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Give /r/theredpill a read. Personally I won't tolerate this (I have boundaries), but everyone has a different threshold. It's controversial but read it nonetheless and decide for yourself. Do keep me updated. :) Hope everything works out
/r/seduction30/06/15 04:43 PM
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Thanks. Sounds interesting! Does it offer anything practical to solve your problems and clear your head, or is it more of a self-indulgent reading
/r/askTRP02/05/15 01:24 PM
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ooh sounds good. A bit of elaboration would be appreciated. Thanks!
/r/askTRP02/05/15 07:39 AM
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Okay. No blowjobs too? It's hard (literally and figuatively) to not jack off. Does edging count?
/r/askTRP02/05/15 12:24 AM
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I wouldn't be so fast to judge It's my first relationship. Also I do get hard, but not really horny nor does sex feel good (my hand feels better). I'm also nineteen only. Sex is fun in terms of the power aspect though. But I just don't ejaculate
/r/askTRP02/05/15 12:23 AM
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I realise that, but I still am special. girls are expendable, and they either enhance my awesomeness or they can close the door on their way out. If you think you're special and am coming from that frame of mind, girls will flock to you.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 07:28 AM
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Why do you think he didn't dread game too far. Similar case as OP and I would say that he overreacted (he did the dread out of jealousy and beta insecurity, as opposed to having a legit reason)
/r/askTRP23/04/15 01:37 AM
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MY EXACT THOUGHTS. although this applies to most people. I see myself as a MGTOW with a few plates just to satisfy my primal urges. I spend most of the time bettering myself via reading, studying, and lifting. I enjoy this and I have enough friends to keep me company and to boost me up. Sometimes I'd honestly rather be at the gym than listening to a girl talk about her friends or her week. Hell sometimes I'd prefer my own time over sex.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 06:55 AM
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Good shit. I'm currently in an LTR with one of these although I view her more as a plate (most of the time I only meet her if I get something in return -- she pays/cooks/cleans for me or sex). Rarely in public. I'm living the life but frankly I'd degrade her to a plate once I secure a second one!
/r/askTRP09/04/15 05:50 AM
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Mine does as well. But reading TRP consistently makes me doubt the relationship when really I shouldn't. It's not a big deal and I should treat her more of a hobby.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:34 AM
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She hasn't cheated yet. There's no proof. Personally I think it might be an overreaction. Keep her but always fuck other girls on the side.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:23 AM
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I disagree. Women "fall in love" much easier than men do. I've converted multiple plates after sex and they all say "I love you" without fail after I make them orgasm. These plates proceed to do me favors (buys me gifts, cooks and cleans, baked for me and massages my back when I study) just so they could spend time with me. They actually enjoy and do these things out of "love". Just me spending time with them is a gift. All I do is accept their gifts and continue being the dominant one in the re…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:09 AM
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I agree with TRP on the self improvement but the acting more sexually aggressive kinda doesn't do much for me because I already AM sexually aggressive Sex God method also taught me to be more dominant and add variety, which is my goal when I initiated the fitting room sex. Guess I should 1. Take things slower and 2. Read the IOIS more carefully and escalate slower
/r/askTRP04/04/15 03:19 AM
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You are exactly right. I completely agree. I much rather just be me and do what I did in the past. I was always sexually dominant and confident to vbegin with, but reading TRP kinda made me overcompensate on these areas and it just turned to a mess.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 03:16 AM
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Not trolling, why do you say an misinterpretation? because I agree with you. Since reading TRP I've made conscious attempts to be more assertive and forward, thinking that I can make a woman do whatever the fuck I want if she worships me enough. and this is one of the cases when It didn't happen and I was disappointed. Keep in mind that I was never beta coming in, so after reading TRP it kinda made me a bit overboard. I plan to just leave this community and work on myself for a while. Some of th…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 03:37 PM
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I read that already. It says to add variety (which is why I wanted to do the sex in the fitting room) and dominance. But it didn't go that well. What I expected I guess was for her to be begging for my cock and worshipping it -- my problem is I have unrealistic expectations since I joined TRP -- I expect women can be manipulated into doing whatever the fuck I want when it not the case (or I'm doing it wrong)
/r/askTRP03/04/15 03:33 PM
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Thanks for the tip. I think I should remain slow and calm during sexual situations, because I usually get too overwhelmed by everything to even form a long, thoughtful sentence. This girl is rather discrete and hates PDA though. How do I overcome that LMR? (or does the AWALT not apply here)
/r/askTRP03/04/15 12:00 PM
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The thing is most girls are a blabber mouth. You know, girls talk. They talk about dick sizes, sex positions, they talk about how their boyfriend treats them. I can't decide whether it's worth the risk or not, especially when it comes to mutual friends (choosing sides) etc. I realize this may be a form of overthinking, and that I should instead act on my impulse and not use it as an excuse to not approach a girl, but I don't necessarily see this as a complete limiting belief -- I'm simply lookin…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 12:14 PM
