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diggingme/r/seduction14/03/15 09:39 PM
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diggingme/r/seduction25/03/15 07:08 PM
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diggingme/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:38 PM
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Newcastle and Manchester
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:37 AM
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Ngl this is a gross generalisation, I've done pick up like this (albeit a bit less direct) outside of London and it's worked great
/r/seduction10/05/18 10:08 PM
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For future reference, if u haven't dated a tinder chick before, when they really want to meet you, they act like thirsty guys Eg. Sending double texts, instant replies, back and forth banter, nudes if you're lucky ;) All the above are strong indicators of interest, once these stop, yeah try and ignite then once, but if they don't register interest again, just move on dude
/r/seduction06/05/17 08:54 PM
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The word "plenty" has been used liberally here, among guys ive spoken to the main thing is that the girl is good looking, which out balances the fact she's fat
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/17 03:08 PM
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I've never bothered approaching a chick less than an 8, approaches work way better if you're very attracted to the person you're talking to It's probably instinctive or evolutionary it's like there's a heat between you and them and if you don't give on to it you'll burn with desire forever
/r/seduction08/12/16 04:00 AM
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Painfully late but as an extra point worth noting, you can still embrace your culture and do these others thing simultaneously. For instance I openly wear my Senegalese jewelry and often to talk of my travels there and most people, not just girls find it very interesting Lots of people find Black culture interesting but they find us scary, albeit a vocal minority live wild lives but most are just level headed people
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 09:58 PM
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Aye you calling me a bad student?! lol What typically happens is I become friendly with lecturers through going to them for help, they like to see someone taking an interest in their subject The ones that provide personal face to face time to go through the content are great, then there are the ones who aren't helpful in person or just don't make themselves available
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 10:05 PM
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Try visiting less, the venting shit becomes boring and petty, leave it for a week then sort by best of the week to find the good stuff
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 09:52 PM
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Typically I also write down questions that expand on the topic, so imagine your learning about cats, I might write down 'Why do cats have fur?' it just keeps me more interested in the subject, through questioning it. How does it work for you not taking notes ? I'm guessing you use a re-cap service to re-watch the lecture
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 09:50 PM
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Great thanks, the transition to college from university was difficult for me, after lecturers for exam guidance was useless and with all the material we go through shit becomes bad fast. Still have one year left though, so this guide come in useless Networking wasnt too difficult though, course mates can be useful in this respect, even lecturers can be ( always try to talk to one/two just small talk even goes a long way, they're useful for things like references, so are even quite cool)
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 09:46 PM
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Damn he could potentially be pulling your group apart, I'd say let it happen those other dudes didn't like you anyway, HOWEVER if he just whispered poison into their ears, you could talk to them frankly and patch shit up Yet again these are work friends, so it depends if you think its worth the effort....
/r/askTRP27/03/16 06:24 PM
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I was in a college city, I don't even get any matches back in London which is weird for a large diverse city - perhaps just better competition and black guys don't normally kill when it comes to online dating
/r/askTRP27/03/16 05:25 PM
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Going out alone can be difficult so always go where you're comfortable and ride a social wave. Social wave is something RSD Tyler touches on, by this you see an opportunity for interaction then always go for it. Eg. On your way out, say hi to the dude walking up to you, from there you might see a chick wearing a coat you like, tell her you like the coat and start a convo from there etc. Little by little you gain confidence and so a larger social wave. From this point on opening a set seems easy …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:53 PM
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Join a dance class, being a good dancer always works well for attention in clubs, most of the members are generally women plus it makes you feel more comfortable with kino
/r/askTRP26/03/16 07:10 PM
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As a tip OP to prevent yourself from becoming an orbiter, always try to have a couple of girls (atleast) as love interests. That way if Cindy isn't down, you can still try it with Farrah, what Farrah is fucking around ? Switch to Linda etc.. If you don't have any other interests, but want some, when you have time go out and run some day game, after getting some numbers whilst showing clear sexual intent, you'll forgot about that one chick you were so focused on
/r/askTRP26/03/16 07:06 PM
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Continue as you were OP, ignorance was bliss in your scenario as prior to being aware to his active attempts to alienate you, he was failing. Something like this happened in my group of friends, he's acting like the lead the group don't want, eventually things reach tipping point with him and the group expels him over time
/r/askTRP26/03/16 06:57 PM
