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Field Reportdontgetusetoit/r/askMRP24/03/24 07:29 PM
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Basic Questiondontgetusetoit/r/askMRP04/08/24 06:14 PM
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Exactly, I want my OYS to track improvement I want to see in me. Like lifting, going hiking, fun with family and friends. But I am facing so many shit tests that I am doubtful about everything I am doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 06:30 PM
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That’s the whole struggle, I don’t want to be all this.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 06:26 PM
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OYS 11 (September 17, 2024) - Age: 45 years - Height: 5’10” - Weight: 175 lbs - Married: 16 years (arranged marriage) - Wife’s Age: 41 years - Children: 2 daughters (8 and 11) Current Reading Frame by Rian Stone The Way of the Superior Man (Audio) Previously read: No More Mr. Nice Guy (NMMNG), When I Say No I Feel Guilty (WISNIFG) Problem My wife expects a controlled husband. I should: - Only do things for the family - Pay all the bills - Dress according to her preferences - Behave well at all t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 04:18 PM
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Thanks, I will try to better write my next OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/24 07:58 PM
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I have several audiobooks on rotation, and this is probably the second or third time I’ve restarted Rian Stone’s book. I’ve also read the first two books, which I now listen to occasionally on audio. You’re right, though—I struggle with handling shit tests. My wife often complains that I don’t do enough for her and that she deserves better, but from my perspective, I feel like I’m doing everything I can, so her complaints don’t seem fair to me. Most of the time, I stay quiet and don’t respond, b…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/24 07:28 PM
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As an excuse and don’t want my kids to be growing under her as they will end up like her, also want to fix this relationship too as awalt, mine is scaled up. After reading so much here I always think this should work.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/24 11:51 AM
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OYS 11 - September 11, 2024 ,45 yrs., 5’10”, 175LBS, Wife 41 yrs., Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (8,11). Reading: Frame by Rian Stone. I am sure all these books does not have a formula for my success or I am not made for greatness. Purpose: want to be happy all the time. Last few weeks: I don’t have much content every week. Mid August whole family got Covid and this time with lots of symptoms. Still recovering from Covid. I am lifting at least 3 times a week and LISS Cardio on other days. I have…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/24 01:12 AM
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If you get irritated by every rub, how are you going to get polished.
/r/askMRP30/08/24 07:01 PM
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you nailed it, this is my exactly my life and I spend lots of energy and time in thinking about it. Thanks for the hint on the actionable in control items. I will be working on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/24 12:25 AM
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OYS 11 - August 7 2024 ,45 yrs., 5’10”, 176 LBS, Wife 41 yrs., Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (8,11). Reading: Last couple of weeks read lots of OYS and MRP threads. I think I read a lot and implement very little. Purpose: Want to be happy and want to do what I want w/o getting interrupted. For example want to buy a motorcycle but it becomes a constant argument. Last week: I was able to meet my gym schedule. I Also added squats back in, though there is discomfort in the left knee, I am starting w…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/24 11:46 PM
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When we started I stopped sharing my bank accounts details etc, as she was too nosy asking about money and where I am spending. When she started working after few years, she also opened separate account. It did not matter 10 years back as expenses were very less. Now with 2 kids and lots of more things and I have realized that I just work, pay bills and never happy with money in my account.
/r/askMRP05/08/24 06:49 PM
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I have read this sentence 100 times now. Lost.
/r/askMRP04/08/24 09:35 PM
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Totally agree with NO. I have read NMMNG, WISNIFG. Lifts are not that great. going regular to gym 3 times a week. BP - 125 DL - 185 OHP - 75 Rows - 95 Squats - 145
/r/askMRP04/08/24 08:43 PM
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Wish it was that simple.
/r/askMRP04/08/24 08:19 PM
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Exactly, last time I bought a furniture of 12k, she was suppose to pay for it, she paid 6k and I am stuck with the rest. Now car is of her choice and as usual she wants me to take the loan, and she will pay me here and there when she pleases to, and I will always be stressed about as if I ask for money she will start the fight. Reasoning, all husbands buy cars for their wives.
