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Women can only have a baby every 9 months. Men can have give their seed every 1 to 2 hours. Women are therefore the arbiters of reproduction and have the ultimate say, in a greater sense.
/r/seduction21/04/26 10:03 PM
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I think I'm going for the soft next. Thanks for your input. There's been unspoken divide over the past three days between us. She knows I'm onto her and now she's going cold. I'll let it fizzle out while getting prospects
/r/askTRP24/04/21 03:46 PM
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I describe a bit in other replies
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:07 AM
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Eh. If she did, she wouldn't want to keep coming over to my place. She'd see him on her own time. It's clearly for her to get another look on him and see if there's something there. When they were talking it was like they hadn't spoken before. They've only talked briefly a few times over the past 11 months
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:47 AM
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Shit tests come in many ways and flavors. Hard to give examples. Just constantly there checking the armor. You just know when the dial is turned up. Not a bad theory. I think she'd be more obvious than that. I think she's just not socially aware as most people. She's rather blunt but unintentionally, like a bad poker player. She's from another country so maybe in their culture people wouldn't question their motives and just assume it's in the best interest. We're less trustworthy, at least in th…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:45 AM
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Ya he's sort of a lowkey temperamental but to most subtle degree. Some "bros" are like that. All pleasantries on the surface but total dicks under that
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:40 AM
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Yeah perfect timing with the injury right after the loss Thanks for the help and kind words
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:17 PM
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Wow, thanks for sharing. I'm coming blind to all of this so just hearing a similar experience is really helping. And he did work is ass off for us, getting me sad remembering that. Thanks a lot
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:03 PM
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Yeah she doesn't seem stable when you put everything together. A loose cannon in terms of stability. She's a careerist, an immigrant and came somewhat from poverty, and is dead set on being at her potential apex in terms of income and status. Some of it may come from her insecurity, doesn't matter. I'm not where I need to be in my life right now and I think her hypergamy instincts are not having it.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:00 PM
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I totally get it. I haven't been on the main sub for awhile after the quarantine of the sub years back but will take a look and will take you up on your offer. Appreciate it
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:57 PM
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So fucked. But thanks for explaining. It makes sense. They're too tied to their primal ways where we have a little more awareness about situations My question is, are some girls better than others in terms of this? Ive known women in the past that have had much more genuine empathy. She also keeps referring to my "broken leg". It's a laceration from a freak accident hitting my ski blade. I still fucked the shit out of her with not being able to move it well
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:53 PM
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Hasn't been outright. She has a cover this whole time of things being simply normal interactions. It's connecting the dots and seeing her reactions is what makes it obvious. He's fits a Chad mold. Whatever he did or the progress he's made, it made her soft. That's just the facts. Meanwhile I was stumbling out to the living room with two crutches from an injury
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:50 PM
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I think you nailed it. The roommate fits more of the Chad mold, which I can hate on for being uninteresting but utlimately it gets the pussies wet. And I don't want to address the situation with him, that would just stroke his ego more and showed that he 'won'. Going to be tough getting to that next point of laying the news on her but I'll get there in time
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:48 PM
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Can't thank you enough for all of that advice. Been a tough month and one of those not sure what to do next, where to look to, what to focus on. Thanks
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:40 PM
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It's a big issue. A lot of my time has been spent figuring it out so hard to hide that fact. A lot of money will perk anyone up
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:34 PM
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Ha good catch. It would be difficult to have two stories with those details. I hide posts after a bit with personal details I guess some turmoil. Its just so blatant that I'm just shocked and with everything going on with father and injury it's a lot to digest. And there's many other factors like the shit testing and her maybe looking elsewhere as it is, while at the same time us being closer than we ever were. A head screw I'll keep her on the chopping block. Good to have some stability at this…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:33 PM
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Thanks man. Not easy
/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:29 PM
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They are in the same general industry. She might've been his TA at one point, hes much younger. She was up early at my house last week and took a biz call in living room. I wake up to them chatting and laughing it up for a while - 715 am..weird time to having for something like that. I walk out five minutes later and he quickly shut down the conversation - as in within five seconds - so you know there was some guilt or not wanting to get caught feeling there She asked for his last name later tha…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:21 PM
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Thanks homie. It's been tough but it's how it goes with father passing. And ya, her showing interest to roommate is even more of an insult considering what's going on with my life this month Good reminder, I hold the power given where she is in her trajectory. Thanks
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:00 PM
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Right on. Also had a ski injury this month so women must test in a trying time. Ain't no break from the hypergamy!
/r/askTRP22/04/21 07:58 PM
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I feel ya. I guess it hasn't been so obvious since they've only ran into each other once but we're chatting for a while when they did. However it doesn't take much to connect the dots that she has interest in him. Do you also think it's required that I drop her, so she could crawl back, and if she doesn't it shows she didn't care anyways?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 06:32 PM
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Ah alright. Then how do I go about it? It still looks like I'll be "overreacting" and digging myself a hole if I say anything. I am looking for options. I have a new side piece and looking to get a new date next week.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 06:29 PM
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What boundaries would that have been? If I said anything (I have been sarcastic telling her I'll say hi to him for her when she kept talking about him), it would be seen as insecure, jealous etc
/r/askTRP22/04/21 06:27 PM
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She has obvious interest yes, but aren't I supposed to not react to that stuff?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 06:26 PM
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I mean I sarcastically said something about saying hi to him for her. But the thing is either you don't react or stand up to her shit. Can never understand which is more appropriate.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 06:25 PM
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Thanks for the direct answer haha many got hung up in the long tale below
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:38 AM
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I got you. I guess it won't blindside me if she drops me soon or one day. But there's better time spent elsewhere. I've been trying to get out of this deadend job for a while now. I could definitely commit more to job search but it's really a situation where my skills aren't that transferrable to higher paying jobs. But whatever, can't make excuses
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:07 AM
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Oh 100% didn't realize it until this week and I was even denying the denial. Thanks for the reminder
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:04 AM
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I get what you mean. It's sort of a business proposition, don't want biz interests elsewhere. But, OF is so large that you could pull off both and there'd be little to no chance of her finding out, especially if you're not constantly making videos with plate 1. And ya, you're not going to have total control over plate 1's OF. It's her personal shit and you're not in a relationship or anything. I think you're expecting too much from that. I don't think it's a loss of frame per se. I'd just be alo…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 07:26 PM
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This is the answer, unfortunately for some, who aren't born with that economic standing. Like for men, coming from a wealthy family is almost a guaranteed social approval. They tend to have better genetics, more socialized and adjusted, less neuroticism, better career climbing ability and more willing to be in a traditional relationship because that's expected or innate in her from her family.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 07:14 PM
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She's leveraging the opportunity to make you exclusive. I wouldn't take the bait. You can have OF with the other girl so it's not like her offer is unique
/r/askTRP18/03/21 07:09 PM
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Thanks for the perspective. Ya she must be hiding some things. There's also times as a man where you can just sense another man has been around, in more ways than one. I won't call it quits yet but I'll poke around a bit so I'm not overconfident with my suspicions. The having her friends screen me is really strange too, good to know I wasn't crazy for thinking that. I get girls do that but it seems pervasive on her part
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:47 PM
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Honestly I've been mentally checked out with 'worrying' about this relationship. This long ass post was really the first time, which is probably the problem because I've pushed things under the rug
/r/askTRP18/03/21 12:13 PM
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Thanks for the breakdown. It was a lot of bullshit. Stings a bit but that's a good thing. And spot on with the bad out of bed relationship. Things can't be that special outside of that from afar. And I've always struggled with making friends. Been stupid and have tried to make friends through girls I've dated but of course you know how that always ends. Had a goal to make friends last year and lockdown happened. Not an excuse per se but damn near impossible to meet people nowadays. And I do care…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 11:55 AM
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It's of course an issue of focus. Sounds like you need a lot of stimulation / get a lot of stimulation throughout the week. One obvious suggestion is start practicing mediation to help with focus and to have your brain be able to in eliminate mental distractions more effectively. Another is to not have your phone around while reading. Your brain sees the cell as a far better dopamine hit. All the exercise and work also serve as dopamine hits so you need to learn to be able to relax without needi…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:59 AM
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Ya I fucked up hard. But sounds like there's no point in pursuing a third. Or should I just say fuck it and try for one
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:29 PM
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Ya I had to at least try and I didn't do shit. Any advice what/how to do a third date? I feel like I have zero momentum
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:49 AM
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I'm taller than her so I don't mind. She has model looks, not exaggerating that. I'm sure she's only has dated me because tall guys can be hard to come by. I find taller girls can be very sexy. Maybe it's a genetics attraction since I'm also tall
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:48 AM
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Ya I get you. Feels like there's momentum now since I was being such a bitch. I can't think of how to recover. Did the drink date. Food date. Not sure what else to do in this shutdown world
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:47 AM
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There it is. Best response so far. That's the mentality. Make her submit to you
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:31 PM
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Ya that's a good response but it seems it would only work if you're already in a place of secured dominance. I can't imagine going well with her. Sounds too try hard from where I am. I'm more with the former of teasing her. I think her saying this is a mix of her not being used to a more cocky guy, and using this opening to test my confidence and whether I'll bend to her
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:23 AM
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I'd say maybe 8 times out of 10 I don't pay for their drinks. Sometimes it's easier just to get the tab and get out of there and tease them that they owe you. But even if you get her to go home with you it's still not worth it to buy her drinks. Too expensive. Plus some girls if she's not feeling it, will sort of revel in that they got free drinks from you. Some girls know a sap will drop $40 on a tab just to get in her pants. And they may even sleep with you but never see you again. They got la…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 01:28 PM
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Not to get too specific but generally is it earlier in the day or early in evening say 5-8pm of that same day?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:41 PM
