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Field Reportdisgruntleddigger/r/askMRP11/05/23 10:07 AM
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Field Reportdisgruntleddigger/r/askMRP22/01/23 12:40 AM
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It’s that they want nothing from them, there’s no emotional labour and effort placed on the girl. She can be with a guy that has zero expectations on outcomes of the relationship, he’s older and knows what he’s into, has taken a few knocks, has boundaries and expectations for those who want into his life. Ever had a shitty boss that makes no one happy, because the goal is to keep everyone happy, so everything is okay, but nothing really works. And because they are always keeping the peace that h…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/24 09:09 PM
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Well if you’ve ever had like a little cousin, or maybe even a gf, basically so unrealistically into it’s fucking weird and draining. Like we’ve all seen that emotionally uncalibrated girl, that is over the top, like the kid hanging out with and older idol, that over the top laughs and loves everything their idol says. That’s what it feels like emotionally to women, when your into them, it’s just too much. As for the threesome thing, meh, it’s honestly a mix between competition, status, and your …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/24 06:51 PM
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Honestly, I had tinder, plenty of fish, and was doing cold approach, then after I had a nice rotation, some would drop and others would come on, it became effortless. I never thought it would go anywhere, because I never thought I had anything they wanted (internalised blue pilled conditioning), but I accidentally slipped into abundance. I couldn’t hold onto it, but I recognise what it was, and how I was. I just didn’t care, and they wanted to win me. It ended when I got major oneitis for this a…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/24 08:03 AM
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The most I’ve ever fucked, was when I was a struggling apprentice, fresh out of the Army, medically retired, on crutches without a car. Moneys not the problem. Check you fucking head mate
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 08:16 PM
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You’re correct in your assumption. I’ll take what you’ve written and think about it, and where I am fucking it up. I don’t trust a lot of my communication. I was going to because I still seem to be fucking up. But it occurred to me whilst writing, that I am still to a great outcome dependent on my communication, or what I want from it.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 09:15 AM
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I have found, this is a strong emphasis against communication/talking, and instead a push towards leading and guiding. And I understand, as you can very easily fall into DEERing and talking instead of taking action. However there’s a place for communication, but there’s a part I am very obviously missing.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 01:47 AM
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What’s stupider than not paying, and I’m NOT saying you should’ve is the dumb embarrassing game you played mate, having her run through the lack of payment options. I say this not for her, fuck her. But can you imagine being behind “that couple” at the register as you’re waiting to pay and leave. You’re making it harder than it needs to be. Pay or don’t pay mate, but jesus in christ don’t run an on the spot credit and payment option check.
/r/askMRP05/01/24 08:54 PM
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Stop overthinking it, and why are you doing dates? Drinks, I get this round then you get the next round. Takes the level Investment and entitlement out of it. Just fun and low key.
/r/askMRP05/01/24 08:44 PM
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Can you expand on this? This is an issue I have, because “communication is wrong” but as you say, you can’t not talk and just lead in every instance. Specifically using the anal example if you could
/r/askMRP05/01/24 08:43 PM
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You’re young, younger guys IMO have this in spades, this need to prove themselves. It mutes a bit with age, and competence. My nephew’s argue like all fuck, they’re 8, 10 and 12. One will have a shower, then another one will come up and say that he’s dirty. They then fight, and eventually run up to their mum in tears. She asks what the hell happened, “He said I was dirty, after I showered, but I wasn’t. And I had to prove I wasn’t”. That’s you, whenever someone criticises or judges you, arguing …
/r/askMRP05/01/24 08:00 PM
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OYS #11 Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 89Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 under 1 Lifts and Fitness: GZCLP: BP 90kg (Down to 70kgs Injury), DL 130kgs, OHP 57.5kgs BR 65kgs SQ 55kgs. Consistently making 30kms a week, was easily hitting the marathon distance a week, but it involved two runs a day, as it was more time than I reasonably had, I was letting other shit slide. I now need to increase my distance and speed on my morning runs, fused ankle makes this a process. I went to a powerlifting g…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 10:29 AM
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So four children
/r/askMRP14/07/23 08:22 PM
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I agree on your points that having a kid is not a simple fact, and couldn’t agree more that you only hide what you’re ashamed of. Your right in that if Op wants more down the track, and I’m always on the side of tell the truth, no matter what. I can’t be bothered with lying, and frankly hurt feelings aren’t my concern. Same with deal breakers, deal breakers are for investment. My point is more she’s a once off (at least the way I took it), maybe a casual, even if she was in rotation, it’s not re…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 09:57 AM
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You got a Link to the post?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/23 11:12 AM
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That's really good, I wouldn't have picked up on it like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/23 10:55 AM
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Is there a way to get all this on the downlow before the subpoena? Vehicle tracking, conversations with 3rd parties? Not sure if digital forensics is an option? For example if all the bills and devices are in your name can you get that shit checked, without her consent and ideally knowledge?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/23 10:38 AM
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this
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/23 10:29 AM
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I think the fact that you lied about having a kid was what made me jump on you about it — why is that something to be ashamed of? I thought it sounded weird when I read it, but I tried to put myself in Op's shoes, and thought in that position, where is this going to to lead that is of value? Me having a kid is none of her business and shouldn't help me fuck or not fuck her. I imagine the AA, "Kids oh I have a few, at least I think I do"
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/23 10:29 AM
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That is a great distinction
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/23 10:11 AM
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I know I’m not owed anything, I was angry for not not getting, now I’m mad at myself for not going about getting. I’m aware it’s all me. How do I attract choices in my favour? I am in decent shape, my style is good, and I have all the beta things locked away. As I try to write this I realise I have nothing really that excited other than the typical bullshit that 3 billion other AFC’s have going on. So clearly a lot of work to do. (Additional) I think I am not entirely clear about what I want, at…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/23 11:02 PM
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Yeah sort of, but its almost a covert contract, I expect that I "should" just get this as a result of my efforts. I am fully aware that this is a block for me, and I'm not sure how to either just ask for it or escalate it in such a way to communicate my wants/needs. I have read around here heaps and everyone says, communicate without words, or that it happens as a result. I have episodes were I have escalated and got like road head as an example, after drinks on the way home from a lunch date/ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/23 12:19 AM
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OYS #10 Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 89Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 (8 month old) Lifts and Fitness: GZCLP: BP 87.5kg, DL 112.5kgs, OHP 52.5kgs BR 60kgs SQ 45kgs. Consistently hitting the 40kms a week mark. My Mission: To create a life for me, freedom, truth and happiness. To be a man that genuinely and deliberately embraces challenges. To be a man that is honest with the world. To be come a man that is physically free and capable to take on the world. My Vision: To create a life of hap…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/23 11:16 AM
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To be a man that is honest with the world, and those who have earned his investment Pearl's before swine read the thread. This was a great. Honesty is honesty, and you give it freely, without expectation, but also without control. Who decides whether or not they have or have not earned it, who decides whether or not its investment, then who decides if they price was fair and what to do with the said exchanged goods, that being the honesty and investment. My gift was giving her complete autonomy …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/23 11:40 AM
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Its that juxtaposition that I find myself in. However the same thinking that helped get you into the problem won't solve the problem. So I grew up relatively well off, then dad left. Then we had nothing, and I had to claw my way into anything. So that rage was a useful tool, however now here its not helpful in keeping the same position.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/23 12:14 AM
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So you still get annoyed that your woman behaves like a woman, and fumble around with the controls to find the right buttons to push. No fuckin shit, learnings a process Jesus. Now we know why Rule9 enforcement was so fundamental. Everyone is trying to lead fix their goddamn wife these days. I ain't fixing her, I've got the problems, and she is a reflection of my shit. But I'll get there I promise you that if you focus on you. Say and do whatever you want whenever you want. DGAF about the reacti…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/23 05:52 AM
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Its part of the churn dude. A lot of guys come in, ask a question, throw some ideas out and get smacked about, frame checked, can't handle it and spaz out. Guys with no frame, living in their wives frame, or just fucking clueless. They come in and ask a question, and get obliterated, by a subreddit of guys in the anger phase, in the over the top just had some initial success big dick phase, and they flame out.
/r/askMRP01/07/23 05:38 AM
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Give this ago mate how to want what you want, if nothing else it’s a good read.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/23 04:12 AM
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Yeah that’s more or less her default, she likes to be rag dolled, and just lead and moved around. But this time just had a different flow to it. I initiated, then she escalated it, but then sort of lost it. Ultimately don’t care got laid, but I want I to make sure I aware of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/23 09:39 AM
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OYS #9 Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 89Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 (7 month old) Lifts and Fitness: GZCLP: BP 87.5kg, DL 112.5kgs, OHP 50kgs BR 50kgs SQ 50kgs. Consistently hitting the 40kms a week mark, and fucking loving it. My Mission: To create a life for me, freedom, truth and happiness. To be a man that genuinely and deliberately embraces challenges. To be a man that is honest with the world, and those who have earned his investment. To be come a man that is physically free and ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 10:27 AM
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If you don’t know something, then you don’t know it. All standard NMMNG stuff. Do you you have needs? Do you thing others want to help you meet those needs? Do you think the world is a place of abundance? Her anger is probably about both, a mix of security needs, then issues cascade and either exacerbate, or remind/reinforce, the lack of those met needs. But taking her out of it, how long do you need to keep owning it for?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/23 11:36 PM
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What if she was depressed because she wasn’t getting her needs met
/r/askMRP26/06/23 01:20 AM
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Now you’re clingy and she’s still unreasonable
/r/askMRP26/06/23 01:19 AM
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This issue is not a lack of Beta
/r/askMRP26/06/23 01:11 AM
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I always drive to some extent, even when she's on top, but I tried letting her drive the sex since she was pushing and had given me some no's ahead of time, but it was awful. Dry shitty low energy sex, could barely stay hard. I gave up and took over and a good time was had by all. Bad experiment. At least I'm glad I didn't come in with expectations or demanding anything like in the past. So a couple of parallels that jumped out to me, and I wonder if its a leadership problem/hamster in the maze.…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 11:54 PM
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Not shooting for a formal 24/7 D/S dynamic at the level horns describes. Sounds exhausting even if I could make it happen. But I enjoy domination and I can tell she hates being in control and gets a thrill out of submitting. I think its about offloading the responsibility, same with everything else female "What do you want to do/eat/etc?" They want to lead/tricked/manipulated/dragged into being happy and whores
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 11:39 PM
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There seems to be a mild obsession with D/S among MRPers. Idk if it’s because a bunch of guys look up to u/hornsofapathy or because that would mean sex on demand (or a way to get special acts). I had this thought, there's a litany of post's that talk about how at a point guys get past frequency and specific acts, and then define what they are happy with as "quality sex" to them, I wonder if the D/S thing is the same. As you say the On-Demand idealisation
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 11:36 PM
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I'm not saying don't set a boundary. I'm just saying that always withdrawing can be seen as weakness (i.e., you can't handle her). Is this not operant conditioning = Extinction?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 11:33 PM
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Briefly, we were going on a trip and she took the car in for service while i was at work. They did some extra work and then charged her even though she thought it was covered under warranty without telling her they were charging her. So essentially the situation made her feel stupid, and then you pointed it out. I needed to sort it out and had to ask her what she agreed to/signed when we saw the charge after we got back from our trip. However, you're getting at something that is a real issue and…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 11:30 PM
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That's interesting, how did you get that? Genuine question.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 11:22 PM
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In my experience, a cool IG profile can be attractive for some people but it does feel very fake at times. No shit it feels fake. Of course its attractive, because its fake. And its attractive to other people faking it. She also made me feel like I was forced myself on her in a non-consensual manner and that is incongruent with the type of person I think I am. Dude you were asleep, tell to her sleep on the couch for her own safety if its that serious of an issue SO suddenly asked for no physical…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 07:32 AM
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So I tend to shrink a bit around other men who enjoy and talk about it. And instead of humbling myself and asking them to teach me, I just nod along and act like I know what the fuck they're talking about. Shit is sad. So I would given the length of your career, you are in some form of leadership position? If one of juniors came and ask you to teach them something who you rub their face in it? What is it about this that so difficult? Classic Nice Guy tendencies: - Seeking approval or avoid disap…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 03:56 AM