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Needs more laid back pics or ones with friends For example I've got one with a 2 girls pretending to grab my ass, one of me posing with a chic on Halloween Something to show I've got an actual social life as well as female attention, pre-selection never hurt anyone ;) After I added the pic frm halloween, I went from like a match every week (ugh) to like 1-2 matches a day
/r/askTRP26/03/16 06:49 PM
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Probably tongue in cheek, but listening to everybody is worthwhile because you learn something. Eg. Listening to a girl's advice on pickup teaches you not to take their advice
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 10:18 PM
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Accept it for what it is, generally I focus on gaining good male relationships, doing well in college, lifting etc. When your life is together, women come naturally as they want to be a part of it, they just come and go that's all. Kinda like outdoor cats haha
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 12:58 AM
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"Sure, I'm still lonely, but she'll never know that" That's an emotion some of us understand. I remember when I was a virgin all I wanted to do was shag and fuck. But once I'd done it, the high emotion lasted for a day then I was left with a gaping emptiness. What I was told should make me complete, didn't do that. Admittedly, I've never been in a relationship, but even if I was an air of coldness would always have to be maintained around her, my vulnerability would be construed as weakness, not…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 12:43 AM
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good luck To get enough water I normally consume 1.5l litres at breakfast (basically downing it) then I carry a bottle (75 CL) around with me during the day and then I down another 1.5L when I get home Getting enough water has really given me the energy to wake up early - plus with a full bladder its either that or piss the bed
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 09:53 PM
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thursday - 10 press ups = dead basic friday - nothing long day at uni saturday = boxing sunday = 30 min jog
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 10:28 AM
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eye contact, casual touching, negging - for me I focus on eye contact - then slip in flirtation where possible I normally cut the dialogue, once I feel its getting good - always leave em wanting more I really wanna start doing what you're doing - but most girls I actively want are normally with friends, but I dont mind approaching if their alone
/r/seduction22/10/15 01:35 PM
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I was reading through your previous posts and what you're doing overall is cool, but I think your approach is waaay too forward. For instance when you told the girl in class that you liked her, proceeded to ask her on a date, saw she was hesitating then told her it was a yes or no question haha it sounded like an interrogation - to put it simply if some guy you didn't know came up to you, said you looked cool and wanted to be your bro - then immediately asked for your number/ when you could meet…
/r/seduction21/10/15 12:58 PM
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Today = 15 pull ups, 50 sit ups and 50 leg raises Having a home fitness mat is v. useful for working out at home when its too cold/ I've been busy all day and wanna cram in some exercise
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 09:37 PM
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One was the opinion of a med student and the other just said that the OP was a sad case and a liar
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 08:15 PM
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"you’ll realize that a lot of the stuff you once felt adamant about didn’t have solid structure" I've been here before in regards to my religion,I questioned it in every way and the impact it has had on my life and was still able to believe in it - now my faith in God is cemented It's important to question things, there's no point knowing one side of an argument, you have to study the other side too allowing you to form a better opinion
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 10:04 PM
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Yeah I found the "no friends" comment sad, TRP praises the need for fraternity and strong male friends, you could exist without them but having good male friends is always a bonus,no man is an island
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 09:41 PM
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Went for a 3 mile run on Weds, took me 30 mins- trynna get it down to 10 mins next time Today = 15 pull ups, 50 sit ups and 50 leg raises
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 06:31 PM
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I've just done this - accidentally texting a girl about a set I pulled because I thought it was my best friend's number. She never replied to me before despite strong attraction But after that it was back and forth texting she was replying immediately whilst I took my sweet old time Don't fuck up like me OP and text too quickly my chick's gone cold again, now I'm not texting her until I see her again to game in person
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 07:20 PM
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15 pull ups, 50 sit ups and 50 leg raises Upped the intensity of the leg raises and sit ups hopefully the workout is more effective this way Back to college now, so weight gain becomes an issue, especially in winter months! Gonna try and switch out my chocolate (only one bar a day) for something healthier Had a killer day today the format of this challenge really engages me though, TRP has taught me alot of things, so adding to the sub in anyway is the least I can do
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 10:34 PM
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I don't think price is the main factor, however I agree with the overall mood of OP. I used to be a cheap ass when it came to haircuts, paying £6 maximum. My brother recommended a black barber that charges £10.00, the price made me hesistate but the barber works with care and attention to detail. I've been to shitty barbers for £10. You know the ones that cut hair whilst on the phone, are always in a hurry and take 15 mins just for the shape up It's all about paying attention to the barber and h…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:33 PM
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Hit the boxing gym for an hour and went hard!
