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| 1 | It's Saturday of Halloween weekend, which means it's the best night of the year. Don't stay in. Go out solo if you must.I say this in a way that is constructive and being in the game for a few years: 3-4 hours isn't going to kill you guys. We get it, school is important. But if you really need that 3-4 hours, you're not planning your time properly in the first place. Are we studying to live, or are we living to study? | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Club dancefloor openers?Keep in mind success is something you're there to achieve. Getting a number isn't successful if it doesn't lead anywhere. This is know as reactions vs. results. From personal experience practicing this for years, there's a more heavy reliance on looks, something they don't really mention in any mainstream dance floor seduction guides. To improve your openings in general, at the minimum make sure your grooming is there, followed by working out and getting bigger. Eye contact, eye contact, eye con… | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | 100 Days of Seduction Day 9: No great story....Honestly, mad props. In "Think and Grow Rich", most successful people are consistent with their progress. That said, just make sure you're learning from your mistakes and that you're going up the stairs instead of down. I'm doing a 1,000 cold approach challenge (Currently on 72 recorded approaches) and I started in September. I'm not consistent, therefore I'm not successful. You've got momentum, keep going! | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 04:50 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Wear Tighter Briefs Every Time You Go OutNothing particularly crazy happened, but I was out at a paint party at my college the other night. Things got a lot more turnt than I expected. An hour after the event starts, I see this girl I briefly talked to the other night from doing photography for their organization. She's a lot more receptive of me tonight. We start dancing, and she grabs my hands and starts dancing. We start getting closer, and pretty soon I'm doing a forward grind. My little soldier starts to salute, but wait, what the… | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 10:44 PM |
| 2 | I am 27, still Virgin, Chennai, India. Is there a hope?Little bit of advice: If you want a girlfriend for the sake of just having one, you're not going to have a good time. Figure out what's really causing this feeling, and then act upon it. | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 10:43 PM |
| 3 | What is your wax on, wax off lesson for improving seduction?Something I learned from "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" is that character (Morals, hobbies, personal views) is the backbone of technique (Methods, steps, etc.). The one thing I learned from studying dance floor seduction was sign holding for two years. In that time, I was able to point at cars and wave and them while dancing. On the dance floor, I use this same method to point at girls, then hold out my hand and go to town. Going back to my first point, this won't work if you don't ha… | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 10:28 PM |
| 2 | The bouncer is your biggest friend and allyA bouncer at a club that I frequent actually teaches pick up. Gave me his business card and everything. I'm not surprised, given this guy is 6"4 and is really buff. Also has a silver Tahoe. | /r/seduction | 11/03/16 12:51 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Cold Approach Cute Girl, Amazed at Response and Almost CriedSince September not including approaches beforehand. | /r/seduction | 03/03/16 05:15 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cold Approach Cute Girl, Amazed at Response and Almost CriedDang, I must be bad then. I've approached almost 75 and gotten 1 make out, 2 dates. | /r/seduction | 03/03/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | If you could build an inner game "kit" (a bundle full of advice, sayings, realizations, and books) what would be in it?Love this! | /r/seduction | 23/10/15 02:28 PM |
| 1 | My Friend Gave Me Some Wise Advice on Cold ApproachingIf you hesitate on approaching, you're not going to get any girl's #. | /r/seduction | 23/10/15 02:09 AM |
| 32 | If you could build an inner game "kit" (a bundle full of advice, sayings, realizations, and books) what would be in it?So much stuff that could be done, but for an inner game "kit", I would recommend: Models by Mark Manson - The modern day version of pick up. The Natural by Richard La Ruina - Give you some perspective on how to refine your natural game. Dance Floor Seduction by Skills - Seduction focused primarily on dancing. Helps get people get out of their comfort zone physically. Influence by Robert B. Cialdini - Helps understand psychology behind some interactions and how you can use them The Art of Happine… | /r/seduction | 23/10/15 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Is she cheating? Guys I need your help please!If her name's Jenny, I'm afraid it's already too late. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I Might Have Skin Cancer (A Continuation of "You are going to die")I'm not too paranoid of it, but it's the possibility that got me thinking pretty hard about what I've done recently. | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Seddit how much has your life change since you found seddit?Without this Seddit, I don't think I'd have the courage to approach girls openly. My confidence has carried over to my organization I participate in, and many members have taken notice. Without this Seddit, I don't think I would have the confidence or social techniques required to talk to and approach women. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 10:43 PM |
| 0 | Sedditor Locator 2015Fresno | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 06:06 AM |
| 1 | You are going to die.Oh hell yeah, I know that much. It's such a liberating experience. I feel like it's sort of like entering the matrix; you're in a world where only you and a few others can break society's normal dynamics, and everyone around you is trying to convert you back. But, once you enter, there's basically no wanting to turn back. Least that's how I see it. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 04:45 PM |
| 0 | You are going to die.Cor blimey, mate. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 04:42 PM |
| 12 | You are going to die.Could be better as well, mate lmao | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 06:57 AM |
| 23 | You are going to die.Well, I'm on a 1,000 college girl approach project. So far, I'm at 7. Technically 8, but didn't officially start until last week Friday. Out of 7 approaches, I've gotten 5 numbers and a FB message invite. Out of those 5 numbers, 3 responded, but stopped responding the day after. Still to text 2 more and 1 FB message. Set up a date for Friday for frozen yogurt with one of them, but she didn't seem to care. But, if it goes through it's a win for me. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 06:28 AM |
| 3 | I want a life that consists of partying , drinking, having alpha males as friends, and sex with hot girls but I am afraid I am too old to ever be in a fraternity, how do I make this a reality now?My friend, I need to really tell you this right now. You don't need to join a social fraternity to get all of that. I just got out of one recently because, after 3 years, I realized my fraternity brothers weren't the greatest people to be around with in terms of personal development. Your better bet, with age being a factor, is just making new friends on campus, join a club with similar interest (filled with girls of course), and continue doing that. Personally, when I was in my fraternity, it d… | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 04:39 AM |