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How does that benefit you though?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:42 AM
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You misunderstand. I realize girls are attracted to "assholes" and I understand completely why. The problem I have is with getting that reputation in a workplace, as it might potentially affect your career. I couldn't care less about what other people think of me or my actions (as long as I believe what I'm doing is congruent with my goals in life). But in the case of dipping my pen in company ink, I believe that getting a poor reputation of an "asshole" because you've been having casual sex wit…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 01:41 AM
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The girls may talk though. For example, there are a few prospects I have in my own class/company. If I fucked them, they're almost always not worth the risk -- some of my classmates are potentially working in the same field as me, for instance, and I don't need the unnecessary drama.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 01:36 AM
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Sounds good. One plate down, a few more to add to my collection. It's great because most of them are working really hard to win my affection. They're low maintenance, and they enhance my life. I swear dealing with girls is almost like training a puppy. Reward for good behavior and punish for bad. It's insanely effective.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 04:29 PM
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Well, most girls might be attracted to the asshole, but they'd never go for the asshole (and would probably have her ASD on) if the asshole is "shunned" by the social circle -- e.g. school/work. If you are labelled as the "work asshole", while the girls at work may be wet for you, they'd also be reluctant to date you or to be receptive to your advances, due to your reputation.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 04:28 PM
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Well she didn't. I pulled (comforted her and offered to meet her this weekend). She was ecstatic and said I'm in for a surprise (she also baked me cookies and got me tea bags to get through my study month). Can't complain.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 07:36 AM
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I meant status Women are not capable of the concept of loyalty, whereas men are. That's one of the tenets of TRP. If it's the case, would it be more likely that a man will reject ScarJo VS a woman to reject Brad Pitt?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 07:34 AM
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Mind elaborating on this? I'm assuming this was from a book.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 08:17 AM
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Interesting statistic. I'm wondering if hypergamy works both ways -- that is, are men just as reluctant to date someone ABOVE him? I wonder if the high percentage of female physicians is a testament to this -- how not a lot of men are willing to date female physicians because they would naturally put them on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:26 AM
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TL;DR Hypergamy The only way to be at the top of the food chain is to be the best version of yourself, thereby maximizing your selection of women.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:23 AM
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Haha, I already am. My life genuinely has so much going on right now that I barely have time for her.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 03:13 PM
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I've started a "journal" since the beginning of the year. For me it's more of a table where I set goals at the start of every month, and mark down achieved goals and milestones every month.I would occasionally go back to look at these positive reference experiences like a trophy case, too see how far I've come and progressed. I could expand on this if y'all are interested.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 10:35 AM
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This is the way I see relationships with women. I simply can't treat them seriously anymore, and I've learnt to just embrace and enjoy the present moment rather than impose expectations on them -- especially with regards to their loyalty. My relationships have since been more positive and less stressful, and they bring out the inner child within me to just have fun. Everyone in the relationship is better off. It's truly a gift.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 10:30 AM
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Humans are inherently selfish. The sooner you realize this and the sooner you embrace your own selfishness, the faster you'll progress.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 10:28 AM
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In the same vein, cut out any friends that are not worthy of your time simply because they don't enhance your life in one way or another. There is an opportunity cost whenever you spend your time with someone and if they don't bring more benefit to you than the cost (i.e. you spending time with them), cut them out. I've had friends that just hang out with me to gossip or to chat, when they bring nothing else on the table. I could be deadlifting 3 plates or studying for my medical examinations ra…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 10:26 AM
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In that case, what you said makes sense. Not sure why I got downvoted. I still stand by what I said -- cancelling on a date with a plate even when she's compliant would be counterproductive.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 10:24 AM
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Canceling dates last-minute just makes you seem like an asshole. My understanding of dread game is to always seem a bit aloof and distant, and to amplify on the dread (ignoring her) as a form of punishment conditioning. Canceling dates last-minute without any good reason is simply an excuse to act like an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 05:39 AM
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I can't wait to read this book.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 02:19 PM
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This is a really good one. I find myself saying "I'm not sure" quite often when it comes to my recollection of facts (I'm a med student, can't really blame me), though I usually follow it up with "let me get back to you".