/r/askMRP04/08/24 08:18 PM
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Considering my understanding I suppose Idiot was apt. I did not understand it, what are you asking me to do here. Talk to her and game her whenever she is emotional?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/24 04:55 PM
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I am at the STFU and Lift part. sTFU works well for me. LIFT am trying to best to increase my lift numbers. Taking break from reading as I am confused a lot and want to start fresh after couple of months.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/24 12:13 PM
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This should not happen again, if it does I will be ignoring it as don’t want to react to unnecessary noise. Will you AM and AA.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/24 12:11 PM
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I get the point, usually I am a fun person and handle this things well. For this particular nag on my character, It’s been many years I have been noticing this. For example why don’t you share your location as who knows where you go. Why this car seat is different today, who sat on it. Don’t do meetings with female employees in closed meeting rooms. I purposefully raised my voice, stopped sharing all locations and made an issue and called this a character assassination.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 04:15 PM
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OYS 10 July 23 2024 ,45 yrs., 5’10”, 176 LBS, Wife 41 yrs., Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (8,11). Reading: want to take a break from the Books, I think I am all over it and getting too much confused, want to clear my head. Will be reading some random self help books like Atomic Habits, Outliers etc. Purpose: Become a confident high value man. Last week: Exercise is on track, I went to gym for three times and did some light running 2 times. Not able to increase weight on the bar, left knee and sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 01:57 AM
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OYS 9 July 17, 2024 ,45 yrs., 5’10”, 175 LBS, Wife 41 yrs., Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (8,11). Reading: Listening to random chapters of NMMNG; I always learn something new. Following posts here and on AskMRP. Purpose: I’m very confused about what I want to do with my life. I aim to have a peaceful, no-nonsense life. Right now, I want to focus on my new job and getting my body in shape. Past 3 Months: I was job hunting, and the IT market is tough. Finally, I landed a new job at a good company.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/24 12:17 AM
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Coz sometimes I looking for answers myself.
/r/askMRP20/06/24 07:26 PM
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Why you never have a straight answer.
/r/askMRP20/06/24 06:27 PM
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Hard NO, BPD is a real thing, people will say AWALT but BPD is out of the league. Do you think you walk on eggshells. Do you think you want to give up arguing. Do you think you change your plans. Do you think you have to hide some things. Single yes to above is a No for your question.
/r/askMRP20/06/24 05:38 PM
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OYS 8 Mar 27, 2024 44 yrs., 5’10”, 174 LBS, Wife 41 yrs., Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (7,10). Reading: Started again with NMMNG. 100% I have the nice guy syndrome. I am sure I lost my job as I was being nice to my subordinates and it reflected in my work to my seniors, that I am taking it easy. Had a session with one of my friends and he bluntly told me that “I am not ready for a manager’s job”. Purpose: I want to be the captain on my ship, want to be the decision maker and independent thinker…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 03:14 PM
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Thanks for the suggestion. Yes I run from confrontations. They never end well, I have seen so many situations, which are so bad after confrontation”
/r/askMRP27/03/24 02:35 PM
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That is the whole struggle how to get over it
/r/askMRP27/03/24 02:32 PM
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“Interview prep and working on myself”. Does she have a reason to be angry by this respond? Is shit not getting done because your working on yourself? If you have things handled then who cares if she mad. “ answer she was expecting was let’s go out and have breakfast do some grocery shopping and come back” , “ my weekends are full of these kind of activities, eating out socializing with useless people, whole day Saturday I was out of the house, that’s why I did not want to do that on Sunday.” Ca…
/r/askMRP27/03/24 02:25 PM
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Thanks, this is what I think I am doing now a days. But I always get into situations which I don’t like.
/r/askMRP27/03/24 02:13 PM
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Thanks- thats is what my intent is, ignore the shit tests, but no matter how hard I try I get pulled into them. This post was to maybe find out why it happened. Because in reality I get stressed in these situations. And now a days I spend lots of time just thinking / reading how can I do better to not get shit tested. I have started NMMNG again and plan to follow it diligently.
/r/askMRP27/03/24 02:11 PM
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Yes you can say that, problem is I am ignoring many things I don’t like just to stay away from confrontations. Cooking - I cannot stay hungry and see my kids hungry. So I cooked that day. Usually my wife cooks and I help her with it. Yes started NMMNG again yesterday.