| 117 | You are going to die."Now it's not too late" Dang, this hit me kind of hard. I started doing cold approaches yesterday from 2 months of not doing it, and reading this just reassured that I was doing life right. Thanks for this OP. | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 04:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Cold Approach from 10 Days Ago Turns Into NumberDairy plus alcohol, not the best choice haha | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 03:40 PM |
| 0 | I'm going to a club in an hour for the first time, have any advice?Cold approaching! I know it's probably a little harder in the club given all the music, but you can't really lose anything with nothing to lose. You'll stand out from all the other guys in there, but that can be said about cold approaching in day or night game. Side note, I think I was supposed to mentor you a long time ago haha let me know if you still need anything. | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Conversation Topics Guide."Have you ever eaten (dog...)?" Pro tip: Try to avoid that topic if the girl's Asian. Serious note, this guide is great! | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 11:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fucking joke. And I want to change.Idk if anyone's mentioned it on here, but learn a music instrument. Particularly, piano and guitar and good ones. In my opinion, a part of people's shitty confidence comes from a lack of competence (Skill) in something meaningful. If you learned something that you enjoy and can also be shared with others, it helps not only develop yourself as a confident individual, but also build a relationship with people in general. But that's just my opinion. | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 09:56 PM |
| 0 | I'm a fucking joke. And I want to change.If you're not the typical gym guy, I'd suggest doing a program I do right now called 5x5 Stronglifts. Great for people getting into working out. | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Seddit Locator 2015Fresno (Central Valley) | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Going to OKCUPID made me realize whats important!I did an experiment on it. It's personally not for me. I like the personal interactions better. This doesn't apply to everyone; I feel like doing the computer is an excuse for me not to go out and approach women. Plus, since I LOVE dancing, it prevents me from doing that with girls too. If you know online dating is holding back your self development, stay away from it. In my opinion it should be a supplement, not a replacement. | /r/seduction | 01/08/15 05:52 AM |
| 0 | All you kids out there under 18. Stop reading this subreddit and go out and play.Who's to say that we cannot be the catalyst for the new age of dating? This post contradicts everything that /r/seduction stands for. Now we have become mainstream society and we're telling people under 18 how to think and behave. Just like mainstream society, we are keeping them in a box that they cannot come out of until we say so. We need to stop the cycle, and that starts with allowing people of all ages and join the sub Reddit. If anything, we can at least teach them that good conversation … | /r/seduction | 30/07/15 05:57 PM |
| -2 | ONLINE DATING RULE NO 1Rule #2, Doesn't matter, had sex. Edit: Guys, it's a joke. | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 08:31 PM |
| -1 | Just seen the cutest girl ever on the street --> depressedYou asked for qualifications, I gave you them. Again, you're being a real shit head. That, or some really good troll. And for the record, not everyone is born with the ability to seduce ladies without some kind of canned guidance at first. In fact, I'm starting to think you posted this shit just to call attention to yourself and shit talk on everyone here. You don't need advice, you just want to boost your ego over everyone here. Seriously, get the fuck out of here. | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Just seen the cutest girl ever on the street --> depressedSee, that's the problem right there. Anything that's slapped with PUA in anyone's eyes is considered dark magic. Again, what qualifies you to call something creepy? As for qualifications, this year 5 lays including a new FWB. To be modest, it isn't a lot compared to a lot of guys on here. But, I know I'm going to right direction, and it wasn't because I shot down every person who tried helping me. Also, what's up with this whole "Let the anger flow in you" attitude. Are you trying to be some kin… | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Just seen the cutest girl ever on the street --> depressedReading your responses and I just wanna say this: Sup little keyboard warrior fucker. Seriously, nothing gets me angrier than the sight of someone asking for advice and then shooting everyone down saying their advice isn't good enough for them. Wake up and smell the outside world you POS. You've got no qualifications on what qualifies as creepy. Get this attitude off your chest and just do it. Don't pretend like you're 100% non creepy. Nobody is. So get over it. You wanna keep making excuses, fi… | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 08:52 PM |
| -2 | Are there FWB date ideas different from GF date ideas?Guy with FWB for 7 months here. Personally, it depends on the person. In my case, I like treating her like a special friend, but nothing romantic. I believe you need to acknowledge that you're more than friends, but not anything serious. Sometimes I'll get food and we both cook it. That way it isn't just "Netflix and chill" all the time. | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/8/15Piggy backing off this. You may feel that a high school relationship is the most meaningful thing at your age. And it really will. But when college hits everything else starts coming into account (Living habits, beliefs, standards) that girl you were heavily invested into can flip a 180. It's not uncommon. Just keep in mind you'll have plenty of time to look for a girlfriend in college. That said, learn how to talk to people, lift, learn how to play an instrument (Big one here), and, most import… | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 02:26 AM |
| 5 | [FR] So I just approached a gorgeous girl sitting down with her PARENTS.A gangsta-ass nigga plays his cards right ...well, least you played the best to your abilities lmao that's some genuine bravery man. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 05:16 AM |
| 0 | I need help. I think I'm fucked up inside. I've been browsing this sub for three years, and I've made zero progress.I know how you feel man. I've been in that place. The first year I studied this stuff I made zero progress following outdated advice. I felt like a total loser. I think everyone's nailed it on advice. If you want any mentoring, I'd be more than willing to step in. Just let me know! | /r/seduction | 08/07/15 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Seducing Celebrities?Of course they're just people with fame and money. But deep down, you would think that a ton of guys have tried using mainstream techniques on them. | /r/seduction | 03/07/15 03:14 AM |
| 0 | Seducing Celebrities?It's just something I've always wanted to try. I get the whole seduction process, I just want to know if anyone's had any previous experience and if there's anything different to look out for. And to me it'd be really cool to be able to say "I took this celebrity with me to a bar". And no, I'm not putting them up on a pedestal if that's what you're asking. You seem to have experience given it seems "simple". Why not elaborate ^ ^ | /r/seduction | 03/07/15 02:34 AM |