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:29 PM
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me ma's visiting me in college, so nothing today....
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 12:45 AM
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20 Pull ups, 50 sit ups and 50 leg raises yesterday Going for a run in 45 mins so that covers me for today
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 06:14 PM
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I walked for 20 mins yesterday - up a hill with luggage after a 3hr flight :( Today i got home and just did 10 pull ups Slow days compared to the beginning....
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 09:45 PM
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Boxing and jogging today Coach made me do lots of cardio, felt so ill I almost threw up during the worlk out - took 5 mins out and was able to complete the work out
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 09:57 PM
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Sounds quite good to me, ill try it out
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 10:27 AM
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Any tips for good post-work snacks/healthy snacks? The gym is kinda far from my house and because I try not to eat an hr before a workout I become very hungry afterwards?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 11:30 PM
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bed at 2:00 am and up at 11:00 AM - I've finally worked out that I need 9hrs sleep so for me this challenge was a success
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:06 AM
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bed at 2:00 AM up at 11:00 AM
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 10:58 AM
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To bed at 10:30 PM and up at 7:30 AM The plan worked!
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 07:34 AM
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bed at 4:00 AM and up at 12PM My room mate was REALLY loud tonight, I can't wait to go back to college where I have my own room..... Well atleast 12pm is a standard benchmark now I guess, I might set my alarm for 11:00AM tomorrow, having it go off at 9:00 AM is useless and just disturbs my sleep cycle
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:20 PM
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bed at 1:00 AM (room mate kept sniffing and coughing, keeping me awake) and up at 12:00PM At this point I think its up to me to simply go to bed earlier, I think I need about 12hrs sleep a night :$
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 01:29 PM
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bed at 1:00 AM and up at 10:00 AM I kind of feel less tired today
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 07:05 PM
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To bed at 1:00 AM up at 10:30 AM Went for a jog today, hope I wake up with more energy tommorow
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 10:50 PM
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bed at 1:00 AM up at 12:00 PM I'm revising for uni retakes at the moment and so haven't found much time for excercise, I think that's why I'm still waking up groggy despite sleeping for so long Well last exam tomorrow Then its time to resume lifting
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 12:30 AM
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bed at 1:00 AM up at 11:00 AM
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 12:06 AM
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slept at 12:00 AM up at 10:00 AM
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:43 PM
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Sleep at 10:00 PM up at 10:00 AM First proper, normal night's sleep in over two weeks
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 01:41 PM
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Asleep at 3:00 AM and up at 6:30 AM, had an exam this morning - wasn't tired despite it being at 9:00 AM but now im feeling wrecked, out in a library all day so I won't be napping
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 12:24 PM
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Asleep at 3:00 AM up at 11:00 AM
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:05 PM
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slept at 4:00 AM up at 10:00 AM Hopefully get up early tomorrow too
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:57 PM
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Didnt Nap! Fell asleep at 10:00 PM Then woke up at 1:30 PM fuck
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:57 PM
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Asleep at 3:00 AM and up by 7:00 AM NO NAPPING TODAY
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:51 AM
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Asleep at 4:00 AM and up at 11:00 AM
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 11:23 AM
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Asleep at 12:00 AM and up at 5:30 AM Well at least I'm up early, now to just stay awake the entire day....