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Totally. Yeah, it is hit or miss with lower smv girls though. Some will almost never say no to a quick bang unless they have serious plans. But other low smv's seem to get anti-slut shield out and don't want to be just used
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:00 PM
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Gotta be the only reality you're experiencing right now in your room
/r/askTRP05/04/20 01:10 PM
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Friends in ltrs not seeing their girls looks to be the most delusional out of all of this. Dumb fucks
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:39 PM
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It is
/r/askTRP05/04/20 12:38 PM
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Pretty much
/r/askTRP05/04/20 01:08 AM
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What's that? I'm also joking
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:52 PM
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Ya just one of those you hate to see it die out like that. But thanks for responses, and that text guide. I just get in my head too much and should always go the brevity route
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:51 PM
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Totally. I knew I fucked up in the text. I was trying to be assertive but at same time not trying too hard to be. So it just got wishy washy instead. Any last ditch text with her? I know one text can ruin everything but we had a great time
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:28 PM
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There's just too much propaganda here for me to address. Either you see through the bullshit or not. One thing, don't trust the government's data, even it's from a healthcare "expert". This thing is an absolute sham.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:50 PM
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Every hospital is empty. See what Roosh has been saying. People aren't buying the lies. There's way more to this than some freak virus on the loose. It's a staged pandemic to forward certain State agendas
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:15 PM
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Every celebrity who has gotten it has gotten "I'm fine" symptoms. I'll test my luck in getting my dick wet over becoming celibate for two months over an overblown virus
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:53 PM
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No, learning how to get women and improving yourself only gets you more and more bottom of the barrel women. Pre trp I got HB8s, now I'm lucky to get a 50 yr old crack addict w no teeth
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:33 PM
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Bars. Parks with a blanket and drinks. That's about it. Coffee dates rarely go well
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:26 PM
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They've shown videos at the "war zone" hospitals. It's all fake. Biggest hoax we've ever experienced. World wide shutdown for nothing
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:20 AM
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People said that two and three weeks ago. Hospitals still empty
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:53 AM
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All it takes is some swipes on a dating app and a few msgs. Have had three their place dates and two dates at a park. I'm 4/5 for first date bangs, looking to get the day 2 bang on the no go first this weekend
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:42 AM
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Just for your little brain to realize a different reality, Ive had 4 different bangs in the past three weeks, going on 5th this weekend. "bringing healthcare systems to their knees" would be a rich man if I had a nickel for every time I've heard that. Typical State talking point. Meanwhile hospitals are empty across the world. Get a life
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:41 AM
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Well we all know you're the bitch because you're holed up in your little cell. Meanwhile real men are still out there getting pussy
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:26 AM
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I know some people are having a hard time in isolation but I wouldn't think it'd make them gay
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:17 AM
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Enough with the propaganda. Use some critical thinking and you can see it's not what they say it is
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:03 PM
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I dropped a girl I was dating for couple months for getting caught up in the coronavirus drama. Nagging, disagreeing, telling me I'm not understanding her fear of it. Fuck em. Plenty of other scared and bored girls right now needing a cock for comfort.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:36 PM
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That's it right there. Too late but noted
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:13 AM
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Oh for sure. I've been making moves trying to get dates at their place with bars closed with some success
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:54 AM
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Ya I understand that but at a loss of how to flip this
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:49 PM
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Yeah, it's definitely a combo of lack of control and underlying inability to control emotions properly
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:38 AM
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Oh for sure, completely with that last part. They work so hard to keep up the facade when sober. All falls away after a bottle of white
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:59 AM
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True. I had an unfortunate outcome when two plates found out about each other so speaking to that. Think mine were both a special case of possessiveness.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 06:13 AM
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Agree but most girls don't see themselves as plates. They're very possessive, especially if both these girls are reasonably interested in OP.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 05:58 AM
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This does NOT go well. This happened to me once. I aborted right before the party went down when I got invited to the same place. A mutual friend of theirs connected the dots when I said I'd meet one of them out later instead and hell ensued. I got one back but not the one I wanted. Unless you're in a group where everyone's very chill about everything. But highly doubt it. Girls are very possessive and vindictive.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 05:55 AM
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Thinking that you should go in there with the possibility of having to discuss more shows a couple things. Why would you care for a plate unless you wanted a LTR and hence oneitis. If you think she's done, zero sense being the one "who wants to talk about things", thats her job to come crawling back to you. Act like nothing happened and continue fucking her. If she brings it up, brush it off or give her shit jokingly as to why she's still thinking about it. She's probably out fucking some dude m…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 05:52 AM
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Under her frame how, by responding? This was the fourth time. Other times unsuccessful as well. Only second time I had her in bed. This was my last straw and was going to let her come to me first next, so I guess none of this matters. She came back (day later) but not in the way I thought.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 05:14 AM
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Gotta droid. But got you
/r/askTRP08/02/20 05:12 AM
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When I think I have it figured out there's still more shit to learn. Both of the super bowl half time show and girls in Europe I think were her asking. So a form of a shit test. You're totally right that there needs to be an accompanying tone of positivity involved, even when replying to a shit test
/r/askTRP08/02/20 05:11 AM
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That's sounds accurate. I was sarcastically being romantic that I'd rather have seen her dance at super bowl, or that no other girl would compare to her in Europe when Im going on a trip soon. Think she missed the joke because I said it in a straight tone because obviously both of those statements are a lie so I didn't really change my tone too much
/r/askTRP08/02/20 04:24 AM
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Ya I get that, I remember seeing that before. So you just flip it on them
/r/askTRP08/02/20 03:11 AM
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Whats that play again?
/r/askTRP08/02/20 02:28 AM
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Weed is terrible for healthy looking faces. Had a girlfriend who got really into smoking (thank you to legalization) and she aged about five years within a year.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 02:12 AM
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About 30-45 minutes. Came over late to a friend's girlfriend's hang at her apartment. Three girls, four of my buddies. There was alcohol but not major factor. Was successful by getting into a total asshole-flirt mode. Not answering the girl straight. Using physicality. Giving her shit. Laser dominant eye contact. And not trying to woo her like all of my buddies had been doing unsuccessfully for the prior two hours. Was teasing her and I picked her up for some reason. I then said which way is you…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 02:07 AM
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But responding bluntly is the right move in these cases, right? Playing into their frame getting girly like, "ya I know what you mean, I like you too, yeah maybe I'll see you around some time" or adding any humor like she did looks like a bitch move. Or there's the questioning as to why which again looks like a lame move. Questioning only seems appropriate in LTR cases.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 01:28 AM
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Get the sarcasm but not catching which way
/r/askTRP28/01/20 10:34 PM
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Nathan (Zoe's husband) is the natural alpha who lands a cute, young eccentric girl. She likes that he's a physical force and older but he also is easy to push around. He doesn't lead the relationship. He has the physical frame and looks but it's mostly a facade. He does the same in his interactions with his ex (Reese) who's an alpha chick who also gets the better of him and probably did when they were still together. Nathan is a common guy out there. They have looks and money but those are the t…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 03:09 AM
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That's not really portraying how a guy can be more rp. It's showing a personality type of a woman. And ya would think it would matter if a guy is going to pick up a whole series to get some insight from only two eps.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:56 AM
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People's wealth or lack of wealth is all over them. Telling them is just helping them confirm what they already suspect.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:50 AM
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Don't see your point with the Elaine part. And that was only one or two episodes with George
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:49 AM
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Shouldn't be watching anyone's insta story, let alone respond to it. That's orbiter catnip
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:47 AM
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Curious how? My guess would be Jerry's blase there's always another girl attitude, while George is in his head and overthinks it
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:43 AM
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Yeah that show is in your face "what women really want". Also Zoe Kravitz's husband (Witherspoon's ex) does anything he can to find out what is bothering her. Instead of letting her come to him, he gets fed up and spins his wheels trying to figure out why she's gone cold. And Zoe loses attraction in him while he grovels over what' could be wrong.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:38 AM
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I don't think guys don't realize that they're not interconnected. Personality issues are the crux of everything. Its more that girls are much easier to get than male friends (speaking personally) and there's more reward attached to getting girls over a buddy. Why try to woo a guy. The sexual attraction lubricant or pair bonding aspect also makes it easier to land with girls. On the other side, guys are only interested in hanging with dudes if they offer some social value to their life's or are h…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:34 AM
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How was I playing games? I said to her let me know if you want to come, she told me to text her later when I was there, I did. But then she took half hr to respond so went and made other plans. I guess I shouldn't have responded that next time. She had reached out to me couple times to hang out after I just left things. Doubt there will be another reach out if I blatantly ignore her despite her ignoring me saying let's hang out soon
/r/askTRP06/01/20 12:25 AM
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Responding would play in her frame right
/r/askTRP05/01/20 04:26 PM
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yeah but what good is respect from a stranger you'll likely never see again?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 05:00 PM
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Yeah, I get sort of too keen when friend zone might happen nowadays, so I just shut it down. I really wouldn't mind being her friend, she's a cool chick. How would I transition to being friends with her, just ask to hang out and smoke again? Also I'm going on two days of no response, might be too late.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 04:15 PM
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Yeah I get you. My radar was up because she was talking about doing a quick tittie flash to get the rest of our tab comped if we go over the gift card. And then I said it well worth the effort, gotta make up for so so first impression. Then she went straight to changing the time.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 12:36 AM
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That all makes sense. I wouldn't have thought twice and made it 8 but I can she has been toying with me, on top of just seeing a tweet about "stop being so accessible to women". I also said I can't do 8 couple minutes back. And she goes, oh shoot really? So I guess I fucked up?
/r/askTRP01/12/19 12:28 AM
1

