Need help with tinder

AquaGiant · 2015-07-30T03:11:51+00:00

First of all, it's a numbers game. You can't win all of these girls over, for multiple reasons out of your control.

Second, I'd say the best openers are the ones that show interest in her photos/bio. Text about that and thread parts of the convo with relevant stuff of your own.

Third, texting is better with younger girls, getting to the point is better with older girls. That's not always true of course but that's the pattern I've noticed.

askmrcia · 2015-07-31T14:08:08+00:00

To be honest Tinder is a waste of time. I'm only on it when I'm doing nothing at my cubical.

The hot girls on there, are not there to hook up with anyone or be anyone's boyfriend. They are only there for attention. Which is why you see so many linking their instagram accounts there.

The AVG girls there are seeking validation. When you text them, it makes them feel wanted, which is all they need.

Very few and I mean like 3% of the girls on tinder are there to hookup with guys and 1% are there to find an actual boyfriend.

My point is, ofcourse your conversations are going to go dead, she is talking to 5+ other guys while talking to you, then she's texting her girl friends. Cute girls don't need online dating because guy's hit on them all the time at their jobs or classes. And this advice is coming from a guy that gets phone numbers frequently on tinder. We text for a few days and every time I try and set up a date they flake on me. So don't take tinder too seriously.

whynotgoonreddit · 2015-07-30T03:42:17+00:00

1) Hot girls on Tinder that you match with are generally not real. They won't answer or they will send you something like "Hey, are you looking to meet hot single girls in your area? go to www.fuckhotbitches.com".

2) Average women are generally a bit psycho because those who aren't don't need tinder to meet guys.

3) Unattractive women are unattractive.

Just forget about Tinder, it's practically impossible to find a hot sane woman because all the hot sane women are not on Tinder. Or if they are, it's just for a friday night while they were drunk with their friends and felt like fucking around.

I tend to generalize and obviously what I'm saying is not a fact. But I sincerely believe that Tinder is a waste of time. Good luck!

Title	Need help with tinder
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Date	July 30, 2015 2:44 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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