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 02:18 PM
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You didn't really talk about why men are collectively higher value than women though. Aside from physical differences (lifting heavier), I don't see how men are essentially more valuable than women. I'd say everybody is valuable in their own regard -- as you say, everybody sees value differently. You may value Asian girls whereas I value brunettes. But ultimately, the most important thing, as you correctly state, is to value oneself.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 02:14 PM
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I do agree with him, and I know for certain that I'm on the other end of the spectrum. I rarely waste time waiting, or gossiping, or discussing superficial things with most people (even when they're my acquaintances). It's just vapid. I could be having a deep conversation with my internal thoughts or by reading a book, rather than talking about stupid shit like who's dating who in my social circle. Since I'm on the other end of the spectrum, I've been working on taking myself less seriously and …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 02:07 PM
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That's me. I was inherently a bad child (got into trouble, think dark triad in the making). Got suspended and realized nobody liked me because I was such a bully. I thought the problem was ME, so I avoided all human contact to stop hurting them -- but this drove me to depression. But now I'm back.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 12:12 AM
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Must ask: what's a shadow ban?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 12:10 AM
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I'm 19 and I agree. I'd say I'm at the top of my class in terms of the guy who has his shit together. Feels good when the competition are still weak. Now's the time. It doesn't matter whether you're 16 or 40. Now's the time.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 12:07 AM
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I feel like I'm on the opposite of the spectrum. I see my life -- specifically my time -- as something so awesome and precious that I usually don't spend a lot of time/care on other people. For instance, I usually won't have the patience to wait for someone when they're 15 minutes late. I won't compromise for "chilling together" with no solid plan when I could be spending time studying or lifting some heavy weights -- or hell, even getting some sleep in would be a better option than wasting time…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 11:59 PM
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Not OP, but I think he means to choose the woman out of the sea of other options, but not necessarily the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 11:12 AM
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"Too bad, cuz I do" -- pull her in --
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 11:09 AM
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"Too bad, cuz I do" -- pull her in --
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 11:08 AM
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I neg a lot when I want to, this is probably because I have a really strong sense of identity and self-respect (you could say my inner game or frame is strong). When I see a bitch I make her prove harder to prove her worth to me. So I would keep giving her "shit tests" or neg her to see how she responds. Where I'm from, people are generally conservative, so my negs are quite toned-down to calibrate to the culture -- but a simple disqualifying eye contact or a "pfft" or "hmph" drives girls crazy.…
/r/seduction26/03/15 09:59 AM
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Haha! It's rare to see someone in the medical profession on TRP. I'm a medical student (year 2) and the fact that someone like you exists inspires and reassures me of the future -- that there's a faint possibility I'll be able to manage academics, lifting, relationships, while at the same time be able to work on all my self-improvement goals. I entered med school with a promise to myself that I will have a life and that I will continue self-improvement. You are a testament of who I wish to becom…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 02:21 PM
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That makes sense. OP made it sound like specifically target the fat girl to talk to -- but the way you put it: engage the entire crowd and draw them into your frame, makes a lot more sense. Outcome (banging the hot girl) aside, obviously.
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:17 PM
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That makes sense. Hair color aside, I usually conquer the "pretty girl" the last. From experience, she's usually the bitchiest one, and as a result I feel like she has to prove her worth EVEN more than the average girl to get in my pants. Without her friends (and by being the center of attention of her group), she's often powerless and will submit to your frame. Then I neg her extra hard (my version of shit testing) to see if she's got what it takes. They always qualify themselves when I do. For…
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:15 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:13 PM
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Why the fat/ugly chick first?
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:50 AM
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I use it for self-improvement. Sure, there's the occasional anti-feminist movement and women-hating, but those don't really help me get shit done -- they help me internalize fundamental concepts of the sexes, it's extra knowledge, but too many people get drawn onto them and become pessimistic. When in fact, us being here, men united, is something that should be cherished and celebrated. Just by being here we have enlightened ourselves to the TRUTH of the world -- something that most men would ne…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:52 PM
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After browsing this subreddit and applying it, I've achieved this state, although sometimes with girls it's hit or miss. It always works with girls that are (i) interested and (ii) isolated. Once I get them in an isolated spot I can game them however the fuck they want and they start twirling their hair and touching my inner thigh. But I'm always the one to take action -- the one to initiate kino, the one to drive the conversation. Sometimes I get too aloof and some girls would give up on the co…
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:51 PM
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Meditation. I've attempted to get into this multiple times but it never sticks, partly because I'm expecting something from performing meditation. A habit loop consists of stimulus - cue - habit - reward. With gym, the reward might be sweating and a sore arm to signify a good workout. With eating, it might be the satisfaction of tracking your calories the whole day. But with meditation, I can't stick to it because it lacks reward. and honestly it seems like a waste of time to sit there and focus…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:41 AM
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I'd say this occurs naturally.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:39 AM
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Have you tried the Tantric thrust method? It's insanely effective.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:37 AM
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He should still talk to him about it though. At least admit that he likes joking around with his friends, and sometimes he goes overboard. That way, it's not a direct apology, but something that OP's friend must get used to if he wants to stay friends with him. I feel like this would be the alpha move. Obviously don't make fun of him for being a crybaby and whining. That would be too douchey.
