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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.I LOVE these acronyms!!! Totally stealing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 08:16 PM |
| 134 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.The visible comments on FDS posts are always like, 10% of the full number of comments 😂 Thank you for working hard to maintain this exquisite venue mods!!! We love it here!!!💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 04:19 AM |
| 44 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.{Lucille Bluth “good for her!!!” gif} New favorite insect fact 🙏🙏🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 03:19 AM |
| 95 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.No one was thinking. My response was a neutral “aw!” I wish I could “!!” react in real life conversations instead of just over iMessage lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:13 AM |
| 170 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.Thank you I fully agree. It almost felt like I was supposed to make myself less scary or something, like “omg dontblinkyoullmissme, be NICER OK. THEN THESE LOSERS WILL GAIN THE CONFIDENCE TO WASTE YOUR TIME” bye. BYEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:11 AM |
| 188 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.This is exactly my point. If you aren’t man enough to treat me like a full human (and not a scary-divine-Madonna-on-a-pedestal or whatever their view of me is, I don’t care to inquire further) then we’re probably not meant to be sweeties! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:09 AM |
| 20 | Protect your wombThis woman cracked me up. “Five men doesn’t sound like a lot but if I told you that I murdered five people, it would feel like a lot.” Point made queen 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:42 AM |
| 5 | What do we know about this writer? His content seems HVM so far ...https://www.yourtango.com/love/qualities-men-want-woman-marry?amp The fact he wrote “family-oriented” and “kind-hearted” before intelligence and ambition? He also commends women for picking up the check. It’s a no from me. “Her putting in effort doesn’t have to be much. It can be something as simple as slipping the waiter her debit card to pay for dinner. It’s no secret that sometimes the romance wears off of longer term relationships, but you shouldn’t let it, and neither should she. If a woman… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:18 PM |
| 41 | The most hellish DM convo showcasing the classic hits: grammatical errors and sociopathy!Omg he does… 😂down to the reactions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 02:53 AM |
| 145 | The most hellish DM convo showcasing the classic hits: grammatical errors and sociopathy!Your vs. You’re (3 offenses) Here vs. Hear (1 offense) There vs. Their (1 offense) Deluded narcissism (incalculable) Misogyny (incalculable) The speech by the creator at the end was very uplifting. I know nothing of this creator but he explained the “nIcE gUy” phenomenon at the end of the video, which I appreciated. Men need to call out other men for misogyny. This woman should have blocked this man right off the bat. This video is a good block & delete PSA! Let this be a reminder to us all that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 02:31 AM |
| 41 | Let’s compare the meanest thing a woman has *ever* said to one of the tamer things a man has said to me. (Trigger warning)That whole thread has me cracking up. “She called me weird looking😖😖😖😖” “She called me paycheck 😭😭😭” “She said I’m disgusting 😢😢😢😢😢” If it’s this easy to break men, I’m not concerned for the impending WW3. All we have to do is call them disgusting paychecks and they’re BROKEN 😖😖😖😖. Meanwhile, men call women names that are exclusively linguistically meant to degrade only women and threaten us with r***. Grow some ovaries you disgusting pathetic shrimps LMAO bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 01:29 PM |
| 309 | Major trigger warning. This is what pro kink / pro sex work activists are advocating for. They always rant about women having bodily autonomy & making their own choices, but does it look like the people who engage deeply in kink are mentally healthy? I’m sorry, but this mentality is psychotic.This was written by a man who views women as sex toys. It’s so obvious. Probably a guy who wants to murder women he knows he’ll never get a chance with while they’re still alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 02:03 AM |
| 13 | Consent isn’t just a wordThank you, I have found so much support in FDS and I feel hopeful that other women might be able to avoid what I’ve experienced. Your comments are incredibly insightful and compassionate. Consider yourself internet-hugged 🌻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 12:54 AM |
| 121 | Consent isn’t just a wordThank you for taking the time to teach me an important anatomy lesson that my Catholic high school forgot to teach me. I didn’t go to the doctor. That night was the beginning of our visit. I took Advil and felt violently ill, like I was fighting off a cold. Obviously it was also hard to walk. He gave me 2 doses of ZzzQuil the rest of the nights so that I wouldn’t be twitchy from the discomfort, and so that I wouldn’t keep him up. I healed up fine. Men believe anal is the most painful going in bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 98 | Consent isn’t just a wordI was literally like, wow it’s so weird how we can only see half the comments 😂 Hey losers! If this post triggers you, you’re a rapist. Men who are comfortable with this post respect women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 04:07 PM |
| 18 | Horrifying levels that scrotes stoop to...Wow this was a nightmare and also totally believable because men are disgusting violent liars lol. The worst part was how he blasted the music to confuse her and muffle her screams. Who was shocked? Not me! 🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 03:34 PM |
| 233 | Consent isn’t just a word(Possible trigger warning) I saw this on Instagram and I wanted to share. I haven’t had a serious relationship for three years since I’m focusing on my career. I date to keep my skills fresh. I told my last boyfriend I didn’t want to have anal. We would have regular sex, and he would send me tickets to visit him once a week since we were long distance. He was always violent in bed, but I was six years younger and I thought that’s what sex was. During one visit, he told me he wanted to f*** me in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 02:56 PM |
| 97 | Me giving FDS dating advice to my girls: 🥬🥬🥬Jack Jackson Jake James Jaxon 🤢 Jayden Jesse Joey Joseph Josh Julian Justin And let’s be honest, Ryan. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 79 | Why community-dick-men is a red flag telling you that they are a non-monogameous.“We enjoy sex, don’t want a relationship with the men we are sleeping with, and are aware of the pitfalls.” I 100% agree with this. When women want to have sex, we are aware of the societal and physical repercussions: intense shaming for our natural sexuality, and pregnancy. When we choose to take the “gamble” that we shouldn’t be forced to take, just to express our sexuality, it’s not without serious thought. Men have the luxury due to biology/patriarchy to f*** around without forethought. They… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:17 PM |
