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Bruh correcting their grammar and completely ignoring their points isn't valid criticism.
/r/seduction19/11/16 01:48 PM
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What the kid meant is if she assaulted him he will defend himself. You can't really "immediately assault someone back" if we're talking about the legal definition of the word. It's just self defense.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/16 10:53 AM
2

Well not everyone knows the exact, original source of jokes and tropes ya snob
/r/seduction09/03/16 10:42 AM
2

Damn son pull your head out and look at the world around you; a lot of women have done great things and more than you have or ever will.
/r/seduction01/03/16 10:37 AM
3

Have someone else take your picture. More attraction points for doing something cool/interesting. Plain pictures are best done professionally. Or you can do the poor way (not recommended!) and stand your phone upright on something, set a timer and get into place if you really have no one who can take it for you lol
/r/seduction31/01/16 08:41 PM
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lol whether or not she has emotional problems, it doesn't matter. If she can't hold her end of the bargain when it comes to meeting up or scheduling stuff she ain't worth the time. Fool me once shame on me, fool me twice go fuck yourself!
/r/seduction30/01/16 08:40 PM
2

A little over $8 here in California after taxes. Really shitty.
/r/seduction25/01/16 10:02 AM
1

Republicans in a nutshell
/r/seduction02/01/16 08:15 AM
10

It's just coming on too strong. Send one message and wait til she responds. If it's been a while you can send a second message and if she still isn't buying it then move the fuck on
/r/seduction30/12/15 10:45 AM
5

I think when he means telling jokes he means like situational, in the moment jokes. Relevant to the conversation, mocking one of the surroundings, just stuff on the fly, you know? Not like jokes you heard before or read online, although if you are good at telling one or two of those it can be pulled off on a date
/r/seduction22/12/15 10:12 AM
5

I've had mine for 3 years :'( Then again it's just to pull a tooth down...it's almost there. Teeth are pretty straight now
/r/seduction15/12/15 01:29 AM
7

Or just move on and forget about her. I'd say it's the more mature thing to do.
/r/seduction12/12/15 02:15 AM
1

I need to get it for, er, a friend. What stores should I look out for?
/r/seduction12/12/15 12:28 AM
2

First one is actually defined as skinnyfat
/r/seduction11/12/15 08:24 PM
21

But more often than not I'd argue most women want a man who is strong and works out
/r/seduction11/12/15 04:14 AM
2

She wasn't for you anyways, keep improving and don't waste time on those who treat you crappy/don't care for you
/r/seduction11/12/15 04:11 AM
3

No it's the implication, I'm not actually going to rape them
/r/seduction10/12/15 09:44 AM
2

Same logic applies, just the reverse. But do exercise on top of eating healthier (aka eating more). I mean it probably won't be easy for you but hey nothing you really do is. You gotta really want it
/r/seduction06/12/15 05:11 AM
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If that is true you need to change it now. Like NOW. Control what you can. Diet and weight are things totally decided by YOU. If you're fat and ugly wouldn't you rather be just ugly? Or fit and ugly? (You might not be ugly but do you get my point? Go lift dammit!)
/r/seduction06/12/15 04:45 AM
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Well at least you're self aware. However you're not really short, you're about average male height. I mean I'm 6'2" but I'd say shortness is only a crutch initially...if you actually talk to girls 9/10 of them will put the height shit behind them once they realize you're cool and personable. And the way to get cool and personal is to get really interested in multiple hobbies and to talk and converse with whoever you fucking well please. Practice may not make perfect, but it will build you up. So…
/r/seduction02/12/15 08:04 AM
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And you're ok with this..? I mean by all means keep living like that but if you don't want to die alone maybe consider completely changing your lifestyle. At least avoid being indoors too much and avoid jerking everyday...you can start there. Maybe eat cleaner, workout and groom better too. Just get the ball rolling to being a better man.
/r/seduction02/12/15 07:06 AM
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Sex No sex You choose
/r/seduction02/12/15 04:02 AM
1

I think it isn't a bad mindset to have. But the priority should be to have fun and you shouldn't act like the night was wasted if you DON'T get laid. Just go have fun OP
/r/seduction02/12/15 04:00 AM
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fuckin sick meme bro everyone knows your memes are the best
/r/seduction29/11/15 04:10 AM
4

Damn dude you must be yolked as fuck to do that
/r/seduction15/11/15 10:34 PM
26

Bacon your Lettuce on her Tomatoes got it
/r/seduction15/11/15 04:50 AM
6

wtf no because they make women laugh and make them feel comfortable and happy. The vibe you give off, the stories you tell, the life you lead. Almost anyone can have game, just got to form a good life and practice
/r/seduction20/10/15 09:13 AM
1

Times are changing, not much we can do about it. Generations are changed and influenced by the world around them. Don't blame the people of the generation blame the things that formed it.
/r/seduction15/10/15 06:11 PM
1

Our culture as teens and young adults don't like being blunt. It's an extra hurdle we gotta jump
/r/seduction15/10/15 05:44 PM
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It is about bettering people here. But you're not special for asking one of the most frequently asked questions. The answers have been found long ago and still apply today. You can find those answers and information in the sidebar/search function. No one came off as a dick about it, we're directing you to the right place. Chill.
/r/seduction02/10/15 07:32 AM
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When I read step 5 this is immediately what I thought of haha
/r/seduction29/09/15 05:58 PM
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It's true. Feel free to geek out, play video games, nerd-out over Star Wars lore (me). But ya gotta do hobbies that most women would think is attractive. I also ride my bike, play beach volleyball, and gym a lot. Things that most "normal" girls would relate to.
/r/seduction28/09/15 08:46 PM
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Some girls will find that funny, definitely something that can be used to your advantage
/r/seduction25/09/15 11:01 PM
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*Elementary teacher ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction24/09/15 08:41 PM
5