Thanks for tha good stufft. I did forget about the girl and she came back to me. I don't need her but just trying to play my cards right and she doesn't play easy. Holding onto my power would mean holding to 7? I was thinking of flirting with her saying what straightening your hair takes an hour?
/r/askTRP01/12/19 12:23 AM
2

You mean my choice is irrelevant. It's thinking that my choice matters for my frame is what's wrong?
/r/askTRP01/12/19 12:13 AM
1

Came across RSD, then Patrice O'Neal's Black Philip videos and eventually through different videos and forums learned what trp was. Essentially the catalyst was being in a couple toxic relationships and google searching what the fuck I was doing wrong which led me to various online communities.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 01:03 AM
1

Here for responses. Haven't cracked it yet but got close by playing their game. Be coy, sarcastic and pressure flip. Any slip of your frame you're done though. I have met some friendly ones and have a FWB right now. She's cute but not one of the hot bitchy ones I want to conquer.
/r/seduction15/11/19 04:56 AM
0

You seem to be aware of your issue. Stop talking like a bro then.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:55 AM
2

I have similar mental inefficiencies so I totally feel you in being limited in some capacity. In my case, I have difficulty talking to guys, but I still have similar thing where its rare to get a date 2 with girls, even if I have sex with him. What I would recommend doing is learn some basic pick up and conversational base from RSD pick up. I don't think this sub in particular are huge fans of Owen and that company, but I think it's great for AFCs or noobs. I came to a series of big revelations …
/r/askTRP03/11/19 02:00 AM
2