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You can't make anyone do anything for you. You can be valuable enough that others will want to do things for you
/r/askMRP24/06/23 02:16 AM
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I tried this, and it’s not bad as a starting off point, but eventually you end up as two people at an event not sure what to do. But it’s not bad to get things going, but eventually you need to lock on to what it is you like. As an example, we went to a BBQ & Grill festival a couple of months back, we enjoyed it, but we ended up back at the StrongMan/Powerlifting contest that was a side feature, more than the initial festival. I enjoy my gym, my wife used to be very active, but she knows I like …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/23 12:04 AM
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I really like that
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 11:58 PM
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Who has ever say down and said I shouldn’t go to the gym with the sniffles in case I get myocarditis…. That’s the most random abstract possibility ever, just own that you felt like shit and we’re to lazy to go. Did you research that so you had an excuse jesus
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 11:56 PM
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Thank fuck someone else jumped on this
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 11:53 PM
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Don’t hide it, people only hide things they’re ashamed of.
/r/askMRP23/06/23 03:04 AM
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This
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/23 10:17 AM
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Don't forget NMMNG
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/23 10:17 AM
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taking care of our home (50/50 with my wife - hooray for equality), What is this? What is the split, do you both work? Could things be done easier/better? My wife like all incredible women has a mythical way that things "Need to be done" which I look at with 'No wonder it takes a whole fucking day'. Change that shit up, or drop the standards to something you can live with, or on a timeline that works for you, or get better at it. and lifting - I hardly have energy left for being social with frie…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/23 10:16 AM
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Ever since I found MRP I have put emotional walls up with her, (incorrectly) feeling like I needed to STFU and present a calm, cool, confident exterior and that I could not show any emotion or communicate with her at all about how I am feeling or about my desires. Been there and did that. This helped me While this led to serious improvement in my frame, It went so far in the other direction that I am not really fun to be around anymore, and on top of that, she is stuck in the maze and doesn’t re…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/23 10:01 AM
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We just bought a house. Hmmmm.... But now I don't feel much for her anymore. Makes sense ​ I fully intend to work on these issues and I'm starting right away, hoping that my lack of attraction towards my LTR is due to my shortcomings. The opposite of love isn't hate, its apathy. She loves me and she shows it in ways other than sex. Are they ways you value? Did you lead her to these?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/23 08:18 AM
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What did she come home with a dick drawn on the side of her head? *Was here They are people, and are as loyal as their options, or as loyal as they choose to be, it’s not about them
/r/askMRP21/06/23 11:08 PM
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What if your gut says that she cheated, because your world view is skewed because you’re insecure or validation seeking. Your scenario also describes a soon to be separation, while I take your point that sometimes you just know, Op is in a marriage, and also buried in the comment’s somewhere half way down that he cheated. Either way, it makes no difference, the evidence will never be good enough. And your feelings will lie to you because of your ego.
/r/askMRP21/06/23 10:28 PM
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It’s offloading the responsibility. As actionable advice, what is Op, me, you, anyone supposed to do with that. Trust your gut - the reason it’s OYS is for you to examine you, and any potential blind spots. Your gut will lie to you, and have you hamstering, running off emotions. 50-50 chance, there’s nothing Op, me, you can do other than vet “better/quality women”. You are the prize, what can anyone take from women are shit and do with it?
/r/askMRP21/06/23 06:40 PM
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Burying the lead
/r/askMRP21/06/23 05:56 PM
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That’s shit
/r/askMRP21/06/23 05:56 PM
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Mate Guarding I don't think it's wise to let a woman travel on her own. Where do you live? Mogadishu. Do you both work? School? How do you plan on having this work throughout your life? My LTR told me she suggested to her friend that they do a girl's night out with the intention of her girl getting some. This I get man, but the answer is no if you don't want it to be man, just no. "I'mm not really into that type of thing babe" I think this will be an issue that comes back up, and I am interested…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 10:13 AM
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Oh I'm very aware of the link, and wouldn't you believe the relationship improves overall as well
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 08:25 AM
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OYS #8 Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 89Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 (7 month old) Lifts and Fitness: GZCLP: BP 87.5kg, DL 110kgs, OHP 50kgs BR 50kgs SQ 45kgs (I have stalled at the moment tweaking the program) My Mission: To create a life for me, freedom, truth and happiness. To be a man that genuinely and deliberately embraces challenges. To be a man that is honest with the world, and those who have earned his investment. To be come a man that is physically free and capable to take on t…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 10:28 AM
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Great Post
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/23 09:47 AM
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Nothing would make me happier than for him to be a skinny fat cunt. If he leaves her, at least one of them will end up with a man in their lives.
/r/askMRP17/06/23 05:56 AM
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A couple of points, there’s is nothing about your lifts and you, no idea about YOU Also you sound like you don’t want her to do it, YOU want her to want to do it, validation. You spoke about and she started doing then stopped, what changed? Because you started getting results? I get it you want what you want and are attracted to what you’re attracted to. But for fucks sake your here because you’re wife is skinny, and YOU can’t find a way to get her to work out. YOU hire a nanny, or recruit a fam…
/r/askMRP16/06/23 10:27 PM
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Appreciated. I am only considering to get past the short-term issues, but I generally view this as a cope. I have a series of other options before using this, for example I have money saved up, so quitting and spending a few weeks resetting is an option. Taking a step back professionally, and taking on much less stressful and lower paid job short term. Thank you for the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/23 07:46 PM
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As long you recognise your covert contracts for what it is, try and get blown out, but either way you’ll know. She’s avoiding that’s fine, but initiate anyway. It’s a variation of the gym bag routine.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/23 04:05 AM
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Honestly I’m not from your culture so I will have to take it as true, but are you happy with this? What is the strategy and goal here? I read through some of your stuff last night, aren’t you guys newly married? Not even a year yet? Why are you tolerating any of this shit? And why are you rewarding this? If it is as you about her dodging responsibility, and seeing whether or not she can trust you? How does your actions demonstrate this and set the expectation for your relationship? They way it l…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 05:54 PM
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100%. You are allowed to be illogical in making your decisions Bill of Assertive rights No. 8 If you want it one way and one way only that fine, and it only has to make sense to you. That whole reciprocal is 'Blank slate equal-ism' and BP fairness, cut that shit away, of get a tranny
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 10:26 AM
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I have been just going up to bed when I want to as opposed to sitting on the couch with my wife while she watches TV. I don’t typically enjoy what she is watching, and oftentimes even if we have an enjoyable conversation, she still gets back to her TV and will often fall asleep on the couch. This has been very frustrating to me and I have tried all the simp ways of addressing this (complaining, nicely encouraging "being playful"). Why is this frustrating you? For the moment, I prefer to go upsta…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 10:17 AM
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Still staying with her parents Why? and for how long?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 10:09 AM
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I tend to try forcing sex more near shark week, Nice Guy I become needy as fuck when this happens, and the neediness can likely be sensed from a mile away. You think mate
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/23 06:10 PM
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I find so many guys boring and useless. I try and find the things that make people tick to get interested in them, but too often it’s just whinging about their life situations or escapism through gaming/sports. Its fucking hard, as you get older and have kids, dudes are fucked. How many do you have? How many do you need? What are you looking for from these friendships? Starting with values helps, I recently tried joining a rugby club. Poorly organised, all guys way older than me, not crowd that …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/23 06:02 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 88Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 (6 month old) Lifts and Fitness: GZCLP: BP 85kg, DL 110kgs, OHP 50kgs BR 50kgs SQ 45kgs Slight de-load to adjust to next iteration of the program. Bench is absolutely sucking since I have started running the new running program, most days 5-6kms not at a marathon a week yet, but hovering between 30-35kms. My Mission: To create a life for me, freedom, truth and happiness. To be a man that genuinely and deliberately embrac…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/23 10:32 AM
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We disagreed about them, so she felt the need to revisit. Did you want to revisit them Basically this is her expressing her boundaries for being in a relationship, since she doesn't trust mine. Her boundaries eh My friends say the same. I'm blind to this because of lifelong scarcity. While in a relationship it seems impossible to realize abundance and change this mindset. Because you are not the judge of yourself and your word
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/23 10:06 AM
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I’m pretty sure this standard. There’s lingering resentment usually for both parties, so it’s common to want to game new over the old.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/23 10:07 AM
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Not measuring the progress of my journey in something external as sex frequency however seems like a good idea. Sexual frequency shouldn't be a measurement tool, but it should be able to help you gauge where you are at. Wet pussy's don't lie. ​ A much better metric is how satisfied I am with my life. This is what I think is a good measurement tool. ​ The rejections are telling me that I am not yet high enough SMV and that my game and initiations are weak. I think its a good indicator if nothing …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 08:27 PM
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Mission: To build my body into an impressive shape, build my personality into a disciplined, stoic, and dominant version of myself, and build an abundant social and professional life where I feel like I am able to express my personality in all situations. I like this Lifts I felt great about my lifts this week - I've been ticking up my PRs in all of them except for BR, which I deloaded in order to change up my form. I had been doing them with my back at an angle, like more close to vertical than…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 11:05 AM
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After no sex, and being rejected for the fourth time this week, I felt a sting of disappointment, indicating some unmet validation need. ​ Removing the pressure of feeling the need to initiate frequently actually brought back my desire, after having had a super low desire since stopping sex for validation. ​ Another part of my disappointment when rejected was some mental math, where I calculated that it's likely that we won't have sex for three weeks due to common excuses (relatives staying with…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 07:19 AM
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Friend's bachelor party is coming up. SO and I discussed ground rules. She's withdrawn from me after I refused to agree not to participate in stripper activities. Why would you discuss the "Ground Rules"? Of course she's withdrawn, you have given her the power to decide what is acceptable for you to do, so she has the power to judge you actions. You don't disagree or agree, you fog and broken record that away dude. ​ I'd guess the real men here don't dabble in strippers. What the fuck, what is a…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 06:44 AM
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Why do you think the upvotes?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 05:20 AM
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Once I hit a plateau with this program I'd like to train endurance, power and general athleticism for a few weeks. okay dude, not trying to pile on with everyone else but FFS. Say you start with the bar only 20kgs, then 2.5kgs per week for 34 weeks your lifts would still be higher than what you are currently at. This isn't a meathead thing, at week 34 you are pretending.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 05:18 AM
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If I am asked to do something I don't need to do I just say "sell it to me and what I get out of doing this for you" is very quickly showing the manipulation on their part or having them negotiate a better deal for me to do it. I fuckin like this, permission to steal
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 01:18 AM
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I have been focused on compliance tests and feeling my way though what I actually want to be doing at all times. I find this is a sticking point for me, as with kids (baby in my case), there is always something to do, and so trying to be unapologetically selfish, with my time, whilst good captaining I have found is a hard line to work, coming from the frame of a Nice Guy. It's been interesting to observe what happens when I just focus on what I actively want to be doing when she tries to dish ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 01:12 AM
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A lot of people don't advance in their career and miss out on a lot of opportunities because they don't take a chance. I know some people that won't even apply to a new job unless they check every single box in the job description. It's just more NMMNG stuff at work IMO. I needed this slap in the face this week, thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 01:06 AM
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I usually always tailor my resume to each individual job I apply for, so that I can draw out what past positions have taught me that specifically makes me a fit for the new thing. I always update my resume every quarter, but if absolutely required will update the resume, but IMO that's what the cover letter is for, drawing specifics from the job being applied for and how it relates to the resume.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/23 01:05 AM
1