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:05 AM
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Went to sleep at 4 AM up at 9 AM Previous day went to sleep at 3 up at 10 AM Atleast im getting up early, but it leads to me napping therefore I may have well have woken up later Gonna try Monster to keep me awake
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 08:30 PM
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watched hannibal in bed for 1hr before sleeping - bad idea ccouldn't get to sleep then spent 4 hrs reading a book Went to sleep at 4:00 AM woke up at 12PM Goddamn it
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 12:26 PM
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went to sleep at 12:00 AM awake at 11:00AM Waking up at 6:00AM fucked me over, I napped for 2hrs because I was tired, then woke up late the next day because I was still tired
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 10:50 AM
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Went to sleep at 12:00 AM and woke up at 6:00 AM Glad my sleeping pattern is looking better, I feel pretty refreshed gonna try and go to sleep 1hr earlier, atleast now I have a full day to get all my work out of the way.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:24 AM
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Went to sleep at 12:00 AM woke up at 10:00 AM Gonna try and go to bed earlier and wake up earlier tommorow - even if its just by an hour
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:24 PM
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Went to sleep at 4:30 AM woke up at 7:30 AM = 3hrs sleep Surprisingly not tired, will try to go bed earlier today
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 07:43 AM
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Yesterday went to sleep at 4:00 AM and woke up at 11:00 AM = 7hrs Hopefully I can get a reasonable night's sleep, I've got a driving lesson 9:00 AM tomorrow
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:23 PM
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Diggingme will take part in this challenge
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:22 PM
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My man! Sometimes I get chicks playing with their hair whilst walking towards me, but I always assumed it was a natural thing, but after reading your FR and the frequency at which it happens to me, I should open them.. Haha I'm at university (college) too, the 1st set I opened was there and I was surprised that the girl put her full name and shit into my phone, I always found that strange but now I think I understand why Sweet opener, I'm gonna go for something more cocky and playful like your i…
/r/seduction15/07/15 10:43 PM
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Fair enough, I'll bear that in mind with my day game haha
/r/seduction15/07/15 07:21 PM
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Hmm I'm curious about what you open with? Not gonna lie I use generic shit, ask for directions then say something like 'Hi, I thought you were good looking and had to introduce myself' I'm abit of a hypocrite, because sometimes I open sets on girls studying the the library :P
/r/seduction15/07/15 07:21 PM
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search 'FRs' for more field reports The theory is good and old, but understanding how it plays out in real life is much more helpful
/r/seduction14/07/15 10:06 PM
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Hmm approaching busy people in general is a bad idea, imagine you're running late for work and so dude tries to pick you whilst - whilst you're hurrying to get there on time, his chances at her number would be non existent compared to approaching her in a calm setting
/r/seduction14/07/15 10:00 PM
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Now that is definitely too forward haha I'd just say " We've had a great time talking but I need to go, give me your number then we can keep in touch" Any variation of that can be used with girls as well as friends in general, that's why I like it - plus re-affirming the fact we've had a good convo, she wouldn't want to cut you off completely (It depends on how good the convo was tho)
/r/seduction14/07/15 08:42 PM
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As a quick life hack don't say things like "I don't know if I'm being too forward" It plants doubt into her mind as to whether you are being too forward and it makes you sound unsure about your actions, instead of showing headstrong confidence
/r/seduction14/07/15 09:21 AM
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My favourite part of this was how you mentioned the other alpha dude in your band warming up to you. With time practicing RP behaviour, other alphas around you recognise you for what you are, they might not even say anything to you but they'll respect you from a distance. It's like the dynamics of my friend group, my closet friend is alpha as fuck - cool dude too whenever I ask him how he does it he always explains He absolutely slaughters my beta friend whenever this guy is around us, to such a…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 11:19 PM
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Never probs getting it up, but sometimes I can't finish - after some experimenting I need to go a week without wanking if I want to finish with a girl - plus doing it with lotion and a loose grip creates a more true to reality sensation It really got on my nerves, like questioning my manhood serious haha good FR tho
/r/seduction12/07/15 10:55 PM
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Baby steps, I learn what I need here then don't come back until I've applied it in rel life, you're right there's so much advanced/ beginner material on here it can be confusing
/r/seduction11/07/15 04:42 PM
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Yeah I'm study agriculture which is more useful in developing countries, plus I'm trying to learn french My favourite thing about some African countries is the status you recieved based on who you are, plus knowing people means there are more doors open to me there than in London But I definately agree about the educational/infrastructural point, I've found that getting things done over there is a case of who you know/ what you're willing to paying whereas in the West the systems are more proced…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 08:09 PM