Not to put hotter girls on a pedestal and be outcome independent
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:00 PM
1

Wouldn't be a bad move but your status in their eyes is probably already damaged. I would just remind yourself next time you're around a high quality girl.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:52 PM
1

Cut communication with girls in general?
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:45 PM
1

Yeah, If a girl points out I have petite hands or whatever I own it, or agree and amplify. I'm more insecure after the fact.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:31 PM
1

alright so what you're saying given my own SMV, I'll get prospects but ultimately there are market demands and I might not meet them. No point in getting butthurt about it but keeping doing what I have to do to get better.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:29 PM
2

Tried to escalate. She said she wasn't down on first night. And said she was already looking forward to date 2 after making out.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 01:37 PM
89

This happens to me as well. It's because you care more about girls of higher value and therefore are outcome dependent. Getting too much in your own head. Some basic solutions are try to give less of a fuck, get more options, or become more aware, as you've had, and tighten up your game.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 01:59 AM
3

I also game stupidly well with these types of girls. Lot of good responses already - girls who are taken use it as competition anxiety, their guards are down, they like the attention. To add to that, I think at the core it's just another manifestation of hypergamy. They also just want as much novelty as we do. Ultimately the want for novelty is sexual, but simple flirting will scratch that itch for them. I typed out a deep dive analysis about our primal instincts based off of "Sex at Dawn" mater…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:21 AM
1

Ya had no idea I was trying too hard. Given all that, do you think the next meet up should be more casual, nothing formal like a date date?
/r/askTRP15/10/19 10:52 PM
6

Because there's no uniqueness. Not knocking it but a lot of guys fish
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:19 PM
2

Career wise no. I'm stagnant at my job and can't find any other work at the moment. I do jiu jitsu and that has brought a lot positive aspects to my life. So, based on what you said, I should take it as a type of catalyst to grade up and find real fulfilment.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:47 PM
6

Yeah that could be it. I have a lot of one and done's for a variety of reasons. Having more secure, and fewer plates might help this.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:05 PM
1

5-7s. I get that but I had maybe the hottest girl I've ever hooked up with this week, her body was an easy 9 but still I'm like cool but overall indifferent. So I don't think maximizing to a 10 would make much difference. Guess I'm gay
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:04 PM
1

Awesome man. I like that game plan, thanks. Have a good month!
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:25 PM
1

Yeah I'd be able to manage ok. In the girls case though, I don't know how many girls would be comfortable going on a sober date like that if they still have nerves of getting to know someone. Plus, I don't have any regular texting contact with them so an out of the blue low key bf/gf date seems like it would be an easy thing to say no to, with how many options girls have, unless they're really into me, which could say is maybe one of my five options.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 10:48 AM
2

Yeah sure but they are hard to find. Just have to do your homework and keep alert for any signs she's like the rest of them.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:49 PM
4

Na. Don't support US imperialism
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:07 AM
4

Crabs in a bucket. Common occurrence. F them, you're moving up, they want to remain the same so they don't have to change.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:07 PM
18

"I'm better than you"
/r/askTRP15/09/19 09:40 AM
1

Ya thats true
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:50 AM
2

Did that because she was being really distant over text. Said to myself why give this girl a free pass. Now I know a dumb move.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:36 PM
1

Yeah I can of course see why it was seen as weak. What do you mean "it also let her see an opportunity to control something as a form of shit test". Her ghosting was that means of control?
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:11 PM
3

That's the burn I needed, thanks. But if she didn't like the wishy washiness why would she go through with plans up until four hours of planned date? My guess is she was really personally burnt by the "most likely" and just played it out to get back at me Sucks that reason I said most likely really came down to her being so distant and trying to get me to chase her.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:51 PM
2

Yeah you can ask her again. But you gotta recalibrate with better game and frame. Nice guy game is typical after date 1 2 or 3. You start to loosen up, the girls interest drops and her pussy dries up. I wouldn't overthink the ask. But drop that 'hopefully things are less stressful' crap. Get back to being the cocky alpha dude that makes her want to give you a head on the ride home.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 07:38 PM
2

As you said could be a lot of things. Even the kiss on the cheek could've turned her off. You never know, have to keep your awareness up to find out and calibrate. She decided on the place? Na, unless you've been seeing a girl for a while, you stick with your plan. I made that mistake recently. Maybe you weren't flirty enough, especially when she was bitching about stuff. Good opportunity to tease her and give her shit. Said your jokes didn't land - that sounds like you had things planned out an…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 06:46 PM
5

Ya thinking it was all planned out to go to game with a dude and a slap in the face to me
/r/askTRP08/09/19 06:28 PM
0

Fair. Bit ignorant of me. But at same time not much of a story. Got a post wall girl off a dating app.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:48 PM
34

Lifelong swimmer and have tall, A-frame body. I get looks. But that's not necessarily getting their pussy tingling. One time it was me, my girl I was fucking and my buddy, who is a gym rat. He wasn't throwing any game or anything but you could just taste in the air the girl being primally attracted to him. My six pack doesn't do that.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:50 AM
12

Still doesn't answer question why you were on grindr
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:34 AM
5

Was out for a friend's birthday. Long day of day drinking. Some girl in huge group had/has a boyfriend 20+ years our age. Seemed like a decent guy but didn't fit in with mid 20 year olds. I happened to get into his circle at a crowded bar and he tried to make conversation about why is there a black guy here and what's up with his gapped tooth. He was one of my buddies. He thought he was being funny. I walked away. Assessed situation. And walked back to him minute later, and he was still talking …
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:07 AM
1

Explaining Postmodernism: Skepticism and Socialism by Stephen Hicks. Hella wonky philosophically in certain parts but also a lot of gems. Reveals the framework and foundation for feminism and social justice warriors and what their ultimate goal is
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:11 AM
4

Get a girl who gives better head, cut back on porn, meditate and jack off without any stimuli
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:18 PM
2

You're in your head too much. Just try to have fun and be outcome independent. Or get better game. Read more content.
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:20 AM
1

I know, dumb hah. But she was being a cnt. I didn't push back inititally but she kept pushing me. Being a little juiced up, there wasn't much stopping me from pushing back after she kept going.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 02:48 PM
9

Ya some chick was getting in my space at show. I told her to back off. She didn't. Told her again. She then pushed me. I pushed back. I turned around. Five seconds later her guy friend or bf choked me out from behind. I get up someone pushes the guy back. I turn around again after saying leave me tf alone. He chokes me again. That's when the bouncers came over and kicked me out. The group behind me stayed because she knew people who worked there. I was with a fuck buddy and her friends. She was …
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:59 AM
15

Number. Girls give you their snap to add you to the army of orbiters that flood her with attention.
/r/seduction01/08/19 11:16 PM
2