Yeah usually that’s my jam, immediately go for the sexual innuendo and AA at any sign of sass, I was just completely caught off guard, not paying enough attention to the dynamics. That’s also my new mental model approach, I’m giving out her dick for comfort. Sassy, assumed she needs dick. Upset assume she needs dick. Needs dick, I got you mate, here’s some dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/23 07:34 PM
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You seem to have / have had more faith in your wife’s ability to step up. I'm not you, and maybe we are giving her to much of the benefit of the doubt, is she possibly running at her 100%? I had a mate who come from a Mediterranean culture, big wog dinners and the works. His missus came from an Eastern Bloc European culture, and they both said they wanted a close family when they were married. Fast forward a few years he always wants everyone over all the time, she cant stand them living in thei…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/23 06:59 PM
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I've been working on instilling good / better habits for our kids -- less sugar, snacking, screen time, more time outside and more physical activity, etc Are these habits contextualised, what I mean is are they part of your vision in a way that's easily understood? For example when bringing in a new process at work, anchoring it to a new value or an existing business requirement gets that buy in (Carrot). Whereas the because I said so take more management (Stick). She apologized and corrected, b…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/23 06:46 PM
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Not even RP even their own attraction triggers and biology
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/23 06:29 PM
1

I like the way you put that, I had never thought of it like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/23 09:35 AM
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I think Rollo can be a bit much at first, sledge hammer vs the chisel of NMMNG or WISNIFG, not bad just really forces that pull down. 100% on the quitting porn, I was better with my wife also.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/23 09:29 AM
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OYS #6 Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 88.5Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 (6 month old) Lifts and Fitness: GZCLP: BP 97.5kgs, DL 122.5kgs, OHP 62.5kgs BR 60kgs SQ 55kgs Best Lifts thus far. I have gone from four days lifting down to three, but I have increased the cardio in off days, and have a new goal of trying to run a marathon a week, 5-6kms a day and extra on the weekends. My Mission To create a life for me, freedom, truth and happiness. Why am I here Trying to unfuck myself, trying to …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/23 10:44 AM
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But why is he still in your life? Why is he still in your life enough to know her, meet her, and have access to anyone in your life? Are you aware of the Scorpion and Frog parable?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 11:27 PM
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Maybe its just me, but how the fuck does this guy have access to you and your new girl, after having priors for fucking you over. I understand a guy screwing you over once, fuck it happens, but how does it happen twice, how is he still close enough to be even know your gf, let alone fuck her. That is on you, why is this fucking dude still in any way in you life
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 09:59 AM
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100%
/r/askMRP02/06/23 09:58 PM
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Why do you still have the texts? (I know why but do you) I don’t know if you’re attractive, this is definitely in the unattractive category though
/r/askMRP28/05/23 11:45 PM
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You’re right you do need to STFU
/r/askMRP26/05/23 08:53 PM
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If you’ve already started and it’s making an obvious difference, wouldn’t you keep going? You weren’t happy where you were before, stay plan is the same as the go plan?
/r/askMRP26/05/23 08:52 PM
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I think what you said it completely true, you have no wisdom to add here
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/23 08:49 PM
1

