I was talking to this chick month or so ago off tinder. She left me on read but whatever. We were talking about a show we were probably both going to. Happens that I saw her at this show, which was pretty crazy given how big crowd was. I opened her and she ended up saying when are we gonna have our real date and make me give her my number. She even texted next day about how rest of my night was.

Anyways yesterday I made plans but probably wrote too much in one text, working on my brevity and I could tell her level of interest started to drop.

What should I send out before the date tonight? I usually confirm time or continue whatever we were talking about but seems like she's gone cold and asking to confirm will be weird. Or should I go nuclear and flake before she does, or cancel to regain some power and interest?