM
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I think the biggest question is whether or not a person can be picky when choosing a partner. Most people must make a compromise for anything in their life, whether it's the university they attend, employer, a place to live, a car, etc. More often than not, you will not get exactly what you wish or what you think you deserve. The same goes for choosing a partner. All men and women have flaws. Some can be fixed. Some cannot. You have to accept unfixable flaws and focus on those that are fixable. …
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 12:59 PM
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Don't make approaching a full-time job. And don't talk only to women you are interested in dating. Talk to everyone you might find interesting, or they might find you interesting. If you bump into the same girl during your morning jogging or hiking, say hi and introduce yourself. You can make a friend, and indirectly through a social circle, you might meet a girl you like. That's the whole point of getting a new hobby and socializing. It takes effort, it takes time, the outcome isn't certain, bu…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 06:55 PM
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You must be a software developer/banker/lawyer/doctor/professional athlete to afford your own place in any bigger city in my area. And you'd still spend a huge percent of your salary on rent and utilities. It's impossible to live on your own in your 20s without a huge sacrifice. You'll live paycheck to paycheck without having the ability to save and invest. That's one of the reasons I wish I had a girlfriend. We would be able to rent a small apartment in a bigger city and gain access to higher-p…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 09:18 AM
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"Don't get married" and "don't commit to anyone but yourself" are bullshit. Being a selfish prick isn't a viable long-term strategy.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 08:27 AM
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In some Eastern European countries (like Russia), seeing average-looking guys with beautiful women is not uncommon. And it's not about the money. In many countries, hookup culture isn't a thing. Women date and marry guys from their social circles, and only a small number of women use dating apps or go out to find a guy.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 07:52 PM
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Do you think women with PhDs screw "Alpha Chads" from gym and Tinder? No.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:54 PM
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At this point, it doesn't even matter. So much has changed since I left, and there's nothing I can do about it.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 08:47 AM
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The Dark Triad is probably the worst aspect of The Red Pill. It basically encourages you to hurt other people and take advantage of them without feeling bad about it, because if you don't take advantage of them, someone else will. That's completely messed up.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 08:04 PM
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"You Are What You Think You Are" is a potent psychological tool. The Red Pill gave me a lot of false sense of confidence that I did not have before. I thought I knew how the world was operating, and it was no longer a mystery for me. I've learned I had to go out and make things happen instead of sitting and waiting for some perfect opportunity to arrive from somewhere. Leaving my comfort zone was probably the best and the worst thing that happened to me. If you are into The Red Pill and you leav…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 10:04 AM
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Fuck as many women as possible and catch all sorts of STDs that will kill you by the time you're 40.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/21 08:45 AM
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Also Dark Triad.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 08:43 PM
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I have to disagree with this. Illimitable Men and most of the other "dark triad" TRP authors are against engaging in illegal behavior. However, according to them, everything that isn't explicitly forbidden is allowed.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 08:14 PM
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If there's such thing in TRP as "male Alpha Widow," I'm probably the one. My life is a trainwreck for more than three years.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/21 09:15 PM
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https://prostitution.procon.org/percentage-of-men-by-country-who-paid-for-sex-at-least-once-the-johns-chart/
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 09:12 AM
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I've attended university in continental Europe, and this study matches my personal observations. I haven't seen any 50-year-old "Chads" around campus hitting on 19-year-old freshmen. Most girls who were in a relationship were usually with a guy who was their age or a little bit older. In Europe, there's a program called Erasmus, and that's where most of the hooking up is happening. But only a relatively small number of students attend this program if you compare it with the total number of stude…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 01:09 PM
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Red Pillers like to think Asian and Eastern European women are somehow superior. The truth is that the vast majority of them want nothing to do with the western men, and those that do are usually visa hunters. But still, 99% of Asian, Eastern European women or any other women are dating men from their own nations.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 10:32 AM
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Most women dislike that, but some like the fact they can get the commitment from almost any guy they want if they are reasonably attractive. That's a lot of power. I know Red Pillers like to say that most guys just want to pump and dump them, but that's now true.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 08:17 PM
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Some women enjoy the attention they're getting on social media.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 07:18 PM
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I've approached over a thousand women in my PUA days Approaching is not supposed to be your full-time job.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 08:14 PM
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I used to be heavily involved in PUA. The adrenaline rush was the most exciting part of approaching and chatting up with women. I lived in a touristy town, and it was great, although I was a 22-year-old student at that time, so I had almost no results (phone numbers and chatting on social media were my only results). Girls are more comfortable chatting with strangers when they are on vacation, especially if you're a local. It was fun but also time-consuming and tiresome. PUA is a thing of a past…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/21 05:45 PM
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It's been 3 years since I left TRP and all of these guys look ridiculous. Turns out they are no different than PUAs, except they had a little more patience before they became obviously greedy. Also, how's their business going during the pandemic? With mask mandates, social distancing and lockdowns it appears their entire business model is flushed down the toilet.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 06:07 AM
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I was attending university in Europe and most girls were dating guys who were around their age.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 06:01 AM
5