How so? I expected nothing from it
/r/askMRP26/05/23 12:10 AM
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Yeah that’s the answer right there, - IfI was doing something adjacent like already in the kitchen getting myself a drink would I get you one, or - If a mate , even a stranger asked me this, is it reasonable ask of a person, or - WHATS IN IT FOR ME, have you been good and earned it, have I handled my shit and in this area specifically. My wife the other night asked me to feed the baby in the middle of the night, the 3am feed. The rule is Sun to Thurs she handles the baby, so I can sleep for work…
/r/askMRP25/05/23 07:13 PM
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No breast feeding, and everyone comments and it’s true, she looks just as good, if not better than before. Some parts are softer than before, but overall she’s attractive. She’s constantly in her head, endlessly bashing herself. I do think the constant tiredness and ongoing simmering level of stress, emotion and fatigue has a huge effect. But it’s this general emotionally turtling up she does around praise, and especially any sexual praise, or encouragement. Takes direction for the most part how…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/23 10:46 AM
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Normies…I get stuck here a lot. I have a heap of guys I manage, and they say shit all the time that gives me douche chills. - “Gotta ask the boss, aka the wife” - “If I get home to early she’ll wonder why I’l here and when I leaving” - “Check out my man cave, she lets me do whatever, as long as it’s out there” Fucking shudder
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/23 06:56 PM
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Is her diet good? Iron levels? I had an ex who had chronically bad iron levels which fucked her energy, which in turn she supplemented with a shit diet. Got the answer (Iron levels) she did nothing, but now we knew, that ended well. Question: My wife has inhibitions, and things that have been removed from the “menu”. When I try to praise, or compliment something, she clams up and acts weird. The equivalent to saying “Hey kiddo that was good” and the kid makes a fart noise. I’m not chasing anythi…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/23 06:48 PM
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That jumped out at me too, “this too shall pass”. Felt in necessary, otherwise I think it was a good handle, I would’ve gone with “Not the way it’s working for us now” or “I want too, but we’ve been happier”. I tried the planning from SGM and it just fucked me and the sex up. I would be in my head, checking the list off, then would get over excited and not be in the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/23 06:19 PM
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I like how conscious you are of all the covert contracts, and how quickly you spot them. It took me a while. I had a few glaring ones, after that, it wasn’t till something blew up in my face that I had the “A ha” moment, and thought fuck I am doing this the hard way.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/23 06:15 PM
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OYS #5 Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 87.5Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 (6 month old) Lifts: GZCLP: BP 97.5kgs, DL 122.5kgs, OHP 62.5kgs BR 60kgs SQ 55kgs This last week has been dog shit, I have been sick and wrecked. I was not impressed with it at all, but I have gone and pushed through. My Mission: I am creating a life of independence, I have over my life. I am creating a life of truth, no tacit approval or self editing. I am creating a life of abundance, I have wants and needs, it my j…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/23 05:58 PM
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Kinda like this…….
/r/askMRP23/05/23 10:11 AM
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Look she honestly just testing you, you’re probably about to have a main event. Hold true dude. Keep blossoming, keep Tony Stark-ing. If neurotic you is the best you, then you just keep it up, and if she ditches you, that fine, you go and live your truth. Your not hers, it’s just her turn. Who is she to to tell you how you should be, remember this part of the journey and unplugging is the hardest, and when you’ll get the most shit. It’s always darkest before the dawn.
/r/askMRP22/05/23 06:58 PM
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Most of it all is written down, there was something in the environment that created that emotion and anxiety, which fuelled that level of sex. Then it returned back to normal once the stimulus was gone, or perceived to be gone. She was threatened, felt the relationship was under threat, and fucked her way to a safe place. You don't want to find a way to recreate it, you are building up a covert contract, you want to read NMMNG. If you stumble across what caused that level of sexual fuelled anxie…
/r/askMRP16/05/23 09:31 AM
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Apologies I worded that friggin terribly. And understand what you meant now, about lives being in danger.
/r/askMRP15/05/23 03:20 AM
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About it getting worse and more complicated? Why is that?
/r/askMRP15/05/23 02:37 AM
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It’s only going to get worse and more complicated so I have no doubt you’re on the money
/r/askMRP15/05/23 12:16 AM
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This has been slowly building pressure for years. When I first came on the scene years ago I saw straight through that guy, and it’s bittersweet watching everyone else get to party, DEERing, backpedaling and justifying all the crap they’ve tolerated for years.
/r/askMRP13/05/23 10:12 AM
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Because it’s a shit show
/r/askMRP12/05/23 01:16 AM
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Same, which is exactly why this is the direction I am taking my family
/r/askMRP12/05/23 01:16 AM
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Appreciated
/r/askMRP12/05/23 12:33 AM
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The abuse always happens out an about. As an example he’ll take the SIL out for the night, they get drunk he picks fights with randoms at bars, hits on women and then shit happens, but since he’s moved out of the house, he can watch the comings and goings and bomb from a distance
/r/askMRP11/05/23 05:40 PM
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OYS #4 Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 87.5Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 (5 month old) Lifts: GZCLP: BP 97.5kgs, DL 122.5kgs, OHP 62.5kgs BR 60kgs SQ 55kgs Running 3km daily, goal is to get to 5-6 My Mission I am creating a life of independence, I have over my life. I am creating a life of truth, no tacit approval or self editing. I am creating a life of abundance, I have wants and needs, it my job to see them met. Why am I here I am here because I was, and now are a recovering Nice Guy. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/23 10:20 AM
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Careful Op, I smell a dancing monkey, getting ready to ink up the quill for his covert contract
/r/askMRP06/05/23 07:11 PM
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OYS #5 36, Married for 4, together for 6, 1 kid, 4 month old. 88.5kgs 184cms 17% BF Lifts: Squats 45Kgs, Deadlift 115Kgs, OHP 57.5kgs B/Row 57.5kgs Bench 92.5kgs Mission: Freedom, or more appropriately Independence. I want a life that no one has any authority over. I have spent my life and wasted too much time living for others. Reading: I have been reading over heaps of OYS and field reports, and have spent the last three days locked in my study doing JP's Self Authoring. Just getting it out an…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/23 04:13 AM
1

If I read the correctly, you described game, a difficult situation can be fun depending on your approach and perspective. You can blow up at that annoying/bratty……or you can AA, AM, push pull, or TWOTSM appreciate it as a gift to embrace.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 11:17 PM
1

The 1-2-3 system is great
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 11:14 PM
1

I love that, I think in our efforts to regain control, lead and set an example we run the risk of blocking our women out. I know I have failed to provide opportunities for mine to add value. I think it tails on to the Nice Guy behaviours really really subtly as well. If I make myself easy to please, and hide my needs I will have a problem free life. If I do everything and be the best captain, and have very little need for my first officer. I-we will have a problem free life. That’s how it mapped…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 11:05 PM
1

I really like this. It’s similar to that improve technique, of adding “And…” to everything. Rewarding her initiative by allowing her to add additional value and do something else for you. Also like compliance in PUA, you’ve been good, now let me reward you and check you’re compliance, with a request for action by doing something positive for me. Love it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 10:38 PM
1

Family I got a very random, and sudden shit test that I didn’t handle great at all, it caught me by surprise, not the test itself but the tone of it. She used to suffer from chronic migraines, these are now few and far between. In typical girl fashion, it’s brought up as your in bed. I said I would think about it, but reinforced that we don’t do the serious/heavy convo’s at bedtime. She snapped and just short of yelled, “But this is my health!”, from a 3 to a 7. Complete over reaction, but I was…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/23 06:59 AM
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OYS #3 & 4 Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 87.5Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 (4 month old) Lifts: GZCLP: BP 92.5kgs, DL 110kgs, OHP 57.5kgs BR 60kgs SQ 45kgs My Mission I am creating a life of independence, no one has any authority over my life. I am creating a life of truth, no tacit approval or editing my actions and words. I am creating a life of abundance, I have spent my life living for others. Why am I here I have had to work hard to get us back to where we are, it’s not where I want …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/23 06:57 AM
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Fair enough
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/23 08:33 AM
1

It’s someone in the middle, is their a genuine grievance. Is she asking for time with you on your anniversary, or have you been sitting on the couch with her and her mum for 6 hours. If she has a point, then maybe it’s a leadership issue. But otherwise it’s just you learning to spot manipulation, or more appropriately your shitty feelings and behaviour, and how you feel about it. What do want? From her, you, life? What do you want to do? With her, for yourself, in life? Where does this all meet …
/r/askMRP24/03/23 08:34 PM
1

