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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:09 AM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP09/02/16 05:23 AM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:43 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP12/01/16 08:18 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/seduction08/02/16 06:28 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP17/04/16 07:36 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP09/02/16 09:32 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP05/05/16 08:49 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP17/01/16 04:52 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/seduction18/01/16 09:47 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP18/03/16 11:33 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:27 AM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:24 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/seduction16/12/15 09:49 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:15 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP16/03/16 08:35 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP07/02/16 12:56 AM
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dispatcherselfish/r/seduction18/12/15 01:54 AM
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dispatcherselfish/r/seduction14/11/15 04:29 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP05/01/16 05:47 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 07:37 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/seduction11/12/15 01:46 PM
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dispatcherselfish/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:17 AM
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I have the money and I will be doing a part time job. They flat out won't let me.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 09:16 PM
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I appreciate the response, if u want to learn basic rules of basketball or football feel free to pm me.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 08:33 PM
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100%
/r/askTRP21/04/16 05:57 PM
1

Like what?
/r/askTRP21/04/16 05:57 PM
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At least you got that much, I'm currently figuring it out on my own.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:53 PM
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Could you be more specific by what you mean by "saving money".
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:50 PM
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how would I go about refining those skills though?
/r/askTRP18/04/16 02:14 PM
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really?
/r/askTRP18/04/16 02:48 AM
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what was that first job?
/r/askTRP18/04/16 01:47 AM
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actually alot of this desire comes from watching the movie. Its an expensive program, have you used it?
/r/askTRP17/04/16 10:06 PM
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what about actual practice?
/r/askTRP17/04/16 08:18 PM
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My fault, didn't mean that as a burn. It was more a positive though on my part.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 06:38 PM
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If this is for real and this guy is dong this well I will happily keep going because despite this guy not really being Chad, he seems to be doing well. The 80 percent mark may not be as high as I imagined it would be.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 06:10 PM
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You missed diet. What you eat makes a massive difference in the way you feel and was the first step out of depression. If you are currently feeling that very tired feeling from being depressed, take a mile walk. It's another paradox, excercise actually gives you back some energy.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 02:28 PM
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We absolutely need to make things like this a more common occurrence. It's not really even black knighting at this point, its protecting the public. Although despite this website she will still probably marry some nerd who has money. Never underestimate what desperate measures desperate men will go to.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 07:53 PM
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Holy shit I do this all the time.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 10:46 PM
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Do you have any good small talk resources?
/r/askTRP19/03/16 09:00 PM
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I understand they are pretty meaningless. The word "game" in general is nonspecfic to me. In the past the best way I have found to get good at things is finding a mentor and learn by being a part of their interaction. To this point I haven't found anyone, but I don't feel like I am progressing at all at this point. In fact I can slowly feel myself going backward as I approach more people, part of my issue is I am hyper aware of the fact that I don't have good social skills. Even when I go to try…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 07:21 PM
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Only been working on myself for about 6 months but I have actually seen people view me less favorably in general after this advice and actually slightly less successful with women. Only time will tell I guess...
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 07:05 PM
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Go up to a girl at a bar. Sometimes I get a major negative vibe and kind of know the interaction has no shot. If I get a neutral or excited one I start to tell them something along the lines of "you look like you are really into animals", "you know what you would look great with, a purple mowhawk", or "you look like trouble". Sometimes it goes decent but most of the time even when they are somewhat receptive to basic touching it fizzles out fast. Most of my approaches have been in college bars b…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 04:08 PM
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How did you do in college? I only ask this because I am specifically trying to find information from guys who were major turnarounds. Guys that tended to be naturals are successful but generally can't point out why exactly and are slightly less helpful.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 03:14 PM
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How old are you?
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:49 PM
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I already have a role lined up for a full time job. What positions should I be looking for to develop the skills in my time after work?
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:48 PM
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How would you specifically go about developing a "charming" personality?
/r/askTRP19/03/16 06:36 AM
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for someone who needs to learn game where would be the place to begin? Was pua successful because I don't even stand a chance right now.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 06:35 AM
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How did you get multiple women at the same time? I have been working on it for 6 months and can't even seem to get one. I wish I could have a better idea of what I'm doing wrong. I keep seeing posts saying college is the easiest place to pickup but despite working on myself and having alot of height I can't get shit. If you have specific advice it would help.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 06:18 AM
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I need work in social skills, I don't quite get how to talk to women and they just are constantly rejecting me. I also am working on a 5x5 program to get to a point where I'm string enough to do aesthetic lifting. Brought myself out of depression a few months ago and I really want to live life on my own terms but after a while the rejection is frustrating without a hint of success.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 06:15 AM
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How? I've been doing it for 6 months with nothing but rejection.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 06:13 AM
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can you talk about your results?
