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It is. Women want full attention and validation. You instead show her distance and no validation. Her hamster will spin because of that. That spinning is the sweet revenge, because now she is affected while you simply are not.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 06:15 PM
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Sometimes it is important to let people know in the way he did that you don't care anymore. It could please your anger, revenge or what not, but mostly it serves yourself to be able to move on. When you got that sweet taste of revenge, you will then realize by the second, third or X time it happend again, that you are not giving a fuck about her anymore. It's part of the process what he did and will eventually come to a state of total abundance.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 02:39 PM
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I am not sure how the legal system works in your country, but consider the problems with evidence... did you invite her to stay with her? did the landlord know about it too? Do you both signed the contract for the apartment? Try your best to get the money back, but don't see it as an act of paying her back, because it might not work (if the risk of succeeding is to high) and then you feel double hurt: 1) she nexted you 2) you lost in court. Make sure when you go to court that the case/evidence i…
/r/askTRP15/12/16 09:49 AM
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Many people advised you not to reply and I agree with them. And I explain you why: We understand your feelings towards that woman. You feel connected, she is pretty, funny, movie nights, humor and what not. We might sound frustrated because it didn't work out in our life and so we turned to TRP. Maybe your relationship was different from our experience, right? Maybe if you hold on little longer it goes all back to normal, right? Please stay with me here. Picture yourself on the day of your LTR b…
/r/askTRP14/12/16 09:01 PM
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Today we spoke and I told her that I won't come to visit her. If you are interested in how it went, I edited my post. Thank you for your time and advice!
/r/askTRP13/12/16 07:12 PM
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Thank you for your reply and it helped me. Today we spoke and I told her that I won't come to her. If you are interested in how it went, I edited my post. Thank you for your time and advice!
/r/askTRP13/12/16 07:12 PM
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Thank you for your book recommendation and advice! /u/PRAISE_BE_TO_YEVON suggested the same, to decide what I want and then act on it. I think I feel guilty for not to want to go to visit Luci at NYE just at the moment when she invited me because that is what I was wishing for all the time. Yes, I am in her frame.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 02:19 PM
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No, I don't want this. I want her to be committed. I want to know that we have the same desires. I am tired of always understanding her. I want that she thinks like me: no pressure, just trying out being committed (get a job in the same country, a relationship and enjoying the shit out of this life together) and if it doesn't work for whatever external reasons, we move on separately. I think this will not be likely and going there would be meaningless to me, because of tight money and being stre…
/r/askTRP12/12/16 02:07 PM
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I read on the rational male that "communicating" is set to failure. Negotiating desire or a relationship doesn't work. In No More Mr. Nice Guy and Models they were suggesting being more vulnerable and open with your own desires. Would you advise me to be open with her why I want to come - connection, having a fun time, no expectations or if I don't want to come why - it is complicated and feels weird and I want to start my NYE with happiness and positivity that I can take with me into the next y…
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:49 PM
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Do you also have a solution on what to do or does your criticism imply that I should have done anything else but my chosen behavior?