/r/askMRP27/03/24 02:06 PM
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Post was exactly as you are saying, to find a Jedi mind trick. I am seeing many changes in last couple of years. There was a time when every fight ended in “me breaking something in the house or leaving or getting drunk.” I don’t even get angry nowadays. Fights are definitely less now. Problem is everything is fine for few days and something happens all of a sudden. I wanted to know what could I have done to avoid shit tests . And also I don’t have a circle of friends where I can tell what happe…
/r/askMRP27/03/24 02:03 PM
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Indian Native Hindi
/r/askMRP25/03/24 08:54 PM
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No I am not asking permission to apologize, nor I am going to. I was just asking how to find out why it happened. I know the perfect script going forward, means what going to happen here. All I am not realizing why it happened.
/r/askMRP24/03/24 09:59 PM
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Not trying to argue here, but I have been reading side bar for more than a year now. In fact I am involved 24/7 how to do this correct. Reading books, analyzing myself, going to gym, having life outside of the house. Events like these happen again and again and I go back to square back asking for help here.
/r/askMRP24/03/24 09:54 PM
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Very confusing answer, if everything is wrong should I just walk away or let it happen?
/r/askMRP24/03/24 09:45 PM
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That’s it “why she thinks this way? “ About 🤔 breakfast lunch , I have kids I have to feed them, cannot wait for her to be happy and do it for us.
/r/askMRP24/03/24 09:43 PM
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Agreed, just wanted to brainstorm what is wrong here from my side, why I am being shown attitude by her.
/r/askMRP24/03/24 07:57 PM
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OYS 7 Mar 12, 2024 44 yrs., 5’10”, 174 LBS, Wife 41 yrs., Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (7,10). Reading: I've begun listening to "The Way of the Superior Man" (TWOTSM). It's shedding light on the mistakes I've made throughout my life. I'll need to revisit it a few times to fully absorb its insights. Purpose: My primary goal is to become the best version of myself. Currently, I'm focused on securing a job and continuing my journey of self-improvement. Last week, I practiced Autistically STFU . By…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 09:53 PM
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Thanks for pointing in out. “My primary objective is to become a best version of myself”.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/24 02:02 AM
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I have heard this comment before “ that I am only nice for one thing or I only want one thing from her”. From the link I am surely following STFU, and going to be more mindful of it. I want to learn when or how to tell her to stop talking w/o turning it into to fight.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 11:22 PM
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Exactly want to be better game and initiations and passing shit tests. I am 24/7 thinking about it. Something is missing.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 06:27 PM
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Not like grabbing ass but lots of compliments on looks and body, hugs and some more casual touches and looks. Opened mouth in reply to a bad comment and regretted instantly as it blew up. Yes lifting more is the plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 06:25 PM
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OYS 6 Mar 5, 2024 44 yrs., 5’10”, 172 LBS, Wife 41 yrs., Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (7,10). Reading: Currently engrossed in Rian Stone's "Frame." The content is dense, requiring thorough digestion. Key takeaway from this week: "If it is going to be your fault whether you do it or not, then go ahead and do it." Initially intended to hit the gym but was asked to take her to the store or spend time with her. I declined, went to the gym, faced complaints upon return, ignored them, and resumed bus…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 05:43 PM
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the success rate is low, leading to stress after rejections. I’m hesitant to initiate further, especially as my wife never initiates and turn me down all the time. Last time it took me 3 days. repeat after me: "i will not be stressed over a postwall middle aged pussy" Yes and Sometimes I slip something out of my mouth post rejection or during normal convos and things stretch out and though the stress. I want to take a break like 6 months as mentions in NMMNG. and then i will have great sex again…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/24 03:19 PM
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Thanks will do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/24 02:11 PM
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The plan is simple: be available and get out of my present comfort zone. It's on me that I give priorities to my house events, and that cuts me out of time with friends. I have to spend time and energy on people.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 03:50 PM
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OYS 5 Feb 27, 2024 44 yrs, 5’10”, 172 LBS, Wife 41 yrs, Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (7,10). Reading: Currently, I’m immersed in Rian Stone’s “Frame,” taking a break from the first two main books and looking forward to starting them fresh. Purpose: My goal is to earn respect both at home and in the outside world. This forum has been a valuable resource, but I aim to continue learning, especially after losing my job, I got laid off last week. In the coming weeks/months, securing a better job is …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 05:08 AM
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Keep posting updates, I am in the same boat, I have a constant pain running from lower back into leg. I have tried PT, Chiro, Ortho, Sport Medicine with no luck. I am doing everything in gym my pain levels are may be 4/10 to 6/10.