I appreciate you going hard with your response. I always want as much raw truth as possible. Some followup - Regarding Outcome Dependency/Scarcity Mentality, you mean that practically every interaction and brain processing is ultimately looking for a form of validation? I was sort of thinking this last night as to why I feel not as calibrated to the norm. And I'm the opposite in terms of being around my own headspace. All I do is think, analyze and question myself. Its exhausting and yes, neurot…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:10 PM
1

https://relationshiphero.com/blog/the-key-to-being-attractive-to-women
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:44 PM
2

No, but I did grow up in a volatile house with a lot of parental fighting and abuse. Without doubt my personality has aspects of living through that trauma. Always had a lot of friends through high school, college things started to slip, post college things got worse. What I've learned is that through my own weaknesses in early development, didn't really get the right set of friends in high school to set me up to be able to make the right transition into college, post college and into adult work…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 08:54 PM
3

Sex at Dawn
/r/askTRP26/07/19 05:09 AM
1

Yeah you're right, definitely gotta pick and commit more to a style. Yeah, I wasn't a fan of his famous book. Couldn't imagine he had anything of quality regarding seduction.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:22 PM
1

Gotcha so just up the charm really. Yeah Manson can be a little bubblegum. What of his do you recommend?
/r/askTRP25/07/19 06:08 PM
1

No, your take is really spot on and registers with me. I tend to have a more free flowing dates, which as you said, isn't great because I have less control in steering it into successful results. I've done the emotional connection stuff but I open up too much an then the intrigue of mystery is gone. I think what you're saying is almost just focus on being the guy who's she going to fuck in two hours. Sounds too self explanatory but most of my interactions with her should be about get her to go b…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 03:15 PM
1

Alright I get that, thanks. If you get a no response, do you ever do a follow up? Heard some guys do to some success. Of course it's probably one time out of ten it works. Wondering if I could with this one "well anyway I'll be there Saturday maybe I'll run into you. If not lets do something where you're not in heels early next week"
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:27 AM
2

You answer straight then or don't give them what they want to hear and make them work for it?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 05:19 PM
1

I get that so you're saying I shouldn't respond at all and talk about something else
/r/askTRP21/07/19 04:47 PM
1

One was a slight lull and she switched the convo to that. The other one was after I passed a shit test and she responded by saying that
/r/askTRP21/07/19 04:39 PM
1

As said it's both
/r/askTRP21/07/19 04:02 PM
1

I've gotten this during an approach after talking a bit as well as from a dating app both this week. It's happened other times in past but can't recall what happened after. These ones, one I answered straight and they got bored, so I had to switch convo, the other I did the absurd and said I was a janitor and it takes up all of my time. Clearly, I don't look like a janitor but look like a professional. Find out for yourself is kind of what she's trying to do by asking, no?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 03:51 PM
2

Spin them. And try to make sure the other one doesn't know about it.
/r/seduction21/07/19 03:25 PM
2

I've heard this advice plenty of times but it still takes me reminding myself that a girl will find time if she wants to see you. That's it. No one is actually that busy except someone who's starting their own business. And she's likely asking questions about you just to keep you invested. She wants your attention bottom line and is not into you. I give a max of two asks out - then you check out, meaning stop texting her all together
/r/seduction21/07/19 03:19 PM
5

You've become aware you have the wrong mentality which is a good start. You need some inner work to do. Not sure where to say where to start but bottom of the line you can't let outside forces determine your internal state like that. Next time this comes up, observe the dude and try to see why he has this girl. He's obviously doing something right. Is he dominant, is he funny, is he well built/good jawline, intelligent, maintains a good frame etc. Try to understand why he has the chick and what …
/r/seduction21/07/19 03:15 PM
1

If you're just taking about texting, usually can tell if they're into if they hint at or want to meet up, or ask questions about you. Pretty much anything other than that can and should be treated as a girl wanting attention. I'm not sure if I read in a game book that attention to women is as or is more important to them than sex, but either way it's pretty damn important. So just always move towards meeting up and you won't have to worry about it.
/r/seduction21/07/19 03:11 PM
1

Lot of gold there. Also burned a bit - needed that, thanks. One thing, I don't give a shit how she feels, I was trying to think of a possible reason why they wouldn't.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 05:39 AM
1

Alright so you're saying texting should just be intuitive and not to put texting on some sort of pedestal. I get that, it's a process of letting go, and that will eventually translate into any lame texting or game go away.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 07:24 PM
10

"I'm better than you" - Patrice O'Neal (in reference to any woman)
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:18 PM
3

Are seems more accusatory, which is good.
/r/seduction17/07/19 03:48 AM
1

What's that implying though? That I don't come cheap? My one top of my mind was "someone's gotta pay, I don't come free" Or "ya she said your wardrobe could use a serious upgrade if you're talking to me"
/r/askTRP15/07/19 03:08 AM
3

Not familiar with this type of humor
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:58 AM
3

Totally agree. They will always default to better body if all else is equal. They're hypocrites. Something to always remind yourself. But don't fault them it's just their biological game
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:12 AM
5

I read somewhere in pickup community that it's because they prefer someone that won't be a challenge and have other girls eyeing him up. They have to worry less about him running away and can control him better. Of course, biologically, they all prefer a chiseled adonis. But we make exceptions for mates too. Dad bod is one of those exceptions for them.
/r/seduction30/06/19 12:15 AM
5

Yep and as you get older, the thrill or shine of a girl who's been around wears off. Instant turn off for me now. I'll still bang once or twice don't get me wrong.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 05:18 PM
4

Blocking or not blocking, it doesn't really matter. I find when girls block me it shows they cared more. But you really can make so many different counter arguments as to what's the better move. It's whatever works best for you and the context of encounter. I tend to not block, and will occasionally look at a girls story. You do never know if she'd ever come back. I also like to not look at stories and not like posts etc. A girl came crawling back when I didn't give her attention in these ways a…
/r/seduction23/06/19 09:43 PM
2

Sounds like you weren't calibrating correctly and were probably bring unattractively aggressive. And ya just learn from it. Dont have to be an asshole, just don't be a nice guy.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 03:46 PM
2

That's good man for this reason - you got honesty and an answer. Now dig into why you were giving off a bad vibe and try to grow and learn from it. Ship sailed on this one, just say "all good" and leave it at that. Sometimes that short of a response will bring her back.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:06 AM
2

Ya this is it right here. It will be your fault, no matter what, if she cheats. And people who have trp mindset should be unaffected if they do cheat.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 12:14 AM
1

You can't have one or the other. She will stray unless you're dominant and she has no better options, which is absurd to think with social media and the fluidity of women nowadays. Why do you care by default if she sleeps around occasionally if in in a LTR?
/r/askTRP23/06/19 12:08 AM
16

A loyal LTR now would have to be below your SMV . Or just go into an LTR without getting oneitis and caring if she sleeps around.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 02:54 PM
2

You got plenty of good answers. Not much to add. Sounds like she's shit testing. Or one thing to add, maybe you're over gaming, you're too smooth/acting cocky. Maybe relaxing a bit and drop the game a little bit. And as always, the default, she might not be that into you. Can't tell even with details. Either way, you're getting some oneitis - let it ride.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:51 PM
1