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But even then if you can afford it, isn't really a problem - especially as some of the countries I've been to are cheap due to the strength of the £
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 08:03 PM
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I travel to Africa regularly and that's one of the things I miss when I come back to London, within certain limits you can do whatever you want things aren't so bogged down in bureaucracy. That said the post colonial countries still have lots of ancient laws that can be throw at a foreigner any time so if possible get citzenship of you're preferred country
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 02:34 PM
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Just keep it simple - I'm having a good time talking but I have to go, what's your number The same works for male friends as well, plus it allows you to end the conversation on a high, so that person is left wth a good impression of you.. I've done it at a house party before, having a great time talking to a group I feel when the conversation has reached its peak then I go outside for fresh air, like 5 mins later the whole group followed me. I expected the trick to work but not that well damn
/r/seduction10/07/15 12:09 AM
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I didn't bother with social games, what gave me confidence was reading FRs on here, I mean if these weirdo reddit mofos can do it why can't we ? (I'm jking love you all) then approaching, its difficult at first but its the best way man...
/r/seduction09/07/15 09:08 PM
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Great read man Be careful on your bike though, my dad fudged his ankle up on one Edit due to mad stupid spelling
/r/seduction09/07/15 08:59 PM
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Go watch simple pickup on youtube You prbs have Bitch Anxiety - meaning you're anxious to open (fair enough) but you're not controlling your emotions (making you a bitch)
/r/seduction24/05/15 05:50 PM
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It helps to state your purposes early on - such as saying 'I thought you were goodlooking so I had to introduce myself' It just sets the tone for something sexual/flirtatious (works 90% of the time), cutting out alot of needless chit chat which could result in nothing. As a beginner its helping me alot (also when talking to the girl, to look deeply into her eyes try into their iris' (the bit around the dark pupil) practice this on shop staff - it takes afew seconds but once you hit it a common g…
/r/seduction24/05/15 05:46 PM
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Your right, getting somebody to do what I want, "How I want it" isn't manipulation, manipulation circulates around forcing somebody to do what you want them to do. We learn how to persuade people, like in your relationship your gf has the option to do what see wants, however your actions/behaviour persuade her to do otherwise
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 10:03 PM
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Great stuff, it can be difficult going from a 'nice guy' with girls to taking a firmer stance, but they'll respect you more for it and most importantly you'll respect yourself more for it too.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 01:42 PM
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Fashion and swagga (confidently carrying yourself) also play a role What some guys also forget is being too big can also be percieved as threatening by some girls (heck even some guys) that's why I go for tone and not mad gainz
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 02:00 PM
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First things first, Im guessing these are girls in your grade/year at school ? If so good, atleast then your a vaguely familiar face - you might even know each other's names. Just start by maybe asking her where the bathroom is or whatever (this just slightly breaks the ice, then you can compose yourself in there if you need to, or just start a conversation, or introduce yourself if you don't know each other) The conversation is obviously about school stuff - funny teachers, the different subjec…
/r/seduction16/05/15 02:55 PM
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Phoning would be best, lots of guys are afraid to call, so they text instead and you don't want to be like every guy
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 07:54 PM
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It's all about discretion, with girls you don't know, it's best to start the conversation yourself -exhibiting your best traits (simply because you want to) then being silent when you feel like it. If your conversation was v.good and engaging the girl should attempt to talk to you, because she wants to hear more of what you have to say. Another thing I like to add in is exclusion, that is I can spark up conversation with everybody around that person that I'm excluding, then eventually they try t…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 04:28 PM
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Good point when it comes to new crowds, you'll have to be more open and reveal yourself so that people know who you are. For me I always introduce myself to others, become the centre of attention, tell personal stories, just so I'm established in the group. After the dust has settled over time, those who like you, will gravitate towards you (allowing you to use silence, to create an aura around you) Those that don't aren't worth my time so are met with no more than common courtesies and general …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 01:39 PM
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Ah the inquisitive female mind.... You were just there chilling, relaxed, confident. At that moment. You became THE Man There's something about confidence that men and women both admire, moreso those who can be confident when their alone. It naturally attracts people. Reach Richard III, confidence is by far the most attractive trait anyone can have.
