| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3217 | And that’s okay! A queen doesn’t need a man 👑 | REMINDER 👑 | doorknocking101 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 01:21 AM |
| 1162 | Red Flag = Block and Delete | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | doorknocking101 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 362 | Male entitlement | MALE DEPRAVITY | doorknocking101 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:20 AM |
| 150 | Young girls are brainwashed into thinking age gap relationships are “hot” | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | doorknocking101 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:40 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 21 | Stats on how FDS is spreading compared to male tactics. They’ve been strategizing for 15 years, it’s our turn. 💪I was so hyped to see that!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:01 PM |
| 12 | The "male suicide is misogynistic" troll postOh my god, right?? There’s a whole sub dedicated to hating on FDS and cherry-picking posts they can twist to fit they’re narrative that we’re “fEmAlE inCeLs”. Every time I look at it out of morbid curiosity, I’m horrified by how frequent they post. There’s even a few users that comment on every single post there and I just can’t imagine how sad their life is that they’re able to devote that much time to such a futile activity... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:53 AM |
| 6 | How to use crushes to our advantageThis is an amazing post! And so perfectly timed for me currently. I have a new crush, who I suspect may also have feelings for me, but it’s unlike all of my previous ones, largely thanks to FDS. I have done next to no fantasizing about him and I actively prevent myself from idealizing or imaging a relationship with him when that doesn’t yet exist. This helps SO much because it allows me to just enjoy the time I spend with him and not feel as though I need to use that time to push the friendship … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:32 PM |
| 26 | My amazing great-aunt (and how she helped me level-up)She sounds like an absolutely brilliant individual and a wonderful woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:13 PM |
| 11 | No, you shouldn't do whatever you wantThis ALL the way. In the current day, there is next to no valid equivalent for male celebrities when it comes to the way that young female celebrities are overtly sexualized. If a man were to pose in constricting lingerie on the cover of such a mainstream magazine, it would be wildly controversial and considered unnecessary. Yet, when a woman does it, it’s supposedly “empowering” or “reinventing herself”??? Both are unsavoury, in my opinion, but it goes to show that very few people gain anything… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:44 PM |
| 283 | No, you shouldn't do whatever you wantIt’s not really touching on your super valid discussion on what she said about plastic surgery but I will say I was a bit sad to see the photoshoot. Although Billie definitely emphasized her autonomy in doing the shoot, I can’t help but think that it may have been, in part, a response to the harsh criticism she faced regarding her body in those paparazzi photos that were spread a little while ago. Almost to prove that she’s got a “good” body, even though her body in those previous photos looked … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:59 AM |
| 130 | Ads on Reddit targeting poor women and girls for prostitution. Absolutely disgusting.Exactly, women should not think that selling their bodies is the best or only way for them to afford a healthy diet. So sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:23 PM |
| 47 | Women are the Most Sexual CreaturesOur sexual organs are literally designed for pleasure. I’ve always thought that women were more naturally sexual beings but that’s always been either repressed or misinterpreted (think the way we are urged to have lots of unsatisfactory, casual sex with multiple men rather than fulfilling and sensual sex with one partner). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:10 PM |
| 6 | This chick’s entire post history is a giant neon warning about the consequences of pickme actionsThe fact that she’s still questioning whether she should cut him off is appalling! She should have cut him off when he asked her to drive 30 minutes alone to his house after dark. This is ridiculous and dangerous behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:07 AM |
| 60 | Have you seen the male-targeted ads on this subreddit?I’ve been seeing at least one OnlyFans ad every single time I open this sub. It’s so disturbing, especially since I know friends under 18 who also browse this sub and that’s the last thing I’d want them to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 03:17 AM |
| 173 | High Value Dates OnlyI’m 18 and this is the first time I’ve ever really thought about how dangerous getting into a man’s car can be during a date. Thank you for sharing, I’m sure there’s so many girls my age who can learn from this and start protecting themselves better. Love and thanks to you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 03:15 AM |
| 100 | Honestly I have been very bad about boundaries but you all inspired me to stand up for myself.Perfect time to hit him with the ol’ block and delete. Don’t give him the satisfaction of continuing contact. You’ve got this, girl, we believe in you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 02:08 AM |
| 83 | Keep putting yourself first, queens!The first person all of us wake up to every single morning is ourselves and I’m so tired of women constantly putting up with someone else’s bullshit and not prioritizing our own peace and wellbeing!! Respect yourself as much as you would respect someone you love dearly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:07 AM |