/r/askTRP19/03/16 06:12 AM
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What would you recommend as interesting conversation?
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:39 PM
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how are we supposed to find the balance between aloof and desperate?
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 05:15 PM
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My biggest issue is that despite massive amounts of improvement and weight loss, I still have stretch marks on my hips and stomach form being overweight. It kills my confidence and makes it hard to honestly go after abs because I really don't know how people would react even if I got to that point. It also kills me knowing how fast I can put on fat and makes it hard seeing the scale go up when I go to bulk.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:28 PM
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use a chrome extension to block the sites you go to and make them reroute to something more useful.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:26 PM
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This would be a huge help. Despite me improving in many areas I can tell that my game sucks, mostly because of this.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:23 PM
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Could you define for me what bodyfat percentage is considered "not fat anymore".
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 03:40 PM
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Define the body fat percentage you mean by fat. I'm not extremely ugly but I am certainly no pretty boy. Been lifting and running for months now but like anything else it takes time to actually gain the muscle. Maybe I do need professional help because I am not getting anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 01:05 AM
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This is the typical response I'm talking about. I get that it takes a massive amount of work but as usual I don't get an actually helpful response.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 07:39 PM
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What do you do when you have done all these and still nothing?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 03:26 PM
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you seem like you really have it figured out. However I have only been a red piller for less than a year or so. Although this sub has great advice, its missing the piece it needs. How do you get your first plate. I have yet to find a single place that actually helps with this. All the advice I have gotten so far is "just don't give a fuck", "be attractive", "next a girl if she isn't good enough". The Red Pill sub is like telling millionaires how to invest their money, asktrp is mostly guys askin…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 04:53 AM
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This is exactly how I feel. TRP teaches you to improve yourself and what to do when you are already swimming in pussy. It never really bridges the actual gap. Guys have trouble with abundance mentality because most guys don't have abundance.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 11:53 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9oVoJMVsKtk
/r/askTRP26/02/16 03:09 PM
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any good way to figure out what your doing wrong? Everything is still pretty fast to me b/c I am still relatively new. I don't have a solid "coach" or mentor to really point out any issues.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 01:33 PM
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I am playing devils advocate to a point here but if you don't care about whether anything happens whats the point. I can't tell if i truly just don't get it or if its a language issue.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 01:31 PM
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Then what is the point of approaching if I don't care?
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:49 AM
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Is there anything beyond pure numbers approach that you could help me with that seems to be the biggest issue guys run into. I'm maxing out approaches as much as I can but I just end up getting stuck. How do I avoid ending up as an orbiter?
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:48 AM
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I don't understand the dichotomy here. I want to be successful with fucking women. It's great that chicks did shit for you since high school but going to the "dark side" requires that you have success with them. Hence the catch 22 I'm facing. How do I move past that?
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:46 AM
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3x, good, not sure to what your are referring
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:44 AM
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doing as much as possible with time constraints but still not working.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:38 AM
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I can't seem to keep a woman's interest for more than a minute because I don't what to talk about. Get rejected every single time.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 04:14 AM
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Why are the body part splits not as effective. When I train with my stronger friends that's what their approach always is.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 03:16 PM
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Where did u get those numbers from?
/r/askTRP10/02/16 03:13 PM
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Have u had much success with his stuff?
/r/askTRP09/02/16 11:36 PM
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Should I be bulking or cutting first, I feel as though I'm starting to plateau on the new guy gains.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 11:18 PM
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My goal is more aimed towards the aesthetic bodybuilding than it is strength. Obviously they go hand in hard to some point but what would be the best one tailored for the goal of looking better?
/r/askTRP09/02/16 11:13 PM
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I get that much, when you say high protein and high carbs I need help with actually figuring out what those numbers are that I need to hit. Where would I go to learn that specifically?
/r/askTRP09/02/16 10:08 PM
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any pointers of how to do that?
/r/askTRP09/02/16 03:27 PM
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i would guess i'm awkward/creepy. I dress well but my face is what it is. Unless the girl is obese or black I approach and don't bother with 9 or 10 girls. It just always dies fast.
/r/seduction09/02/16 05:43 AM
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I'll give it a go but I have a feeling that its slightly different in a college bar.
/r/seduction09/02/16 05:11 AM
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to open, ya pretty much.
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:48 AM
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Hi my name is dispatcherselfish or what's your name?
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:32 AM
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in what type of venue has this been successful for you?