Family I have let my wife’s family have too much input/involvement. They are not bad people, they do play on her hood nature and willingness to go along with what’s “good for the family”, which is a cope for whatever is easiest for whoever complains the loudest. For the most part it doesn’t bother me, as most of it is of no consequence, and ultimately nothing worth my time and effort. However since the divorce has started turning feral, there has been expectations placed on my wife that I am not…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/23 11:13 AM
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OYS #2 Been working at improving and fixing myself consistently for over a year now. Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 88Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 (4 month old) Lifts: GZCLP: BP 92.5kgs, DL 110kgs, OHP 55kgs BR 60kgs SQ 42.5kgs (Fused ankle) My Mission I want to create a life of independence freedom, and abundance. No one is too have any say or authority over my life. I have spent my life living for others. I want options and the ability to execute on those options. Why am I here? Because…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/23 11:10 AM
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Dude you left, why did you go back? If you wanted to be happy, you live separately, you only stay there when you she fucks you, after a month of you’re there more than at your place, you move back in. You have told her with you actions, how seriously your needs are too you. Basically as long as the excuse is good enough, nothing needs to happen. You’re 32, she’s 43 wtf mate? Now you’re putting in the leg work to get your needs met elsewhere and she still gets to decide. Your the equivalent of a …
/r/askMRP15/03/23 11:49 PM
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Low libido is a cope, she’s got a libido for someone, just not OP
/r/askMRP15/03/23 11:19 PM
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Continued Career/Work/Development - There is not much to report here. I am pretty good at my Job. I was a state level manager, but I got over the conflicting direction of the National team at my previous company, and their lack of consistency in regards to directives and execution. And have secured myself a middle management role a year ago at younger company, with management with either little to no experience, or managers ready to retire with outdated attitudes and approaches. I have recently …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/23 10:00 AM
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OYS #1 Here lurking for over a year, have wanting to post but couldn’t find the time, or wasn’t ready yet, courage/spine to do so consistently. Excuses and more Excuses Stats: 36yo 6’0ft, 88Kgs, 17%BF (Navy), Married 4 together 6, Kids 1 (4 month old) Lifts: GZCLP: BP 90kgs, DL 110kgs, OHP 55kgs BR 60kgs SQ 40kgs (Fused ankle) Read: WISNIFG, NMMNG X 2 (with specific chapter rereads), Models, Unchained Man, MAP X 2, Gendernomics 1 & 2, MMSLP, SGM, SIDEBAR, Frame Praxeology, Pracitical Female Psyc…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/23 09:59 AM
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Going off what you’ve written, I’m going to assumed you texted her, and didn’t call. So you showed her how important it was too you and she responded in kind. So your needs/wants/priorities in this instance was sending a text important. So I would say you anger is more than likely resentment at yourself. You got out what you put in if your honest with yourself. You’re right that if it was life and death important she probably would’ve left work, but it wasn’t so she didn’t. And now it sounds lik…
/r/askMRP03/03/23 09:42 PM
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My wife thinks we never spend enough time with her family, bear in mind she spends more or less all week with them (sahm) and every Saturday watching he nephews play basketball. “Why is it you always start drama when it comes to spending time with my family!?” “How do I start drama when we have to spend time with your family?” Negative Inquiry “You don’t want come, you have to know what the plans are, when we’ll arrive, what time we’ll be coming home” “I can see how “you might feel” like that, (…
/r/askMRP26/02/23 11:13 PM
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You found the redpill, that’s about it. You always had oneitis you just never anyone to give the certificate too. Too even say you became beta, is fucking yuck, you always were, you probably just got worse. It’s not a lifestyle, it’s not veganism, it’s not CrossFit, there’s no code or secret handshake, everyone is here for their own reasons and outcomes. Finally you shouldn’t like this place, you’re here because you’re fucked and are a fuck, that’s what this place is about, ask me how I fucking …
/r/askMRP07/02/23 05:57 PM
1

How many times would you tell your dog to sit, before you pull the collar up and push its butt down? After two and goals hours, I would be over it and not want to fuck. And my dog would be asleep. Take the rejection, you’re moving so slow. What that chapter about the guy in NMMNG, I think it’s the sexual moratorium chapter, that does the ridiculously slow escalation so he doesn’t rock the boat.
/r/askMRP04/02/23 11:47 PM
2

Oh I have no doubt Breast is best as they say, for us that simple wasn’t an option. But in lieu of that you get the best formula possible, and try to have the best pregnancy possible.
/r/askMRP03/02/23 09:09 PM
2

The long and the short was I used way to many words to say, I expect a clean house. If you’re struggling, I will help, but we all have things to do. You need to prioritise things better. I’ll help, I’ll do half, I’ll do 90% but this isn’t a free ride. That’s interesting about the formula, it’s not so much an option for us, but each their own.
/r/askMRP03/02/23 12:28 AM
1

Negative inquiry, “What is it about this cologne that’s wrong” or “Because I wanted too”
/r/askMRP02/02/23 08:07 AM
2

I’m not paying someone to do it, I have a sahm, and it’s been better since. There was never any complaining, I wanted it done, now it’s getting done.
/r/askMRP02/02/23 08:03 AM
1

Thank you for this. I struggle with STFU and then when/what to communicate, and end u blowing it up.
/r/askMRP28/01/23 09:35 PM
1

This I don’t get? I get mixed messages here. I pulled my sahm up the other day for choosing not doing the domestics, and go shopping with sister, and this is a pre-communicated expectation then got told stop communicating, STFU and demonstrate leadship, or withdraw affection, attention and commitment. The house is clean since so, so even though I ham-fisted the comms and could’ve STFU more , I got the outcome I wanted.
/r/askMRP28/01/23 02:27 AM
1

I’m going through variations of the same scenario’s at the moment. I have just come to understand part of boundaries and expectations, is having come up with how you will handle it before hand. Do you/me now have fucked this up, we have thought about, how we wanted it to go, next time how we will respond in the moment. A personal example from a few months ago. My wife tried starting this new behaviour of calling me up at the gym with a problem that she was falling apart over, then at some point …
/r/askMRP28/01/23 12:11 AM
3

Who stopped initiating first? Is this one of those, she rejected you then you convinced yourself you never wanted it anyway. And now I can’t even wank without her around….
/r/askMRP26/01/23 05:09 PM
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It’s fucking weird, I don’t get it either. Either you’re mine or your not
/r/askMRP26/01/23 05:07 PM
1

Thank you
/r/askMRP23/01/23 01:13 AM
1

Yeah you’re not wrong about the writing and the reading.
/r/askMRP23/01/23 01:11 AM
1

I like you’re option three, I don’t mind doing all of it, if I can see a person needs help and is clearly drowning. It’s my house I have set the standard, and I was in retarded/ham-fisted trying to make a point. But it’s not how a I would have handled it in a professional setting with the teams I manage, so I take your point. The issue that has just popped into my head whilst typing, is this resentment for the extended families need to put my wife’s sister and her kids before everyone, and every…
/r/askMRP22/01/23 11:14 PM
1

There’s still a place for communication, not excessive communication or DEERing, but basic communication, for basic boundaries and expectations.
/r/askMRP22/01/23 05:08 PM
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Like I said, this is to clarify my thoughts, so I handle it better next time, without making stupid needless errors.
/r/askMRP22/01/23 05:00 PM
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You’re not wrong, yeah fair enough. Your points are noted.
/r/askMRP22/01/23 07:50 AM
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I don’t mind doing my share, I also don’t mind doing her share. This week it’s being taken for granted however. I take your point that the worst is yet to come
/r/askMRP22/01/23 07:48 AM
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Less words Roger that
/r/askMRP22/01/23 07:45 AM
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I have been, but her legs aren’t broken. I’ll work on the hamster
/r/askMRP22/01/23 07:44 AM
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Dread LvL 1-4 is just shit your supposed to do, this is my issue also. I am a workaholic, and am trying to get my social life and hobbies going again this year, I have put heaps of shit of so I have a few red areas to tighten up, so I get it. After LvL four, it becomes a big covert contract or a better dancing monkey improvement plan. Don’t follow that shit to hard. Basically get a three year old to draw a house then use that to figure out if you have a house. I wouldn’t follow the dread levels …
/r/askMRP20/01/23 08:51 PM
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In the moment I would say don’t change her mind, change her mood, she still probably won’t fuck you, but at the least you’ll turn the energy in a better direction. But always be kino, escalating and initiating, maybe back off, maybe you’re coming on too strong, or it’s coming across as false and incongruent, which is sending further mixed signals and messages. Has she always been this way or has it become this way? Was there never any sex, and always boring with no variety? Because we are not al…
/r/askMRP13/01/23 10:55 PM
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If you are doing it the way you worded it, and it’s reactionary, a direct if A happens, then I will do B, it’s exactly the opposite to outcome independence, you are responding to an outcome. You have better things to do, ie. gym, house works/renovations, hobbies, reading, so that way if/when you get knocked back you have something else to do. Ideally you’re going about doing shit, and then an opportunity to initiate pops in, or you just feel like it, and it’s something fun that you can share wit…
/r/askMRP13/01/23 10:08 PM
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Reverse the situation for a min, imagine she was constantly busting your chops over something you had discussed endlessly, “And here he comes again!”. Women for the most part don’t see you as a person, they see how you make them feel, and you make her feel like shit, and guilty, and horrible because she knows she shouldn’t feel like this. If she feels bad, it’s because of you, and something you did, because good wives, love and are attracted to their husbands, and she’s a good person so it can’t…
/r/askMRP11/01/23 07:38 AM
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Maybe no one told you, consider this a service announcement. You came on here and asked for advice from a group of strangers who knew nothing about you, they are going to check your post history to get a sense of who you are. For example, are you a fat fuck, or do you regularly post and ask questions on stronglifts and fitness pages. Do you have any interests? maybe there’s a writing or hunting group. That just happens to be one of your previous posts. You felt confident enough to post it, and l…
/r/askMRP10/01/23 05:18 PM
1