/r/seduction09/05/15 09:36 PM
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Talking to random girls from class is the easiest especially if their alone. Just talk about your classes, your weekends (or the up coming one) and make light hearted jokes Just make sure you speak to her again when you have the same class if you want to get closer to a friendship
/r/seduction21/04/15 08:21 PM
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Another helpful aspect is those Ask Reddit threads '50 year olds of Reddit what are your regrets in life?' 9/10 times never speaking to more girls is always so high on that thread - we shouldn't just read about their regrets we should learn from them. Never live a life of regret
/r/seduction18/04/15 04:31 PM
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I have baby face, so I grew a moustache and goatee
/r/seduction18/04/15 04:19 PM
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I'm doing well socially nd with work partly thanks to this subs motivation. However Im still abit poor with my approaches. Just like you I had a girl eye fuck me whilst I was sat in a cafe whilst she walked by, I was mad annoyed then like 5 mins later she walked back but like across the road. Instead of then approaching her I discouraged myself by saying she wasn't that good looking -_- Look at me being choosy with my 0% romantic life haha I'm being abit ballsier and following the 5 second rule …
/r/seduction17/04/15 03:39 PM
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How to get girls in night clubs ? Haven't seen any guides for it, my current method is abit shoot and miss = dance well and sometimes girls approach me or just talking by the bar
/r/seduction06/04/15 06:49 PM
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Read the FAQs. Basically get hobbies, pick up girls where your comfortable eg.Book store, cafe = situational pick up and yes you can do it by yourself, I've been doing it by myself with success
/r/seduction30/03/15 05:30 PM
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Gonna try it, when a randomn girl stares at me I stare back but my natural expression just looks quizzical hahaha, a smile would be better
/r/seduction30/03/15 05:14 PM
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Nice job! You didn't fuck up by sticking with your friend, it just got confusing I guess, in situations of doubt I tend to stick to the safer option - losing friends on a night out is shitty
/r/seduction28/03/15 10:08 PM
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How about starting with non - sexual small talk, looking for any body language/ flirting that could indicate escalation is ok. In conservative countries it's risky so gradual escalation would be important.
/r/seduction26/03/15 09:54 PM
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nice thanks man It seemed as I'd done that, I plainly said "I thought you were good looking and wanted to introduce myself" Another one that is said to be good if your not sure if the girl is keen - in a joking manner say "Just to confirm your single and like hot guys right?" - Its all about setting the tone for a sexual relationship
/r/seduction25/03/15 07:39 PM
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FR?
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:39 PM
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This is what I got from the article too, we live in a patriarchal society guys just have to make the move, with strong confidence.
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:12 PM
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Yes! FRs are invaluable, however its only worth posting the good ones for example a beginner might post his first sets and going into good detail. We read alot of stuff on this sub about HOW to be seductive, FR's show us how successful the technqiues are.
/r/seduction24/03/15 02:02 PM
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Good read. Just thought I'd make a point on the "awkward silences". Silence inbetween dialogue is normal, silence can be just as important as conversation infact. eg. Making a girl want you more by ignoring her with your silence (only sometimes though) Sometimes we speak alot of shit when it isn't needed, taking a breath, just enjoying the atmosphere and scenery of the park is quite relaxing. Speak when you have something worth saying, not just for the sake for speaking to fill silences.