ut yeah youre right i wont do that anymore i reached a week without soda today Hell ya keep it up! And an IOI is an indicator of interest. You can find what those are in the sub's sidebar. Lots to learn in the sidebar.
/r/seduction22/09/15 05:30 AM
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You need to lose weight and groom homie. No one cares if you're not getting laid. I know it seems like they care, but they all have their own issues they have to think about all day. BUT if they see you putting in work, eating healthier and losing weight, I can guarantee you the first person who notices and comments on your hard work you will gain 80% confidence. Cloud 9. And as you lose weight and fit better in clothing you'll notice more IOIs and girls peeking at you. Work on yourself before t…
/r/seduction22/09/15 03:46 AM
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Build your self-confidence. Work out. Groom and stay hygienic. Do hobbies you love. Talk to random people without being outcome dependent. Talk to girls and try to get rejected.
/r/seduction22/09/15 03:33 AM
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OP did you not see the top post on the sub today? SIDEBAR SIDEBAR SIDEBAR. Read FAQ #1 homie
/r/seduction22/09/15 01:50 AM
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First off go to a busy bowling alley. You might have to wait for a lane, so you can sit down and talk for a while during the wait. Sit close to her and start with light touching of her wrist/arm/shoulder on certain points or when you emphasize something. Definitely be in the moment and don't make this mechanical...touch her when you want to for the most part, show her you want her. Of course don't overdo it. I then like to brush my leg against hers during conversation and eventually leave it lig…
/r/seduction19/09/15 11:43 PM
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You don't. You be yourself and focus on making things as fun as possible for yourself and others, that should be enough to stand out. Don't do anything to impress, do it because you enjoy it.
/r/seduction19/09/15 06:16 PM
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When it comes to compliments, I keep them scarce. But yes you wanna throw in one or two early on to define your intentions. Be BOLD and don't worry about the outcome too much.
/r/seduction17/09/15 10:08 PM
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A mix. A stew so to speak. Yeah let's pretend you're making a stew of your flirting tricks. Each flirting trick is a different ingredient, so when you work on perfecting this meal you add all sorts of things to make it blend into one. So when you scoop out just a little it's different each time. Yeah this is lame but you get what I mean? Use eye contact. Touch her wrist. Twist her words into sexual innuendos, get her thinking about sex. Notice the IOIs, tell her not to look at you like that. Jus…
/r/seduction17/09/15 08:26 PM
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That is it, thanks for linking it for others to watch.
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:47 AM
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Use light escalation at work. Don't want to do anything that could make you lose your job/ruin your reputation/forever mark you on your record/get you in jail. Light stuff. Touching the wrist, arm, back. Eye contact, laughing, teasing and joking around. Stuff you usually do when you first meet a girl. Save the more intimate stuff for the bar/dance floor/other activities/bedroom. Work, for the most part, should be for working. Depending on how much downtime you have maybe you can flirt more but t…
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:25 AM
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I think it was the Nick Sparks video where he goes over that. If you put the pressure on her to talk it tenses things up, kind of sexualizes the situation even though it may not even be one. She'll start blabbing and you can take it from there. And giving your own input, making statements, and occasionally using "how, why, where, when, or even a "whaattt??" makes you a person engaged in a conversation rather than just listening to a story/bio/whatever. Oh, and don't forget to smile and laugh (la…
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:18 AM
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Why? OP is having success and I don't like the way he does it. So the advice is terrible. /s
/r/seduction17/09/15 01:51 AM
1

Or go on Tuesdays, not a bad day to go anymore thanks to MAKONNEN and Drake. Or some bars have been doing Wild Wing Wednesdays. Any day that isn't a Monday night is perfect
/r/seduction17/09/15 01:40 AM
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Yes those all work wonders too. Though that's early-on stuff that you first learn in seduction and also use on girls when you first meet them/first date (although definitely keep using those constantly). I just assumed OP meant escalating in terms of getting past first base. Like maybe he had trouble escalating physically because IMO that's more important.
/r/seduction16/09/15 09:33 PM
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Indirect approach works. But do it to everyone. Talk to both guys and girls. It's better to be the social guy who talks to anyone than to be the guy only talking up girls. Also join clubs, make friends in class, go to socials/events. That's where people expect to meet others. Make friends, get numbers, go do fun things with them (do the inviting) and then you'll get invited to parties and shit.
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:10 PM
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Simply put: you have to always escalate. You can't make out for an hour and expect anything to happen. You have to move your hands around, kiss her neck, pick her up and spin her around, start touching more private areas...make her melt with shit like that. Then ask her to go to a more private place (aka let's go home to watch a movie). If you've been constantly escalating they'll say yes. And of course if she ever asks you to stop doing one of your tricks you take it down a notch, slow down and…
/r/seduction16/09/15 06:19 PM
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Women (and people in general) are attracted to those with passion, motivation and a drive towards the things they love. One of the most attractive traits you can have is passion in a hobby.
/r/seduction15/09/15 05:15 AM
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Have you guys (you and your roommates) talked about how things go down when each of you brings home a girl? This is usually something that should be established the first week y'all move in together.
/r/seduction14/09/15 01:37 AM
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Be the inviter not the invitee. Party should be coming to/with you. Plus if you do more inviting you'll be bound to get invites.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:17 AM
1

hahahaha ok. you doing sprints+long run+heavy lifting 6 days a week while eating 1600 calories a day? Because that's probably what it'll take
/r/seduction11/09/15 11:19 PM
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Well at least you have a goal. Those won't be gone for a few weeks, depend on how intense your workouts are and how much you eat. But I'm telling you, even if you are a bit chubby, if you don't wear clothes that fit you are not going to attract a lot of women.
/r/seduction11/09/15 06:38 PM
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No mindset is the best mindset IMO. But that's basically impossible, so the next best thing is to simplify everything that goes on your head. All that you should be thinking is: "I want to get to know this girl, I'm gonna have some fun with it" and then you just go up and say hi. Take it from there. Keep your brain as fresh, simple and positive as possible. The other factors and possibilities? That's just noise, tune it out!
/r/seduction11/09/15 06:21 PM
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Just holding you back. Wear clothes that fit, just don't get em too tight. Gotta be vulnerable and stop trying to hide things. You don't need women in your life to be happy, they are joining you in your fun.
/r/seduction11/09/15 05:41 PM
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Every single 'successful ' pickup thread on /r/Tinder. Fucking pisses me off.
/r/seduction11/09/15 03:39 PM
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Some do. Man you are cynical. You seem insecure. Work on yourself for a while before thinking about girls. Gym, renew your wardrobe, freshen up and get some hobbies/join some school clubs. Make some friends. It will make sense when the game starts coming to you.
/r/seduction11/09/15 03:29 PM
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Girls want you to talk to them. They put on cute/awesome/revealing outfits for guys like you to notice, compliment and talk to them. Just. Do. It.
/r/seduction11/09/15 07:36 AM
1

you say you wanna hook up but you dont want to do the very thing that happens in the initial contact of a typical college hookup? Wtf?
/r/seduction11/09/15 07:34 AM
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They don't. You clearly haven't been rejected before or enough. Those interactions turn into learning experiences that you then laugh off
/r/seduction11/09/15 07:10 AM
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The whole point of "assume attraction" is to get you out approaching. Guys have to approach. Not that girls can't, but it's so ingrained into society that the man has to approach that you might as well accept and roll with it. So when you assume she is attracted, you carry this confidence with you, a chip on your shoulder. It might be placebo, too...but at least the idea is there. And then...you approach her. You'll know if she's attracted or not. And tally up every "failure" as a success. You l…
/r/seduction11/09/15 06:59 AM
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That's a seller's attitude. Stop trying to sell yourself to her. Be the buyer. Be interested in what she has to offer besides a mouth, tits, ass and pussy. She's a person you know? Just like you, just like me. If you assume she's attracted to you and she is, all you had to do was say hi. Everything else is as easy as walking in the park. If she's not, well that's that. She isn't. 3.5 billion women in the world. Move on.
/r/seduction11/09/15 06:02 AM
1

^ Check the sticky on the front page of the sub, homie
/r/seduction11/09/15 05:52 AM
1

Ask them what day their birthday is and after they tell you that ask how old they will be
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:41 AM
1