Can you give more for an autist?
/r/askMRP06/01/23 10:07 PM
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Is this open relationship option/suggestion really a thing? Is it an American thing, to say you want to open up the relationship or divorce? Genuine questions, as I honestly have never heard of it until this space and even on here it seems like it’s the last 6-12 months.
/r/askMRP27/12/22 10:18 PM
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Yes, but there can be healthy narcissism. You’re allowed to put yourself first, you’re allowed to have needs, and wants, that you can expect to be, and work towards getting met. Do you expect good things to be available to kids if they want them and work towards them? When you read about people working hard to achieve a goal and fulfilling their purpose do you think of that person as selfish? What if you treated yourself with the same level of respect?
/r/askMRP25/12/22 06:55 AM
1

I don’t even think its in her mind that OP is fat and unattractive, he might be. But IMO OP is literally another mouth to feed and arse to wipe. Talk about being saddled with a faithful insert broken beta, I signed up At least he brings his own bib and chum.
/r/askMRP24/12/22 09:04 PM
1

Glad someone else caught it
/r/askMRP24/12/22 08:55 PM
1

Try this as a switch, you’re not self-improving because yourself is currently shit, ie. you can polish a turd, now you have a nicer turd that you can gift others. Your improving the self, making yourself a better man, capable of better and bigger things to do what YOU want for YOU. Here isn’t about fixing the marriage/relationship. Relationship is a woman’s job, what does this mean, how many girls have wanted to fuck YOU, that YOU have ended up fucking? Conversely how many woman have YOU wanted …
/r/askMRP24/12/22 08:54 PM
2

For the last year, however, I have been going hard on improving my physical health for my illness, my daughters, my wife and family. I read your list, and couldn’t find for yourself on there. There’s no, I want better outcomes for my illness, if I manage it better I can have/be/do X/Y/Z. So if none of those people reward your efforts to improve your physical health, will you continue? And speaking from experience here, not MS, but very minor disability, once, sorry if, you get decently fit, are …
/r/askMRP24/12/22 08:40 PM
3

Good practice with the fogging, but when you see her again I wouldn’t even bring it up. You know when you catch up with a girl after something has been resolved, and you get something like the following “Hey I know we sorted’X’, I’ve been thinking and just want to say ‘Y’, but yeah we’re good’. It’s like your little brother coming past still drying theirs eyes and getting one last jab in, don’t do it bro. There’s the reset concept, everyday, start fresh what happened yesterday was yesterday’s pr…
/r/askMRP20/12/22 05:33 PM
2

August, September, whenever, hardly the fucking point dude, treat it as if “All threats will be honoured”, you teach people how to treat you, and if she thinks she can say it, and not get rebuked, I’d bet you she’s confident she could get away with it. Mate she knows you won’t go find someone else, if she honestly feared that, she wouldn’t be suggesting/threatening that. Impetus for change/motivation, if you need to get pushed into it, or motivated into DNGAF, then your not interested in changin…
/r/askMRP15/12/22 09:17 PM
1

Anything easy should be a sign IMO. You don’t need to go to figure out where she is at, she’s telling you through her actions, or if she gets fed up enough her words. She’s telling you she’s (feels) stressed out, this is where when WISNIFG comes into play. She doesn’t want to fuck/blow/whatever you, there’s clearly a drop in her desire/attraction to you. She’s told you she would kick you out and divorce rape you. Unless you left something out it’s pretty clear what her position is. You going to …
/r/askMRP15/12/22 07:53 PM
2

I am ex army, and was a nightclub bouncer, having variety in your sex life isn’t hard, getting your head there is, and particularly with one woman can be harder, but it’s an opt in problem
/r/askMRP15/12/22 07:08 AM
1

I don’t know what the gf experience is worth, or going to the escorts, but if you take out supporting an arsehole, financially and emotionally, I reckon you are still in front week in, week out. At least then you have variety, you can purchase different flavours, but yourself something special on your birthday.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 11:32 PM
2

Those last few lines: The first time we went she’d say we have to fix this, while this time saying too bad find someone else. (Here’s the real gem)I was surprised at the good result the first time, but I just can’t see her compromising now. That sounds like a splash of negotiating desire, a dash of dancing monkey, served up from her frame. Why are you going? Why are you outsourcing your marriage and it’s outcomes to sone other guy? I’m surprised you were happy with that first outcome, you went t…
/r/askMRP14/12/22 09:30 PM
1

This is interesting, I have struggled to understand manufactured outrage, I commented above here, which might help explain my confusion.
/r/askMRP12/12/22 07:04 AM
1

Doesn’t it have to be something you’re not not actually invested in? So you wouldn’t ‘manufacture outrage’ so to speak about an issue unless it’s a non issue, that you could escalate then drop just as easily. I think this is where I have the most issue with this as a technique. I’m glad this post was here, as I haven’t been able to find resources either, but I was under the impression it was almost playful/amused mastery/agree and amplify, but with a touch of aggression. If I’m not mistaken you’…
/r/askMRP12/12/22 07:02 AM
0

What does that even mean?
/r/askMRP12/12/22 06:33 AM
2

So all of this needs to be in the body of the question, she’s not saying can we talk about the relationship, she wants to talk about surrogacy and kids. All the advice here, in the comments is exactly the tools, WISNIFG and NMMNG. Also there’s a few posts which might assist as the question was phrased, such as this, and this, and maybe this. But your issue sounds more like clarity and setting and path for the pair of you. You’re going through the surrogacy cycle, and I imagine there’s infertilit…
/r/askMRP26/11/22 11:50 PM
1

Can I just pick at this, you are 100% right. Bill is picking so OP can rephrase and clarify his position, that’s the whole point of this space. So no mate, fall into it. How is it harassment, what makes it legitimate? She’s a girl asking to talk, and you don’t want to. And how is it “Often okay to comply”? Genuine question? I can’t really get your position here. I was saving this for OP, but sounds like you need it too. Then you jump to expectations, 100% on board. But your next line is end it. …
/r/askMRP26/11/22 11:36 PM
1

Can you link that post below for me please
/r/askMRP26/11/22 11:12 PM
1

This post is spot on, I was really hoping to see it here somewhere
/r/askMRP26/11/22 11:07 PM
10

You’re not a very good rainman
/r/askMRP19/11/22 08:30 PM
7

Get them in the hotel room and prove you can actually get fucked before blowing up your life.
/r/askMRP19/11/22 08:30 PM
3

That’s what I took also, from what I’ve read so far, you sent her a signal that things were going to be different. She got on board because she wanted it, then you backslid and to her “fuck, this loser tricked me twice, once into marrying him, then when he convinced me it would change”. So now your that addict cousin that comes to Christmas one year drunk the next year sober, saying to everyone “this time it’s for good”. Everything I have read and understand says she is going to test you harder …
/r/askMRP19/11/22 08:28 PM
1

IMO the reason why people internalise into so many different contexts is like ripples in a pond, every bleeds into everything else. I have been a manager and team leader most of my working life, but always through effort. I was the best on the team and able to shoulder the load of those that couldn’t meet my standards, so ultimately the team always won. As you might imagine, burn out follows eventually, you can only work so hard, do so much, and the saying ‘faster alone, further together’ couldn…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/22 09:15 PM
1

My point is which everyone seems to have raced past is the quality of the woman aspect. OP is the point, not her, OP already has mentioned prior’s, shitty relationships and lack boundaries with other women. If she is shitty piss her off. If she’s got a host of reasons why she’s a mess that fine, she’ll behave for someone, or she won’t, but the “quality” argument is crap.
/r/askMRP09/11/22 04:46 AM
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You can’t read, apply, then read apply, then it becomes paint by numbers, and you start throwing concepts and tools and situations with an expectation. You lift, and you read the NMMNG, WISNIFG, and the sidebar. There should be things that stand out for you, and some things that you’ll say yeah no shit. I read NMMNG x 2, I had/have bad nice guy behaviours, and covert contracts. I am rereading WISNIFG and it’s a slog, but assertiveness wasn’t really the issue for me. The sidebar is to get you ove…
/r/askMRP07/11/22 05:01 PM
7