Do you have any more details about him? I remember him while he was still pseudonymous.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 06:55 PM
5

I followed Donovan Sharpe back in 2017 when he was doing interviews with Illimitable Man (while he was still writing articles on his blog). I had no idea Donovan became this popular in the meantime. Also, what happened to Rollo Tomassi?
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 04:22 PM
3

Are things better now?
/r/ExRedPill11/03/21 10:33 PM
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I became addicted to prostitutes 2 years after getting red pilled since I looked at women as inferior beings. Some of them had boyfriends, it was turning me on to fuck women that other men fuck as well. Lifelong porn addiction and TRP can utterly destroy young men.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/20 10:27 PM
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Sleeping with prostitutes.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/20 01:36 PM
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I shouldn't have had sex with prostitutes.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/19 02:35 AM
2

I'm 26.5 years old now. I'm not going to continue with my studies unfortunately.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/19 09:59 PM
1

I was studying abroad when I became addicted to escorts, basically ignoring all events designed for exchange students and abandoning my studies in order to pursue and waste my time and money on escorts. After I came back home, I fell into deep depression and nowadays I barely even leave my room anymore. It's been a year and a half since I returned.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/19 10:39 PM
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Oh boy, that sounds insane. High-end escorts are dark triad, they find naive guys to pay for their breast implants, cars, expensive vacations etc. while they fuck for money without them even knowing. Almost all escorts I've visited had boyfriends who lived in other countries. They probably think they work as models or something. I deeply regret what I did, as it destroyed my life. I thought I was the "smart" guy for fucking them without commitment, but I was sucker. It's much better to find some…
/r/ExRedPill19/12/19 09:31 PM
1

There is nothing positive about TRP.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/19 09:22 PM
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It is foolish to determine one's value based on the number of partners.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/19 02:23 PM
6

No one talks about dangers of promiscuity. TRP is probably the 2nd worst place you can get sex ed from (1st is porn). By having infinite sexual partners you are bound to catch some disease sooner or later and pass it onto your future partners without even knowing it. Most (but not all) STDa are treatable but every time you get reinfected it gets harder to cure it. Antibiotic resistance is a real danger.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 07:51 AM
1

Prostitute addiction and hitting on teenagers who are above the age of consent in my country (lowest in Europe so you can check it out). Way too many suffered from my actions. All within the law, but that's what a typical TRPer would say when confronted.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 07:37 AM
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Enjoy the decline. Our societies are going to collapse in a decade or maybe even earlier. Don't commit to anyone but yourself.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/19 05:39 AM
12

I had sex with prostitutes.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/19 01:45 AM
9

Red Pill is basically zero sum thinking. Women give and men receive sex, which therefore decreases women's "value" and increases men's. Plenty of men get dragged into Red Pill when they're young and stick to it in the following years.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/19 07:15 PM
1

Masturbate as much as you need in order to clear your mind and not think about prostitutes, forget about NoFap. There is a lot of pimping going on but it's no longer obvious and visible as it used to be in the past. There is no certain way of knowing whether the girl is being pimped or not - pimps now use sophisticated tactics instead of physical violence. Asking an escort about her STD status is meaningless, it takes time for STDs to appear on tests and in the meantime she might be transmitting…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/19 07:00 PM
2

There's a chance you will become addicted. Believe me, there is a huge difference between toying with the idea of visiting a prostitute and actually doing it. If you pay a high-end escort she will blow your mind and you'll keep coming back for more whenever you are unsuccessful with Tinder or daygame. It will be your ego boost after all those rejections you face in real life. Once you dive into prostitution it's difficult to get out without professional help - if you pay once you'll keep paying …
/r/ExRedPill23/08/19 01:51 PM
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there's nothing wrong with seeing a (consenting, adult, not trafficked) sex worker Don't do this. I used to be addicted to prostitutes and it's hell. I still regret to this day.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 08:13 PM
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It's a completely retarded concept in my opinion. Also a good of getting rape accusation afterwards. Genuine consensual sex shouldn't have "LMR", but unfortunately most red pillers believe in rule: "sex first, relationship afterwards".
/r/ExRedPill17/08/19 10:27 PM
3