/r/askMRP05/02/24 05:51 PM
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Free your time and make friends. Try getting out for few hours few times a week. You can join a gym, sports league, drink buddies etc. Waste some time having fun and your mind will be clear and you will have new problems to solve.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 04:50 PM
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💯 personalities does not match. It is like good days and bad days and bad days are more in number.
/r/askMRP26/01/24 02:37 AM
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This ⬆️ and keep saying IDGAF in your mind until you mean it.
/r/askMRP16/01/24 08:47 PM
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Do Cardio effect muscle building negatively? I am talking about running/ pickle ball/ RB/ Volleyball etc. on non workout rest days?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 08:17 PM
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Repeat IDGAF , until you internalize it.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 03:21 AM
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You need to ask properly and exactly what you need. There is no cheat code or short cut it is all very difficult and needs work from you to put in.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 12:45 AM
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Thanks for the time and comment. Yes I started with a lawyer, according to him I am not ready yet. I am in a 50/50 state and legally it will be easy. But mentally it will be a nightmare for everyone. I am working on STFU, getting more ready physically and emotionally for my kids. Engaging as less as I can but again that’s a problem. I want my little one to grow a little more to be more understanding. Can you explain more in act like a man and get emotions in check?
/r/askMRP08/12/23 12:55 AM
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Thanks, that’s the plan.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 05:25 AM
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Amen brother. I will go back to India.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 05:23 AM
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OYS 4 Nov 29, 2023, 44 yrs, 5’10”, 172 LBS, Wife 41 yrs, Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (7,10). Last few weeks were very stressful, my wife got shingles. Day3 she accused me of me being the reason for her Sickness because I give her stress. Now there is non stop stress and fight at home till today, accused that I am not good at doing anything or taking care of her and even other basic things. Reading I still read a lot of MRP content and do posts on askMRP. Looks like I am a big fail and I did no…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/23 03:23 AM
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What is the meaning of this?
/r/askMRP30/11/23 03:14 AM
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Not actively going through divorce but yes it will be done. Yes I was a circus clown and failed at that too. Yes I did put all my life on altar on my wife’s pussy. Compromised so much, failed my parents brother everyone.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 03:13 AM
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lol no.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 03:10 AM
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This is where I am confused how I am not leading the marriage, I used to plan everything she never liked it. She never liked my friends or my activities. Eventually, she did not get along with any of my friends or their families and then she got new friends. She started arranging dates with them. I started going to new friends and now she started complaining that I am not doing anything activity planning wise. Problem is no matter what I do how I do for her it’s not enough.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 12:14 AM
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Hi guys just to add more from my side previously I used to get blamed always that I am not doing anything( but I use to do a lot). I came to MRP. And I started doing everything (house work), now I am told I’m not doing anything for her. Whatever I do, It is for the house and kids any man will do. So now the new question is what I do specifically for her, when do I make her feel special? When do I cook specifically for her? When do I take her to date nights etc. but with this pissy attitude I don…
/r/askMRP30/11/23 12:09 AM
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Thanks I have read it once will do another reading.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 12:04 AM
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That is what I am trying to figure out how to unfuck myself. I am doing MRP since last September.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 12:03 AM
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Thanks for the comment. What I meant was that “I am not wrong for sure” Yes looks like English is also a problem with me, I have read and listened to NMMNG many times but still have not figured out the mantra. I am STFU for sure now.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 12:01 AM
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Can you please explain a little more, “acting impulsively on emotions”
/r/askMRP29/11/23 11:58 PM
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She does not need any convincing she is dead sure about her grievances 😊.
/r/askMRP29/11/23 07:24 PM
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I think I am not wrong in here. Not DEERING, but I ignored so many red flags since 15 years. I am putting in lots of time and work in this, but it is not working out. I think I am a weak man who is always scared of consequences.
/r/askMRP29/11/23 06:08 PM
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Thanks for the reply, exactly why this question was. When a stranger is thinking that I am abandoning my kids, surely my kids will feel the same. Sidebar. Reading books, stfu is I am following, no DEER, listening to my wife verbal abuses like a champ. Sometime I speak up. Doing everything at home as that may be the future. Going to gym whenever I can, it is not easy as I got for one hour and I get accused of enjoying life. Lawyer will find someone soon, I don’t belong to this country so it is a …
/r/askMRP29/11/23 06:05 PM
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Narcissistic behavior. Too much self importance and considering everyone beneath you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/23 05:09 PM
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Not divorced here, but I want to. I will make sure that my woman doesn’t have NPD and does not lie.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/23 05:02 PM
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How to be not boring when there is a job and life which required so much and the ask is keep doing something special like a Romeo for wife?
