Hi,

I've been reading a lot of this sub, but since few months, I barely even come here, because well... quality of this sub has gone downhill so much that I was actually not improving, by reading it. So I figured out I'll just say what I want to say and if you agree with me, that's fine. If not, then it's also fine.

First of all, the most important:

You or your case is not special. Those all tiny small details you all describe in the "problems" with your girls are usually just meaningless and most of the cases can be solved in two ways: 1. That girl does not like you. 2. You fucked up. I know I generalize here a lot, but it's cold harsh truth. You can see dozen of posts where people describe everything and explain it by saying: it's different with her - no, it is not. You just believe so.

2. There is very easy and simple way to start talking to girls, regardless of your experience, age, look, religion, country etc. This is so simple that most people don't believe it. You know what it is, right? It's going out and talking to girls. It starts here. All of it, whole seduction begins here. The more girls you talk to, the more experience you have and better you become. The first step is the hardest one, but also the most encouraging and satisfying. Even first sex doesn't feel as good as first approach.

3. Stop living in your mind - live in the reality. That girl you talked to for 2 minutes and now you're thinking about how to name your kids... Ye, we all do it. But very few actually realise that it's just our thoughts and imagination and it has nothing to do with the reality. Reality is the fact that you talked to her for 2 minutes and she might've like you or not, but regardless you have her number and you should call her. Which brings me to next point...

4. When, where, what...

When to call her? When the fuck you want.

Where take her? Where the fuck you want.

What to do with her? What the fuck you want.

It's really simple. You feel like kissing her? Go for it. You feel like she might go to your place? Say: "let's drink wine at my place".

Don't complicate things. Don't overthink it. Stay calm and don't panic. If she doesn't respond for few days, you might start to worry, but then ask yourself: "Do I want a girl who gives no shit about me and ignores me for no reason?".

5. You are a man. You are in charge, whether you like it or not. Society is weird and no girl will approach you, you have to do it. And girls like it. Girls like brave, confident men, who are not afraid of them. It turns them on. Use it on your advantage. Use everything on your advantage. Find something positive in every situation. Be confident. Always be closing. Assume attraction - all of that shit works. Not every date has to be perfect, nothing is ever perfect, but all you can do is man the fuck up and deal with it as best as you possibly can.

And last, also very important, but people are scared of that thought:

6. Girls LOVE sex. You can see by all of the dirty pictures on /r/gonewild and basically everywhere. There are ways to make girls your private whores and they will enjoy it more than you do. Girls will do things for you that would make her parents puke with disgust, but if I learnt anything is that... anything is possible.

I know all of that sounds like from some bullshit motivation book, but I also know it works for me.

Wow, thanks for the gold kind stranger! It makes my tuesday much better!