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:26 AM
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I want to quit because I feel like I haven't really made any progress at all. I look around at my friends and they just get it. They can't seem to describe it to me, and its hard to observe because the venues are generally too loud and my hearing is pretty bad to start with, so it makes it hard to learn that way too.
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:22 AM
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I never open with a compliment because I have basically seen over and over that it simply lowers your own value, rarely ever get to the point that I can get to ask for a number.
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:18 AM
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I'm senior in college but spent most of my sophomore and junior year climbing my way out of depression. Finally lost the most of the weight i gained and have been in pretty great shape this year. Though during that time i definitely took some steps back socially and don't have a massive friend group. My ability to prolong an interesting conversation definitely could be better but I don't even know where to start other than art of charm stuff. I spent the first three years of college in in long d…
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:07 AM
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Define alot.
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:00 AM
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I am building up my life the way I want too but at this point I may as well give up altogether because I'm obviously not gonna make a progress at this point.
/r/seduction09/02/16 03:52 AM
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how long did you go at it until this happened?
/r/seduction09/02/16 03:28 AM
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already doing all of this
/r/seduction09/02/16 03:27 AM
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If i won't get any better, what the fuck is the point?
/r/seduction09/02/16 03:08 AM
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didn't even get to that point with most.
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:56 AM
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got a number and then they flaked
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:05 AM
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I think the issue is getting the conversation going after I open. I need help on making it flow so its not an interview. I am somewhat funny with people I know well but my sense of humor is darker than most. It dies soon after that initial open. To this point the advice I have gotten is talk about ridiculous things...not exactly helpful because I don't really have a framework to it.
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:04 AM
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The problem is I have no idea what I am doing wrong and don't really have a way to objectively see that. Most of my friends seem to do ok but none of them are great or willing to mentor. I asked for advice but none of them really had anything of value to offer.
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:01 AM
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i get that, but how?
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:59 AM
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i personal messaged you
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:35 AM
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looks promising, how do i get it?
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:23 AM
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How did that work for him?
/r/seduction08/02/16 09:22 PM
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i have read models and the game. I still have no idea where to go here. I haven't figured out flirting and don't know a good resource for pretty much absolute beginners. Nor do I really have anyone who would be willing to help coach.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:20 AM
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I have probably approached around 150 total women so far. I'm 6'2, 210 and continuing to work out and get into better shape. I have an ok face at best with big nose. I dress well, I don't know exactly where I am failing at.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 03:05 AM
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If you have advice I would love to hear it but at this point I'm not sure what to specifically change, every time I fail. Despite this I see guys on here talking about having 4 plates, I need help getting 1.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 02:18 AM
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I'm currently at a 0% rate. Thats the issue.
/r/seduction07/02/16 01:06 AM
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nope
/r/askTRP07/02/16 12:20 AM
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You wouldn't happen to be named Tyler Durden?
/r/seduction19/01/16 02:00 AM
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When did you finally hit that curve?
/r/seduction19/01/16 01:18 AM
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I'm obviously doing something wrong then.
/r/seduction19/01/16 01:17 AM
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What's your biggest tip?
/r/seduction19/01/16 01:15 AM
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I'm getting good initial feedback but they flake after I start talking to them. Its somewhere in that part that my issue lies. How do I work on that, they definitely find me boring.
/r/seduction19/01/16 01:05 AM
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lost about 50 lbs, been lifting and running. In that time i make a minimum of 5 approaches a night when I go out.
/r/seduction18/01/16 11:57 PM
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Trying and failing at a ridiculous rate
/r/seduction18/01/16 11:24 PM
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This seems to be a common theme...Why? How about right after college?
/r/seduction18/01/16 11:19 PM
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What about your 20's directly after college if you have a solid paying career in IT?
/r/seduction18/01/16 10:30 PM
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What are the ages of the girls that are the most attracted to you at this point and how do guys straight out of college seem to fare?
/r/seduction18/01/16 10:27 PM
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I understand this happens, but how am I supposed to get past the catch 22 of no success? Just give up altogether? If I try I fail and if I don't try I don't fail but I don't get any attention? You are probably right I just need to figure out how to move past this initial hurdle.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 09:41 PM
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This is something I have never thought about, what was some of the biggest things you learned?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 08:39 PM
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give some specific examples
/r/askTRP17/01/16 07:08 PM
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numbers game is a smart idea until your number is 0. then the mindset won't break.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 06:41 PM
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my problem is i keep failing. i can try to fake not giving a fuck but its hard for it to come across honest when you keep failing and i know thats taking over my thoughts words and actions. How do you get to that point though?
/r/askTRP17/01/16 06:07 PM
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Girls aren't used to rejection, brush it off and stay true to you.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:12 PM
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what are a few examples that have worked for you?