/r/askMRP26/11/23 07:20 PM
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Fix the man. What happens when the man is continuously accused of being boring and not doing anything for wife( no dates, no dinners, no weekend trips etc.) But in reality man doesn’t want to do all these or reward her for bad behavior which is a constant thing and also usually butt hurt most of the time.
/r/askMRP26/11/23 07:17 PM
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Lift stfu sidebar. Either is process is long or I am dumb.
/r/askMRP20/11/23 08:01 PM
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Thanks, this is what I was asking how to stop this, I am kind of stuck in this loop and not able to come out of it.
/r/askMRP20/11/23 01:41 PM
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It were very stressful last 30 hours, one of my friend called us and kind of resolved it for the time being. I know it is not recommended here, but 99% going for counseling. But goal is clear, preparing for exit. It would not be easy with a narc, will be messy .
/r/askMRP19/11/23 10:42 PM
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I have read and spent countless hours on reading about NPD. Then also spent court hours on MRP in learning AWALT. My kids are 7 and 11, elder one growing too fast because of all this drama. My kids starts crying like anything and it breaks my heart.
/r/askMRP19/11/23 03:39 AM
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Thanks for exactly nailing it down. Super manipulative behavior. I always end up getting her what she wants, reason I want to get out of the situation asap. She exactly knows what buttons to press, my mother my brother my father she even abuses my cousins. Problem is I am from India, came here in my 30s, so all my friends are back in India. No family or friends here, cannot talk these issues with people around me, according to Facebook we are super successful power couple, Marriage was arranged …
/r/askMRP19/11/23 03:22 AM
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I think about this 24/7. I don’t know why I want to be with her. I think I am scared of divorce and loosing all hard work which I did in last 15 years. After every fight I become more adjusting and try to be normal. Then yes social pressure too, indian usually are not that strong in taking decisions.
/r/askMRP19/11/23 03:10 AM
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I would love to do what you are saying. I have two little daughters, when she could not get to me it is their turn. I have done this in the past results were more chaotic. Also to me she seems healthy so I took my daughter to class, but when came back she is behaving like she was about to die the moment I stepped out and I don’t care for her now and forever.
/r/askMRP19/11/23 12:45 AM
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Totally agree. I do things because I know she will not take kids to any class, tried it before it was always late and too many complaints. End of the day I want to take my kids to all places on time and it also gives me opportunity to get out. Though I am always accused that I do this fun work and I am always enjoying. Validation may be, but more so someone to talk to. Now thanks to this forum my reaction to disrespect is near to zero. I would have broke something in the house in the past. The p…
/r/askMRP19/11/23 12:38 AM
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Your wife is treating you that way either because she views you as low value (and you need to work on that) or she has an overly inflated view of herself (which you need to challenge). —— She is a narcissist 💯 and have an inflated view of herself, in fact her whole family. ——- What does she contribute to the family? Did she grow up as a spoilt rich kid and get married young and now expects you to be mommy and daddy for her because she knows no different? Is she whining because she sees you as a …
/r/askMRP18/11/23 08:36 PM
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Yes I am on this sub for a long time now. I am lifting (bench 110, squat 140, deadlift 160). I am doing recommended reading and other posts on MRP. Problem is all these fogging, AM etc stops working after a while. I am expected to behave as a Romeo 24/7 and keep providing without complaining, which is not sustainable. And I too if that I should not be butt hurt not matter what. And yes mission is simple to live peaceful.