If you brought a girl home I feel as if your dad would be proud and would lend you your privacy. Unless he was a complete dork throughout his life I don't think he'd care. Shit, tell him you have been dating these girls and say you might bring one of them by some time. He will leave you two alone...as long as you don't make too much noise haha
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:40 AM
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AKA a rule that really should be taken with a grain of salt (outside the online dating world). You should be dressing/grooming/eating well, working out and doing hobbies to maximize your attractiveness BUT even if you're not a 9-10/10 to women in the real world rules 1 and 2 do not apply. But OP's post is right, pics definitely matter on Tinder and such
/r/seduction11/09/15 02:33 AM
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Ride my bike, go to the beach, gym, play soccer. I also still play Xbox and watch some TV, but that's not gonna get me dates/laid. So I get out at least 4-5 days of the week.
/r/seduction09/09/15 06:34 PM
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Yeah sitting there thinking "what if..." is a shitty feeling. Here's the hierarchy IMO: -You learn she's into you -You learn she's not into you -50 pounds of shit -Sitting there wondering what could be
/r/seduction09/09/15 06:30 PM
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I wouldn't say the dude's shirt on the left is poorly fitted because it's a little loose. However he could find a better fitted shirt, but what he's got on won't be a deal breaker.
/r/seduction09/09/15 07:33 AM
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Lotta cuties in that vid, lol. Fuckin distracting
/r/seduction09/09/15 01:06 AM
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He literally stopped mid sentence and was like "damn she's cute." Didn't give a shit and you know he approached after the vid. Definitely credible
/r/seduction08/09/15 10:47 PM
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I think to some point you can. Especially with online dating you can create just a little rapport. I haven't had trouble doing so. Just don't overdo it of course. Save your tricks for the date for sure.
/r/seduction08/09/15 05:30 AM
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Then that's not the right girl for you. Smoking is a turn off for both genders sometimes, and that's okay.
/r/seduction04/09/15 07:43 PM
0

Look their way, try to make eye contact. That's your best bet. Maybe giggle a bit if you want to make it obvious.
/r/seduction04/09/15 03:25 PM
1

Maybe not hold a conversation, but to be there and at least say words...if you get my gist. I agree, be you and free your mind. Be in the moment and focus less on what you're gonna say and focus more on what the others say and what you want to say.
/r/seduction01/09/15 08:15 PM
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The concept is there but the execution is horrible OP. How about do the same thing and try to hold a conversation instead of being the weirdo who only came up to say hi and eavesdrop. Even if you suck at conversing the people won't think of you as weird as being the creep who stood in the circle for no reason. Putting youself out there is a mini success in itself, but FAILING is the greatest success of all. Failing and learning trumps any baby step techniques geared to make you believe in little…
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:50 PM
1

I feel like we're never gonna get a TL;DW for this
/r/seduction01/09/15 03:24 PM
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You shouldn't be trying to find a signal that shows if a girl likes you or not. If you like a girl from first glance, you should go talk to her and then you'll find out when talking to her if she likes you or not. Or if she's worth your time at all.
/r/seduction31/08/15 11:16 PM
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You circle your hips and explore your hands up and down the girl's legs, hips and sides, maybe up her arms. Oh I forgot to mention. Make sure your dick is on her ass. Not joking. It is the dirty dance, so it's gonna be dirty like that
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:00 AM
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True, true
/r/seduction30/08/15 12:06 PM
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The amount of people who wrote it off as bad advice was astonishing...talking up a few random girls at the mall isn't out of the ordinary. Shit
/r/seduction30/08/15 11:00 AM
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...no. Being alone and having you time is perfectly normal. Staying at home constantly will hold back your progress. Get out there as much as you can, but it's nice to give yourself alone time once or twice a week.
/r/seduction28/08/15 02:47 AM
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People do judge all of the time (in their heads, always judging). But they never actually say anything. Fuck, all of those random people you don't know can laugh at you and make fun of you all they want. Because they don't even know you and on top of that it's stupid of them to make fun of a guy who puts himself out there. Just. Do. It.
/r/seduction24/08/15 03:47 PM
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OP this guy comes from a harsh standpoint but it's good advice. I can understand your situation because you've never been here before but you're just overthinking too much. Try to think less and worry about being "in the moment." Don't think ahead, don't think about what you said, just be content with the present. Smile, laugh, kino, listen and speak is all you need to do.
/r/seduction21/08/15 07:57 PM
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I will admit I haven't taken a lot of action myself, but everytime I do things run smooth. If I had more time and more willpower to approach I'd have a lot more experience. However it's much better to take action and learn how to get better through your own experience, not internet advice.
/r/seduction21/08/15 07:44 AM
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You seem a bit needy. You don't need this hot girl to be happy. Just talk to a bunch of other people in class and be friendly to other people. You never know, she might notice how fun and outgoing you are and start talking to you again :)
/r/seduction19/08/15 11:26 PM
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I was in Reno last week! I'd say if you're young you can try walking around the UNR campus because school is starting soon, bound to be girls around. Tons of parks around too, scope it out there. If you're 21 or have a fake the night game is poppin'. On Wednesday I went to the Imperial for an hour (after an hour wait outside!) and then El Cortez dancing afterwards. I didn't score that night but I had fun. Hope you have a great time!
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:58 AM
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Bullshit dude. Every person is different and I bet most girls would love to go out with a guy who saves money but still goes out once a week. That's as ideal as it gets for girls.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:47 AM
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You don't need to drink to have fun. There are plenty of alternatives to drugs to have a good time. However alcohol does some awesome things and really shines light on certain corners of a person's character, for better or worse. For a lot of people some of their top memories are when they got drunk with a close friend/relative/spouse. And it's because both parties learn a lot of secrets/traits that the other hasn't revealed before. It makes a stronger bond between them. But it's not for everyon…
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:43 AM
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Smile and laugh. Eye contact. Listening to stories. Telling stories. Teasing. Kino. That's all simplified but those are the basics of being a fun person. Gotta blend it all in too, don't be robotic. Practice and practice and it'll become smooth. Basically treat everyone like a close friend. Enjoy yourself and others' company. Don't try to impress anyone. Just go about things for your own interest/amusement, people and girls will follow.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:35 AM
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Also approach and treat everyone like you've been best friends for years. You'll be surprised with how positive they will react and makes everything less awkward. Smile and listen and you'll do just fine.
/r/seduction14/08/15 09:33 PM
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Don't do the whole boycott thing during night game, or at bars for that matter. If the subject comes up, maybe point how you're against the company but try to stay away from politics if you're trying to have fun.
/r/seduction14/08/15 07:22 PM
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This is an awesome write up. Just reading this I know you are cool, collected, genuine and optimistic. Perfect mood/mindset for approaching. Keep it up man, you'll get the results you want.
/r/seduction09/08/15 06:43 AM
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If you get a pretty girl to laugh then you'll find out if you still have a problem or not. Getting positive attention from a good looking gal is usually a sure way to get a good ol' boner. Annnndd wanting to use it as well.
/r/seduction09/08/15 03:03 AM
1