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:06 PM
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Everything does feel forced for me in general, I don't feel like that will change though until I have some success.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 06:18 AM
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17%, not great but not terrible either. I have a solid frame from lifting through the years bc i played lots of sports
/r/askTRP17/01/16 06:02 AM
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thank you. any advice on learning to do this naturally. This is probably my weak spot.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:28 AM
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Any immediate resources you can point me to?
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:10 AM
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We talked about majors and one of the girls came from a branch campus so we started talking about awesome stuff to get involved in on campus. What are some successful conversations that you have been able to work through?
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:55 AM
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What are some key pointers to work on that?
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:52 AM
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Been using hi my name is for the pickup. Where would you take the conversation from there?
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:44 AM
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I meant on a tactical level of game.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:42 AM
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Sorry but I'm not associating my face with my account, besides its out of my control anyway.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:42 AM
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No moles on my face though.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:24 AM
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I would love some constructive criticism
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:23 AM
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Frustration is a natural part of learning, i appreciate the input but If you have something constructive that I could specifically do that would help alot.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:17 AM
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read models already
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:13 AM
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then where should i begin?
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:11 AM
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I have read the entire sidebar, been here for the past 4 months. I know I'm doing something wrong, I have pretty much everything going my way that most people have as a barrier. Despite all this I really have no idea. I understand the theory and I'm making the approaches and bettering myself. I don't know where else to turn.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:59 PM
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If i understood what I was doing wrong i wouldn't be here
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:51 PM
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Its quite a catch 22
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:48 PM
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Kino escalation but I'm saying whatever comes to mind at the time. Trust me I am having a blast but I'm not getting anywhere.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:47 PM
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Trust me I'm not wearing a suit.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:45 PM
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After a certain point you get frustrated with absolutely no hint of success.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:44 PM
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It's not my first time though. I have been trying for months and just not getting anything. I'm 200 lbs in relatively good shape. I have been lifting and running.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:44 PM
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yes
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:42 PM
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what city are you in?
/r/askTRP16/01/16 11:29 PM
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what would you talk about?
/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:54 PM
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I would leave her. I have been in a LDR and it either sucks for everyone or someone cheats. Let her know you are still interested and still want to keep in touch but you know that it isn't fair to either of you.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:54 PM
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yes. I work out by myself all the time. theres all kind of shit that you can learn from youtube and online for lifts. Most of all don't get discouraged because you don't bench like the people around you. Gains at the gym are slow and painful, its something where you have to keep on keeping on to get better. Most of all, there are no shortcuts.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:50 PM
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been approaching yet have been failing over and over. no success
/r/askTRP12/01/16 10:39 PM
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ya, how
/r/askTRP12/01/16 08:29 PM
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I understand life in general will get better but I am speaking specifically in the short term with pussy in the first years after college.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 05:55 PM
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I am pretty much at the same point where I just don't know how I am supposed to not give a fuck despite getting myself better. Approach anxiety is totally overwhelming me at this point.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 05:58 AM
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about 5 months ago
/r/seduction23/12/15 12:23 PM
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How the fuck are you doing this? I am failing every single time.
/r/seduction17/12/15 04:26 PM
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in similar shoes. stare strangers in the eye until they look away. creepy but it helps
/r/seduction17/12/15 01:54 AM
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thanks for the link but I did't get anything out of it other than I suck at it lol
/r/seduction16/12/15 10:01 PM
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What would you tell someone who is moderately physically attractive and self confident that just continues to fail without any success whatsoever over and over again. I can't see my blind spot as to what I am doing wrong and nothing is evident about it to me.
/r/seduction13/12/15 07:04 PM
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I am the guy that experiences nothing but failure and don't know why. Girls find me physically attractive and so do men. I'm at the point that I am so frustrated that I just can't get anywhere. I can't even get a girl to dance with me and I truely feel that despite how physically attraciteve I am, I will stay a virgin for the rest of my life. Even after reading models I am the guy who has no control over my own life and really has no way to experience the smallest of successes with women. At thi…
/r/seduction13/12/15 06:47 AM
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I have literally done all these except for the mentor. My approach anxiety is to the point that its crippling because I don't even know where to start. I feel like most people around me are so far ahead from having all the opportunities to fail but most advice really sucks.
/r/seduction11/12/15 08:36 PM
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went with friends at a college bar (i'm a senior). Lost alot of weight lately and actually feel pretty confident but I don't even know where to begin. spent first three years in a relationship.
/r/seduction11/12/15 04:21 PM
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should i basically roam or stay in one place bc i have now tried this multiple times including last night. i got absolutely no attention whatsoever
/r/seduction11/12/15 03:43 PM
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