But I want my “stoic/alpha/actualised/redpill certification”?
/r/askMRP05/11/22 07:50 PM
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Quality?
/r/askMRP05/11/22 07:48 PM
9

Tell me it’s about the validation without mentioning the validation
/r/askMRP05/11/22 07:33 PM
8

My understanding of boundaries is you Acta Non Verba. You don’t go around telling people you hate it when people are late, but when someone is late, you give a warning, then for a reoccurrence you enforce.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 10:15 PM
2

What do you want?
/r/askMRP04/11/22 08:42 PM
10

1000ft tow rope
/r/askMRP03/11/22 07:51 AM
3

My take for what it’s worth, the importance of sleep cannot be overstated. So much of my past anxiety, poor decision making, and general ability to cope, could have been mitigated, if I had gotten the right amount of consistent, regular sleep. This I think should be treated with the same regard as gym, nutrition, finance, as it directly feeds and correlates to the others. But it’s the least on the hierarchy of importance, and the first lamb sacrificed. Also you wrote nothing, nothing that stood …
/r/askMRP03/11/22 07:11 AM
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They become major ‘paint by numbers’ covert contract. “I read the book, I did the steps, why isn’t she doing the things?!” https://youtu.be/XsC06CH2xE0
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/22 03:22 AM
1

A lot of stand up comedy, guys like Patrice O’Neal, Bill Burr. I found it super helpful, I love comedy, particularly offensive, really in your face comedy, and it helps with congruence if it’s your style of comedy. My wife would come at me with some shit, and I had been in the garden or working on the house laughing my arse of to this stuff for hours, so these types of comeback’s would come effortlessly. It’s sounds fucking lame, but like PUA, have a few ‘lines’ in your back pocket, things you’v…
/r/askMRP31/10/22 10:17 PM
1

Your not self improving, that’s for others. Your improving yourself, that’s for you.
/r/askMRP28/10/22 10:06 PM
1

Swap WAIT for WATCH. You have a plan and a goal. I will try this, watch what I tried. It helped or it didn’t, based on what you wanted, or we’re trying to achieve. Pretend she is dead. What would you, what would you want, then do those things. She’s not involved, in what you want. If she wants to she’ll join you, if she doesn’t, she won’t.
/r/askMRP28/10/22 10:05 PM
1

You can have expectations in your life, you can’t have expectations from any one person. You are giving that person the opportunity, and power of your happiness. Imagine your life is a charity, or volunteer organisation. Everyone involved is there to please you, help you, and see you reach your goals. They want they best for you. The entire charity, or volunteer organisation is about you, and your wants and needs. They are there to fulfil those needs, until such a time as they no longer want to …
/r/askMRP28/10/22 10:01 PM
1

Dancing Monkey
/r/askMRP28/10/22 09:54 PM
1

I think the issue might become more of a covert contract. If you tried to suggest you have a female coworker a lift, hoping that it might creat/inspire dread, OP might then use it as tool, which becomes overt dread or trying manufacture jealous = covert contract & Unattractive. “I pushed the buttons guys, and she’s not getting jealous?!” Attractive guys don’t make/force the anxiety.
/r/askMRP28/10/22 09:53 PM
2

A lot of it sounds like Nice Guy stuff. It was for me, and lack of assertiveness. Same prescription and direction for every guy in the beginning, lift and sidebar. That’s like 90% of it
/r/askMRP28/10/22 08:27 PM
1

Champion
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/22 08:26 AM
6

Put a baby in her. Like getting the nuts taken off your pitbull, it’ll settle her down.
/r/askMRP28/10/22 04:52 AM
1

Thanks dude
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/22 04:08 PM
1

I’d never seen it in written down before. Are you able to link the craftsman post, I can’t find it?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/22 04:58 PM
5

Do you lash out at her, like you do at the guys you came here to ask for advice from? A question for you, who is really the negative, shitty, moody, entitled bitch?
/r/askMRP26/10/22 04:56 PM
1

I honestly can’t say. I can distinctly recall an argument, or more appropriately my wife giving me a blast of shit. I must have been particularly “Unattractive” whilst my latest puke/rage attack was building. I made some half hearted initiation attempt, she was understandably not receptive, I sat there stewing ready to flip, and she said something along the lines of “This….this is why I’m not in the mood”. Then I read as much as I could on anxiety, and anxious attachment to figure out my trigger…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 10:37 PM
2

Are you able to share or give an insight to your 2-3 day DEERing and spiralling in between the sex sessions. I used to do the same thing, it was like a slow volume knob being turned or that drowned everything else out, until I victim puked, or went into a resentment rage until I get my validation needs met sexually
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 06:04 PM
1

Thank you for the ‘ressentiment’ concept, I had not heard of this before. And for the ‘The craftsman post’, I’ll check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 05:49 PM
2

In regards to the porn sex drive, at least for me, it was unmistakably more about the validation than the sex drive. I can’t remember what did it for me specifically, but once I fell over this hurdle, shit was infinitely easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 05:38 PM
1

Can you expand a bit on the saying yes to feelings. When your stressed and blowing up, or about to, u you say yes, how’s it work? Is it like a mindful acceptance type thing?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 05:08 PM
1

Observe dude, think about what you want, honestly you can’t and I don’t think you want to make every decision in the house.
/r/askMRP24/10/22 09:03 AM
2

Is she being over the top and disrespectful/difficult? Or are you being a bitch/overly-sensitive? My thoughts are do you want to lead for the sake of leading, like if she’s doing a good job, and not being disrespectful what’s the issue? Genuine question
/r/askMRP24/10/22 12:31 AM
2

So fairly traditional division of labour in respect to duties
/r/askMRP23/10/22 10:10 PM
2

All of it sounds result based IMO. When does leading become too much, it doesn’t when you are being a leader and leading. I lead my household in the direction I want, and in the way I think will work best for me and my family. The way you are describing it it almost sounds performative, “Where the hell are my “Atta boys” for all the stuff I’m doing!?” Do you thank payroll for putting the salaries in every week? I would assume not, that there job. Same as parenting and home maintenance. That is d…
/r/askMRP23/10/22 09:59 PM
2

How are you at running the house? Are you handling what needs to be handled, or do you need to be told when the kids are tightrope walking above the bath with a toaster. Are you the useless man child? Do you have any sense over the how the house needs to be run?
/r/askMRP23/10/22 05:18 PM
1

They like what they like, it doesn’t seem to me that this is you
/r/askMRP22/10/22 11:00 PM
1

I was looking at a few further parts of your comments and a few thing stood out to me, as your post particularly resonated with me as I am really struggling with the mission aspect. For example my vision (still fleshing it out) is: ‘To live a life of Independence and freedom’. Live in truth and abundance. My mission as it’s currently stated: To create a life of freedom and independence, through self generating streams of abundance. The abundance streams, Financial - I have an investment property…
/r/askMRP21/10/22 10:17 PM
1

If I am following correctly, you sound like your asking what will make me get the most amount of ‘Wet wife’ tokens? But I read the manual, and did the things!
/r/askMRP21/10/22 08:03 PM
6

The only caveat I would add, would be the obvious monitoring of the employees behaviour and general effect on the rest of the team. She can be as shitty as she wants, but she not allowed to take a swipe, or her mood out on her co-workers. And as you said no blatant disrespect. If someone if seething and having a shit week, meh, fair enough, people have shit weeks. They are not allowed to run you down in the break room, malicious compliance their work, or others work. And she can’t overturn Stacy…
/r/askMRP21/10/22 07:47 PM
1

I will say after I finished the sidebar and required reading, I immediately went to animal training books. I also enrolled my dog in classes, took my wife as company, then after every demonstration made her follow the instructions and train my dog. That’s real man/leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 07:30 PM
2

Half way down you stop and check the comment section to make sure you’re seeing what you think your seeing
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 07:24 PM
6

Sidebar No More Mr Nice Guy - Robert Glover, Twice. When I Say No I Feel Guilty - Manuel Smith, Twice.
/r/askMRP04/09/22 06:06 PM
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You don’t serve women. And I don’t mean Rah Rah fuk wahmen. You’re life and everything in it serves you. You also don’t choose women, not in the way you’re suggesting. You have boundaries and standards in your life, and they serve to filter the people that will have a place in your life, by the value they bring/add, and if you want them in it. Also you don’t build an amazing relationship, this to me at least sounds like blue pulled goals, using redpill tools. You build an amazing life, you becom…
/r/askMRP03/09/22 07:22 PM
1

Is the main event in part 2? Just a crap and abuse sandwich, which you hand waved away with a mortal combat flurry of acronyms, and a tsk tsk fat wife. You sound infuriating. Why do you write in the third person format?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/22 07:14 PM
2