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:58 PM
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Drake - 0 - 100 is that song for me, I also use it as an alarm sometimes, having 'that' song will give you a get up and go attitude
/r/seduction20/03/15 09:19 PM
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After doing a couple approaches the most difficult phase between 'OMG there's a hot girl what do I say' and finally walking up to her. Once you walk up to her and engage in a convo, relax. You have her attention, now its just about friendly small talk - I normally act situationally, so if its a book store we'll talk books. Then finally I say I'm short for time (typically a lie) and say if she gives me her no. we can talk later Remember by having the balls to approach a girl your doing better tha…
/r/seduction20/03/15 09:16 PM
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Dude you sound just like me, that's infatuation talking meaning that you've built up this fantasy of the girl that most likely isn't true. How I get on with lots of things in my life is simply admitting - Lots of people dont care about you (outside close friends and family) Your here feeling emotional over a girl that's focusing on her own life, you do the same and focus on your inner game. Go for a jog, play a game, go out with friends, work on your CV. Do what you need to do to pick yourself u…
/r/seduction20/03/15 02:42 PM
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I can one up this, I stupidly asked out a flatmate after a ONS so as well as seeing her everyday, we all decided to get a house together for the next college year, before I asked her out... I handled it poorly, acting v. awkward at first, then I decided to fake it till I made it acting like we were still normal friends eventually it worked and we're back to normal now. Although sometimes admittedly it feels like there could have been something there you just have to move on, plus it makes me lau…
/r/seduction20/03/15 02:33 PM
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Do girls really just readily give away their numbers, or is it based on an initial attraction/ rush of the moment type thing? So far I haven't had many probs getting numbers, but replies from the girls are always hit or miss.....
/r/seduction18/03/15 06:26 PM
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Yeah, I found r/seduction through browsing TRP out of curiousity. I browsed it for abit, read some links but I didn't see anything that bad. I abandoned it once I found this place though
/r/seduction15/03/15 07:40 PM
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the 3 C's man "Clear, calm and confident" I'm also religious so I always remind myself that God's written my story already, I'm simply living it out but in order to live it out I have to be prepared to take action
/r/seduction15/03/15 07:21 PM
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Some people man.... Nice work yo, I've been reading your other posts about your progress, just keep doing what your doing
/r/seduction15/03/15 09:34 AM
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Thanks, I'm trynna get up to 10 doing one hopefully everyday, its the only way to succeed man
/r/seduction15/03/15 09:00 AM
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haha I did think my shakes in the bathroom were ridiculous! So I recited my mantra to myself and thankfully they completely stopped.
/r/seduction15/03/15 08:59 AM
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Yeah I couldn't even tell if she was serious or joking because we kept talking... Like you I respect when a girl is taken/probs not interested but nect time i'll pursue just to see where it takes me, kinda reminded me of this : http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/14qyxo/fr_met_a_girl_on_the_street_three_days_later_i/ I'd like to think I wouldnt get with a girl who has a BF, the risks are too high
/r/seduction14/03/15 11:48 PM
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Wait, so what do you think is the point of an FR? I'm genuinely curious, Im new to this sub :)
/r/seduction14/03/15 09:46 PM
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-Sometimes I do this, have 'off days' but they aren't my thing, they ruin my work ethic during the week. So what I do is reserve sunday as an 'off day' but it still has a routine. Sunday routine : I write in my diary (yh haha its just a list of pros and cons from my week, it reminds me that I'm progressing in life) tidy my room go to church and end the day with a jog. Reflect on the week just past, proceeding to write down a list of what I should do next week (it can be anytthing, from abstract …
/r/seduction14/03/15 12:30 PM
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Well I pick up one or two good tips, use them for afew days to see how they work. If they're good I add them to my game and look new tips online, rinse and repeat. I can see why it would be confusing at first, there's some much knowledge but its like how the fuck do I apply to my game?! hahaha
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:23 PM
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Dude, seriously focus on the road, there're loads of places to meet women...