| 50 | What do y'all make of this? Useful advice? Anything you'd do differently? 🤔This is so true, and also part of why this article was absurd. “Ladies write a list and communicate with a grown man what needs to be done.” Bitch no. I definitely will not teach my partner how to be a basic functioning adult. Emotional labor, housework labor, and now I’m his professor in Basic Life Skills 101? Miss me with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 04:19 AM |
| 44 | What do y'all make of this? Useful advice? Anything you'd do differently? 🤔Yes girl. This author was definitely minimizing how women are out here taking one for the team on a regular weekly basis. "Some couples choose to divide the tasks equally, while others assign proportionally more tasks to one partner who perhaps has a less demanding career or a greater desire to get things done." Let's translate this Gaslightese. "Some couples divide tasks equally, while others assign disproportionately based on who has a female-dominated career like teaching/nursing/mothering, o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 02:21 AM |
| 136 | What do y'all make of this? Useful advice? Anything you'd do differently? 🤔"Research shows that men and women consistently overestimate the proportion of housework they do. Women believe they do the lion’s share, while men believe the split is 50:50. In reality, in the UK the average man does 16 hours a week of unpaid housework, while the average woman does 26 hours a week. Clearly this isn’t 50:50, but neither is it 90:10. A large piece of the discrepancy stems from simply not knowing what our partners do, and vice versa." I take issue with this framing, for two big r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 02:04 AM |
| 122 | I prefer saying “I already knew that,” so he’s 100% sure that I’m the one being condescending. 🦕🦕🦕That is so good omg… GENIUS 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:56 AM |
| 542 | Porn sickness is a slippery slope, this woman needs to take her daughter and LEAVE8 comments 1 visible hmm…. This is gross. Men like this shouldn’t reproduce, much less have daughters. EXHAUSTED of seeing these dumbass internalized misogyny posts. “My sexual partner calls me daughter when he f***s me. We have a 7 month old girl. Am I CRAZY to be turned off???” What’s next?? He starts calling her their daughter’s name in bed? I’m done. Throw 👏that 👏man 👏 In 👏the 👏trash 👏can👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 04:40 PM |
| 185 | The Scrotation PlaylistIndustry Baby by Lil Nas X featuring Jack Harlow. Jack Harlow’s lyric, “I send her back to her boyfriend with my handprint on her asscheek.” Otherwise ruining a great song with a stupid unnecessary misogynistic lyric glamorizing cheating. If any guy spanked me so hard his handprint remained on my ass I’m leaving my handprint on his face ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 02:21 AM |
| 9 | Men will be men... For them any woman who wants to be treated with respect is a phycho bitchOk but it’s funny how he’s saying he “followed the cult like rules”. So was he posting posts that lifted women up, was he supporting women, was he saying “yes queen”?! 😂 I’m okay with that. And I can always tell when someone is fake posting here. i love this community so much because it’s the only place on the entire internet that genuinely protects women’s interests, full stop. I have been on the internet for 20 years and literally this is the only community I’ve found that doesn’t tiptoe aroun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 18 | S*xual assault, Patriarchal Religion, and the LawThe rhetoric around Mary clearly elevates her solely via her being a mother/her being completely obedient. We have no idea what her personality was like, because her personhood is irrelevant. If a woman is merely an object to be filled with whatever a man wants to put inside her, her personhood doesn’t matter. Catholics don’t “value” women. They value what women have historically been forced to do for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 03:32 AM |
| 23 | S*xual assault, Patriarchal Religion, and the LawI’m so sorry. I hope that you find peace and I truly believe that women are far better off without Catholicism (and all organized religions for that matter, the vast majority of which are patriarchal). I pray a lot and I do believe in a higher power but I am not a Catholic in the way my family is. I avoid church. I also find it reprehensible how many children were abused at the hands of priests. The vast cover-ups, the disgusting level of wealth despite the teaching of poverty, the homophobia, t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:54 PM |
| 11 | Ghosting is okayThis is such a good point. I’ve been conditioned to feel guilt when I ghost someone at any stage in our interaction. Whether it’s after a few dates or after a few messages, I feel a pang of guilt. When I was younger I’d type up nice messages explaining I wasn’t interested. They would always lash out like children. One man said “Okay you’re ending things with me. So you’re just going to go back to sleeping with strangers.” I was like… YEP! Blocked. My post is for the women who like me were raised… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:00 AM |
| 2 | For the boys? | Khadija MboweHave you seen her Instagram face video?! She made so many good points about patriarchy and plastic surgery! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | For the boys? | Khadija MboweI wanted to post this because I respect this community I view you all as sisters. I copypasted “Never mind, if it’s too much trouble for you to plan an appropriate date maybe we’re not a good match” [from the handbook] in my iphone notes, because I’m always too shocked to think of my own retort when asked on a walking/coffee/fuck “date”. This is one of my favorite social educators and she has this patriarchy video. I know it’s super long but worth the watch. I’m torn because I can’t decide if sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:36 PM |
| 9 | Inspired by u/letsberealforamoment, I set my preference to “casual” and matched with men who had “relationship” preferences. I’m in a city (which is why I’m still on OLD just to be safe) & the men with “relationship” preferences don’t seem to know how relationship is different from casual.It was a couple other ladies’ idea! I thought it was really smart of them to check if the people in the area looking for a “relationship” were being sneaky or truthful! FYI none of them said “hey thanks, I’m looking for something serious” and wished me well! All of them dropped the “relationship” act immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:18 PM |
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