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Got a gChat from her immediately when I signed on. Just normal conversation: G: Locked my keys in the car last night. You missed that fun. D: Damn shame. Next time do it at a more civil hour & I'll bring beer and a chair. Always enjoy a good slapstick routine. G: Eh. Called the dealer. Batted my eyes, made some jokes, wore a low-cut shirt. New key made, no charge. D: You make feminists everywhere proud. It's a beautiful day & I've got a firetruck to fix. You should think about getting some sunsh…
/r/seduction02/10/10 02:16 PM
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Not sure this was a good thing to get her to say aloud. I know, and I was a bit shocked when she said it. I was expecting her to ask me explicitly to come back out to the bar. But when that laid out like that, I felt like I had to roll with it. Too much escalation. Again, you haven't slept with her yet. Truth. I see that in the light of morning. I was feeling particularly aggressive at the time and actually it's probably good I didn't see her at the bar -- I might have been adversely aggressive.…
/r/seduction02/10/10 02:09 PM
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I got another text at 4:30 AM that repeated, simply: "You are so bad for me." I'm letting this one sit on the burner. She's told me explicitly that she is looking for a fuck buddy that she can enjoy physically & intellectually without emotional attachment, and as far as I can tell that's what I'm offering here.
/r/seduction02/10/10 02:05 PM
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By my consideration, I'd been very straight-forward. Intentions were clear (I thought) on both sides with no manipulation (from my side) and there seemed to be an action plan. Are you talking about a different meaning of straight-forward than I?
/r/seduction02/10/10 02:03 PM
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True. These were friends I hadn't seen in ages and I didn't really see her as anything but a distraction from what I wanted to be doing. You're right, though -- should have gotten her number. There's always time after last call.
/r/seduction12/08/10 04:54 PM
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Nah, it's the drink-spilling part that would be exceptionally douchey for me to repeat. I take no shame in the subsequent actions.
/r/seduction12/08/10 04:52 PM
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Because... wait for it... I didn't want to. I was having a good time with friends and she was drunker than I like to fool around with in the first place. Why would I ditch my friends to fuck a girl I'm not that into?
/r/seduction12/08/10 04:52 PM
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Now on a relevant note: I'm already hitting awesome places and have stories that will rock socks when I'm begged for them -- and I think I'm doing the right thing in holding them off rather than being a monkey for the group. That said, I think you're dead right about the attitude shift. I've got a marketable asset here and I need to see it that way.
/r/seduction11/07/10 02:15 AM
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Right, a bit of a divergence, but I feel like I have to give dive bars their fair defense here. A dive bar is where locals go, where they sell good beer and you can get to know the bartender. This is to separate it from the Applebees, tourist-district bars, and that sort of thing -- because those all look the same to me. I've had the best food, drink, and people of my life in dive, hole-in-the-wall places where you don't want to look at the floor too closely.
/r/seduction11/07/10 02:14 AM
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Also, "I'm not from around here, what are you guys doing tonight?" is starting to sound a little bit desperate, even to me. Any suggestions for meeting new people that doesn't sound so needy?
/r/seduction10/07/10 05:58 PM
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I'm in a new city and I've fallen in love with this one: if I'm going somewhere and I pass /anyone/ on the street going the same way I ask them "Hey, is this the right way to XYZ street?" When they say yes, you ask if they're headed in that direction and simply make conversation for a bit. It's a great warm-up, you can ask for tips on good places around there, and as soon as they turn off on their own way you just look for a new walker. If you're getting bored, just stop in somewhere to take a p…
/r/seduction02/07/10 06:56 AM
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I don't like the ring routines, but if I've been talking to someone for a bit, I will say "That's an interesting ring" and if it is available, I take their hand to examine it. ; if it is not, I tell them to hold up their hand so I can see it better, then I take it. I do have a genuine interest -- I appreciate good metalworking, so I take some time to examine it closely. This is a good chance to take the hand from all sides, and to demonstrate some control by turning it this way or that without a…
/r/seduction15/06/10 04:32 PM
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Can anyone talk more about bridging sets? I often find myself in a bar where I know four or five groups of people and get good respect from all, but I can't pull them together. Any tips besides for "Hey, you need to meet so-and-so over here!"?
/r/seduction13/06/10 08:55 PM
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Awesome. I'm out of town until August, but expect a message then. Where do you go DT?
/r/seduction11/06/10 08:56 PM
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Athens, GA -- but I would definitely swing down.
/r/seduction06/06/10 03:18 AM
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Are you suggesting that I like intelligent conversations, or that I narcissistically like conversations that make me seem/feel intelligent? Both are true. Suppose I rephrase my question: I have troubles with transition points across the board. I've gotten better at kino, isolation, getting past an introduction/opening, etc. -- but I still have issue transitioning a conversation beyond idle chitchat, and I would like to be able to do that.
/r/seduction24/05/10 07:20 PM
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I have trouble getting to conversation that's actually interesting for me. I'm a genial person, I go out with lots of friends and get high social proof from them, I talk to anyone and everyone and don't have a problem opening some chitchat commentary with someone at a bar or standing in line or even at a crosswalk... but that's as far as it goes, and frankly I find it really boring. I'd like to see a conversation that gives me a chance to know if the person I am talking to is intelligent and wel…
/r/seduction24/05/10 02:23 PM
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On a slightly different note, how did you find/attract mentors? I've managed to stumble across a few powerful, successful people in my life that have taken an interest in me, but I can't work out how to make it a continuing presence. I'm pretty bad at networking as a whole. Any tips?
/r/seduction23/05/10 02:15 PM
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Sounds like you'll be ducking around all the same places as me. We should definitely try to meet up -- I posted my schedule(ish) above. What looks like it might overlap?