No no no. I mean you can get laid the "cheap" way but it ain't your libido or your hormones. Nah, it's just your mindset. Just try to relax and enjoy yourself. Smile and laugh. Just focus on that to start. Then work into more advanced concepts and such when you're ready.
/r/seduction09/08/15 02:43 AM
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Always works actually. Plus it surprises the guy a bit as well as making it way easier for him to game you.
/r/seduction08/08/15 10:40 PM
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You're outcome dependent. You're worrying too much about results. It's hard at first not to. Instead look at the process. Are you holding eye contact? Are you initiating kino? Are you complimenting too much? Are you composed, engaged and genuinely caring about the interactions? You need to tweak your game so that you present yourself as the best man as you can be. You got to be out to have fun in night game, not to get girls. If you stop caring about results and start caring about the amount of …
/r/seduction08/08/15 10:37 PM
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Nah bro everything we don't know how to handle ourselves is automatically a shit test /s
/r/seduction05/08/15 11:17 PM
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Just a fraction will equal a lifetime of sex and relationships. To put it in perspective even if you only approach 0.00025% of the women in the world (on the basis of there being 4 billion women), you still have approached 10,000 women. And I'm willing to bet any guy rated 4/10 and higher could go on at least 1 date with at least 100 of those 10,000 girls. If you buy into this concept (known as Abundance Mentality), you will realize that there are women out there who are attracted to you. You ju…
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:57 PM
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That's not a bad idea, that will definitely up the excitement.
/r/seduction04/08/15 07:19 PM
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Mall, park, ice skating, lake/river/beach, nice dinner and explore around town. Lots to do, just pick one and start from there. What's gonna sweep her off her feet is you. Make the date about her while having fun yourself. Can't rely on the environment to do the work for you. It helps but the real prize is you.
/r/seduction04/08/15 06:52 PM
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I went (glow) bowling last Friday. I fucking killed it, so easy to escalate. We got to talk while waiting for a lane and then nothing but smiles, teasing, kino and fun once we bowled. Then we left, took her up on a hill above town, made out. 10/10 would recommend as first date
/r/seduction04/08/15 06:41 PM
1

If you're doing any kissing goodbye do it on the cheek. Unless you two are really feeling the vibe and/or move somewhere away from the coffee shop maybe you can sneak a kiss. Get some kino in but usually a first date coffee stop is low-intimacy. But ultimately you have to gauge your feelings as well as hers as to how far the escalation goes. Just smile, listen and respond, and have fun. Don't think too much.
/r/seduction04/08/15 06:35 AM
1

What's the date activity?
/r/seduction04/08/15 06:19 AM
1

clubs and raves
/r/seduction04/08/15 04:08 AM
1

Or eyebrows or upper cheeks.
/r/seduction04/08/15 12:58 AM
2

It'll help in conversation but doing a jam session for a girl won't have her rubbing her pussy in your face. Go for it to make yourself more interesting though.
/r/seduction03/08/15 10:29 PM
2

I recommend easing up on the "kind gentlesirs." At least I hope you don't do it irl
/r/seduction03/08/15 09:47 PM
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Most everything here is known concepts. But "new" posts keep coming and it really helps a lot of the newbies.
/r/seduction03/08/15 02:51 PM
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Alright I'm gonna keep it short and sweet. Look at everything you typed up. You know it's all wrong, right? This is the first step. You're self-aware. Good. Now stop doing all of that stuff. It's gonna be a tough fight, but stay off Facebook, stop worrying about girls. Focus on yourself. This is all you need to do right now. For a few months actually. Build yourself and live a life that fulfills your happiness-without girls. Because they will start to follow. So a few things. Go to the gym. Eat …
/r/seduction03/08/15 06:13 AM
4

Works with both genders.
/r/seduction02/08/15 07:48 PM
1

First of all, it's a numbers game. You can't win all of these girls over, for multiple reasons out of your control. Second, I'd say the best openers are the ones that show interest in her photos/bio. Text about that and thread parts of the convo with relevant stuff of your own. Third, texting is better with younger girls, getting to the point is better with older girls. That's not always true of course but that's the pattern I've noticed.
/r/seduction30/07/15 03:11 AM
1

lol where are you? Was about the same for me. I have no AC in my car, shit sucked ass
/r/seduction30/07/15 03:08 AM
1

I really wanna kiss you right now or "do you wanna kiss me?" This is actually a turnoff for a lot of girls. Surprise her, but make sure she knows it's coming. As in do it when you really feel the vibe but make sure she sees it coming, don't go in too fast. The worst that can happen from a 2-3 second kiss is that she'll tell you she wasn't ready. Just say what you said for the hand situation..."I just really wanted to kiss you."
/r/seduction29/07/15 03:26 PM
3

How was your day? What do you do for fun? What's the craziet thing to happen to you this month? Literally anything that isn't RAPE (Religion, Academics (classwork), Politics, Economy) (also probably got a couple of those wrong but the idea is to avoid dull topics).
/r/seduction28/07/15 08:06 AM
1

Whatever you like, just make sure it can fit the mood. Also be prepared to have different genres so that it can best fit a certain girl. I like all sorts of music, so to have a specific playlist on standby works wonders. Country girl? Country playlist. EDM girl? EDM playlist. Or you can make a playlist full of love songs, but I don't recommend telling a random girl you love her lol
/r/seduction27/07/15 05:35 PM
1

In other words guys, go for girls you are attracted to. Don't waste everyone's time (aka you and the girl) if you aren't actually interested in her. Chalk up another tally if you score but no one will actually care.
/r/seduction27/07/15 05:29 PM
2

Yes, yes, yes. Just leave conversations over text as they are. Don't force the last word or an end to the conversation.
/r/seduction27/07/15 01:28 AM
2

Well sometimes it's good practice. Just know that chances are you won't get anything out of it.
/r/seduction26/07/15 09:29 AM
12

Depends on the vibe. There should be no set rules for "the right time" to kiss. If it's electric as fuck 30 minutes in, don't cockblock yourself because "it hasn't been an hour yet" or "gotta wait until date #2." Nah. Go with your gut instinct.
/r/seduction25/07/15 11:03 PM
1

Semantics. If the girl is a perfect 10 to OP, she's a perfect 10 to OP. Yeah the 0-1 scale is really good, literally no one can be perfect, and 10s are supposed to be equivalent to unicorns. We all know. You're focusing on the wrong things in this post.
/r/seduction22/07/15 11:53 AM
2

sometimes the right one is perfect though. but whatever makes you laugh the hardest is best 99% of the time
/r/seduction20/07/15 06:20 PM
1

I wasn't, just thought that's how it's played lol
/r/seduction20/07/15 05:39 PM
1

I thought you play the game according to how well you know the person judging. Will that person choose the funny card(s) or the card(s) that fit the question best?
/r/seduction20/07/15 06:33 AM
1

Or say compliments in a different way. Simple example: "damn you're beautiful" instead of "you're pretty."
/r/seduction14/07/15 11:49 PM
5

Lol I have, it's a great game. But damn son
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:27 PM
2