/r/askMRP18/11/23 04:04 PM
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What is the meaning of “Watch what she does instead”?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/23 08:45 AM
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Thanks, I guess success is Starfish. Yes I am working on diet to increase protein. And rereading first 2 books.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/23 04:06 AM
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OYS 3 Nov 7, 2023, 44 yrs, 5’10”, 175 LBS, Wife 41 yrs, Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (7,10). Last two weeks, did one meal a day for 10 days with just carbs, my weight dropped to 169 lbs + my body got into a good shape, now trying to clean bulk and eat a lot, weight is back to 175. Reading I still read a lot of MRP content and posts on askMRP. Switching back and forth between NMMNG and WISNIFG, learning something new everytime. Fogging and AM techniques are working but have a long way ahead. Als…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/23 07:54 PM
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Is there any other post by you which I missed?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/23 07:43 PM
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In as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 10:55 PM
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thanks I am trying to sort out injuries, doctors in USA are very dumb in treating minor nicks and pains. I have wasted lots of time and money with them. For cardio it is reduced as I want to work on lifting gains .I was a runner all my life, I do put in an occasional Zone 2 run here and there or play some sport whenever get a chance. Yes I do work in IT, working remote since Covid and I am not liking the remote arrangement, looking for a right opportunity to get out. Yes I am reading WISNIFG and…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 06:24 PM
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I think it is the Narcissistic personality she has, which she got from her side of family. I agree on Sex, it can be improved I am always ready, but why demeaning and why one would like to do it with wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 06:22 PM
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OYS 2 October 3rd 2023, 44 yrs, 5’10”, 175 LBS, Wife 41 yrs, Married 15 years. 2 Daughters (7,10). Reading I read a lot of MRP content and posts on askMRP. Recently read a book named 5 AM club, to summarize this guy tells you to wake up at 5 am. For now getting a good night sleep is my goal at the moment, will be scheduling for sleep study in coming few days,As I am tired/lazy most of the day and my mind is always full of never ending thoughts. (Testosterone is 624 and Testosterone Free is 84) g…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 04:10 AM
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Thanks trying to find a mission. Social Media I spent good amount of time on Reddit, have to curb it down.
/r/askMRP02/10/23 04:18 PM
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Got my T checked and many other hormones. T is good according to doctor. Testosterone = 624 Testosterone Free = 84 No porn or masturbation. Sleep may be an issue, I am going for a sleep study. But yes I agree discipline is what I need the most. And looking forward to improve my diet bumping protein.
/r/askMRP02/10/23 04:12 PM
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Thanks for the insight full comment, I do think a lot and actually confused with a purpose in life. I guess except raising kids I have no purpose. Thanks for the Jordan Peterson and Diary of a CEO podcast reference.
/r/askMRP02/10/23 04:07 PM
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Thanks. Totally agree i need to be in discipline.
/r/askMRP02/10/23 04:07 PM
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I think I am already alienated from my friends and family, living in America from India. By legally do you mean a divorce lawyer? I am thinking about taking to one too. Also I don’t have any great assets except kids, which I am worried about loosing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 11:01 PM
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I agree with you, will take some time to absorb this and think about it. Also you are right to the point she gets mad, throws a fit, call me and my family names, do storm off But never gets wet while doing so.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 10:40 PM
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My wife said it couple of days back, it was not a serious comment but came from her mouth and pierced me.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 10:37 PM
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You are right and Thanks for the article on mental point of origin, it is so true. That’s what I want to do but it will be a revolt / coup, am I scared NO, but I don’t like stress and fights and sad kids, may be I am a peacekeeper. Don’t know how to tread here, will keep reading more. I just bought the Athol Kay book MMSLP thanks. Also I don’t ask, “like ask to have sex” , I do Initiate always, and also get different levels of denials, Sometime soft which I usually overcome, sometime hard and br…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 09:06 PM
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I want to get out of house as much as I want but that again becomes a problem, me being accused I am selfish living for myself etc. So trying to find a hobby that brings a balance. Been a week since I last got laid, obviously I want more of it but I don’t want to beg. Usually I initiate and get success couple of times a week. Last week I was turned down 2/3 times, in fact was told this may count as marital rape, I am thinking of moratorium as suggested in NMMNG, my wife thinks she is a big prize…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 08:03 PM
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Is it that bad, I can rewrite it. I am from India.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 11:30 AM
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OYS 1 September 19th 2023 44 yrs, 5’10”, 175 lbs, Wife 41 yrs married 15 years. 2 Daughters (7,10). Reading I read a lot of MRP content and suggested books. I think the problem is either my lack of understanding Or no discipline. I do plan / think / read a lot but very less action and poor results. Why I am here. I want to be respected at home and then at work. Want to do something meaningful in life, and have some worth as a man. Career I am a manager in an IT company, I work from home and feel…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/23 03:16 AM
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This link is not working.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 10:24 PM
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I have little kids, 2 girls, i love them very much. I want to keep separation as a last option or delay it as much possible. Also i am also scared of my kids hating me as i am sure they will be brainwashed against me.
/r/askMRP06/07/23 04:28 PM
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