| 29 | The best way to boost your inner game every day.Read "The Game" by Style No sex in awhile Suddenly I got her number PSYCH, that's the wrong number! | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 07:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Don't Forget Your CondomsThanks for the story. I'll definitely try to ask the front desk for "things" next time. The last thing they want on a cruise ship is for "stuff" to spread around the passengers, right? | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 09:18 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Don't Forget Your Condoms2/10 with rice? | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:32 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Don't Forget Your CondomsI'm Chinese, so more like the egg roll. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Don't Forget Your CondomsFingered her, got a handy. You don't think I snuck into a girl's washroom for nothing would ya? ;) | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:12 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Don't Forget Your CondomsForgot to add this detail: She didn't want to do anything else unless we had sex (Don't ask me). | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:08 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Don't Forget Your CondomsA wise man once told me "According to the DNA test, you are the father" | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 07:27 PM |
| 0 | I'm 19 and I've never gone on a date in my entire lifeDo something hands-on. Billiards is a good place to do something active. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 08:47 PM |
| 0 | I'm 19 and I've never gone on a date in my entire lifeWhat's your goal with this girl? One nighter, potential gf? | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Suggestion: Seduction MentorsSend me a message and we'll get started ^ | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Suggestion: Seduction MentorsGo ahead and send me a message. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Suggestion: Seduction MentorsTry creating a new post lmao | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Suggestion: Seduction MentorsWe'll get started as soon as you send me a message ;) | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 04:15 AM |
| 0 | Suggestion: Seduction MentorsI agree, and at the same time, we have to remember that these newbies might be too, well, beta to even ask for mentoring. Just posting for advice in this sub is already acknowledging they need help which is usually beyond what they're asking for. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Advice for a College bound 18 year old guy?Also correct. Woo Bulldogs! Message me we need to meet up | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a College bound 18 year old guy?Yessir. Por que? | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 05:57 PM |
| 0 | How to approach and what to say ?You need to become insensitive to rejection. This only works by exposing yourself to the fear, and coming back out of it (A.k.a., keep approaching). I've personally met a majority of my girls at nightclubs, but I personally started with house parties. | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Going to sound weird.. How to make friends. Seduce yourself into a social crowd.Jesus, this is Gordon Ramsay's AMA all over again. TAKE HIM UP, OP (And other person)!! | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 03:38 AM |
| 0 | Advice for a College bound 18 year old guy?Just being outgoing and talking to everyone isn't enough. If that were the case, I would have been banging every girl in the dorms my freshman year. | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 03:37 AM |
| 3 | Advice for a College bound 18 year old guy?Going into college? Here's some stuff I wish I'd done my Freshman year: Read the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People". After you read this book, always be reading a book, whether fiction or non-fiction. Reading increases intelligence which, simultaneously, allows you to be smarter with girls. Learn what it means to be cool, calm, and collected. Also learn how to be non-needy. Learn how to make an emotional connection (I.e. "You know, after getting to know you, I realized you're pretty … | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 03:33 AM |
| 0 | "I'm not giving it up tonight" and F-close 30 minutes later. Is this a bad start if I want to LTR a girl? **couple pearls of wisdom inside**1st, take a step back. You were likely caught in the moment and feelings got mixed with your testosterone. Given she just got out of a relationship, I'd say don't make a big deal out of it. If she brings it up, I'd try lightly brushing it off first. If she does it again, say "We're adults, and we both understand that we can act mature about this issue". | /r/seduction | 08/06/15 03:09 AM |
| 8 | Any tips to get into 'best-self' mode?Serious: Don't masturbate before the party. It'll kill your sex drive during the party. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 09:27 PM |
| 0 | I thought I fucked up.For four years and being a dating coach, I gotta say you're acting pretty immature about this whole thing, bro. | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 10:42 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Cute Asian Girl at the ClubI like your sarcasm. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 01:05 PM |
| 3 | No friends...Hypothetically yes. In my opinion, it's not impossible, but you'll notice that it can be a lot harder just because it (somewhat) demonstrates that you're a loner. If this is the case, the first thing you should focus on is making friends first, then going out and seducing, but that's just my opinion. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I Made a Book for Beginners at Seduction, Particularly Inner Game and Some Outer GameMy credentials come from me studying and practicing life coaching. Particularly, I coach college students that want girlfriends and don't know where to start. The main thing about coaching these guys is figuring out their bad behaviors and changing them into better behaviors. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 01:54 PM |
| 1 | I Made a Book for Beginners at Seduction, Particularly Inner Game and Some Outer GameThis book provides the basics of building an identity as well as good habits that keep a person mentally and physically healthy and genuinely happy. Most of these sections are backed with science (Sadly, much of it needs to be cited). These are also the common traits that many alpha males possess that make them scientifically more attractive to women, as well as genuinely making that individual happier and more confident in themselves. In other words, this book is aimed at making the individual … | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 12:28 PM |
| 0 | Step one in AA/being alpha – a very very basic stepShow pics of yourself doing exciting stuff if you haven't done so already. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How to be a good wingman?Here's a story about my personal wingman story. Hopefully you can learn a thing or two on what it takes to be a wingman. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Has anyone subscribed to Simple Pickup's Project Go? Was it worth it?Not to be rude, but he's asking for a testimony, not tips. I'm pretty sure there's more than enough of that advice floating around for him to see. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 12:42 AM |
| 0 | What do I do when I'm a huge pussy and a beta male?Hey OP. If you need someone to coach you personally, feel free to send me a message. I'm not the most qualified coach, but if you've got nobody else you can go to, feel free to reach out to me, bud. Like /u/Thorvonpreston said, picking up girls should be your last priority, and I can definitely help you get over that hump. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 05:14 AM |
