I've seen a lot of guys on here crying and complaining about how they're too nerdy/ugly/stupid enough to pick up chicks, and I wanted to chip in a little of what this place has taught me about why your past doesn't really matter.

Growing up in high school, I did the nerdiest shit ever. I was a team chess state champion, a moderator for Runescape, and even collect antiques. I metal detect for fun and went dumpster diving for some of my senior year of high school for fun. If I wasn't doing any of that stuff, I was playing video games with my friends.

But while I was obsessed with my dude-dominated lifestyle, I never had the chance to address my girl obsession. I kissed a few girls here and there, but nothing really beyond that. I was pretty frustrated.

In college my freshman year, I managed to kiss 1 girl in the beginning of my fall semester. After that, no kisses until July despite me trying my hardest, asking for girl's numbers, trying to get them to go to the movies, I even started to forcibly hug some girls just to see if that got anything going. Would I ever get another girl to kiss me?

It wasn't until I hit my Sophomore year of college that I really started to see results. I had finally picked up a book on seduction and that got me going. I turned an ugly self of me into someone I could be proud of.

I'm not saying I'm the greatest at seduction. Hell, after a year I finally started getting into cold approaching. In October I've approached 50 girls with no results, but at the end of the day I felt more confident about my ability to change.

So dudes, if you're skinny/ugly/fat/nerdy/awkward, just know it's never too late to change that. Ever.