216 hours? Bruh...that's like a quarter of the time you've been awake the past two months. Glad you started going out
/r/seduction14/07/15 09:10 AM
2

Girls, like any human, will not analyze the shit out of texts. At least the vast majority won't. She'll basically see: I'm going to gym, 7. Come with me
/r/seduction14/07/15 02:04 AM
1

12 is not enough. You should be doing it often enough that you lose count. Hell, you really shouldn't even be counting. Just approach using the 3 second thing, do it, and don't over-analyze if it doesn't go perfectly. Just...don't give a fuck
/r/seduction11/07/15 03:22 PM
6

People love DD's too. They'll say how great of a friend you are and you can take it from there.
/r/seduction09/07/15 09:26 PM
2

Okay I just hope the security blanket is an imaginary persona a guy can put on as a "mask" ("fake it 'til you make it"). Putting on an actual costume would be just fucking stupid.
/r/seduction09/07/15 08:53 PM
2

There's a time and place to wear a costume. I mean, at a University randomly one day late in the semester (where you've made a lot of friends in class). It could pass if you are that wacky-don't-give-a-fuck guy. But you wouldn't do that more than once. But if you wanted to be who you really are, you wouldn't wear a mask.
/r/seduction09/07/15 08:47 PM
18

"Shy Nerd Gets Threesome" lmao I thought you were going to link Pornhub or some shit
/r/seduction23/06/15 03:46 AM
2

"My best friend? Yeah he's a real cunt." "Oh my god that's so harsh..." me: -_-
/r/seduction29/05/15 02:38 AM
5

Muh genetics
/r/seduction25/05/15 09:06 AM
7

I mean it really could. It'd be so random and ridiculous that you could get any girl to laugh. Kind of reminds me of the guy who went around saying "buttcheese." Seemed to work for him.
/r/seduction27/04/15 05:56 PM
1

I think you need someone to check your brain, it's not working properly.
/r/seduction13/04/15 07:50 PM
1

I wouldn't and I wouldn't care either way if it were true or not.
/r/seduction07/04/15 03:17 PM
1

Proof? Why?
/r/seduction07/04/15 08:19 AM
75

As Mark Manson said, if a girl says "she has a boyfriend," whether it's true or not, the two of you won't be compatible. Don't waste time on girls not interested in you.
/r/seduction03/04/15 07:55 AM
3

>2015 >getting beans at chipotle >mfw
/r/seduction02/04/15 12:23 AM
1

The moves they show off are ok but they are cockfaces just looking to make a buck on this shit.
/r/seduction01/04/15 05:45 PM
2

I think the "experts" need to realize something here...this sub is up to over 200,000 subscribers. Do you honestly think the higher upvoted posts are going to cater to the small percentage of well-seasoned veterans or to those just beginning the game? The OP is going to be a turning point for a lot of people here, especially the newbies. I'd rather see more of these "beginner trick" posts than the "how do I get this specific girl" posts, so not much to complain about here.
/r/seduction31/03/15 01:49 AM
2

lol in what sense? I don't know what to make of your comment my man.
/r/seduction30/03/15 10:35 PM
1

You can fake confidence. Hell, some ugly people have confidence. It's all about loving yourself for your pros and actively working on your cons. Knowing who you are and revel in the life you live without outside validation. That's confidence.
/r/seduction30/03/15 10:24 PM
3

Seriously. Attraction varies so much for each individual woman. Most don't know what they want from a man but what it really is is confidence. So just be confident in yourself and over time it will start to yield results.
/r/seduction25/03/15 10:50 PM
1

I mean...I assume you've kissed/made out before? Dude...a kiss goodbye is like a 2 second gig. You're overcomplicating things.
/r/seduction24/03/15 06:55 AM
3

The highly upvoted ones are usually good, sometimes the highly upvotes ones are shit though. Like it'll be a "no shit Sherlock" post or "ok...that's some nice motivation...but what do I get from it?" And then there's the FRs. They don't get nearly as much attention as they should (unless it's a super special case, those get sent to the top) anymore. FRs are the best learning source here for me. Books and articles and videos help but those are a one-time read/watch. FRs can hold many lessons and …
/r/seduction24/03/15 06:41 AM
2

actually in the case of seduction getting out and practicing helps a lot. Also knowing "success" rates here are even lower than what is a considered a good batting average in baseball helps. A good balance of mixing studying/reading/learning game with actual practice is the best way to go about it. You should be practicing more than studying, though.
/r/seduction22/03/15 08:41 PM
15

RIP
/r/seduction21/03/15 04:05 PM
1

Last time I checked this subreddit was available to everyone. As it grows you're just going to have to get used to more and more beginner posts. Either help them out, keep quiet, or silently downvote posts that you think aren't of value. I don't know what you expect to accomplish by whining about post quality, because that will get you nowhere...guaranteed.
/r/seduction21/03/15 05:51 AM
3

How so? Everyone can take a lesson from some of them.
/r/seduction21/03/15 04:01 AM
12

You: "I'm not really feeling the adrenaline here, I'm going to add another to make this more exciting." Her: "You added a bullet 2 rounds ago!" You: "You're losing the nervous game."
/r/seduction20/03/15 07:17 AM
4

I'm pretty sure everyone knows that move nukes a girl's panties.
/r/seduction19/03/15 02:24 AM
4

I'm looking to transfer to a school where some of my buddies are. However, I'm not moving in with them (they're getting a house), rather I'm looking forward to living in the coed dorms. I visited them (my friends) last year in the dorms and when sitting in the hallway for 30 minutes I met at least a dozen different people who were all willing to chat for a minute. It seems that as long as you don't hide in your room with the door closed meeting friends/girls just happens without effort. I can't …
/r/seduction18/03/15 10:33 PM
3

That's a moving article right there. A lot of the stuff I've heard before but it is fucking motivating. Example: You fucked up? Doesn’t matter, soon you and everyone who knows about it will die! Not only did I actually laugh at that but I think that is probably the best point there. When it comes to mistakes you've got to have short-term memory, stop dwelling in the negatives.
/r/seduction18/03/15 10:10 PM
45

Someone has to continue Bane's legacy.
/r/seduction17/03/15 06:56 PM
1

I mean...I get what you're saying and they are all good points. But I think in the end for OP is that he produced a good result, regardless of what he said. What to focus on in this particular post is that he gave himself high social value by: A. Being with friends and B. Being a really friendly and likeable guy in the store. The other employees seemed to enjoy his behavior, that opened up the HB7. Certain things you say can matter, but for the most part it's how you express those things. Simply…
/r/seduction15/03/15 04:22 AM
3

Around a year ago. I'm 19. I'm a beginner still. And will be for at least a couple more years. Worry about yourself and improving your life. Make that 95% of the process. The friends and girls will come along naturally. Most of the success stories you read on this sub are mostly from the older guys, in their mid-to-late 20s. They are successful because they are wise, and they are wise because they were failures. Work on yourself and be the best guy you can be!
/r/seduction12/03/15 01:56 AM
4