/r/seduction14/05/10 12:17 PM
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I should be in SF sometime between the 17th and 26th... give or take a few days. That work?
/r/seduction14/05/10 12:16 PM
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I'll be crossing Arizona in first Fri-Sat-Sun of June. PM me your phone number and I'll send you a text when I'm coming through. Cool?
/r/seduction14/05/10 12:15 PM
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I'll be heading through Dallas westwards in the first week of June and getting to LA by the end of that first weekend. A week in LA, and then I'll spend two weeks moving towards the northern parts of California (a week or so in the Fresno area, a week or so in San Fran or just north of there), and that should put me in Oregon in early July, followed by Washington. If you're in those areas at that time, hit me up below and I'll send you my phone number to let you know when I get there.
/r/seduction14/05/10 12:14 PM
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...who've let the bullshit societal behavior conditioning run this deep. This. They're damaged goods and you can never trust their actions to follow their intentions. They may sometimes be easier game, but are they actually deserving of someone like you?
/r/seduction28/04/10 03:05 PM
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The simple honest one. Not the badass honest one, either. Now honesty is also dependent on your inner confidence: if the honest answer is "I'm looking for a fuck to improve my self-esteem" or "I want a partner to support me and comfort me because I'm lonely" then maybe it is time to do some self-improvement so you have something truly of value to offer yourself and others. That said, answers I've given have been everything from, "I want someone that I can have a good conversation with in and out…
/r/seduction27/04/10 04:15 AM
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Bullshit. Be forthright. Anything else is trouble. If you want sex, say you want sex -- even if she is looking for an LTR. Alternatively, if you don't fuck people without an emotional attachment (yeah, it happens) and she just wants to fuck (yeah, it happens), you'd better be clear about that up front, to. I'd like to meet the PUA who says that being straight-up about your intentions is a bad thing. Isn't this game about us being comfortable and confident in our wants and purposes?
/r/seduction27/04/10 01:16 AM
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Dude, she's into marketing & business. You've been networked. She doesn't want to see you, but is keeping a channel of communication open for the future. You can either close her out or just accept her as a potential long-term non-sexual asset.
/r/seduction22/04/10 03:57 PM
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I think you're right, especially about the language part. I've been trying to trim out the very casually-given American 'thank you', 'sorry', and 'excuse me'. I'd just rather be using them in a meaningful way.
/r/seduction21/04/10 03:28 PM
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I meant saying "Excuse me" to my friends as I leave them. They are generally curious as to what's up when I do that.
/r/seduction21/04/10 05:59 AM
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Hmmm, thanks. I think I need to re-evaluate what I'm doing. Whenever I go into a bar in my town, with friends or not, there are always people there I know -- I usually wind up bouncing between a few groups. I think I can begin applying some game practice into bringing groups together so that I'm not chasing them around; they're coming to me. I just find it difficult to say, "Excuse me a second" and then have all eyes on me as I go approach someone I don't know.
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:24 PM
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Virtually none at all. I have a large-ish social circle (40-80 people depending on how you count it) and we regularly go out to bars and social events together, but always to talk & hang out amidst ourselves. I really enjoy them and the time, but I find it incredibly difficult to break away to practice pick-up. It's a shitty excuse and I don't like it, but there it is. I would like to develop a separate social group that is into this to provide encouragement and mutual learning, but I'm in a sma…
/r/seduction20/04/10 01:33 PM
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Do you have a good resource for information on frame control?
/r/seduction17/04/10 04:06 PM
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How are you opening on the street?
/r/seduction28/03/10 08:01 PM
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Negs may work on some men and not on others. It depends on the type you are trying to attract. They are used on women to break through to a woman who has been constantly surrounded by fawning men complimenting her. It is a rare guy who has the same experience. On top of that, most guys are coming from a rather insecure background -- especially the faux-alphas. A neg won't simply break through to them and get their attention, it will instead put most guys into a semi-belligerent sulk. Everyone fr…
/r/seduction25/03/10 04:23 PM
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Guaranteed no.
/r/seduction18/03/10 07:20 PM
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We're always in private -- I just don't like to make physical moves in public at all. Usually I haven't laid a hand on them outside of their elbow or small of the back until I get them in private. I have read about the two forward and one back thing and freeze outs -- it's just a big psychological shift for me to use them. I suppose it is what it is, though.
/r/seduction18/03/10 05:54 PM
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I am thinking the plausible deniability is the key here. After asking around a bit, it turns out I have a reputation as a masterful seducer of young women. Fuck all if I know how that happened -- I definitely haven't earned it or gotten the pleasures that come along with such a reputation. I think that some girls who are very dependent on their image as good girls hear this and -- since they are humans and we all just want to fuck anyways -- they see this as a chance to get what they really want…
/r/seduction18/03/10 05:52 PM
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Last October, I was in Nashville to drink with a buddy I knew from High School. I was hitting on this girl and it wasn't working out, but before I knew it there was another girl literally sitting on her lap with her arms around me. One in the hand is worth two in the bush, right? So I went home with her. We get to her bed and talk for a bit (she can't sleep with someone she doesn't know at all, she says) and then start making out. But every so often she'd get this concerned look on her face and …
/r/seduction18/03/10 05:49 PM
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Last night, I brought over a girl I'd been flirting with named M. M has always been a very direct girl -- before she came over she asked what my intentions were. After I found out that she seriously wanted to know my exact intentions, I said, "I'm going to get to know you better, build some physical comfort, and then make out with you." M replied that she doesn't kiss on the first date (first date?! What?!) and I said it wouldn't stop me from trying anyways. So we wrap up the movie and I look at…
/r/seduction18/03/10 05:44 PM
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