| 2 | People if seddit, what was your first ever approach like and how did you feel before/during/after?Before: Shitty During: Great After: Awesome I guarantee you're going to get a lot of that haha | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Few things to remember, in order to improve this subRead more seduction posts. Don't go out, because you're not ready. If girls don't like you, it's not your fault, especially if you're a nice guy. Excuse me while I play my 1000th hour of Skyrim. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Almost 2 Years Since I Started Studying SeductionThanks man. I just feel like in two years I could have done way more drastic improving on myself. Now that I know what to do, I'm aiming to do 10 so I can prove to myself that I'm competent with conversation haha | /r/seduction | 17/03/15 06:24 PM |
| 1 | My Actual Beta Experience Today (A Story for Newbies in Seduction)Hunter X Hunter lmao | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 10:00 PM |
| 1 | My Actual Beta Experience Today (A Story for Newbies in Seduction)Please read the edit I made. | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 08:50 PM |
| 1 | My Actual Beta Experience Today (A Story for Newbies in Seduction)Honestly I don't do this very often. It just happened that I did it that day. Last time I did something like this was a year ago when I wasn't too much into seduction. | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 06:12 PM |
| 1 | My Actual Beta Experience Today (A Story for Newbies in Seduction)I've been getting laid with a certain girl for months; that isn't the problem. My story was simply about how I felt super crappy about doing a 6 hour do-nothing session. | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 01:59 PM |
| 3 | My Actual Beta Experience Today (A Story for Newbies in Seduction)I know where you're coming from. I just felt like 6 hours of it was a bit excessive. Doing the same thing at least. | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How do I become a good wingman?A good wingman is pretty much a booster to any interaction. Wingmanning goes beyond just conversation. From my experience being "wingmanned", the girl I brought back to my place was getting hungry. While I was escalating with the girl, my friend did some cooking for us. At the end of the night, he pretended to fall asleep so that me and the girl...well. Another time my friend had a particular eye for a certain girl at Salsa Club. While we were dancing, I grabbed her hand and spun her to my other… | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | My best club going yetThis story made me laugh a ton. Good job man! Now that you've gotten that goal, raise the stakes and see if you can get something better. I challenge you and your friend to do that. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 02:28 AM |
| 1 | What are some cold hard truths you've learnt from seduction?It takes time to be good at seduction I didn't learned this lesson until now. When I initially started to study seduction I was caught in the old school methods of it (Mystery Method). It took me awhile before I realized it wasn't the style for me. It probably works for someone else, just not me. When I decided to shift to natural stuff such as Gambler's stuff and Models, I realized it was going to take a lot of patience to change my old habits into ones that were positive and genuine. The more … | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 02:25 AM |
| 6 | How to talk to everyone in college?Start with a plan. You could read tips here and there all day, but it won't make sense unless you have a sensible whole to strive for. That said, lay out what makes a person "sociable" compared to someone who isn't. To start you off, sociable people have technical conversation skills. For example, if I'm talking about eating Chinese food at the mall, you can pick out two things from the conversation which is Chinese food and mall. When I was living in the dorms, I looked for people with three th… | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 03:55 AM |
| 4 | advice for an inexperienced 18 year old on calming his nervousness down. Help me please guys ?Chicks don't like guys with long hair, just don't do it. I have to disagree here. Some of the more successful seducers such as Gambler have long hair. I don't think it's fair to judge long hair people based on 3 friends you've known. That's like saying "all hamsters are evil because the 3 that I've held have bit me". That said, not everybody can pull off long hair. To be fair, every man should try the long hair at least once while we're young and have hair we can grow that long. If it doesn't wo… | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Book Recommendations for helping me get better at life!!! Pls Need help [20 M]First, breathe. Now, ask yourself: "Is there anything physically stopping you from doing all of this stuff?" This graphic will help you greatly It's called "The Five", which acts as a guide for what you should work on. The reason why you're probably feeling miserable is because you haven't really shown yourself love the past 3 years. Stop waiting, start now. Even if the journey is long, it's always going to start with day 1. PM me if you need to. I'm here to talk. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 02:47 AM |
| 29 | [FR] 4AM 7 Eleven run to F-CloseHahaha this genuinely made me laugh right now. Good job! Why in the world was she at 7-11? | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 03:20 AM |
| 1 | [FR] K-close, self-improvement pays offHoly shit. I thought I knew what unstoppable confidence was until I read your FR. Wonderful work man. What are you currently working on in self-improvement? | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 02:57 AM |
| 2 | My club game needs an upgradehttp://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/268eiz/dance_floor_seduction_a_beginners_guide/ I'll address the majority of your questions. Bear with me, it's gonna take you a minute to read this whole post completely. First need to address this: Don't be the guy that goes up to random girls and starts grinding. This won't get you anywhere, except with girls of low quality. Dance by yourself for a little bit if you want, but don't be caught doing it 24/7. You don't want to fall into the trap known a… | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Too Shy to say hiBut after our date which I thought went really well Would you mind telling us what happened on this date, if it's nothing too bad? | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 11:42 PM |
| 7 | Who of you goes out clubbing solo?With small bars, just brush it off and continue what you were doing. This rule applies to both small and large venues. I go clubbing a lot and get blown off here and there, and the best thing I learned was not making a big deal over it. I would say the pros of going solo is you aren't being held back by your friends. You also have an excuse to meet other people. When you go on the dance floor, girls will be less hesitant to approach you because it's not as intimidating. The bad part is a lot of … | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 11:31 PM |
| 1 | She rarely text back now...I still want to be in touch with her. This is you secretly saying you want to be with her. It sounds like you tried playing games and now she might be playing games with you. You already kinda fucked up. Just move onto another girl. You'll have plenty of opportunities to make friends with other girls that respond to you better. | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 06:06 AM |
| 2 | A Job That Helps With Seduction - Sign HoldingJust checked out your channel. Wowow, somebody semi-famous commenting on my thread. Woooooo! I seriously don't get why more people get into it. It's a pretty fun job honestly. | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Feel like my confidence has vanished and affecting interactionsI feel like you'd be happier if you got your work organized first rather than trying to make them independent factors. You'd be exerting just as much effort, if not more, into trying to only increase your social confidence first instead of doing them both simultaneously. Give my advice a go before you try anything else. Trust me :) | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 05:11 AM |