+137 no comments Must not be a flaw in the article. I'm confused about #5 though...is the context of the eye contact mid-conversation? Because most of the stuff I've read on this sub says to "never look down." Eye contact is a great tool for gauging interest and ramping sexual tension but sometimes I wonder what's the best way to use it. Because I feel like good eye contact (instinctively breaking and relocking eyes) comes naturally once you're used to maintaining it for the most part.
/r/seduction10/03/15 07:38 AM
-1

Or maybe I wouldn't want to sit through a date that I have no interest in because I have the freedom to spend my time more valuably (in my mind) elsewhere. It can be seen as rude, douchey, inhumane, whatever. Maybe I'll have the courtesy to give the girl a ride back home. But the point is if you're a real man you should have the ability to cut off a date whenever you please. Hell the same goes for women. You aren't glued to the bar stool for two hours, you have the option to leave whenever.
/r/seduction05/03/15 08:44 AM
0

That's fucking hilarious man, you had your own, free maid that you can fuck.
/r/seduction05/03/15 07:36 AM
1

OP hardly knows the girl. In this case it doesn't matter. You're in it for you, not for the other person.
/r/seduction05/03/15 07:29 AM
3

Yeah, for sure. I was just reinforcing what /u/MetalPUA said about complimenting their shoes, they dig it. I guess a way to do some light kino is tap your shoe to hers, just make sure yours are not dirty or else you'll get an earful haha.
/r/seduction04/03/15 06:37 PM
6

Can confirm, girl I was sitting next to in class made it really obvious she wanted me to see her disco-like moccasins. So I complimented them and got a very positive reaction.
/r/seduction04/03/15 09:40 AM
1

Works like a charm once you get a girl interested in you. Here.
/r/seduction04/03/15 03:01 AM
2

You're right, but an FR is an FR. Just downvote if ya don't think it belongs.
/r/seduction01/03/15 06:40 PM
9

Because it's a field report? And these have been around since the creation of the sub?
/r/seduction01/03/15 04:55 PM
1

It's something so trivial that literally no one would care if you're lying or not. And lying about trivial things is good for flirting.
/r/seduction26/02/15 08:30 PM
3

You forgot to give the D ;)
/r/seduction26/02/15 06:58 PM
3

take one home for the night for the sexuals. for the sexuals. sexuals. Dude you are softer than whipped cream. Grow up and never say that again. Holy fuck you are a pussy.
/r/seduction26/02/15 07:50 AM
1

Cringe worthy as others see it. We're just used to it and shit doesn't get to us like most people. I know my friends can't handle rejection as well as I do, that's why they hardly do any random approaching if at all. Not that they're lesser for being like that.
/r/seduction26/02/15 07:43 AM
5

I think that's kind of the point when it comes to a shy girl. It could be argued that showing that you are "ashamed" or "embarrassed" opens a her up a bit more for approach.
/r/seduction26/02/15 07:31 AM
1

I was out last Thursday. I mean Friday and Saturday too but nothing was really going on. On Thursday my friends and I all hit up the bar in town that doesn't card you for drinks. And it was packed as fuck, tons of girls and bros. I was close to isolating a girl and trying to have some alone time with her, but she had a bf. So I ejected that set. That was as close as to some good action. I had other sets with other hot girls but at the end of the night I got nothing. In fact none of us got any pu…
/r/seduction25/02/15 09:24 PM
1

F.O.R.D. Famliy Occupation Recreation Dreams Just simply make it an interview but comment on things or bring up a memory/similarity when you can relate.
/r/seduction25/02/15 04:22 PM
1

The 1950's made that idea commercial. Before WWI and thousands of years before that men had the outdoor role and females the indoor role. It's still like that today in a sense, women staying home and all. But there's a lot of girls in college these days, and trust me I love it for that reason.
/r/seduction25/02/15 08:53 AM
1

Watch the video. It is literally how to fix what you are having trouble with.
/r/seduction25/02/15 08:45 AM
1

The thing is once I get going in a conversation I realize I don't need it. But it's the leadup and first interaction that can decide how a convo goes and I end up thinking too much. I think alcohol is a good get-me-over-the-initial-hump material. It's great at smashing your AA. Like I said before, just need practice and to replicate that "no fear" attitude.
/r/seduction25/02/15 04:39 AM
5

Day gaming: yes. Absolutely. It's tough and I try to supress the thoughts but it just gets worse. However when night gaming the negative thoughts and fears go away after a couple of drinks. The "I don't give a fuck" feeling is the best and that's when confidence is full. Rarely do I replicate this attitude/mindset in daygame, though. Just needs more practice. And I don't like long periods of not approaching. It sets me back and AA develops again. Thanks bros. I just want to get my dick wet on a …
/r/seduction25/02/15 12:00 AM
2

It's no joke when people say Game of Thrones is a great show. This was one of the better scenes in the first season. Only have used this game once since seeing it, thanks for the reminder.
/r/seduction24/02/15 09:16 PM
1

That's a good mindset. 19 also btw! I was at a bar last Thursday that didn't card and did a lot of "ground work." Approached around 8 different women in a couple hours. I was out with friends and I didn't get anything (close to making a move on a chick who had a bf). Left the weekend empty handed. Oh well. Still had a great time.
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:24 PM
2

Like I said...it's kind of common knowledge. Only douchers do it.
/r/seduction22/02/15 07:03 AM
10

Singing and dancing like an idiot is fun. But I will agree that singing into a chick's ear isn't very attractive for first impressions though. But I feel like that is common sense.
/r/seduction22/02/15 02:21 AM
1

You're not gonna get much past a number close in day game until you start dating with the girls. If anything you should only expect a number at the most. If you land an insta-date then you might pull off a k-close. Don't beat yourself up about it, night game will mostly get you hookups, day game will mostly get you numbers.
/r/seduction21/02/15 09:02 AM
7

Don't try to prove yourself when talking to a girl. Make her prove herself. Be a buyer, not a seller. There are other places to buy from. AKA plenty of girls to approach and use your 'moves' on.
/r/seduction21/02/15 08:55 AM
1

This is the best answer here. I've said it before and I'll say it again: /r/NoFap is a group of lunatics who attribute too much of the little successes in their lives to ending the "PMO" addiction. They say everything they do is due to higher testosterone and NoFap and yaydayda, etc etc. No. You and yourself only stop not only the addiction but begin to get the ball rolling in life. I will agree with better energy, a non-sore penis, and nutting further and more when you hold it in longer (better…
/r/seduction18/02/15 01:36 AM
2

Everyone here understands what OP is doing. But what we're saying is that he can text back in a "timely manner." Meaning that if you can respond within a few minutes of reading the text, do it. Obviously we mean don't sit there every waking second so that you can send a lightning reply. If you're not near your phone or you are busy (during school or work I can only check my phone every 1.5-2 hours) then that's understandable. But have the courtesy to tell those you've talked to your general sche…
/r/seduction18/02/15 01:17 AM
1