I had forgotten all that shit, I had forgotten the feelings, the rage and resentment, the two days afterwards, can you imagine the working experience of the guys I would spend nine hours a day with ffs. And I’m not even where I want to get to. My journey was different, not that I’m unique, but the unattractiveness was just oozing through, despite my outward attractiveness and success. Hang tough
/r/askMRP27/08/22 09:47 PM
1

Fairer sex? How things are supposed to be? Are you trolling? Legitimate question?
/r/askMRP27/08/22 08:17 AM
1

Whose frame is it anyway 😂
/r/askMRP27/08/22 08:15 AM
6

I think it’s a hard shift to make but once you make it, it really changes everything, see I would lay there fucking stewing, then have a quiet wank, lose hours of sleep, it would literally ruin my following day at work, my workouts, it would be a full on, set you watch to it, three day cycle. It’s friggin embarrassing to write it out. I kinda recognised the disgusting level of outward emotional labour and impact I was having, a slowly learned how to cope in other ways to stop letting it effect m…
/r/askMRP27/08/22 07:57 AM
6

But here’s were it’s constantly being said don’t fall into the routine/predictable before bed smash. And it’s not only for the above mentioned tactic, though that helps. There’s that concept of blurring the lines, so if you only initiate before bed it’s almost a checklist item, as opposed to something that happens. There’s that spontaneity and game aspect, of a guy who wants what he wants, and your frame being we have sex when we have sex not, just before bed. If it’s at night though you should …
/r/askMRP27/08/22 07:46 AM
6

I always viewed like you were going to do something else, like I have my book in my hand or nearby, I initiate, she says no, I read my book. It was already on the list of things I was going/wanted to do. Recently I have been doing heaps of Reno’s to the house, in this scenario I am going about doing something, she’s in the kitchen, we bang on the bench then go about our day. If she’s knocks me back, I continue with my Reno’s. I think creating a disconnect between the A (initiate) + B (rejection)…
/r/askMRP27/08/22 12:07 AM
5

SHE
/r/askMRP26/08/22 10:55 PM
1

Sex God, lead her through the fantasy a bit
/r/askMRP26/08/22 10:54 PM
3

I’ve never actually read a before, ‘Robbery that went horribly wrong’ post. “He was such a nice guy, so innocent, looking to start a better life”
/r/askMRP19/08/22 08:57 PM
3

Everyone else hit out the park. I’d suggest finishing WISNIFG, and as above hit the gym. Unless you prefer dunking to fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/22 08:53 PM
3

Same dude, I wasted so much time with the 12steps. But I had to learn it the hard way
/r/askMRP11/08/22 10:34 PM
4

I’m with some of the other guys, you need to read more into Rambo, if all this is accurate, I really can’t see the Rambo. Rambo is trying techniques, with no idea what your going for, or any idea what outcome of the technique/tool does. Imagine Rambo as your wife asks you to pass the salt, you think a ‘real man’ provides and should salt everyone’s dinner, so you just salt like a manic, then ‘agree and amplify’ when she loses it at you for being a retard, because you thought it was a shit test. Y…
/r/askMRP11/08/22 10:32 PM
6

Only till stage/step 4-5, the rest becomes a paint by numbers, dancing monkey self-improvement covert contract. Ask me how the fuck I know lol.
/r/askMRP11/08/22 10:16 PM
1

Reread the side bar mate, think of all the reasons you’re here, all the things you got from the sidebar then apply it to parenthood. Specific example, my wife will not be getting/having/allowed to have the same level of influence that my mother had. If I get a boy I will be doing everything I can to make sure he never ‘needs’ to read NMMNG, or WISNIFG. I hope he’s never on a sub trying unfuck his life, and learn how to be attractive, and stop being unattractive. There’s a heap of stuff you were …
/r/askMRP10/08/22 05:53 PM
4

What did you come here for? What are your goals? What do you want? I assume it was to “fix things/us/her”? Is that still the plan? Here I really needed to get this, then swallow this, now it is here. Get ready for the bait and switch. I only found this post two weeks ago, and the plane metaphor helped something to click again.
/r/askMRP09/08/22 06:17 PM
1

There’s nothing in here about what you want? At least that’s what stood out to me. You have done the girls part of the conversation where do you want to eat. Nothings hot or cold. You have a heap of what you said, what she’s doing, reasons for and against. But there’s not a single line that says “I want this”, whether that be her to stay, her to leave, her to get the hint. You have implied a lot, but there’s no “I want her around, she adds this value to my life”, “the challenge of starting my bu…
/r/askMRP08/08/22 05:56 PM
8

Tell me you missed the point without saying “I missed the point”
/r/askMRP07/08/22 05:47 PM
1

Imagine that, doing those air blow kisses on her scraped knee(s) from all those tumbling down the stairs and getting scratched up landing on the dick(s). OP gets divorced, takes up part time job blowing air kisses and opens a stand and the exit gate of the CC
/r/askMRP06/08/22 03:26 AM
2

What’s the parents like? To each other to you guys? To her? (Her parents) Part of my MAP is to put boundaries and limitations in place, between me and her, and us and her family, “if I don’t want to I’m not going to, or I will until I have had enough”. That has really changed a lot of the avoidant attachment outcomes. Her family can be quite emotionally manipulative, and overbearing, welcome avoidant attachment. They are also inconsistent and heavy handed with their expectations and emotional bo…
/r/askMRP05/08/22 11:03 PM
8

I love the line about it “with her lack of discretion, because she did it in the martial home, that could have put her safety at risk”. Sorry what the literal fuck, like…are you serious dude, at this point the fact you have a once of concern for her or her safety shows just how deeply in her frame, and how far up her arse you are. Like everyone else wrote, she created on you, threw it in your face, so you fuck her, impregnate and marry her, you rewarded bad behaviour like nothing I could’ve thou…
/r/askMRP05/08/22 10:55 PM
4

So writing in any form has merit, even if only you read it. Write it out, sit on it, proof read it and see what stands out, take some away and rewrite it. I can’t remember where I read it, but apparently something to do with the physical pen to paper, involves and activates both sides of the brain better, than a keyboard/app will ever do. But doing it is what is important. Just in case you haven’t seen it, or come across it. I know for myself just seeing the words on paper and being able to deta…
/r/askMRP26/07/22 07:14 AM
2

Is there anyone else that is vying for her position? Are any of the other plates trying to knock her off? Or worthy of knocking her off? I think of my life in operations/business perspectives, right now you have engaged a contractor/casual, and you seem very satisfied, but you’re wondering if you wouldn’t be more satisfied, with an unnamed, unidentified, not yet met contractor/casual. Are these other top tier women trying to be her? Do they want to be? It sounds like your at the checkout, with t…
/r/askMRP20/07/22 05:51 PM
1

What’s the IFS stuff? Or can you link a resource/book
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 06:01 PM
-1

Are you still fucking? Are you still initiating?
/r/askMRP19/07/22 05:56 PM
5

So you’ve got a boss, they’re pretty average on the good days, and on the bad days they give you no reason to bring your best, and justify exactly why you’re as shit as you are. But they a new management book, which will them, transform the company, and make it all better. And not only is this idiot going to read, you both get the pleasure of going through it together, and there’s bonus exercises, and even though you’re “already busy”, and it’s for them, they need you’re help. And every time we …
/r/askMRP19/07/22 05:51 PM
1

This screams covert contract
/r/askMRP17/07/22 06:59 PM
7

Imagine you’re not you, now tell that guy what to do. You know what do you want a magical trick, or an easy out?
/r/askMRP15/07/22 10:33 PM
1

Body fat % is missing, it’s not in your stats? 90kgs at 155cms And I imagine the snoring didn’t happen a week after the birth of the baby.
/r/askMRP12/07/22 05:43 PM
5

The problem I had with your comment, I think that when people describe womens ability about manipulation, it comes across like super hero’s powers, it’s like describing Thor’s hammer, or Wolverine’s ability to heal. It feels like we give men a pass and an “atta boy, it’s alright son, didn’t you know she has superpowers”, and it takes all responsibility off the guy for getting duped, when in reality he was involved, to more or lesser degrees in his own betrayal. It’s gotta be about the man, if yo…
/r/askMRP11/07/22 06:49 PM
5

Being manipulated is a choice, recognising manipulation is also a choice.
/r/askMRP10/07/22 11:42 PM
10

As honest as you think you both are, as good as you think you are at paying attention to the nuances and details of the environment, if she wants to get away with something she will. People have alternate lives and complete other families and careers in neighbouring states, if people want to hide something they can. Anyway you slice it, this isn’t about her, this isn’t about your kids or your relationship, this is about you, she made that decision for you. Improve you, sort yourself out.
/r/askMRP10/07/22 05:39 PM
1

I have been looking for this post for so long
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/22 02:14 AM
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