| 13 | How would anyone consider these red flags?OMG! You articulated the former rider experience so perfectly! Love love love that there are other equestrians on FDS. So many valuable lessons can be learned from working with horses and a lot of them echo beautifully in FDS values. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:14 PM |
| 87 | Hard factsOne of the first characters that came to mind! I’m not sure if it was written by a woman but Sharpay from High School Musical was also created to be the annoying, catty villain to make Gabriella, one of the boring MCs, seem so much better. Used to hate Sharpay as a kid but now I adore her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:53 PM |
| 50 | How would anyone consider these red flags?This is such a bizarre fucking list. And as a former horse girl, the amount of boys and men who have ridiculed me for it is astonishing. For the most part, however, it seems to stem from their fear of horses, just as I think a lot of these “red-flags” come from a fear of women being powerful or self-possessed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:13 PM |
| 165 | Hard factsYes, absolutely! Or by pickme women who try to create unlikeable female side characters for the sole purpose of making the bland, self-insert main female character look “better” in comparison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:08 PM |
| 82 | I'm so happy I'm single since this is the trash that's out there. Men know they're trash and are seemingly proud of it.What the hell is up with that smug expression... Do they actually think it’s cute or funny to brag about this stuff??🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 06:03 AM |
| 124 | Gaslighters typically begins gradually, with a snide comment or critical remark disguised as a joke. They may then deny having said or done something, tell blatant lies and eventually wear down your sanity. The more aware you are of their techniques, the better you can protect yourself.“I didn’t know you would make such a big deal out of it.” ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:50 PM |
| 145 | This image circulating Reddit made me peak and go full FDS.This would absolutely terrify me if one of my professors did this. Office hours are intimidating as is and I don’t think I could ever work up the courage to go to a male professor’s office hours if I knew that they purposefully searched porn that objectifies and sexualizes my exact demographic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 11:12 PM |
| 139 | And that’s okay! A queen doesn’t need a man 👑Exactly! And leaving LVM to fend for themselves is the exact mentality that women have got to embrace to live their happiest, healthiest lives. No more sympathy for scrotes 🙅🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:07 AM |
| 30 | Your Masturbation Fantasies Cannot Be Self-Degrading, Abusive or Rapey Because You Are Conditioning Yourself for Getting Off Of Abuse, You Are Teaching Yourself That You Deserve to Be AbusedWhen I was first learning about sex and seeing my friends begin engaging at it at around 13/14/15, I’m incredibly ashamed to admit it was something I thought about. I’m positive that it came from a place of deep-rooted insecurity and since I had not yet experienced sexual intimacy (or trauma), my brain somehow convinced me that it was the only way I would ever engage in it. With what I’ve been through now, I’m disgusted that when I was basically still a child, male validation meant so much to me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:47 AM |
| 198 | My wish for y’allMy mom and I joke about this all the time. Also: “may you age with all the grace an old white man thinks he aged with.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:10 PM |
| 10 | Male entitlementThank you for your words of wisdom! I’m also extremely glad that I somehow managed to stumble into this community after desperately google searching why any male friends I seemed to make at my university almost always started to make moves on me. Luckily my classes were online this year so I decided to go home and work on myself and my studies and give myself one more year before I start experiencing the full “college experience” - including exactly what you talked about. FDS has honestly made m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 21 | Male entitlementIt’s mostly out of morbid curiosity but I almost always regret it as soon as I click in. You’re totally right that it’s not adding anything but negativity, however. It’s a compulsion I’ll definitely start working on so thank you for the advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:19 PM |
| 129 | Male entitlementYes!! This is absolutely my plan. I had just started dating when I got into FDS. I immediately swore it off in favour of actually enriching my life and spending my youth on the best person I know: myself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:36 AM |
| 16 | Don't give him a chance, you can not force chemistry! You will get the ick.UGH!! I’m so sorry, girl! Your gut was absolutely telling you the right thing and it sucks that you were pressured into hanging around a guy gross enough to give you herpes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:01 AM |
| 81 | Don't give him a chance, you can not force chemistry! You will get the ick.The quote is: “Why is every pretty girl with a horrible looking man? I don’t understand. Look, I’m not shaming people for their looks, but I am though. You give an ugly guy a chance, he thinks he rules the world. I swear to God, because they got a hot girl, they can be horrible? Like, you’re still ugly though. Can’t change that. Maybe that’s why. Maybe that’s why guys with small dicks get like huge mansions. To make up for it, you know.” It’s just one part of a longer interview. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:59 AM |