Hard to tell. She could think you're not man enough or worthy of sleeping with, so she's shit testing you - pass them accordingly. I think this is most likely. She probably testing for your worth or to see if you would just fuck and chuck. Aloof, agree & amplify - pass them tests - and keep advancing - two steps forward one or two steps back. Or, you're giving off a needy I just want to bang you vibe - which is fine in some ways - if seducing her is working - doesn't sound like it is. Or, she co…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:43 PM
2

Yeah looks like she's looking for a reaction or trying to get you to invest more. Aloof is good way to go.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 12:05 PM
2

All depends on context, variety of factors of what she intended with it and your appropriate response, or lack thereof.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:29 AM
2

You could change the subject or be more assertive and be like "ya no thanks, I'm good" said straight, or with a smirk or a small chuckle depending on circumstances.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:20 AM
2

Na. There's a good amount of TRP content on this. If anything a placid "my bad" is all I'd do and not harp on it.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:14 AM
7

Ya push/pull and polarity all done with brevity is key. Shorter texts with a slight edge and charm. Another key is not negging that hard with push/pull, unless the girl games well and can keep up. I've found lot of tinder girls have soft skin and can't take much jabbing. Don't try to get too creative - one, some girls see the try hard in it, two, some girls really can't keep up with you being that witty, or three, have enough energy to, or you're not worthy enough for them to expend energy on be…
/r/seduction21/06/19 04:00 AM
8

If you have good pics, don't look creepy and have good text game it can work out great. But sometimes there are long dry spells of not getting new matches. I've heard they don't match you intentionally to get you coming back to the app daily, and push to buy their premium shit. In your case, gotta get better text game. I get into runs where I can't get a number or any convo going like you. Then like a switch I'll remind myself of fundamentals and get multiple opportunities for dates in a week.
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:30 AM
-5

I'd try to dig deeper as to why you feel the need to apologize. Sake of your own conscience is an easy answer. Only ok way to apologize in this case that is well deep into a 10 minute something convo with her at party or whatever. It shows it's not on your mind if you say it casually when there's a lull in conversation, over acting beta and sending some sappy heartfelt apology for why you were a dick years ago. She likely forgot about it and does not care "oh that? It's whatever, that was a long…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 12:42 AM
1

She likes the cock carousel, has daddy problems or wants a more dominant/older man. One or all of the above. I wouldn't invest heavily and keep her as a side bitch.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 12:12 AM
3

Don't apologize. If she's asking about you and you've gone on well with each other sense - zero upside. She'd likely look at you and realize you're a beta bitch who's been hung up with something that happened that long ago. Should also rarely apologize in general. My guess is you want to start hanging out with her and you're worried that what you did eons ago will affect your chances with her.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 12:10 AM
0

I don't understand the logic that passing her shit test is shit testing her. It's not a secret that women will shit test at different frequencies and intensities based on a variety of factors. If she keeps shit testing you, and say you're passing, you're simply passing her shit tests. Shit testing her would be doing what they do to us. And most of the time I don't need to shit test a girl. Their value is easier to judge than ours. They're the ones who test our intellect and character.
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:01 AM
1

Ya I'm around same age but look a good 5 years younger. I can still get older chicks (shouldn't be that hard since they're hitting the wall anyways) by honing on a few things, mainly just sheer confidence in anything you do. Always low ball or high ball your answer when they ask for age. If you go high with 42 and they so no way, go yah just messing I'm 17. They'll then not believe that. Keep em guessing for a bit and usually they'll get some natural attraction just from you fucking with them. A…
/r/seduction20/06/19 11:56 PM
1

None of these are examples of shit testing her. These are passing her shit tests.
/r/seduction20/06/19 11:46 PM
1

Sounds like she's just trying to include her in the conversation. Polite thing to do if you're not right next to a person in a loud place. Would need more details to speculate what else it could've been.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:46 AM
1

Yeah that's the idea. It'll be a temporary solution. But she'll end up lashing out in some way because that validation won't be enough. If you give her more though, she'll have less respect for you. It's usually a lose-lose and a fine line trying to keep this type of woman pleased.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:45 PM
3

Give attention and validation like a medicine dropper, which means very infrequently. She'll wonder why you're different and will lust for you, not necessarily because of your perceived value but because you don't fall to your knees for her. Even though she wants endless attention, she won't respect you if you do - she'll just use you. This sounds like common trp advice but it's a more delicate game with dealing with bad daddy problem girls. The one likelihood is that since she can't control you…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:40 PM
10

Doesn't take much to hook up with them is one of the few upsides; they're usually nymphos. Their need for constant validation and attention is exhausting and isn't worth it for me. You'll never fully satisfy them and if you ever consider going LTR, you'll have to deal with a litany of orbiters they keep around to prop up their fragile egos.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 12:45 AM
1

The Power of Now is one of the books that really drilled it in for me. As previous said, you want no thought.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 05:34 AM
1

Sure do your thing. But this is a projection, I'm guessing it's some sort of subconscious defense of not doing it in fear of losing her if she finds out. I've had that before. Another element of oneitis imo.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:36 AM
2

Besides the good replies already, get some some side pieces to quell the insecurity and get your self back in a place of abundance
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:33 AM
2

Drinks at a bar. See where the night goes from there. Anything else is asking too much from someone you don't know.
/r/seduction03/06/19 11:40 PM
2

Yeah I agree. I said and/or. Good manipulation or calibration is far more likely.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:42 PM
9

Pet pics seemed forced. Shirtless pic is hit or miss. Better to be a natural shirtless pic rather than some weird pose.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:13 AM
14

Emotional calibration or good chemistry. Strong frame. Humor and/or hi IQ. There was a high trafficked post on this couple weeks back. Can't think of any keywords though.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 01:45 AM
-1

It's crazy the difference with vegetarian or vegan girls
/r/askTRP03/06/19 01:35 AM
0

I don't think has to do anything with her background. I've had a handful of girls with variety of ethnicities that has pussies that stank. Imo, in terms of telling her, unless you're in a LTR or something secure, there's nothing you can say. Just gotta ask yourself if it's worth it or not to keep fucking her.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 01:32 AM
1

No I didn't feel like high fiving
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:30 PM
1

I get all of those, thanks for opinion. Regarding trail passing, I'll chat with people give a friendly how's it going - it's when guys go out of their way to make you go first. It's like a form of Amog-ing that seems unnecessary for the situation
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:10 PM
1

Of course. But I genuinely did not want to
/r/askTRP02/06/19 10:07 PM
4

You really are butthurt over that sexy thing doing what she wants
/r/askTRP02/06/19 03:03 AM
3

I know man messing. It's your typical attention whore but at a higher level. I don't see what problem you have with her other than subconscious jealously you ain't with it. It's a degree of AWALT. Let them do their thing.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 04:32 PM
20

Link
/r/askTRP01/06/19 04:25 PM
3

Yep. If she brings it up to see if you're a bitch and will apologize brush it off and change the subject
/r/askTRP31/05/19 02:31 AM
3