| 1 | A Job That Helps With Seduction - Sign HoldingThe Central Valley haha those sign holders fail. Chances are they probably aren't checked on regularly. | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Feel like my confidence has vanished and affecting interactions...comparing myself to students who seem more intelligent and such... I am an interesting person and I have a bunch of positive qualities... You say that you don't have any confidence, yet in the second quote you seem pretty confident in yourself. I think you just contradicted yourself. Check yourself, mate. On a more serious note, get a planner and write down your days hour by hour. I feel like your confidence is shrinking because your non-confidence in your work is dragging down your social co… | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 03:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Got a Girl's FB Right After I Got Done StudyingIt wasn't even 3 minutes; it was more like 30 seconds of small talk, introduction, and then told her she was cute. She didn't seem too put off. My exact words "This is gonna sound kind of weird, but I think you're pretty cute. Just thought I'd let you know". I think she's kind of shy so she didn't know how to react. But, she kept asking me questions about myself and we joked around as I walked her to the building. Got her FB info, and she kept asking me lots of questions, so I cut it off and use… | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!Fresno | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Anyone got some tips for dancing?Bottom line, instead of criticizing, you should have come up with a follow up question. You came off as super rude, and everyone's gonna bust your balls for it. Everyone who downvoted your comment did for a good reason. Welcome. | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Really not a bar/club person, where are some more relaxed settings to meet women?Hahaha this made my entire day ;D | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Anyone got some tips for dancing?This is why some people second guess themselves when it comes to helping clueless people like you. I'd suggest thinking twice and giving him thanks for even reaching out to you, rude boy. Now, I know you're not a helpless boy and can type in "dance floor seduction" on Youtube. So go do that first. If you want technical basics, here's my quick guide of what I personally do, but again it's different for everyone. Eye contact is a big one. Use eye contact to engage with dancing with a girl Smile If… | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I dance? (never been to a dance floor)It's all baby steps, amigo. Focus on being comfortable dancing alone on the dance floor. I personally don't try to go for groups because they take up too much of my time. As /u/recycleablebantha put it, if a girl sees that you're having fun she will naturally gravitate towards you. This dance move, particularly, shows non-neediness Some basic stuff I'd consider: Don't be a dancing monkey (Dancing really crazy for attention) Focus on self-enjoyment. Smile. At the end of the night you're just anot… | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 05:57 PM |
| -1 | 6 Common Myths of Dance Floor GameYou can't hear her unless she's talking into your ear. Most dudes that can't hear try to hold a normal conversation on the dance floor. It's not for that, it's for short statements. Trust me, firsthand experience at Vegas clubs and raves. | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 08:15 PM |
| 1 | While in Korea I learned a neat trickI'm a somewhat white-washed Asian. Does that count? :o | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Ruined my nightNewbie tip: Asking girls to dance isn't as successful as getting one to dance with you on the dance floor. If she's sitting down you'll have to approach her with your approaching style (Cold, warm, hot, direct, indirect, whatever approach). | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what's a book which helped you improve your game?The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living His Holiness the Dalai Lama and Howard C. Cutler The book explains how to handle emotions, and why certain ones develop in the first place. It's definitely a spiritual book, and will honestly make you a happier person. | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What personal quality about yourself, are you trying to improve?Right now I'm currently working on fitness, cooking, mixology, and photography. Also learning that watching TV isn't so bad as long as it's done in moderation. Particularly, The Walking Dead is a good convo topic, but more importantly fun to watch. | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How important is being able to danceSorry, forgot to add this step. After you put her hands around your neck, put your hands on her hips. Then after a few moments you hold her hands and slow things down. | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 05:09 PM |
| 14 | How important is being able to danceTo answer your question: In a club or party setting, it's helps a LOT to know how to dance. That said, you don't have to be the flashiest dancer. You need to be the dancer that's having a lot of fun. Not the most, but enough to where girls won't be afraid of you approaching them (Overdancing can and does happen a lot). If you want to get into Dance Floor Game, I'd suggest watching this video of a guy doing 50 different dance moves. Look at the ones where the guy looks like he's having genuine fu… | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How important is being able to danceYou don't need to be the flashiest guy on the floor. That's a newbie mistake. You need to stand out, express, and have a good time while dancing. More importantly, you need to make eye contact and make indicators of interest (Pointing fingers, hand gestures, mirroring movements). | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 06:05 AM |
| 5 | Hey guys, I updated "The Five".Was gonna PM you, but then I saw this. WOW! Didn't realize how big of an inspiration I was to you. Keep up your work wherever you go. I'm going to keep giving this diagram to everyone that needs it. It's already inspired one person to cook for the first time in 22 years and another to work out for the first time in his life. I wonder what'll be next! Thousand times upvoted man. | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Hey guys, I updated "The Five".I wouldn't say it's replicating it. Rather, you could say this is an under-the-microscope version of Maslow's Hierarchy. For example, MH tells you that Love/Belonging are needed in a person's life such as friends, family, and sexual intimacy. "The Five" addresses that by having like-minded friends and social hobbies. | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Appreciation Vs. FlatteryYou're on the money with that one. | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Help Yourself by Helping OthersThanks. I'm starting to learn a lot about this guy everyday. He pretty much just needs someone to motivate him for now. Eventually I'm going to encourage him to be self-motivated. It's always a beautiful thing to watch someone progress both physically and mentally because of something as simple as showing them the way. | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 11:26 PM |
| 1 | I approached and I didn't die.I came here just to say the title was absolutely hilarious and inspiring! I'm going to use this to inspire others to approach in all honestly. Content-wise, good job man! Just keep it up. The first is always gonna be the worst, but then after you do it for awhile the first one won't even feel like crap. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 04:56 AM |