/r/seduction07/10/14 11:53 AM
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Obviously it depends on a lot of circumstances, but it's clear that your buddy is sensitive about this specific area. He's expressed his dislike with this instead of playing passive-agressive and secretly hating you. I'm not sure if your friend is alpha or beta, but judging from how he reacted he seems pretty alpha to actually confront you regarding his boundaries, and you gave him a chance to explain why he didn't like it and to explain his insecurities. If I were you, I wouldn't apologize (you…
/r/seduction07/10/14 11:52 AM
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Damn I've watched all of them except 300, which seems like it's a CGIfest. Will check them out thanks!
/r/seduction15/06/14 03:36 AM
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you have good taste! Any other movie/show recommendations?
/r/seduction11/06/14 08:26 AM
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I'm a doctor so yes I could've been saving lives.
/r/seduction02/03/14 01:59 AM
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Haha thanks for the insight. I think it's more like a muscle, you gotta continuously meet and befriend new people to become more outcome independent. To have many acquaintances and just a few really close friends.
/r/seduction04/02/14 05:38 AM
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Now your username is starting to make sense haha. I always try to smile when meeting people, but for some reason I have the creepiest smile ever. I embrace it and say fuck it, I'll smile regardless, but I still want to improve on it. Any tips on how to smile?
/r/seduction04/02/14 05:36 AM
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I used to think in a similar way as well, then I realized that the problem wasn't who you surround yourself with necessarily, but how you adapt to those people. I've learnt to befriend the other groups that make me beta as fuck, I'd joke around with them, control the conversation (they were talking about a topic I simply had no interest in, so I changed topics), etc. You gotta give people a chance to make themselves interesting to YOU. That's how I choose to see it! :)
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:30 AM
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Not really, the fact that there was a wide selection of girls who I know I'll never likely meet again really drove me to "alpha mode", knowing that you can have "no attached sex" without any social consequences.
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:28 AM
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Imagine you're travelling around the area you're in now, as if it was the next step in your trip. I love this mindset. Will try this tomorrow in school.
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:26 AM
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This is great advice, and you pinpointed exactly what I'm struggling with since I got back. But that's easier said than done though. Even with emotion out of the equation, just from a logical standpoint, as a university student, you should maintain the impression you give to others -- because your classmates that you meet everyday for the next four years are likely to be your future colleagues. If I "do me no matter what", joke around, take life easily, that will certainly give me a negative rep…
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:24 AM
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Yes, exactly. In hindsight, do you know how/why, perhaps, you lost your momentum?
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:15 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I definitely have my moments, but I'm sure we all do. Sometimes I feel like I'm on top of the world, I feel prepared, I feel awesome, because I know genuinely that I AM awesome. Other times, when I don't have enough sleep, ate too much, don't feel like talking... I'll completely shut myself out of the real world. I will take ages to respond to a question, and I won't come up with witty statements simply because I can't be fucked to. On one hand I could be effortlessly confi…
/r/seduction27/12/13 10:15 AM
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The problem instilled in me (perhaps from an Asian background) is that I fear invading people's private space. This isn't the fear of "oh well get out of your comfort zone". This is the fear that touching someone in a sexual manner is often seen as a taboo and often illegal. This fear instilled in me makes me really cautious when flirting around and doing kino. This is also the fear that I might get slapped in the face, that this girl would spread rumors and complain about me within our social c…
/r/seduction26/12/13 01:35 AM
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Completely agreed. I feel almost euphoric and most "myself" when I go into a situation out of my comfort zone, with the mindset and assumption that I am going to lose anyway, I'm just here for experience. Going into a wargame, many people fear getting shot, and this fear drags them back from progressing. I say go into the game, expect to get shot anyway. You'd have a much more driven mindset and you'd realize that "shit... It really wasn't as bad as I imagined it... It's all in my head!"
/r/seduction25/12/13 04:53 AM
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