how do you pick up on a dancefloor/ club type enviroment?

Dr_Mercury · 2015-12-11T15:39:06+00:00

Next time you're in a club get up and start dancing by yourself or with your friends. Don't worry about dancing with any females. Concentrate on being in touch with yourself, come up with some dance moves, forget about the people around you and have fun. Seriously, close your eyes and have fun. I promise that your positive and entertaining energy will radiate and be picked up by those who surround you. It's this kind of positive energy that females look for and are attracted to. When you start feeling more comfortable on your you will naturally feel more confident and attract more.

TheMinistryOfAwesome · 2015-12-11T17:25:21+00:00

When i'm dancing, i just go into the middle of the dance floor and start grooving, I don't let people move me, I don't really avoid collisions if they're going to happen I just hold my ground and let go.

I suspect that I dance terribly, but I always try to have fun and enjoy myself. If i make eye-contact with anyone male or female i'll go for a high five - if they seem friendly too I'll introduce myself. Usually this way you can keep people interacting with you the whole night. (depending on the size and transiency of the dance floor peeps)

I've been stood dancing and every time i do, i randomly get guys coming up to me high fiving, hugging and stuff... and later in the night some girl was shuffling up behind me, with her back to me and pressing her ass against me to get my attention. She wanted me to open her up and fuck her stupid. I actually chumped out as I was a bit drunk and got distracted - but later in the night i was sat outside eating some food by a latenight takeaway and she walked past me and called me an asshole for not hitting on her... At that point i was very drunk and busy eating pizza so I ignored her.

Though, one particular thing of note was that during that same night i was just enjoying myself wanted to dance to the groove - shitdance and enjoy myself and some girl i'd thought "out of all girls in here this chick is the hottest an she knows it" ended up slinking up to me and dancing with me. She took my drink off me and seductively wrapped her lips around it and pulled some of it. This chick was sassing about like she owned the place and she was very hot...

I really am not that good looking, I don't even think my game is great but that's not the first time i've managed to land one of the hottest girls in the place by dancing.

Advice:

Be friendly with everyone around you - your world
Enjoy yourself, get into the grove and just allow yourself to experience the whole music and movement vibe, even without any women.
If you're scared then see if you can attract women to you this way. If you have some level of assertiveness, then just grab a girl and pull her in to dance.

it's really just about having fun.

dispatcherselfish · 2015-12-13T06:47:48+00:00

I am the guy that experiences nothing but failure and don't know why. Girls find me physically attractive and so do men. I'm at the point that I am so frustrated that I just can't get anywhere. I can't even get a girl to dance with me and I truely feel that despite how physically attraciteve I am, I will stay a virgin for the rest of my life. Even after reading models I am the guy who has no control over my own life and really has no way to experience the smallest of successes with women. At this point it has completely gone to my head that I am trapped in a space where I have no control over my own life. How the fuck do you get your first motherfucking hint at success. I am okay with a 1 percent conversion rate when it comes to girls even just dancing with me. But the issue is that I can't even seem to get that to happen and it is just beyond anything that I can even seem to control. It gets to the point that I am willing to get back into a broken relationship because at least I know I will have a comfortable misery.

Title	how do you pick up on a dancefloor/ club type enviroment?
Author	dispatcherselfish
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	December 11, 2015 1:46 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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