On Sunday morning, I woke up at 9 (we’re out for a dinner till 1 am). When my wife asked about our plans for the day, I explained that I needed to focus on preparing for interviews and working on myself. I think she kind of did not like this response.

I made breakfast, called her many time to eat, she came downstairs reluctantly, complaining about why being bothered and questioning why we always have eggs. I suggested that breakfast in must be appreciated.

Later, she called me upstairs to finalize the guest list for my birthday, ask me to pass a pen and paper like a boss (which are just 4 ft away) but disregarded my input, want to invite only the people she wanted.

When I questioned this,, She- “why you want to call people who never call us. I cannot have 50 people in my house etc.”

I said ok call people you want to”

I am accused of disrespecting her and prioritizing others over family.

Since then, she has been lying in bed.

I took the kids to an Easter Egg Hunt and prepared lunch upon returning, but my wife refused to eat what I made. Despite keeping a positive demeanor, the atmosphere at home is tense and stressful, especially for the kids.

This will end in two ways 1. I ask sorry and listen to her crap and then prove she is always right and thinks so much for the family. 2. Keep it going , there will be a fight down the line and few tense days. She won’t give up for sure.

Just want to brainstorm what the fuck wrong I did ?