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:33 PM
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No I don't. Plating I used after she told me not to hope for a relationship. I plated other women and kept in contact with her while she was initiating contact to avoid being stuck with her for a year (what I usually do). I want a LTR. I just want to make the right decision with Luci based on my feelings and attainable expectations. Edit: extra information
/r/askTRP12/12/16 12:47 PM
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Dear to elaborate bluepill cope?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 01:09 AM
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Reading this feels like: Friday night live on Fox "Who has it worse?" And "worse" is said out "woooooooorse" by a smiling TV host who looks like a skinny Leonardo DiCaprio.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 01:06 AM
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Thank you! That was of great help! are slightly disgusted by what she just allowed you to do to her (and how much she enjoyed it). What are your thoughts on having a feeling of disgust towards her afterward? I experienced the same and put it aside as my old BP thinking takes over again, but don't know how to finally dissolve the dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 01:51 AM
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Sounds like a good plan. Can you give me a hint on how you freak it up? I am not shy, but generally, don't know how to introduce freaky stuff to my plate. I usually make statements as "I havent decided yet to come on your face or ass". Usually it is taken well... but I am running out of freaky stuff to do. I am not into anal or fisting or stuff like that, but otherwise very dominant (slapping, choking and stuff). I am wondering if I am having a lack of sexual fantasies, too covert to admit my ki…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 11:56 PM
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I just can guess where you are coming from (cause I am not there yet), but others here may perceive you as too extreme. I think you are doing everything right. Maybe lift up your standards a little and plate women of higher quality?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 11:28 PM
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I agree, I also have bad experience with "comfort" creating conversations. Also don't try to tell them "throw me a bone here." That is the only thing that sounded little "off". Especially when other men trying to seduce her too. Now I am doing the other part "being playful" too much and some women get turned off by that too. They tell me they dont like it, but then I stop completely giving them attention. I think a healthy back and forth approach would be fine, but right now I am still figuring …
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:35 PM
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a) you weren't the only man she was talking to - other men were more interesting - you were not interesting enough b) she just wanted attention c) it was a fake profile - person on the picture and real person didnt match - just wanted to peek into the procedure of online dating I think there are even more reasons to flake out. Try not to be so invested in her (or any woman) - be more outcome independent. I don't think your communication was off or something. Actually, if a girl likes you or is n…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 02:24 PM
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Could you initiate such a process and find people who have the skills? also how about traffic in such p2p system? Why I like Reddit so much is its users and the easy access to the platform and therefore the variety of r/. I am far away from being a deep user of Reddit that notices the problems Reddit has though.
/r/MGTOW25/11/16 09:30 AM
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no, not for mgtow but in general... besides 4chan?
/r/MGTOW24/11/16 08:36 PM
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Where else can we go with the same or equal content?
/r/MGTOW24/11/16 04:09 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP20/11/16 12:30 PM
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Your fear is to exaggerated. It is eye contact. There are more steps involved till someone pulls out a knife or gun and also using it.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 02:55 AM
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Yeah, you got my point.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 02:47 AM
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I used to shy out when the eye contact was to strong or to long for me. It didn't matter if they were men or women. For me it is just a matter of holding it longer than before. We are talking about a millisecond or a second, not staring. It keeps my mind busy and doesn't leave me room to feel embarrassed by to much eye contact. I was a heavyweight amateur boxer (no fights though due to no matching competition) 3.5 years and imagining hitting someone in the face sounds like ding ding ding in my h…
/r/askTRP20/11/16 02:47 AM
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Thanks for clarifying.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 04:50 PM
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My purpose of having eye contact is to transfer my emotions to someone. How do I do it? A photographer once told me my eyes look empty, without texture and emotion and I should spice it up. On that shooting I was thinking, "WTF?? how do I do that?" I started thinking about having really passionate sex with a woman. Two seconds after I was think about it and looked at the camera she said: "Damn, that is it." Maybe she was gaming me, but I like to believe she was honest. Transition to normal life:…
/r/askTRP19/11/16 04:33 PM
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but not in valuating it in a negative way. AWALT just recognises that woman are who they are (without a distorted believe about them) so you know how to deal with them. Still, they are human beings with advantages and shortcomings. The love of a woman is a powerful energy resource for us. I think that is why I really can't follow the MGTOW ideology. Despite all that, I don't want to rephrase what /u/kamwren wrote, so I agree completly what he said.
/r/MGTOW13/11/16 02:23 PM
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exactly! it seems the vehicle is a substitute for a gf, which is bad.
/r/MGTOW12/11/16 01:41 PM
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That was really really cool! I mean, self-exposing, battling fear, being vulnerable... I don't care if it wasn't textbookish... I am impressed.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 12:29 AM
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Fuck! I just got unplugged hard.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:41 PM
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I think your best bet is to be very, very....very patient. 100% She's very attractive and is a good girl, but should I move on if she's being so shy? If she's this nervous what's she going to be like in bed? Is this an excuse for being inpatient? Since you are so experienced, can't you show her what you like in bed? Yes, maybe the first sex will not how you expected it to be, but that doesn't have to be a permanent state. I'm not sure if it's something I could be doing differently or if maybe sh…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 02:58 PM
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Why should you give a fuck what anyone thinks of your girl? She is for you and only for you, so I dont waste a thought about what someone of my friends would say.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 08:59 PM
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I can't answer you this. If you can get a boner seeing her naked, why not start from there. Also if you want some form of desire and not fat wrapped around a pussy, just don't. I would try to get a woman that has something cool, sexy, special to her. Something that makes you go neanderthal. If you already start thinking of maybe not going or being disgusted, then there is no reason why you should meet her. Standards are always good!!