| 1 | I went for itAwesome man!! Keep it up!! | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately.Bwahaha this made me laugh so hard! | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately."I've got this awesome ice cream at my place" | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Just Moved Into My Dorm This WeekRule of thumb for any area: The larger the area, the less chances your "reputation" will get hurt. My assessment: You're social, but not experienced with women. You don't like going out to parties, which is understandable. You also don't want to talk to girls within your own dorm, which is also understandable. Solution: Find a hobby that you like, and then find a club on campus with that hobby. You'll meet girls through that club. It's a little hard to pinpoint what you need to work on given you… | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Remove Things that Stop Your Motivation Instead of Trying to Motivate YourselfAlright, so in that case give me some constructive feedback on how I can improve. Your criticism is barely helping me. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Remove Things that Stop Your Motivation Instead of Trying to Motivate YourselfYour point? | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Want to go out clubbing by my self tonightYou missed the main point in the video. The person says if you incorporate similar movements then it looks more attractive (I.e Doing moves that extend your arms out rather than moves that don't such as the robot). I know, the good dance looks absolutely hilarious, but you can obviously see what the video is trying to say. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 10:52 PM |
| 17 | Picking up girls with my 15 y/o cousinYour cousin is seriously going to go far. Keep me updated with future adventures! This is really hilarious and inspiring! | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 04:15 AM |
| 1 | (more of a relationship type question) Should I cut off the friendship between me and my ex?My best advice to you: Find out why you broke up in the first place. Then, find those interactions that lead to breaking up, and don't do that (Like roller blades). If there's absolutely no way to prevent the interactions that lead to breaking up (which I doubt), then don't go back in. Give it another chance with the newly acquired knowledge. You got this. I believe in you! CVA | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 07:00 AM |
| 1 | I'm getting numbers but no responses. What am I doing wrong?What I got from this: Possibly too many run-of-the-mill questions. Ask something that's more engaging, like travels, the exotic unknown, adventures, etc. Hope that helps! | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 06:38 AM |
| 8 | Want to go out clubbing by my self tonightYo Airstrike! First thing's first, get a general idea of what an attractive dancer looks like by clicking here . Now then, for the more technical aspect. Since you're more of a beginner I would recommend watching this video by Richard la Ruina . Inner game: Go out and just have a fun time. Don't worry about what anybody thinks there as long as you're having genuine fun. I made a quick guide on dance floor game. You can find the routine I usually recommend by clicking here Get your feet in the wa… | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Hello sedditWelcome, Andrew! My name's Andrew. Nice to meet you, Andrew. A more serious note, if you think it takes balls to post on here, you've got a lot of work ahead of ya mate. Particularly, sounds like your inner game could use work, but again I'm just assuming based on your post. Hopefully you find what you're looking for! | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 06:39 AM |
| 2 | [FR] [F-Close] Seduced Girl with Light-Up Tie and Ice Cream at Nightclub, and Serious Wing ManningHaha I was thinking about making a wing man guide in all seriousness. I'm thinking it could help my game out from a different perspective. Not really a comprehensive guide on it except tips here and there | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 12:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] [F-Close] Seduced Girl with Light-Up Tie and Ice Cream at Nightclub, and Serious Wing ManningTrust me, I'm gonna do the same thing when it happens to him lol I learned a ton of wing manning from that night | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 03:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR] [F-Close] Seduced Girl with Light-Up Tie and Ice Cream at Nightclub, and Serious Wing ManningIt's called Superior Dairy. It was recommended in Yahoo Travel as one of the top 10 places to get ice cream. More specifically, it was chocolate. | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Club dancing: should I be swinging my hips?If you have a console, a good game to play would be any of the Just Dance games (As PolishedIvory pointed out, dance games are good to copy and apply). This guy will help you with club dancing if you're really new This person, Skills, specializes in it as well This guy, Richard La Ruina, really knows his shit Watch them in order so you get the proper perspective, which should take you from the dancing to getting her off the dance floor. Ultimately you should use your hips if it's really you. Swi… | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 03:35 PM |
| 1 | In need of some advice for the dance floor.I'm going to assume this is high school. I'll give you the quick run down on how to invite a girl to dance, and then continue the interaction. Make eye contact Smile Point/gesture Walk over to her Put out your hand Spin her around, then put her hands on your neck. Hold both her hands, and slow things down. This creates the feeling of being in a moment while the environment continues to move fast. If you're trying to end on a high note (We'll go with emotional connection), tell her this: "Wow, I … | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Club Game Materials?Hey Nail, I'm one of the lurkers that really specializes in club game, particularly dance floor seduction. I can definitely see where you're coming from with club game, and it's no easy feat because girls pretty much expect to get hit on there. Look up Richard La Ruina and The Skills Method on Youtube. They know their stuff. Club Dance Lessons on Youtube will help you a lot with dancing in the club scene. Take some kind of social dance class. You'll be able to hold hands, get into close position… | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Moving Too Fast vs. Too Slow?It's college, so yeah. | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Moving Too Fast vs. Too Slow?Long situation short: Met girl on a Friday. Texted her. Set up a movie date for Tuesday (Bad idea, but it worked out anyways). Stopped texting her on Tuesday and waited until movies to talk to her. Immediately put arm around her in movies. Invited her to my place for ice cream. Made out. Chinese Food Thursday. She invited me to billiards day after. Told her to pay for billiards while I covered for Chinese food. Texting slowed down Friday, billiards canceled. Saturday I tell her we can meet up at… | /r/seduction | 02/09/14 12:03 AM |
| 3 | What to do when girls generalise you as a "player"I've always encountered this shit test. Just read your advice and my god that advice deserves gold. | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 11:31 PM |
| 1 | I feel as though all hope is lost.Just a heads up: I'm in two fraternities (Phi Delta Theta social, Alpha Kappa Psi professional) and I can honestly say that rushing a fraternity will only help if you're already good talking with people in general. Sure, you get more exposure to girls, but if you can't hold a conversation with them consider your rep as a Greek non-existant. That said, while you're rushing I would highly suggest learning game with your pledge mates. They're rushing for the same reasons you are: Becoming a part of… | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 03:18 PM |