My inner red piller would advise you never to apologize. I still need deprogramming.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/19 06:40 PM
6

I became addicted to prostitutes in Poland because no girl wanted to do anything with me.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/19 03:27 PM
1

I remember reading about this article on TRP which interpreted it as millennial men having less sex while millennial women having sex as usual.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/19 12:38 AM
21

Our society become so sexualized to the point where men think they have no value simply because they never had sex. Honestly I was also in the same situation, after two years of TRP I became addicted to prostitutes because I couldn't get sex anywhere else. Believe me, being a virgin is at least one hundred times better than being a prostitute addict. I think I'm permanently damaged and will never be able to have a relationship with a women that doesn't include money. I'm lucky I got away without…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/19 06:39 PM
2

It's clear I'm better off and that he'll probably end up alone We'll all end up alone eventually.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/19 07:26 PM
18

"Game" does work with women who had traumatic childhood, though it is still emotional abuse. That's what TRP is all about.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/19 07:16 PM
11

I was reading TRP every day for two years and started turning into a full blown sociopath, one time after I had sex with an escort I went downstairs and started hitting on a girl at bus stop and applying my TRP "knowledge" even after she let me know she has a boyfriend (she had their photo as wallpaper). After that I cooked lunch with my flatmate like nothing happened. At that time I was heavily into Illimitable Man/Dark Triad/48 Laws of Power bullshit. I was ewhoring in order to fund my escort …
/r/ExRedPill12/06/19 07:19 PM
1

That's author of No More Mr. Nice Guy. I'll definitely read it. It's difficult to find good RP material that won't lead to radicalization.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/19 12:20 AM
3

I definitely get you, I became prostitute addict after 2 years of red pill. You never know in which direction will red pill take you.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/19 06:33 PM
4

Thanks. Unfortunately it wasn't an one-off encounter but months and months of encounters. When I couldn't reach out any of the girls from ads, I would become extremely frustrated. I didn't even realize I became addicted, "hamster" was spinning at the neck-breaking speed inside of my mind. Years of exposure to TRP material made me completely indoctrinated. I bought all recommended books, my bookmarks toolbar was loaded with manosphere texts. I had a TRP throwaway account with tons of karma, I was…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/19 08:23 PM
4

I was heavily into red pill from 2016 and 2018. I completely stopped masturbating, started lifting, fixed my diet and other stuff they are telling but I couldn't score. That made me very frustrated and I ended up becoming addicted to prostitutes. I enjoyed when I saw they aren't enjoying it at all, one girl just closed her eyes and went away while I was dolling all over her face because I didn't even know how to kiss. Year later, I am still unable to recover. Last night I had a dream about the f…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/19 03:35 PM
1

Where did I use it.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/19 03:43 AM
2

Of course. Unlike animals, humans can use their brains in order to control their sexual urges. We are able to understand what kind of risks promiscuous behavior can bring.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/19 04:58 PM
3

Illimitable man has very pro-prostitution attitudes. Ask him on twitter if you don't trust me. TRP is based on pseudo science and bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/19 04:18 AM
5

TRP is claiming how it's okay for a man to sleep with unlimited number of women and have a girlfriend at the same time. They simply can't understand that cheating would hurt any normal girl and make her break up with that man.They are convinced it would make her even more attracted to him. TRP is stupid.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/19 04:15 AM
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Of course. Normal girls who were raised in a normal two parent home are turned off by TRP strategy. Another point that TRP raises is a concept of branch swinging and how girls will ditch you for a higher SMV man as soon as he appears. This is bullshit. Normal girls have self-control and will not cheat you as soon as they get a chance. One thing is to feel urges, and completely another to act on them. Man can also feel urge to cheat on his girlfriend with a random girl who's flirting with him, bu…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/19 03:46 AM
5

TRP discourages online dating of all forms Then why are there so many tutorials how to get laid on tinder on TRP subreddit? as well as seeking prostitutes Nope. There are so many manosphere authors who have nothing against prostitutes and say it's the cheapest sex you're ever going to get. You just picked one author in order to support your agenda and disregarded everything else. TRP community is loaded with fallacies and nothing else.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/19 01:33 AM
3