/r/askTRP30/10/16 02:30 AM
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I assume that self-esteem could be the biggest issue. To pull off a very attractive woman is a very different game. Usually, it helps to "train" on easier targets. It gives you a fallback base, a foundation. The trick is though, don't stick to it. If you start your journey with "below average" women, your confidence, ability to talk and general behavior will increase. You become more demanding. Then, when you meet your "out of league" woman, you built a better behavior, yet you will be nervose a…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 02:21 AM
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What kind of experience did you get with "below average" women? approaching; communication (verbal / physical); sex; plate;
/r/askTRP30/10/16 01:56 AM
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Fuck! This is powerful and much needed! Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 05:01 PM
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I know what you mean, but why don't you go create a social event by yourself. Let's say you have a hobby X - advertise it heavily, internet and malls etc, for a get-together. In my country, we can give courses at a school about anything and decide the price on its own. Give those courses on a subject you are really good at and then connect with people who are alike you, through teaching. Right now I am in the fortunate position: I am old but still meet new people every now and then. In a year I …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:51 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MGTOW15/10/16 02:57 PM
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Nice. I still dont know what to say to HB better then 8. My mind goes insta blank. I barely never open, need a random event to open always. Need to work on that a lot. So I might be one of those guys in a bar, saluting you in silence! No envy, just respect!
/r/seduction02/08/16 03:09 PM
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I agree, but have to object that in those cultures (Iran, Turkey for example) a lot of shit is happening behind closed doors. They have sex, they drink alcohol, the use lingery and all that stuff. Maybe you cant have an open TRP lifestyle, but you certainly can have it hidden. Or am I totally wrong?
/r/askTRP28/07/16 04:44 PM
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So AWALT is only limited to Western/Culture? I dont think so. I do agree some elements of TRP are unique cultural theories, but not in general. I have no idea though which theories can be applied universally and which not. But I think it is interesting as fuck to find out what similarities Alpha-Males in India, China, Pakistan etc. have in common! Also what is common in woman! Is there a group like intTRP?
/r/askTRP28/07/16 11:16 AM
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Thanks!
/r/askTRP25/07/16 07:16 PM
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experiencing a girl who's really into you I tried to search-find that post, but couldn't. Do you still have the correct name from the author or post itself?
/r/askTRP25/07/16 02:38 PM
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I believe I know what you mean. But still can't really grasp what a good response would be to maintain frame and not be beta bitchy or totally ignoring her (which seems to be a beta bitch move too). Will read the 12 levels of dread and then see if I'll find any answers. Thanks for your time!
/r/askTRP25/07/16 02:23 PM
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Thanks! I will! Escalating into a fight.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:22 PM
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Is this all or nothing behaviour really going to work out in the end? Maybe I am "not there" yet, but it seems very limitating to insta next her. The punishment response is much better, but what if it escalates?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:01 AM
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Hey, your advice is great!!! I was always wondering how to do it. Would love to read your ebook!
/r/seduction21/07/16 06:08 PM
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maybe this could help? it helped me (with time) in an almost similar case.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:17 PM
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Fuck, those answers are so hard to read. The saddest thing is, if it would have happened to someone else, I would have told him the same. I have a girl on the side, but one with very low selfesteem. When I was reflecting on my past relationships, I found out, almost all of my gf had low selfesteem. It seems I picked them because I had just a slightly higher selfesteem. Jesus, this needs to stop.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 04:06 PM
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hard words to read, but true.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 02:16 PM
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I did escelate and I made various moves, for example, flirting/dancing with other women, physical contact with her, teasing and also ignoring her at social gatherings. I basically just pulled her towards me and bear huged her. In general you are right, I fucked up. hard words to read, but true.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 02:16 PM
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hard words to read, but true.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 02:12 PM
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hard words to read, but true. Why is she intimidating you? Your value and presence should be exciting and intimidating HER in roughly equal measure. I am doing that with women I dont have feelings for, I dont know how to apply it when my emotions overrule my new learned behaviour
/r/askTRP25/04/16 02:11 PM
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hahaha damn!