| 1 | How to not bomb at a nightclub and lifeIf you want some practical advice, then here: There's a difference between reactions and results. What it sounds like you're going for is results ("I don't get why guys with no routines can walk up to girls and start dancing with their bodies) Truthfully, those guys are probably failing. What you need to do is make a genuine connection by physical talk, not just with your dance moves. Source: I study and practice dance floor game like mad, The Skills Method: Secrets of Dance Floor Seduction | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Don't know where to take your date? Try "The Die Date".Oh my god, I'm dying of laughter right now hahaha!!! | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Going out to bars/clubs alone?To answer your question, it's not weird at all going out alone. In fact, if your sole purpose is to have fun and bring in girls going out alone is more of an adventure. It's a little nerve racking at first, but you'll eventually get accustomed to it. Personally I do better with socializing when I go out alone instead of sticking around my friends. The mindset you should be in is this: Everybody around me is my friend, therefore I'm never alone. | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Going out to bars/clubs alone?Is this in America? Because I don't think you can have a few drinks at 19. | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Dance Club GameRaves like EDC are a different branch of Dance Floor Game. Some of the same concepts apply (Having fun, dancing, not being creepy , etc.), except raves have a "love everyone" sort of atmosphere. A dance club has a more formal-ish environment, so the energy levels are a lot lower than raves. Your mindset shouldn't be about getting girls, rather enjoying yourself. That's the best mindset you can get into when doing game. Source: The Skills Method, I specialize in Dance Floor Game | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Dance Club GameTo add on, make sure you either smile or make a fun gesture to the person so that you make a good first impression rather than a neutral one. | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Tried to kiss a girl, she gave me a "nice try" lineIn BigGeek43's defense if a girl is grinding on you for an hour the entire night, there's obviously some (enough) attraction to make a move. People don't just stick to dancing with one person at the club unless she knew everyone there (doubt it). That said, dancing (fun) is a seduction killer if done for too long. What might of happened was that you were dancing with her for so long the urge for anything sexual went away because it was satisfied by dancing instead. Source: Girlchase on Dance Flo… | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Don't know basic fashion? Watch this video.Ironically, I was just there this Saturday lmao | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Don't know basic fashion? Watch this video.It's pretty good actually. I just became one of the Facebook page editors for the club! | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Don't know basic fashion? Watch this video.No kidding?! Go to Encore Night Club? | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Except for having confidence, decent looks, being funny and not being poor, what else should a guy have/know to improve his chances with beautiful girls/women ?A side note: Develop hobbies that you like, and then go out and find gatherings or places that harbor girls with the same interests. | /r/seduction | 22/07/14 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Except for having confidence, decent looks, being funny and not being poor, what else should a guy have/know to improve his chances with beautiful girls/women ?You need general knowledge about the girls you want to be around. A guy who only plays World of Warcraft will have less knowledge than the person who plays Xbox, PS3, Gamecube, and Nintendo 64. When you have more knowledge, you'll be able to connect to the beautiful girls more often then not. This will also develop your opinions on certain topics which will make you more attractive (I.e. Xbox is way better than PS3); Know the difference between a geek (WoW) and a nerd (Video games in general). T… | /r/seduction | 22/07/14 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Don't know basic fashion? Watch this video.Just a reminder: This video isn't aimed at a specific genre. Rather, it's aimed at people who simply DON'T have direction in style (Hence the title). To everyone saying you'll look basic doing this, come to Fresno State University. You would see why these fashion tips would make you stand out from 80% of the crowd, along with getting more-than-usual compliments. | /r/seduction | 22/07/14 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Don't know basic fashion? Watch this video.Girl dressing you = Not being a leader = The girl's version of a dream guy, not your version of who you are Dressing needs to be a reflection of you. It's fine if you can get ideas from girls, but don't let them dictate what you wear (I hope I'm understanding your last line correctly) | /r/seduction | 22/07/14 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Don't know basic fashion? Watch this video.Can you give specific examples of why you think the video is BS? Also, just because it doesn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work with others. That's probably the #1 rule from Neil Strauss that cannot be stressed enough. | /r/seduction | 22/07/14 03:43 AM |
| 2 | My First Experience with a Needy GirlIdk if I agree with that. I mean, basically you're saying I should lead her on until I bang her then go cold. I'll find another way to woo hoo without leading a girl on lol | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Pickup on dancing/club game?http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/268eiz/dance_floor_seduction_a_beginners_guide/ To answer your questions: Generally I like to make eye contact, then a funny gesture. Once I start dancing with them I start to kino escalate. Once I kino escalate I like to get them off the dance floor and talk to them from there. It could be two things: You bothered them too much, or it's a shit test. If it's a shit test, tell her "That's funny. I'm not that easy". Old, but gold. Without a proper diagnos… | /r/seduction | 30/05/14 08:47 PM |
| 7 | Ok..how do I dance in clubs?Hey Advicepls_1! Your best bet at learning how to dance in the club is the watch video tutorials on Youtube. I could tell you to dance like nobody's watching, but you really wouldn't be able to get a visual. The video below will give you basics as to how to dance to EDM/Pop music in general. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xmg7R-KrsXo I'm assuming you're here to learn how to dance to pick up girls, so I'll go ahead and give you the absolute basics to dancing with girls. Too much energy is a bad … | /r/seduction | 30/05/14 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Going out to a club tonight.Go out on the dance floor and just dance like nobody's watching. Seriously. Have the mentality of being able to have fun without any girls, and they'll naturally come to you (If that's what you're trying to do). | /r/seduction | 24/05/14 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Dance Floor Seduction - A Beginner's GuideI started noticing the dirty shoes when guys were pulling girls off the dance floor. The girls would look at their shoes, an I'd always see the dirty shoes when they did. | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Dance Floor Seduction - A Beginner's GuideI know what you mean. When I first started going out to clubs it was all about grinding. Take away the grinding and you're left with people who don't know what to do (With the exception of us haha) If you're going to slow turn, make sure you follow up with another fast move because the atmosphere is pretty fast-paced. I just started using salsa moves in the middle of hip hop songs, and it's a lot easier for a girl to go with it once you're already dancing with her. | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Dance Floor Seduction - A Beginner's GuideI should probably add that in there. "Expect to hold the weight of the woman as she may not know how to do a proper dip" | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Dance Floor Seduction - A Beginner's GuideReally? I rarely see it happening here in Fresno. Maybe a salsa club, but not a Top 40/Hip Hop club. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 10:27 PM |