| 86 | Don't give him a chance, you can not force chemistry! You will get the ick.I know the quote you’re talking about! Billie’s been so attacked online for saying it but it’s straight up facts. Never lower your standards out of sympathy because men don’t give a single shit and will still hurt and abuse you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 10:09 PM |
| 80 | Don't give him a chance, you can not force chemistry! You will get the ick.The ick is sooo real. I went on a date with a guy after meeting him through OLD and having some good conversations with him via text and video call. Halfway through the night, the ick came in SO strong and it was nauseating. Any chemistry just disappeared, if there even was any to begin with. I let him know afterwards that I didn’t see it going anywhere and made it very clear I would not be contacting him any more. He still managed to get ahold of me one way or another every couple months since … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 9 | Things that make you go Hmmm...I was initially going to say that it’s because they dehumanize us so much. Really, I think they get so much pleasure out of hurting us because they know we feel it just as much as they would and they just don’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 05:38 PM |
| 25 | Things that make you go Hmmm...Two years later, her little sister still cannot have any form of social media because she constantly gets sent the photos of her murdered sister. These vile creatures are so sick in head and obsessed with their disgusting torture porn that they probably get off to a 16 year old girl repeatedly witnessing her sister’s death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 04:37 PM |
| 10 | We love to see it!Yup, noticed this as well. It was at least a little nice to see a subversion of the “wife who hates her husband’s assistant” trope. Really wish there would have been the same payoff as what you suggested, though... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 07:28 AM |
| 2 | This song is awesome and I thought y'all would like it too!Oh my god, I LOVE this!! Gives me so many delicious layers of musical theatre villainess (who was actually the best role model all along). Going on repeat ASAP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 07:21 AM |
| 10 | Finally this depraved bullshit is facing some backlash in young malesIt’s terrifying growing up in it, too. When we were 12/13, one of my female friends told me she was into hardcore BDSM after she was introduced to it through pornography. We’re 18 now and so much of her personality revolves around her kinks and it’s incredibly difficult to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:27 AM |
| 50 | Things that make you go Hmmm...It is. So incredibly sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 19 | The popular webtoon Lore Olympus is conditioning young women to date older men.I always wondered why I disliked this webtoon and you just perfectly articulated it! I tried to read it when I was 16, far before I found FDS and found it unsettling even back then. Hard to see so many girls fawn over it and idolize it so much. If you want a webtoon that reflects FDS principles in at least a small way, there’s one called “The Remarried Empress” that does an alright job. Not perfect but it’s refreshing among the plethora of pick-me coded webtoons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:36 AM |
| 269 | Things that make you go Hmmm...Bianca’s murder is absolutely devastating. So many disgusting scrotes constantly victim blame her too. They call her a slut for “leading on” the guy who murdered her even though they were explicitly just friends and in the same breath turn around and call us “sexist” for saying that men can never be real friends to women. If we could be friends with men then why are they murdering us for not giving sex to these so-called male “friends”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:20 AM |
| 35 | How many friends did you lose after adopting FDS principles?I’m currently in a drifting apart situation with one of my oldest and closest friends. It’s an incredibly difficult feeling to grapple with but it’s becoming increasingly harder to have meaningful conversations with her that extend beyond the men she’s seeing or interested in, or her new sex toys or her past BDSM experiences. I only recently met up with her again in-person for the first time after discovering FDS and I legitimately feel like I’m speaking to someone new. In actuality, I know it’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 3 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for womenLVM are absolutely obsessed with their false equivalencies. Another one I’ve seen a lot lately is comparing how women have to be wary of being literally raped and killed by men to why it should be okay to be a racist piece of shit to black people because “hurr hurr, crime statistics”. An absolutely garbage comparison and they always seem to think it’s a mic drop moment... In what world could PG-13 films about love be considered the same as violent, exploitative, and pedophilic pornography? A wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:48 AM |
| 16 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?Close to my age (under 21), taller than 5’8”, slim but fit, big hands. Also, I absolutely have a thing for unique and striking side profiles like with a long, sharp nose and long eyelashes. A nice smile is also a must! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:13 AM |
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