/r/askTRP10/04/16 04:16 PM
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If I were that manager, I would like to be told in private to stop it, in a friendly but assertive way. If he would find an excuse like, I didn't mean it in that way, just stick to your story of not enjoying to be touched. Thank him for understanding and then just leave his office. I am not sure if this is about red pill? Because usually a red pill guy should be aware and should stop his behaviour, when he is sending out a couple of signals like that and gets responses that are negative
/r/askTRP10/04/16 12:55 PM
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I have the feeling that this answer could be very helpful, but I dont understand this: Internalize envy, ... understand it's source in each circumstance, but never let it develop into your self-concept. That's where ego's and extrinsic motivation take root, and they are your enemy. Could you elaborate please?
/r/askTRP10/04/16 10:58 AM
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I agree and did that with men and they started making compliments about me. Which increased my social value even more. Sometimes to an extend, that I felt embarresed. Problem also is, I am not perfect either, I am judgmental. I know (from experience with them) they will not return the favour. I feel used. I feel like they are playing their game of I need to impress that woman with alpha behaviour which, is obvious not who they are. I judge them for not embracing their own individual being. I loo…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 10:52 AM
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Thank you for this. It brings another perspective to my mind. I usually thought, if someone is envying me, I do something right, but never knew what and strangely, it feels like I hurt someone unintentionally. Let them talk behind your back, it brings attention to you. Attention is power. With that in mind, they hurt themselves. it make sense to fraternize with men that match your prowess it makes a lot of sense
/r/askTRP10/04/16 10:40 AM
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I will add your link to my post, so people can read both and comment; maybe there is a better solution to this than cutting people off.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 10:30 AM
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Maybe I am to rude, but I would have said with a big grin: "I think your ass needs more walking than mine." (Wouldn't matter how hot or ugly she looks) I would have never under any circumstances got up and get the drinks. After my joke I would have shifted the conversation to something completly unrelated and made the group laugh again...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 08:59 AM
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I read the term: irrational self-confidence twice in this post. When I asked google about it, it took me to some websites and I read about it, but still don't comprehend the concept of it. Could someone explain this term to me?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 08:23 AM
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I think this guide helps people the most who are at the point, where you read lots of material on how to approach women or game in general and kinda feel phoney, when you interact with women. At least I do so now. This guide kinda helped me to not think in outcomes. Which I higly appreciate. You also helped me with the alternatives of positive affirmation. They never helped me or sometimes even made my life harder for me: "In what ways am I already confident?" or "In what ways am I able to appro…
/r/seduction23/02/16 06:22 PM
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Well, I would say I have a 60% introvert and 40% extrovert personality. I am good looking and women tell me I have charme, work out, but like OP, I get easily bored(also maybe scared) when I get the feeling someone likes me too fast or isnt good looking enough. The whole pick up thing material I read and try to implement in my life, I did, because I hated it to depend on "luck" to find someone I like or not taking chances that life is offering me, because I am scared of rejection. So when I try …
/r/seduction23/01/16 03:58 PM
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is there any cure to this?
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:24 PM
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I am very illiterate when it comes to Buddhism. I just read one book , the art of happiness by Howard C. Cutler and the Dalai Lama. I got alot from it, but one aspect was, that you have to learn from enemies or people that hurt you alot, cause there is always a great lesson to learn and therefore to grow aka becoming a better person. As you wrote, that doesnt mean to be a nice guy, it just means that you have to learn from it. I plan to read master the core teachings of the buddha soon.
/r/seduction22/12/15 06:45 PM
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That is a principle of buddhism and you applied it very elegantly to your life. Chest bump!
/r/seduction21/12/15 06:11 PM
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You cleared things up for me too. Thank you very much for taking your time to answer and breaking down the questions in little steps.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 09:35 PM
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It certainly did. Thank you very much for your insight!
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 09:38 PM
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But then all this means that the love, men and women perceive, really differs, cause males look for youth (and the ability to care), females look for rescources (and also the ability to care). So Premise 1 is correct. It also means women and men are both capable of feeling the "romantic" love described in "Men in Love" Article, because that love can be learned through parenting. Which means woman are not excluded, nor does men have more ability to embed that "romantic" love than women have. But …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 08:42 AM
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Isn't that already in mens genetic programming? To protect and provide for the offspring, cause we also have an interest of protecting our genetic information as well as women do. Why do we need love if we have our evolutional programming?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 05:26 PM
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