HEY! BAD! BAD OP, NAUGHTY! C'mon man, that's like high school level crap (maybe you are, sorry about my judgementals). Don't poke your head around on the internet for their personal info. Yeah, they put it out there and it's public, but it's still a bit creepy. Get to know people in person. This is how you build friendships/relationships. You also just cheated out on an approach. You should have learned this from her in person (girls tell you if they have a boyfriend 100% of the time. If they do…
/r/seduction11/02/15 11:14 PM
7

And the anxiety builds the more you bottle it in. Approaching is the only way to feel relief. The more you do it the less it lingers, at least in my experience. If you do some approaches and back off for a week, you've bottled in the anxiety and you have to start over. Get your reps in, approach. Even if interactions are only 20 seconds or a quick hello to a chick passing by, just YOLO it. There's nothing to lose.
/r/seduction11/02/15 11:04 PM
1

it wasnt one of my better conversations, but i still enjoyed and learned from the experience. We were outside of her next class and I simply said "let me get your number." She was cool up to that point to which she replied "um, I have a boyfriend." I asked if he was cute, typical response yada yada. Then I demanded (DEmand, not COMmand. be assertive but don't be an ass) for her number. She asked why and I said to ask about class related stuff and that I think she's a cool person. Treat her like …
/r/seduction11/02/15 10:13 PM
1

I literally got of a class where I sat next to a HB9. Made some quirky remarks about the professor/lecture throughout class. I joked around with the dude next to me to show social value a bit. Walked her to her next class, talked a bit about life currently, and then got her number (she's got a bf). It's OK to make friends at school and not always get the girl. Don't be afraid to see where the interaction goes. It's not the end of the world if you don't "succeed." (Shit, just talking to her can b…
/r/seduction11/02/15 08:24 PM
7

Too many guys here saying "women aren't fish" and "this isn't fishing/hunting." Like no shit? It gets too serious around here sometimes.
/r/seduction11/02/15 06:54 PM
1

Yeah, but try to go for incidental contact at first. It will open her up a bit more to more touching. Shoulders and forearms when conversing are defintely a good start. I'm sure you are aware of this guide. Pretty popular around here, and will prob give you a slight chub the first time or two reading it. The thought of executing this process is hot, because it is hot. It's how to build sexual tension.
/r/seduction11/02/15 02:31 PM
1

It sounds like you know what you're doing. You'll be fine. Def strong eye contact, smiling and light kino to kick it off.
/r/seduction11/02/15 02:19 PM
1

You spam the shit out of Daily Dater...Jesus looking at your post history you've linked it like 10 times in the past 24 hours...
/r/seduction11/02/15 01:14 PM
4

This sounds like advice you'd hear on 4chan lol
/r/seduction11/02/15 12:39 PM
5

Sure it might work but you're a piece of shit if you're putting a woman down to get in her pants. At what point did I say this? There's no one way to get laid, but being derogatory is nothing I ever condone doing. Maybe a little bit in some push-pull scenarios but that's just fun banter/flirting. You can ask women for pointers or what they like in a man, but all women truly want one thing: and man with confidence, one who can lead and make desicions for his own. But they don't always explicitly …
/r/seduction11/02/15 01:01 AM
14

And my point still stands to this very second. You don't turn to women for dating advice.
/r/seduction10/02/15 09:18 PM
16

Man has been a hunter for hundreds of thousands of years. They study and anticipate the moves/lives of their prey so they know when to strike. It's the same with women when seducing them. You can study how they are and how they act, but in the end the man throws the spear (metaphorically speaking). God that sounded so nerdy, but it gets my damn point across.
/r/seduction10/02/15 08:56 PM
1

And to add to this: you don't change over night. It will take time. But others will take notice when you begin to improve your life altogether. "It's never too late" holds a lot of weight.
/r/seduction05/02/15 06:58 PM
2

I don't like the nofap community because a lot of them attribute too much of their lives to not fapping...but you do feel better when you cut out porn. You don't have to completely cut masturbation, but your desires for women increase when you haven't nutted for a while. Try it. And honestly, you can do better things with your time than stroke your dong.
/r/seduction31/01/15 05:08 AM
11

Never say no to something like that. I did wayyy back in middle school when my crush asked me...instant and long-term regret. Now I just dance whenever and I'm not even good at it. I don't give a shit anymore. You shouldn't either. It won't kill you to look like an idiot, because honestly who will care what you're doing as long as you are having a good time?
/r/seduction18/01/15 04:12 AM
2

It's a good perspective to have in life. If you don't want to be like this, fine. But obviously over a dozen people think this is a worthy post for this sub. Got to remember women are people too, not just sex toys. People come here for different reasons, this sub isn't purely guides on how to get laid. It's much more.
/r/seduction02/01/15 09:41 AM
1

It's not too hard once you get the ball rolling. It's an uphill climb, but begin improving yourself with the little things (eating better, getting fit, grooming/dressing better, cutting out porn, get organized, etc.). Then improve your interactions (eye contact, smiling, saying hi, small talk, being physical, etc.). It's also a numbers game but the more you get out there and put effort in the more effortless it will become.
/r/seduction02/01/15 12:42 AM
8

This really should be the attitude for everyone going in. It's a gimme...tons of confidence juice, everyone at the bar/party will be friendly, and no one wants to be the loner without someone to kiss. The pressure is on, but not for any of us. We got this shit on fucking lock.
/r/seduction31/12/14 11:05 AM
1

I've been 9 days 'clean,' I'm feeling great. I'm not gonna say porn is evil and masturbation is sinnister, but cutting it out definitely helps you realize how much more productive you can be.
/r/seduction30/12/14 04:12 AM
5

They're...inspecting...yeah, inspecting the cameras.
/r/seduction29/12/14 03:24 AM
2

well newsflash: sidebar says that Seddit is a seduction and self-improvement community. you have your own motives, that's fine. If you're here for purely the seduction part, so be it. But self-improvement posts are welcome, too. Not ones that are like "I went to the gym for the first time, I'm feeling confident!!" No, ones that have interactions with women but provide an insight on what can make a man better, setting certain goals and standards. Those are the good self-improvement posts that can…
/r/seduction28/12/14 10:48 AM
10

I feel like this sub should be mainly getting everyone to be their own "Tony Stark" or "James Bond" or whatever. We all want to be suave, be in the best physical and mental form, get a bunch of poon, and most importantly be the good guy...the one with high morals and charisma. But that's not the case. different people have different goals, such as yourself. The post you were referring to is about self-control, having morals and putting yourself in someone else's shoes. being able to understand a…
/r/seduction28/12/14 08:22 AM
0

I mean...how is he gonna contact the guy? Probably doesn't know him and won't believe him through Facebook...he's just gonna find out himself anyways.
/r/seduction28/12/14 03:02 AM
1

I don't know why you're bringing alcohol into this but it's certainly not as addictive as smoking. And yes, I'll be honest. Drinking is a lot more fun than smoking. It doesn't burn my lungs and ruin my life, because I can control how much I put in without wanting/craving more. I thought you were playing devil's advocate before but actually you're just a stuck-up, ignorant dickweed trying to validate smoking ciggs as OK. Newsflash: it's not.
/r/seduction21/12/14 04:25 AM
1