| 2 | When Should You Stop Studying Pick Up?I'm thinking about that a lot. However I feel like I'd only qualify once I get laid with 5 girls in 1 year. Until I can master that, I'd be nothing more than a life coach. | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | If I had one minute to beam a message from current me to teenage me, it would be this:AAAAAAAAAAAMEN to #7. People need to realize techniques can only get so far before you realize you need to be fit in order to maintain attraction longer. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Anyone followed Neil Strauss' 30 Day Style Life Challenge?I read up to day 8-9. Back then it was really good, but now it's outdated. I didn't get that much better with women. It was only good to get some insight on them, nothing more. So I guess you could say my attitudes somewhat changed. I prefer the Girlchase Diagnostic quiz and using the free eBook they give to supplement what you need. It's more for natural game, and there's 4 of them I believe: Beginner, journeymen, advanced, and master. It's just like the Stylelife challenge, except with more cu… | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Still a noobie after over half a year of constant approachingJudging by how you're comfortable with approaching people, you definitely are doing something incorrect in conversation. Learning how to have a genuine conversation is the easiest thing to learn. Instead of going out and trying to hold a boring conversation, try hanging out with some chick friends casually and keep improving the interaction from there. Apply all the techniques recommended here to them. Learning conversation starts with friends first, then the field. Here's a genuine conversation… | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Girls who don't contribute equally to a conversationI just read up on this topic a few days ago. Assuming she is interested, you need to get her to invest in you. Pull off the bored look. If I'm right it also sounds like you always try to break the awkward silence by talking to her. If this is the case, pulling off the bored look will make the girl nervous as to whether or not she's doing a good job at maintaining interest. It works for me a majority of the time. Remember, this is assuming she's interested. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Club game is somewhat obnoxious to me, I need your help to set my mindset straight.Don't get me wrong, it's useful. That said, there's a lot to read. Maybe add a TLDR? | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Club game is somewhat obnoxious to me, I need your help to set my mindset straight.Welcome. Many times negative mindsets grow because you're not succeeding as much as you want to. So just keep consistent with baby steps and eventually you'll get over this negative mindset completely. | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 07:16 AM |
| 2 | So, You Are In High School? Then Get Off This Sub Reddit!I respect where you're coming from with this. That said, it's actually good that high school dudes recognize they have a concern early and want to change for the better. I honestly wish I had this kind of stuff when I was in high school so that I didn't start off college real awkwardly. Why not read on this Seddit where the community is pretty honest with one another? | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Club game is somewhat obnoxious to me, I need your help to set my mindset straight.Holy smokes. Where did you pull this from? | /r/seduction | 14/05/14 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Home Run with an Engaged GirlI will. Thanks for slapping me into place jda | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 11:27 PM |
| 14 | Club game is somewhat obnoxious to me, I need your help to set my mindset straight.Hey Complexmind! I know how you feel. Approaching people in the club and trying to dance with them was really hard when I was like you. Also, an "invite" is really her saying she wants to dance with you. I'll give you a preset dance approach you can practice next time you go to the club: To get over the pigeon-hole mindset, when there are multiple girls on the dance floor, simply go up and start dancing. Don't mind the environment, but don't look like you're dancing into space either. Don't get … | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Home Run with an Engaged GirlIdk. I mean it's weird. She's not really "engaged" since it's arranged so she can do whatever she wants before it and really decide whether or not she wants to be with him. She said she's been really thinking about letting it go since she's only 20. | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 08:28 PM |
| 2 | If you could give one bit of advice since learning about pickup what would it be?My advice comes from a guy known as Skills (He's really big on dance floor game): The easiest way to give yourself an advantage at game is to diet and workout. Your physical appearance is the easiest thing you can change about yourself. It gets you out of the house, and it's also a very healthy habit. If it ever came down to two people with the same level of game, you can bet your ass the buffer guy is gonna be chosen over the other. BTW: Stronglifts is a good workout program for those of you wh… | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Favorite kino moves listMy favorite would have to be any I use for Dance Floor Game. Disclaimer: This isn't how to attract them; it's how to sustain it through kino. Key erogenous spots to remember while dancing with a girl: Neck, area below neck, hips, lower back, inside of arms, inside of wrists. (Not all of these moves involve erogenous spots) Grabbing hands. You do this when you're getting a girl onto the dance floor after a break "Let's go dance some more" Grab hand, lead her on (People do this in relationships, s… | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 09:44 PM |
| 1 | A Quick Tip on College Game from Cajun's AMATry making a new thread. This thread isn't meant for all of Cajun's questions lol | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 05:15 PM |
| 1 | A Quick Tip on College Game from Cajun's AMAWhat does this have to do with the advice given by Cajun? | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | It's Been 1 Year Since I've Started to Study GameI guess what I meant to say was giving compliments to every single girl I found attractive lol | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 09:54 PM |
| 7 | It's Been 1 Year Since I've Started to Study GameCertainly. "Your hair is really nice today", putting them on a pedestal, basically kissing up just to get benefits. | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Hot Babe + Cockblocks = NopeWell, you got the # haha it's just gonna be an uphill battle to get to where you want | /r/seduction | 06/04/14 11:18 PM |
| 1 | What I've noticed from living with women at universityWeedkillar, I think your success comes from becoming Alpha instead of being Beta. It didn't come from the douche bag persona, it came from leading and making girls chase you rather than the other way around. It was probably coincidence your attitude just happened to be of a Alpha sort of trait. Maybe you should reconsider what your actions are really doing, rather than assuming the douche approach. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 05:27 PM |
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