Excellent comment. TRP alienated me from the society. I could only connect with other Red Pillers. I couldn't make any new friends since people would literary run away from me. Girls as well, my PUA tactics simply didn't work and made me more and more frustrated. Then I resorted to prostitutes since I thought all women are essentially prostitutes - honest ones have a price tag while dishonest ones ask for a blank check. Even though I paid for sex I still had a very high opinion of myself and con…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/19 01:43 AM
1

Thanks. I wasn't honest with doctors in the psychiatric hospital - mostly because prostitution is such a taboo in my country. It didn't help that one doctor was a girl from my hometown who went to the same high school as me, and one was my brother's friend from university. I generally talked to them about sexuality and my perception of it. It requires a special kind of therapist to deal with this kind of issue. In school I had absolutely no sex ed. Everything I've learned is from the internet - …
/r/ExRedPill25/01/19 06:55 PM
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I feel your pain. I've started reading TRP when I was 22 and got badly indoctrinated and ruined my life. TRP is a cult, but nothing like cults I've been taught when I was a child - like crazy rituals where you light candles, cut yourself and stuff like that. Even thought TRP increased my confidence I became a sociopath and a predator.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 05:25 AM
1

Hello my Croatian bro. I feel your pain. Red Pill has destroyed my life as well. I was a lonely virginal dude, reading Red Pill stuff every day for 2 years. I had no idea I was being indoctrinated by a cult. Last year I went to Erasmus in a country where prostitution is legal and started spending money on prostitutes. I had no idea what or why I was doing it. I wanted to finally have sex as many women as possible and make up for all those years of rejection and bitterness. Now I am back home and…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/19 07:44 PM
3

Red Pill Game works on women with borderline personality disorder. Healthy women who were raised properly recoil from that type of shit. TRP is cancer.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/19 09:55 PM
1

Yes. That's why I convinced myself how I am better off with genuine prostitutes. TRP is bullshit. There are plenty of normal girls out there who don't prostitute themselves. What TRP is doing is they select 20% of the most broken women in the society and persuade you that all girls on the planet are like that (AWALT). I am lucky I got away without genital herpes or warts. Fucking prostitutes is plain stupid.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/19 08:53 PM
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I've done absolutely everything they teach. Lifted weights, made money, fixed diet, fixed wardrobe, put the best photos on Tinder, learned Game, approached random girls - and still nothing. I figured the only way for me to ever get laid will be to fuck prostitutes. The fact they're so cheap in Europe only made it more appealing to me - $80 per hour for a HB8 with pornstar body which provides GFE. I've spent past 15 years masturbating to photos of these types of girls, fucking them was my childho…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/19 01:21 PM
7

I know my issues are far deeper, but discovering TRP simply triggered all the bad stuff within me. I am prone to confirmation bias and TRP provided it to me.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/19 09:53 AM
5

I was teased by peers from time to time for being a virgin. I allowed it to bother me more than it should. After I started with TRP it just spiraled out of control.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/19 09:47 AM
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Thanks. It will take a lot of time to deprogram myself. I've spent a week in a psychiatric hospital voluntarily, I take meds but they don't really work. I'm from a small conservative country which makes it much more difficult to recover since prostitution is very frowned upon here. I don't think I got over my addiction yet - when I hear the music I used to play while freelancing, it reminds me of those encounters. I still visit that escorts forum. I am afraid that one day I will come to the situ…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/19 02:39 AM
1

It's only $35 per hour with unlimited cumshots. No, my dick won't fall off, prostitution is legal where I live so competition drives prices down.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 10:29 PM
1

I need Red Pill advice on this. I'm about to see an escort for the first time in my life. She's 40, has great reviews and provides GFE. Should I tell her that I'm a virgin? I feel kinda embarrassed about it since I'm 25. She'll most likely notice it, but would outright telling her about it make things better or worse.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 05:11 PM
1

Is having a curved penis a good, bad or neutral thing? I need to find out whether this is true or not: A curved penis will push into the walls of the vagina and therefore may feel larger to the woman (as there is more pressure)
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:56 PM
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I already asked this on askTRP but I'll type it here again hoping to get more replies. Anyway, I'm a 24 year old dude, currently at the university. I discovered TRP long ago, did a lot to improve myself and my Game. But unfortunately I didn't have any success, due to lack of social proof and the fact that I live with parents in a town of less than 7000 people and I commute to university. And university itself is a giant sausage fest just like any other tech university. I was thinking about losin…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 02:38 PM
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Flakes, ghosts, rejections... I tried it all and results are the same. No social proof = girls won't do anything with you.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:29 PM
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