Alright, I guess you don't inhale car exhaust or come in contact with ANY other carcinogens. Well I mean that's not my fault machines and other things my life is based around is unavoidable. Besides, it's only a fraction of what I would if I directly inhaled it into my lungs. You're a dumbass. Who cares if someone smokes a cigg every once in a while? I don't care about them. They can kill themself off quicker as they please. And for the most part, it's probably a lot more than "once in a while."…
/r/seduction21/12/14 04:14 AM
1

*and slowly build a disgusting tar in your lungs *which can lead to cancer
/r/seduction21/12/14 02:56 AM
5

It's not a fine line what defines what's fat and what's not fat. It takes like 2 seconds to realize if someone is fat. I divide people into 4 categories: Skinny In-shape Out-of-Shape Fat If someone is eating a bit more and not working out, they'll get out of shape. Bones factor nothing at all. If they eat a shit ton and do fuck all they'll get fat. Simple as that.
/r/seduction21/12/14 02:54 AM
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You know when you go a long time without masturbating and it seems any sexual thought starts to get the willy up? Definitely helps to hold back from fapping. If you jerk it on the daily it's kind of hard to get horny as quick.
/r/seduction06/10/14 07:57 PM
2

American here, had first beer before I turned 15. For most though they seem to be 16 when they have their first booze.
/r/seduction28/09/14 09:31 PM
5

I'm pretty sure OP, like he noted, means that in a psychological sense. There's obviously a professional who would tell you a better way to deal with bears (or other wild animals). He's just saying that if something is equally as scary to you as a bear roaring upon your whole body, react with equal force. Don't let anything stomp and squish you, stand your ground and be a man.
/r/seduction24/09/14 09:00 PM
1

Don't worry about being creepy. Just treat her like any other human. In fact, treat her like your best friend, make her comfortable. And any moment is the right moment (maybe not when the teacher is talking, but group work or before or after class).
/r/seduction22/09/14 06:46 PM
2

Just talk to her and 'friendzone' her. A good way to get over oneitis is to take what you initially think of a potential girlfriend and turn her into a great friend. This way you get experience with talking to a girl and you'll feel more confident the more you do this. I'm kind of in the same situation, too, however I've made two hot friends by just TALKING TO THEM. And they usually do all of the talking, it's great. They are social and I'm pretty sure they have hot friends (one is a dancer) so …
/r/seduction22/09/14 06:32 PM
3

You need to work on everything about yourself then. At least the things you are saying you can't do, I feel as if you say it with a shameful pride. Most of these things you are bad at-it's because you need practice. You need a level mind. You need to extract all of that poison and negativity from your thoughts. The only true obstacle in your situation is yourself.
/r/seduction12/09/14 09:23 AM
1

I have trouble keeping attention and get anxious sometimes, but I'm not depressed. And the reason I'm not depressed is because I know I'm changing things for the better. You got to push through this stuff because you have to change yourself, at least take the right steps forward. If you take the first steps (and they are the toughest), like lifting, eating well, dress nice, groom etc. etc. You do these things and you will start to love yourself. And when you love yourself you have some confidenc…
/r/seduction10/09/14 08:28 PM
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Hmm, I guess the first 'fucking' thrown with cute is fine, but the second comes off as redundant and aggressive. But it works, and I might give it a go. I guess any variation of the second text would be just as convincing.
/r/seduction29/08/14 06:23 AM
7

Ah, the ol' Waffle Cone Drill Deluxe, a classic.
/r/seduction29/08/14 06:17 AM
1

I hope this becomes accepted in this sub as a little joke, it makes me chuckle everytime.
/r/seduction28/08/14 08:51 PM
1

I'm in my first week of the semester at my community college, I've found time for a couple approaches so far. I don't have great results in 3 days (I tried to get an instant-date on both approaches. The girls didn't have the time. I'm ok with that). BUT one thing I do know is to NEVER worry about being creepy. I've been watching a couple of Nick Sparks' speeches recently and he answered some guy's question. It was along the lines of "how do I approach without being creepy?" Nick then went on to …
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:50 PM
5

I like the confidence, and maybe he was jealous, but in the end it seems like you're a little 'salty' (good reason to be though) and jealous. But don't think like that. Just forget the whole situation entirely and know that this Marcus guy and anybody who associates themselves with him are also dumbasses. Especially that girl, not worth your time. Just move on.
/r/seduction28/08/14 02:06 AM
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Looks like your room is the only option. Surely your roomie could hang out in another room, or like I said, the library or something. Just do your best to flush him out, and say you'd do the same.
/r/seduction27/08/14 02:48 AM
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Since you're drinking, a car is out of the equation. But your roomate would have to understand. If he doesn't, say you owe him. Pay him back by teaching game in return or some other form of payment. Just send him to the library or somewhere else so that you can spend time in private with her.
/r/seduction27/08/14 02:37 AM
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Why can't we acknowledge that different people have different experiences, escpecially due to unique schedules/locations? It's always one way or another on this sub, god damn.
/r/seduction26/08/14 07:48 PM
16

So pay for the sex? Might as well just walk around on campus for free if you're not interested in the education. What a waste of money.
/r/seduction26/08/14 04:26 AM
4

There's like a 1/100000000000 chance in that happening...assuming you don't ram your dick in them when you walk up.
/r/seduction22/08/14 05:14 PM
2

Bruv is the british bro At least i think. I use it sometimes tho
/r/seduction18/08/14 02:13 AM
1

Yeah isn't their laughing the best way to know someone is opening up to you?
/r/seduction17/08/14 05:54 PM
3

Yes but "tell me about your friends" works just as well.
/r/seduction10/08/14 11:10 PM
2

It's actually supposed to start 44 minutes from this comment. Give him some time...or don't.
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:17 PM
3

Thursday, July 31st 12PM PST He should start replying within the next hour or so. Maybe.
/r/seduction31/07/14 06:16 PM
1

I don't think OP cares. I mean, you did read the FR? He is obviously not worried about privacy (but really he was interested in her, so I don't think it matters).
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:00 AM
2

On the basis that they are under 6' tall, yeah 200lbs would be obese. 6' 200lbs is not fat for a woman, but maybe slightly obese. 210+? Yeah definitely treading into fatso-land.
/r/seduction28/06/14 10:26 AM
5

Shouldn't it be the other way around? I mean, I know that's the actual saying from Star Wars, but I always felt that it starts from suffering would lead to those other feelings.
/r/seduction08/04/14 07:09 AM
1

It's not rocket science, what the fuck is OP doing?
/r/seduction05/04/14 04:29 AM
2

Try to split the work so it's done in pairs. Then you can attack.
/r/seduction03/04/14 08:37 AM
1

In fact my favorite opener is always to ask them where they're from, because it's always somewhere. Thank god none of them come from nowhere!
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:35 AM
3

Dude, they look like two normal guys walking in the park. Look how many people are there. If you go to this park and don't expect human interaction then why go in the first place? If anything their compliments make those people's days better.
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:23 AM
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