Or play dumb "this isn't normal?" But that could come off a weird way depending how your rapport is.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:44 AM
14

It always amazes me that people who do this don't realize they contradict themselves within minutes. Girls are terrible liars is another lesson. And I do remember seeing this weeks ago. Good on you sticking with it. Just don't cave now.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:41 AM
4

This makes the most sense to me. So you if you look, you do it quickly, or more so passively? I'm trying to get a grasp of that mentality. Because I'm not staring, really just looking over but I can tell they get an instant vibe somehow, which I now is part of our primal self defense mechanism.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:27 AM
1

That's what I've been thinking too, its flooded with quality women. Then soon realized women weren't giving an IOIs to me today so something had to be wrong with me. Thanks for feedback.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:51 PM
1

I mean in general no problems with cashiers. Have a good rapport with one right now.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:47 PM
2

Yep haha. Especially on days when I'm beat and need a haircut - not a looker
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:11 PM
4

Yeah, as I mentioned in other comment, I was exhausted today, so could be giving off low energy/dark vibes on top of creepiness. But awesome, thanks for the recommendation.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 10:08 PM
3

I was exhausted today and it's the most time it's ever happened to me. I have a pretty dead looking face when that's the case. But you're right I have to be coming off creepy by one or a combo of those things.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:32 PM
5

I'd look at them if I was passing anyone. Objectively and soberly. I'd think adding a smirk would make any creepiness worse.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 09:14 PM
5

But if I give off a creepy vibe, so it is. Gotta find a way to fix that.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:09 PM
9

I do get some double takes and these girls are in a way checking me out because eye contact is made. But I don't do anything other than initial eye contact.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:07 PM
7

You fucked it up about three times. The emoji and saying hey. Then saying something incel like that I'd never thought you ask that. And then being too direct with your answer.
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:21 PM
15

Not necessarily Tinder first date but a Tinder girl I was dating for couple months was going alright although I could tell she was a crazy bitch. We ended up being fuck buddies but we got drinks and food about once a week. She was pressing for a commitment I think and at the same time was looking to branch swing, which was strange because we were'nt together, so it was a weird dynamic. I was pretty aloof because I knew that any investment was going to be shit on or a lost cause because she'd mov…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 04:33 PM
1

True and real sensitive to any light jabs too. Main sub is only accessible by PC right? Haven't been on since sequester.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:00 PM
1

That's why I defined what a prole meant. I wouldn't use the term because it's a bit of a derogatory term, as I stated. If I have the time later I'll find a link to the sub about CH getting deplatformed. It's all pdfs now
/r/askTRP13/05/19 11:48 PM
1

Nope
/r/askTRP13/05/19 11:41 PM
1

If you go back in this sub 3-4 days there's a couple comments with links to the drive of the work they saved of his.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 11:39 PM
1

So their own life can be insecure and uncertain money, or family wise so they want something solid to protect them and hold on to
/r/askTRP13/05/19 07:57 PM
1

Typically those not working in professional roles and of lower to lower middle incomes who don't usually get 4-year college degrees, and work at service, labor, retail, clerical office jobs. And they could work at white collar jobs now but they grew up blue collar so most of time that takes precedent for their personality.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 07:54 PM
1

I spent time with them less when I realized I was going to different levels. Didn't cut them out though.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:09 AM
1

Nice gains. How often you run or do you cardio in a week?
/r/askTRP06/05/19 11:14 PM
1

I socialize and don't have approach anxiety as I did when I was younger with either sex. So the baseline talking to people, if or not sarcastic on your part, isn't the issue. The actual way I socialize, most likely. But yeah, don't blame you for not reading it. I'll take that advice of being someone that is admirable or worth spending time with. Seems like a bigger challenge than landing some chick.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:25 PM
3

I've also had this automatic surge in cortisol anytime in confrontation. Even over text. I was he same as you as kid. Always on edge and ready for an attack due to an abusive father. What's helped me now is just realizing it's happen and just acknowledge this is my natural response. Lifting, running and especially meditation had helped control those cortisol surges and keep myself centered and coherent when I get confronted with something.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:19 PM
1

This is definitely a hotter one for me, so all makes sense. Also why I'm probably scrambling thinking of how to pull it off
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:52 PM
2

Yep thanks. It's pretty crazy how adept they are to catching a weak frame.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:45 PM
1

Yeah I wanted to hedge my bets. I wouldn't call it manufacturing drama, just trying to mitigate situation, but as you said not necessary. And yeah good mentality, I'll catch some playoff games.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:35 PM
1

Either play the game or find a niche that you can survive in without having to challenge alphas. There's plenty of universes in society be it the outdoors community, gaming community etc. And it's more subtle than that, you don't have to be part of some group of similar interest. What I'm saying is you could find people on the same level as you and operate successfully in that universe, even be alpha of your respected group. I do believe not everyone is cut out to be alpha. But no reason to have…
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:58 AM
5

Eyes will tell you everything. Darting back and forth is a good one. Also watching you get up from table or whatever - she's sizing you up seeing if youre worthy for her pussy. If no ioi she'll go right to her phone once you leave her.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:35 AM
3

Your age in college means nothing. I was a beta naiive bitch in my first years in college, then slayed in my senior and super senior years. It only gets better if you have right, fun mindset. Some of my buddies went from less than 5 notches on their belt after freshman year to 40+ by end of Junior year. It only gets better with better access to fake IDs, getting snuck into bars and house parties once you get off campus.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:30 AM
1

Gtfo out of that house or even city. It's abuse and stop putting up with that shit
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:24 AM
2

I'd you're gonna dive, go for numbers. I won't have one as a top plate but sometimes a bang is all you need to get ball rolling. Also, when a girl is a 4 or whatever, you can practice being the alpha not giving a fuck attitude, because you really don't give a fuck because she's not that attractive. Can then transfer that mindset over when you land hotter girls.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:21 AM
2

Although some in the trp community don't like RSD, I think they're a good resource for betas on how to be socially acceptable and to run decent game. There's a shit load of free content out there that helped me when I was coming up. After a while you won't need it and the focusing on trp content will be your focus. But my advice is you gotta take a step back and work on game fundamentals. Trp isn't meant for that.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:17 AM
2

I can tell you're stuck in a negative mindset feedback loop. First off, having your loans paid off by you're 25 is unreasonable for high majority of people. So put that out of your mind. And to that point you're 25. I didn't get my shit figured out til I was 28. And you failed at your launch. So fucking what. Read some biographies or memoirs of successful people. Everyone fails. You're hitting rock bottom. That's good. Only way to go is up. So much potential.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:13 AM
1

There's a market out there for what you're describing. Either buck up with your self or lower expectations with girls. Lowering standards will at least get a confidence base, then you can work up from there.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:05 AM
1