/r/seduction13/03/15 04:44 PM
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Hi! I've just started using this sub myself. I literally just got a girl's phone number, it was in the library and naturally I was nervous just like you. I'd been watching a vid on SimplePickup (good youtube channel), about Bitch anxiety which basically states "We make excuses not to talk to the girl, therefore we're bitches".Ironically I watched it laughing, because I never thought I was a 'bitch' until I struggled to approach this girl. I made up literally a million excuses not to, then realis…
/r/seduction13/03/15 03:05 PM
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This and OP all you hand to do was jokingly pull away one of the girls who was in the sandwich with your friend. Honestly if it was me, I would haave left my mates too it and gone to the sidelines to sip on my corona, maybe talk to the other peeps there, my mantra - I dont give a shit and neither does anyone else "and easily considered the loser" - OP when im grinding with a girl, unless my friend is in a fight or something I'm oblivous to what there're doing. You consider yourself a loser even …
/r/seduction13/03/15 10:35 AM
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Especially Grandma.
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:47 PM
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its pretty simple, just learn their language
/r/seduction11/03/15 03:45 PM
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Good points. Also don't over complicate it, most of my flirting is situational eg. Girl : "Why do I feel so hot?" Me : "Probably because I just walked into the room. I tend to have that effect on women" So just be on the lookout for good situations to throw in a flirtatious comment. Also whenever I have to leave a girl, I always joke about how much she'll miss me
/r/seduction11/03/15 12:02 AM
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Great read. definately saving this. Im like you, i try to be a gentleman - not just to get girls, its just my nature really, sadly it seems as an 19yr old most of my peers just want to get fucked and drunk Whats funny is I've been this way throughout school/college and it sometimes attracts girls even though I'm not trying to be seductive - damn it I was too sexually oblivious to even notice them coming on to me at the time
/r/seduction10/03/15 10:05 AM
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I just got emotionally destroyed by a girl afew months ago - fling gone wrong I got over it by admitting to myself she never cared about me and that more importantly I shouldnt ccare for those who dont care about me To quote Shakespeare "The world is a stage and we are all actors" I wanted to stop acting like an emotional bitch so I did, you need to quit acting bitter and act like someone that rejection doesn't phase, heck you love it you know why? It gives you something to learn from
/r/seduction09/03/15 07:38 PM
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"more stressed" "less confident" - the crux of your problem right here. Go back to what you were doing before - working on self-improvement, career goals, fitness, hobbies, and when you feel ready try your luck again good luck bro
/r/seduction09/03/15 04:43 PM
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Even though their attractive girls, in their eyes they are just girls - so talk to them like their just girls
/r/seduction08/03/15 04:17 PM
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Good post, I like this subreddit mostly because yes revolves around self improvement moreso than it focuses on girls. It encourages you to embrace what's important to you (religion,family etc.) but also as you pointed out having the balls to step out of your comfort zone and working towards being the man you want to be.
/r/seduction08/03/15 12:49 PM
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The 1st one seems to have been your best bet, but it got progressively worse from there, focus on the 1st girl think about what went right and how you could apply that when you go on the prowl again. That is how you return to a positive state, think about what went right, it sounds like the others just weren't up for it, which is fair enough - sounds like a shit critique but do you think you do anything diff with them compared to the others ?
/r/seduction08/03/15 12:40 PM
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You know those good looking, naturally charming guys you sometimes see? I was talking to one of them about girls, assuming his game would be tight. Out of nowhere he drops the bombshell, he's been rejected by 6 girls in ONE night, that's righ believe or not it happens to them too. First thing I read on here, don't focus on your rejections, focus on what they taught you, it would help you and us if you honestly, told us how you were rejected and what led up to the rejection.
/r/seduction08/03/15 12:40 AM
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Building how from this, why dies OP have to tell his frat? Im not American so I don't understand Its important you get somebody from your friends house to support your claim that the girl was up for it Do you have any texts showing she was cool with you after the event? This saved Ghomesi when he was accused of rape I'd err on the side of caution with contacting the girl, you missed a big comfort test (sounds like she felt awkward about it) when she tried to meet up with you, but maybe if you re…
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