Having decent game, looks and social awareness. There's plenty of 5-7s out there that you can land with a medium level of effort. Looks will get you a long way, so if you're struggling, gotta improve one aspect, either looks, income, or game, and I'd throw intelligence in there. Looks of course either style or fitness if you're that handicapped with mediocre looks.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:59 PM
0

Id put myself in that territory. I have hookup enough with occasional dry spells. And I have respect for my current self, constantly improving, and more importantly have more upside than some beta bitch. I think a good portion of men, especially ones who have been at least red pilled, are in this in between category.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:51 PM
6

Yes you should definitely go out especially if you don't go out often. You never know what may happen. But (I'm projecting) if you go out with low energy not much will happen. But take it as time to practice socializing. You should be opening girls, but at the very least socializing 'should' help your depression.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:48 PM
1

Yeah could be. It was really nice out that Friday night. The reason why I had happy hour plans
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:27 PM
1

Yeah good points. Only way to know is to ask her to do something in a week or so. Goes against the soft nexting but a week or two of no text is non needy enough I think.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:18 PM
1

Yeah that makes the most sense. She's very new to the city and I could sense she wanted to find a friend group. I don't have one in my new city (different story). I believe she backed out on a Saturday plan of mine the weekend before. She wants someone with a busy life. Lesson learned
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:17 AM
1

Damn definitely those are great. Has to of course be said in right tone so she wouldn't get an impression of weakness
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:29 AM
1

True that. That's also part of it
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:17 AM
1

Yeah different definitions. Pressure flip to me means the topic is still on table.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:16 AM
0

Deflect covers those but all good
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:08 AM
1

Say nothing and dead eye her?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:57 AM
0

So I really just had to amplify to the absurd, deflect, or fuck with her for asking dumb questions
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:54 AM
1

It can be a sign of disinterest or can be a shit test. The world isn't so black and white as all the chumps are saying on here. A lot of it is context, how long you've known her, how she says it, her body language etc. Really have to feel it out.
/r/seduction04/04/19 07:37 PM
0

She's looking to branch swing. This backing away happens all the time. She either doesn't have the nerve to break up with you yet or she's using you as a placeholder until she finds the next guy. Also you're giving her a lot of "cutesie" texts. Girls can do that, not men. And just because she uses emojis doesn't mean you can.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:20 PM
3

I haven't updated my budget lately but I have an estimated $750 a month after fixed expenses and food. But that doesn't include gas and other random expenses. I have a food service side gig but don't have investments, revenue streams or anything special. And thanks mate.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 10:29 PM
3

Hey sidetable question. I joined a BJJ gym and was injured unfortunately from it after a month. But fortunately I saved $180 a month by leaving because I had a medical emergency which tightened my finances. I want to join back up for above and other reasons. I make decent money but $180 is probably close to 25% of my income after fixed expenses. Do you think it's worth it? I do have a side gig to help supplement my income but its not much.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:35 PM
1

Good moves. Will do thanks
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:06 PM
1

Na basic tinder
/r/askTRP01/04/19 05:24 PM
5

Do whatever you want. Have fun. But always outcome independent. Yeah it might sting if it doesn't work out but always another "one", as in hot one, to pick up.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:40 AM
1

These are fine. As one with a younger looking face, I usually just low ball my age a simple "I know, I'm only (insert age between 18-21, or a good six years younger). Saying 11 is childish. Make her think for a bit, as their little eyes go darting back and forth sizing you up. Amplifying that much on age, to me, shows it affects you. Just be non chalant and give her deadpan, holding eye contact stare, but with a friendly look on your face.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 08:12 PM
0

Probability wise
/r/askTRP31/03/19 08:04 PM
2

They're not. But they're forced to be good actors because they're very social with one another. They can't get buy in society being a stoic, soft spoken, mildly depressed man.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 07:59 PM
-3

That's typical. A lot of women's menstrual cycles match up. The days after their period they're super horny and will sleep with any decent bloke
/r/askTRP31/03/19 07:57 PM
1

It's not necessarily time, but more so mental energy that is needed or is preferred to be spent elsewhere. Sometimes I don't want to think of what to say, be it a girl, friend or family member. And in terms of girls, they will always be "busy" if you're not in her top one or two guys she's fucking or texting. They also have a flood of messages from a variety of source. Even if you are in her top slot, they'll stay play the busy game to get control and make you hunt for them.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:10 AM
1

Thanks for all of the insight. I'm about to be 30 and have options for room shares. Live in Denver where it's common to share because of ever increasing rents. I have options a $800, but dinky place in eh side of the city with two other guys who aren't really the successful type, but utilities included. I wouldn't feel that confident bring a girl back, but not a huge deal. Other ones are nicer shares, some with amenities for around $1000. My current share is the latter. I have a lot of debt thou…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 07:58 PM
1

Yeah, that's exactly situation. Art types have more to offer I feel in living situations.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:39 AM
3

The OP is definitely Todd, and I'm not complaining. Love his work
/r/seduction31/01/19 10:29 PM
1

Good mindset. It's not my problem and shes open to get it whenever she wants.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:15 PM
1

True. Fucked up initially by not saying can get it tomorrow and leaving it at that. I'm in a new city and she's already in the know I don't have any guy friends. Any excuse at this point doesn't hold up. But fuck it right? Can't do it tonight and let her hamster. And other girl had a life emergency and living with a friend who has a family and kids. So no go with going there.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:45 AM
1

Not sure what the big deal is here. Sounds like it's who she is. Not all girls submit easy. I'd drop her down in the plate ranking if not my type. There's a chance you'll look like a beta bitch getting concerned over a pretty trivial thing. If you were in LTR, it would be more appropriate to bring this up. But having a talk with a plate isn't a good look.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:40 AM
1

Stop being a bitch and get a life
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:05 AM
1

There was no way she was gonna off herself. Taking it to the extreme like that is just another form of manipulation by her. You held your frame, she did a nuclear move and it worked like a charm. It's also immature and would be the last red flag I'd need to drop her.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:02 AM
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Well gonna have to wait a week or so til I post a similar story. I have pretty much the exact story. Just dating to fill the void living in a new city and work mates aren't it. Good on you to join hockey league. I'd say keep joining other clubs to see if you stick with any one. Hard to give advice because I'm struggling too. But what I've been doing is when dating, really filter out girls who also have little to no friends. I dated a girl for a bit who I sort of made friends with her friends. Sh…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:33 AM
1

The Philadelphia Story. Just watch Cary Grant
/r/askTRP09/01/19 08:53 PM
2

Likewise. Some of my greatest months have been those months. My best month is usually January. Lot of girls get lonely during the holidays and feeling the unspoken or spoken shame from their relatives not having a partner. Also, with the passing of new year, girls internal clocks inevitably tick louder.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 04:04 AM
2

Definitely man. I wasn't eating as much bull balls or drinking enough bull cum. Great T boosters. After I got back on track, I was getting matches nearly every time.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:44 AM
1

Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman and Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. EI helped me realize how sensitive you are to your base emotional reactions. Meditations, similarly. Both help separate your mind from your brain, and help you become the watcher.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:40 AM
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